Married-Religious HB Text-Game Continues…Part Deux

Okay, so the religious chick (who’s married by the way) whom I ultimately picked up days ago on social media (and were to meet up over the last weekend), our chat continued.

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What this exemplifies, apart from the fact that girls will cheat, is that once you position yourself as the guy who cannot help it but to be uncontrollably attracted to the girl, she will find such approach (as mines) attractive, charming and flattering.

You can get away with anything as long as you:

1.) Own it

2.) Sell it as real

Mos guys when in interactions with women, will often mistakenly give off a timid vibe, in hopes of not chasing the girl away.

A better approach is the polar opposite: I’m sexually and passionately uncontrollable over you.

You want to give women the impression from the get-go, that you’re willing to risk it (verbally and physically)!

Religious, Married And Wants To Meet Up

Following was posted earlier to my social media.

She’s married and HIGHLY religious!!!
So this chick never told me she’s married [she’s in her 20’s BTW]. I had to discover that piece of info as I browsed through her pics a few days ago.
Anyway, so I tried to pick up this girl right here (on FB) over a year ago. But my pick-up attempt turned into an argument on religion. She was HIGHLY religious and tried to preach to me and to convert me to religion. So that bombed out over a year ago and I never bothered her again. All she wanted to do was to debate about religion. BTW, I would usually delete girls after such confrontation. But I didn’t delete her. She never comments on my stuff, never likes or anything. However, I know she reads my stuff…because all women read my stuff (which are DHV’s).
So Thursday now, as I was about to inbox her, thinking it would’ve been our 1st time communicating, I noticed that we messaged before [the argument on religion]. So I opened her this time based on that.
Anyway, with all that being said, I went on to pitch my rendezvous proposal, got her digits and we are supposed to meet up this evening. 🙂
The thing is: I never knew she’s married until after we set up the date and she gave me her #, and I browsed through her pics and seen her wedding pics from about a year ago! So this chick’s only been married a year, and is now going to meet up with me later today!!!??
This goes to solidify a point I always make: marriages and relationships mean very little to women.
At the end of the day, when I hit her up on Whatsapp yesterday, I did indicate to her that I know she’s married. But I said it in a nonjudgmental and humorous way…to which she laughs.
Frankly, I have zeros issues with trying to sleep with married girls. I have a thing for married women! So it’s all good in my book!
What’s really significant, is how we went from cussing each other via inbox, over a year ago because she kept throwing religion at me when I was tryna pick her up, to now meeting up this evening. I know why this happened BTW (the for bidden fruit aspect and “good girls” liking bad boys).
In any case, she wants to meet up from 6-8 since she claims to have other engagements after. However, I prefer meeting after 8 PM. So we’ll see how that goes…if I decide to meet u with her later.

Instant FB Pickup Of Newlywed Hottie [06-14-2016…text breakdown]

Hey fellow seducers, back again with another routine FB pull for you guys.

This time around, she’s a married chick in her 20’s: a newlywed actually.

What’s interesting about this pull is that I messaged this girl back on May 2nd. but she never replied…until today. So basically a month and change later.

Why so long?

One reason of which I speak about religiously:

She’s hot. Hot girls have tons of guys hounding them online. An ugly girl is liable to have over 200 messages backed up in her inbox. Now, imagine a halfway decent-looking lass. You’re talking about 500 messages on average…unread. So that is 1 reason why she (or any girl) would’ve taken a while to respond. So she might have had to sift through all the bull before she seen my message. So today just happened to be my turn.

As you can see from the time stamp below, I first messaged her on May 2nd. Not to mention that I totally forgot about this chick until I’d gotten her msg today saying, “and”, [my messages in blue].


I frankly don’t care whether she’s married or not. How I knew she had just gotten married was because she posted her wedding pics and they popped up in my feed that same day. So she’s literally a frikkin’ newlywed.

Why was this simple and innocuous opener so powerful [“you got married behind my back”]?

I didn’t give a fuck whether she replied or not! That was the vibe I gave off with such an opener. How did I manage to give off such a strong yet attractive vibe? By not adding a question mark to my implied question.

Anyway, I went sexual off the bat by saying I wanted to feel what she felt like on the inside. I already knew by virtue of the fact that she bothered to reply to my message from so long ago; it meant that she was attracted to my vibe…for certain. Hence why I went sexual right away.

In the screenshot below, she mentions that she’s currently in Brooklyn, New York, and not here on island. So that’s where the dialogue proceeded. To get her hopes up somewhat, I led her to believe that I am currently in NYC, but leaving in 2 weeks time.



Since she’s in NYC (my unofficial home) at the moment and I am not, I didn’t bother to try to proceed on a meetup until she gets back to the island. Moreover, the reason I led her to believe that I was in NYC at the moment, is a feeler: a way for me to feel out her receptivity level to the idea of meeting up. Very subtle yet powerful psychological play on my part.

In the screenshot below, I added some humor. Also, I added a sexual spike just so she knows my intention (to bang her). I also began my netflix and chill pitch.


In the screenshot below, I suggested we not meet up in NYC (since I’m not there: though I led her to believe I was).


In the screenshot below, I made my netflix and chill pitch again.


The dialogue continued [my text in blue].




Wasn’t that simple guys?

Again- did you realize how ardently I adhere to my rule of ending the conversation first as I did above? The one who ends the conversation first, has the most value. So always make sure that you tell the girl bye before she does it to you.

The thing is also (the beauty here), is that she’s familiar with the area of the island (St John’s City) that I frequent. So that makes the logistics much easier for her to come netflix and chill with me.

Additionally, she’ll be back on island (from NYC) in another 4-5 weeks. Usually, I would never pick up a girl online who;s away at the moment. If we can’t logistically meet up in 2 weeks or less, I would next the girl or decline to even game her period. Since she’s returning in 4-5 weeks, and I seriously want to bang a newlywed, I am willing to keep her in the loop until she returns.

Furthermore, you will have also noticed how religiously I stick to my netflix and chill gambit.

What does this demonstrate? Exactly what I told you in the previous FB pull post: You can suggest netflix and chill and the girl will jump on the suggestion.

Traditional dates aren’t necessary.

Girls are down to come to your place without the whole dating BS. You just have to believe it and act accordingly by pitching it the right way.

Overall, why was this routine-online pull so significant?

Not only does it show that married women are pullable. But it also shows that even a newlywed isn’t game-proof.

I mean, I want you to really look at the fucking dynamics of the situation.

Here is a girl who hasn’t been married for 3 months yet, but she’s getting picked up online, giving me her # and agreeing to meet up at my place to watch a movie on a tablet.

Would her husband approve?

Of course not!

Do women care?

Certainly not!

In her mind: she’s just coming by me to netflix and chill.

No harm in that, right?

It’s not like she’s going to see some guy who wants to fuck her! Well- actually- I do want to fuck her and she knows it because I told her so…indirectly.

However, she’s still down.

Powerful stuff isn’t it?

On a final note, since I really want to bang this girl: she’s highly sexy, plus I have a mean fetish for banging married women, I will follow up with her until she returns in 4-5 weeks.

Since I now have her phone number, I can keep her in the loop by gaming and charming her up intermittently between now and then.

From my experience of sleeping with married chicks- vast amounts of experience for that matter- whenever a married chick allows herself to be #-closed, it is almost a sure lay in the bag.

I’ve yet to fail to sleep with a married chick once she crosses that line of coughing up the digits.

Moreover, I’ve yet to have a married chick flake on meeting up with me. So, personal history and experience are on my side.

Also, if you were in my shoes, this is how you should proceed with a girl who’s currently away but to return shortly (within weeks):

You message her once or twice weekly.

That’s it!

You simply want to keep her on the radar until she gets back.

Not texting her at all will cause the chemistry to fizzle out, and the girl may likely forget who you are altogether.

Over-texting her is also a problem in that you will have come off as desperate and over invested.

By over-texting, I mean texting her every day while she’s away for 2-3 weeks.

Once or twice a week will suffice in keeping the girl interested and keeping the vibe alive.

Texting rules still apply! No over-texting…unless you’re me of course. 😉

You may want to watch this recently published video of mines on the subject of over-texting.

Lastly, as for the timestamp- the fact that I’d first messaged this girl early last month without any reply until today- this becomes no worry to an ardent seductionist.

What I mean is, if you’re accustomed to having abundance of women, you won’t put much stock into the ones who don’t reply.

They quickly become forgotten just as this chick was.

What happens when you don’t chase hot women? They chase you! So had I hounded this girl by texting her to death after realizing she didn’t reply within a day or so, it would’ve blown me out instantly!

The fact that I was busy gaming other girls, I had no time to desperately chase her (or any girl for that matter). And because I didn’t chase her by texting her to death upon no reply: this flipped that switch inside of her head to where she now sees me as a high-value male…hence she decides to message me even after a whole month had elapsed.

Why did she even bother? She could’ve just ignored my message as she likely did with the other losers.

Sure she could’ve. But women are subconsciously attracted to guys who exhibit the sort of behavior that I do. So she was instantly attracted, which led her to message me after a month had gone by.

On a final note- I seriously mean it this time- 🙂 you guys need to buy in, just as I implored you in the previous post.

You have to believe that barriers don’t fucking exist!

You have to believe that:

1.) You’re her type (though types don’t exist)

2.) All women are gameable

3.) She wants to fuck you

4.) You’re the hottest thing since sliced bread

That should be your mindset whenever you open a girl.

You have to fucking own it!

This mentality will set you apart from the other 400+ guys- the losers- who are flooding her DM and inboxes but are creeping the girl out…or boring her to death.

I’ll speak about this in the next article.
Game on!

Your easy guide to picking up girls on Facebook

Lying Doesn’t Profit You In The Game


You Don’t Have To Lie To Women!

A while back, I wrote an extensive article making a distinction between players (so-called naturals) and pick-up artists.

What separates both camps is 1 factor:

PUA’s are taught to be forthcoming and transparent with the women in whom they deal with.

Your stereotypical player aka natural, doesn’t have that code within his game, hence his game is based on lying to numerous women in order to cover his ass.

That is the difference between your stereotypical player and a PUA.

Today, I severed ties with a long-time friend of mines, of a friendship which dates back to the early 90’s as a kid in New York City.

By definition: he is what we PUA’s would dub a “Natural” [or a player]: someone who grew to become good with women by osmosis, and without artificial means of learning such as books, videos, coaching, classes, etc. as we PUA’s have.

My friend being a natural with women, was accustomed to having a new girl in his bed every other week of the year.

Whenever he visits me here in the Caribbean (bi-yearly), he would tote along with him a new-hot girl each visit.

Unbeknownst to me: he was married all the while!


I had no idea that this buddy of mines was married.

Be as it may, as a womanizer myself; I don’t judge, nor am I opposed to the idea of married men shagging other chicks on the side.

Anyway, so all was well…up until 2 days ago when he had contacted me on Facebook in a tone that was very aggressive.

I paraphrase:

“Hey Kenny, what the fuck were you thinking when you posted those pics of me and those girls to your profile!? Yo my fucking ex-wife seen those pictures with me and the girl on the beach and she’s upset as hell and causing me problems right now. I’m so fucking pissed at you right now. Take those pictures down and delete them right now from Facebook! Don’t post any more shit with me in there”. Thank you”!

Talk about shocked! 😯

I was dumbfounded when I read the inbox message from my long-time friend and fellow ladies man.

I couldn’t believe it!

Not only did I NOT know he had an ex-wife, but I didn’t even know the buffoon was married in the 1st place!

Aside from that, his tone, language and demands aggravated the fuck out of me! 😡 😡

You’re demanding that I delete photos from my own Facebook…photos taken with my camera…photos that I own!?

You’re essentially telling me how to manage my fucking Facebook: what to put, what to delete, what to upload, what to post, etc!?

Who the hell gives you that authority my man!?

Ok, so to fill you in on what happened, a year or 2 ago, he visited me here in the islands accompanied by a Puerto Rican chick from the New England area.

As customarily the case, we took a plethora of pictures of various sites, tours, events and so forth.

One such photo was that of him and the girl on the beach as they posed for my camera.

This was taken about 2-3 years ago.

I don’t understand what he thought the photos were meant for except to be posted online, i.e. Facebook.

Anyway, all was frikkin’ well!

Some weeks ago, while browsing through the stored files on my media card, I noticed that I still had a photo of my buddy and the Puerto Rican girls which wasn’t uploaded to my Facebook…so I uploaded it and tagged the guy: “Hey D, do you remember this photo”?

Weeks went by without an alarm.

I never thought anything of it since this was a norm with the pics we would take throughout the years.

Two days ago, I got blasted with the inbox message from my ex-friend, chewing me out for posting that photo, among other photos where he posed with other girls…these were photos taken by me with their approval of course.

He’s evidently pissed because the photo got viewed by the wrong person: his ex-wife…or current wife is what I suspect.

Listen- I have no qualms about pulling a sensitive photo upon the request of someone who has something to hide.

That isn’t my contention.

I am pissed at his approach, his language and the manner in which he addressed me about the situation!

Don’t balk at me because you got fucking caught living a lie dude!

Approach me cordially and like a man…or a friend!

Don’t jump down my throat in anger because of your own fuck-ups!

Don’t ‘DEMAND’ that I remove a photo which I possess, taken by me, with the explicit consent of yourself and the girl who’s also in the photo(s).

You don’t have the right to demand shit!

To be clear here: I never responded to his inbox message with how I was really feeling.

I simply replied with: “Ok. Cool”!

I was so shocked and thrown for a loop that I couldn’t muster up the words at the time to put this idiot in his rightful place!

He specifically wanted 3 tagged photos removed, so I assured him that I will: “Ok cool man”, was my only response.

Now, this is where it all boiled over for me.

Today, I received a phone call from a mutual friend of ours concerning the matter.

The mutual friend told me that the dude is irate and is cursing up a storm that I would post those pics of him to Facebook…especially knowing that he has a wife…or ex-wife. Also that he is stressing and going through drama over this.

I tried to keep my composure over the phone as I explained to the mutual friend the occurrence, and the fact that I NEVER knew that this dude was even married at any point in time!

He conveniently withheld that vital piece of information from me!

No rings on his finger during his periodic visits, no bands, no word or talk of marriage and so forth.

I had no fucking indication that this dude was married!

He never gave me any indication!

As the convo progressed between me and the mutual friend of ours, I got very ticked off that I’m here being accused of causing this dude marital problems over peanuts!

I don’t have a problem with covering for the boys!

That isn’t the issue here!

The fact is, this prick for whatever reason, never tipped me off about his marriage, nor the fact that he might have had a girl in his life.

He pretended to be a Bachelor while secretly having relationships here and there.

Hence, the reason why I hinted earlier that players and naturals have to always live a lie and cover their tracks from various women.

They lie to girl A about girl B, and lie to girl C about girl D…while brewing up another batch of lies and deception for girl E and F…lies which will all catch up to him sooner than later.

PUA’s will rarely ever face such drama because we don’t lie to women about these things…at least we are taught not to!

We don’t have to put our fucking phones on silent mode, out of fear that the girl we are in bed with will become suspicious of incoming calls and messages.

Saying that to say, If you’re gonna play and be a player; play it right!

Don’t blame the next man when shit blows up in your fucking face!

If you want to be a ladies man: learn to do it right by being forthright with women!

You don’t have to lie to women: whether they’re your wife, concubine, side-chick or hookers!


Ok, so before the phone call ended between the quasi-mediator [the mutual friend] and myself, I gave him a little message to deliver to my ex-friend:

“Listen- I’m a grown ass man! I don’t have time for kid fucking drama! Tell him that I say, I will NOT delete those photos- PERIOD! On top of that, tell him that from this day on, our friendship is terminated! No more! I don’t want shit to do with him and I don’t have shit to say to him ever again! Leave it at that”!

Mutual friend: “Hey Kenny bruh, you sure you want to take it that far over this”?

Me: “Yea! Point blank! I’m a man…a real man! I don’t hide like a bitch like he does! I don’t have to lie to my GF about my lifestyle! So deliver that message to his ass right now! Our friendship is DONE…for good! I don’t have time for this childish bullshit”!

Think what you want: “Kenny overreacted”.

No I didn’t!

I just don’t tolerate bullshit, nor do I respect wannabe players who play the game wrong, then bitch down when caught instead of taking responsibility and holding their own!

This is why I don’t have (male) friends neither wingmen.

Real men who own their shit are rare as flying donkeys!

I don’t want to be responsible for any guy’s situations, fuck-ups and dilemmas. Likewise, I don’t want any guy to think that they have to watch my back and vouch for me in anyway.

Guys such as my ex-friend need to realize that they cannot continue to live a lie when it pertains to women!

Lots of hearts will be left broken!

As someone who’s adherent to the old-school PUA philosophy, as Mystery once said, “Leave her better than you met her”.

In layman’s terms: that means a guy [a PUA] should enrich a girl’s life rather than break her down and leave her worse off emotionally than when he met her.

Lying to women about other women will only leave women worse off than they were before.

Hence, the “All men are dogs” mantra fostered by disgruntled women who were fucked over by a lying player.

By no means am I trying to merge pure ethics with game.

I’m not a fucking saint!

However, if I do get caught lying to some girl, it’ll NEVER be about other women in my life!

It is NEVER about me withholding the fact that I have a girlfriend and has been in a relationship 6+ years now!

My girlfriend of 6+ years knows very well that I meet other women.

Other women I meet and hook up with, know very well from the get-go that I have a GF, hence their expectations are NEVER shattered, nor are they ever hurt in the end.

You don’t have to lie to women about your womanizing ways!

Only Betas and men without balls do that!

Real men own up to their shit: married or legally single!

Getting caught out there, ala Tiger Woods and Koby Bryant style, then having to cry in front of the media apologizing like a giant pussy for loving pussy, is no way for a man to be a man.

In the case of my now ex-friend; I really don’t know why he had married while having the intention to continue to live the life of a bachelor.

Why the fuck marry dude!?

Frankly, I don’t care!

In the end, it all comes down to principles and respect.

You wanted something done [me deleting those photos]: should’ve gone about it with respect!

Don’t attack me and talk shit about me to others, saying that I’m ruining your marriage or post-marital issues by posting to my Facebook, then desire for me to fulfill your request!

If a guy wants to cheat [a term which I don’t agree with]: I have no problems with that!

Just own your shit whenever shit hits the fan!

Don’t blame anyone else like a coward for outing you!

No guy or gal can out me because I’m already out!

Whenever a girl in the blind (jokingly) says to me, “I’m gonna tell your girlfriend that you hit on other women”.

I laugh!

Little do they know that I operate above board about my womanizing ways.

My GF understands that I’m a man with a loaded dick in my pants and I love to flirt and meet other women for work and play.

She doesn’t jump down my throat for this because she well knew ahead of time what she had gotten into by getting with a pick-up artist.

It profits you NOT to lie to women about other women!

Read: No need to keep lying about having a GF

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