I Set Boundaries When It Comes To Sex-pectations


Days ago, a fuck-buddy of mines stood me up after we had a sex and ice cream rendezvous planned at my place.

Below: her texts in white. Mines in green.

Following morning.

That same night, she did come by, but I refused to bring her to a climax (I usually make her cum via cunnilingus). My texts in green below.

That is what I call setting boundaries by being a dick.

This girl gives an amazing fucking blowjob, but she always complains about 2 minutes in, about being tired and that her jaws hurt.

“FACK that pisses me off”!

Hence, she’s never managed to make me climax to date (which is very disappointing).

Usually, I would let it slide, not complain about it, while going down on her for like 45 minutes until she orgasms.

That night, I refused to do it, so she was left to having to make herself cum.

Yesterday evening, she hits me up with the following proposal [her txts in white].

She knew I meant business about her being a lazy ass and needed to step her shit up as far as pleasuring me to a climax.

Honestly guys, I prefer getting a blowjob to having full-on intercourse…half of the time.

Anyway, she did stop by my PUA-pad and she toiled away at blowing me for a good 40 minutes with a fair amount of breakage and stoppages.

Nevertheless, she persisted upon my insistence.

After she left (I kicked her out), I did thank her at least [my texts in green].

What I’ve come to learn is that during sex and cases where girls flake on guys, guys tend to always allow themselves to be shortchanged for the exchange of sex or promise of the girl finally coming through.

What I mean is, there are no boundaries or conditions being set by the guy…generally.

He’s just elated and feels a sense of lucky that he has a girl in his company. So the girl gets to set all rules and conditions while the guy get his sidelined.

I don’t play that!

This is part of my Alpha mindset. An Alpha-Male sets boundaries and put things and people in check whenever he feels a sense of disadvantage.

I set boundaries quite often with women whom I’m sleeping with.

I let them know that if they flake or stand me up, I’ll become an incredible asshole.

Some guys see this as reactive. Sure! But it doesn’t DLV me by ratcheting up the asshole when need be.

Women will respect you for having boundaries and balls, just as the case with this chick.

Stay Alpha!

Random Hot Girl Desperately Wants Her P***y Eaten + Women Are Sex-Deprived Pt.II [NSFW]


Hey guys; another FB pull/pickup in the bank yesterday.

Not that I really ever keep count, but over the last 4 days or so, I’ve picked up about 8 random strangers (albeit hot ones) on Facebook by utilizing my now notorious “Facebook Bang” method (at least notorious among PUA and seduction circles).

In fact- here is the deal- I never actually make a conscious decision to hunt women online (i.e. Facebook). It just happens by virtue of being online and browsing and posting my usual controversial statuses.

In the friend-recommendation field which is recommended by the FB system, while browsing it, I would spot a hottie who passes my boner-test, then decide to open her via inbox message.

That’s it!

Therefore, I never actually make a concerted effort to go out of my way to “search and pickup” women on FB.

It just happens whenever I browse my feed and post my statuses.

With this big-boobed hottie whom I picked up on FB yesterday (she lives on an adjacent island); the script as far as my mindset was the same. But this approach was heavily based on a sexual one, and not so much of my customary-asshole approach.

With no further ado; here is the pull in its entirety with a few commentaries below each screenshot collage.

Bear in mind that this is a random stranger. I first opened her with my usual gambit (assumption opener, then quickly suggested we meet up for drinks [that part however wasn’t included below].

The chat reads from left to right, top to bottom rows [girl pictured below].

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Big-boobed HB

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Above: If you recall the latest FB pull prior to this one, I spoke about shocking a girl with a strong-sexual statement early…so that’s what I did after I opened her with an assumption opener then my usual drink and meet-up proposal. Again- when a girl says “you’re crazy” in a context like this 1, it is usually a compliment. Most clueless guys take it as a negative, thus get offended. She then sent me a voice note of which I can’t recall the content. But I believe it was something about wanting her pussy eaten, and that’s about it she would allow me to do.

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She insists on sending voice notes which indicates that the girl is invested and highly interested (since vn requires more investment).

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Above: I went for the # hard-core, sensing that she was already sold and hooked on my vibe. In 1 of her voice notes above, she mentioned never having a guy ejaculated in her mouth nor on her big tits before…to which I call her a liar.

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Above: in her previous voice note, she mentions that dozens of times per day, random guys would inbox her about wanting to fuck, suck, lick, etc. but she unfriends and blocks them because of that…within a heartbeat.

Now here’s the question: I did the same thing as every other guy does. But why didn’t she block me like she does to every other random pervert? Game (my method of picking up girls on Facebook) and psychology! 😉

I also sought to end the conversation before she did…as I always advise you guys to do: Always say bye before she does! It’s a psychologically powerful move whenever you say bye to a hot girl! It fucks with her mind and sense of value!

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Above: She now feels a bit inadequate and self-conscious that I was possibly brushing her off for another girl…my girlfriend whom she only assumed I have since I never mentioned having a GF. So a bit of jealousy is also in the mix to deepen the attraction and her desire for me.

Below: Since exchanging numbers, we then made the transition to Whatsapp which I view as 1 step further before the pending meet-up.
[Her texts in white. Mines in green]

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Above: Well- that was self-explanatory. We end up sexting a bit later last night while having phone sex (though I only pretended to have played with myself] ;).

Few things I would like to touch on based on the dialogue, the girl and seduction.

She mentioned (via voice note) that dozens of “weird” guys would hit her up like 50 times a day wanting to have sex with her. Some guys would even offer money in exchange for sex and she routinely blocks dozens of guys on a daily basis. She also considers strangers (men) who message her as perverted weirdos [her words].

However, as I mentioned earlier: I also randomly inboxed her (yesterday), so why am I not lumped into the perverted-weirdo box and subsequently blocked?

Is it because of my stunning looks?

Of course not! I don’t have such!

I clearly never asked her why she didn’t reject and block me, because I’m well aware of the reasons I wasn’t rejected and blocked, and why other guys are.

Hence, what is my secret?

Psychology, Sub-communication, Game + the approach.

My sexual boldness does not come off as pervertedly weird but enticing yet shocking in an interesting way.

The girl doesn’t sense desperation and weirdness from me. Rather, she senses sexual humor and boldness.

It is hard to explain how this works on a sub-communication level, but as you advance in the game and the art of getting sexual with random strangers, you will magically find that sweet spot just as you would in any other field of life.

Moreover, Humor, Humor, Humor, is fucking underrated, and I cannot begin to stress it any more than I have already!

Girls get that I am fucking around whenever I go sexual, ballsy, arrogant and assholish. They know that I am dead serious about wanting to bang them! But they also sense that I don’t desperately need it/them, hence my humor in the mix.

This is also what most guys lack [humor] as to why they come off as weird, perverted and un-calibrated when seeking sex online.

Every girl wants to fuck! But she wants a guy who can go about it tactically and tactfully.

That is largely why the vast majority of guys get blown out on Facebook [98%] whenever they contact a girl, openly seeking sex.

They lack tact and tactics, which boil down to psychology, ability to read/understand women, and game/seduction skills.

Here is a perfect example (of the wrong approach) from a screenshot I happen to come across on Facebook today which the same girl spoken of in this article had posted [what irony].

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As far as my eyes can see; this guy is well in-shape and good-looking! But it didn’t matter! He got blown out, outed on Facebook for the world to see (via screenshot and identity posted)…and blocked. 😦

Again- this shatters the “looks matter” theory to pieces since this guy looks like a handsome Football jock while I don’t [I checked out his profile pics just out of curiosity].

Though he tried to be humorous (which was a good move), he still came off as creepy, unnatural and incongruent, and got dismissed and blocked by the girl.

You cannot and should NOT beg a girl off of the opener/ice-breaker/1st inbox message, to show you some tits!

You are requiring too much fucking compliance (too soon) from her as a total stranger!

That was the guy’s main mistake among a few other mistakes I can see within that 1 sequence of a hilarious attempt to get boob pics!

You can however say to the girl (as I often do): “I wanna fuck the heavens out of you” (or any variation of it) , and it would work.

Why so? Because I am not requiring her to comply to anything. I’m merely sharing a piece of information with her (that I want to fuck her), and not requesting for her to teleport her vagina into my bedroom.

However, when you say to the girl (a stranger), “please send me a boob pic sweetie”, you are requiring her to invest/comply/act. Since she doesn’t know you from a hole in the wall, and you haven’t attracted her; she won’t comply/act, but to delete and block you instead!

In order to get a girl to send you naked pics as the girl featured in this article did voluntarily (sending me nudes); you have to firstly attract her through game!

Yes- game!

This is why I never ever open random strangers online with, “Send me a boob pic”, as all of these weirdos do.

You have to firstly gain her compliance through game before she will comply to such a request or any request for that matter!

Thus, this is exactly why this girl, and every other girl on Facebook, ignores, deletes and blocks every clown who inboxes her trying to get naked pics or wanting to meet up for sex.

These weirdos [“weirdos”, according to women] are expecting the girl to comply straight off the bat, without they having to work for it by gaming and charming the girl a bit!

This is why every random girl I pick up on Facebook always says to me:

“You’re different than other guys”

“You’re interesting and other guys aren’t”

Technically, I am not doing anything different than the next man in that I’m being sexual also! In fact, I am being more sexual, which should make me a bigger pervert and creep than the guy who merely wants nudes!

Guys are merely asking girls for naked pics.

I hit girls up for sex.

Hence, my approach is WAY more gutsy and perverted…yet random strangers on Facebook don’t reject me for such an approach, but they find me to be super interesting, different and attractive…and they fuck me for it.

Again- the only difference with my approach and the creepy weirdo’s, is that I don’t expect the girl to comply without firstly gaming/charming her up. And I also build attraction firstly before going full-on sexual.

The average good-looking guy thinks because he’s handsome, he can just randomly inbox a hot girl with, “send me some boob pics baby”, and she would just comply.

In his ignorance and foolishness; he gets branded by women as a creep, weirdo, perv and potential rapist, exposed on Facebook by the girl whom he had inboxed (via screenshots), and he’s subsequently deleted and blocked. Contrarily, because of my Facebook pick-up method and approach, girls see me as interesting and fuck-worthy, and not pervy and creepy.

Most Girls Are Sex-Deprived (self-inflicted)

This may sound somewhat contradictory since in pickup, we teach that every girl has lots of options in men and dick from which to choose.

That is very true!

However, just because she has lots of options, doesn’t at all mean she will utilize lots or any of them!

Moreover, the average ugly girl- in spite of being unattractive- can on any given night, fuck some hot guy (“some” meaning a dozen). But she elects not to do so more times than not.

An attractive girl likewise, has even more options. But she doesn’t utilize them except for a meager 2%.

This is testimony and indicative of the fact that most girls go to bed at night alone!

Even if they do have a partner (which is almost always the case), they aren’t likely to screw him every single night.

Case in point: the big-boobed hottie featured in this article.

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Big-boobed HB

She’s hot as fuck! Yet she’s having phone sex and sexting, and sending me naked pics of herself (masturbating) on her own free will (this is a common occurrence BTW)!

Hence, she is sex-deprived (though it is self-inflicted)!

She is lacking sex, though she likely has dozens of options of dick to choose from!

The problem is, as to why girls don’t just fuck any guy who inboxes them, boils down to a lack of game and a lack of understanding of women on the guy’s part.

The average guy doesn’t understand how to approach a stranger for sex online.

We’ve already dealt with the wrong approach which is utilized by the vast majority of men (98-99%) on social-media sites. So it is crystal clear already as to how and why guys kill their chances for quick sex.

With that being the case (guy’s ignorance of how women operate), most girls resort to playing with themselves on an average night…just as this girl, though she’s hot enough to get dick on any given night.

Girls have tons of options but they rarely ever use them!

For the most part, most girls fuck their current boyfriends, their ex-boyfriends, or someone in their social circle.

The exceptional and sparing cases happen when a girl goes outside of that box to then fuck a guy who isn’t her current, an ex-, or a guy within her social circle.

Hence, the average Jane is NOT fucking dozens of guys [her options]! She’s fucking about 2 guys on average: her current BF, an ex, or a guy within her crew.

The exception is the Pick-Up Artist (PUA), or some random guy she met at the club while being pissy-drunk, and he ends up getting lucky by virtue of the fact that he was at the right place at the right time [the pussy landed on him…in other words].

Make no mistake about it: girls want sex! But they want a guy who understands how to go after it!

Women are so stubborn that they often put off sex for months at a time, simply because they cannot find a guy who gets/understands it…like me. 😉

They have all these dick options, but they would rather play with their vagina to sleep, than to fuck some inept chode who doesn’t get it.

Here is the interesting part in relation to the previous point: I would always hear women nonchalantly say stuff like [presently and in the past]:

“I went 2 years without having sex before”.

“I haven’t had sex in 9 months”.

Funny thing is; I never believed that shit!

“How can a chick go months on end without having sex while having dozens of guys to choose from”!?

I would say to myself.

Well- it is crystal clear now as I explained to you guys previously: a girl will rather do without sex for months and years, than to fuck some guy(s) who doesn’t get how to approach women for sex.

Therefore, all the while when I thought women were just blowing hot smoke about not having sex in 10-15 months; they actually were telling the truth! But I didn’t understand this until recently.

Since picking up and sleeping with all these random hotties on Facebook over the last 12 months specifically [innumerable amounts], I couldn’t help but ask myself recently:

“Why are all these attractive women on Facebook so easily predisposed to the idea and act of having sex with me (a total stranger), when these girls could obviously have sex at the drop of a hat with numerous guys whom they know personally…who are hotter than I am”?

It really tripped me the hell out when I thought about it a few weeks back!

Women are really sex-deprived!

In any case, with the girl anonymously featured in this article; the stage is already set.

Though she harps on the point of “getting her pussy sucked and eaten”, I know better (from vast amounts of “sex”perience) that once a girl gets oral sex performed on her, there is no way in hell she could resist the urge of having that same guy penetrate her then and there [unless he’s a guy she’s been with numerous times]!

I mean- I’ve been through this dozens of times over the years, where I would meet up with a girl under the guise that it’s “oral sex only”, and it would lead to sex ALWAYS, after I would’ve gone down on her.

I would perform oral sex on her to the brink of climaxing then pull back! I would tease her snatch to the brink of climax until it hurts. She would then beg for me to insert the cock inside of her.

Hence, with this chick; it will be no different come weekend [that is if I don’t get tied up with other plans, i.e. other girls 😉 ].

A girl will rather verbally commit and agree to having a guy go down on her, than to verbally commit and agree to having a guy fuck her.

In her mind: having oral performed on her, is less slutty than having a guy fuck her [blame chick logics for this fuckery].

This is part of the girl’s ASD (Anti-Slut Defense) mechanism, whereas for her to say, “just oral sex”, she avoids looking slutty because she didn’t agree to full-blown sex.

It’s all psychology on the girl’s part.

It take a savvy guy to sift through the bullshit and play it cool like a cucumber as if he’s been down this road hundreds of times.

On a final note, if you’ve been following my posts over the weeks, you will have noticed 3 styles/game of mines which often overlap with each other:

1.) Asshole/Badboy game

2.) Sexual game

3) Deeply Passionate and Romantic game

The 3 styles intertwine quite often.

On 1 hand, you would see me approach and pick up a girl over Facebook by being a dick, prick and an asshole.

On the other hand, you would see a more sexual, forward and dominantly sexual approach.

Or, you may see a haplessly romantic type of game where I go heavily and deeply on passion and romance.

All 3 styles work!

I never really use 1 style completely independent from the others.

All 3 styles overlap whenever I approach a girl!

However, depended on certain factors and signals that I read from the girl, I choose 1 of the 3 approaches to utilize in order to pick her up, seduce her, and sleep with her.

This is called “Calibration” in the underground-seduction community.

Depended on the girl, I calibrate my game/style/approach and proceed accordingly with either of the 3 styles, but heavily relying on 1 particular style, all depending on what I see/sense from the girl as I scan her profile at first sight.

For instance: whenever I come across a stranger’s profile, I would scan it briefly (even just her main profile pic), and would be able to tell within a nanosecond, which of my 3 approaches would be best suitable to work on the girl.

If I sense that she’s the dominant type; I would utilize my asshole approach.

If from scanning I sense that she’s a romantic type; I would go all crazy romantic with deep deep romance game as if it were love at first sight…however with tact and strategy.

It works!

If however she’s showing some cleavage in her profile pic [as was the case with this girl]; I go hard-core sexual [sexually dominant]!

Therefore, I have 3 main styles in which I utilize depended on the girl, her pictures, her posts and the vibe I sense from her on an instinctual and ethereal level.

Most of my approaches online are based on intuition and a hunch.

With practice, time and continual experience/exposure, you will have garnered a sixth sense for reading women just by looking at their smile in their pics, the position of their limbs, their entire body in the pics [reading body language], etc.

Hence, I can just scan a girl’s profile pic alone, and like some sort of clairvoyant wizard, I can tell whether she’s DTF or not, how to make her DTF, and which of my 3 styles to utilize in order to get into her panties.

With time and exposure to women: you gain this uncanny ability!

At the moment, this same big-boobed hottie is hitting me up by the minute, dying to talk and text, anticipating the weekend’s action, dying for some oral performance and to get laid 😉

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Big-boobed HB

Her position has now changed from strictly oral, to oral + penetration, or oral with a friend + sex. 🙂 😆

Powerful, isn’t it?

Stay tuned for the next article which will deals with “Cunnilingus” and taboo in these parts.

You will get a greater understanding as to why great portions of the girls I pick up in the Caribbean (where I’m currently located), are heavily desirous of oral sex.

Note: bear in mind though that once you have picked up a girl by utilizing the strong-sexual approach as I demonstrated here, you want to always slow it down prior to meeting up, or else the sexual-anticipatory pressure will have been built up so intensely that the girl freaks out [though she loves the vibe] and ends up flaking and standing you up.

For instance, since I’ll be meeting up with this girl on Friday [presuming nothing comes up on my end], it would be ill-advised of me to steamroll into Thursday and Friday with sex, sex, sex as the main theme of our conversation.

The girl already knows that we’re going to fuck. It’s already a foregone conclusion.

With that being the reality, there is no need for me to pound sex, sex, sex from now until Friday, or else the girl will freak out due to high expectation and performance anxiety.

Thus, by tomorrow, I will have slowed the vibe down by making a transition into normal conversation (rapport-building stuff), and totally abandon any talk of sex.

Just as men suffer from performance anxiety prior to sex: women do too. Therefore, always slow things down about a day or so before meeting up with the girl or else she will freak out 65% of the time.

I’ll speak in depth about this crucial piece of pre-date insight in a future post.

Capiche?

By the way, I implore you to re-read this article (mainly the dialogue between the girl and me) just to drill down the vibe in which I embodied: my humor, precision, the moment in which I decided to grab her #, how I grabbed her #, how long before I went for the #, how long the dialogue/pickup lasted, my overall tone, when and why I ended the conversation, when I laughed (LOL), etc.

All those pointers which deal with calibration/timing, are fucking invaluable! So re-read the chat-log!

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“They Don’t Even Check To See If You Put A Condom On” [NSFW]

In the words of Owen Cook aka RSD Tyler:

“They don’t even check to see if you put a condom on”!

Some years ago, I wrote a super-controversial article that nearly got me hung in the court of public opinion, when I purported that girls hate the use of condoms and that every girl fucks without them.

I also went further to suggest that it is a myth that women are safety-conscious and that they are more mercenary than men are when it comes to sexual relations.

This post is just further confirmation of what I’ve observed over the years when it comes to women and protection in the form of condoms.

Women just don’t give a fuck about the use of condoms…or neglecting to use them!

Not only do they care less about so-called protection, but it’s almost unheard of that a girl will stop a guy midway through sex to inquire whether he has a condom on or not.

Throughout my years of fucking girls, I’ve only worn a condom perhaps 3 times!

I said 3 Bloody-Fucking Times!

Of those 3 times, the wearing of a rubber was NOT on the behest of the girl but simply because I wanted to know what fucking with a condom felt like.

I haven’t truly worn a condom in over 6 years.

The 3 times that I had experimented with condom use, took place prior to 6 years ago.

Over the past 6 years, I’ve slept with innumerable amounts of girls of all races, ethnicities, socioeconomic backgrounds and varying ages from 17 years of age to 42 year old married MILF’s.

How many times had I worn a condom during those years of entering vaginas like an OBGYN?

NOT ONCE!

Am I a dirty-fucking vermin who should be hung by his balls as an example of a man that society should shun and banish from among civil society?

Perhaps!

What about the women though?

What about their judgment in the mutual exchange of sexual favors?

Should they be let off the hook for allowing me to penetrate them raw dog…with their knowledge?

Alright, the thing is, I don’t not wear condoms because I want to be a rebellious scumbag.

I chose to not wear so-called protection over the years, simply because:

1.) I cannot maintain an erection while wearing a condom

2.) The lack of flesh-to-flesh stimulation usually makes me limp

Therefore, I elect to go raw for those reasons.

With my (non)ethics or lack thereof aside, I want to delve into the psyche of women as it pertains to sex and protection.

Shagging a girl raw dog- 80% of the time- she won’t agree to go ahead with it if asked permission by the guy.

However, assuming the guy doesn’t ask to fuck raw, and he goes ahead and slide it inside of her and shags away, she will never stop to check or ask if he has the condom on or not.

She frankly doesn’t care either way!

In fact, she wishes he never put it on in the 1st place…which is why she won’t ask to see whether he has 1 on.

Now the thing is, I absolutely never ask a girl if I can fuck her without a condom.

I already know that the simply answer to that would be a flat-out NO!

Even if she wants to fuck without protection and she LOVES the feel of raw cock inside of her; she is socially conditioned to pretend as though she’s safety-conscious, hence a verbal “No” to raw-dog sex- no matter her personal position on the matter.

Hence, I never ask!

I just put it in and go…knowing that she will not stop me by any means because she truly likes to fuck raw as it is human nature to copulate without protection in order to procreate!

One can only procreate via raw-dog sex…on the exception of artificial insemination through technology.

Thus, fucking without protection is closer to nature than using protection [this goes without saying].

It’s for this reason why it’s instinctive in every woman to have sex without a condom.

Quite naturally, it’s the same for men also; we would prefer to shag down without a rubber on the shlong.

However, due to social conditioning and the AIDS scare, we men are forced to wrap it up…though nearly all men are still inclined to go raw in spite of the misleading threat of contracting AIDS and kicking the bucket as a result.

Nevertheless, both sexes would prefer to screw without protection.

Not because we humans are all dirty-fucking specimens who don’t give a rat’s ass about protecting ourselves!

It’s simply because condoms/protection and contraceptives, are NOT natural components of the human evolution!

Ok, enough of evolution and science and let’s get back to raw business!

Girls want to and prefer to screw without condoms!

Simple!

Screwing girls raw dog, if that’s your desire, isn’t challenging to pull off.

At most, it requires a bit of deception on the guy’s part.

Sounds shady! But life isn’t a box of chocolates and roses, right?

Both sexes routinely implement deception and deceptive tactics into their dealings with the opposite sex.

Good examples of acceptable deceptions are makeup and push-up bras used by women to appear younger and more youthful.

This is fucking deception no matter how you look at it!

Women deceive men all the time in this sort of way!

However, it is acceptable!

Likewise, men may generally deceive women in other ways such as:

The nice guy who pretends as though he truly wants to be platonic friends and a shoulder for the girl to cry on, when in reality, he’s scheming and trying to buy time in which to act towards sex with the girl who trusted him as strictly friends.

This is deception on the nice guy’s part.

However, this sort of deception is deemed acceptable by society.

On the contrary, trying to fuck a girl without a condom through subtle deception, is seen as borderline criminal to some. ❓

This brings me to an incident I had last week where I banged a sexy-married chick…raw dog!

She was quasi-insistent on me wearing a condom…which is expected when fucking a girl for the 1st time.

After going down on her, while she climaxed and gazed away into the ceiling- essentially not paying attention to me- I quickly slid the head of my cock into her extremely wett pussy.

She moaned and sighed as I penetrated her.

Then she says to me:

“You have a condom on”?

I replied:

“Yea of course”!

This was obviously bullshit!

No way possible could I have opened a condom, slid it onto the weiner and enter her within 2 seconds!

Did she really know that it was impossible that I had a condom on?

Of course she knew I lied and that I wasn’t wearing a condom!!!

Yet- she allowed me to continue fucking her raw!

I deceived her!

She knew it!

Yet she didn’t care, so she allowed it!

She wanted it!

In spite of me telling her that I did have on a condom. At no point during the sex (45 minutes worth) did she ever double-check or double-ask to see if I still had the condom on, or if I truly had it on to begin with.

In essence, she entrusted her safety to a stranger- me!

How irresponsible!!!

I could’ve came inside of her pussy!

I could’ve impregnated her! 😯

She’s married! 😯

It is in her best and greatest interest to ensure that I have a condom on at all times.

Not only is her marriage in jeopardy had I impregnated her, but she risks an STI…that’s if I had 1…but you get the point.

Faced with such huge consequences (pregnancies and maladies), why would any girl allow a man to enter her without some form of protection!?

Why would she neglect to double and triple check to see whether the guy removed the rubber or not!?

She frankly doesn’t give a rat’s ass while in the moment of sexual heat!

By no means am I singling out this girl.

Any girl for that matter is guilty of this!

Safety and protection are the furthest things on their mind when faced with cock…especially new cock.

With the same married chick, just to confirm that she actually knew I didn’t have a condom on, she messaged me after sex saying:

“Why did you do that”?

Me: “Do what”?

Girl: “You know what you did”

I then realized what she meant; I fucked her without a condom.

Me: “Oh! I didn’t mean to do it”.

Girl: “Yea right”

Me: “But I didn’t cum inside you”

Girl: “I know that”

Me: “I’m very careful when it comes to that”

Girl: “I hear you”

Me: “I would never cum inside of you like that”

Hence the point I made earlier: she knew I lied to her and that I didn’t have a condom on…but she never stopped me!

This is the case with 99.9% of the girls I ever shagged.

Though they never voiced it; they all knew that I didn’t have a condom on.

Merely saying to the girl, “I have a condom”, is enough to get you the raw-dog pass.

She doesn’t even have to see the condom in your hands or on your dick…neither will she ask to see proof of contraception.

I recall another incident where I shagged a girl in a public bathroom after a week or so of seducing her.

She asked me if I had a condom when I motioned for her to turn around with her panties pulled down.

I said, “Yes I do have a condom”!

I freaked out for a second because I thought to myself that I needed some form of proof to placate her worries.

There was a mint wrapper on the floor right next to my foot. So I bent down as if to remove a condom from my pants pocket which was down to the floor. But in reality, I grabbed the candy wrapper, crunched it up a bit in my palm as if to mimic the sound of a condom wrapper.

Not to mention that a plastic wrapper doesn’t sound anything like an aluminum or paper wrapper- but that’s besides the point. 😉

Anyway, so I told her that I had a condom, crunched up the candy wrapper then slid my cock into her vagina from behind…without a condom on.

Now, the thing is; she truly thought I had a condom on…most likely.

Had she fount out that I didn’t have 1 on, would she had stopped me?

NO!!!

The girl just needs psychological comfort in knowing that you won’t judge her as a dirty-little whore for shagging raw-dog.

Frankly, I can care less who screws with or without condoms.

This post was meant to shed some light on the psyche of women in sex, and also the ignorance of society in relation to sex and the way in which humans are built to go about it.

I leave you with the video from RSD Tyler which inspired this post.

Sex In Odd Places + The Numerical Breakdown On Sex

I consider sex in random places to be the pinnacle of one’s ability to lead, suggest and to persuade others.

Now, such a declaration may come off as callous and demonic, but the truth is: women are open to sex in random places as much as men such as myself are.

While men are always game for the raunchy challenge, a woman may require a bit of prodding and convincing to jump on board…though she secretly desires such a whimsical venture.

“Why sex outside of the bedroom, Kenny”?

For starters:

*Bedroom or bed sex gets played out after a while.

*Women are spontaneity junkies.

*Routine (sex in bed) is the #1 killer of attraction in relationship.

A girl may not have the cojones to share this with you, but much of her negativity, attitude and bitchy behavior, stem from monotony and boredom in the relationship, which encompass sex [the lack thereof] as the biggest relationship-killer.

Shagging down 5 times a day isn’t what I’m angling at neither.

Most men are under the illusion that if they fuck their girlfriend dry, it’ll ensure the relationship’s longevity.

Not realizing that abundance of “sex” doesn’t keep a woman from cheating, neither does it necessarily keep her satisfied.

Most importantly, variety and spontaneity are much bigger factors to keeping your girlfriend’s vagina at home.

Therefore, it’s never about how many times per day you can service your girl sexually.

Neither is it about cock sizes or how well you can do her.

Instead, how creative, whimsical and spontaneous you can be, is what it’s about.

How random can you be [speaking to men out there]?

If sex in bed is your idea of “good sex”, then do all of us a favor and chop your fucking head off right now!

A bit harsh- but worth it!

Ok, this is how I break sex down in relation to its importance to the girl:

    5% is penetration

    50% is location

    20% is mental/psychological

    20% is foreplay

    5% is whether she gets off or not

Do you see how unimportant actual “Penetration” is in the grand scheme of things [sex]?

A dismal 5%!

Now, that is just my take on it. But I’ve banged enough women over the years to gain credibility on such estimates.

Sex for a man, is largely based on “Penetration”: putting his dirty pecker into vagina.

As men: we all know this is factual.

Women on the other hand, whenever I reveal this to them, it usually blows them to Smithereens.

Since women run off of emotions and we men don’t (at least not as they do), it is difficult for most women to digest the thought that men are only into sex for the penetration value, and that emotions have 0% value to a man as in relation to sex [which is why men can fuck hookers without having to feel anything for them but a sexual itch].

In non-complex terms: the average man can fuck a dead corpse and still get off…just as long as he’s able to make penetration. 😯

Sex for a man is largely physical (95%) with the residual 5% being a 2.5% split between emotional and psychological.

For the average woman however, merely being penetrated isn’t enough to get her off.

I can see the faces of clueless men right now:

“WTF! You mean it’s not about penetration for women”!? 😯

Again: Penetration only packs a 5% punch on the sexual-value scale for women!

It is “where” you have sex and the environmental and existential factors (the psychological) which play a more significant role in satisfying a woman.

Mind-blowing is what I aim for whenever I’m engaged in sexual contact with a girl.

Keyword: “Mind” blowing.

Most of my emphasis are put squarely on her mind, which is the most powerful sexual organ in a woman’s body.

The clit and the fictitious g-spot are nothing compared to the mind…which intertwines with the “location” factor of sex.

I am first to admit this and I will say it again:

I am terrible in bed!

Penetration wise, an inexperienced male virgin, should blow me out the fucking water! 😆

No shame in Kenny’s game!

What gets women hooked to me sexually is simply because I place way more emphasis on the most important components to good sex:

*Location

*Foreplay

*Mind-play

If you want to get a girl hooked, you fuck her mind instead of her pussy…or in conjunction with each other.

Mere penetration is child’s play.

Women know this, but they won’t exactly tell us this…at least not outright.

As for the women I sleep with, 99% of who have a significant other, their primary gripe in their sex life, is always that the boyfriend doesn’t do any foreplay, doesn’t talk during sex and doesn’t vary the sex location.

In other words: his sole concern is putting it in and pumping away like a rabbit!

I even come across girls who tell me that they haven’t orgasmed in 3 years due to their boyfriend ineptitude in the intimacy department! 😯

Part of me wants to believe this a mere fabrication. But knowing men, and knowing how clueless 96% of us are about women, it’ pretty apparent that those orgasm-deprived damsels weren’t lying after all.

Ok, so what is my secret…or part of it?

Let’s get the drum roll…

Ba-dum-bum!!!!!!

“Sex in odd places”!

“That’s it Kenny”!?

Thats it!

Want to make a girl think about you from now until she’s gray?

Bang her somewhere outdoors!

Want to give her a mind-blowing fuck?

Bang her somewhere where the risk of being caught is neigh!

“Safety” is the antithesis of good sex.

In other words, having sex in a totally “safe” location, is the killer of good sex.

Now, I’m not saying that sex in bed cannot be good.

It does have its time.

Over-kill however, as the result of too much bed sex [sex in a safe location], is what you should be wary of.

This is why you should heighten the sexual tension by giving it to her in odd places.

This is applicable to sex with your wife, girlfriend, or sex with a fuck-buddy or One-Night Stand chick.

Granted it isn’t possible to bang your girlfriend every night outdoors. At least try to make this happen every other week or whenever sexual boredom sets in.

For a girl whom you’re just hooking up with for hooking-up sake; no need to kill yourself trying to get her back to your place when you can give her some mind-blowing sex in back of an abandoned building or the hood of your parked car somewhere semi-secluded.

How about stealing some sex at work?

Invite her to your workplace and have sex in the mop-closet.

Get creative fellaz!

Bear in mind what I said earlier about leading.

You want to lead the girl into action and not foolishly rely on her to take the lead neither to meet you half way.

Hence, you don’t say to her:

“Hey Gina- wanna pass by and have sex on the desk at work when my coworkers leave”?

Stupid, Stupid, Stupid!

If sex at work on the desk is what you desire, then lead her into it non-verbally.

You’re rarely ever gonna get consent via “yes” or “ok” from the girl when it comes to sex in odd places.

Anything other than an outright no should be interpreted a yes.

Furthermore, you don’t ask nor do you make the proposal to her.

You simply act upon it.

I’ve had sex in many odd places with numerous girls throughout the years to include:

*Sneaking into an abandoned building

*Atop of a 4-wheel tractor inside of a parking lot

*Inside of a car-park next to a vacant booth

*Beneath a tree [include anisia post]

*On the seashore at the beach

*On the pier on the boardwalk

*Snuck onto someone’s boat

*In the bushes on a blanket

*In the bushes on my shirt laid out on the ground in the forest

*In an abandoned horse stable

*At a seaport

*In a friend’s car at the seaport

*Atop my grandma’s freezer and washing-machine in the outhouse

*In an airport bathroom

*In the courtyard of a barbecue joint after closing hours

Those are just a fraction of sex in odd places which come to mind.

Rarely do I ever fuck girls at my place. Over the last 2 years though, I sorta lost my adventurous edge which finds me now trying to take girls back to my pad instead.

My most recent encounter happened e Fridays ago with a married MILF who’s about 39 years old.

We’ve known each other for years and have fucked on numerous occasions before she got hitched [once after marriage].

That noonday, she sent me a text message for me to meet her at her job site and that she was alone at the office.

I’m not quite sure if sex was her intention, but she told me that she just wanted some company since she was alone and bored at the moment.

While there, we wound up having a quickie on her desk before her coworkers returned.

This was completely my idea and I led!

Even if she wanted this to happen, it was still on me to take the initiative towards sex in her office.

After all, this was a quickie.

What made it so powerful wasn’t sex itself. But the risk factor, chances taken, danger, adventurism and spontaneity.

Undoubtedly the easiest way to get a girl hooked sexually.

Don’t Worry: She Will Come Crawling Back For Sex [Trust In Time]

First off: I must make it clear that this article is NOT a “how-to” on getting your ex back!

Frankly, as I’ve stated many times in the past: any guy who tries to get his ex back, needs to be dragged to an open field and burned at the stake Medieval style…or stoned to death! 😯

What this article will actually deal with, is getting back a fuck-buddy, fuck-friend, booty-call, friend with benefit or whatever you want to call it.

A fuck-friend doesn’t last forever.

Depended on the girl’s situation (or yours), it can last perhaps 2 weeks and abruptly die.

Since women hop from boyfriend to being single then back to boyfriend as though it’s a trend (which it is), there will come a time when she says to you:

“Hey Tom, I’m back with Gary now…so I’m not gonna be able to see you like that…if you know what I mean”.

“Like that” refers to the booty-call/friends with benefits situation.

Therefore, booty-calls aren’t indefinite and they usually die out quickly.

Generally, I just let it run its course and move on to the next chick [I think most of us do].

However there will come a time or 2 where you meet a fuck-buddy whom you just want to continue banging a little bit longer.

You aren’t quite ready to let go as yet.

Since it’s a world of free wills; irrespective of wanting to continue a fuck-buddy fling with a specific girl, you can’t force her to comply [unless by rape] so the good thing will come to an end.

Now, this article basically outlines getting that fuck-buddy to come back.

It isn’t strategic but much of it is left to the fat bitch karma and time itself.

How do you get a fuck-buddy to come back?

Move on!

Ignore her!

Same strategy in getting an ex-girlfriend to come back or getting your girlfriend to comply when she starts to act rebellious and disrespectful towards the relationship by treating you less than a man.

Throughout my PUA years, I’ve had many fuck-friends, too numerous to count!

However, 2 of them mainly stuck out as women I’d wanted to continue banging but not date [it isn’t wise to go exclusive with a fuck-friend].

I’ll highlight the main one for the purpose of making the case here.

I met a girl some years ago, we hooked up the same night we’d met [nothing strange there], she had a boyfriend but were on a break [yea right], so our One-Night Stand progressed into a 2 week fling where we might have shagged down 5 times…if my memory serves correct. ❓

After the 2nd week, as anticipated, she hit me with the “me and my boyfriend are back together” story.

Cool!

I hit her up maybe a week and a half later for a quick booty-call but she wasn’t available [claims to still be on splendid term with the BF].

Cool!

I really wanted to fuck this girl few more times although I was still sleeping with numerous other girls as expected as a seasoned PUA.

A month went by, I totally implemented some freeze-out tactics by ignoring her completely then I got an unexpected text:

“Where are you? I wanna see you tonight”.

I knew this wasn’t to talk about politics or how has life been, but it was all about the booty-call. 😈

We hooked up that night- went our separate ways.

The fling behind her boyfriend’s again back continued for about 2 weeks then discontinued.

Once again I was clobbered with the “I’m back with my boyfriend” line. 🙂

By the way guys, this is typical shit!

It’s very common for a girl to “CLAIM” to have broken up with a BF just to fuck a guy on the side [hopefully you], then put that guy on the side further to the side while “CLAIMING” to get back with her secret boyfriend.

This is common shit you’ll face on a day to day basis when getting to meet lots of chicks.

This also underscores a point which I’ve been hammering to death for years and that is: all women have fucking boyfriends!

There’s no such thing as a girl who’s single!

If she claims to be single today, she’ll claim to have a BF next week. If she has a BF today, there’s a strong possibility that she’ll play the “I’m an independent woman” card a week later…depended on whom she’s addressing.

So if you do meet a girl who says she’s single, check back in on her in 2 weeks time and you’ll be shocked to find out that she now has a boyfriend or has since reconciled with an ex [an ex which she failed to tell you about].

Digressing.

Anyway, for some strange reason, this chick’s vagina had a hold on me.

It wasn’t “hooked” neither some crazy-ass irrational infatuation of sorts, nor was it ONE-itis being that I didn’t want this girl for myself as in an exclusive situation.

I could care less that she was fucking other guys and had a boyfriend. I just wanted to get my fuck’s worth out of that vagina.

Some months of zero contact went by this time [think it was about 9 months] then the all-too-familiar script played out again:

“Hey, can I come by you later”?

Me: “Who’s this”

Girl: “Sabrina. What you don’t remember me now”?

Me: Lol “Shut up! Ok cool. Shoot me a txt before you pass by so I can get this place in order”.

We fucked that night…as expected.

Our nefarious fling continued for 2 weeks or so- then ended…as expected.

Now, this particular girl and I have been fucking on and off for the past 5 years: 2 weeks on, 9 months off, 2 weeks on, 6 months off, a week on, 8 months off, etc.

This fuck-buddy relationship has been the longest I ever had with 1 particular chick. I’ve virtually been fucking her for the past 5 years with huge chunks of off periods.

What is really satisfying though, and you might have to face this also, is when a falling out occurs (instigated by her) then she comes crawling back for some good-old cock. 😉 🙂

There’s no greater feeling of justice in the world than to have a BITCH [and I used that word deliberately and justifiably] hit you up out of the blue (after some months have elapsed) in order to hook up.

In 2 instances with the same girl, we had fallouts because she’d taken offense to some minute bullshit I said about something that I can’t even remember what they were…so she hung up on me and sent some unflattering texts to put the icing on the cake.

Cool!

Time is on my side.

About 6 months later of no contact, the familiar text message buzzed my phone:

“You’re free later”?

At this point, I was left with 2 option:

1.) Hold a grudge for her bitchy actions 6 months prior and turn her down.

2.) Take retribution on her pussy by fucking the living daylights out of her.

Me: “Yep I’ll be free later”! 🙂

The points I wanted to get across here was just to get you guys up to speed with the way in which fuck-buddy situations are structured, how they run, why they run the way they do, why they die off and how to revive it in due time.

There’s no quick-fix technique in getting a fuck-buddy to come back for more sex [at least, I haven’t discovered it yet].

She is fucking other guys and probably have a boyfriend as you might have known, so there exist variables which change the dynamics of time and when and why she would crawl back.

The main reason, the underlying one, why my fuck-buddies would come back, was first off NOT the sex!

I repeat: girls do NOT come crawling back to Kenny because of good sex!

Honestly- I’m terrible in bed! And that’s being real [from a penetration standpoint mainly]!

What gets women hooked to me sexually that they have to come back be it after 2 weeks or 2 years, are the theatrics and the rituals apart from penetration.

Sex is 90% non-physical (as for myself)!

If she just wants and needs a guy who can penetrate her; dildos are there for that.

What the dildos and sex toys can’t provide are the drama, mind-fuck, psychological stimulation and roller-coaster rides.

I put very little emphasis on the penetration aspects of sex [only 10% or less].

Therefore, whenever I have sex with a girl or leading up towards it, I will have gotten her pissed [think make-up sex], crying or wondering whether I was sane or just broken out of an asylum.

Women are fueled by drama and live on drama like a ritual!

Once you can create a ritual out of sex which drives women crazy, they will always miss that since 9 in 10 times; they won’t get it from any other guy since most guys are under the illusion that “good sex and dick size” keep girls coming back.

I have guy friends who brag about toting 12 inches (including women to vouch for them), yet these dudes are only good for 1-offs: 1 bang and go. Chicks don’t ever return for seconds.

It’s because these guys (the average male) put 90% emphasis on penetration opposed to creating some sorta drama during or before sex, with foreplay and teasing being a huge part of sex also.

Most men are so sex-crazed that once they get some alone time with a girl they’d screwed once, they virtually rape the shit out of her with without foreplay nor theatrics.

This can only take you so far.

Therefore when a girl runs back to me after 9 months or 3 weeks, it’s a confession that she isn’t getting such stimulation (sexual drama) from her boyfriend or any guy for that matter.

She isn’t running back to me because of awesome SEXUAL penetration out of this fucking world!

I’ve made girls cum from sheer dirty talk (some drama again) without even fucking them. And yes they’ll hit me up days, weeks, months and years later under the guise of missing the sex [sex we never had] and wanting to hook up.

Hence for my shortcomings in bed [simply not giving a shit about penetration], I make up for them in various ways.

The fuck-buddy girl whom I wrote about was simply missing the sexual drama and had to come back for some more.

Not only was she cheating [a huge source of drama in itself] but hinted that her boyfriend was also cheating so that gave her justification to creep with me [more drama].

Therefore the ways in which to get a fuck-friend to come back, and by extension an ex-girlfriend are:

1.) Create drama and ritual

2.) Create sexual drama

3.) Use lots of foreplay

4.) Use freeze-out tactics whenever things fall apart

5.) Let time run its course as your ally

These tips are also super applicable in cases where the girl had dumped you.

The only way to get a girl back is through freeze-outs which is the opposite of chasing and calling her.

Before I go, another former fuck-buddy hit me up earlier today [March, 10th.] virtually begging for sex.

This’ a chick whom I haven’t heard from in like 4 months. Last time we spoke, she literally blew me off and flaked due to some unknown reason then I got these Whatsapp messages from her today [my txts in white, hers in blue]:

As you would’ve gathered from the messages, she came over and we fucked.

She too has a boyfriend (as the other girl)…a husband actually. Once again, it goes to show that majority of women whom you will have met and shagged, will be taken and in relationships/marriages [there’s no such thing as a “Single” girl].

Such is the power of freeze-out tactics and giving women sexual drama and drama in general.

The only way to get a girl chasing you is by creating drama and ignoring her for extended-durations of time [unless she’s easily submissive].

Any dating coach who says that he can teach you how to get your ex back or a fuck-buddy back by remaining in constant contact with her, that dating coach or blog-writer needs to be put out of business or put to shame.

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Get Girls To Send You Naked Pictures [Video Tips]

Who would’ve thought that getting a girl to send a guy some nude pics was actually an art form?

Well it is, an art which often boils down to persuasion tactics.

Apart from trying to persuade her to send some tits and ass shots, there are other key factors just as important:

* Timing

* Time of day

* Feel-out process

* Reciprocation

So it’s not just sporadically asking her to send you some nude photos on the fly. That’s the quickest way to get rejected.

In the video below, I quickly run down my top 8 tips for getting girls to send me nude pictures without an ounce of trepidation.

Not to blow my own horn, but I have a 9 in 10 success rate of getting chicks to actually send me explicit photos…

#Just saying ;)!

The Only Downside To Watching Porn And Masturbation…

Now, my take on masturbation usually shocks the men’s lifestyle community (including Pickup) in that I’m 1 of those rare dudes in this genre who doesn’t have a negative take on spanking the monkey.

I advocate masturbating for various reasons which I’ll address in a future article.

The only physical and psychological downside to masturbating is:

It deters you from picking up chicks.

Why and how so?

It’s simple:

You’re getting a quasi-sexual gratification plus ejaculation from masturbation [wow, that actually rhymes]!

With that being the case, most guys are psychologically and sexually satisfied, which leaves no real impulse nor pressure on the guy to go get laid.

I find that this actually happens to me.

Whenever I fap, the prior urge which I had for fucking a real-live pussy would have dissipated so much so that I can go to bed somewhat gratified…[at least I came ❓ ].

With this being the case, some of us, including myself at times, become complacent in knowing that if we don’t manage to get laid within the next 3 nights, we can always fall back on stroking the chicken.

In theory; this isn’t fucking bad!

It makes all the sense in the world that if you don’t get laid, go masturbate instead!

That’s pretty logical!

Where the dichotomy comes in is that knowing you can masturbate to get sexual gratification, you physically and psychologically become lazy in your pursuit of women.

Hypothetically speaking, had masturbating not been an option, we would actually pursue sex with a fervor and vigor more intense than Lou Ferrigno morphing into the Incredible Hulk!

Incredible Hulk photo courtesy of www.tubapants.com

Incredible Hulk photo courtesy of http://www.tubapants.com

Thus, having masturbation as a fall-back option, we men tend to become complacent in our pursuit of poon.

For instance, an average Joe who’s going through a pussy drought where nothing is happening for him, no prospects- new or old, his default action won’t be to double down on the amount of women he talks to or frequents, but to dabble in porn…and I don’t mean making it, but masturbating to it.

So that impulse to drive harder, try harder, game stronger, would actually not come to fruition as he can easily think of the next porn to download.

As for myself; am I addicted to porn?

Perhaps!

Which also speaks to a belief that I always held as true, which is that no matter how often or how much a guy gets pussy: he will still masturbate!

Getting laid doesn’t mean Sayonara, Adios to masturbation!

Women, not being privy to the male’s behavioral pattern, often get this point misconstrued.

Moreover, I’m testimonial to this fact! I get laid! Plus I’m in a relationship (however not exactly monogamous and not exactly open), yet I still get that sporadic call to spank the monkey at least once or twice a week.

Therefore, getting laid more doesn’t mean you’ll be kicking your porn habit.

Ok, back to the original point ; fapping makes you lazy and not want to pursue women as vigorously.

The solution to this is either 2 things:

1.) Quit masturbating [way easier said than done].

2.) Learn balance.

Realistically speaking, I have zero-fucking intention to quit masturbating, which is why my recourse has always been to limit it via Balance.

What I mean by balance is that I refrain from jerking off on the weekends whenever I know that I’m going out, and I will need every ounce of psychological and physical will-power to pull some bitches [pardon the French ;)].

I won’t masturbate on a Thursday nor Friday night, knowing I’m going out later that Friday night, or I’d just elect to not go out at all since my sexual itch has been scratched somewhat by masturbating earlier.

That is bad timing and it induces laziness.

Now on a Tuesday night where nothing much is going on, no prospects or booty-calls, but the urge for sex comes; I will masturbate.

I’ve read countless stories over the years of Game-bloggers taking no-fap challenges and failing miserably. So setting up your mind to quit masturbating has been proven to not be a viable objective for 100% of us in this genre of lifestyle and pickup.

Balancing however is more plausible and workable.

Just simply balance the days in which you masturbate from the days you abstain (biweekly basis) based on whatever you have going on for you on a personal level.

If you have plans to attend a birth-day function or social gathering of some sort on a Wednesday night, and you intend to meet women; then take mental note ahead of time that Wednesday should be a day of fap abstinence.

Short-term goals as such are very very doable!

However, to say that you’re not gonna wack off for the next 60 days, you’re virtually setting yourself up for an epic-fucking failure!

If you’re lost as to what I’m getting at in this article overall, I’m basically putting it out there that masturbation makes guys lazy- physically and psychologically- and very much deter us from meeting women.

If you limit and balance the intervals of time or days in which you masturbate, you can still have enough vigor to hunt pussy while periodically masturbating without having to come up short on 1 end of the stick by sacrificing 1 for the other.

I’m out!

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15 Things Girls Say After Having Sex With Me For The First Time

1.) “I hope you don’t tell anyone”.

2.) “I hope you don’t tell your friends”.

3.) “Ah man, I can’t believe I just did this”.

4.) “I ruined my life”.

5.) “I’m so fucking stupid”.

6.) “What just happened”?

7.) “Oh my God, I can’t believe this just happened”.

8.) “Do you love me or is this just about a quick fuck”?

9.) “Am I just some easy slut for you”?

10.) “Hope you don’t see me as some easy chick because this happened”.

11.) “I might as well kill myself now”.

12.) “Don’t touch me”.

13.) “I’m not gonna swallow that”.

14.) “So I guess now I’m just another slut in your book”?

15.) “My boyfriend is gonna kill me”.

The Female Psyche And Plausible Deniability

In a nutshell, plausible deniability is the deflection of blame and responsibility. She doesn’t want to take responsibility (partially) for sex.

Women whom you’d just bedded will almost always try to disassociate themselves from the act of sex. One example is by not mentioning the word sex at all [90 % of the times].

They’d prefer to say, “something just happened”, opposed to, “we just screwed”.

In other words, trying to distance themselves from the fact that they slept with a new guy.

This is essentially Anti-Slut Defense (ASD) at work, which is a built-in defense mechanism that every girl was conditioned to have as she grew up.

Hidden in plausible deniability by Xsplat

Plausible delayers by Ricardus

It’s very rare that I screw a girl for the first time and she doesn’t respond with 1 of the 15 cliche remarks post sex.

In fact, I never had a girl just take the sex and not get all weird afterwards by asking me if I love her, how do I see her, etc.

As a master seducer, I understand why this happens, so it’s not like I’m puzzled and frazzled by these questions and remarks.

It’s just weird the things women do to save face.

Later!

Holy Shit: Women And Men Are Both Sex Deprived [The Craig’s List Phenomenon]!

After chatting over the phone the other night with a Jewish-hottie friend of mines from Brooklyn, New York, I realized something which I hadn’t given any thought to prior to our chat-chat: Women and Men are severely sex deprived!!!

We had a super-interesting dialogue about Craig’s List adult personal ads, which had encouraged me to check it out to really get a sense of what the site’s subsection is all about.

Haven’t visited Craig’s List before, I did for the first time last night (with my friend’s indirect encouragement), and holy fucking shit: my mind was blown to Smithereens!

I expended an hour’s worth of time browsing the personal ads (casual encounters) for New York state [males and females], and I almost caught a heart attack at how desperate these seemingly-normal people were just to find someone to hook up with!

Personally, I expect men to flock to such sites in droves out of sex deprivation, but women also!?

The Reason Men Resort To Craig’s List And Online-Dating Sites

Coupled with the fact that the internet has managed to turn most of us into lazy fucking specimens who want everything handy: fast food, instant pizza, instant-date, instant this, instant that, then we wonder why most of us are overweight slobs, but it gets pretty trickier as you delve into this phenomenon a bit further.

The average guy is on a quest for the proverbial-magic pill which he can ingest then POOF; hot women in lacy bras just materialize in his bedroom without having to lift a finger.

The guy who exclusively relegates and segregates himself to Craig’s List, and by extension online dating, has convinced himself that the only way he can attain quick sex is through the online route.

He’s also convinced himself that the real-world dating market (clubs, bars, street, etc.) is too hectic of an environment whereas he’s incapable of competing with the younger buffer studs out there.

This is also why (from my research last night) over 75% of the men on Craig’s List are over the age of 40.

Those guys are of the notion that the clubs scene is akin to a jungle of juvenile lions and they’re just too old to venture there. So the only other viable option is…[Drum roll…]: Online Dating and Personal Sex Ads.

With this being the case, the western world virtually has a shortage of available men…which leads women to have no other choice but to follow the trail and go where the men are- ONLINE.

The Reason Women Resort To Craig’s List and Online-Dating Sites

In the dating market, women are following men and vice versa.

Both sexes are sex deprived.

Since the available pools of men have depleted [a huge # have flocked to the net]; women are forced to seek sex online.

Not withstanding that chicks can always get cock at the drop of a dime, but there is a shortage of willing men ballsy enough to step up to the plate and approach hot women outside of cyberspace/the internet!

Hence the subsequent dilemma:

Girl wants cock, boy wants pussy, but boy won’t approach, girl feels deprived, boy feels deprived, boy goes online, girl follows boy (or vice versa)…both appear desperate, both struggle to get sex because boy tools himself with crappy game which makes him seem stalkerish, girl gets frustrated and gives up on seeking sex online, boy remains sex-less, girl gets back with a hated ex-boyfriend (due to sex deprivation)…

That’s it!

That is your typical Craig’s List scenario for both sexes!

The Hard Truth You Might Not Have Known

Women want sex!

Guys need to start fucking believing! this!

She wants sex but isn’t getting it!

She does have sex but it’s the arbitrary monotonous hook-up with the same-lame default guy she’s been banging for 9 months now.

She’s itching for the slightest plausible reason to ditch that guy for novelty aka new guy.

Women who are flocking to online-dating sites and sex personals are not your stereotypical 300 lbs. slobs who have no choice but to seek sex and love online.

On the contrary, the hottest girls are seeking sex online, or are at least dabbling in online dating!

Guys- what the fuck are you doing!?

I took a mock survey over a year ago via Facebook, where I’d asked 20 female FB friends of mines [my cousins actually…hot nevertheless]…and I asked them have they ever tried online dating: POF, Tagged, HI5, Match.com, E-Harmony, etc.

A whopping 18 out of the 20 said YES!

That is 80 fucking percent!

The point I’m getting at with those figures is to illustrate that the average hot Jane whom you encounter while heading to and from work, is most likely sex deprived, or at least is jaded of fucking the same guy she’s been shagging, therefore is engaged in online dating where she’s looking for discreet sex via the internet.

Your female co-worker, yes- the hot 1 with big boobs and goddess-like curves: she has an online-dating profile- guaranteed!

The Reality And Your Job As An Alpha-Male

There are tons of sex deprived women and men all among us in every nook and cranny of society.

As a man, your sexual quest should be expedited and made easier since most men have jetted online, so there’s in effect less men out there like you…i.e. less competition.

I’m not saying to scrap your online-dating account altogether [although that is recommended]. What I am saying is that if your mission is to hook up and look for easy sex; your goal can be attained within your personal life from meeting women on your way to work, from work, at church, at school, at the park, on the bus, at Burger King…

Women are out there to be met and fucked from every enclave of the public domain as cited in the previous paragraph!

Reverting to Craig’s List where you desperately hunt for poon like a stalker weirdo with a dick pic’ accompanying your profile, you are making the process more difficult and time-consuming: waiting for ad replies, site restrictions, competition from other weird guys, etc.

This can all be eliminated by simply manning the hell up and taking a walk to your local grocery store.

You’re not going there to buy women but to meet women and hook up without the customary hoopla which accompanies meeting women online.

I also noticed that lots of men are seeking kinky stuff and have fetishes galore.

Cool! That isn’t a problem.

If you have a BBW big-girl fetish, there is no shortage of fat girls roaming around.

You get the point!

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