This episode [the 20th.] of the Master Seducers Podcast addresses:
*Why you shouldn’t try to friend your way in
*The nice-guy syndrome,
*Why nice guys don’t gets laid,
*Why Kenny P considers quote-unquote “nice guys”, manipulators, deceivers, scammers and liars in regards to women
This podcast episode also addresses a PUA quagmire which is paradoxical and contradictive in nature.
As a PUA, so-called Natural, player, lady’s man, etc. you’ll typically find yourself in a precarious situation where seemingly loser types and AFC Beta’s, are presented with way more chances and opportunities to be in the company of women than you are presented with.
Although this may be true (on the surface), it still gets tricky and more nuanced than that.
Also, Kenny touches on a common question that is asked by newbie PUA’s in relation to the PUA quagmire and the “friend your way in” approach.
Lots of men are under the impression that it is a wise strategy to try to friend their way into a girl’s heart and vagina. In essence, risk friendzoning themselves while simultaneously aim to seduce the girl.
This is a failing approach by all means. Trying to friend your way into a girl’s vagina will only land you in the friendzone, and possibly get you slapped with a sexual harassment and or rape charge.
According to Kenny, the vast majority of “real” rape cases, is perpetrated by nice guys who’ve been friendzoned by their OTD (object of their desire aka their crush).
Guys who’ve been friendzoned do NOT realize that girls don’t fuck their male friends (i.e. guys in the friendzone). Hence, those guys eventually push the issue (physically), catch the girl off guard, try to get sexual then find themselves slapped with a sexual harassment charge or rape case if sex ultimately materialize.
With that, it doesn’t pay to try to friend your way in.
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