The Unfairness Of Women Who Cheat

I have tons of screenshots which I’ve taken on the months, most of which strike me as hilarious and telling. I wish to post them just to get rid of those image files taking up massive amounts of space on my mini SD card.

Anyway, so this chick whom I was hooking up with for almost 9 months now, discovered that her BF was cheating on her with his ex.

What does she do?

She plays the victim card, quite naturally since her BF doesn’t know that she’s been screwing me for almost a year, and she turns around and stabs him…literally.

[My texts in green]

She’s hurt because her BF cheated on him. Yet she’s been cheating on him with me…but it’s nothing.

Oh well.

Cheating Girlfriend Turns Stalker…Part II

Since meeting and hooking up with the girl spoken of in the previous post, a process which took no longer than 4 days might I add [from pickup via FB to sex], things have turned for the worse.

In what way you may ask ❓

Well- she’s becoming clingy: very clingy.

“Clingy” is a pleasant way to put it. In common jargon: she’s a fucking pest!

Now, it’s quite understandable for others to surmise that perhaps I’m being melodramatic here with colorful descriptions such as clingy and pest. But a huge part of the discontent on my end comes down to personal likes, dislikes and boundaries.

If a girl rings me more than twice a day, I’m liable to become very irritated as I begin to feel somewhat stifled and claustrophobic, and as though I’m being watched with tabs being kept on me.

Additionally, and more in relation to the girl here, after I would’ve hooked up with a chick, the excitement and novel feelings wane for the most part.

Essentially, the game is over.

In such a case, I prefer to then settle into a more quasi-traditional role where nothing spectacular happens.

In other words: booty-call and that’s it.

Nothing irks me more than when a girl pushes for more than what I’m willing to bargain for.

Sounds like I’m beating around many bushes and speaking in riddles, right?


Anyway, so this chick became super clingy since we hooked up once.

She had since re-added me on Facebook, she has me on Whatsapp, IMO and numerous other platforms to say the least.

If she can’t reach me by telephone, she sends me a bunch of frikkin’ text messages, she messages me on Facebook, video-calls me on IMO, etc.

This is overbearing!

Other guys would love this! The average guy would salivate at the idea of having a girl chase him, call and text him ’till infinity!

I on the other hand instantly feel a sense of crowdedness.

This shit gets real old real quick.

Furthermore, I just want to quickly touch on the “hooked” factor in relation to sex.

There’s a general misconception by large numbers of men out there, who hold the notion that a girl gets hooked to a guy because of his sexual prowess and how good he fucks her in bed.

This is absolutely FALSE as I’ve been preaching for years!

I regularly get subjected to the nagging conversations between the boys at the barbershop on weekends, conversations which include ideal proclamations such as the following:

“Man, if I ever get my hand on that girl, I would smash her so good, she’ll be knocking on my door everyday, hooked on the dick”!

I laugh because these guys literally have no clue as to what keeps girls hooked and turned into stalkers.

It isn’t about how good you fuck the girl. But existential factors which have very little to do with sex.

Case in point, had you read part I of this 2 part series, I mentioned that I “half-ass” banged the girl while back at my place.

“Half-ass” denotes a mediocre and lackluster performance, right?


My performance that night ranked arguably the worst of all time, aided by the fact that she wasn’t enjoying it herself.

Now, with that being said, why has this girl now turned into a clingy stalker since our first and only sexual encounter was a joke?

Again- it had nothing to do with sex.

Getting a girl hooked on you is a psychological thing, and rarely ever boils down to the mere physical such as sexual performance.

As a guy, you may be led to believe it’s mere sexual. But that is because you’re not lending credence to the other things you might have been doing right.

Here’s a look at the chat log between this cheating girlfriend and me. This was days later down in the month of May since we hooked up. This was also upon receiving numerous phone calls from her #, and a slew of calls from an unknown number…which was from her 😦 [my texts in green]


The deal was, she wanted us to go to the beach together, so that’s why she asked if I still had my friend’s vehicle.

The thing is though: “why”?

“Why should we go to the beach”?

“You’re not my girlfriend”!

“What would be the point”?

Those are the questions I asked myself, which I wanted to scream at her.

She kept persisting about the beach thing. So much so that she even rang me to try to come to some accord in her favor. 😯

I ignored her messages and phone calls into the following day.

The reason she wanted to go to the beach with me was to have sex in the water.

Generally, I wouldn’t mine such a proposal. But not after having slept with the girl.

In any case, I don’t take light to girls bugging me, calling me and texting me for whatever reason.

Do I lose respect for a girl once I sleep with her?


I’ve stated many times in the past on this website that there is no such thing as whores and people who cheat.

IMHO, because a girl sleeps around doesn’t deem her valueless. I have way more respect for a girl who is sexually liberated and doesn’t make a guy wait weeks, months and years, than a girl who intentionally drags out the inevitable just to try to make herself look valuable.

What I don’t like are girls who get attached and clingy.

As for girls with boyfriends; I have no qualms sleeping with them, nor do I hold the opinion that it is unethical in any way.

Lastly, I just want to emphasize that once you become skilled in the art of picking up women, no 1 girl becomes more important than the next chick.

The vast majority of guys lose sight of things once they manage to get their dick wet.

They begin to fetishize, idolize, pedestalize and cherish the girl for no good reason, simply because she spread her legs for them.

Soon after, the guy becomes ultra-clingy, needy and stalkerish.

This sort of reaction, in turn, turns women off.

If you want to turn a girl into a stalker (which I don’t) after you would have banged her, you have to treat her derisively, dismissively and coldly.

Not every girl I sleep with turns into a stalking pest.

Most times it depends on how I play it, the frame and other existential factors.

Cheating Girlfriend Turns Stalker…Part 1

“There’s no such thing as cheating”!

Two weeks back, I picked up a random hottie on Facebook, a girl who lives about a 10 minute drive away from my area.

Side note: I guess by now it’s no secret that I pull lots of ass in succession via Facebook.

Anyway, not surprising, this girl has a boyfriend. But that never stops a girl from sleeping around does it ? ❓

Within 5 minutes of messaging through Facebook, I managed to attract her (to my vibe and bad-ass personality), we exchanged numbers with the plan in mind to hang out sometime in the coming days.

The key here guys, as I’ve been preaching ad nauseum, whenever you number close [get a girl’s #], always ensure that the girl knows the deal, that you aren’t grabbing her # just for the fuck of it, instead to meet up, hang out, go out, whatever.

Too many guys still make the mistake of securing girl’s numbers as some sort of psychological trophy, when the # is merely just the beginning, while guys are treating it as though they had visited poon-town.

Additionally, if you grab a girl’s # without clearly stating to her that the reason is to meet up ASAP, she will assume what she’s been accustomed to assuming her entire life: “He simply wanted my number just to talk or text sometime”.

Do you want her # just to talk and text?

I sure fucking don’t!

Hence, always ensure that you relay to her (while getting the #) that this is about meeting up.

Okay, so once this girl and I swapped numbers the very day I friend requested her on Facebook, my plan as usual was in motion: to meet up for a bite/drink, or meet up @ my place for “Netflix & Chill”, πŸ˜‰ otherwise dubbed: “Netflix and Sex”

With this girl however, it was trickier than expected.

I absolutely never meet up with girls during the afternoons, simply because I’m a night person I guess.

However, her weekday evening schedule was such that she couldn’t manage to make it out the house because her boyfriend works in the evenings. So the only how we would’ve been able to meet up was if she comes by me between the hours of 12 pm and 5 pm…on weekdays that is.

Another challenge presented itself, but on my end: on weekdays, there’s no guarantee that I would be home until about 4 pm. And that would effectively be too late to meet up.

Be as it may, I rolled the dice on a Friday afternoon where we planned to meet up @ my place around 12 lunchtime. So I ditched some work I was doing and went home to get shit in order for the rendezvous.

Twelve noon went and came, 1 o’clock went and came, and the girl was a no show.

She texted me and we had the following exchange as to the delay [her texts in white].


Basically, she was running errands for her mother. 😦

“Soon come” but she never came.


Since it’s a weekday (though it was Friday), I kind of knew that meeting up in the evenings was out of the question since she told me that her boyfriend works from the evening, and she’ll have to stay home to babysit their toddler. So that was the big dilemma as to why she couldn’t just meet up with me, even though her boyfriend wasn’t to be home.

She decided to ring me so we could hatch a plan of some sorts for the Friday night.

We talked about the possibility of her sneaking out with the baby, essentially bringing the baby along with her to my place. 😯 😯

Plan B was for her to look a sitter so that we could meet up.

We discussed that over the phone before resuming text conversation.

One of her concerns was that if and when she does sneak out to stay with me for the night, she wanted to ensure that she was able to shower.

Why the hell not?

I assured her that she could shower by me.

In fact, she doesn’t even have to hitch a cab.

“I’ll pick you up”! [Text log below. My texts in green]


Generally, I don’t drive unless I TOTALLY have to. Though this wasn’t a matter of compulsion, I borrowed a friend’s car for the night just for this mission. So the plan was set in motion: drive to her address and she will meet me outside, we drop the baby off at her girlfriend’s house then head to my pad.

It gets tricky though as things progressed.

The 2nd attempt at meeting up was supposed to happen before 9 o’clock PM but things were looking shaky.

According to her, her boyfriend became suspicious as to why she was packing the baby’s bag as if he or she were to sleep out that night.

“Damn girl! You have to be more careful than that”! I said to her over the phone.

At that point, I had already driven to her area but was told to stay put for a few minutes since her boyfriend was still home, lurking around trying to get answers.

She came up with the excuse that she was going by a girlfriend’s for a bit, so that’s why she was packing the baby and heading out in the first place.

The boyfriend didn’t buy it at all!

He was supposed to be at work from about 6 pm and it was close to 9 pm and he was still home trying to get to the bottom of things.

Meanwhile, I was parked up in the dark at a nearby high school, waiting for some answers, and hoping that shit doesn’t go any further South than they have already.

We were supposed to meet up since 12 noon the Friday, and it was 9 PM the Friday and still having complications.

The boyfriend abated and decides to leave the house…according to what she told me over the phone.

The high school is virtually a bloc away from her apartments, so she rang my phone, asking if I spot a guy in a certain description headed towards my direction.

“Nope. I didn’t see anyone of that description”.

No one was on the road near the high school for that matter.

She didn’t trust that her boyfriend really went to work. But that he’s possibly outside lurking to see where she goes…if she does leave.

Minutes later, I was becoming more restless and antsy.

She didn’t want the boyfriend to see her getting into some strange car parked on the side of the road. So that compounded to the fear.

Oh well- she made a run for it anyway!

Here she comes with baby in hand to meet me parked up by the high school.
[The chat log on the right side. My texts in green. Hers in white.]


We dropped the baby off at her friend’s, stopped off at a fast-food joint to get some pizza then headed to my spot for the rest of the night.

“Holy crap”!

Now that was a head rush!

What a huge risk to take, huh?

The extent to which a woman is willing to go just to cheat on her boyfriends is remarkable!

This chick was so comfortable at my place, not only did she fall asleep, but I had hell trying to get her ass to wake the fuck up! So much so that while trying to wake her, I was posting to Facebook in real time about kicking girls out after sex, and how there was this girl in my bed who didn’t want to get up.

Females on Facebook were even weighing in…in defense of me kicking her out nevertheless. πŸ˜† πŸ˜†


After successfully kicking her out after 1 AM, the Saturday morning. πŸ™‚


The primary reason I wanted to, and ultimately kicked her out, was because I wanted to hit up the bar to run some night game and get some phone numbers.

Yea- lame right?

Therefore, having this chick at home in my bed, was in essence fucking up my plans.

Other guys- those who lack options- would die for the opportunity to have a girl want to sleep over.

A master pickup artist doesn’t put pussy on a pedestal…especially after he would’ve slept with the girl.

At the end of the day guys, hopefully you would’ve realized a theme that I push around these parts for years now:

Relationships mean very little to women.

Present a woman with the right set of circumstances and the right kind of guy, and she will fuck him regardless of her relationship status.

If a guy’s girlfriend hasn’t cheated on him yet, it isn’t so much that she’s against the idea of sleeping with another guy.

It may very well boil down to the fact that she hasn’t met the right guy yet who has the persuasive skills to get her to want to cheat on her boyfriend.

Hence, it is rarely ever the case that your girlfriend loves you so much that she will never cheat. Instead, she hasn’t come across a master seducer such as myself who knows how to instant sweep her off her feet by giving her that feeling of being desired and wanted.

Additionally, 98% of the women I slept with over the last 10 years, all had boyfriends or were married.

Let those statistics marinate in your system for a bit.

Stay tuned for part II.

Hooking Up With British East-Indian Hottie Teacher On The Day3

Interesting field report about a British chick- a preschool teacher- whom I’d picked up and banged about 4 weeks ago.

The back-story behind how we met was super interesting.

I went to pick up my daughter one day from preschool and the British teacher said to me, “Your daughter is very adorable”.

In my head, I took that to mean she was trying to say she wanna have my baby…preferably an adorable one also πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜† .

Anyways, I got on the case right away and picked her up (got her #) and slept with her about 2 days later.

By the way, she has a boyfriend (as almost all women do), so we kinda went our separate ways after hooking up that one time.

That’s what I love about screwing girls with boyfriends. Because of their situation, they don’t often find themselves getting clingy and needy.

They just fuck on the side and let it be.

Anyway, so today, about 4 weeks since meeting her @ the preschool and hooking up with her, I went to pick up my daughter and bumped into the British teacher again.

She sort of gave me some hints that she was open to hooking up again.

In confirmation of this hunch of mines: she asks for my # so she can hit me up on Whatsapp…which she did a bit earlier today as the chat-log below will indicate.

Anyway, so she hits me up earlier after she’d bumped into me while picking up my daughter from preschool.

By the way, she’s a very adorable chick [more facial adorability than sex appeal since she doesn’t have the sexiest bod], 25 years young, super intelligent, of East-Indian descent (probably mixed with something else).

As I write this post, she’s on her way over to my spot for round 2 [the D2] after I’d finished up having a solo drink @ the lounge.
[Her texts in white. Mines in green]






Stay tuned for an interesting post on the topic.

Simple Mind Hack To Keep Your Girl From Cheating

Keeping with the theme of infidelity from the previously posted article which caused a few stir while circulating around social media, in that article, I hinted at my mindset and frame when it comes to the way in which I pre-handle the possibility of a cheating girlfriend.

As I also mentioned in detail within that article, the only way to truly keep a girl from cheating is by knocking her up and turning her into a fat-unattractive slob who doesn’t feel secure about herself.

Apart from that, the second best and most effective strategy to keep your girlfriend from cheating, requires a bit of reverse psychology and mind hacking.

As kids, we tend to do the opposite from what we were told by our parents.

“Don’t touch this thingy here or else…”!

What does every curious kid does upon hearing such a warning?

He touches the thingy anyway!

I recall when I was younger, perhaps around the age of 12, my mother had a stash of VHS tapes for movie nights when all of us- younger brother included- would gather around and watch a Sunday evening flick.

There was a specific set of VCR tapes that she warned us not to watch.

She had them marked with a purple marker which indicted the “off-limits” tapes that we were forbidden from our viewing.

As any kid faced with such a situation, what did we do?

We touched them anyway!

We wanted to see what was on these forbidden tapes.

At that time, my brother and I had no clue that porn even existed.

That was the last thing [porno tapes] we would’ve cooked up in our wildest imagination!

We just thought that these movies may have contained tons of profanity and gruesome actions…though we all watched action flicks which had curse words in them, so something wasn’t right if we were forbidden from watching those specific tapes which may have contained foul language.

In any case, my younger brother and I while snooping around our mother’s room, we decided to quit the ponderance and finally see what these forbidden tapes were all about, defying mom’s stern and sometimes indulgent and amicable warnings.

That was our first encounter with porn and it was mind-fucking numbing!

We didn’t know how to process what we were watching.

Surely we knew sex existed, but never actually witnessed it, nevertheless so graphically, up-close and personally raw in the rawest sense!

Within no time, at least when the shock of seeing fucking wore off, our poor addiction was born unbeknownst to our mother. 😦 πŸ™‚

As any parent, being light years ahead of his or her kid’s underdeveloped trickery, she somehow knew we were checking out those secret tapes.

Parents always know!

They’ve been there; done that [trying to pull tricks and stunts on their parents].

“Ok Kenny, what does your first encounter with porn have to do with cheating and mind-hacking”?

Just as the kid who seeks to defy and undermine his-her parent’s rules, women often operate as such within the confines of a relationship.

Men also defy rules and encroach upon red lines, but often so in regards to situation of legal ramifications and consequences.

This truth [defiance of the law] is universally represented by the fact that boys and men are way more likely to break the laws of the land than females are.

Hence, males definitely do consciously go contrary from the guidelines and warnings which are enjoined upon them by law.

Women are much more liable to comply in keeping the law of the land.

In relationship matters however, where infractions of the law are not consequential, females are much more ruthless and often wantonly disregard and defy the expectations and quasi-rules of relationships.

Just as the little boy who raids the hidden cookie jar against the wishes of a parent, a woman will often test and push the limits to see what she can and will get away with within the relationship.

She will toe the proverbial red lines and often flirt with crossing it.


Before I go there, lemme point out something interesting about humans and pathology.

Humans are weird creatures in the sense that we willfully [sub-consciously at times] do what we are told not to do; even when such advisory is in our best interest.

Case in point: we are told that the consumption of alcohol, tobacco and drugs are harmful and they may kill us dead…LITERALLY! Yet we still drink and smoke in defiance of warning from the so-called “experts”.

We are also taught that unprotected sex is dangerous- yet we are still having babies- an act which requires fucking without protection.

Driving without a seat-belt or riding a motorcycle without a helmet.

The list of common “don’t dos” is extensive, yet a great portion of us shit in the face of such warnings.

At the core of it all, it is an innate desire to want to rebel and to experience a taste of forbidden fruit for ourselves.

That which is forbidden is deemed desirous and valuable, and its value appreciates the more it is kept from us.

Think: rare and scarce items, an antique, or while at a restaurant and there’s a food item which is said to have been selling off fast and is about to sell out.

Get the picture?

My brother and I didn’t quite care much for the VCR tapes that were permissible for us to watch.

They didn’t have that “forbidden” or scarce appeal, which meant that they weren’t of much value.

We wanted the fucking forbidden ones- because in our eyes- the reason mom forbade us was because those videos were somehow the shit!

This isn’t done exactly on a conscious level neither.

We don’t exactly say to ourselves: “I’m gonna drink myself into an early grave today”!

We don’t drink alcohol with a conscious reminder that it may kill us.

We drink, smoke, eat, enjoy and live free from consequences.

All that matters is that we want that drink, that drug, that dish that everyone says is bad for us!

Furthermore, how about this pertinent example for good measures: parents warning their daughters from the bad boys.

Every girl on the face of the planet has received her fair warning to stay away from the rebels and bad boys, because they are unscrupulous heart-breakers who will cheat and beat.

Just as they had been duly warned: every girl has had her fair share of forbidden bad boys and had been fucked over royally by every one of them…yet the cycle perpetuates itself.

When it comes to keeping you treasured girlfriend from sharing her goods, you have to treat the act of cheating as less valuable as it may be in your personal opinion.

The more value and importance you enjoin onto it [the act of cheating], the more likely the girl is to flirt with the idea and the act of cheating by encroaching upon that red line to actually crossing it.

By hounding your girlfriend about cheating and verbally warning her with consistency that doing so will have been devastating thus it’s forbidden: may likely turn out to be counterproductive.

This is why it is best to grant your girlfriend some form of liberty to talk to other guys if that is what she wishes. And don’t let her convince you that she doesn’t desire to talk to other guys, because no matter how much you try to forbid her from texting other guys; she will do it anyway, simply because you had forbidden it!

By making something “prohibited”, it builds its stock [think of alcohol during the prohibition years in America].

Verbally and or physically prohibiting your girlfriend from communicating with other men, will have inadvertently coerced her towards just that, as the act of communicating with other men, will have seemed more valuable now that it has been prohibited by the boyfriend.

On the contrary: not forbidding something lowers its stock, value and importance.

This is where the effective mind-hacking psychology comes into play.

Place less importance on cheating, and your girlfriend won’t entertain the idea of doing so.

Constantly accusing her of cheating, or merely advising her against it, has the potential to wield self-fulling prophecy into effect.

We’ve all heard that before: “watch what you wish for”!

It isn’t exactly that prophecy and faith are driving this more so that women want to engage in some forbidden act which has been inadvertently deified by the boyfriend’s actions of prohibiting it.

In all respects; your girlfriend should know that if she cheats, she will face the consequence of being dumped on her ass.

Also, every girl within a monogamous relationship knows that cheating is impermissible. So it’s not like you have to drill her on this which is a given.

Every now and then however, she does need such a reminder, but it’s preferable if this is done in non-combating fashion rather than during a fight where things are bound to be taken for granted and with a grain of salt.

All in all, you must avoid showing women your weaknesses or they will exploit them.

Hence, take and communicate the idea of her cheating as a laughable matter which will get her dumped in the end.

Don’t place that much importance upon it, or she’ll become like that fat kid who scales the counter in order to raid the forbidden cookie-jar hidden atop the refrigerator.

Leave the cookie-jar at hand and its contents will lose its value.

Sparing all the cookie-jar metaphor, my attitude towards my girlfriend is neither one of jealousy, snooping, stalking nor [over]protectiveness in the sense of trying to police her phone and to police whom she texts and talks.

She’s given the rope to possibly hang herself if she wants to.

Chances are: she won’t, since hanging herself [cheating] doesn’t grant her the satisfaction of knowing that she had partaken in a forbidden act of any substantial value that would possible hurt me.

Apart from the myriad of popular reasons why women cheat [thus says mainstream-dating outfits], and the core/true reasons which I laid out in the previous article, the match that will have lit the proverbial fire comes in the form of a petrified boyfriend who makes the thought of infidelity such a big deal to the point of eating away his soul.

Become more self-secured and trust your own frame/reality/position [never trust the girl’s]!

You don’t have to be this guy trailing behind his girlfriend trying to watch her every move, or else you won’t come off as a strong Alpha who has his shit handled, rather a weak Beta-Male who doesn’t trust what he says and expects!

At the end of the day, a girl very well knows who to cross and when to cross him.

If you subtly give her the impression that she can be replaced tomorrow by a hotter, fitter, younger or wealthier girl; then she will stay well within the confines of the relationship boundaries and your expectations, so long as the looming reality that she is dispensable, remains looming.

It is only when she becomes complacent and doesn’t trust your manliness that she actively seeks to cross you via cheating.

Hence, in spite of what I said in the previous article which might have given the impression that women are inclined to cheating, this is mainly so depended on their boyfriend’s disposition and frame.

If he indicates to her that cheating is akin to a crime- punishable by death- she will then flirt with that idea…as counter-intuitive as it seems [simply because of the forbidden aspect].

Make no mistakes about it guys: I am NOT here telling you to accept cheating, or that cheating should be deemed a minor infraction.

If your girlfriend cheats on you: you should dump her if that is what you want!

However, I’m merely advising you that the more verbal and forceful emphasis you place upon her NOT cheating, the more enticing the act of cheating will have become! Just as hiding the cookie-jar and candies make the kids crave and want them that much more!

On a primal and core level; we are all still little fucking kids on the inside!

Nothing has changed besides our body statures and other physical attributes. But psychologically, emotionally and mentally; we still for the most part behave as we did as pre-pubescent lads and lasses.

With women, this is more so the case of forbidden fruit when it comes to the opposite sex.

Case in point just to illustrate how differently we are on this: tell/warn a guy that so and so girl is bad for him, she’s a slut, she had fucked 100 guys and she may possibly have an infection of some sort, and watch every guy who had received this warning avoid her like a walking plague.

Not quite so with females!

Her parents, siblings and counselors can warn her from the bad boy in the neighborhood: he’s dangerous, he smokes and drinks, does nothing but rides around on his motorcycle all day, doesn’t have a job, has 3 girlfriends and 10 kids whom he doesn’t take care of, he’s rumored to have an infection and he’d also been arrested a few times for assaulting 1 of his girlfriends, and for instigating a bar fight that led to a few people being slashed and arrested! They can tell her this for an entire year- every single day- and she would still not take heed, but would become strangely attracted to such an infamous character and wind up fucking him and possibly getting pregnant for him…just to add insult to injury.

Thus, whereas the boy/man would do his utmost to avoid being remotely associated with screwing a slut [forbidden and despised woman], a girl/woman would be drawn to the rebellious bad boy whom everyone despises [he is forbidden fruit].

With that, it clearly demonstrates that women are way more likely to test the waters and flirt with danger than men are…in the sense of dating and mating.

Therefore, insecurely warning a girl not to talk to so and so [a specific guy for instance]- as the boyfriend- will likely have the adverse effect in making the girl curious and wanting to defy warnings…even to her detriment.

Case in point: how many stories have you heard of a so-called girl who had everything she ever wanted in a man and relationship, he pampers and spoils her to death, yet she ends up cheating anyway with a guy who doesn’t have shit and doesn’t do shit for her?

Ironically, whenever a girl cheats, it is often times with a guy who is worse off in every conceivable way than her boyfriend is [apart from the seduction aspect].

I know this very well firsthand, because I am the guy who boyfriends and parents warn their girlfriends and daughters not to mingle with because “he’s a player and heart-breaker”! πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰

Whenever I sleep with a new girl- be it she’s single or taken [96% of them are taken]- the oft-too-familiar conversations I’ve become quite used to while getting dress after sex is:

Girl: “If my boyfriend were to find out I had sex with you; he would kill me”!

Me: “What!? How does your boyfriend even know me or know of me”?

Girl: “He went through my Facebook the other day after we had a fight and seen who I had as friends and who mostly comment on my stuff. For some reason he thinks we messing with each other”.

Me: “Huh!? Why did he single me out”!?

Girl: “He said he googled your name [‘Socialkenny’] and seen your writings on your blog and how you treat women like dirty. He said if there’s any guy he would ever kill me over if I were to cheat, is someone like you who has no respect for women”.

The irony is very blaring, that the 1 guy [at least the type] who boyfriends are mostly threatened by, is the one their girlfriends almost always go for when they do decided to cheat.

This again underscores the main theme that once you make something or someone religiously forbidden, a woman’s curiosity will seek to venture there. And the only way to counter or avoid this in the first place is to trust your stance and position to the point whereas you wouldn’t have to come off as an insecure man-child by scolding your girlfriend about the guys she talks to online.

Give her leeway and relax your stern take on women who cheat.

You can harbor all the rancor and negative feelings you want about women who cheat and she being a possible cheater. Just that you shouldn’t jump down your girlfriend’s throat about such feelings or else she will lose respect for you as a confident and solid man, and she will subsequently cheat.

The Secret World Of Sex, Mating And Cheating Women + Why Women Check Out Other Women With The “Evil Eye”!

The “evil eye”?

“WTH is that all about Kenny”!?

Ok- I’ll be the first to admit that the titling of this article is a tad-bit exaggerative [what an oxymoron]. But, the way in which most chicks check out other chicks, you can almost sense the disdain if you were to really become an observant of the sexes like I am.

Last night while at the bar running some usual night-game, I posted the following screenshotted status to Facebook.



Ok, couldn’t get any plainer!

The fact is; women check out other women way more often than men do!

You have some women who are super stealthy about it [just as some men].

On the other hand, you have your portion of women who are openly threatened by competition, so the least of their concerns is to adhere to social norms by not “STARING” at others.

Now, as my fellow seductionists have well pointed out as seen in the screenshots, the reason why women watch, stare and check out other women, boils down to 3 main factors:

1.) Competition

2.) Threat to her survival and replication value

3.) Inadequacy

I’ve always been aware of this “hidden” jealousy which women harbor towards each other. But last night while at the bar- this shit was somewhat surreal!

As if I had a magnifying apparatus glued to my face, I was noticing as every newly arrived girl entered the venue, the ones who were already there would stare, watch and point: some more blatant than others.

For clarity sake, I’m not speaking of girls staring other girls in the eye in combative fashion.

I’m talking about apparent-heterosexual girls breaking their necks trying to watch other girls’ asses as they saunter by.

If you were the average guy and you took note of this, you would surmise that these girls were Lesbians on the prowl trying to size up their female targets.

As a master seducer who had studied women under his proverbial microscope, I am well aware that these “looks and stares” are products of things much deeper and meaningful…like survival and replicative value in the sense of competition.

Women feel threatened whenever faced with potential competitors via other women.

Men to an extent have the same tendencies, especially since we are very territorial and protective by nature.

However, the stark difference here is that a man would behave that way when trying to guard his girl from potential preys via Alpha-Males who are hovering around the nightclub looking for a weaker guy’s girlfriend to pounce down upon.

Hence, for a man to feel a sense of competition, threat and rivalry from other men in a venue: is a totally different story…and plausible!

In the case of women now, they aren’t necessarily guarding their men from other women as to why they feel threatened, hence they watch other women with the “evil eye”. They are threatened by competition in other women, even though there may be no guy involved to whom they can stake thier claims.

Moreover, in the pickup world, we talk about survival and replication ad nauseum.

“What is that, and what does it have to do with women checking out other women’s asses”?

Well, it isn’t just ass-watching that women engage in when it comes to sizing up rivals.

They also check for boobs, hips, lips, facial affectations and attractiveness, blemishes, spots, scaring, etc.

There are also cultural variations just to be exact. The “ass-watching” [women watching other women’s asses] is more prevalent in black communities than others, where more emphasis of attraction value is placed upon buttox sizes [the bigger and wider the better], and girls with bigger asses are seen as more attractive [even if they has a shitty face]. Hence, they present more of a competition and threat to girls who aren’t that stacked in the trunk [this is in black societies].

This is not the case in communities such as Orientals for instance. Ass sizes don’t play a role in replication and mating value, neither in what a man finds to be the epitome of attractiveness and sex appeal within Oriental societies.

Likewise in white societies. The emphasis isn’t much on “ASS” but face.

White guys generally prefer a cuter face. Hence, a white girl living in a white community, is likely to feel more threatened by a cuter girl entering the bar. Whereas a black girl living in a black community, won’t pay much attention to the girl’s face, but her buttox in comparison to hers.

Other existential factors are things such as lips, outfit, grace, the manner in which a girl walks, her hair, hairdo, hair color [blonde-brunette], eyes, makeup, etc.

Those things are keenly noticed and noted by women whenever other women [potential rivals] enter a bar or nightclub.

You also have breast sizes which present a serious challenge from girl to girl.

“Are her boobs bigger than mines”?

“Are they as buoyant and perky, or sagging somewhat”?

Women scan for all these things!

They have to [at least they think they do]!

Her chances of mating, finding a mate, child-bearing [replication] and finding someone who can protect her [survival value], she feels to herself, are all in jeopardy once a so-called “hotter” girl shows up.

Now, this is all happening [feeling of threat, loss and competition] on a sub-conscious and unconscious level.

Women are NOT consciously aware of this…until they read my blog of course. πŸ˜‰

These feelings occur behind the scenes; beneath her level of consciousness.

I mean, share this startling piece of information with any girl [that women check out other women because of fear/threat to mating], and watch her deny that this even occurs to the top of the mountain!

Again; it isn’t that she’s lying or living in naivetΓ©.

She simply just doesn’t fucking know because these things occur outside of her awareness!

Hence, this will be news flash to her just as it might be to you guys who are reading this article right now.

Moreover, whenever a girl goes out- on the surface level [consciously that is]- it is to “have fun”.

She consciously rationalizes the decision to “go out” to mean enjoying herself with the girls and getting hammered.


What she doesn’t quite know, is that the agent which is actually driving her to want to go out [the secret propellant] is her innate desire to want to mate, breed [get pregnant] and survive [bearing kids means she lives on through them after she dies].

Secret Society of Mating, Pregnancy and Cheating

This is “Survival & Replication”!

It secretly drives every fucking girl’s motive!

Thus, if another girl threatens her chances of getting laid [this is what it is when you distill it all down], she will become catty, petty, gossipy and try to tear down the competition by devising some sneaky and crafty tactics such as pointing out something about the other girl which may possibly lower her chances of spoiling hers.

This is why girls talk about other girls so negatively.

Girl 1: “Look at her shoes! They don’t even go with that dress”! πŸ˜†

Girl 2: “Girl you’re right! And her hair color is so stupid! Which man would ever look at her”!?

As men; we never engage in such shenanigans! So the sexes, their modus operandi and their motives in life are totally different from each other!

Men and women are NOT the same! And I get royally annoyed as fuck whenever women say shit like:

“Men are like that too”! “Men do the same thing”!


We don’t have time to gossip about what the next man has on or how his shoes doesn’t match his shirt or any other meaningless chatter!

Men do not bring down the competition in such a way because it will come off as girly and insecure.

With women, it is about downing the competition at any cost because her life and survival depend on it!

If she doesn’t get impregnated sooner than later, she will have to face the dreaded menopause…which means death if she is childless and has no means to reproduce thereafter.

Hence, when you think about it that way: it is prudent and incumbent upon every woman to stoop low and play dirty in order to survive!

As for men, we can inseminate women up until the point of death. So we don’t [have to] operate from this paradigm of innate desperation as though we are on a time-clock of sorts.

Women are on the fucking time-clock!

Additionally, this is also the underlying reason why women cheat, and why they cheat way more than men do [contrary to popular belief].

She is in survival mode and trying to get impregnated as sooner and often as humanly possible!

The more sex opportunities with which she presents herself, and the more men she screws, the greater the chances of someone’s spermies fertilizing her egg.

Therefore, her inherent-motherly instincts can give a rat’s ass whether the girl is fucking 3 guys without condoms.

Survival instincts within a woman have not 1 iota of respect neither for health, diseases, maladies, STI’s nor confrontation!

The girl secretly yearns for those 3 men to inseminate her all during the same time period.

Moreover, this is why it is so easy to get a girl to cheat on her boyfriend, especially if he hasn’t yet impregnated her.

I posted a startling status to Facebook the other day which raised a lot of eyebrows where I declared that 96% of the girls I sleep with, all have boyfriends or are married.

Is this sheer coincidence?

Of course not!

To guys who lack the understanding of human and female biology in relation to mating; it is sheer coincidence that 96% of the girls Kenny sleeps with, are in committed relationships or marriage.

As for me: I fucking know better [I’ve learnt better; thanks to the gurus in the pickup community who first brought this information to my attention as a student in the game]!

Personally, I know this so-called ugly guy in his 30’s here on island who is infamous for impregnating his hot girlfriend every fucking cycle once her child-bearing period is available [every year that is]!

They have about 10 kids by now!

In hindsight: this guy is fucking smarter than 99% of us!

The only way to realistically keep a woman off of the dating market is by breeding her- and in effect- putting her out of commission…for a year.

She won’t [actively] look for stray dicks once she’s pregnant, because a woman is at her most unattractive while bearing a child.

Men simply won’t look at her because she’s already knocked-up, which means that the guy’s chances of breeding her at that moment, will have been impossible.

Thus, biologically- men aren’t attracted to her [apart from the rare guy who has a preggo-girl fetish…such as myself πŸ˜‰ ], nor physically attracted to her. So, she’s effectively knocked out of the mating and dating game by the guy who had knocked her up.

This is also the reason during pregnancy, why a woman is likely to chase her boyfriend away by giving him tons of shit in an attempt to rid herself of the guy who put her out of commission…though she got what her biological side wanted anyway; which was to get pregnant.

You guys who have no kids may not be able to relate. But when I got my GF pregnant for the first time about 6 years ago, she drove me crazy!

She resented me for getting her pregnant…though she was on board! But that doesn’t matter to the girl! She will resent you as the one who has her looking all fat and unattractive and ashamed to go outside!

My girlfriend broke up with me like 50 times- no fucking kidding- during her pregnancy!

I had the cops called on me [which was unwarranted], we had physical altercations where I was left scratched up trying to restrain her hands, etc! 😯

By the way; is this rare?


It is the norm!

Nevertheless, as for the ugly guy in my neighborhood who knocks up his super-hot GF every chance he gets: this guy was onto something, but I never had the chance to ask him the reason for knocking up his GF so frequently.

The reason is clear to me: he knows that the only way to keep his woman from cheating and off of the dating market, is to breed her out of commission like an animal!

The only window of opportunity another guy has of breeding/fucking her, is a very small window after she would have delivered. But this guy would get straight to work by knocking her up again, essentially closing that window on any other guy who may had wanted to intrude upon his territory to take his girl.

All in all; this is a mating game on both ends with both sexes!

Both males and females have an inherent desire to replicate and multiple via sex.

That is what we were put on Earth to do if you subscribe to religious ideologies.

We are essentially here to have babies!

Everything else apart from that essential function, is a mere whimsical enjoyment and meaningless frolic.

The only way to keep the human specie alive is to fuck and have babies!

Without that: we all die, and humans cease to exist again!

With this inner fear [human extinction by non-breeding] deeply hard-wired within every person [male and female], you should clearly understand now why women cheat [to breed] and why they dress the way they do [sexy] whenever they go out or simply to go to work.

You will have also understood why a girl wastes her time on social media talking shit about other chicks, “haters” who are trying to take her man and so forth.

She’s trying to eliminate actual or potential competition by berating them.

The more rivals she eliminates, the more men she has for the taking [or retaining hers], and the greater her chances for survival and replication.

In any case, are there any lessons to take away here as a guy?

I would say just the realization of how women operate and why they operate in such manner.

With understanding; you avoid misunderstandings.

If you knew why a woman acts the way she does [beyond her conscious control], then certain shit simply won’t faze nor affect you…at least not as much as if you were still ignorant to this.

Six years ago, though I was already well deep into the Pick-Up Artist lifestyle, my knowledge base about mating and relationship matters weren’t as deep.

I simply had no clue about what drives women, the biological and evolutionary aspects and so forth. So when my girlfriend got pregnant and immediately began to shun me and attempted to shut me out of her life; I simply didn’t understand why!

In my ignorance, I deemed her an evil bitch for that, and we clashed like it were World War III from month 1 to month 9 of the pregnancy!

Hence, again- with understanding- you will have avoided such headaches as I wasn’t able to do.

In hindsight, had I been privy to what I’m sharing with you now, I would’ve simply given my girlfriend space upon request, and dismissed her rudeness and public outbursts as byproducts of her being taken off the dating market to where she was left fat and unattractive and undesirable to other men.

I would’ve avoided ton loads of shit like public fights on the road and getting embarrassed as she throws 1 of her customary tantrums inside of a supermarket [“Get the hell away from me”]!

In retrospect; I laugh about it now that I since learned about the mating ritual through my own discoveries and experiences, along with what I learned many years ago from perusing the blogs of PUA’s who were way more knowledgeable than I was.

Hence, you won’t have to endure what I did once your girlfriend or wife goes crazy on you during pregnancy [like when she demands that you sleep on the couch]…and she will!!!

I mean, if you think women are bitchy, irritable and possessed while on their periods [which they are], multiply that bitchiness and demon-possessiveness by 20, and you’ll get an idea of how a pregnant girl behaves towards her significant other or the guy who knocked her up.

Towards everyone else; she will retain her normal giddy and charming personality.

Towards the guy who had knocked her up [whether boyfriend or husband]; she will have resembled something out of the Exorcist! 😯 😑 πŸ‘Ώ

Nevertheless, with understanding, you won’t ever have to endure this by clashing heads with the devil in the personage of your preggo spouse. πŸ˜‰

I mean, look at it this way guys- and please have empathy- if a girl were to put you out of commission for an entire year where you became fat and ugly- physically and personality-wise – while your bros brag about fucking hotties: how the hell would you feel!?

You would resent your girlfriend! It doesn’t matter if you were head-over-heels in love with her!

You would not take light to the fact that you don’t feel desired anymore, and your girlfriend is the root cause of it.

Hence: “Empathy” is necessary, and understanding will avoid clashing.

Secret Society of Cheating and Cheaters

On a final note, I want to touch on “cheating”…just for a bit.

I’m notorious for publicly declaring to guys that I wouldn’t feel betrayed nor hurt if my girlfriend were to cheat on me.

Is it that I don’t give a crap about her?

Likely not, or else I would’ve ditched her years ago.

I wouldn’t take cheating personally nowadays because I know what drives it on the part of the cheating girl [never the urge for mere sex or more sex].

It has nothing neither to do with slutry, raw promiscuity, a lack of sex nor women loving variety of cocks inside of them, but mere survival and replication!

When you look at it that you- the right way- you will no longer see cheating women as dirty-little harlots who cannot keep their pussy in their panties!

You’ll begin to see that nature and her biological clock [fear of dying without progeny] are actually facilitating and driving her compulsion or desire to sleep around.

It is virtually out of her control!

She has to gamble and play up her odds to survive [have kids]!

One dick only means 1 source of her attaining pregnancy.

Not very good odds when you think of it strategically.

Two dicks and the odds increase.

Screwing 4 guys- and you get the picture- that is 4 instruments which can ejaculate 4 times the load of semen inside of her depository to possibly fertilize her egg once she would’ve been ovulating.

The odds of her getting pregnant obviously increase if or when she sleeps with more guys.

In life, we work off of an odds-based operation by trying to maximize them.

Theoretically, the more applications you fill out for various jobs, the chances of landing a job will likely increase.

Only 1 application? Only 1 shot with poor odds stacked against you.

As for the pick-up artistry and what we teach [the numbers game], the more girls you approach, hit on, contact, etc. the greater your chances of actually landing 1 or some in bed.

This goes without saying.

Likewise with any girl out there. She instinctively knows and plays the odds game in dating and mating!

This is why a woman always has a bunch of guys strung along, and she always keeps orbiter males around in the event that her relationship crumbles, she can always call up the reserves to supply her in no time with companionship and cock.

She is playing to her odds!

She is playing to win [get pregnant] and playing to survive [have kids]!

Trying to keep your fertile girlfriend from communicating with other men outside the relationship, is tantamount to forcing her to commit suicide!

That is how her brain and biological wiring interpret the actions of a boyfriend who tries to get her to sever ties with all guys, stay at home and only communicate with him.

She will rebel and defy this as we all know!

Even if she verbally concedes and agrees to desist from texting other guys. She will continue to text other guys behind the back of her boyfriend anyway!

I had been through that with my girlfriend just as every other guy has!

I threw tantrums and got pissed when I discovered that she was still texting other men behind my back.

These things bother me no more because I understand why they must occur! Hence, I encourage my GF to text other guys, simply because I know she will not desist regardless of what I or anyone says [not even the deity she believes in can stop her]!

I rather my girlfriend to be forthright and transparent with me- by openly extending to her the green light to communicate with other men- than for her to be selling me dreams by trying to convince me that she doesn’t text other guys…while she does just that behind my back.

Therefore, it doesn’t matter what the hell you say as the man in the relationship in relation to your woman talking to other men. She will continue to actively play the field until she hits menopause where bearing kids will have met its expiratory date.

All in all: you truly cannot keep a fertile girl from cheating [unless you knock her up repeatedly].

She will just stealthily do it behind your back if she senses that you cannot handle the truth [that she must play the numbers game in order to increase her odds of child-bearing].

With that being said; I can’t get mad at my girlfriend for cheating if she has or will!

Who the fuck am I or any other boyfriend for that matter, to expect a girl to remain faithful to her own detriment!?

It’s sort of selfish on the guy’s part when you think about it!

Just as a girl who expects her boyfriend to only sleep with her and to observe monogamy: it is kind of selfish and counterproductive in contrast to nature’s design.

Secret Society of Cheating, Cheaters and Ovulation

Another thing I want to touch on before wrapping up is “Ovulation” [I won’t get in depth with it].

I’m not one for citing studies from “so-called” professional because most of them are full of shit. But studies have shown that when a girl ovulates [which means she can get impregnated at those points of the month], she becomes more randy, sexual and dresses more revealing than normally would.

Knowing that she could get pregnant while that window is open briefly [just a few days or even hours], she will dress provocatively to work, wear that skin-tight dress on the job, or unexpectedly hit the bar, especially if she’s not the bar type.

Whenever a girl ovulates, she subconsciously puts herself on the sexual market…even if she has a boyfriend and is in a happy relationship!

This is all done subconsciously without her knowledge.

Her egg is now discharged into the uterus waiting to be fertilized by an invading sperm [though her egg has protective organisms to fight off the sperms].

During this period, a girl will actively seek attention from men in hopes that she will get impregnated.

In all honesty, this is the ideal time to try to sleep with a girl [when her body ovulates].

As a guy who has slept with countless women, I often encounter cases where I would meet a girl today, try to sleep with her today, but she would shut me down.

On the other hand, I would meet another girl today, try to sleep with her today, and she will oblige and sex would happen.

Other instances, I would meet a girl today, try to fuck her today and she will turn me down. I would strategically persist for 2 weeks but she wouldn’t relent.

Out of the blue, she will send me a text saying, “I’m in the mood to fuck”!

I would then get to sleep with her in spite of her coldness over the previous 2 weeks.

As commonplace as this may seem, you should take into account why a girl would put out on this occasion, but not another. Or why she would fuck you the first night you meet her, but doesn’t give you another shot until a month later…if ever.

Her ovulation period is actually driving this!

She prefers to fuck when the chances of her getting pregnant would have been greater [ovulation].

If this period [ovulation] presents itself today; she will want to fuck today while chances are greater to attain pregnancy.

A sophisticated and prudish ovulating woman at the nightclub, is 10 times more susceptible to game and to being bent over and fucked in the restroom by a random Joe Blow whom she had only met 10 minutes ago in the club!

A dumb club-whore who is NOT ovulating, is likely to put up more resistance to the idea of being fucked by a random stranger…though she’s a so-called slut and should be deemed easy!

The fact that the club-whore cannot get inseminated successfully [meaning to get pregnant] that night since she isn’t ovulating, the drive/urge to have sex and receive semen will not have been great.

The prudish girl on the other hand who has never had same-night sex, because her body and brain know that she is fertile [ovulating], her guards will have been substantially lowered in hopes that some guy will shoot a load of cum inside of her…that night!

My personal belief is this: girls mostly go out as to the bars and clubs whenever they are ovulating [meaning they can get pregnant].

Hence, you have a nightclub filled with fertile-horny women hoping to get some semen injections!

This is why it behooves the crap out of me that there are guys who actually have a hard time realizing how easy it is to take girls home from the club, or to fuck them right inside the venue…like on the dance floor, in the lounge area or the restroom! 😯

These chicks in heat [ovulation] at the bars and clubs are open to random sex with random strangers whom they don’t care to see the next day, as long as they get his semen inside of their body.

She secretly wished that you had slipped off the condom and fuck her raw!

Part of her dies once she discovers that you kept the condom on the entire time and ejaculated inside of it instead of inside of her vagina.

I posted a controversial article years ago about how to fuck girls without condoms. If you’re actually interested in what I had to say on that, you can google the article [sorry- I’m too lazy to look it up and post it here 😦 ].

In keeping with that theme, I also cited that 98% of the women I slept with prior to 2012- the year I tried giving condoms a serious chance- were all without condoms…knowingly so!

Therefore, there should be zero cause for confusion in realizing that the VAST majority of women prefer to be banged raw- sans [without] rubber! And by “vast” and “majority”, I mean virtually every single girl on the planet who attained puberty.

I don’t believe I have to tell you that every girl desires to become a mother.

Periodically, you have the rare nutjob of a woman who desires to remain a childless career-girl for the rest of her life…until some fly-by-night Alpha stud comes along and breeds her behind her husband’s back…which of course the Beta-Male husband will gladly raise the kid as his own since he always wanted [another] child to begin with. So there is truly no woman who will realistically rule out having kids at some point.

As the boyfriend, if you won’t knock her up, she will get it done behind your back…by another man!

Do you think a girl will ever stay indefinitely with a guy who elects to not impregnate her…especially if [it’s a matter of when] she wants kids?

I know of a young guy who is sterile- someone in my age group actually- whose girlfriend cheated out on him and ended up getting pregnant but claiming that the kid was his. πŸ˜†

She didn’t know that her boyfriend hit puberty having infertility issues. But he himself, included the guys he hung out with, knew that he wasn’t able to produce a thing as far as pregnancy was concerned.

Anyway, years into his relationship of not bearing fruit, the girl decided [unknowingly of course at first] to cheat. In the process, she got pregnant…which is every girl’s desire, regardless of the man and his unwillingness to stick around.

The girl then rejoiced that they finally were able to conceive [unknowing that her BF was sterile].

The guy- not as heartbroken as you would imagine- broke the news to her that he cannot cause reproduction.

In other words: he shoots blanks.

Thus, this left 1 conclusion: she had to have cheated.

After the boyfriend produced official documentation confirming sterility, his GF then had no choice but to come clean about cheating.

Knowing that his permanent-infertility issue would’ve been a deal-breaker for most women, in spite of his girlfriend’s infidelity which led to pregnancy, he decided to forgive her and gladly help raise the kid as if she were his [kudos to him].

Saying all that bit to say: if a girl doesn’t find reproductive success in a timely fashion from copulation with 1 man, i.e. her boyfriend or husband, she will cheat on him as means to increase the odds of attaining pregnancy.

Theoretically and practically, as I eluded to earlier, the more guys she sleeps with, the greater the chances that pregnancy will have materialized.

On a surface level a girl doesn’t fuck or cheat to become pregnant.

On a biological and subconscious level [the real agents behind the scene]; fucking or cheating is to bring about pregnancy.

More competition from hotter and younger girls, will threaten her chances and viability.

Hence the answers to the main theme of this extensive article of why women bicker, back-bite and fight each other like pre-pubescent lasses on the playground.

It is to survive and multiply by living vicariously through her future offspring.

After reading this article, hopefully you’ll never see a cheating woman as a dirty-rotten cheater anymore, but someone playing the most essential role in extending human existence. Because hypothetically, if every girl woke up tomorrow and decided to jump on birth-control until menopause – hence no human multiplication at all- humans on a whole will disappear over-fucking night within 1 generation!

I don’t think any one of us want that to happen. Hence, women fight and play dirty for their chance to produce children for a guy in whom, for whatever reason, she deems an Alpha-Male.

Elaborate Seduction Of A Married MILF

Ever so often, I find myself involved in a seduction like something out of the movies…notwithstanding I am the willing catalyst who thrives on such a seduction.

Some months ago, perhaps before the Summer began, while shooting some day-game hidden-cam footage around the city while on a trip to a nearby island, I exited a mobile-phone accessory store, and there was a lady standing beside the exist with a little girl who must have been her daughter next to her.

You can read about that encounter and pick-up in this field-report article:

We parted ways after the spirited chitchat.

Weeks went by and I never heard from her.

No way in the world was I to let this one get away since my drive for sleeping with possible disgruntled wives was insatiable.

What happened when it came to the phone-number exchange was that I got a digit or so wrong. So I was unable to call/text her since the number was unlisted and didn’t exist on the network.


I called and called and called…to no avail!

I swapped digits on every end trying to get it right: 4152, 4125, 4251, 4215…

The only digit in the last row of her phone number I was sure on was the “4”.

After rearranging the digits and calling 20 phone numbers which were all wrong numbers as you could imagine, I wasn’t satisfied with leaving it there. I wanted to press on!

It wasn’t that this married lady was so hot that I had to try to seduce her [though she passed my boner-test]. It was the allure of forbidden fruit that I had to bite into.

“But what”!

I asked myself.

“How am I gonna reach this girl”!?

“Shit! What other recourse and avenues do I have”!?

Oh- I recalled she had told me where she works.

“That’s it”!

“But I have no name to go by but her first name! How will I find her at her workplace”?

Now, I advocate for showing up at a girl’s workplace if push comes to shove.

However, I felt such a move would’ve been too risky in that the woman is married, and I wouldn’t want to alert her husband in the event that a mole or rat in the form of a coworker, spills the beans to her husband somehow.

For all I know, her coworkers probably know her husband and have been introduced somehow.

Too risky!

I decided to call instead.

Brilliant plan!

I can avoid detection this way, while an in-person visit to her job site, would’ve blown cover…at least my face.

Having no number to her workplace, I grabbed the yellow pages [white pages actually] and look it up.


“Here it is”!

“Dammit! There’s more than 1 work location listed under her workplace”!

There were actually about 5 different numbers to 5 different sites, but I distinctively remembered weeks prior when I’d picked her up, she mentioned the area in which her site was located.

That helped narrowed down my search to 1 site!

For the sake of anonymity; let’s call her Amy, the 42 year old married MILF…sexy MILF might I add. πŸ˜‰

There was another potential problem; “I don’t know her surname”. 😯

“Whom will I ask for since I only have her first name to go with”?

Fuck it!

I rang it anyway and asked for “Amy”!

I was told that there were few Amies at that job site.


The receptionist then decided to transfer my call throughout the departments from Amy to Amy, hoping to reach the Amy I was intended to find.

The call got dropped on their end [I believed intentionally]…so I called back.

“Good day. I just called a second ago but my call was dropped. I’m looking for an Amy. I can’t quite remember her surname though”.

Other receptionist: “Hold on a bit. Only 1 Amy is working today. You want to give her a shot”?

Me: “Yea sure”!

My call was again tossed around like a proverbial football from department to department.

Someone in another department picked up.

Me: “Hello. Is this Amy”?

Person: “No sir. Amy is making a cup of coffee right now. You wanna wait”?

Me: “Sure”!

I was put on hold for what felt like 10 minutes…and I wasn’t even sure if this was the Amy [1 of the 3] whom I wanted to reach.

Fingers crossed!

I was hearing all the background chatter which meant that my call wasn’t dropped again somehow.

I could hear someone saying “Amy the phone”.


She got to the phone!

Unsure whether this was the exact Amy I was trying to reach [bear in mind that “Amy” is just a fictitious name used within this article], and having no full name to go by:

Me: “Hey, this is Kenny”.

Amy: “Kenny? Not sure if I know a Kenny”.

Me: “You were supposed to ring or text me a few weeks back”.

Amy: “You suuuuuuuurrrrre”?

Me: “Well, I’m not sure sure, but I believe we met a few weeks back in the city”.

I then went on to describe her to make sure that this was the right girl.

Description was CORRECTO!

I further went on to tell her how and where we met and that I picked her up outside of a cellphone accessory place.

She instantly remembered as she recounted to me bits and pieces of info from the brief encounter.

As expected, she gave me a flimsy reason as to why she never texted.

I told her that I forgot her phone number which is why I had to track her down this way.

She was astonished and a bit puzzled [in an impressive sense] that a guy would go this length to reach her.

Now, I can very well hear some of you guys going “DESPERATE”!

Actually, this was not a desperate move because it was impressive.

You only appear desperate when an action comes off as weird and quirky.

Doing something impressive [and I don’t mean to impress the girl], won’t come across as desperation.

By doing this, I indicated that I wanted her, which only helped to add to the overall attraction and seduction.

We again exchanged numbers after a 20 minute conversation over her work line.

This time I ensured that every digit was precise!

We kept in touch and got to know each other over the course of a few weeks, conversing over the telephone and through text messages.

As expected, the bulk of our conversation was about a lustful affair with each other behind the back of her husband.

The big dilemmas we faced were how, where and when were we to meet up, and subsequently pull off a sexual rendezvous.

Meeting up at a restaurant in town was deemed too risky on both ends.

I frankly didn’t want a meet-and-greet, neither a drink date of any sort.

I wanted to kick off a dirty-little affair by sleeping with her…sans the hoopla!

Being married [she is], the date and dating thing just wasn’t the ideal situation in my estimation.

She was HIGHLY attached and opened to having a secret relationship, in effect having 2 men in her life.

Be as it may, I proposed that we meet up at a hotel on a Thursday morning when I were to be in town.

The plan was: she would go to work as customarily the Thursday morning, then feign/pretend to be sick on the job and ask to go home. Instead of going home, she would drive over to my hotel room.

Why she couldn’t call in sick from home the Thursday morning, was because her husband would’ve still been at home, so she would not have had the time nor leeway to make an excuse as to why she had to run into the city/town.

Her husband would’ve obviously expected her to stay in bed while he ran the errands if it’s a case where she needed something from the drugstore.

Hence, the best plan was to go to work, feign sick on the job [unbeknownst to her husband], but instead of going home, detour to my hotel.

I booked a room at my favorite spot [I was to stay 4 days on island] a week in advance.

Over the course of the week, we sexted and had a few rounds of phone sex just to relieve ourselves of the tension of the pending sex-capade in the coming days.

She became so attached to the point where clumsy mistakes began to surface.

What I mean is, I had to always ensure that she would delete our chat, nude photos, etc. from her phone.

Remind you; she was the only one who had something to lose of the 2. Yet I was exhibiting more carefulness than she was.

I prayed she wouldn’t become even more attached…to her own detriment…and perhaps mines.

Thursday morning arrived, I was already booked into my hotel from Wednesday evening, so it was just a matter of awaiting her arrival.

She skipped work around 9:30 AM under the guise of being sick and entered my hotel room looking healthy as ever!

We wrestled in the sack for a bit [foreplay] until condom-free penetration had commenced.

We slept the duration of the time until 4 PM struck, when she were to drive home as though she was coming from work.

Overall, I rated that experience a 9 in 10.

Usually, I’m very stingy about handing out high grades for any sexual encounter.

However, this case was on another level since the risk factor was even greater being that the lady was married, yet fornicating with a man-whoring pick-up artist behind closed doors.

The forbidden-fruit aspect is very alluring to women and for myself.

Granted, her marriage wasn’t fucked-up as to why she had an affair with me.

There’s this grand and classic misconception that a woman mainly cheats because of dysfunctionalities at home [in her marriage], or because her significant other isn’t playing his role sexually, nor is he attentive to her needs, wants and desires.

Well this is bullshit!

A woman doesn’t need a plausible reason to cheat!

Her marriage can be perfect, normal or average by today’s standards, and she may still find herself entangled in a raunchy affair on the side.

Also, cheating isn’t necessarily repetitive nor perpetual.

“Once a cheater, always a cheater”, is an inaccurate cliche.

How many affairs do you believe that this sexy MILF engaged in prior to our affair?

Likely none.

How about afterwards, though our affair had only been some months ago?

Likely none.

Although she cheated with me, it doesn’t for 1 minute indicate that she’s somehow a perpetual cheater.

Bear in mind: it takes 2 to tango.

It takes a guy who’s willing to actively push the envelope, and it also takes the right and opportune logistics to facilitate cheating.

Contrary from my popular declarations about women being prone to cheating [which is highly true], a woman is likely to remain faithful depended on the types of guys who hit on her [such as her orbiters whom she strings along].

On a further note, there’s a good amount of single men out there who actually respect relationships and marriages and are likely to back off once told that the girl has someone already.

It isn’t that men [or those men] are so virtuous and ethical. It largely boils down to a fear of competition and a misconception of lots of men that women aren’t inclined to cheating.

Hence, they [men who respect relationships] elect to not get involved because they feel as though their shot is minuscule and not worth the investment of time and energy…so they back off.

Saying all that to say; yes women cheat often, and more so than men do! But they aren’t cheating as much because of the above-mentioned factors such as men fearing competition [from other men] and conflict [from a boyfriend/husband].

On a further note, getting girls to cheat on a consistent basis is a quasi-art.

Every now and then, a hapless guy would luck-up by landing inside of a vagina belonging to another guy.

However, to replicate this [getting women to cheat consistently], isn’t in the average guy’s reality, nor on his to-do-list.

Therefore, as much as a woman may want to cheat, it takes that guy who has the ability, fortitude and know-how to lead her there.

Lucking-up could only go so far if you want to find yourself bedding more married women than a gynecologist.

All in all, in relation to the co-protagonist of this field report [the married MILF], we had since fallen out right after due to her intense-emotional attachment which drove me up the hill!

Notwithstanding; I have a girlfriend.

Thus, I cannot afford to get “caught up” emotionally into another woman’s frame/world.

Generally, married women are ultra-crude on keeping a lid on their emotions when involved in affairs [I know since I’ve slept with tons of them over the years].

This once however was the exception for me.

You’re An Evolutionary Idiot For Thinking That Looks Or Money Are What Get Guys Laid [Part I]

The things that make a woman sleep with a man is the same today as they were yesterday.

What are those?

Β Β Β β€’Attitude (boldness & behavior),

 Β Β β€’know-How (ability to read women),

Β Β Β β€’Social Status (fame and infamy)

Those are they!

Today, ‘Fame’ is synonymous with wealth and money, but fame doesn’t necessarily mean wealth and money.

Hence the misconception that having or flaunting money will attract women into bed, actually isn’t true…just ask Elliot Roger how that panned out for him.

Nevertheless, once you realize that a woman’s brain today is the same as her predecessors, you will have known that money and good looks are insignificant in the grand scheme of things.

What inspired me to write this post was an all-too-familiar on-the-fly interaction between a curious guy and myself.

I had a guy approach me the other day and say:

“Kenny, I’m gonna be real with you. You aren’t a good looking guy. You don’t have money. Even if you do, you don’t flaunt it. When I do see you at the bar, you never buy women shit and some of them often shame you for being cheap and shit. So how are you fucking all these girls if you don’t have money, not spending on them and you aren’t that good looking…no offense”?

πŸ˜† I simply laughed because I’m used to this sort of impromptu interaction whenever I come across guys who are familiar with my shtick as a lady’s man.

I do take umbrage with the label “cheap” though.

I prefer to coin it as careful and smart. πŸ˜‰

Be as it may, these guys realize that there must be more to it than good looks and money…neither of which I profess to have in any sort of abundance.

Ironically, though these evolutionary inferior men acknowledge that flaunting money and spending lavishly at the bars and clubs, won’t propel women into their arms – or bed- they still rely on money to attract women…to no avail.

This is the rawest definition of insanity: “Doing the same thing over and over again with the same result of nothingness”.

Only if these guys knew to themselves and really believed it , that looks and money mean little in a woman’s decision to go to bed with you, then they would begin to see what attraction is really about.

Over the past 3 days, my mobile-internet service has been experiencing huge bouts of non-connectivity, so I was forced to read an e-book (or any book for that matter) for the 1st time in over 3 years.

I’d wanted to read, “Sperm Wars” by Robert Baker, an evolutionary scientist, but I never got around to it…in spite of having downloaded this e-book over 2 years ago.

Little did I know: I was sitting on a gold mine of information which will further support my hypothesis on looks and wealth being infinitesimal to the process of courtship, sex and procreation.

The modern man is so surface and material reliant, that he’s now oblivious to what every man has been well aware of for millions of years.

Women, being light years ahead of men in the intelligence department, are privy [however vague] to the evolutionary process of attraction and hooking up.

The average Jane knows what’s going on!

If not on a conscious level, on a subconscious one.

She knows that men want sex. And that any rational-minded man should want sex.

She also knows that she’s the natural conduit towards this peer-bonding of sexual intercourse.

Men on the other hand, due to societal influences and brain-washing, we no longer can accept the reality that- just like us- women want sex too!

Instead of embracing this about ourselves, most modern men shy away from potential stigmas such sleazy, freaky, sex-driven, shallow, perverted, etc.

Therefore, you now have a situation where women are afraid to expose themselves as ‘wanting sex’ (due to social repercussions).

Likewise with men, the vast majority of us, are afraid to let women know that we have a dick in our pants…also due to social repercussions!

Hence, men are afraid and women are afraid.

Men are afraid of communicating that they are desirous of sex. And women are afraid of communicating that they are equally desirous of sex.

What do we do instead?

Men cloak their sexual desires for women in a facade of declarations such as:

“I respect women”

“I’m not about sex”

“I can wait”

He also shows his ‘liking’ through how much money he has, how much material possessions he owns and how willing he is to spend big.

These things are all done in hopes of sexual favors in return.

Actions like these on the part of men, are what lead me to make declarations such as: “Nice guys are the real assholes who aim to manipulate women into sex”.

This is absolutely the truth!

Quote on quote “Nice guys” are the ones looking to manipulate women into bed…and in general!

They cloak their intentions of sex within a neat package of asexuality and non-sexual behaviors such as chivalry and other such socially acceptable niceties.

Nevertheless, they are the true manipulators of women.

Not because they want to be manipulative. But they’ve been programmed into thinking that they have to manipulate women into liking them or into bed.

These so-called nice guys don’t believe in PUA gibberish such as “All women want to fuck”!

When men harbor such unnatural beliefs as “women only have sex with men they love and have known for years”, it is difficult to convince these evolutionary-retards of the contrary- that women do enjoy sex- crave sex more than men do and are open to sex at any given time with any random Joe Blow who recognizes how women operate.

Why most men cannot accept and live with the reality that the average woman will fuck another man at the drop of a hat, is because of their own fears, that their would-be girlfriend could actually stray and fuck another guy for no good reason.

This is a very unsettling feeling for most men, who aren’t at liberty to just get another girlfriend if this one fucks up and cheats.

Men like myself, who realize that women of today are the same as women of 250,000 years ago, can afford to trade in girlfriends if a particular one isn’t quite working out.

Hence, a lady’s man has less fear in accepting the reality that any girl can cheat whenever she pleases without needing a plausible reason.

The only reason she needs to self-justify cheating, is knowing that other men would like to fuck her!

She doesn’t need a fight with her boyfriend to make this happen!

She doesn’t have to have obscured or concrete evidence that her boyfriend has been screwing some other chick behind her back!

All of those are just rationalizations she will use later on to justify her reason for cheating in case someone finds out…perhaps a relative, her BFF or the swindled boyfriend himself.

However, she doesn’t need a reason to cheat.

To backtrack some, I want to touch on the topic of ‘Attitude’, as 1 key component to attracting and bedding women.

Attitude enjoins with it, one’s perception, disposition and his comportment.

A man who displays the right attitude (of a sex-worthy guy), will have more than a leg up on the competitors who may have money and Brad Pitt looks going for them.

Likewise with having “Know-How”, as a key component to getting into girls’ panties quite often.

If you don’t know the route that would take you to someone’s house; then you simply won’t get there.

Having the “know-how” of how to get to a woman’s panties and how her brain works, will become the deciding factor of whether you get laid or go home empty handed.

What know-how would you need?

Firstly, the realization that everything you’ve been told and taught by the mainstream media and your parents, was absolute bullshit!

For example: “You should be nice to all women no matter what, and you’ll get lots of dates”.

Such cliches should firstly be exterminated from your mindset in order to get you on the right track to getting poon!

You must begin to garner the right knowledge as to what women want, how they want it, how women operate and what makes them operate that way.

Realize that women don’t see sex as something taboo and yucky. But a natural part of life itself.

Also realize that women want to fuck just as much as you do!

Knowledge of this [women love sex, want sex and need sex], will be your cheat-code to the game of hooking up.

Avoid falling into white-knight commentaries such as: “There’s more to life than getting laid”.

Men who embody such declarations are usually the ones who never get laid!

They justify their lack of a sex life by berating other men who chase ass.

Those same white-knights, if they could only get laid, you’d see how quickly they abandon those previously held talking-points such as “there’s more to life than getting laid”.

In all fairness: there is more to life than fucking!

As much as I love chasing ass and sleeping with random strangers- a guy in my position- still cannot afford to just fuck his life away!

It is humanly impossible!

Personally, I have to live, eat, work, blog, help take care of and raise my children [I have 2], party, have fun, exercise, travel, etc.

Hence, the myth that one can actually live a life that is all about sex- is simply just that- a myth!

However, white-knighters, in their attempt to run from sex, are quick to mental-masturbate away their reasons for sucking at this.

It’s incumbent upon you to become secured with your sexual desires and to project this upon women you meet.

Note to yourself that what propels a woman to become sexually interested in a man, is her desire to breed!

She was born for this purpose; to have children!

Everything else, such as amenities of life, is for sheer enjoyment and sport. But a girl’s primal purpose for living is to procreate and to play her part in the evolutionary game.

Knowing this, you’ll soon realize why women often and exclusively cheat on nice guys (opposed to bad boys).

As equally important, why women would sleep around as long as they won’t be judged as sluts and whores.

Be as it may, women must have sex. And you’re an evolutionary waste of semen, to think otherwise!

What attracts women to not-so-handsome guys like myself, isn’t great looks neither money nor material gains.

Sheer attitude and know-how!

If you give the average Joe a high-priced vehicle, dress him up in the finest linen and park him outside of a crowded mall, if he doesn’t have the congruent attitude of a guy who has those things: then he’s just as good as dead!

Those material things won’t mean squat…particularly if he has the wrong attitude, that women aren’t sex-driven!

Likewise for the super good-looking chap.

Devoid of knowledge of women, he too often falls short in taking women to bed.

I know lots of young guys my age, and some half my age, who would purchase fancy cars and motorcycles in hopes to attract women and get laid (though they never admit to this).

Months later, you’ll find these same dudes walking, taking taxis and public transportation.

They had either resold their transportation or reneged on completing the financing, thus repossessed by the dealership or the bank.

They too quickly realize that the vast majority of girls aren’t as shallow to spread their legs solely because of a bugatti, or keys to a powerful motorcycle dangling in front of her eyes.

Once again: nice guys wanting to trick and manipulate women.

This is no different than the so-called professional guy or the entrepreneur, who goes around bragging about his 401K or owning his own small business.

Conversing with one of these ‘out-of-touch with reality guys’, will quickly leave a woman thinking she’s just been to a job interview or been conversing with a Donald Trump wannabe.

Hence, these guys rarely get laid also as they’re out-of-touch with what attracts women (Attitude).

To be continued…

I Personally Don’t Know Of Any Faithful Woman Between The Ages Of 17 And 38 + Why I Date Older Women

Sobering truth when I think about it: I cannot personally name one woman, married or single, between 17 and 38, who is faithful to her partner.

At my day job, I work with all females.

Not only are my immediate co-workers women, but every worker and those who hold supervisory positions, is a woman. So I’m literally the sole male working for this company (in which I’m a supervisor).

With that comes the requirement of great mental resilience to withstand the constant gossips and cattiness of women within the workplace.

I hear all the chatter about who slept with who last night, who got laid on the side over the weekend and which girl in the department is having a secret love affair with an older or younger man.

As a guy who doesn’t judge nor lambaste women for their personal choices when it comes to sex and men, women are often times eerily comfortable in divulging information of their personal sex lives to me, comforted in knowing that they won’t be castigated as wanton sluts for their promiscuous lifestyles.

It’s very common to have women confide in me, so there’s no trepidation or fear on their part to discuss their dirty-little secrets whenever I’m around or in earshot.

If a girl has to take a phone call, she’ll do it right in front of me where all the juicy details of her sinister rendezvous are leaked.

Furthermore, I can care less for female gossip but it’s something I just cannot avoid due to my work logistics.

Be as it may, when I crunch the numbers and assess the behavioral pattern of the women whom I know directly and indirectly- more so the ones between the ages of 17-38; I scratch my head trying to come up with just 1, who is 100% loyal to her partner- be it in a marriage or relationship.

Scratch, scratch, scratch and more scratching.

When I asses the women I come into contact with on a regular basis: scratch, scratch, scratch!

No fidelity there.

The ones whom I’d taken to bed: scratch, scratch, scratch!

No fidelity there neither.

Where are the faithful women between the ages of 17-38?

And why don’t I know any?

What I come to realize [and this will be a shocker for many who fail to dissect and run the numbers on matters like these], is that being a faithful woman in the 21st century is actually a social blemish and a cause for ostracization by other women.

It’s now seen as “Uncool” to be faithful to 1 guy.

This is no different than the church girl getting shamed among her social circle for trying to be pious in such an impious world.

A religiously inclined woman is often seen as a stuck-up snob who’s out of touch with the times. Such is the case with the faithful woman.

Faithfulness to 1 man, now has a stigma of “old-fashion” attached to it.

If you’re faithful; then you’re old-fashion.

If you’re faithful; you’re uncool.

If you’re faithful; you’re a bitch who thinks she’s better than every other chick.

Such is the general conclusion at which I arrive by assessing the entire situation of how fidelity is looked at by women in their sexual prime.

No one wants to hang out with a prudish girl who sees hooking up with other men an abomination.

The prude mentality just isn’t cool in the 21st century.

When girls go out, they don’t intend on having their “fun” inhibited by some self-righteous tag-along girlfriend who’s gonna judge them for their actions [she’ll either conform or stay home].

If you’re a guy reading this article right now, one who never had the luxury of being in the company of thousands of women as I have, what I’m saying to you may come off as shocking. But as a guy myself who’s interacted with thousands of women on a personal level, I know the inner workings of the female mind.

As a husband or mere boyfriend, this revelation may seem troubling to you.

The fact that I cannot name 1 woman in her sexual prime who’s faithful to her partner, should actually make you feel unsettled in your seat.

Most guys just don’t like to face the undiluted truth.

The truth is, your girlfriend, if she’s in her sexual prime, will cheat on you, or have cheated on you at some point in time during the relationship.

If she hadn’t already: she will…eventually!

The prevailing consensus points to that [most relationships and marriages FAIL].

Also, the reality that most relationships don’t last, is further evidence to support this.

If a girl who’s in her sexual prime [let’s say 17 to 40], doesn’t eventually bring herself to cheat on her partner, she will either dump him in order to attain guilt-free sex with other men, or the guy will eventually be forced to dump her for some reason or the other [it’s a win-win for her].

Therefore, if she isn’t allowed freedom to meet other men while being in the relationship, essentially to have her cake and eat it too, she will rather break up than to commit to strict monogamy.

Of course this will never be admitted to by any woman who’s in her right mind.

If she does break up with a guy, the standardized reasons will always be upheld:

“He treated me badly, didn’t respect me as a woman, cheated on me twice, never took me out…”

When in reality, had the boyfriend given her everything and some, plus treated her like royalty; it wouldn’t have prevented her from severing the relationship just so she can wallow in the cock-fest as the rest of her friends are doing.

As a man, you’re left with 2 choices when dealing with a 21st century girl between the ages of 17-38:

1.) Accept that your girlfriend will likely cheat on you but you’ll keep her anyway.

2.) Remain single or get with an older woman [sexy by the way] who’s no longer as viable on the dating market.

My current girlfriend of 4 + years, is 41 years old, so you don’t have to wonder as to my option of the 2. Not that I got with her for this reason. Furthermore, I prefer shagging cougars and MILF’s than sexually inexperienced women under the age of 30. So it all works out in my favor [dating older women].

I would never date a woman under the age of 38! But I often do sleep with them as young as 17.

It’s a harsh world out there guys.

We men have it bad thanks to the media and men who spoil women rotten!

It’s more than a catch 22 for the average guy who desires women under the age of 35.

It’s a “Damned if you do; damned if you don’t” kinda quagmire.

Being in my position isn’t always rosy when it comes to women choosing to share their illicit-sexual escapades with me.

Sure I can handle the truth about women. But it does make me wonder at times if there is really such a thing as a faithful woman.

The answer to that is a resounding “YES”, there are faithful women! But which type of woman?

That’s the question.

A woman who isn’t that hot [according to the social barometer], should be expected to remain faithful to 1 partner [although ugly girls still have tons of options].

That goes without saying since her option pool is limited in comparison to the hot and younger ones.

Hot girls on the other hand, are peer pressured 10 times as much into extramarital sex and cock on the side.

Not only are they pressured by friends, but society, the media and men.

A 19 year old hottie [even if she wasn’t hot], is likely to have 3 times the option in dick than a 29-39 year old.

The younger the girl; the more options, which means the greater the propensity and possibility to screw around.

Most young girls aren’t able to weather this temptation, hence promiscuity prevails.

With this, I’m baffled as to why men pine away over younger girls, when in all reality, the younger she is, the more likely she is to cheat and be pressured into compromising situations.

Well I do understand why men prefer to date younger. It goes back to evolution, biology and fertility. Men are more attracted fertile women who can breed for them [the ultimate and most important act of manhood]. The older the woman; the less fertile for breeding. So subconsciously, this’ why most men instinctively prefer and choose to chase women who are (much) younger.

However, in this day and time, “younger” is a far more risky proposition.

There’s no way that a 30 year old man dating a 22 year old, should expect her to become, or remain faithful to him and him alone [such an expectation is borderline delusional if you ask me].

That is fucking lunacy!

It also shows how naΓ―ve men are to female pathology in the 21st Century.

Dating younger spells way more trouble and competition from younger men who are vying to take her away from you [and will succeed eventually]. That’s just 1 factor of many to contend with for a guy.

Ask Donald Sterling about dating younger. πŸ˜‰

Sure there are huge amounts of women who prefer to date older men. But in majority cases, they’re looking for a provider-type in an older man while getting dick from a younger one. And by young-old dynamic, I’m not necessarily speaking to a 25 year old hottie dating a 75 year old perv. I’m talking about a 25 year old hottie dating a 35 year old man. He is still old enough to be deemed the provider-type, unlike if he were 27 or 29 which isn’t much older than 25 [same age group practically].

The reality is, girls break men down into sub-categories based on utilities.

There’s the guy who provides her with money but rarely gets sex in exchange.

The guy who provides her with good conversation but no sex.

The shoulder to lean on guy…no sex for him neither.

Then she has the guys whom she’s stringing along like the ones she’d friendzoned and the nice Betas.

She also has the guy whom she can call on for anything (no sex for him neither).

Then she has the guys whom she dates strictly [no sex for them neither].

She also has the fuck-buddy and friends with benefits guy(s).

Some women, especially in the Caribbean, have guys whom they can phone up at any hour whenever they need a lift here and there as in to go shopping or clubbing and so forth. I call these idiots the “taxi providers”. They also don’t get sex in return for being used.

Then she has the boyfriend whose unofficial role is to provide her cover whenever necessary for convenience. So while mom thinks her wayward daughter to be all about the place, the daughter can then pop up and go, “See mom; I have a boyfriend. Meet Greg. I told you I wasn’t just partying like some wild chick.”!

Having someone [a boyfriend] and being in a relationship, symbolizes stability for a woman. On the contrary, being single and not managing to have someone in her life, enjoins with it negative connotations such as: slut, promiscuous, unstable, unwanted, undesirable, ugly,etc. So most young girls only want a boyfriend for the symbolic cover that it provides. The status of “in a relationship” provides them social prestige and a sense of importance.

Rarely anymore does a young girl between the ages of 17-35, stays with a guy solely out of so-called love, but more as a utility and cover to her social status.

It generally takes an over-the-hill woman who’d gotten her pussy banged out of commission, to be satisfied with less and content with not having to seek utilities from various men aside from her partner.

However, as long as she’s in her (sexual) prime, she will have allocated numerous men into respective categories and sub-categories for what she can get out of them [monetary being the least since she’ll naturally have a guy or 2 who are willing to buy and pay for every and anything].

This applies to all women!

Every fucking single one of them operates like this!

No exceptions!

The older ones may have less utilities because of their diminishing-sex appeal, but nevertheless: they too have men for utilities.

With having a girlfriend or a wife comes great responsibility in that you as a man, will have to decide to relinquish a lot of leverage and power in order that the relationship or marriage stays afloat.

You’ll have to accept the fact that your woman will have utilities, uses and excuses as to why other men should be in her life.

In keeping with that, you’ll have to live with the fact that your partner will be talking to other men who are potential suitors who would want nothing more than to fuck her guts out or possibly steal her away from you.

You also have to accept the fact that your girlfriend, whenever outside of your presence (and in your presence), will be texting other men, talking to other men, and flirting with other men.

In addition to that, you’ll have to accept the reality that other men will be checking her out, hoping to get a piece of the pie. And the more you try to prevent this from happening (by being an overly controlling boyfriend), the faster the relationship will crumble.

Any woman who says to you that you are the only guy she’s talking to, is a fat fucking liar!

Likewise with any woman who dares to tell you that she only has 1 man to provide her with every need and want under the sun.

The older and less attractive a woman becomes [in the eyes of society], the less needs and wants she will have had in relation to other men [hence getting with an older woman is a much safer gamble].

With all that have been cited throughout the previous paragraphs on utilities and youthfulness versus maturity in women, I want to conclude on my original point: I’ve yet to meet a woman between the ages of 17-38, married or in a traditional relationship, who is faithful to her partner.

Perhaps it’s just me. ❓

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