One of the most commonly asked questions in Game: “Do women like men who are straightforward”?
Following my straightforward method of pickup via this kick-ass blog, the short and fast answer to that oft-asked question is a resounding “YES”!
My Game, Style, Method, Model, Approach is heavily based on being sexually forward with any and every woman: regardless of her creed, age, profession, attitude, race, nationality, ethnicity, etc.
With this chick here, we’d been friends on Facebook for some months now, but I’d never directly messaged her until few days ago.
Above screenshot: Remember a while back I talked about the use of “Kinda and Sorta” and their potency in seduction? Well, that’s why I said to her, “I ‘Kinda’ miss you”. By using “kinda”, it confuses the girl’s mind as she struggles to make sense of why you “kinda”, and not definitely miss her (as an example).
Screenshot above: every girl I hit on knows very well that I’m a ladies’ man, yet they still are attracted. 🙂
Screenshot above: learn to incorporate the laws of contradiction into your Game! By telling her an obvious contradiction (that I’m not a straightforward guy) from what she knows of me, it does 2 things:
1.) Confuses her impression of me (I throw her off)
2.) It let’s me know if the girl has been paying attention to my vibe. I’ll explain later.
Clearly she isn’t buying that I’m NOT a forward guy, since she knows (from seeing my social-media posts) that I am ULTRA-forward!
[Her messages in gray]
Screenshot above: as confirmed; she reads my statuses 🙂 .Remember what I told you guys a while back: women read/see everything you do/post on social media! Therefore, if you post low-value chode shit, you would’ve already massacred your chances before even opening the girl via DM! Post high-value shit which I’d been encouraging you guys to do for months now, and the girl gets attracted before you even open/DM her. And this was the case with this HB. Before I’d messaged her, she had been checking out my posts for months prior. Remind you; she never commented. But that doesn’t matter! She sees my posts, because after all as I’d explained to you, women read/see everything you do/post!
Thus, she clearly knows that I’m as (sexually) forward and bold as they come!
[My messages in blue]
Screenshot above: I love using assumption lines because they make me appear sure of myself and sure of the process. That is another staple technique in my pick-up arsenal: Assume attraction! Assume that the girl is attracted to you, by making assumptive statements as I did above when I said to her, “Since we’re both sexy, and we both love to check out each other’s package…”. So, I assumed that we both were sexually attracted to each other, and that we both love to check out each other’s package. I totally have no proof of this (that she checks me out). But I assume it any fucking way because I know it would’ve served to make me appear confident in her eyes.
Additionally, such assumption lines plant seeds within the girl’s psyche, and they also set the frame early.
She went on to say that she isn’t easily had (or to be fucked). Why did she say that? Classic example of backwards rationalization in tandem with the desire of every girl to want to appear hard-to-get on some level. Side note: whenever a girl says she isn’t easy, it is usually a dead giveaway that she is SUPER SUPER EASY! 🙂 😉
Now, when a girl tries to gain value and tries to put on this, “I’m not easy charade”; allow her to do so! (Falsely) agree with her just as I did below!
Screenshot above: (Falsely) convince her that you believe that she’s a challenge, just as I did when I rambled some bullshit about why I loved that she’s a challenge (which she’s not by the way).
Key note: have you notice that I never directly complimented her? Do you also notice that I never complimented her in any cheesy manner on her looks? However, I did compliment her (above) by telling her that she’s a challenge, and that she’s very perceptive and can read people. That is how you should (indirectly) compliment a hot girl! Never compliment her on her physical affectations neither looks. Instead, compliment her on character, behavior, attitude and those intangible qualities.
Moreover, I dropped a sexual spike within the compliment about her perceptive abilities, by telling her that the fact that she’s so perceptive is the reason why I want to get my penis inside of her vaginal walls. So, what did I do just there that was so telling, unique, unorthodox and powerful? I didn’t communicate to her that I wanted to fuck her because of her hotness, beauty and outer qualities. I told her that I wanted to fuck her based on something unseen and intangible: her perception abilities and the fact that she’s a challenge. By doing/saying this, I instantly separate myself from 99.9% of losers out there whose sole motivation for wanting to bang a chick is because of her hot body.
With that, I manage to further set myself up as a unique, original and uncommon chap.
Also, by demonstrating to a hot girl that her looks alone aren’t enough to make you want to shag her, it makes her self-conscious as she questions her attractiveness, while simultaneously placing such a guy [myself in this case] on a proverbial pedestal as an Alpha-Male who gets it…and gets laid.
I reiterate (from countless articles on this topic): if you were getting laid on a regular basis with numerous sexual partners, a girl’s looks alone won’t fucking cut it! Her looks alone won’t impression you since you’ve been there- seen and done that- and have been with countless girls of hotter quality. That is what happens on a psychological level whenever you refrain from kissing girl’s asses by lauding them with cheesy-ass compliments on their looks and body.
Anyway, so let’s see how she reaction to my declaration of wanting to get my pecker logged into her vaginal walls.
Screenshot above: Oh! She laughs! She must have liked it! 😆 😆 All jokes aside, when you get a handle on this stuff, perfect calibration (timing, etc) comes naturally. You can almost predict on the dime, a woman’s response(s) to anything you would’ve said.
Anyway, so this continued to where she shortly afterwards sent me some nudes on her own volition.
Bear this in mind guys: I hardly ever ask girls for nudes.
They just voluntarily send them on (I’ve demonstrated this in various posts)!
Why does this happen (women freely send nudes without my request)?
Here’s the thing: every girl on social media gets asked for nudes by hordes of men on a daily basis.
The fact that you can demonstrate some restraint by not asking for nudes at all (or not right away), it sets you apart from every other guy who’s begging for nudes.
This alone (restraint from asking) will actually prompt the girl to sending nudes, as was the case with this chick.
Now here’s the caveat: you will have firstly needed to demonstrate that you’re a sexual and forward guy (just as I did), by dropping sexual innuendos, sexual spikes and so forth.
There’s no way in hell a girl will decide to send you nudes on her own volition (without you asking), from having a platonic, friendly, cute little conversation about the weather, her upbringing, schooling, siblings, career, etc.
That is where you go wrong, and why women aren’t sending you pussy pics with or without your request: you continually entertain and lead these bland, asexual conversations to the friendzone. And when you do try to ask for nudes, the girl rightfully gets weirded out and offended, then deletes and blocks you in 1 swoop!
Hiding your dick doesn’t fucking pay!
What do I mean by this?
Playing the gentlemanly bullshit charade where you ask girl’s 21 lame predictable questions to nowhere, will get you nowhere!
Women want men who are forward; guys who show their dicks…proverbially!
Every girl with whom I interact on social media or online-dating sites, expects me to be forward and sexual from the gate! And I am 100% of the time!
I never disappoint there!
You on the other hand, may say to yourself, “but Kenny, I try being forward and sexual but girls always reject me because of it”!
I can’t stress this point anymore than I have already, in that the reason women reject you whenever you go sexually forward, is because of you lack of self-assuredness which renders your entire approach incongruent and inconsistent with that of a guy who gets positive responses from women when forward.
Women are fucking sharks!
They can sense an insecure, unsure, wavering, non-confident wuss-bag from a mile away!
Your wavering on your declarations, statements and comments is what gives you away to women.
With that, how do you develop an unwavering, rock-solid, confident and convincing approach and vibe to being forward with women in any arena?
Through trial and error!
Through many failures and botched attempts!
That is first and foremost: you will fail and must fail!
Most guys under my tutelage, be they online or in person, are always flustered and stumped by the reality of quote-unquote failure when trying to get this pick-up and dating thing handled.
They don’t expect to fail. And whn they do fail- and they will fail- they’re quick to beat themselves up and subsequently throw in the towel on Game.
There’s no quick-fix for Inner-Game deficiency issues such as non-confidence and congruence in conveying to women that you’re the type of guy who deserves her time sexually.
With all that being said, conveying the (right) vibe to women boils down to how convincing you are.
How do you convey this state and frame of conviction in relation to being sexually forward with women?
Play the part of the guy who generally gets positive feedback from women whenever he’s sexually forward and bold.
You ought to realize that women (humans on a whole) are pack animals and followers of what they see, hear and sense.
If a woman SEES you flirting with other women in the bar or club, or sees you hugged up with a girl, she will naturally assume that you’re the type of guy who’s at home with this sort of behavior (having women in his life).
Likewise, if a girl HEARS that you’re a ladies man, or that you’re a womanizing pickup artist, she’ll assume those rumors as gospel, and will also likely assume that other women respond positively to your womanizing ways.
Thirdly, if a woman only SENSES that you’re the kind of guy who gets laid, and that you receive positive feedback from women because of this, she will take your forwardness in the positive…most times.
In my case, which of the 3 states is it: Sense, Hear or See?
Online for instance, the women I open, chat up and ultimately bed, sense, hear and see that I’m the type of guy who women respond to positively when sexually forward.
This is conveyed through my posts: photos of myself with women, my PUA-related content and general postings about dating and the sexes.
Therefore, whenever I hit that DM/inbox button, the girl already knows (through sight and hearing) that I’m congruent with rock-solid conviction in the words which come out of my mouth or through the keypad.
Women whom I cold message (without being friends) on Facebook for instance, still get this impression of me (that I’m convincing with my sexual forwardness) because of my vibe and rock-solidness upon the approach.
By the way, this is all cloaked in humor, and that is the key here.
Injecting humor into your sexually ballsy comments will tamper down any negative reaction the girl is likely to have.
Again- this all comes down to calibration and timing: the forwardness mixed in with humor.
You won’t get the timing exactly right on this until you have failed dozens of times and get your ass handed to you on a silver platter…dozens of time.
In pickup, we call this the flow state, or simply “in state”.
It takes practice and failure before getting the hang of it.
This reality is understood and accepted in every aspect of life, except when it comes to getting good with women, men want a magic-pill shortcut which doesn’t exist.
On that note, I want you to re-read this post and take note of the key pointers I outlined below each screenshot.
When you will have done that, over time, everything will click and gel together to where you no longer need to think but flow naturally.
On the question of “do women like straightforward guys”, the answer is a resounding yes!
However, positive reception of this “straight-forwardness is depended upon the guy’s frame, belief system and conviction. Those things affectionately known as one’s Inner Game.