I great NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) tactic I wanted to share with you guys: the Yes Ladder.
This verbal technique is used in sales and marketing also. But heavily applicable to getting phone numbers and dates.
I great NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) tactic I wanted to share with you guys: the Yes Ladder.
This verbal technique is used in sales and marketing also. But heavily applicable to getting phone numbers and dates.
NLP seduction tactics is an undertaught subject in the game of PUA pickup and seduction.
Most guys simply elect to not go deep into NLP because it’s so nuanced and complex.
In this video, I demonstrate for you (via screenshots) how easy it is to use NLP tactics while texting girls, during text game and online game.
I show you how to use NLP in order to slip your message to the girl’s subconscious brain (her Hind Brain) while bypassing her logical-thought processes. But I do this in the form of 2 messages loaded into 1 text.
There’s 1 thing that all good orators and public speakers have in common [which the average mind cannot see]; the ability to hypnotize their audiences via NLP: Neuro-Linguistic Programming [visit: The NLP Mind website].
Since a kid, I’d always been fascinated by (global) politics.
It was and still is to this day an obsession of mines [politics and becoming a political-campaign speaker].
Politics has always consumed me, and I have a knack for spotting great politicians from the mediocre.
What makes a great political figure, apart from delivering what the masses need, is his or her ability to create a cult-like following, which can only be done through NLP.
This isn’t unique to President Barack Obama.
Political figures throughout recent history- good and bad- have made their marks in captivating the masses on a mass scale:
President Bill Clinton, JFK Jr., Fidel Castro [Cuba], Hitler [Germany], Saddam Hussein [Iraq] ,Osama Bin Laden, Reagan, Stalin [Russia], President Putin [Russia], even back in the 1800’s with Geronimo, the chief of the Apache Native American tribe which gave the US cavalry nightmares.
All those political figures (good and bad) had 1 thing in common: they were masters at using Neuro-Linguistic Programming [NLP].
Christians do not enjoy hearing this, but 99.9% of your pastors and preachers have used NLP to hypnotize you in order to get your undivided devotion- and most importantly- your “Money”.
Plain and simple!
We can use NLP for good purposes or bad.
In the case of someone who’s vying to become the next president/leader of a nation, using NLP to garner support and a following is a great strategy and a winning one in order to win elections.
Politicians who are poor at using NLP [tapping into people’s sub-conscience to persuade them], will always fail miserably.
Perfect example would be a Mitt Romney, former U.S. presidential candidate.
He couldn’t gain a following to save his life!
His greatest failure was his inability to connect with people: which takes NLP to achieve (on a mass scale as in politics).
Had Mitt studied some NLP [Neuro-Linguistic Programming] or perhaps stumbled upon a seduction blog [like Socialkenny’s], he would’ve defeated Barack Obama.
Now, did President Barack Obama study NLP [the art of persuasion and convincing]?
Yes he did!
It was part of his curriculum at the tertiary level of his education, including law school [Obama is a constitutional lawyer].
Lawyers, defense attorneys and prosecutors are all the greatest examples of NLP practitioners.
Johnny Cochran Jr. was a master at NLP [art of persuasion and convincing]; ala OJ Simpson trail.
Successful attorneys study NLP [art of persuasion and convincing].
Shitty lawyers suck at NLP and perhaps never grasped it when they were studying it.
However, all lawyers (good or bad) had studied NLP [the art of persuasion and convincing]!
The below image of me holding a book entitled “Reading People”, was given to me by a lawyer friend from Connecticut, which was handed down to him by his law-school professor.
This book of NLP and reading body language is treasured by all currently active lawyers.
This is the bedrock to every attorney’s repertoire as we all know [the ability to sway, lead and convince jurors and judges].
How good a lawyer will become depends on how good of a practitioner of NLP he is.
Just as they’re many Pick-Up Artists and seducers.
How good a PUA becomes will depend on how efficient he was in absorbing knowledge and applying it.
Sparing you the long-tedious details, NLP is a school of thought of hypnosis, which was created [NLP] in the 1970’s by self-help guru Richard Bandler.
The concepts and applications of “mind programming” and hypnosis, obviously existed from the beginning of time, so the art of persuasion isn’t something new, however it was put into a formula and given a name in the 1970’s.
The purpose of NLP is to persuade, convince and encourage people (for whatever reason).
Marketers, salespersons, porn companies, car-salesmen, supermarkets all use NLP [persuasion tactics] to get you to buy.
Virtually every Pick-Up Artist studies and uses NLP [persuasion tactics].
Some of us to a great extent, while others stick to basics NLP principles [weasel phrases and embedded commands].
Nevertheless, NLP is an integral part of the PUA’s arsenal.
Some methods of NLP-Pickup however, have been banned from the seduction community such as:
•The October-man Sequence
•The Rake Method
Mentioning the name of any of the above NLP-Pickup methods on any establishment- PUA forum will get you banned immediately!
It’s partially due to PUA community politics.
However, NLP-Pickup methods such as “The October-man Sequence” was dubbed a (date) “rape method”, and led to girls getting totally fucked-up emotionally and becoming obsessively in love within days!
For that reason, you cannot talk about, nor recommend “Forbidden Patterns Pickup Techniques” on any PUA forum, or you will be fucking banned!
To give you a better picture, let’s look at the PUA-Seduction community as a political party.
You have the establishment wing of the party [let’s use the GOP Republicans as a model]. Then you have the fringe elements [the Tea Party which supports cessation from the U.S., thinks Obama is the devil and the whole birther movement].
The PUA establishment would include: Love Systems (Nick Savoy), Real Social Dynamics (RSD Tyler), Venusian Arts (Mystery), PUA-Training (Gambler), Speed Seduction (Ross Jeffery)…
The so-called fringe elements of the party [PUA community] would include the NLP wing like: In10se [October-man Sequence], Derek Rake [Dark Rake Method], Jack Ellis, October-Man, Forbidden Patterns, etc.
The establishment wing views those elements [NLP wing] as radicals who should be quieted and kept in check.
The establishment guys all study and use NLP tactics by the way, so some would say that it’s hypocrisy.
Forbidden NLP [persuasion tactics] in the hands of the wrong PUA who has bad intentions with women would be disastrous, which is why Derek Rake’s Fractionation PUA method is banned on every PUA forum.
With NLP, you can convince a man that he’s a super-human who will take over the world one day- and he will totally believe it.
Think back to Adolph Hitler the Nazi leader, a perfect example of someone who used Neuro-Linguistic Programming with bad intentions, who had convinced the Germans that they were super-humans who couldn’t die and will take over the world.
Slavery in America was able to strive for 400 years through NLP patterns used by the masters and the Christian missionaries, who were able to convince the slaves that to rebel and seek freedom would be a sin.
That is the power of NLP [persuasion and convincing tactics]!
Many outsiders have dismissed NLP as skepticism and bullshit. But this is the same argument people make whenever they say Voodoo isn’t real and doesn’t work, until they take a trip to Africa or The Caribbean and hear current-news stories of a Voodoo doctor who had put a charm on someone which rendered him incapable of getting out of bed for weeks. Literally glued to their beds by some unseen energy, until another Voodoo doctor works a charm to break the initial spell.
So NLP is very real [but has many doubters], and in the wrong hands- can be disastrous.
A classic case of when to employ NLP [persuasion tactics] and on which girls, is as follow:
Let’s say that you really like this girl, but she doesn’t want to fuck with you at all (for whatever reason).
You’ve been trying and trying for weeks and months, phone game, text game, begging, pleading, but she just isn’t budging and doesn’t want to date you nor fuck you.
You’re not in the friendzone since you never came off as “just friends”, but she just isn’t interested in you, you aren’t her type and she tells you this constantly with a bitchy attitude and all.
An establishment Pick-Up Artist would just leave her alone and move on to gaming more girls.
A Pick-Up Artist who heavily subscribes to the “Hidden Patterns” NLP wing of the pickup community, would go to plan B: use NLP (persuasion) tactics on the girl in order to convince and persuade her to sleep with him.
How far he gets with this (if he succeeds) depends on how good he is at NLP [persuading people].
I’ve used NLP tactics to fuck girls, who prior, hated my guts with a passion!
So deep NLP is great to work on that 1 girl who just isn’t giving you the time of day or is blowing you off for weeks and weeks.
•Associate the other person’s good feelings with you
•Associate negative and bad feeling to your opponent
•Associate pain without you there (creating the impression that the person needs you)
For instance, a politician will present himself and associate himself with pleasure, good feelings, hope, etc., while associating his opponent with bad feelings, pain and negativity.
But it’s not just saying that your opponent is bad.
It’s actually saying that he is bad, and I am good.
You reinforce how good you are with embedded commands rather than saying, “I’m a good guy”, which gets tiring and won’t connect to the person’s subconscious brain.
Barak Obama is a master at embedded commands by using the following verbs whenever he communicates with people:
All the above verbs are the main ones used in NLP embedded commands.
If used the right with your audience or with the girl you’re trying to seduce, it will mesmerize them or her.
Whenever you tell someone to “Think about someone”, it immediately and subconsciously gets them to think about that thing you’re linking with the verb “to think”.
President Obama is a master at this.
Not all of us consciously use NLP for bad purposes.
As I’d stated previously, the purpose of NLP is to “PERSUADE” people into doing something [that they otherwise would not have done, even against their best interest].
Ever fucked a girl and when she woke up the next morning, she says: “I can’t believe this just happened”.
Well chances are, you might have used NLP persuasion tactics on her, although you might not have known this (as an average guy).
President Barack Obama had successfully used NLP on the masses in order to convince and persuade them to vote for him.
That is great!
And it highlights how powerful and useful are NLP patterns.
A black man (or minority in America) getting the masses to vote for him against a white opponent requires massive amounts of NLP [persuasion tactics] on an advanced level might I add!
He positioned himself as a savior from the diabolical policies of his predecessors [Bush & Cheney], and everyone was hypnotized by it.
Think back to Sarah Palin in the recent HBO film, “Game Change, when she was watching 1 of Obama’s speeches and she said to the members of her staff, “Look at him. He’s like some Greek God”.
Even she, as the opponent, had felt Obama’s charisma and magnetism.
Those clowns over at Fox News are always bitching, saying things like: “The media treats Obama like a God”…Sean Hannity refers to him as Saint Obama, etc.
Some of the classic NLP patterns and techniques which Obama successfully used to take the country by storm and won elections:
•Non-logical speech patterns
•Pacing and Leading
The tactics he uses are impossible for the untrained eye and brain to detect.
Barack Obama had used non-logical speech patterns during his presidential speeches, which bypass the logical brain [NLP 101]; textbook trance induction patters, all of which work on a subconscious level (without you knowing).
We all can agree, whether Liberal (as I am) or Conservative, that Obama wasn’t supposed to win re-election.
Most pundits on both sides of the political spectra, leaned towards a Romney victory, mainly because of a poor economy.
Romney should’ve won! And most of us agreed [as much as I’m anti-Romney]!
However, they’d underestimated President Obama’s persuasive and charming abilities (via NLP which he’d studied as a Harvard-schooled lawyer).
In his re-election bid, Obama’s slogan and mantra was “4 more years, 4 more years”!!!
Just as in 2008, he had the “Yes we can, yes we can” and the “Hope and change” mantras, which were popular as hell!!!
I heard them so often that even in my sleep, I was unconsciously humming “hope and change, hope and change” [as cheesy as it sounds]!
That shit drove me crazy!
In NLP, this technique/pattern is called “Embedded Commands”.
Governor Romney never had a slogan, a mantra, a theme nor a catch phase [anchors].
Had he, Mitt Romney, been an NLP practitioner and applied it successfully, he would’ve beaten Obama by a fucking landslide!
Had John McCain used NLP [persuasion tactics], Barack Obama would’ve never won the presidency in the first place.
But McCain obviously knew nothing of NLP tactics, coupled with the fact that he lacked charisma, charms, wits, etc [all of which are assets to physical leads].
People who are great at Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Bill Clinton as another example, are charming, seductive and witty.
Neither John McCain nor Mitt Romney possessed any of those qualities needed to persuade people to fervently and passionately vote for them or support their causes.
Clinton was dubbed the 1st. black President largely by way of the NLP tactics which he’d used!
He made a fat-white guy (himself) appear cool and “down”, which made us love him!!
Just as then Senator Obama was able to convince whites that it was OK to vote for a black man, whom they would’ve never contemplated voting for just a year prior.
He made it appear “cool and hip” (for white youths) to have a black president; especially in this age of pop-culture where white kids are the biggest fans and supporters of Hip-Hop and sports clubs in the NBA and NFL.
More NLP patterns again by Obama.
Hypothetically, let’s say that it was another black guy who was running for president instead of Obama: Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson, Martin Luther King (had he been alive).
They would NOT have won nor stood a chance of winning!
They would’ve been deemed too old to appeal to the Hip-Hop and Social-media generation (of white kids) who were instrumental in putting Obama in La Casa Blanca.
Just as McCain and Romney were unable to appeal to them [too old and too out of touch].
So Barack capitalized off the young vote by appealing to their senses, which comes back to NLP once again.
This isn’t trickery by the way.
This is great fucking strategy!
It also correlates to an article I’d written a while back: Jesus the greatest PUA of all time.
Jesus was the greatest master of NLP ever written about [whether you believe he existed or not].
All great political figures have a Jesus-appeal, which is why as mentioned earlier, on Fox News, they indirectly praise Obama by referring to him as: Lord Obama, King, Prince, Greek God, Savior, etc.
Sure they mean it in a derogatory context, but it’s admission that the man is a fucking Rockstar!
NLP [art of persuasion] isn’t this dark-demonic ritual that only certain people use.
All humans use “Persuasion” in varying forms.
Just that some of us suck at it, while others are good at it [the ones who study it like President Obama].
The sales-clerk who’s trying to get you to buy that expensive pair of jeans is using NLP on you to get you to buy.
This works on a lot of us and we are totally oblivious to it [NLP].
That hot girl at the bar who’s trying to get drinks out of you is using NLP [at times unknowingly].
That hooker on whom you’d spent $ 1,000 just to hang out with, had used NLP on you by convincing you that you were the greatest guy on Earth.
Strippers and Prostitutes are notoriously known for building deep connections within minutes with strange men [powerful NLP tactics], which will have the unsuspecting guy madly in love with her!
That preacher who had convinced you to get baptized and join his church had used NLP on you via scare tactics:
This class of NLP used my Christianity is the “Dark Tactics”.
“You will burn in hell if you don’t become a Christian”!!!
“The world is ending any day now! God is coming! You don’t wanna be caught by surprise”!
That 5 year old girl uses NLP on her parents by sobbing exaggerating in order to get them to buy her that Barbie doll.
She uses NLP by appealing to her parent’s sense of guilt and empathy.
So we all use NLP [persuasion tactics] on a daily basis!
We all try to convince and persuade others to do something for us or with us; which is the basis of NLP: Persuasion techniques.
Some of us suck at it while others are masters at it!
Most of us use it subconsciously and unknowingly.
A Pick-Up Artist on the other hand, knowingly and consciously uses NLP on women.
Watch the following video of NLP-seduction practitioner, Darren Brown, using NLP on a group of girls at a model show.
He goes into “Cold Reads” and use NLP techniques on the set. Check out his patterns inter mixed with pickup routines.
A good politician or good public speaker, consciously and knowingly uses NLP on a mass scale.
It isn’t a bad thing essentially!
You’re basically persuading people to vote for you and to support your causes, which is what every politician must do in order to be elected.
Using NLP with bad intentions however, is another story. And we can put Hitler and Osama Bin Laden in this basket [although Bin Laden was a mythical character fabricated by the wicked CIA].
The October-man NLP-pickup method has been outlawed by establishment PUA’s because some random Pick-Up Artist who might get overly eager to get laid, might turn to deep NLP in order to persuade a girl to sleep with him- which is no problem since we all do it, but then he dumps the girl and leave her an emotional wreck.
Being subjected to his deep NLP trance, she would’ve been infatuated and madly in-love with him and in the end might commit suicide or some crazy shit like that.
This is the power of NLP-Pickup methods such as The Dark Rake method by Derek Rake.
You’re playing with a stacked deck of dynamites.
It’s like riding a Kawasaki Ninja motorcycle in a conventional-bicycle race; you have an unfair advantage over the cyclists.
Without caution, you can really fuck with girls’ heads to the point that they’d become suicidal!
It’s for this reason why PUA students are barred from advanced NLP seduction teachings, because the power of making a girl go suicidally bonkers over you within an hour of meeting her, may go to your head.
However, NLP is NOT brain-washing, unless you consider persuading someone to help you out to be brain-washing.
It only become brain-washing and sinister when used to convince someone that it’s Ok to do something that is wrong [slavery, the Nazi movement, etc.].
The following links are of “Forbidden” methods of NLP-Pickup.
These sites and blogs are banned from even being mentioned on any mainstream PUA forums, and you will get banned if you dare raise the question of “Hidden Patterns” or the following sites.
I’d like to get some feedback from my readers on this.
Do you think Obama really used NLP [persuasion tactics] in his speeches and both presidential runs, or would you say that he was just winging it without any forethought?
Realistically speaking; no presidential candidate nor any politician who gives a grand-public speech “just wings it”.
Their speeches are pre-planned, canned, prepped, rehearsed and thought out (as we all know).
Therefore, Obama wasn’t just freestyling. There was a method, strategy and game plan to his speeches…as the case with all presidential candidates.
For those unfamiliar with the acronym/term NLP, it stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming.
It’s a concept & technique we use in the pick-up community, where we seduce the target (the woman) via tapping into her subconscious(opposed to trying to seduce her on a conscious and physically level).
The video has great captions to break down what’s actually taking place in set step by step.
I’ve only heard of Darren Brown about a year and a half ago, but I been familiar with the NLP gaming some years now [Ross Jefferie’s Speed Seduction].
So check it out.
Good stuff for the fellaz to a fresh start to 2012.
Fore-Note: If you’re planning on doing this with a girl whom you’ve already been banging regularly: then this post is not for you!
* If you laid her more than twice: this is not for you.
* If the flames went out (between y’all): read no further.
* If you’re planning on doing this with your girlfriend: read no further ’cause it will not work.
I’ll explain the reason later.
Ok, for those of us who’ve been studying social dynamics and Seduction, it should be common knowledge already, that whenever seducing a girl, there’s a window of opportunity/chance, where the guy must act before that windows is slammed shut! Which means no cunt-banging for you.
I’m taking it a step further to say, there’s a window of opportunity to make materialize ALL of your wildest/dirtiest fantasies with a girl.
I mean every!
No matter how pristine or stuck-up the chick, she will defy all moral standards she held prior to meeting you (from classy to trashy)! 😉
This’ the type of shit that could possibly land me behind bars!
as for the window of opportunity, If you do not notice it, you will lose out, and you’ll most likely have to settle for normal sex!
If normal-boring sex is your thing- then read no further!
Ok, the best time to introduce your fantasies and get her to do anything you want sexually, is before you have sex with her (for the first time).
You MUST do this on a high note. Meaning: when the girl is totally into you and DTF.
The girl MUST be into you in order to pull this off.
We all have fantasies. Some already fulfilled, some not, some we may wish to relive.
Let’s say that you met the girl in any standard way: street pick up, online, club, bar, wherever! Y’all hit it off, exchange #’s, transition to phone game [conversing over the phone] in order to set up a date or meet-up.
We can assume that this girl is obviously into you if she’s willing to meet up.
At some point (before actually setting up a meet or lay), y’all should’ve already had some sexual chat about your fantasies, etc. So you’re letting her know what you’re into sexually, so it won’t startle her later.
It’s not a prerequisite, nor must she even know your fantasies and sexual desires with her.
This is where guys go wrong: they end up banging the chick more than once, then weeks or months down the line (when routine has set in), he wants to introduce fantasies and all types of wild shit!
That will not work!
It would’ve been too late. That window of opportunity has closed!
Intense feelings would’ve developed whereas she sees you as a possible boyfriend.
You wanna introduce wild fantasies BEFORE she starts to see you as possible boyfriend material, which is prior to sex or perhaps after laying her just once.
Sharing your 3-somes fantasies 3 months down the line after having sex with her 10 times already, would’ve gotten you nowhere but an uphill battle. She would be offended at that point.
Story of an HB9 Fuck-Buddy
Few years ago, I met this hot chick on Tagged (the top-social network site before Facebook was created).
At that point, I was oblivious to this concept of mines. It all occurred to me by chance (just winging it).
We hit it off, I set a sexual frame [opposed to a GF-BF frame which most guys do and evidently fuck up their chances.
Anyway, before the girl and I actually met up, during our chats, I told her that I was into 3-somes (which I wasn’t, but decided to test the waters).
As expected, she said she’d never done it, and isn’t into that!
However, I had the fucking keys to getting her to do anything! 😈
Remember: I didn’t have prior knowledge of this method. It was totally by chance! In retrospect, it’s as if I was possessed by a fucking sage or mind-reader!!!
* The virtual key in which I possessed to enable me to do anything sexually with her was her own interest in me. She was into me (which will be her virtual downfall)!
Another powerful subconscious note here is that: She wanted to please me. She wanted to be accepted by me. She seen me as having value and being the Alpha-Male!
If I’d come off as a weak Beta-Male, this would not be possible. She would not have even given me the time of day to begin with!
Women are hard-wired to please Alphas! They cannot help it!
Therefore, I was the Alpha she had to win over by entertaining my every desire (whatever that may be)!
This shit is so powerful that if I’d asked her to rob a bank for me; she would do it! Sky is the limit when you’re able to have a girl in such a state.
* The 2 keys to making this happen is:
1) She must be into you.
2) She must see you as a dominant Alpha-Male (allowing her to want to accept you).
Nevertheless, the groundwork was set. Hardest part completed (which was just to attract her as any PUA would).
She was now in a position where she didn’t want to do a thing that would possibly turn me off or cause me to lose interest in her.
It wasn’t the promise of sex that had her in such state. It was the fact that I attracted her via seduction tactics and routines which she has never encountered in her life.
Armed with this powerful insight (which I didn’t know at that time), a devious side of me kicked in where I had all types of wild fantasies I wanted to try with this girl. And I’m not only talking about voyeurism and outdoor sex neither!
I said to her, “I wanna have a 3-some, but not the usual 2 girls 1 guy. I showed a pic’ of yours to 1 of my buddies, and he thought that you’re very sexy. I know this may sound weird, but I was imagining both of us fucking the shit out of you, taking turns on that hot pussy”.
No elaboration, no explanation, no long story.
Plant the seed and the idea (the fantasy), and allow it fester. Later on, she would actually believe that this was her idea. This is classic NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) which we learn in the pick-up/seduction community. So I was actually using NLP on her before I even read about NLP in pick-up [that’s some Jedi-shit right there]. 😉
This is what separates the Pick-Up Artist from the average guy or player, who doesn’t have a system or pattern which he can analyze.
Key Note: Do not heg her about it!
That would only make her feel slutty, which would activate her ASD (Anti-Slut Defense), which would make her regret such thoughts, thus causing her to despise you.
Therefore, just let it be known briefly, then drop it!
She will remember and will be opened to it whenever the time comes.
As I stated before, you really don’t have to tell her anything. But The inherent nice-guy in me had compelled me to tell her my intentions beforehand.
To spare the long and tedious details, we end up having a mini-orgy with 2 of my buddies and I banging her.
This was not rape of any sort! Purely consensual.
She wanted it as much as I did. She just needed me to plant the seed of suggestion.
That was just the tip of the iceberg for this girl. The type of stuff we did sexually, I doubt that I have the balls to publish them!
I went all the FUCK out! Nothing detrimental to her health though…almost.
To this day we still keep in touch after 3 years. She’s definitely a keeper as a fuck-buddy.
I honestly felt manipulative. Not then, but when I look back in retrospect, I feel somewhat as if I was doing a wrong.
No bullshit guys: I truly feel that way.
To this day, I’ve only employed this routine in 2 other instances. Same results with the other girls. I exploited their high interest in me by having them do things (sexually) that they were most likely against doing prior.
Now the reason this routine CANNOT be done with a girlfriend neither a girl you’ve been seeing or fucking on a regular basis should be intelligible. Same reason you cannot say to your girlfriend or wife, “Hey babes I wanna have a 3-some with you and your bestie Angie”.
Once a girl has developed strong feelings for you (intimate and romantic feelings), where she’s now envisioning the both of you as an exclusive couple; it’s a wrap! Chances of fantasies such as 3-somes are done!
The only realistic chance of that happening is if the 3-some was originally her idea or mutually hatched (which is rare).
Hence, this is why it’s KEY to do the framing and routine before you sleep with her, before she gets attached bodily.
Sex most often times lead to a relationship of some sort. Or at least, it gives the girl the impression that if you could sleep with her, you would be with her.
Once she begins to believe that you want her as your girlfriend, it’s a wrap in getting her to do anything for you [be it monetary, sexually or whatever].
Also, this isn’t something that only happens to LSE chicks (Low Self-Esteemers). Any and every woman is liable of being manipulated, swindled and led [not that this’ was the case with the scenario I laid out].
This is almost relative to the Jedi-mind stuff that a pimp uses on his so-called hoes. He doesn’t hook the potential-sex worker through sex, but by way of heavy NLP techniques.