Hey guys, I put together 2 videos that explore the whys, dos and donts of trying to get laid on social media.
The 4 most common status updates that turn women off:
Type of status updates that will attract women and get you laid:
Hey guys, I put together 2 videos that explore the whys, dos and donts of trying to get laid on social media.
The 4 most common status updates that turn women off:
Type of status updates that will attract women and get you laid:
[Post below: originally posted to my social media about 2 weeks back]
“Quintessential Pick-Up Of Arguably 1 Of The Hottest Girls On My Facebook”.
Okay fellow seductionists, I get a lot of guys who ask me, “Kenny, how do I DM a hot girl on social media and get her to want to meet up with me for a date or something…and get her digits”?
This post/chat will give you one of the simplest formats of mines in order to make this happen: Set up a rendezvous and number close the girl [get her phone #].
It all comes down to 3 simple things (mindset shifts): your Framing, Vibe and Exit Strategy.
You will see me do just that in the chat (execute those 3 things) in unison…congruently and flawlessly.
Firstly, when it comes to a super hot girl, you will have first needed to do some ground work in order to register on her radar.
What do I mean?
Comment on her stuff/posts!
Additional, post the type of stuff that grabs women’s attention.
Remember; the women on your Facebook read/see everything you post…even if they don’t comment.
Post lame shit; your chances are nuked!
Post provocative shit; her antennas are raised!
Once you will have done that (create a certain rapport) by commenting on her stuff and posting high-value or funny stuff that gets women engaged; you now have a solid framework from which to proceed to inbox/DM.
Remind you: you can cold inbox the girl without having done this (I do so 50% of the time). But it just makes your job a tad bit harder.
Now, with this girl right here (whom most would consider an HB10), I built that quasi-rapport with her for about 2 weeks prior to inboxing her.
Timeline: so, I added her on FB, she accepted. Instead of jumping into her inbox right away like 98% of foolish guys on social media do; I exercised patience, and used my strategy to reel her in for 2 weeks by commenting on a post or pic of hers every other day…for 2 weeks [humorous comments of course].
Additionally, I posted my usual provocative stuff, knowing that it would grab her curiosity. But what makes this waiting game of mines so potent on a psychology level, is that it throws the girl off.
Since women are used to every guy they add rushing to their inbox within 60 seconds of accepting their friend request, when you can be that 1 guy out of 4,000+ who DOESN’T follow the predictive script- who doesn’t inbox her right away- you immediately stand the fuck out!
You stand out as:
•1.) The guy who gets it (Game)
•2.) The guy who understands women
•3.) The guy who isn’t uber-desperate
Those 3 things which the girl notes and notices about you, will generate curiosity, intrigue and interest on her part for you.
That is why I (strategically) wait whenever looking to game girls who have lots of fanboys and groupies (as she does).
Waiting that 2 weeks alone had set me apart from the pack of desperate losers.
Furthermore, whenever you wait, just as I did in this case, the girl then says to herself either curiously or anxiously:
“Why isn’t this guy inboxing me? Why is he so different from the rest? What makes him different? I must not be his type! But if I’m not his type, then that must mean he dates/fucks girls way hotter than me”!
That’s what goes through the minds of hot girls, whenever days, weeks and months go by and you elect not to inbox them (yet).
Along with questioning her value and looks, she begins to see you [in this case ‘me’] as the prize!
The high-value guy!
With that, she just salivates and wishes for the moment when you finally hit her up. Hence, when I hit this sexy-ass chick up- arguably the hottest girl on my FB- I bet she was shocked, relieved, excited and interested to finally get hit up by that non-desperate, high-value guy who only comments on her stuff (in a cheeky manner)…but never inboxes.
Therefore, the stage was set and the girl was ripe for the plucking by me. So…that’s when I inboxed her for the 1st time since adding her on FB about 2 weeks ago.
Having all that value that I passively built, simply by not inboxing her right away, I didn’t have to waste much of any time doing small talk or building attraction in the typical sense.
She was already super attracted to me [my vibe] because of what I did [strategically waiting and baiting]!
Thus, the reason I went straight to the point in trying to set up a meet up…right off of the opener/1st message!
Oh- lastly- from the chat, I want you to examine my overall vibe and tone (i.e. frame): was I coming off as a low-value guy speaking to a girl who’s out of my league? Or was I operating from a frame of, “this is the program, this is how it’s gonna go, you can take it or leave it”?
Clearly my vibe was assertive, confident, assured, boss-like, business-like and decisive!
Also take notes on how I got her phone #. I didn’t beg! Didn’t ask!
I assumed the fucking sale! I gave off the vibe as though getting her # was a forgone conclusion, and that I was entitled to getting it! So there was no chance in hell that she would deny me the number!
Additionally, who ended the conversation, I or she? Of course I did!
I always do 🙂 …just as I taught you the other day (“always end the chat on the girl”)! No matter how hot the girl is, and no matter how intense the urge is to fall into “cuddle mode” by messaging back and forth with the girl all day; ALWAYS end the convo within minutes of inboxing her!
I stress that point religiously…and I live by it!
Again, watch me execute all of that with no effort whatsoever. And watch how she instinctively tries to prolong the convo, even after I indicated “farewell”.
Bear in mind: women in general, especially the hottest ones, are NOT accustomed to guys ending the chat on them!
Anyway, check how it happened: in, out, rendezvous set up and digits collected…all within minutes.
Oh- BTW- notice what I do/say when I got her number.
That is 1 of my favorite #-close gambits by the way.
What is that?
When grabbing a chick’s number, I almost always tell her that I’ll hit her up later in the week, next week or just “sometime”.
With the hotter girls; you want to do/say this.
Again, this serves to give off the impression of nonchalant, blasé, casual and non-desperate.
Most guys, if they’re even lucky to get a hot girl’s #, would call or text her almost immediately!
If you’re smart and shrewd like I am; you let her anticipate it!
By the way, do you think girls of hotter caliber give any random old wuss over social media their digits?
Of course not!
Not a chance in hell!
I can guarantee you that this girl here blocks about 100 dudes per fucking day; let alone coughs up her # and set up a so-called date as she easily did with me.
Why wasn’t I ignored, laughed at and blocked for dare thinking that I stood a chance to just cold inbox this chick (basically a stranger) in order to set up a so-called date for Saturday coming?
Game & Strategery!
Everything I said in this post is what makes the difference.
Follow my online-game format and this will become a piece of cake for you too!
By the way, this all took place on a Tuesday, and I haven’t used her number yet.
I will do sometime tomorrow (Friday) just to finalize the Saturday meetup.
Also, when setting up a rendezvous, try to always aim high first!
Example: Suggest her coming to your place [which is a tall order].
If she objects; just aim lower…as for drinks at a bar or something.
Luckily for me, this chick’s okay with coming by my spot since I’m gonna be in her part of town Saturday.
Is there a chance of flaking?
There’s always a chance of that. But I doubt it. Even if flaking does occur, this is still the most effective way to get to meet up with a super hot girl via online game (I’ve been down this avenue many many times to know that it works).
[Post originally posted to my social media about 2 weeks back]
How Not To Comment On A Girl’s Photo…Unless You Intend To Get The “You Don’t Even Exist” Treatment.
When it comes to commenting on girl’s pics, as you would’ve already known from following my stuff, the worst thing you could possibly do/say is to tell her how beautiful she is.
Whenever I comment on a girl’s pic, it is almost always a NEG or something cheeky or smart-ass!
I bust chops! Not kiss ass with some generic-ass compliment that gets guys ignored.
Once you realize that women hardly respond to niceness from men (nice compliments, etc), you’ll begin to see the light; which is that women respond to cheekiness and rudeness from men.
It grabs their attention while niceness (generic lame-ass compliments) don’t even register on women’s radars.
Once you become “that guy”, most women will respect it and act accordingly.
It’s about the attitude: the “IDGAD about being on your good side” attitude.
Most guys play the nice-guy shit with women because they’re afraid to get rejected and shut out.
Hence, they leave comments on women pics saying, “You’re so gorgeous”!
Little do they know, such comments/compliments won’t make the grade.
Therefore, in order to get a girl’s attention online, you ought NOT be afraid to give her shit! If she’s used to getting attention/compliments from tons of guys, you coming with the same-old shit as every other guy simply won’t cut it!
Case in point, this chick posted a pic earlier. As usual, I leave a snarky, smart, NEG kinda comment, knowing it would propel the girl to engage and respond.
Every other guy on the pic left the usual cheesy-ass “you’re so beautiful” comment…and they all got ignored…except me. 🙂
Game is 80% psychology. Along with that is your attitude: are you scary or ballsy?
Women aren’t attracted to men who are scary and afraid to say/do what they wanna.
When you learn to adopt that mentality with women (on or offline)- that you won’t kiss her ass like the rest of the pack- you’ll begin to experience a shift in the way women respond to you.
You will go from being ignored to never getting ignored again!
Try this method of mines when she blows you off on social media.
My latest video which I posted earlier today.
This video is also solid for guys who struggle with grabbing girl’s attention after they’d been blowing them off.
Also great for those who wish to crawl out the friend zone. This is actually the only way to get out the friendzone.
Okay, ok, ok, ok- I must confess- I have a knack for somewhat attacking AFC’s and Beta-Males on social media for their disingenuous claims and pedestalization of women.
Piggy backing off of the recent article where I talked about men who (falsely) agree with women as an attempt to gain their favor by agreeing, here’s another interesting post with a 2-pronged approach, highlighting how the vast majority of men are full of shit, which is why women aren’t regularly fucking the vast majority of men. Also highlighting again, my approach and method to attracting random women online by going against the socially accepted norm.
Moreover, I do get a nefarious kick out of AFC-bashing and exposing the Beta’s for the world of women to see.
The other day, this chick with who I share great rapport on Facebook, posted the following status update.
Watch how the ass-kissing, disingenuous quote-unquote nice guys, circle the wagon in taking the position of least resistance and least backlash, by choosing the position/answer which they perceive would likely favor the woman’s position (i.e. the girl who’d posted this).
Now here’s the thing: given those 2 positions, the male commenter can either choose A.) Girls who carry condoms are perceived negatively. B) They’re not perceived negatively.
As you clearly seen; the chodes all chose the answer (B) which would they think would keep them in favor and positive light by women.
I basically let her know that these chumps were lying. And they are fucking lying!
These chumps are lyingly making the claim that women with condoms aren’t perceived slutty, only because they (the chumps) want to be on the right side of women- in this case- the girl who posted the status.
Hence, it is purely disingenuous hogwash which is why I called them out!
Every guy on the face on the planet would be taken-aback a bit, if he were to discover that a certain girl, particularly one whom he fancies, was toting around condoms in her girlie bag.
Your first-fucking internal impression/reaction won’t be: “Oh! She’s safety-conscious”!
However, these AFC clowns commenting on the status, are trying to give women and me the impression that the first and only thing that would come to mind is that the condom-toting girl is just the safety-first type and should be commended for that.
These guys don’t actually believe that!
I then went further to elucidate while calling out the lying fuckery peddled by those fuckers!
The Beta-Male madness continued with new commenters filing in by the minute.
Even this guy didn’t realize that I was laughing at him, and not with him. 🙂
Now, perhaps you’re saying to yourself, “Why did Kenny have to be so harsh on these guys”!?
The truth of that is, and at the core of everything I do, is to see guys succeed at dating and gain abundance with women.
I wanna see guys win! And not with the belief that they have to lie in order to win with women!
These fucking so-called nice guys give guys like myself a bad rap.
They spew these lies which women see through, yet every guy pays for them at the end of the day.
This is why I’ve always said that so-called nice guys, perceived nice guys and self-professed nice guys, are the scums of the Earth, and they are manipulative wussies looking to get by from the beguilement of women.
Genuine guys like myself, oft-perceived assholes, have to then come along and clean shit up like the sanitation man!
Furthermore, the old adage of “nice guys finish last”, the blame should squarely be placed upon the shoulders of men: the so-called nice guys who are in fact manipulators of women.
Women shouldn’t be bearing the burden of why nice guys can’t get dates, let alone get laid regularly. But as it is now, these so-called nice guy [in reality, manipulators of women] do castigate women, and attach to them the label of shallow-minded hypocrites for perpetually shunning them for the unstable bad boy.
However, when you run some personal analysis on this quagmire (as I’d done), you’ll soon to arrive at the conclusion that the core reason why “nice guys” are shunned by women, is because of their lyingness, beguilement, swindlery and falsification of their true intent, true feelings and true opinions on everything under the sun.
At the end of the day, they have themselves to blame for their perpetual dating quandary.
Not to be redundant here, but this now begs the question: why do the vast majority of men pretend and feel the need to conceal what they truly desire, think and believe?
Well, coupled with the fact that they’re actively trying to appeal to women, and to appease women, by telling them what they think women want to hear, on a more profound level, 96+% of men (on social media, online- dating sites and outside of the net), were lied to about what women want, what women respond to, and how to attract women.
All of us men were misled by the media, Hollywood, our parents (who meant well) and women in society who think they know what they want but are always operating contrarily.
Thus, virtually all men grow up with the wrong idea about women and how to successfully attract, seduce, bed and date them.
Every guy on the planet, or at least in the Western Hemisphere, is liable to get lucky a time or 2 with women.
A huge percentage of teen boys will have had a high-school sweetheart with whom they copulated.
Getting lucky every now and then isn’t far fetched. So sex will happen from time to time for every guy between the ages of 16-40…presuming he’s heterosexual.
What makes my hobby (teaching pickup) unique, is that I teach guys how to replicate this, so they no longer have to be at the mercy of sheer luck.
With all that being said, even the deceptive “nice guys” such as those who opined on the chick’s post, will luck up every now and then in spite of their kiss-ass ways.
They don’t however luck up with strangers on social media because there is where “Game” is a necessity in order to attract a complete stranger from scratch.
“Nice guys” luck up with women either in their social circle, the unattractive girl-next-door with who they attended school or church, or they get hooked up by friends and relatives with a sub-par attractive chick who’d just been dumped by her boyfriend and is desperately in need of some company.
As a subscriber to my blog, or perhaps you’d stumbled upon this article somehow, what is the takeaway here for you?
You don’t have to mislead women, nor lie to them about your intentions in hopes of getting laid! So when I shame men on Facebook for choding themselves out, it is with good intentions, hoping that these vermins would realize that it doesn’t do them any justice to pretend, play nice and play get along with women.
Since attaining master PUA status, and going from Omega-Male to an Alpha-minded one, I hardly ever find accord with anything any women has ever said in relation to men, dating, sex and the sexes.
On social media, I call women out on the bullshit just as I call men out!
I tell them what they may not want to hear!
This alone sets the stage where intrigue and interest could be sparked as I cited in the previous article.
More interesting Alpha posts to come.
Feel free to leave your opinion in the comment section about girls carrying condoms.
Would you not get the wrong impression if you were to find out that a girl carries condoms, or would your first impression be that she’s safety-conscious and should be commended for it?
Years back, I published an article on the friendzone, and how the only conceivable way a guy has to escape the dreaded friendzone, which is to make the girl who had friendzoned him jealous.
This post however, isn’t about the friendzone, but the concept of crawling yourself out of the friendzone is similar to that of snagging the attention of women who ignore you online.
With that: “what to do when a girl ignores you on social media”?
Grab her attention!
You have to get her attention: but indirectly!
I wrote an article on this, entitled: Warming The Periphery.
Now, what do I mean by grabbing someone’s attention INDIRECTLY?
Before I delve into it, I want to set up the premises here on how to make all of this happen.
For whatever reason, let’s say that the OYD (Object of Your Desire) isn’t responding to your inbox messages at all. Let’s say that she tells you to “fuck off” or what have you. Perhaps you 2 once messaged each other but she no longer returned messages.
Whatever the reason is; she doesn’t reply.
The most inefficient way to go about making her budge, would have been to continue banging on her door (proverbially) by sending messages on top of messages.
Most guys would do just that until the girl deletes or blocks them.
Thr alternate and more efficient strategy is what I’m presenting you here, by knowing how to get a girl’s attention by showcasing how high value, Alpha and cool you are in the eyes of other (women).
Listen: humans are pack animals and we operate in group think.
In other words, no one truly thinks independently. There’s no such thing as original thought or idea.
We all get out ideas from people around us, people we listen to, people we look up to, shit we see on TV, etc.
There’s nothing original!
With that, the herd mentality and group think, when a person- let’s use a woman in this case- sees how other women react to you in a positive light, she instantly thinks to herself, “this guy is actually okay since everyone else thinks he’s cool”.
She may not have liked your guts previously. But because she’s indirectly subjected to how others respond to you, she then warms up to you.
That is what your goal should be: get her to warm up to you by her seeing how others are already warmed up to your personality and charms.
On a platform such as Facebook for instance, you accomplish this through your status updates, posts and shared stuff.
In essence, you will have been demonstrating just how cool you are, and there’s a very good chance that she will want in on that.
Slowly but surely, she will begin to comment on your stuff also, and or finally reply to your inbox messages which she’d ignore for weeks and months.
A day ago, some chick on Facebook posted a status which read something along the lines of she’s in need of a teddy bear to cuddle with, so…”Who wants to cuddle with me”?
As always the case, hoards of chumps took the validation bait and quickly went, “me, me, me”, like children in class salivating at becoming teacher’s little favorites and getting a treat for it.
Essentially, the girl was seeking validating by trying to find out how many suckers would take the bait and tool themselves out for her.
For the most part, the girl completely ignores the others while deciding to reply to my comment, which led to more than 20 replies back and forth between us.
As you can see from the screenshot above, my comment sparked a 12 reply discussion which went on.
What was I doing differently from every other guy?
I wasn’t going, “me, me, me! I wanna be your teddy bear”!
I actually (false) disqualified myself by indirectly telling her that I don’t want to cuddle [in pickup, we call this a “False Disqualifier” technique].
By saying to the girl, “they sell them (teddy bears) in stores”, I essentially disqualified myself as someone kissing her ass, giving her validation and chasing her.
Our replies on the post continued.
Clearly you could see my Game in full swing, and the reactions it caused within the girl’s frame.
She was chasing me instead of me chasing her and wanting to cuddle with her.
By her saying, why didn’t I bring the teddy bear by her, was an admission of her chasing. And also an indication of 2 things:
1.) Wanting me to come over
2.) Getting attracted to me (my vibe) because of the fact that I played hard-to-get via False Disqualifying technique.
My frame got her to chase me hard!
Comments continued below.
Basically some hard flirting back and forth.
The replies went on for another 12 comments or so between us.
Why wasn’t she doing this with any of the other guys who had commented?
Why did she blatantly ignore every one of them but me?
In a nutshell: Game…which encompasses psychology and an understanding of women and humans on a whole.
I baited her in by making a comment which made me appear hard-to-get and high value since I wasn’t chasing her!
Every other guy was chasing via cheesy-ass generic compliments and over-eagerness to cuddle with her.
Those guys were quickly blown out by themselves.
Remind you: this is a hot-fucking girl virtually begging for me to come cuddle with her…indirectly so!
The attraction was set within 1 comment: my initial comment.
All of this had absolutely NADA to do with my looks! So for the “looks matter” crowd: fucking shove it!!!
Game, and one’s ability to read women, trump looks virtually all of the time!
With that girl who was obviously sold on me (my vibe), I could’ve inboxed her, secured the # and got to cuddle her and fuck her that same night! But for various reasons (meetups with other women); I chose not to. But I had that option! Those other clowns didn’t!
Before wrapping this up, I want to touch on something which I do quite often when gaming girls on Facebook.
In Facebook Bang, I talk about a nifty strategy of mines which virtually entails gaming the girl (lightly) in the comment section, charming her up (building attraction), and then inboxing her the next day or few days later.
This is a HUGE strategy of mines, particularly used whenever my proverbial cup is filled to the brim.
It is also a great way to show the girl that you aren’t desperate to close.
With that, I often times charm the hell out of the girl on her status (or mines), while she virtually ignores every other guy.
Here’s another example from last night with a Spanish girl. She posted a sexy pic, I commented in Spanish [I’m fluent in Spanish by the way].
As you can see, my comment led to 43 comments between her and me (actually over 50).
Every other guy- the chodes- was basically ignored or received a pity “thank you” from the girl. That’s the most AFC’s get if anything at all.
Now, the super interesting thing with this convo between the Latina and me, is that I had to indirectly tell her to stop commenting, that’s how much she was engaged and locked-in to me.
In the screenshot below, my comment at the top (in Spanish) translates to: “Hey flashy girl, 37 replies between us, people are probably wondering what the hell is happening? What the fuck is this, some kind of soap opera or something”!?
From that comment of mines at the top (about 37 replies between us), I was indirectly taking shots at the chodes who were being ignored by her.
This is a very powerful technique in that it forces the girl to place perceived value upon me while simultaneously lowering the value of the other guys (though they were already deemed valueless in the girl’s eye).
Additionally, I’ve naively asked myself the following: “why can’t guys generate interesting (and flirty) conversations which lead to lengthy dialogue in the way that I do”?
The answer is simple: most guys have jack shit to say! Most guys don’t even know what the fuck to say beyond a cheesy compliment!
Listen- here’s how the typical dialogue goes between 99% of guys on Facebook and the girl…on the girl’s status:
Guy: “You are so beautiful sweetheart. So lovely my darling”!
Girl: “thank you”
Guy: “no…thank you beautiful. How is your day my love”?
IGNORED!!!!!!!! 😆 😆
No further replies from the girl.
I mean, I see this shit play out in real time: time after time, day after day, post after post, second by second!
The same scripted conversation that leads to a dead end.
No matter how the frikkin’ guy looks: he gets ignored and rejected subsequent to such a kiss-ass piece of interaction! So when you chodes talk about look matter: matter where!? Not on fucking Facebook! Not in the club or bar when your game is generic as fuck!
Anyway, in order to sporadically spark interesting conversation that gets the girl interested, you must have interesting shit to talk about!
If you can’t manage to get a reply from the girl on her status, then you have zero shot through her inbox!
Thus the problem/sticking-point of the vast vast majority of men trying to attract women on social media.
They lack the ability to generate convo, hence attraction, so they lose the girl’s attention, notwithstanding the fact the they never had the girl’s attention to begin with.
With all that being said, I’m poised to wait a bit, charm and attract the girl with a spirited and somewhat flirty chat on her status or pic upload, and then DM her another day with a sure-shot pull as far as phone-number swap goes.
Some of you reading this will be tempted to say, “But Kenny, you’re conversation on girls’ statuses carry on because you want to prolong it. Other guys may not want to have a convo”.
Bullshit! Every guy who comments some cheesy shit on a girl’s post is looking or hoping to have conversation. They just lack the know-how of making it happen!
You can read further about this technique here: https://kennyspuathoughts.com/2015/01/24/warming-the-periphery-facebook-seduction-tactic-for-men-patience-is-key/
On a final note, what I hoped to have gotten across to you here is the effortlessness and simplicity of attracting random strangers on Facebook, by posting the right kinds of comments which inspire women to have to want to engage and reply.
I wish to convey to you through such posts, the easiness of getting a girl to chase you, just by structuring your comment(s) in a way that de-validates her (robbing her of the validation she seeks) while drawing her in through various means.
You can learn more in Easy guide to picking up girls on Facebook.
I posted the following status to Facebook days ago, upon receiving a friend request from an obvious fake-Facebook profile.
Now, if you can’t tell this is a fake ass generic profile then you’re either crazy or stupid…or both. Fake profiles like these are usually ran by some unattractive low-self esteem chiclkwho has to make a fake profile in order to get male attention, or some gay dude somewhere looking to trick/catfish clueless thirsty men, or some straight dude in an internet cafe in Nigeria looking to scam men out of $$. Funny thing is, most guys can’t tell a fake profile. All they look at is a cute face and they’re sprung,not even taking into consideration that the chick only has like 10 friends. Which normal chick on FB has just 10 fucking friends!
#Denied #Rejected #Blocked
The screenshots of the fakery below.
Now, if you can’t spot all the markings of a fake profile from the screenshots above, then I don’t think you should be reading blogs like mines.
I would go out on a limb to say that most guys on Facebook receive such catfishing friend requests (not just me).
I’d also go out on a limb to say that most guys simply accept and either go on about their business, or they actually try to game these fake-account holders, oblivious to the reality that those are dummy accounts.
Additionally, I’ve come to the realization that most guys can’t spot a fake girl on social media.
No real girl posts statuses to social media saying that she wants to fuck unless she’s a prostitute of some sort. And not even they post stuff so blatant.
That is the 1st tell-tale sign of a fake.
I don’t entertain such things by accepting such requests…at all!
Per day, I get about 3 such friend requests from these fake accounts.
I’m curious to know how you guys go about handling these; do y’all accept or reject?
In keeping with the previous theme, here’s another pertinent example of what not to say/comment, and how to comment.
This morning, a chick uploaded the following photo.
It didn’t long before the pack of drooling Beta-Males showed up to offer their validation in various ways.
I commented at the end.
Whose comment got noticed out of all the guy?
Mines only. Not failing to mention that my comment was the last of many. So from that standpoint of priority, my comment should’ve been ignored.
This is a very comment theme as I’ve shown you guys time after time with almost real-time examples.
Ninety-eight percent of guys and their comments get ignored on social media.
Ninety-nine percent of the time, my comment receives a reply from the girl almost immediately! While the average guy has his comment ignored more than 75% of the time.
What do I do right? And what did I actually do right with this sexy girl here?
Here’s the thing: on a strategic level, I looked at the previous comments and just to get a better sense of the type of comments that these guys were making.
As expect: 99% of them were chody, generic and downright stupid.
With that, I decided to position myself as the only guy who wasn’t scooping her poop.
The best way for me to have done that, was to make a comment as an outsider by tooling the other guys in a slick way.
Hence the reason I said, “I think it’s eatable guys”. From that comment alone, I separated myself from the pack of desperate guys.
I didn’t comment, “I want to eat you”. Had I done that, I would’ve gotten ignored for being desperate.
Instead, by me saying it looks eatable (“guys”), it made the girl (on a subconscious level) think to herself, “why didn’t he throw himself at me like the others”?
That deflection alone of my innocuous comment, forced the girl to have to reply to my comment (and mines alone).
Whenever you defer from commenting on a girl’s sexiness, she becomes a bit self-conscious as I clearly cited in the previous 2 posts.
You may say to yourself at this point, “But Kenny, you didn’t ignore the girl’s body. You said it was eatable”!
However, context makes the difference as I explained above.
I was essentially tooling the other guys by telling them that her ass is eatable.
From that context, I become that 1 guy who isn’t all fazed by her body.
It is very subtle yet powerful! And this is indicative of the fact that she chose my comment to reply to while blowing off the rest. So even though I made reference to her body/booty, it was done in a way that didn’t get me blown off.
It’s all subtle psychology guys.
This may all seem complex to you at this juncture, but I don’t expect you to grasp this overnight, just as I didn’t grasp the concepts of pickup overnight.
Your greatest sticking-point in game will originate from yourself: your lack of patience and unwillingness to fail before you see positive changes.
I mean, I’ve coached guys online in regards to online game, and within their first attempt at commenting on a girl’s photo, they completely throw in the towel on trying to attract women and get laid online, just because they didn’t manage to get a reply from the girl!
I mean, it is fucking mind-blowing how guys who’ve failed their entire lives, don’t expect to keep failing before they get good at what I teach them!!!
I understand guy’s frustration with slow to no progress, simply because I’ve been there. But it takes time!
Another question you may ask is, “But Kenny, you speak about not caring about what you say to women, yet you chide these guys out for saying things without caring about the girl’s reception”!
Listen, sure I preach that you should say whatever you like and not give 2 shits about what the girl thinks! But dammit, that is not a green light for you to tool yourself out by saying lame-ass shit!
Lastly, I just want to briefly touch on looks again for the umpteen time.
Out of all the guys who commented, I would be hard-pressed to believe that I am the most handsome, and that the girl only replied to my comment because of my handsomeness, while she ignored all the ugly guys.
Again- this smashes the “looks matter” bullshit!
I am NOT the most attractive guy who had commented on this chick’s sexy photo! Yet, she didn’t factor in looks into her decision-making as to whose comment she should reply.
Vibe matters! Looks don’t!
Have the right vibe and women will constantly ignore the super-attractive guys while fawning all over you!
I keep proving to you guys- day after day- that looks don’t matter.
When will you actually begin to believe that women could care less about your looks!?