I’m gonna play out a virtual dialogue between 2 people; a guy seeking advice from a girl.
I also took a general consensus among 10 female friends [10 questions] on Facebook, where I’d asked them these same questions, and gotten virtually the same answers.
•Guy: “How should I let her know that I like her”?
Girl:“ Just tell her straight up that you like her a lot. Or send her something nice or do something nice for her”.
PUA: “Don’t let her know that you like her. Much better to stay vague and conceal your liking”.
•Guy: “Where should I take her on a 1st. date”?
Girl:“ Oh, take her to a fancy restaurant. Dinner & a movie would be great”.
PUA: “Take her for a walk and get a hotdog. Spending big won’t guarantee sex nor a 2nd. date”.
•Guy: “I really like this girl, and I would definitely date her. How should I tell her”?
Girl:“ Call her and let her know how you feel about her, and that you like her a lot and wanna make her your girlfriend”.
PUA: “Don’t tell her you wanna date her! After you managed to have sex with her, her frame will switch from casual sex to relationship possibility”.
•Guy: “How often should I call my girlfriend”?
Girl: “Everyday! It shows how much you’re thinking about her, and I’d make her feel special”.
PUA: “Don’t call her!! Let her call you instead. Chicks are easily fed up with guys who call them often (irrespective of her BF). If you do call, make it once or twice weekly”.
•Guy: “How long should I wait until sex”?
Girl:“ Fourth date, a month. Whenever she’s ready”.
PUA: “Don’t wait! Advance for sex ASAP! The longer you wait, the more she’ll see you as a non-sexual guy, then she’ll just LJBF you (put you in the friend zone)”.
•Guy: “What kind of guys are women attracted to”?
Girl:“ One who is caring, sweet, nice and romantic. A guy she can rely on to be there whenever she needs someone (shoulder to cry on)”.
PUA: “Women are attracted to men whom they can’t bullshit and swindle, i.e. an Alpha male. A guy who will punish her (psychologically), not take her shit and not afraid to disagree with her”.
•Guy: “What should I do if she tells me she has a boyfriend”?
Girl: “Tell her “it was nice to meet you”, and move on”.
PUA:“ If she says she has a boyfriend; so what!!? Women will cheat. If you present yourself with the stronger frame/mindset, and you’re more Alpha than her BF; she will cheat”!
[Just because she has a BF doesn’t mean she isn’t looking to trade up].
•Guy: “Where can I meet good women”?
Girl:“ At church or some church event”.
PUA: “Good girls don’t exist! Therefore, it doesn’t matter where you pick up women; you will not find a saint. And church girls are the sluttiest, most rebellious and gullible”.
•Guy: “How soon should I call her after getting her #”?
Girl: “Right away. It shows her that you’re really interested in her”.
PUA: “Never right away! There are exceptionally rare cases, but 85% of the times, you should NOT call her right away. Make her wonder if you’re interested or not [reeling her in technique]”.
•Guy: What’s the best compliment to give a girl?
Girl: “Tell her she’s pretty and you like her eyes or something”.
PUA: “No compliments is the best compliment! But if you do compliment her, make it original and unique. No compliment on her looks, instead her personality and sense of style.
The grand lesson here for us men is that we should NEVER listen to women when it comes to dating, sex, relationship advice.
They will always lead you (men) astray.
Not intentionally,but out of ignorance as to what they (women) really want.
Equally worse is taking antiquated advice from your mom.
Will women ever admit that they give shitty advice?
Of course not!
But as a guy who is skilled in social dynamics; I’ve had 1,000’s of interactions with hot chics, of all ages, social statuses and races.
And I’ve come to the conclusion that chics suck at giving men advice on how to pick them up.
BTW, you can check out this related article from the PUA giant “Love Systems”: Why women give bad dating advice.