Alright, I don’t think I need to get into the preliminaries on why you should look to get physically close(er) to the girl with whom you’re talking.
However I will state the total obvious that you cannot fuck a girl by being hands-off or standing 10 yards away from her, therefore you must get close to her! So if you wanted a reason as to why you must get closer in the first place: then there it was…it couldn’t be plainer!
Reason I even mentioned that is because most guys would argue that they don’t see a reason why they have to intrude on her personal space when they can simply maintain a safe distance and chat her up for 10 hours.
This of course will lead nowhere besides a phone # and a promissory meet-up/date.
However, when you get close(er), 3 things immediate happen:
1.) Heightens the sexual tension.
2.) She gets to smell you (subconsciously) as other species of the animal kingdom do whenever attracted.
3.) She feels a sense of intimacy also known as closeness.
Now the looming question is; “How do I do this (closing the distance)”?
There are many ways in which to get very very close to a girl without setting off her intruder alarm.
A great thing to keep in mind about this is to create the illusion that she’s the one invading and encroaching on your personal space. 👿 😉
“How do I do this Kenny”?
Firstly, a woman only feels uncomfortable when she’s being intruded upon.
Matter of fact- same applies to men when confronted.
However, the one who’s intruding (the intruder) is rarely ever uncomfortable to intrude and get close…or else he or she wouldn’t intrude.
See where I’m going?
You want the girl to intrude on you instead.
You want her to be the 1 who gets closer where she doesn’t have to worry about being intruded upon.
To make this happen, use my “Can You Find My Photos” routine.
You can even start it off by saying:
“Hey, Do You Know Anything About Phones”?
Grand-Booty Girl On The Corner Field Report
The back story for this originated from an encounter I had with an HB8 last night (Saturday) while wrapping up a night of heavy Night-Game Pickup.
While walking home early from a bar in my area (10 PM actually), I spotted a big-booty girl crossing an intersection so I stopped her.
Since this was so sudden, I never had time to pull out my device to record some footage. 😦 😦
Long story short, we flirted back and forth the entire time: I grabbed, tugged, pushed, pull, etc [KINO 101].
However, those moments were short-lived spikes (nanoseconds) and it was really really difficult to get this girl to stay locked in. So I had to devise a plan on the spot in order to get her to be close to me and stay close, long enough to increase the sexual vibe and tension.
From this, my phone routines was hatched on the spot.
I cunningly brought up the subject of cellphones and photos.
She totally engaged and submerged herself into the topic.
Then I said to her: “Do you know about phones? I can’t locate my fucking camera photos”.
This prompted her to come closer, which I then gave her my phone for her to rummage through.
She was technically the 1 to move in (physically) on me. She invaded my space and took or accepted the phone in order to try to locate my photos…which really wasn’t missing. 👿 👿
The fact that she was the 1 to get closer, she had no reason to feel uncomfortable as if I was the one to move in on her.
Hence the routine was a winner. 🙂
Now, that isn’t all to it.
Having a girl close to you but not taking advantage is just as pussy as failing to get physical in the first place.
My objective was to get her close and stay close.
Other moments when I tried pulling her towards me, she would laughingly pull away, obviously enjoying the fun push-pull flirty tug of war.
That is all great- but she wasn’t staying next to me (which is my goal to have her stay next to me).
With the phone technique/routine, she got real real close, took the phone and the dialogue ensued (verbatim):
HB: “What can’t you find”?
Me: “My damn photos”!
HB: “Where are they saved, on the card or phone”?
Me: “I don’t know exactly. You can look in media files. IDK”.
HB: “Your phone is so outdated. You need an upgrade”.
Me: “[Sucking my teeth] Just find the damn photos please”.
Remind you guys, during this dialogue, which went on for some minutes of she trying to find my pics, our bodies were LITERALLY glued to one another!
Side note: I definitely knew where my photos were! But it was just a gambit/trick in order to get her close. 👿 😈
To illustrate the positioning, all 2 of our hands (4 hands) were on the phone at the same time with me standing beside her at an angle in which her tits were LITERALLY pressed up against my chest and shoulder blade.
This photo bests illustrates the exact positioning except looking down @ a phone
Remind you: she initiated this! 🙂
She encroached! She intruded!
On a deeper level, this also gives her psychological permission to be close. She now has a plausible reason as to why she’s so close to a stranger (me) with our bodies pressed against each others’.
She can justify this with: “Oh, I was helping him to find his missing photos”.
Guys- it’s all fucking psychological for women!
They are down as fuck, but need to grant themselves petty justifications for their actions.
You as the man, the leader, should help facilitate this by giving her a reason just as I did via “phone photo routine”.
Anyway, so she was close to me while we searched my phone together, I actually popped a mini boner from the mere sensation of her full breasts being on me. 🙂 🙂
It’s impossible for me to get a hard-on while in public unless fucking a girl somewhere outdoors.
Intimate dancing itself, doesn’t even get me an erection so for this chick to arouse such a physiological reaction downstairs was something like a phenomenon!
Also bear in mind, this was literally on a traffic-filled street corner (in sight of a packed fast-food joint) which we’d been standing on for 30 minutes up until that point.
You want to also vary the pace and KINO (touching) as I did.
I didn’t just hold the same position for 5 minutes.
I released the phone completely to her to then throw my arm around her shoulders.
Seconds later, I started to caress her neck while she continues to go through my phone.
Seconds later, I started kissing her on the back, shoulders and neck.
To cut the heavy-sexual tension which was massively thick, I pinched her on the neck which caused her to laughingly pull away as I retreated a bit.
This is a mating ritual aka push-pull!
When animals mate or getting ready to, they push, pull, tug, chase, kick, bite, play, etc. They don’t just stay there stationary all throughout.
Being that she still had my phone after pulling away due to the neck pinch, we mutually moved backed in on each other. But this time, I varied the position once again by standing directly in back of her with my cock pressed up against her ass this time while looking over her shoulder at the phone [1 hand @ my side, the other on her shoulder].
Was she consciously aware of the so-called accidental-physical touches?
You better believe it!
How about my cock against her backside?
The key here is making it seem accidental or naturally called for (plausible).
It’s plausible that I stand in back of her really really close in order to see over here shoulder.
It’s plausible that my dick may come in contact with her ass being that I’m standing behind her.
It’s plausible that I rest my hand on her shoulder in order to gain a better view of the phone (by tilting her shoulder back a bit).
All of this is totally plausible since she has my property in her hands [you get the point]!
Once your actions seem plausible and justified, she will NOT object neither stop you or stop what’s going on.
Just as when trying to convince a girl to come with you to a quieter section of the nightclub in order to talk.
The girl has justification in tagging along because “the music is too loud”, therefore it’s plausible to go somewhere quieter.
Note: I am not saying that you should wait for plausibility or good logistics. Just that the more plausibility the girl or the situation has, the more she’ll comply and the less she’s object.
Alright, when should you attempt to run this phone photo routine in order to get close?
Definitely not right after you approach and open her.
That is tactless and unwise!
You have to build or create a bit of chemistry first via flirting, dominance, touching or playfulness/banter.
Basically, the mood was right, sexual tension in the air, flirting on another level…in public (street corner) with a random stranger whom I’d just met minutes prior.
I kissed her some more on the neck and shoulders while caressing her hips.
She asked for my # and tried to offer hers but I declined to give mines or take hers.
It’s all about the moment and taking advantage of things within that moment.
If you’re not able to bang her then and there or pull her to your place or hers, then accept that it wasn’t meant to happen.
A phone # does NOT nearly guarantee you’ll see her again!
Conversing at a later date over the phone or text will not benefit you but in slim cases.
I left it up to chance that we’ll bump into each other again where I can resume the pull to my place or hers.
Lots of fish in the sea guys. And you should display an abundance mentality by refusing to take girl’s phone #’s!
You’ll soon realize that you’ll be able to get more random One-Night Stand lays than you’ll be able to get girls to accept going out on dates.
The point of it all (apart from the routine), is to illustrate how you can just out of the blue, meet women who are looking for a relief from the boring-humdrum shit they do 24/7!
To meet a stranger and within 5 minutes, become sexual, flirty, touching and kissing, it’s a massive fucking high for women!
These sort of random occurrences are equivalent to love at first sight for women. It sweeps them off their feet with a heavy rush of dopamine aka the love chemical.
The average Jane whom you cross paths with on a daily basis, little do you know, she’s likely ripe for a random escapade or escape. But since men are so pussified and passive, they (men and women) miss out on spontaneous opportunities to get sexual or laid!
You don’t have to attend nightclubs to pull drunk girls in order to find easy girls who are DTF.
The average chick whom you walk by on the street is an easy girl who’s DTF.
Your female coworker is an easy chick who’s DTF!
The girl sitting next to you at church is an easy chick who’s DTF!
Most girls are fucking DTF!
It all boils down to you…the man!
Will you continue to walk right by sexually-available women on the streets to go log into Facebook to pursue girls whom you can’t get physical with?
Will you continue to whine about not getting laid thus resorting to playing video games all day while there are hot chicks roaming around in hopes of action?
The additional point I’m making here is that you as a smart man, must come to the realization that the average girl is sexually frustrated and sex-deprived.
In spite of having sexual options and varieties (as all women do), she still craves something spontaneous and novel, such as a flirty or sexual encounter with a random-stranger dude!
It’s just that you need to man the fuck up and stop letting women who get your cock hard, walk right on by you.
Sure I didn’t get to bang this chick or take her home, but I damn sure tried! And had there been a darkened alley nearby, I would’ve tried to bang her there instead. 🙂 🙂
The brief encounter was capped off by she asking me to take her pic (with her phone and mines).
Sorry guys, I had to distort the pics for censorship purposes. 😦
I’m not particularly an ass-man [tits and legs instead], but she had 1 of those Kim Kadrashian asses (+ matching figure) which grabbed my attention as we both crossed paths @ the intersection.
Be that rare guy who sweeps women off their frikkin’ feet!
‘Cause remember, the average guy isn’t out there pulling random ass and getting sexual with women, so in that respects; you have zero fucking competition!
I found a video of Todd Valentine which eerily sums up everything I wrote about in this article.