Contrary to popular belief: having some facial hair ‘is’ attractive to women.
I didn’t need a PHD in grooming to reach this conclusion; just friggin’ ask women, it is that simple!
I personally took a survey among my female-Facebook friends, where I’d asked each one of them, “Is facial hair a turn off”?
The answers surprised the shit out of me!
A whopping 80% of the females said NO! Having some scruffs and stubbles are NOT turn offs.
The remanding 20% were pretty much neutral or undecided.
Prior to my survey, I was totally against the scruffy-look while trying to attract women and get my game on.
But I have to give props to the NYC-dating coach Paul Janka, who was the first pick-up artist to advocate this look.
Prior to Paul’s emergence on the scene as a friggin’ rockstar, most dating coaches and gurus were rocking the traditional goatee or clean-shaven look.
While every pick-up artist was pushing the “must be well-groomed” slogan, Paul Janka was still getting laid in NYC [his mantra] like a wild rabbit with 10 dicks.
If I’m correct, I think RooshV (Rooshv’s Blog), the pick-up artist rocks the scruffy look also.
The human psychology behind this is pretty interesting and quite elementary:
*The rough-facial hair look appeals to womens’ sense of SEX.
Good-dominant sex is akin to rough sex oppose to love making.
When a girl spots a guy she’s sexually attracted to, she isn’t saying to herself, “I wonder what it would be like making love with this guy: preferably in a Pasteur of pink roses well perfumed”.
Lol hell no!!!
She’s saying to herself, “I wonder what it’d be like being banged hard by that fucking stud: preferably untop of the kitchen table. Or somewhere adventurous and steamy where I can smell the pheromones oozing from his sweaty body”!
Ok I exaggerated the hell out of that one. But y’all get the point.
So,what is the correlation between rough sex and a guy having rough/scruffy facial hair?
As I explained above, “the rough look appeals to a woman’s sense of sex, probably more so than a well-groomed look.
This all ties into the “Badboy” persona, which chiccs just go awol over. Think of the Fonz if he had the scruffy-facial hair look to his character. Women would absolutely go nuts over him,eventhough he was already a chick-magnet.
Now I’m not saying that every guy should kick his barber to the curb, or toss his manual razors in the dumpster and start growing some facial hair.
But a key insight for me here is, I don’t have to proverbially kill myself if I happen to miss an appointment with the local barber.
Or if my clippers go missing or some shit, I won’t have to panic as if the world’s about to end.
Nah!
I can still confidently head out to the bar to get my social on, despite looking a bit rough in the face.