One Vibe You Should Create With Women…That Draws Them In

Flirty, push-pull is 1 of those vibes which I love to create in order to bait women in as means to deepen attraction.

A huge part of my social-media game schtick, and Facebook pick-up method, is commenting on girl’s posts in a high-value manner, in order to captivate their attention, and force them to reach out to me via inbox.

Forty percent of the time, I don’t ever have to initiate the PM with girls on Facebook.

My game is based on getting girls to chase and having them inbox me first…as this girl did.

Ultimately, that is 1 of the vibes I aim to create with girls whom I game online: the push-pull, flirty, banterish kind of vibe, to which a great portion of women gravitate.

When you become good at this, women will just throw themselves at you subtly, by messaging you out of the blue.

The reason that this girl had messaged me in the first case was because of a string of comments I left on 1 of her statuses.

Will Edward- How Flirting Made Me A Better Person

Will Edward is a dating coach who teaches men how to attract and seduce women. He is an expert at dancefloor game. Sign up for updates at and you can follow Will on Twitter and FaceBook.

Young couple in love sitting in a cafe and communicating.

Learning how to flirt and attract women has made me a better person. I can connect with people more deeply and help them. I can navigate social situations and communicate better on a personal and business level.

Knowing how to flirt and socialize has helped me understand people on a deeper emotional level and care about their needs and allowing them to help with mine.

I can provide value, whether it is emotional, professional, social, etc. because I can quickly figure out how they feel and help them fulfill their desires and wants.

I genuinely care how other people feel and want them to feel better than how I met them.

Ironically, this was not the main reason I learned the art of flirting and attracting women. I just wanted to get laid, a lot. I have learned the skill to achieve that, but I have also gained so much more.

I had an unhealthy mindset growing up. I tried getting what I wanted out of life without caring too much for others. I wasn’t too concerned how others could benefit. I was a value seeker, a value vampire.


How was I sucking value from others? I was taking and not giving back value in many cases. Sometimes I broke promises because there weren’t any noticeable consequences. It was sleazy and not something I’m proud of.

I did whatever I needed to do to get what I wanted while reducing the chances of me being “caught”, punished or beaten up. Just for the record, I wasn’t a douchebag or reckless lawbreaker, and I didn’t wish harm on others.

I was actually considered a “nice” and shy kid growing up. I was just socially clueless. Who knows? I might have had (or still have) Aspergers, although I was never diagnosed with that.

Giving Value To Others

I didn’t realize that I could provide value to others while also receiving value. There’s plenty of value to go around, and we can all benefit from each other.

Richard Dawkins said that many situations in life are a nonzero sum game. Life isn’t like the stock market or a sports game. Somebody doesn’t have to lose for the other to win.

Most situations can be set up as a win-win for everybody.

I was getting better at understanding other’s needs as I got older but didn’t know how much value I could provide value until I started learning about pickup. Like I said, I didn’t get into it for ethical reasons or give value to others.

I just wanted to have the ability to have sex with any girl I want. That in itself sounds value seeking, but you learn to, “give up” that goal and become “outcome independent”. You’re emotions don’t depend on achieving your goal.

You just give value, and you start receiving value back. That could end up being a same-night-lay or one-night-stand, invitations to parties, expansion of your social circle, or new business relationships, etc.

Man give large amounts of money and value

There are methods and techniques to help achieve those goals, but the underlying principle that allows this to happen much more easily and quickly is to provide value unconditionally.

The first things I learned was that I needed to talk to everybody. I had to be that social guy that just gave value freely without judgment. Usually, I would have just gone up to the first girl I wanted to sleep with and just ignored her friends.

I didn’t acknowledge her friends or other people in bars or clubs. Once I knew I had to be more social, I conditioned myself to talk to other guys and girls I wasn’t necessarily attracted to.

Talking to everybody made me more social and allowed me to become more present and not stay in my head and freeze up.

Are People Selfish?

I used to think that most people were selfish and only cared about themselves or close friends. I figured they were jerks and ignored people they didn’t know.

I built up a lot of anger towards people that seemed outgoing because they reminded me of some of the “popular” kids in school who picked on me.

I moved around a lot, and I didn’t have great social skills. I was a social outcast for most of my school years. I was bullied by some of the “cool” and “popular” kids, so I had a lot of negative feelings towards them.

I saw how kind and interesting other people were as I started talking with them. I was getting along with the people that reminded me of the popular crowd.

They were people like that popular jock who was always surrounded by all the hot girls, or the super charismatic guy who shared cool stories and was the center of attention. I was hanging out with them like we were equals.

men with beautiful women drinking at club table

I finally felt like I was “in” and part of the “cool” crowd. I was even getting the hot girls’ attention and having them want to talk to me over the jock or “that guy” who was usually in the spotlight. I started to become “that guy.”

It was so awesome, and I didn’t know how to handle it at first. I wasn’t used to it, and sometimes I’m still getting used to it when I get into more crazy and exciting situations.

I didn’t have my first “serious” girlfriend until I was in college. By serious, I mean dating for more than a couple months. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was in college either.

Going from that shy kid who got bullied a lot in school and just stayed at home playing video games on the weekends, to the guy that could take over a room and take a girl home that same night, was an entirely new and different experience.

That’s not even the best part. I just feel more fulfilled and have more clarity and focus in my life. Not being able to attract and seduce women was a huge missing part of my life.

Not having a girl was in the back of mind and for the longest time. Soon I just accepted the fact that having a girlfriend might not be for me. I tried distracting myself by playing video games or doing some other mindless activity.

One thing I had going for me was that I did well in school and got a well-paying job after graduation, but I soon found out that even that wasn’t something I wanted…

Being True To Yourself

Once I started getting good at game and picking up girls, I started going after the things I wanted out of life more often. I wasn’t hesitating or doubting myself as much. I was taking more action and more risks.

I had developed a lot of confidence in my social and seduction skills, which helped transfer over in other parts of my life. It gave me the courage that I could accomplish pretty much anything.

The road to mastery in one area of life can carry over to other areas in your life. I started going after my dreams and passions.

I knew that I had the ability to get anything out of life because I could positively influence and persuade people. Flirting and knowing social dynamics can be used in any anywhere that involves communication.

Whenever I go to any interaction, I’m able to provide good emotions (value) to others, and they are more willing to help me out and give value back.

For example, when I go to a restaurant, I will flirt with the female waitress. I might compliment her, or joke around or qualify her and have a genuine conversation.

Most people will just order their food and not bother talking to her. She is more likely to help me get what I want and visit me more often, to ask me how the food is and do her best to fix anything that may be wrong.

Of course, I’ll give her a good tip afterward and the next time she sees me, she will remember me and that will give me social proof, which will help when I bring friends or a date over. I may also try to set up a time to see her after work.

Another example can be during a negotiation or sales call. You’ll be able to confidently communicate your needs efficiently and find out the other person’s needs. Your strong frame will allow you to reach a mutual benefit.

Finding Your Purpose

What’s even better once you start being authentic and true to yourself and going after what you want, you’ll be able to follow your life purpose and feel more fulfilled.

I found out that the corporate job I got after college wasn’t what I wanted. I went to college because I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life and my family said that I should get a degree and a stable job. They had the best intentions.

But once I started doing it, I didn’t have the passion and drive to continue with it. I didn’t like the idea of trading my time for a salary. I wanted more freedom and accomplish more for myself.

I found my calling and started working for myself on something that I enjoyed doing. I have much more motivation and passion for what I’m doing now, which is marketing and teaching other guys on how to attract and seduce women.

man standing among skyscrapers

There is nothing more satisfying than actually going out, socializing and helping others develop the skills to get this part of their lives handled. It’s so much fun, and it creates such an adrenaline rush.

I can reach out to a lot of people and have an impact and create valuable content. What’s also great is that marketing, psychology, and social dynamics are closely related so becoming better at one helps me get better at the others.

I’m very curious and always learning on how I can improve my game and business. I have complete freedom to what I want to pursue and can set my schedule on goals and tasks to complete.

It’s one of the most liberating and rewarding feelings.

Understanding And Connecting With Others

Understanding social dynamics has helped me get along better with my family and friends as well. I’m much more sensitive to other people’s feelings. I don’t get into long winded arguments or many arguments at all.

Some of my family members or friends would try to tell me what I should be doing with my life, or there might be some misunderstandings, and we would get into an unnecessary conflict.

Sub-communication is a critical part of all interactions. Most of our communications are non-verbal, so conveying your thoughts, ideas and feelings in the right way with your voice, body language or facial expressions is essential.

Almost every argument or heated interaction can be avoided by communicating effectively. Whenever there is a misunderstanding of thoughts or emotions, it’s usually due to poor communication.

We all are entitled to our opinions and judging other’s by having a different view is not beneficial. People usually won’t impose their views or beliefs on you as long as you remain calm and listen without judgment.

They will see you’re not a threat to their beliefs, so they don’t have to prove themselves to you. You can also reframe it as them having good intentions in trying to help you, so you also don’t get defensive, but be open-minded.

Who knows? Maybe they do have some words of wisdom that you can listen without a distorted view. You can decide for yourself whether you want to take action on their advice or use it for inspiration or guidance later.

It’s funny how I used to be a shy kid that was just trying to get laid with as many hot girls as possible. Learning how to flirt and attract has helped me become a more well-rounded and better person.

I’m able to understand and connect with people on a real level. Instead of being politically correct and talk politely, I can have a real conversation where we both share information about each other that only close friends would do.

Everybody has some value that they can offer, and you can find out their motivations and see how you can benefit each other. You’ll develop the confidence to influence other people by developing your social skills.

You’ll get proof that you can get what you want out of life when people start wanting to help you. Start becoming a better person and learn how to flirt and communicate with people.

man and woman flirting and laughing on beach

A Flirt A Day Keeps Stress Away

This morning while heading to work, as I walked the remainder of the way, this slender MILF whom I see around my work area was walking up behind me.

Though not a complete stranger in the face since we regularly see each other around. But we never spoke before…not even a hi exchanged.

As she draw neigh, I stopped:

Me: “How are you”?

MILF: “Oh! Were you talking to me”?

Me: “Yea! I’m waiting on you actually. I know we work in the same area so I figure we’d walk and flirt”.

MILF: “Flirt”!?

She blurts out surprisingly as she blushed in the face.

She asked how I was doing, I asked her in return and the conversation went on as we walked and flirted for another 2 minutes or so.

I don’t know how this happened, but the conversational topic took a turn towards gay marriage and the legalization of pot. 😯

What a drastic turn from, “You look so scrumptious today”, to, “this world is corrupt and in the next 30 years, every vice will be legalized”…so said the MILF.

The spontaneous interaction came to an end as we reached an intersection where I turned left and she made a right.

I never bothered to get her phone number or anything since this was just 1 of those spur of the moment flirtatious vibe.

However, I want to encourage you guys as usual, to flirt around a bit throughout your daily runnings.

Make a woman’s day by flirting with her spontaneously.

As someone who’s an ardent MILF-seducer, I can tell you unequivocally that you have no reason to fear hitting on older women.

They will almost always appreciate it and show that appreciation with a genuine-gratuitous smile and reciprocation.

It is only in your head and through sitcoms that you foster the belief that older women [let’s say over 35] would somehow feel disrespected if they were to be approached by noticeably younger men.

I’ve had way more younger girls scoff at me for trying to hit on them that women who are older enough to be my mother. 😯

Hence, bear those factors in mind and learn to flirt with women of all ages and sizes when on your daily journey.

What this will do overtime is to transform you into a flirting and social-fucking machine!

You’ll become akin to a natural who acts off impulse, opposed to someone who has to think and get inside of his head with trying to find the right words and flirt lines.

Everything will naturally flow!


Random-Sexy-Entitlement Bad Girl Teen Mom Tries To Get Me To Buy Her Something [Infield-Day Game Footage]

Hot girls are very entitled and often spoiled!

In this infield video (hidden-cam), while walking by a bodega, a complete stranger stops me:

“Can you buy me a juice”?

She gets 100 points for having balls. 😉

Not to mention she has a tattoo of the “Bad Girls Club” emblem, which speaks to the type of girl she is [loves bad boys and drama] hence the theme of the footage. 👿

Check out the video.

What I actually want to highlight from the video for you guys are few pointers:

*Hot girls are entitled. In other words; they are used to men [Beta-Males] giving them what they want at the drop of a dime without a question. So when she’d stopped me and demanded I buy her a juice, she was expecting for me to do what 99.9% of other men have done: instantly give her whatever it is she requests.

As you’d seen in the video, I didn’t (readily) enter the bodega to buy her a juice. I didn’t allow her perceived hotness to turn me into a chode, so I did what most men wouldn’t do whenever a girl hits them up for drinks: fuck with her a bit.

The flirting and sexual banter about buying her a juice in exchange for oral sex, was just a way to communicate to the girl that I’m not a chump, a sexy body doesn’t impress me and that I’m not afraid to do or say some things that may offend.

It’s not that it’s bad or weak to buy a girl a drink or something inexpensive. It’s just the way in which you [the guy] go about it and from where (psychologically) it comes.

Diving into your pockets immediately without fucking with the girl, not even questioning her, is a sucker move and lowers your perceived value tremendously. It’s primarily for that reason I’d refused to buy her a juice. However, I did give her $ 5 bucks in change to buy a candy or something for her son. The message I sent there was this: “I’m buying your kid something and not you”!

That’s a very powerful move when dealing with entitlement-whores who always get their way with AFC’s [most men].

At the end of the day, did this teen mom really needed me to buy her a juice?

I don’t think so. I believe she has 1,000 chumps hitting her up daily who’d be super willing to buy her whatever she wants…let alone something to drink.

What this actually was, is that the girl spotted me, liked what she seen [I’m no Denzel but…], so she devised a way to start a conversation with me. In Pickup parlance, such a move would be classified as an “Indirect Opener”. That’s exactly what it was. This chick opened me [which is rare]. But regardless if she was attracted to me or not, attraction isn’t permanent, so I can always do or say something that would’ve fucked my chances and killed the attraction [such as rushing into the store to buy her a juice].

On the other end of the spectrum, this could’ve actually been a situation where the girl and her friend were daring one another to see if they can get guys to buy them shit (however trivial and inexpensive).

Nevertheless, I played my hand correctly and that is what I want you guys to take away in a nutshell from the video.

You never want to give in to a random woman’s demands just because she has tits, ass and an overall fuckable body.

She won’t respect you as a man for submitting (gracefully).

Few more tips from the video I want to point out.

When I handed her the change to grab something for her son and she went into the Spanish bodega which we were standing next to, I didn’t just stay there muted. I chatted shit with her friend in order to disarm her, win her over and create a good impression on her (the friend). So we chatted about Easter holiday, wine and other random shit.

Hence, you always want to engage the friend of the girl whom you want. If the friend likes you, the friend will always encourage the girl to fuck you. So you’re building an ally in her friend opposed to a cock-block.

Another thing, notice how my dialogue was very sexual from the get-go. This leaves no ambiguity as to the type of man I am: sexual, a little pervy, forward and DTF. 😈

I didn’t hit her with any boyfriend vibe, provider vibe nor friendship vibe. I was SEXUAL and flirty (mutually so).

When I realized that this chick was actually into me sexually [as an advanced seductionist; you’ll be able to spot these cues], I immediate transitioned the vibe from chatting shit to logistics: hence I asked what work she does, where does she work, what’s her working hours and if she was working that night. 😈

This is called fishing for the fuck-logistics or seeding the bang.

I didn’t take her phone # because as I’ve been preaching on this website since December, 2013: phone #’s often lead to nowhere (8 in 10 times). So my best bet was to try to hook up with her later that day (since I couldn’t have done it then and there) by meeting up with her after work (without relying on a phone # to set this up).

This is also what you must realize and it’s a very powerful concept I recently hatched:

If a girl is willing to give you her work information, details, department, working hours, etc. then there’s a 90% chance that she’s interested where she would expect that you would seek her out there. Not in a stalker-type fashion but with the realization that you’re the type of man who goes after what he wants shamelessly.

Whenever a girl gives me her work address, it’s equivalent to giving me the address to her apartment. She’s essentially telling me to come by. She wouldn’t do this with a guy whom she didn’t find attractive, dominant and fuckable. Hence she wasn’t gonna cough up her work information to a bum or a guy whom she wouldn’t fuck.

Therefore, there’s zero need to get a girl’s phone number (which 8 in 10 times, is a subtle way to brush the guy off).

Simply get her work address, find out the logistics and meet her there (either during or afterwards).

I’ll break this down in a follow-up post if you aren’t too privy to this stealthy technique of mines.

All in all, re-watch the in-field video and learn what is taking place there.

By the way, this doesn’t happen often (being opened by a girl), so it’ll be important that you learn how to deal with such totally random occurrences.

This was the 1st time in my life I had a complete stranger (a female) stop me and asked me to buy her something. 😯

Whether it was a test or she genuinely wanted something- doesn’t fucking matter.

It’s about how you handle it in respects to what you want.

Although when I first approached I had no sexual intention. But after reading the vibe and the chick’s receptivity to certain sub-communications, I figured there was something there sexually.

Girls who are “entitled” or feel as though they should get what they want on demand, their panties get wet in the face of men who don’t give in.

However, merely not giving in isn’t enough to get you laid.

You will have to then move from the initial or built attraction to the fuck-logistics…which I’ll address in a subsequent article.

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How To Get Close To Her (Body) With This Super-Simple Technique + Escapade @ An Intersection

Alright, I don’t think I need to get into the preliminaries on why you should look to get physically close(er) to the girl with whom you’re talking.

However I will state the total obvious that you cannot fuck a girl by being hands-off or standing 10 yards away from her, therefore you must get close to her! So if you wanted a reason as to why you must get closer in the first place: then there it was…it couldn’t be plainer!

Reason I even mentioned that is because most guys would argue that they don’t see a reason why they have to intrude on her personal space when they can simply maintain a safe distance and chat her up for 10 hours.

This of course will lead nowhere besides a phone # and a promissory meet-up/date.

However, when you get close(er), 3 things immediate happen:

1.) Heightens the sexual tension.

2.) She gets to smell you (subconsciously) as other species of the animal kingdom do whenever attracted.

3.) She feels a sense of intimacy also known as closeness.


Now the looming question is; “How do I do this (closing the distance)”?

There are many ways in which to get very very close to a girl without setting off her intruder alarm.

A great thing to keep in mind about this is to create the illusion that she’s the one invading and encroaching on your personal space. 👿 😉

“How do I do this Kenny”?

Firstly, a woman only feels uncomfortable when she’s being intruded upon.

Matter of fact- same applies to men when confronted.

However, the one who’s intruding (the intruder) is rarely ever uncomfortable to intrude and get close…or else he or she wouldn’t intrude.

See where I’m going?

You want the girl to intrude on you instead.

You want her to be the 1 who gets closer where she doesn’t have to worry about being intruded upon.

To make this happen, use my “Can You Find My Photos” routine.

You can even start it off by saying:

“Hey, Do You Know Anything About Phones”?

Grand-Booty Girl On The Corner Field Report

The back story for this originated from an encounter I had with an HB8 last night (Saturday) while wrapping up a night of heavy Night-Game Pickup.

While walking home early from a bar in my area (10 PM actually), I spotted a big-booty girl crossing an intersection so I stopped her.

Since this was so sudden, I never had time to pull out my device to record some footage. 😦 😦

Long story short, we flirted back and forth the entire time: I grabbed, tugged, pushed, pull, etc [KINO 101].

However, those moments were short-lived spikes (nanoseconds) and it was really really difficult to get this girl to stay locked in. So I had to devise a plan on the spot in order to get her to be close to me and stay close, long enough to increase the sexual vibe and tension.

From this, my phone routines was hatched on the spot.

I cunningly brought up the subject of cellphones and photos.

She totally engaged and submerged herself into the topic.

Then I said to her: “Do you know about phones? I can’t locate my fucking camera photos”.

This prompted her to come closer, which I then gave her my phone for her to rummage through.

She was technically the 1 to move in (physically) on me. She invaded my space and took or accepted the phone in order to try to locate my photos…which really wasn’t missing. 👿 👿

The fact that she was the 1 to get closer, she had no reason to feel uncomfortable as if I was the one to move in on her.

Hence the routine was a winner. 🙂

Now, that isn’t all to it.

Having a girl close to you but not taking advantage is just as pussy as failing to get physical in the first place.

My objective was to get her close and stay close.

Other moments when I tried pulling her towards me, she would laughingly pull away, obviously enjoying the fun push-pull flirty tug of war.

That is all great- but she wasn’t staying next to me (which is my goal to have her stay next to me).

With the phone technique/routine, she got real real close, took the phone and the dialogue ensued (verbatim):

HB: “What can’t you find”?

Me: “My damn photos”!

HB: “Where are they saved, on the card or phone”?

Me: “I don’t know exactly. You can look in media files. IDK”.

HB: “Your phone is so outdated. You need an upgrade”.

Me: “[Sucking my teeth] Just find the damn photos please”.

Remind you guys, during this dialogue, which went on for some minutes of she trying to find my pics, our bodies were LITERALLY glued to one another!

Side note: I definitely knew where my photos were! But it was just a gambit/trick in order to get her close. 👿 😈

To illustrate the positioning, all 2 of our hands (4 hands) were on the phone at the same time with me standing beside her at an angle in which her tits were LITERALLY pressed up against my chest and shoulder blade.

This photo bests illustrates the exact positioning except looking down @ a phone

This photo bests illustrates the exact positioning except looking down @ a phone

Remind you: she initiated this! 🙂

She encroached! She intruded!

On a deeper level, this also gives her psychological permission to be close. She now has a plausible reason as to why she’s so close to a stranger (me) with our bodies pressed against each others’.

She can justify this with: “Oh, I was helping him to find his missing photos”.

Guys- it’s all fucking psychological for women!

They are down as fuck, but need to grant themselves petty justifications for their actions.

You as the man, the leader, should help facilitate this by giving her a reason just as I did via “phone photo routine”.

Anyway, so she was close to me while we searched my phone together, I actually popped a mini boner from the mere sensation of her full breasts being on me. 🙂 🙂

It’s impossible for me to get a hard-on while in public unless fucking a girl somewhere outdoors.

Intimate dancing itself, doesn’t even get me an erection so for this chick to arouse such a physiological reaction downstairs was something like a phenomenon!

Also bear in mind, this was literally on a traffic-filled street corner (in sight of a packed fast-food joint) which we’d been standing on for 30 minutes up until that point.

You want to also vary the pace and KINO (touching) as I did.

I didn’t just hold the same position for 5 minutes.

I released the phone completely to her to then throw my arm around her shoulders.

Seconds later, I started to caress her neck while she continues to go through my phone.

Seconds later, I started kissing her on the back, shoulders and neck.

To cut the heavy-sexual tension which was massively thick, I pinched her on the neck which caused her to laughingly pull away as I retreated a bit.

This is a mating ritual aka push-pull!

When animals mate or getting ready to, they push, pull, tug, chase, kick, bite, play, etc. They don’t just stay there stationary all throughout.

Being that she still had my phone after pulling away due to the neck pinch, we mutually moved backed in on each other. But this time, I varied the position once again by standing directly in back of her with my cock pressed up against her ass this time while looking over her shoulder at the phone [1 hand @ my side, the other on her shoulder].

Was she consciously aware of the so-called accidental-physical touches?

You better believe it!

How about my cock against her backside?

That too!

The key here is making it seem accidental or naturally called for (plausible).

It’s plausible that I stand in back of her really really close in order to see over here shoulder.

It’s plausible that my dick may come in contact with her ass being that I’m standing behind her.

It’s plausible that I rest my hand on her shoulder in order to gain a better view of the phone (by tilting her shoulder back a bit).

All of this is totally plausible since she has my property in her hands [you get the point]!

Once your actions seem plausible and justified, she will NOT object neither stop you or stop what’s going on.

Just as when trying to convince a girl to come with you to a quieter section of the nightclub in order to talk.

The girl has justification in tagging along because “the music is too loud”, therefore it’s plausible to go somewhere quieter.

Note: I am not saying that you should wait for plausibility or good logistics. Just that the more plausibility the girl or the situation has, the more she’ll comply and the less she’s object.

Alright, when should you attempt to run this phone photo routine in order to get close?

Definitely not right after you approach and open her.

That is tactless and unwise!

You have to build or create a bit of chemistry first via flirting, dominance, touching or playfulness/banter.

Basically, the mood was right, sexual tension in the air, flirting on another level…in public (street corner) with a random stranger whom I’d just met minutes prior.

I kissed her some more on the neck and shoulders while caressing her hips.

She asked for my # and tried to offer hers but I declined to give mines or take hers.

It’s all about the moment and taking advantage of things within that moment.

If you’re not able to bang her then and there or pull her to your place or hers, then accept that it wasn’t meant to happen.

A phone # does NOT nearly guarantee you’ll see her again!

Conversing at a later date over the phone or text will not benefit you but in slim cases.

I left it up to chance that we’ll bump into each other again where I can resume the pull to my place or hers.

Lots of fish in the sea guys. And you should display an abundance mentality by refusing to take girl’s phone #’s!

You’ll soon realize that you’ll be able to get more random One-Night Stand lays than you’ll be able to get girls to accept going out on dates.

The point of it all (apart from the routine), is to illustrate how you can just out of the blue, meet women who are looking for a relief from the boring-humdrum shit they do 24/7!

To meet a stranger and within 5 minutes, become sexual, flirty, touching and kissing, it’s a massive fucking high for women!

These sort of random occurrences are equivalent to love at first sight for women. It sweeps them off their feet with a heavy rush of dopamine aka the love chemical.

The average Jane whom you cross paths with on a daily basis, little do you know, she’s likely ripe for a random escapade or escape. But since men are so pussified and passive, they (men and women) miss out on spontaneous opportunities to get sexual or laid!

You don’t have to attend nightclubs to pull drunk girls in order to find easy girls who are DTF.

The average chick whom you walk by on the street is an easy girl who’s DTF.

Your female coworker is an easy chick who’s DTF!

The girl sitting next to you at church is an easy chick who’s DTF!

Most girls are fucking DTF!

It all boils down to you…the man!

Will you continue to walk right by sexually-available women on the streets to go log into Facebook to pursue girls whom you can’t get physical with?

Will you continue to whine about not getting laid thus resorting to playing video games all day while there are hot chicks roaming around in hopes of action?

The additional point I’m making here is that you as a smart man, must come to the realization that the average girl is sexually frustrated and sex-deprived.

In spite of having sexual options and varieties (as all women do), she still craves something spontaneous and novel, such as a flirty or sexual encounter with a random-stranger dude!

It’s just that you need to man the fuck up and stop letting women who get your cock hard, walk right on by you.

Sure I didn’t get to bang this chick or take her home, but I damn sure tried! And had there been a darkened alley nearby, I would’ve tried to bang her there instead. 🙂 🙂

The brief encounter was capped off by she asking me to take her pic (with her phone and mines).

Sorry guys, I had to distort the pics for censorship purposes. 😦

I’m not particularly an ass-man [tits and legs instead], but she had 1 of those Kim Kadrashian asses (+ matching figure) which grabbed my attention as we both crossed paths @ the intersection.

Be that rare guy who sweeps women off their frikkin’ feet!

‘Cause remember, the average guy isn’t out there pulling random ass and getting sexual with women, so in that respects; you have zero fucking competition!

I found a video of Todd Valentine which eerily sums up everything I wrote about in this article.

The Good-Looking Loser Shows Us How To Pull A Girl Back To Your Parked Car And Makeout With Her [Badboy Game]

The Good-Looking Loser (Chris)

The Good-Looking Loser (Chris)

Once you’ve made out with a girl, her agenda miraculous becomes open.

This is why I say you shouldn’t go for a phone #…at least not until you’ve established meaningful physical contact.

As Chris encountered in the video, after making out with the girl and he goes for the her # and inquires as to her work schedule and free time, she made sure that she was free and open. Which goes to show that women are never truly busy apart from working.

If a girl flakes, it has nothing to do with something else coming up.

Women don’t have shit to do!

This is why it’s very easy to pull them off of their paths during the day/night while out.

They are like walking-programmed zombies seeking stimulation.

Chris exploited this by pulling the girl to his car in spite of she saying she has to got to work.

Sure she had to get to work, but work can always wait. 😉

It all comes down to your persuasion ability and dominance as an Alpha-Male.

Women will listen to you and follow your lead which is the natural order: men lead- women follow.

The average guy who isn’t in-tuned to social dynamics, he passes the baton to women and put her in the driver seat in order to steer the ship.

Also persistence!

I can’t to stop beating this point to fucking death!

Persist, persist, persist!

Just as Chris does in the video, when he suggested they go back to his parked car, she objected (token resistance).

This is expected 70% of the time when trying to move a target (the girl). She will object and make excuses. But a good seducer expects this and knows how to troubleshoot it.

Therefore, he persisted and persuaded her by baby-stepping it and using FTC tactics (False-Time Constraints) by saying “it’s just right there”, and “we won’t take long”.

Majority of your successes with women and getting laid will come down to your ability to persist, lead and persuade.

I strongly believe that Chris could’ve banged that 18 year old right there in the back seat of his car, and I’m sure he knows it also. But due to recording, he had to dial it down and stick to the script of shooting the video for the students.

By the way, the sexual tension was on fucking fire during the entire car sequence due to Chris rubbing her thighs the entire time.

How To Talk Dirty To Women [Sex Talk Article]

The Summer is upon us, which means more opportunities for guys who live in colder regions to get laid more since hotties are now crawling out of their Winter hibernation looking to get laid also [mutual accord]!

Irrespective of the season, talking dirty with women should be a huge part of your seduction repertoire.

Firstly, let’s begin with the 3 most common follies and mistakes guys make when it comes to sex talk:

Miscalibration: Bad timing is the most common mistake we make as men. I’ve witnessed guys try to strike up sex talk at a crowded bar counter to no avail. Not that this is inherently a bad idea, but you have to be socially aware enough as to when you can go verbally sexual and when you shouldn’t.

Rushing The Brush: Another common mistake when it comes to talking dirty is to jump right into it without warming the girl up first. I’ve also witnessed guys attempt to talk dirty with girls but they run with it before crawling and taking baby steps. This also shows a lack of social intelligence on the guy’s part.

Gun-Shy: Although not a mistake per se, but more of a conditioning, the average guy gets paralyzed at the thought of getting verbally dirty with women [sexually]. It feels unnatural and wrong.

Sparing you the drawn-out proceedings, I’ll get straight into the heart of the matter!


The When And Where Of Sex Talk ( Talking Dirty)

Sex talk can be done with a girl over the phone, text and in person.

photo courtesy of

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The impact of course will be more profound if done in person as on a date or lying in bed with the girl.

Contrary to popular belief and falsified bullshit put out there by women, talking dirty with your date is actually possible and a great sign of things to come!

This has to be done more subtly however since you’re in the presence of others [at a restaurant, etc.]. Nevertheless, it’s highly possible!

Flirting quite naturally has the potential to lead to dirty talking since flirting is the proverbial spring-board to getting you there.

Although adamantly against taking girls on dinner dates, presuming you’re still trapped in the matrix of romcom-dating advice and you’d taken the girl to a fancy restaurant, you can kick start the dirty talking in the following fashion:

Me: “Wow, this lobster is so tasty! Taste it”!

[I would feed her a piece of my lobster]

Me: “How do I taste 😉 “?

HB: “Great”!

Me: “Can you handle more of me…I mean the lobster”?

[I’m inducing some sexual tension which will cause her to blush, flush and engage in the mutual flirting]

Me: “Let me taste a piece of you”.

[Motion for her to put a piece of what she’s eating into your mouth]

Me: “Eem, yummy! No complaints”!

Me: “Are you always this tasty”?

Ok guys, that was just a template of how to get sexual over dinner.

Notice how I didn’t dive right in and say something like: “I want to fuck you”!

I abide by the “crawl-first model” by insinuating sex with the eating of lobster, then I gradually got more sexual.

That is how you introduce dirty talking while on a dinner date or any date for that matter.

The key is to start small by insinuating and hinting at sex.


Dirty Talking With a Spouse Or Girlfriend

Talking dirty with your girlfriend or wife is an easier process than if the girl was someone whom you’d never been sexual with.

For guys who are uncomfortable with talking dirty, this can be challenging. I’ve been there, so I can personally attest to this as being fucking awkward!!!

Nevertheless, it comes down to crawling first!

This is where texting comes in pretty handy for starters.

Let’s say that you’re feeling quite frisky and your GF is currently away at work. You can send her the following txt dialogue [straight out of my phone with my girlfriend :)]:

Me: “Babes; for some strange reason, I’m feeling turned on right now. What did you do to me this morning”?

GF: “Lol, I don’t know what it is”.

Me: “Well you have to figure this out because I’m here with a hard on at work”.

GF: “Lol oh boy”!

Me: “What color panties you have on. Wait don’t tell me: blue thongs”!?

GF: “Lmao wow you’re psychic babes. It’s blue and black striped”.

Me: Eem, that seems so sexy when you type it. Type it again”!

GF: “Lol blue and black striped”.

Me: “Please stop it! If I cum on myself, you’ll be blamed”!

GF: “Lol blame me for everything huh”!?

Me: “If I were at your job right now, I would so fucking crawl under that desk and go to town on your kitty cat”!

GF: “Lol such a freak Kenny. Coworkers around so how would that happen”?

Me: “Don’t worry! I’m a sexual stealth ninja. They won’t see a thing but hear you moaning silently”…

Ok guys, that was an actual excerpt from a sex chat I had with my GF via Blackberry messenger [BBM].

Notice how I’d started small at first just to test the waters then I became more sexual as she was playing along.

At the end of the chat, the convo became more vivid as I told her how much I wanted to slide this cock down her throat until she begged for me to stop!

That was a perfect example of how to initiate sex talk with your girlfriend or wife.

With a girl you’d never been sexual with: it gets a bit trickier.


Dirty Talking With Strangers

Generally, you can get away with murder when it comes to a girl you’ve already shagged. A new girl (stranger) for that matter: the awkward factor heightens.

For a master Pickup Artist and seducer like I am: this is just another cake-walk in Central Park ;).

Presuming you’re not a master seductionist…yet, you’ll have to precede with caution as to not get too heavy too early.

Ok, I’ll lay out a scenario of a bar setting and how to initiate sex talk/dirty talk with a stranger chick.

Flirting at the bar

Flirting at the bar

Fore-note: Bars and nightclubs are sexually charged environments where chicks are opened to being hit on and treated as sex objects.


But how many guys actually get sexual with strange women at bars? Perhaps that 1 drunk guy in the entire venue?

The defining factor between you and the drunk guy is that you’ll be coherent oppose to the drunk guy who lacks coherency and proper calibration.

Fore-note #2: Be aware of your surroundings [have Social Intelligence]. You cannot initiate sex talk while the target girl is within earshot of her girlfriends. This is where the drunk guy goes wrong…although he has the right idea. You will have to isolate her first. If she’s alone; then you’re golden :).

Check out the following dialogue I’d recorded on audio [word for word] of a recent bar pickup of mines:

[Approaching random-bar girl]

Me: “Hey quick question; why is it that chicks in bars always choose Margaritas as their first drink of choice”?

HB: “Lol I didn’t know that we do that. Maybe is because it’s a light drink and we want to start light”.

Me: “Great answer! Gimme a high 5 for that one”!

[I then gave her a hi5 just to hold her hand a bit to establish KINO]

Me: “So what’s in your glass”?

HB: “Apple Martini”!

Me: “What! You know what they say about girls who drink Apple Martinis right”?

HB: “Lol what”!?

Me: “You’re gonna be really offended by this…[building tension, anticipation and intrigue by pausing]…They say that girls who drink Apple Martinis…are lacking good sex”!

HB: “LOL what!!!! Lol that’s hilarious”!

Me: “Yea I read it on the Internet. You know everything on the Internet is true, right”?

HB: “Lol noooooooooo!!!!! You’re funny”!

Me: “Plus I have a bit of psychic ability and I’m able to see through things and read intentions. I know what’s on your mind right now”.

HB: “Test me lol”!

Me: “You’re such a naughty little girl! My crystal ball says that you’re thinking about sex on the beach right now. Perhaps it’s the cocktail and not actually sex on a beach” ;)!

HB: “Lol your crystal ball isn’t that accurate, but a sex on the beach sounds nice” ;).

Me: “Let me get you palms”!

[I took her hand and go into an ESP reading of her palms]

Me: “The middle line in your palm is long. That means that you’re a person who does whatever she wants and hates when others try to bound her”.

HB: “Yep! That’s me”!

Me: “And the short line which connects to your passion signifies the type of person you are sexually. It means your very wild but needs someone to bring it out without being too direct”.

[Remember guys: this palm reading exercise of mines is total bullshit and it’s based on nothing but pure freestyling]

Me: “I sense that you can be a very sexual person once you meet the right guy who won’t judge you”.

HB: “I am to be honest”.

Me: “My crystal ball also says that you have no panties on and that you love going commando”.

HB: “Lol so not true”!

Me: “Don’t underestimate me. But quick question: why is it that…I’m so sexually drawn to you? Gimme 2 reasons”.

HB: “I dunno. Ummmmm…maybe my body and eyes…”

Me: “And the fact that you’re not wearing any underwear”!

HB: Lol shut up I am LOL”!!!

Me: “Nah seriously, you’re the first girl I ever met at a bar and been so sexually excited about”!

HB: “Is that what you say to every girl”?

Me: “Yea!!! But I mean it this time. I’m popping a mean fucking boner just from having a casual chat with you”!

HB: “LOL you’re killing me for real”!

Me: “I’m sorry for being so sexual and perverted! Spank me please so I can learn my lesson that it isn’t cool to go up to random girl and be so forward”!

HB: “Lol nah I’m not gonna spanking you! I actually like it”!

Ok guys, hopefully you get the point of how to go sexual (verbally) with strange girls at bars.

Dirty talking should be commenced subtly using sexual innuendos before getting sexually explicit.

It’d be pretty stupid to go up to a girl at the bar and say to her: “You have a nice ass and it’s getting my cock hard”.

I’d be easy for a guy like me to get away with. But for the average Joe reading this, an approach like that will totally crucify you and set off the creepy rape-alert inside the girl’s head.

As you become good at this [sexualization], you will then be able to get away with full-blown sex talk from the get-go with random strangers at nightlife settings.

Few More Pointers On Sex Talk:

Refrain from engaging in explicit-dirty talks with a girl whom you haven’t met yet in person, i.e. a girl you met online.

Doing so will create too much cognizant dissonance, thus making her feel slutty for talking that way with a guy whom she never even met before…then she will flake on you!!!

Leave the dirty talking and sexting for girls whom you’d actually met in person, or the ones you had been sexual with before.

In the past, I was guilty of making this crucial mistake many times where I would meet a girl on Facebook through mutual friends, we hit it off from the start, dirty talk ensues via Facebook chat, we set up a meet up- then she flakes at the last moment.

If she doesn’t flake, she will flat out make a bunch of excuses as to why we cannot meet up.

With that being said: leave the heavy-dirty sex talk until you’re in person vis-a-vis with the girl.

Sure you can flirt over text or phone conversation, but keep it light in order to avoid making her feel slutty.

Now, if this is a girl you’d already been on a date with and actually picked up in person, then it’s ok to get explicitly sexual over text and phone conversation.

However, it’s still much safer to keep it light until you meet her again for the day 2, date or meetup, where you can actually bang this girl when it’s all said and done.

If she’s your girlfriend; the above rules aren’t applicable since you’d already been sexual with her.

In Closing:

Dirty talking is an art.

If you’re bad at it [bad timing], it’d fuck you up and you’ll loose the girl.

If you’re half-way decent at it: you’ll be looked at as a sex God by women whom you come in contact with.

It’s an art and skill which can be mastered easily as I had done.

Your biggest challenges will be your own mind and inhibitions:

“I don’t wanna be seen as a pervert”

“What if she slaps me for being forward”?

“I prefer playing it safe”

“I’m too shy to talk dirty”

Your own mind will fuck you out of easy pussy!

Tame your inner inhibition when it comes to talking dirty with women, and just let it all hang out but with tact and skills.

Start small and non sexual!

Instead of saying: “I wanna eat your pussy”!

Start off with: “I’m in the mood to eat something sweet”!

Let her guess as to what you’re talking about. You’re planting seeds of sex, which is 100 times more powerful than being blatant…in this case.

“Using sexual innuendos to turn girls on”:

If all fails as far as becoming comfortable with sex talk, a great way to achieve this is to speak with a phone-sex operator. You can simply request an explicit chat solely (instead of actual phone sex), just to get a sense of what it is and how it is to talk dirty to a woman and have her engage in the dialogue.

Update: Hey guys, you can grab your copy of my e-product, “47 Covert Text To Get Her Wett”, on Amazon for 4.95.

Socialkenny Experiments With Celery…Is The Results Real?

I’ve been on a massive-experimental spree over the past 2 weeks, where I dabbled in everything from not wearing deodorant over the weekend while clubbing, to eating raw celery in order to…


Anyways, eating raw celery has to rank at the top of the list of the most unappetizing shit in the world!!!

Ok, I’m exaggerating! It wasn’t actually that bad, but you get the point!

Since embarking on an extensive research into the world of Pheromones [which I wrote about in my previous article], I stumbled upon another pieces of finding which made me go: WTF!!!

Sexologists claim that celery stimulates Androstenol chemical within the mouth, which serves to attract and (sexually) arouse women who are in your presence.

As you would’ve read from the previous article, Androstenol (a pheromonal hormone produced in a man’s sweat and saliva), serves as a catalyst in attracting women on a subconscious level.

Alright, I’m a natural skeptic, so my bullshit-ometer immediately went off while I was reading this.

However, I decided to take a stab at it by field testing the celery thing. Last Friday morning before heading to work, I grabbed a stalk of celery and managed to crunch it down in spite of the sharp bitterness!

I took a piece along with me in the event that I might have to double down to strengthen the potency of the pheromone release…supposedly.

I pretty much work alone in my own department, but at any given time, other workers would constantly frequent in and out throughout the sector- but never stay.

Last Friday, something strange happened; 2 female employees from the adjacent department virtually neglected their duties to stick around in my department to chat and flirt with me!


This is very common by the way, but it’s usually on sprinting mode, where the girl passes my aisle, we flirt and chat for 5 seconds, then POOF- gone!

Last Friday though, it felt like hours!!!

Is this celery induced!!!?

It was so fucking crazy and drawn out that the supervisor of 1 of the female employees had to dispatch a courier to corral her back to her department.

This has never happened before since I’ve been doing some work here (over the past 4 months).

That day though was just out of the ordinary!

Is this just sheer coincidence?

Is this all in my big-frikkin’ head!?

Both girls were hitting buying temperature harder than Mack trucks at 1000 RPM’s!

It was like this x 10!

It was like this x 10!

I mean, sex was floating in the air like a genie! You could’ve literally cut the cloud of heavy-sexual tension with a dull knife!

They invaded my personal space closer than what’s considered normal.

On any given day, they would maintain a distance of about 10 yards while we chit chat.

That day however, these chicks were virtually engaging me in face to face combat to the point that I could’ve simply tilted my face an inch forward and full-blown make out with them!

It was so weird to have a girl be so close during casual conversation…during the day…at work, that I felt a rush of anxiety from sheer proximity of our bodies and faces.

This was like an aha moment!

At 1 point during the noonday-lunch break, girl # 2 came and sat right next to me, which is something that she’d never done prior to me taking the celery test.

Her shoulder and torso were pressed up against mines as we sat together.


This chick was so close, that I was able to inhale the aroma of the spearmint gum on her breath.

These are the most solid and blatant IOI’s (Indicators Of Interest) you will ever get!

A girl invading your personal space to the point that you can feel her breath on your shoulder as she talks, that’s a Sign Of Interest and sexual arousal.

Long story short, the day ended on a flirty and sexual note. For the sake of experiment, I must say that the celery test yielded stunning fucking results!

Since I’d ran out of celery, I wasn’t able to continue my experiment while clubbing over the weekend.

After all, celery isn’t high on my priority list when grocery shopping. But it might be now!

Give it a shot guys!

What is there to loose?

If munching on celery doesn’t seem to attract flirty women as it did in my case, then look at the bright side: you’ll be investing in a healthy food source which can possible lengthen your life.


Anyway, feel free to weigh in: has Kenny gone off the deep end into a sphere of lunacy, or does this celery experimentation seems plausible [according to researchers it is]?

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