How To Get Sexual With A Girl… Who Invites You Over To Her Place

“Think Of Yourself As The Master Seducer”!

Every now and then, I’m compelled to knock up a profound and extensive piece on matters of seduction.

As you would’ve noticed of late, the vast majority of my posts have been Text-Game related: spirited and concise.

While that is great and all, learning how to text girls has its obvious limitations; which is that you cannot realistically get your penis inside of a woman’s snatch by textual means! πŸ™‚

No stunning revelation there, right?


With that being said, as the title clearly indicates, this article will help you navigate your way through the scary waters of getting sexual while back at the girl’s place.

Now, by whichever mean the girl grants you a lucky invitation to her pad- just consider yourself lucky- while realizing that an invitation to a girl’s place is akin to fucking her without actually fucking her…YET!

Seduction and sex can only materialize by getting closer to the fuck location (I.e. the bedroom).

Having an invitation extended to “come over”, is like 10 steps closer to her bedroom, opposed from being in a situation where the girl keeps you at bay.

In any case- you get invited over- what should you do!?

Granted you already know that your objective should be sex, or at least to get something of a sexual nature started.

Are we clear on that?


Allow me to expound then, on what should be your aim here!

If you’re unfamiliar with the underground Seduction Community (aka the Pick-Up Artists Community), our schools of thoughts, teachings, theories on dating, etc. allow me to share this piece of tidbit with you:

It’s About Getting Laid!

Everything is predicated upon that goal!


I can see your jaws dropping while reading that!

Being a regular consumer of mainstream-media dating advice, which preach stuff like, “casual sex is evil”, I am hard-pressed to believe that you didn’t just panic at the thought of trying to get sexual with a girl whom you never hung out with on a 1-on-1 level before.

Well- I’m assuming that’s how you ended up here- you want to get sexual with the girl who invited you over!

As a Master Seducer, guiding you to that mean, is right up my alley. πŸ™‚ πŸ˜‰

For starters, I must lay the following caution out there: although the attainment of sex should be your primary and ultimate objective while at the girl’s pad, if it doesn’t appear likely, you should NOT force it!

View the process of getting laid as baby-stepping things, rather than jamming shit through at all costs!

Clearly if there’s an unambiguous opening, you want to seize the moment and exploit it by making something grand happen [i.e. make out with the girl]. But if no clear opening presents itself, you want to baby-step it.

Additionally, always be mindful of the small wins and small gains.

It’d be lovely to get the sex on the 1st date, 1st. night, first time at the girl’s place.

That is ideal!

However, if it doesn’t go down on the 1st visit, any small gain will suffice.

What kills most guys and lands them in the dreaded friendzone, is that they don’t even try to get on 1st. base on the first date, rendezvous and so forth.

Therefore, they leave the girl with the impression that they aren’t romantically interested in her, but solely interested in being platonic friends.

It is for this reason [avoidance of the friendzone] why YOU OUGHT TO ESCALATE in romantic, sexual and or physical fashion!

You merely want to give the girl the impression that you’re sexually attracted to her.

The easier and most salient way to communicate this is by trying to Touch Her.

I’ll explain later on.

With that out the way, let’s proceed to the good stuff.

“How Do I Know That She Even Wants Me Romantically”?

As a rule of thumb: if a girl dares to invite you to her domain, ASSUME THAT SHE WANTS TO FUCK YOU, or is at least open to the idea of fucking you!

Work from that assumption in such a case.

If a woman invites you over, don’t just assume that she’s expecting to have platonic chatter about the weather and shit.

The mere fact that she desires for you to meet her in private- at her place at that– what better reason would you need to jump to the conclusion that she’s interested in being more than friends?

The thing is though; she may very well want you as just a friend.

However, you don’t want to leave this to chance by neglecting to make your moves.

Therefore, work from the assumption that she wants you to nail her in the sack!

Make her prove to you that she didn’t invite you over with the slightest intention for that to happen [SEX].

She’ll demonstrate this by either shunning your physical advances, or giving off an air of discomfort due to your advances.


Some days ago, I’d picked up a Cougar, who to my surprise, invited me over to her apartment.

It isn’t that this is so uncommon. But I really didn’t foresee this happening, especially within days of picking her up.

If anything, I expected a more ball-in-my-court situation, where I invite her over, or invite her out somewhere for drinks or something. But when she told me to “come over tomorrow in the afternoon” (upon giving me her address over the phone), I was somewhat sideswiped by her subtle command.

The following day, I arrived at her doorstep, to be greeted with a, “Come in Kenny! You don’t have to take your shoes off if you don’t want to”.

I did remove my slippers however [I’ll speak more on this strategic play, shortly] and entered.

Cougar: “I live alone. So you don’t have to be alarmed. I prefer living alone since I’m big on privacy”.

She rambled on a bit, about how much she enjoys living alone.

That was definitely the tune I wanted to hear humming, since I’m HUGE on privacy, in that I expect it once I’m looking to get to know a chick better. And by, “get to know better”, I mean getting our physical extremities acquainted with each other’s. πŸ˜‰

While giving me the welcoming tour of her apartment, each room that she took me into, I strategically positioned myself closely in back of her, as means of raising the temperature a bit [key words: “a bit”].

We ascended a short flight of stairs, to where she showed me a set of antique stuff which was stored away in a compartment in the ceiling.

Again- I kept in close proximity- standing behind her, allowing her to guide since it’s her abode.

We entered another room, which resembled some sort of workstation with sewing material strewn all over the place:

Cougar: “Never mind this room and all the junk I have”…

She went on to explain the reasons for the untidiness of the room.

I frankly didn’t give a hoots about any of that.

All I was thinking was STRATEGY and OPENINGS!

Thus, while showing me around the untidy room, I purposely bumped into her and brushed across her body as if it were done by sheer accident. 😈

I spotted an opening…so I seized it!

What was this vague opening?

The way that the junk in the room were positioned, it gave me Plausibility to “accidentally” brush across her backside.

In other words: space was tight, so there was no other means of me traversing the room (as she guided) without making contact with her body.

Another PUA instructor, whose name eludes me at the moment, calls this “Accidental KINO’ [“KINO” being Pick-Up Artist Community lingo for making physical contact and touching].

Other examples of seizing openings which the girl presents you (whether consciously or otherwise), would be the following situations:

Β Β Β β€’The girl shows you around her place, she points at something on the wall for example (a photo, etc.). And while standing in back of her, you rest 1 hand upon her shoulder while looking up at the photo or pointing at it

Β Β Β β€’There’s something across the table, so you reach across in order to take hold of it. Meanwhile, you “accidentally” brush across her skin [better if she has big whoppers] while you lean across to seize the thing (for instance, an ornament, glass, toy, photo, your phone, and so forth).

Β Β Β β€’She asks you to do some little favor for her: such as to take something down from atop a shelf because she’s too short to reach it. There are tons of openings there to touch.

In an extremely lucky situation: she asks you to pin up, zip up, or zip down her dress since she can’t reach the zipper too well from the back! 😯

The point of all this guys, is to establish some TOUCH (however accidentally contrived)!

You want to Heighten the Sexual Tension, aka the temperature, by making the above-mentioned moves which I cited.

Operating from the Principle of Baby-Stepping (as I mentioned previously), there is no way to realistically cause any sort of discomfort or awkwardness, since nothing thus far is done overtly, rather naturally and “accidentally”.


Apart from seizing the openings which present themselves, you can force/create your own openings.

This may sound a bit scary to the risk-adverse crowd. But it’s pretty simple to be honest.

Here’s a perfect example of creating the openings.

While seated, you can say to her:

“What do you think about the recent pics I posted to my Facebook [or whichever platform you use]”?

Quite naturally, she would have to lean across somewhat, in order to see the display screen of yours.

That’s the trick!

You’re essentially baiting her to touch you.

As she leans across to see your phone, you would also lean across a bit towards her. So you 2 are meeting each other half way…in theory.

In such a situation, your shoulders should be against hers. Or arm against arm. Knee against knee.

If you’re slick and ballsy enough- and if the girl’s boobs are big enough- you can get some boob touching going on there, by having your arm slightly rested against (or under) her boob(s) as she leans in (or over) in order to look at whatever it is you are to show her on your phone, tablet, laptop, etc.

Although this would’ve been classified an accidental touch, the difference here is that you cause/created it, rather than waiting for an ideal moment where an opening presents itself.

I can give examples upon examples of similar situations where you can easily create openings for KINO (touching).

The following is actually my favorite, and I put it to use the other day while at the Cougar’s spot.

It is more overt and evident, but it’s very powerful yet subtle.

What is that?

While seated, I requested some water by saying that I’m a bit thirsty or hot.

She got up to grab me some water.

Before she came back with the glass of water, I quickly got up from the couch, hurried over to the wall which faced me, and went:

“That’s a cool ornament thingy. What is it actually”?

Quite naturally, she came over to where I was (toting the glass of water), hands it to me while describing the ornament thingy on the wall.

Within 1 finesse-laden swoop, I threw an arm around her shoulder, glass in my other hand while standing beside her with our hips glued together.

Now, why didn’t she have a negative reaction to such an overt move?

It was done naturally and plausibly!!!

It was called for!

Moreover, if she was expecting me to get romantic with her, then such a move would’ve been welcoming (as it was).

In any case, such gestures are rarely ever met with negative reactions, unless done forcibly, forcefully, nervously or awkwardly.

The beauty in following this Escalation Model of mines, is that there’s no real cause for nervousness, since every move thus far is light and innocent [baby-stepping].

Surely you may feel a bit (or lot) nervous if you’ve never embarked on such a mission, as trying to get sexual with a girl who invited you over.

However, being nervous isn’t a deal-breaker.

The girl isn’t likely to blurt out, “Get your fucking hands off of me you nervous loser”!

She’ll just make mental note of the nervous energy, realize that you’re a bit nervous, thus showing empathy instead of chastising you.

At times, a more direct girl may even say to you (upon making a move on her), “why do you seem nervous? It’s okay to hug me”.

Saying that bit to say: there’s no reason to beat yourself up because you’re nervous and sweating at the idea of throwing an arm around the girl.

She will understand why you’re nervous- because for that matter- if the shoe were on the other foot, where women were expected to play the active role of the suitor, she would be paralyzingly nervous! So embrace the nervousness if you’re feeling it.


the less work you appear to do, the better the impact.

The only time during a rendezvous, such as at the girl’s place, when it would’ve been socially justified, permissible and congruent to get physically aggressive with the girl, is during moments of levity, playfulness and lightheartedness.

This is where humor comes in. But that’s for another article, another time. So let’s proceed with effortlessness.

Quite naturally, while hanging out with a girl at her place, watching some television or a film on Netflix or Youtube, on a laptop, would’ve been suggested by her.

You might have met the TV set on upon entering the crib.

Having a TV on, or a film playing on the laptop, is NEVER a bad thing.

Something playing- even music- will help keep the awkward factor at bay; especially during moments of silence where you might have run out of things to say.

Something playing in the background will actually buy you time to come up with something new to chitchat about.

Hence, consider the television set being on, as your proverbial wingman. πŸ˜‰

Moreover, if you meet the television off, suggest to her that she turns it on.

You: “Is anything good on TV about now”?


She’ll get the hint and turn it on.

If you know of a good show that is on at the moment, you can tell her to turn the TV on to so and so network.

Personally, I don’t watch television at all [gave up on it over 6 years ago, because it’s a gross waste of time and life, when one could be crushing it at life, dating, etc]. But TV time comes in as a hindrance to success in every aspect of life.

Anyway, the only exception for me, is when I’m back at a girl’s place and I’m trying to effortlessly escalate towards Romance.

Therefore, that is the objective here as far as TV (or a laptop) is concerned: it is to build the mood, build comfort and to get closer to the girl, naturally and justifiably.

Saying that mouthful to say: tell her to turn the TV on, or to put a movie on!

Here’s the thing also: naturally, what happens whenever 2 people of the opposite sex, sit on a sofa in order to watch a good movie?

They naturally assume a snuggling posture by sitting closer.

It seems natural and requires little to no effort whatsoever.

Now, with that being said, what other move(s) requires little to no effort and comes off naturally in the moment?

Hand around her shoulder, or taking her arm and resting it across yours, while holding her hand.

Basically, you want to lean in or lean across, in order to close the gap if any exists.

Preferably, you want to do this as soon as the movie begins, or as soon as the TV set comes on.

The longer you wait to get this ball rolling, the greater the chance of talking yourself out of it, by playing out all these scenarios in your head, like the girl rejecting you or slapping you for taking her hand.

Hence, you don’t want to allow self-doubt to creep into the picture, and subsequently stymie the romance.

A guy who’s more seasoned, and a master seducer like myself, can afford to linger, dilly-dally and go at a slower pace, because I know I can ratchet it up at a moment’s notice, and still maintain a natural and effortless flow to it all.

For you on the other hand, don’t leave it to chance.

Again- don’t rush- but don’t take your sweet time.


If you knew you had 24 Hours To Live, would you pussyfoot around when it comes to getting lair, or any other endeavor for that matter?

Very unlikely!

You want to view every 1-on-1 meetup with a girl, as your last 24 hours to live.

Now, I’m not telling you to rush shit by trying to hump the girl as you enter her abode.

What I am saying, is that you ought to develop a “no time to waste” mindset!

If you knew you had 24 hours to live, a 2nd. date wouldn’t even enter the picture. You would go for broke right, then and there, at her place (granted she invited you over).

You don’t want to waste time. But you don’t want to rush either.



A balancing act.

It’s akin to racing a sports car at 160 MPH, while remaining cool behind the wheel, instead of actively jamming your foot on the clutch and gas pedals while frantically trying to hold the car on the road.

Therefore, while you’re accelerating towards a proverbial finish line [trying to get laid], you ought to remain cool while accelerating/escalating, and not hurriedly trying to seal the deal.


Guys tend to beat themselves up by wrongly perceiving failure to get sex, as failure indeed.

Listen- here’s the deal- no matter how smooth you are, how effortlessly you proceed, sex isn’t guaranteed on the first, nor the 2nd. visit!

Surely it would be ideal! But not a must!

The underlying objective of ‘TRYING’ to get sexual and or romantic, is to ward off the friendzone, and to give the girl the impression that you’re a guy who’s willing to go for it.

It isn’t on every occasion in which I get invited to a new girl’s place, that sex materializes (the first visit).

That [sex] only happens about 45% of the time. And I am okay with that because I’m focused on the ultimate objective [sex], and that may take a few visits to attain.

What I endeavor to achieve though, is to communicate to the girl that I have a dick in my pants, and I’m willing to use it.

Whether sex happens or not on the initial visit: that’s a mute point.

Bear that in mind.

As means of illustration, I published an article some years ago, where a chick had invited me over (upon my suggestion), under the guise of watching a movie.

Note: as I mentioned earlier; Always operate from the assumption that the girl wants to fuck you, hence why she invited you over!

Anyway, on her bed she lied while I sat.

Within minutes, I had her leg(s) across my thigh while I sensually stroked her toes and calves.

Was I nervous?

Not at all!

At the end the of the day, I didn’t manage to sleep with her that night.

The furthest it went was me fondling her breasts.

I didn’t see it as a failed attempt at sleeping with her.

I was satisfied with the small gains, comforted in the knowledge that the girl will likely have me over another night (which she did), which means I can continue from where I left off (which I did).


Always expect some form of resistance.

Resistance doesn’t signify rejection.

All girls will put up some sort of Resistance as the escalation gets more overt, rapid and sexual.

Welcome it!

Whenever she resists, look at it as though the girl is saying to you: “Not now. I need to be warmed up some more to the idea of sex”.


You back off or desist, then re-engage.

For example, with the girl whom I briefly touched on, while I was caressing her tummy and stealthily sliding my hand(s) up her shirt in order to fondle her tits, she would calmly slide my hand back down.

Essentially she resisted that move.

I obliged and de-escalated by placing my hand back in a neutral spot: her tummy and waists.

With that, whenever the girl resists and puts up some objection to your overt plays [ESCALATION], you simply DE-ESCALATE by going back to a quasi-safe spot!

As some minutes go by, you escalate again- for instance- by trying to go up her shirt once more.

Trying to get sexual with a girl, whether at her place or yours, is like a dance ritual or a session of PUSH-PULL.

It is rarely ever a smooth road to the top of the mountain.

Bumps, curves, potholes and other obstacles which make the ride unsteady, are always present on the initial or subsequent rendezvous.

The escalation toward sex, only becomes smooth-sailing once you’ve entered the girl’s vagina on prior occasions.

Once you’ve managed to have sex with a girl, all resistance, objections, games and hard-to-get ploys, evaporate from thenceforth.

However, before that happens; she will resist your sexual advances!!!!


Start LIGHT!

I repeat: start Light!

What do I mean?

Trying to tongue rape the girl out the gate isn’t kosher.

Your initial kiss attempts should be done LIGHT and LIGHTLY!

No lips! No tongue! But pecks!

Every concept of escalation that I’d pointed out to you thus far, has been predicated on the ideas of SLOW, GRADUAL, PACE-like and CLIMBING.

I mean, you aren’t stupid enough to just attempt to jam your manual-transmission vehicle from 1st straight to 4th gear, are you?

It’s a gradual climb through gears.

The same concept applies to getting sexual with women (under any circumstance).

You don’t just try to finger bang her out the gate, within 2 minutes of entering her home!

That would be socially stupid for lack of a better word.

When it comes to kissing, the same applies.

It should be a gradual ride towards the apex [lips upon lips, tongue in her mouth].

How do you kick this off?

Excerpt from an article of mines:

While seated on the bed as she lied on her back watching the film, I gently caressed her arm(s), stroking it ever so lightly as I caressed her fingers and stroked each one of them.

Intermittently, I would kiss her on the wrist, and gradually work my way up to her forearm and exposed shoulder blades.

As expected: not an ounce of resistance verbally, nor physically.

I repeated this sequence of wrist-kissing/pecking, forearm-kissing and shoulder-blade pecking.

Everything done lightly, sensually and gradually.

My goal in doing this, was to ultimately reach her lips in order to make out with her. But I knew the best way to achieve this with the least amount of resistance, was to gradually work my way towards it.

The kissing and pecking went from her wrist to her neck, with attention paid to every regions between those 2 areas of her body (from wrist to neck).

The neck is a more sensitive region and erogenous zone, than anywhere on her arm. So it’s a bolder and more provocative move, to plant a kiss on the girl’s neck, than it is to peck her on the fingers or shoulders.

Saying that bit to say: you are going from light to heavy in gradual steps.

Whenever the slightest sign of resistance occurs; you de-escalate from kissing/pecking and revert to caressing and stroking of less sensual regions (anywhere on her arm or below the thighs).

In my case though, as it was with this particular chick, she never resisted the pecking on her neck.

Why so?

For the most part, because it was done in stages, with social intelligence.

Look at the scenario this way: let’s say that I was a clueless lad- an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) as we’d say in the Underground Pick-Up Community– and I went straight for her neck, the very instance we lied or sat down.

Would that have been a socially awkward move or well-played move?

A social awkward move by far!

Again- it’s equivalent to trying to go from 1st. to 5th. gear- by bypassing 2nd. and 4th, while expecting the automobile to not stall out (i.e. the girl putting up stiff resistance).

Hence, had I attempted to go straight for the neck as we got on the bed to watch the animated flick, she would’ve been startled, taken-aback and likely voiced her displeasure in some form or the other.

She may look at you shockingly! 😯

Therefore, while getting sexual, you want to move slow!

I cannot stress that point more adamantly than I already have!

With women, you get major points for displaying social intelligence.

Women want to know that you know your way around the bedroom…proverbially.

In other words: they look at your actions with women [with her] in order to judge whether you’re unschooled or skilled with women.

If you go about this wrong (escalation towards sex), she deems you clueless and possibly a virgin, or a clueless imbecile with minimal experience with the opposite sex.

Women want to know and see (via action) that you’ve been there, done that!

That is why an experienced man (in the sack and elsewhere) is deemed sexy to women. While a guy with little to zero experience in the sack (i.e. a virgin), is often shamed and laughed at by women in their sexual prime.

The guy who has tons of experiences (or at least gives off that impression), exhibits social intelligence. Thus, it isn’t likely that he would try to hump the girl’s legs off within 5 minutes of being at her place.

Now, on the very opposite end of the spectrum, is another guy who lacks social intelligence (opposed from the guy who moves erratically): and he is the guy who doesn’t go for it at all!

Not going for it- especially when the girl expects it- is just as clueless as going for it with reckless abandonment at the wrong time.

There’s a nice, designated location for you guys who don’t go for it: the fucking FRIENDZONE!

It is better that the girl deems you as someone who rushes and operates at inopportune moments, than someone who never makes a move.

You want to leave the girl’s abode, with mutual acknowledgment that you went for it.

That is why there’s no failure here.

You would’ve only failed once you pussied out and didn’t make physical contact at all with the girl.

The next visit (if granted) would only make things that much more awkward for both parties.

The girl may very well misinterpret your non-contact and non-flirting, to mean that you’re only looking friendship.

Hello Friendzone!

At the end of the day, men are the ones who friendzone themselves.

Women don’t put men into the friendzone. Men jump in there on their own volition, by neglecting to make a romantic connection.


Okay, so assuming you followed the steps laid out for you- gradual escalation- what if the girl doesn’t put up any (or much) resistance?

Keep escalating towards sex: the grand objective!

If there’s no red light, why halt?

Now, this doesn’t mean to get reckless!

You want to remain cool under all circumstances here!

There’s a time and place for ravaging the girl’s body like a piece of meat. But now isn’t that moment; especially if you struggle with the idea of romance and getting sexual with a particular girl for the first time!

Anyway, while escalating towards sex, just be mindful of the fact that the vagina comes last.

You don’t just open a cinnamon roll pastry snack, which has cream cheese and jam in the middle, and go straight for the most delicate and tasty part of the treat (the center).

You leave the best part for last (i.e. the vagina).

In the event that you don’t get that far- in other words, the girl says she’s tired, she has to get up early for work, or it’s getting late, etc- you don’t then go for broke and take that to mean that she wants you to hurry up and fuck her [if she says she has to get up early for work]!

Bear in mind that your secondary objective, or 2nd. resort, is to secure a follow-up rendezvous.

If you fail to fuck her on that occasion, you want another shot at it!



With that, by mashing your foot on the gas pedal when the girl say, “can we continue another night”(?), you would’ve only been sinking your chances of securing another meetup.

Don’t get me wrong: you want to persist! But not if it means jeopardizing future chances of having the girl invite you over again.

Case in point: I didn’t get to sleep with the girl whom I lied down with while watching the Lion King.

She said that she’s getting real tired and had to get up early for work. So I persisted harder in a last-ditch effort at sex, but I noticed that she was genuinely tired, so I backed off completely, knowing that I was almost guaranteed another shot within days. So said; so done.

Had I gone for broke and pushed it to the point of hard objection (verbally, and or physically), all chances of having her invite me over again, would’ve been doomed!

However, she did invite me over again, and the deal was sealed shut! πŸ˜‰

I settled for the small win(s) until I was able to secure the ultimate prize.


When it comes to getting romantic and sexual with a girl, whether at her place or mines, my favorite move- which I haven’t yet named- is to get up (while the girl’s still seated), make my way behind her, in order to give her a neck or shoulder caress…or half-assed massage.


Sounds scary to you (if you haven’t been there yet). But it’s a piece of cake.

During my entire Pick-Up Artist career (which continues by the way), dating back passed a decade now, I cannot recall a situation where the girl stops me whenever I make my signature move of caressing her neck or shoulders from behind, while she sits.

Surely there’s been Token Resistance in the form of an exaggerated puzzled look, or even a, “What are you doing Kenny”?

Me: “Just take it easy”, as I proceed.

Not to belabor the point: but expect resistance! Just that there are TOKEN/ FAKE/EXAGGERATED RESISTANCE and genuine resistance.

How do you discern between them?

When the girl tells you, “Get The Fuck off of me you dirty fucking scum piece of shit”: it is safe to say that such a declaration would constitute genuine resistance!

Hence, back the fuck off…and leave!

Anything short of that, would be token/fake resistance.

I mean, if the girl truly doesn’t see you in that sort of way, then there would be no ambiguity about it once you pull such a move.

In addition to stroking her neck and shoulders while standing in back of her (while she remain seated), I would intermittently plant a wet one on her neck or should blade(s).

On a deeper level, I really do this as a way to turn the girl on without sending the alarm bells off.

The neck, in and of itself, is an erogenous zone, especially where the top of the neck and the base of the head meet.

Also, another sensitive-to-the-touch and erogenous zone is the ear (earlobe).

While standing in back of her, lightly caressing her shoulders, I would hold conversation (be it commenting on the movie, or something on TV), as means of leaning over and talking directly into her ears with my chin or cheek rubbing against her earlobe (or any part of her ear for that matter).

In addition to that, the hair from my sideburns or my chin, would act as a tickling agent against her ear and neck while I talk to her.

This is a very powerful move, yet innocent and seemingly meaningless.

The girl isn’t likely to conjure up all sorts of ideas in her head that you are doing this deliberately.

She’ll be highly turned on, even to the point of telling you to stop…”because it feels too good”. Or she would say, “that tickles”…which is code language for, “that turns me on a lot”.


Another solid, yet “innocent” way to get the girl turnt on without sparking much or any objection, is by caressing her knee(s) or foot.

If you’re grossed out by the thought of touching a woman’s feet- well- this isn’t the time to allow your phobias to cripple progress! So bury it in the name of getting laid!

Some weeks back, I’d picked up a sexy nurse online. But because of her hectic and unpredictable work schedule, the only place we were able to meet up, was at the clinic where she works.

As much as I’m down for making it happen- anywhere, anytime- I decided to be a good gentleman that night and take things extra slow.

After all: she was on the job! πŸ™‚

Anyways, while sitting on individual chairs which were bolted down to the floor, as we got settled in, I nonchalantly took hold of her leg (by the calf), hoisted it up and placed the entire leg across my lap.

I began stroking her toes and massaging her calf region (to no objection).

The objective, though to get her sexually excited, was simply to communicate:

β€’I’m a man who isn’t afraid to act!

Such move alone keeps you out of the friendzone.

Moreover, the girl isn’t likely to object to that either.

While having all these scary scenarios playing out inside of your head, the girl is there salivating in hopes that you would do something ballsy!


If you’re still feeling a bit fearful about getting sexual with a girl who’d invited you over, I’m going to shed further light on why this is so, and how to psyche yourself out in a positive way in order to tamper down this unnecessary fear.

Here’s the thing: men think logically, women think emotionally (in other words, illogically).

Read: Women speak in coded language.

In addition to that, men think in more direct ways, while women are indirect.

Indirect/ambiguous language [from women] throws guys off.

For instant (indirect language): the woman says to the guy, “I haven’t had a massage in ages”. The guy thinks, “why is she telling me this? Is she trying to say something”? In reality, the girl is actually saying, “I want a massage from you”. But the guy is thinking, “if she wants a massage, why not just say so directly”?

Hence the quagmire and dilemma in communication between the sexes.

In regards to that, the following’s a simple-little mental hack that might suffice with this breakdown in communication.

Imagine the girl tells you to “come over and fuck me”!

Would there be any hesitation and doubt in your mind as to what she wants?

Hells fucking no!

Would you hesitate to act accordingly?

Hells NO!

The absence of direct, plain language, is what cripples and befuddles the vast majority of guys.

We want to hear it straight up with zero fucking roundabout!

If the girl wants to get laid, we want and expect her to say, “I want to have sex! Come over and let’s have sex”!

Unfortunately, because of societal and social damnation (included backlash), women are forced to pretend as though they detest the idea of (casual) sex. 😦

Hence, you’ll never hear from a girl whom you’d never had sexual relations with, “come over and fuck me hard”!

What you can do though, is to interpret her innocuous invitation to mean just that: “come over and fuck me”!

A simple mental hack!

Operating from such a premise, you are likely to become fearless and ballsy, if you were to know for certain that the girl invited you over to shag down.

The uncertainty of the girl’s motive is a huge contributing factor to guy’s inaction and wussified behavior while in the girl’s company.


In closing, I want to end this article with another mindset-shift tip, in relation to escalation anxiety; in other words, FEAR.

A common rebuttal I get from guys whom I coach in seduction, is:

“But Kenny…what if I try to get romantic, sexual, flirty and stuff, and the girl shoots me down, or she doesn’t want to invite me over again”?

Such negative self-talk, talks most guys out of acting.

To that I say, “Well…if you don’t act, you’ll end up beating yourself up after the rendezvous, saying how you Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda”!

Nothing in the world stings more than leaving the girl’s place, knowing that you didn’t even make a concerted effort to get on 1st. base.

Contrarily, there’s no satisfying feeling than leaving the girl’s place, knowing that you put forth an effort to get laid. Even if you were unsuccessful (that night), or even if the girl flat-out rejected you (which is kind of rare in such a case): you still leave with your dignity and pride as a real muthafucking man- an Alpha Male- who manned up and did what was natural of him to do [to mate]!

Therefore- again- would you have rather exited the girl’s abode, knowing you were a giant fucking wuss-bag who couldn’t man up? Or would you have rather exited her crib, knowing that you manned up!?

I think the answer is quite easy!

On that note, you can grab your complimentary copy of Netflix & “Sex”, which is a guide I put together last year, on how to get sex from Netflix and Chill.

The only difference between what I taught you here and what is in the guide, is that the article is based on a situation where the girl invites you over. The guide however, deals with having the girl over at your place…to Netflix and “Chill”.

Netflix & “Sex”

You may also want to check out this accompanying video from me, from deals with certain aspects of what I shared with you throughout this article.

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I’ll leave you with the following 2 instructional videos of mines.

Just A Bit On Romance

The other night I had a girl say to me:

Kenny, you’re so romantic and sensual with women”. Most men I meet aren’t like you, and they don’t know shit nor do shit romantic. Most guys I meet don’t do foreplay. They just want to pull their pants down and stick it in”.

Almost every girl I hook up with feed me that story…which is true actually.

This makes a whole ton of sense now, why 99.5% of the girls I sleep with are either in relationships or marriages.

Their husbands or boyfriends suck shit at romance, intimacy and don’t do foreplay.

Listen dude, before I even penetrate a girl’s pink flesh, I would’ve already done about 45 minutes to an hour’s worth or foreplay (depended on how long she can stay over).

Sometimes, I don’t even bother penetrate the girl because she would’ve already came alone from the foreplay. And I would in turn settle for a blowjob if that’s all I wanted.

What kills most guys when it comes to the prospect of romance is the notion that romance equates to weakness.

Most guys hooked on the idea of machismo, let it overshadow their senses when it comes to getting a woman hooked and compliant to the idea of being penetrated over a long duration.

The truth is: romantic isn’t weak, and doesn’t have to be.

I mean- I am uber-romantic – but I’m never ever perceived by women to be soft and weak.

A simple way in which I manage this is by incorporating the dominance with the romance.

For example, even if I were to be kissing, licking and sucking a girl all about her body- let’s use her neck and shoulders for instance- although my kisses would light, gentle and tender (i.e. romantic), I would do something dominant and rough in order to balance things out (i.e. pull her hair back/down while I kiss/suck on her neck or bite her chin ever so gently).

With such an approach of mines, you don’t risk much as far as the dominance factor. And you maintain the romance aspect at the same time.
By the way guys, I’ll be putting together a document exclusively based on being romantic and dominant when making a sexual move on women.

Super-Rapid Online Pickup Of A Sexy MILF…From Zero Value To Making Her Chase [+ a touch of romance]

This quick Facebook pull goes back 2 weeks after I’d added this chick.

In my method, there are generally 2 approaches I use whenever pulling girls on social media (girls whom you’d added on FB for instance):

1.) Instant attack (while having no value or social proof)

2.) Lay wait while building value and social proof

Either approach depends on certain variables such as time and even my mood at the moment.

With this MILF, my intuition told me to try to pick her up ASAP, upon adding her (as she accepted).

Here’s the full interaction with breakdown between individual screenshots.

My opener was nothing elaborate or gamey at all.

My “Game” began after the opener.

Just a quick note: even if you don’t start out gaming the girl off the opener, you must crank that shit up or else you run the risk of losing her by boring her…and being friendzoned.

My only strategy here is to avoid not coming off as a needy chode. Hence I began my initial message/question by Omitting the question mark [adding question marks tend to make you look and sound needy, eager and desperate].

Additionally, pay attention to how I opened totally formal as I said I would. But then I immediate, 2 messages later, ramp up the ballsy, forward and sexual framing to begin “Game”.

Note #2: my vibe had a bit of romantic flavor at the end of the chat.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 1: So the opener was very neutral and non-gamey. But I wanted to set the frame from the get go that my intentions are to meet up. Noticed how I went forward immediately after my opener.

[Her messages in gray]

Screenshot 2: By telling her “we would make good cuddle buddies, I set the sexual frame EARLY” so that she knows the deal!

She kept harping on the pic, so I told her to forget the pic. That’s what you want to do whenever the girl laments on a topic that has already had its effect. Also, I show dominance and balls by doing this. Additionally, she was so shocked that I wanted her, that she had to try to make sure that it was her whom I was checking out since there were 2 women in her profile pic.

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 3: “Talk to me”, she says to me. We hadn’t even been texting for 1 minute, yet she’s already full-on attracted to my vibe to the point that she says “talk to me”. What did I do to flip that switch so hard to have a total stranger chase me within seconds? My ballsy/forward yet artful approach!

I told her I was more sexually attracted (sensually was a typo) to the girl on the right (in her profile pic)…which was her. Again, I doubled down on my “SEXUAL” interest so she doesn’t get the idea that I’m looking to be friends!

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 4: By telling her I don’t sugarcoat, I am setting a trap for her, to where she doesn’t fault me for being sexual and forward. Hence, I strategically followed up that comment with a super-sexual line about wanting to totally fuck her. πŸ™‚ She couldn’t have reacted negatively because I skillfully set the frame of someone who doesn’t sugarcoat. That simple trick of mines enabled me to render the girl sexually receptive to my forwardness.

Again: she wanted to ensure that I was speaking of her and not the other girl in her pic. This goes to show that she sees me as the chooser and the prize. She still couldn’t believe that I wanted her and not the other girl.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 5: humor, humor, humor is key! I continue to set the sexual frame since I now had immunity and permission to be sexual since I told her I don’t sugarcoat. Everything pans out perfectly because of that simple comment: “I don’t sugarcoat”.

Watch how she mirrors me (my statement) by saying “hell no”, after I’d said it. Whenever someone is attracted to another, he or she often mirrors that person (subconsciously).

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 6: she says “hell no” to being married because I said “hell no” to being married. Again- this is called “mirroring”, when a person uses the exact wording (or body language) of another. It says that you 2 are in unison and share a connection. So this was a sure IOI (Indicator Of Interest) that I’d managed to make her attracted to me from scratch.

Whenever a woman pushes rapport in such a situation, by asking questions such as, “how old are you”, it is generally an indication of her interest. BTW, I told her I was 33 instead of 34. I sometimes shave off a year. πŸ™‚

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 7: I honestly wasn’t trying to flatter her by saying 27. I had no idea she was in her 30’s.

My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 8: Women love guys who are straight up. I asked her that just to reinforce in her psyche that I’m a straight-up guy. This is also a common-psychological strategy of mines in deepening the attraction by leading the frame. Whenever a girl is significantly attracted to a new guy, she will tend to almost always agree with his frame, ideas, etc. Hence, when I asked if she likes guys who are straight-up, she said “yes”, following my lead.

When she told me she’s 36, what did I do? I used another powerful seduction tactic called “False Disqualifier”, by telling her she’s too young for me. By doing this, I am essentially blowing her off and rejecting her by saying that her age disqualifies her. This of course isn’t true, but it gives the girl a sense of loss and it makes her feel inadequate and self-conscious of her value.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 9: Again, I strategically blow her off by saying I don’t find much 37 year olds sexy…in essence. In the same breath, that comment of mines made her feel a sense of “special”, that I had chosen her. So it was an indirect compliment, hence the a-okay emoji she sent. So what did I do here? I broke her down while psychologically building her up. I indirectly told her she wasn’t my type [too young]- which was a letdown. Then I indirectly gave her a compliment for making my sexual juices flow…which gave her hope.

When I said to her, “you must be doing something right”, what was I doing here? I was establishing the frame that I, Kenny, am the prize! I am the one who chooses! She’s the one who’s vying for my approval! It wasn’t a case where I was fighting to win her. I framed it to look like she was trying to win me over by telling her she’s doing something right by getting my sexual juices flowing. She laughs “haha”, which is indicative of the fact that she knows what’s up.

Again, I double down on being the one of higher value- me that is- while she’s the one chasing me, trying to win points. Do you see how powerful this is and how I got this random stranger to chase me?

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 10: I play hard-to-get by insinuating to her that girls over FB don’t get my attention easily. What does this line do? It lets her know that I am a man of higher value who doesn’t just entertain any woman…so consider yourself lucky πŸ˜‰ .That’s the message I sent there. Her reaction was “WOW”. She was shocked to come across a guy who’s (so) selective, since 99% of men online are desperate losers who chase.

I gave her an indirect compliment by saying (indirectly) that she’s cute, and I could bet that lots of younger guys try to get with her. This is also indirect flattery. But again, I framed it in a way that made me the prize.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 11: She is now qualifying as we’d say in pickup. She’s now trying to prove to me how wanted and desired she is, when she mentioned the guys who want her, and also telling me that she has a side chick in London. Do you see what’s happening here? She’s full-on trying to prove herself to me. Additionally, why do you think she’s so comfortable with divulging such info to me, essentially not a care of running the risk of looking slutty? Because she’s comfortable since I led/set the frame early that I don’t judge women. And secondly, she’s trying to prove to me that she’s sexually worthy of my attention.

With that, she basically admitted to having a BF who’s 33, and a side chick in London: which means she’s bi-, and is cheating. She’s comfortable with saying these things to me because she sees me as an authority who doesn’t judge, and someone whom she’s trying to please.

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 12: Do I judge her for being a girl who sleeps around, or do I applaud her on her sexual liberty? I commend her by reacting in the positive by telling her that she must have a sweet pussy since she’s so desired. Most men would’ve judged the girl negatively for saying what she said, and essentially killing their chances by judging the girl.

I bring attention to a commonality by telling her that we’re in the same boat: we both have someone. Whenever a girl tells you that she has a BF or some significant other, you always want to counter/match that by telling her you also have someone! In seduction, this is called “Pre-selection”!

[[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 13: I get straight to the point so she knows that this isn’t just some endless convo to nowhere-ville. Always get to the point after you would have built enough attraction as I did!

Additionally, you may ask yourself, “but Kenny, you keep calling her babes. Isn’t that lame and cheesy? And wouldn’t the girl think you’re needy and desperate”? NO!!! It’s all about the context! I am not referring to her as “babes” in a cheesy low-value manner. I am doing so from a higher-value position in comparison to hers. Once you have a girl significantly attracted, what would otherwise see as lame, cheesy and has the potential to get you rejected, would be nullified and interpreted a positive. Also, I was setting a forward, romantic vibe.

Anyway, I let her know that I was to be in her town that coming Saturday (2 weeks ago), and we should meet up the Saturday night.

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 14: by her essentially asking where will I be staying, it was a clear indication that she’s down to meet. She knowing where the hostel/guest house is, was a huge plus on the logistical front. Also, I was assertive in my plans, that she should meet me there, on that date and time. Which guy does things this way? A guy who doesn’t get laid, or a boss who has tons of options? A boss! A boss doesn’t ask! He tells!

Also, by saying “balcony”, it offsets the impression that I was trying to say, “come over and let’s go straight to my room and fuck”! Bear in my mind that a woman’s #1 fear is to be perceived an easy slut-bag. By me strategically saying, “balcony”, it alleviates the slut aspect- because after all- we’re not going to be in an enclosed place where sex could happen. πŸ˜‰ “Who has sex on a balcony anyway”!? Be strategic!!!

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 15: “So soon”? Her sole reaction to me setting plans for ‘US’. Did she object to the plan at all? Or was she just asking “why so soon”? She didn’t object to the rendezvous plan. However, the reason she said “so soon”, was not only expected by me, but it is what we call “Token Resistance”. The girl IS down, yet she gives a little token/fake resistance in order to avoid looking too eager and too easily sold. With women, it is all about not looking like an easy slut. Therefore, she spouted out, “So soon”? Most guy being dummies, would’ve interpreted “So soon”, to mean that the girl is rejecting them or their plans. I knew better than that, that it wasn’t a rejection, but a psychological ploy in order to protect herself in the event of sex happening. Additionally- and this is real powerful and deep- a girl will give token resistance ahead of meeting up, as a way to disassociate herself from the burden of responsibility in the even that sex happens. She can always say as justification, “at least I questioned him…by asking ‘why so soon'”.

Read this stunning article of mines to get a better sense of this: Your secret ally to getting laid easily…”Plausible Justifiability”

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 16: Humor! Always learn to pepper in some humor into your overall game. Steer clear of serious tone, while erring more on the side of humor. Hence my line about nonalcoholic cider.

Question: what is arguably the biggest piece of advice I give you guys in relation to online game and text game? Always end it first!!! Hence why I fibbed and told her that my phone was dying. Anything just to end the conversation first! By ending things first (as the guy), you rattle the girl’s reality and perception of how things should be. Women should be the one telling the men that they (women) have to go. When you flip that script as I do, you simultaneously build massive amounts of attraction by essentially blowing the girl off and giving her a dose of her good-old medicine.

Also, I was angling to secure her # since there was no logical reason to continue building attraction when plans to meet were already set. She gladly obliged to coughing up the digits (as expected). I didn’t beg or ask for it like most guys of low-value do. I assumed the sale! I gave off the vibe that it was a given. So it’s much more confident and assertive to say, “Let’s”, when securing her phone number. By “asking”, by saying, “Can I have your #” [it makes me wanna punk just by typing that], it makes you sound like a homeless guy on the streets begging for spare chance.

Again- I looked to end thing by telling her “talk tomorrow”. Here’s the thing guys: you don’t have to actually end the chat at all πŸ˜† LOL! Merely saying it [“talk to you later”] will have sufficed with the same amount of positive impact. So, a very key tip for you guys.

To further solidify her desire to meet up, she tells me to get her champagne and not wine. So, does this chick want to see me at the designated time and place set by me? YES!! Apparently! If a girl isn’t interested, she would never dare to insist or specify some aspect of the proposed rendezvous.

Over time, you will learn how to read these subtle signs and giveaways.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 17: So, apparently, though I said I have to, “TTYL”, “chat tomorrow”; I am still messaging her. So this hearkens back to the point I made above, that you don’t actually have to end the convo at all. Just show the intent by saying so, and you could keep talking. In pickup, this subtle tactic is called a False-Time Constraint, where you falsely give the girl the impression that you’re going/leaving, only to make her panic a bit, while actually staying. Sounds innocuous but very deadly (FTC)!

I employed another 1 of my favorite and potent ploys by telling the girl that we have lots more to talk about. This technique of mines [I actually pioneered it in the pickup community] is called “Building Curiosity Loops”. There are others forms of it, but I originated this 1…at least in the seduction community. By saying to the girl that you have something to tell her, it will keep her on the hook in a state of anticipation ans suspense, wondering what it is you have in store. You’re basically forcing her to become curious…hence a “Curiosity Loop”!

How was her reaction?

Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 18: she rejoiced by sending a puppy emoji while saying “seen”. The word “Seen”, in the Caribbean-English jargon means “I gotcha”. Hence, “seen” isn’t used as the past participle of the verb “to see” (in the Caribbean). Instead, it is used to mean “I copy that”, “I gotcha”, “Roger that”, etc.

I then strategically gave her some rationalization as to why I decide on us meeting so soon (within a week of meeting online) rather than later. What was my rationalization to her? “I don’t live here” [in her town]. I’m merely visiting. Hence, it is only logical to expedite the meetup since there’s no telling when I’ll be back in her town.

I talked about this strategy in the following video of mines.

If the girl believes to herself that you have all the time in the world to meet up; she will purposely try to put it off and drag it out as long as possible. By telling her “I’m only visiting”, it justifies my hastiness. Capiche? So, always do your best to ensure that you give the girl a sense of time is limited. Even if you have to lie to the girl in saying that you reside in another city when you truly live next door to her; DO IT!!! She won’t hold it against you (for lying) if and when she discovers that you live right in her town! In the grand scheme of things; she wants to hook up too. What is a lie if it means the facilitation of the lay? She will understand why you fibbed.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 19: As further evidence of her wanting to meet up, she hopes that I like her down-to-Earth style.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 20: Feel free to compliment a girl on her PERSONALITY! Not her looks/outer beauty! In fact, 1 of the first videos that I ever posted to my Youtube channel or anywhere, detailed my format for complementing girls by using the SPA Model of complimenting, which I’d originated over 7 years ago: “Style, Personality, Attitude”! By complimenting the girl on those intangible aspects, you’ll avoid looking and sounding like a lame ass-kisser. By me telling the MILF that I love her down-to-Earth vibe, it was a compliment on a personality trait, and NOT a physical one. Here’s 1 of my first ever pick-up related video posted to Youtube years ago! This was over 5 years ago before the revolutionary HD pickup videos and fancy annotations. πŸ˜†

[My msg in blue]

Screenshot 21: I get a bit romantic in a humorous way. This is not seen as needy and weak because I’d already set an Alpha and sex-worthy framework from step 1.

When I told her “let’s sleep”, I was again telling her “bye”, but she took that to mean that I was telling her let’s actually sleep together. Hence she said “Come”. πŸ™‚ …as in come over to sleep. I think it was pretty clear that I’d managed to get her into a hook-up frame as I skillfully planned to do.

With that, it was all set: we were on for Saturday night which was a week away from that time.

The chat-to-pickup all took place on October 4th. We texted on Whatsapp (on the 6th).

[My texts in green]

She asked me to send her some pics so I did…even semi-nude shots.

Anyway, so the $ million question is: did we meet up that weekend (2 weeks ago)?

If I tell you, you won’t really believe what transpired.

If you follow my Facebook fan page, and or friends on my personal FB account, then you would’ve known what actually happened.

We did not get to meet up, thanks to the passing of hurricane Matthew which missed the island, but apparently knocked out cell services on my cellular network. 😦 😯 😑

I was fucking livid!!!

Here’s a status of mines from that same weekend!

The MILF was supposed to meet me at my guest-house on Saturday evening. But my network was down from 7 AM until upwards of 9 fucking PM the Saturday!!! Some people didn’t get service until the following morning!

Essentially, I got fucked out of almost sure poon by Hurricane Matthew and my cellphone-network provider! 😦 😑 😑

How fucking unlucky must I have been!

By the way, the cellular network name is Digicel (out of Australia), which is the most widely known and used in the Caribbean.

Girls on my Facebook weighed in on the frustration.

I could neither make, nor receive calls, nor use the internet. The only thing that was up was WIFI service and the other cell networks that Hurricane Matthew didn’t disrupt.

By the time service was restored Saturday night, it was already too late to contact the MILF to come meet me. I still tried…to no avail since her service wasn’t restored.

Luckily for options, I hit up another chick whom I’d pulled on Facebook weeks prior, she met up with me on the fly for drinks, I took her back to the hostel and got the bang notch.

A testament to the beautiful fact that learning to pick up lots of women is always the best route to take.

There it was that my Saturday plans with the sexy MILF got fucked at the last minute in unforeseen fashion. Yet I was able to still get a new lay that night by sheer luck since I didn’t even plan to meet the girl whom I laid that night. I’d messaged her in hail-mary fashion with my fingers crossed, hoping for the best.

All in all, the MILF is still down for seeing me eventually. I just don’t know when that will be.

The primary lesson I wish for you guys to take away from this article, is how potent of an instant-attraction builder it is whenever you adhere to my simple method of pickup!

It all seems complex on the surface, but it is super easy to field test and apply successfully within no time.

The problem is that most guys don’t expect to failure before they master the method.

Additionally, I want to point out an even more bigger aspect of seduction which I’d utilized in this online pull: FRAME!!!

It’s all about leading with the right frame and always having your goal in mind, which should be to meet up then hook up.

You set this leading frame by doing exactly what I demonstrated: get sexual and forward ASAP!!!!

By doing so, the girl doesn’t make that mistake of thinking that you’re looking to become text-pals or friend-zone buddies.

It’s all about the vibe you set from the gate. Had I come off as some wuss-bag or a guy who pretends as though he doesn’t have a cock in his pants by giving off a Mr. Respectful vibe, the girl would’ve accepted and followed that asexual frame, thus responding in a friends-only manner.

At no point was my vibe asexual, timid, chummy and cordial.

My vibe, approach and method give women permission to be slutty, because I don’t make that mistake of coming off as a guy who judges women for being sexual beings.

The underlying reason why girls aren’t open just meeting with you and fucking you, is because they are petrified of being judged by you!

You are guilty of somehow inadvertently (and willfully) giving women that impression and fear, all because you thought that it would’ve been the better approach to come off as a friendly respectable guy! Therefore, women are forced to play the super-cautious role.

By giving off the vibe of an untamed rebel who does/says whatever he pleases [as I do and did with this girl], women will reward you by showing their true colors: someone who wants to hook up!

Lastly, and in conjunction with the aforementioned, I must touch on my favorite line: being someone who doesn’t sugarcoat.

If you sugarcoat; she will sugarcoat! Don’t sugarcoat, and she won’t!

Tell the girl that you don’t do well with holding back your words. Whichever way you choose to phrase it; ensure that you get that message across ASAP: that you aren’t the type of guy who sugarcoats anything!

That simple line will give the girl permission to be open and slutty, just as how this hot MILF instantly opened up without fear, when she told me that she has a BF, yet is cheating on him with a girl in London, while her ex still wants to fuck her…or is fucking her.

What a confession!

I gave her permission to be comfortable in being slutty!

I’m only using “slutty” just to avoid deep semantics [there’s no such thing as a slut in my book].

You think she would’ve dared say what she said had I come off as this Mr. Respectable nice guy, who believes that all women are virtuous creatures to be treated as such!?

Of course not!

On a final final note, you would have seen numerous posts where I pounce upon girls as soon as they accept my friend request on Facebook; essentially having zero value to the girl since she doesn’t know a thing about me.

Other times, and equally so, you would see a protracted, methodical and calculated approach where I draw the girl in over time, build pre-selection and social value, then reel her in by commenting on her updates, and having her comment on mines by reeling her in.

Either approach is potent and yields results!

The latter approach of waiting and baiting is of course the more salient approach since the girl is allowed to get a better sense of your vibe and personality. But more often than not, in my case, it all boils down to time or lack thereof.

If there’s too much on my plate already; I’ll use the slower method.

If the girl whom I add is highly fuckable, I may decide to pounce fast!

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Sexy GILF Attempts To Seduce Kenny(?)

Ever watched 1 of those films, or even a porn flick, where the older woman gets a young hunk to come over to fix a broken pipe, change a tire, or any other such manual labor?

Well, I’ve actually never had that happen to me in my entire life.

Being that I’m a MILF-hunter, I sometimes dream and salivate at the thought of banging a granny (albeit hot).

Monday afternoon: finally a breakthrough after 34 years of walking the Earth (?) ❓

While taking a stroll in my neighborhood, an elderly lady (someone unfamiliar) calls me over to her yard:

“Young man, can you give me a hand moving these sofas around? I’m there alone so no one to give me a hand”.

Me: “Sure”!

At that time, I couldn’t assess her sexy figure because of all the clothes she had on. I never intended to see her with less clothes on anyway.

As I entered the gate to the yard, she hurried inside and told me to wait a sec while she move some things around. So I waited on the porch while she was in the house.

From inside, she yells “come inside”!

I softy jarred the door open a bit and peeked inside just to make sure I heard her correctly:

Me: “What was that”?

GILF: “Come inside”

She emerges out of the bedroom with a negligee type of thingy on, completely stunning the shit out of me!

Her boobs were basically bare and hanging out of her negligee top.

No bullshit, it was something very similar to the photo below, but the thingy was much shorter to her upper thighs.

GILF (Granny I would Love to Fuck)

Her breasts were also much bigger, so they literally dangled out of the top.

For crying out loud, I can’t believe I didn’t catch an instant erection as she came out of the bedroom.

I was in shock!!!

Not only was I not expecting this, but I didn’t expect this lady to look that fuckable with less on.

Furthermore, I was even more befuddled at the blatant move when she went to change from being fully garbed, to wearing something see-through and short. 😯

I have dreamt of this moment ever since a lad (fucking a GILF). It was 1 of those crazy boyish fetishes such as banging your junior-high school teacher.

“Will this actually be the moment it goes down”, I asked myself.

If she could make such an overt move, what else will she do?

She directed me on which sofa to move where, so I dragged things around, lifted a chair here, moved the TV stand, had to relocate the refrigerator too.

All the while, she was sitting while making small talk, then she would stand and move around, seemingly as an effort to put herself in my way.

I didn’t think much of it (as far as to make a physical/sexual move on her).

It was just so surreal, blatant yet subtle!

It all took about 25 minutes I believe.

I was offered some juice and we sat and chatted for a bit.

Damn she’s fuckable!

Her crotch was fully exposed to say the least!

Eventually, someone else came. I’m guessing it was someone who lives there with her.

She introduced me to her son.


Dude was in his 40’s I recalled her telling me earlier.

I’m only 34, and her son is older than me!?

Holy fuck! Then that means she’s in her 60’s.

For a 60-something year old: she was well shapely and on the youngish side as far as facial structure and body go.

As I was saying farewell, she then made an innocuous pitch to me about red wine.

She said she’s about to buy a bottle later on, and if I want to, I could stop by for a thank-you drink.

“Why the heck not”, I exclaimed to myself!

This lady has a plan and I am definitely down for it.

Remind you guys: this was yesterday afternoon [Monday].

I accepted the offer…but I wasn’t sure about the whole thing.

Call me pussy! But I wasn’t quite sure how to approach this.

What did I eventually do?

I swung by her road (on foot) about 7:45 pm since we agreed on 7-8.

I stood outside of her gate, contemplating the next move: “should I go in or abort the mission altogether”?

I beat myself up viciously for acting like a giant pussy!

I stood outside for what must have been 40 minutes, vacillated and unsure of how and when to proceed.

Here it is, I’m a master seducer who doesn’t feel an ounce of fear when it comes to going after what I want.

Here it is also that a woman was literally throwing the vaj at me, yet I had trepidation and second thoughts.

Thumbing away at my smartphone outside of her gate; I then walked away. 😦 😦

As I walked off, I beat myself up royally!

“What the fuck are you doing man!? Here it is you finally get to live out your childhood fantasy of shagging a hot granny, yet you blew it”!!!

My inner voice yelled at me in anger!

As the night progressed and I made my way back home (which was in the same area), the self-beating became battery in the 1st degree…upon myself…proverbially!

“How could I have punked the fuck out”! I said to myself!

I tucked myself into bed and dozed off. Needless to say, a fuck-buddy hit me up (woke me actually) exactly 12 am this morning. So I jumped out of bed, washed my face, brushed my teeth and head over to her apartment for the now customary hookup.

It wasn’t at all satisfying since I wanted to shag the sexy GILF (GRANNY I would LOVE to FUCK) so bad! Despite having sex this morning with the fuck-buddy; I still felt incomplete.

As I woke up this morning, I had to fucking redeem myself for bitching out last night on the GILF rendezvous!

That’s all I could think about!

I felt less of a man, less of a seductionist. I felt like my former-self: a Beta-Male.

I was NOT going to go out like this!

Hence, this morning on my way to work, I stopped by the GILF’s house.

It was even more scary now that it’s 8 AM, and I didn’t know how my visit was going to be received.

For all I know, her son might answer the door and wonder WTF am I doing here; especially this early!

Shit- he may even surmise that I’m looking to hit on her mom, thus get offended and drive me away.

All this bullshit inner-thoughts floating through my head.

“I cannot back out now…again”!

I opened the gate to the yard and walked around to the side of the house.

Lo and behold: I got startled by the GILF who was coming around the house at the very same time.

She was elated to see me.

This encounter turned into a 40 minute chat, where I apologized for not showing up last night for red wine.

More importantly, I number closed her just to be on the safer side. We exchanged #’s and I texted her this morning on Whatsapp.


Keep you posted.