Peacocking Is Real

The first peacocking item I ever purchased which predates the VH1 Pickup Artist show.

I bought this necklace and talisman from a homeless white Jewish guy peddling on the streets [I know what
you’re thinking: “a fucking Jew who’s

Anyway, truth is; every time I wore this to the club or bar, I got a same night lay pull.

Not only that, but as insignificant as this necklace appears, every time I wore it to night game, various women would open me by commenting on it: “Hey, interesting necklace. What does it signify”?

Even while in convo, girls would almost always notice it and comment on it…which goes to show that women have eyes for details and they notice every minute thing.

Crazy enough about this talisman and necklace, I lost it once and recovered it from my grandmother’s garden…buried in dirt literally. This really belongs to me, and meant that it would never lose me.

I’m wearing it tonight for the first time in about a year. BTW, I am NOT wearing it in hopes of getting lucky tonight [since I’m already banging a
rotation of new girls]. But just for old-time sake and the memories of killing it in night game some years back.


A Quick Lesson In Peacocking 101

The first thing a guy will learn pretty fast in the world of dating is that chicks don’t approach men!

Quietly sitting at a bar with fingers crossed and hoping that hot women will just approach and open you is recipe for going home alone to watch internet porn for your sexual gratification [not that there’s a problem with that].

If in a rare case that a chick does muster the cojones to approach you, 99.9% of the time, it’ll be something so asinine and innocuous, that you wouldn’t even think that she was trying to hit on you.

However, there’s 1 true case in where a chick will approach you, open you, and compliment you.

In my last post, I wrote about a wickedly fun night at the club where girls were approaching, opening and complimenting me out of no where as if I were a fucking Rockstar!

Was it my Will Smith looks and killer muscles bulging out of my skin-tight shirt?


I’m not Will Smith, nor do I have Jersey Shore Guido muscles like Mike The Situation.

“Then how do you manage to magically get random girls to approach you in the clubs Kenny”?


Those unfamiliar with Pickup jargon, Peacocking is basically accessorizing yourself (in order to attract women).

Just as an actual peacock would in order to attract some hot peahens [if that’s even a word], the PUA does the same with the additions (accessories) to his wardrobe.

The PUA godfather, Mystery, used to peacock by painting his fingernails, wearing unusual hats, and sporting a necklace with attached pendant.



Just as a peacock gets all colorful and blooming with its feathers, a Pick-Up Artist who’s peacocking creates the same effect.

Now imagine Mystery at a bar sipping a cocktail and the nearest hot girl were to notice his polished nails.

Sheer curiosity at the abnormality (guy with painted nails) will lead her to ask, “Why do you paint your nails”?

That’s a classic example of how peacocking will sucker girls into opening you.

“Hey Kenny, How Do I Peacock In Order To Get Chicks Approaching Me”?

It doesn’t take much (nor much accessories) to effectively peacock to attract women.

A simple necklace with an attached pendant will suffice.

As you can see from my photos over the weekend, I merely had on a 2-colored beaded necklace (nothing lavish there) and a brand-new pair of shades.

That’s fucking it [as far as peacocking with accessories goes]!

A nice shirt with some artful-gothic designs or a unique jacket wouldn’t hurt neither.

Just to give a real illustration of how powerful my peacocking game was (with those 2 items only), as I walked into the nightclub, barely made it passed the bouncer, chick in red [Canadian] approaches me:

The Canadian

The Canadian

Canadian: “Hey, what does it say on your shades [meaning the label]”?

Me: “Hottest guy…[can’t remember what else I said]”.

Canadian: “Lol cool, I love your shades. I wanna take some pictures with you. Make sure you have the shades on”!

I mean, this chick literally gave me the celebrity treatment solely because she liked my peacocking item/accessory: a $40 pair of shades!

This was literally less than 1 minute in the fucking venue!

About 45 minutes later while trying my darn best to get away from the Canadian…


A tiny Guidette approaches me:

4'9 Italian girl from Connecticut

4’9 Italian girl from Connecticut

Guidette: “Hey, what does your necklace means”?

Me: “Can’t tell you. My little secret”!

Guidette: “Aah come on! What does it mean”!?

[She KINOs me by touching the necklace]

Me: “The blue is for intense fucking love”!

Guidette: “And what does the clear one symbolizes”?

Me: “A sexual charm. If you touch it, you’ll be going home with me. Plus it means intense passion”.

Guidette: “Loo well I’m very passionate and I like your necklace a lot. Where did you buy them”!?

Me: “@ K-Mart”!

Guidette: “Lol so funny and K-Mart doesn’t sell those”!

So there you go guys: within the first hour of being in the club, I had 2 random girls approach and open me.

Both DTF (Down To Fuck)!

My entire night was already cemented with sure sex within 45 minutes, and it all comes down to 2 fucking items which I wore that night:



Nights that I do go out without shades and necklace, I don’t get approached.

I didn’t need to buy drinks, flash $1,000 and buy out the bar.

It was just to wear something attractive, original and appealing enough to catch girls’ eyes.

This doesn’t just appeal to girls neither.

Just last week while running some errands to the post office, I had a guy say to me: “Hey man, cool necklace. Where did you buy it or was it hand made”?

It’s ironic what the guy did because I advise men that they should open other men too by striking up random chats about something they’re wearing [in order to become a social person]. So when this guy said that to me, I was totally impressed that he gets it!

So guys, the next time you go out, please remember to sport an interesting accessory or 2 which will possibly attract women to strike up a conversation with you.

If you don’t have any such item: then fucking buy 1!

Kenny’s recommendation:

*Cool Shades

*Interesting Necklace (made of beads, shells or string & pendant)

*Leather-wrist band

*Colorful bracelet (made of beads or shells)

*Cool shirt with abstract designs or something cheeky printed on it

*Unusual hat

*Eyebrow piercing

*Cool hairstyle (like a fohawk)

Those are just few peacocking items in which I personally recommend and also wear regularly with stunning results as far as random girls coming up to me and complimenting me on the streets or at the club.


Don’t just bank on women approaching you and decide to not be proactive and approach women.

That night at the club (as every other night), I had all intentions to approach tons of girls, but it just so happened that girls were beating me to the punch.

I wasn’t going to wallflower and hope that girls would approach me because I was peacocked out.

I knew I had to be proactive regardless!

Why peacocking works so effectively boils down to colors.

Women are intrigued and fascinated by colors and abstractions (which is why they love drinking colorful cocktails) which is another way to attract them while at the bar.

Related articles written by Socialkenny PUA:

Get girls to approach you by the drink in your cup

Cool accessories for men

Wearing shades gets you laid?

Just Another Wild Night @ The Club + The Power Of Peacocking [Sunday, April 21st. 2013]

As much as I hate clubbing with my boys or even wingmen, this was 1 of those exceptional nights

As much as I hate clubbing with my boys or even wingmen, this was 1 of those exceptional nights

I had a blast last night to say the least.

Started out at a boring cock-infested ran-down bar which had a ratio of 15 dicks to 2 chicks.

Well actually, it had about 5 patrons, 1 of which was a woman…who wasn’t hot.

This is how bored I felt to kick off the night @ the bar

This is how bored I felt to kick off the night @ the bar

Not 1 game-worthy girl in the entire bar [FUCK]!

Bored out my mind literally!

Bored out my mind literally!

On my way home, my boys Unit & Jaron bumped into me in traffic by chance:

“Yo I know you not going home already! Let’s go to the club”!

Socialkenny and Jaron, former co-workers now turned co-clubbers

Socialkenny and Jaron, former co-workers now turned co-clubbers

That was all the motivation needed to pull a detour from my apartment to the Lyme nightclub.

The venue had more chicks than a poultry farm!

Just stepped into the venue and already feeling the energy!

Just stepped into the venue and already feeling the energy!

Threw my shades on and instantly felt women gravitating to me from all sides as if I had some magic potion to attract HB’s!

I was approached and opened by a tall-slim chick who had complimented me on my shades…I think!

Chick literally approached me and wanted to take pics. Sure! I really didnt know I was a celeb'.

Chick literally approached me and wanted to take pics. Sure! I really didnt know I was a celeb’.

This chick was virtually swarming me as I got into the club so I hooked the set, chatted a bit and found out she was from Toronto, Canada.

The Canadian who latched onto me instantly!

The Canadian who latched onto me instantly!

Wasn’t it RooshV who said that Toronto girls were hard to pull?

I introduced the Canadian to my social circle of boys so I can go game other girls in the venue [stalker-avoidance technique]

I introduced the Canadian to my social circle of boys so I can go game other girls in the venue [stalker-avoidance technique]

By all means the Canadian is DTF, but I wasn’t going to throw away my entire night within the first half hour when they’re way more hotter HB’s in the venue, so I passed her onto my boys…for now.

My party buddies Shoib and Pimp taking a break on the curb before going back into the outdoor club

My party buddies Shoib and Pimp taking a break on the curb before going back into the outdoor club

Later during the night while sarging the venue, a girl who had to have been no taller than 4 feet 9 fucking inches, approached and opened me!

4'9 Italian girl from Connecticut

4’9 Italian girl from Connecticut

Italian Shorty: “Hey, what does your necklace symbolizes”?

Me: “I can’t tell you. It’s sort of my little secret”.

Italian Shorty: “Aah come on! What does it mean”!?

[Then she starts hard-core KINO-ing me by touching on my beaded necklace]

Me: “The blue symbolizes intense fucking love”!

Italian Shorty: “And what does the clear ones mean”!

Me: “It’s a sexual charm. If you touch it; you’re going home with me tonight! Also says I’m a passionate person”!

Italian Shorty: “LOL! Well I’m very passionate too and I like your necklace. Where did you get them”?

Me: “At K-mart”!

Italian Shorty: “LOL you’re so funny. K-mart doesn’t fucking sell those”!

4 feet 9 inches Italian from Connecticut

4 feet 9 inches Italian from Connecticut

A key thing to take note of is that girls were approaching and opening me all night in the venue.

I’m not the best looking guy!

What was my secret then?

Peacocking accessories!

The Canadian opened me by saying she likes my shades.

The Italian opened me because of my beaded necklace which she finds likable.

So any guy who says that peacocking doesn’t work and it’s just another bullshit aspect of pickup is fucking loony!

Peacocking is 1 of the most powerful concepts of Pickup [outer game] which gets girls to approach and open you.

Girls having fun with my boys

Girls having fun with my boys

Later on, I’d introduced the girls to my boys and we all just had a crazy time in the courtyard.

That's that Italian Snookie look

That’s that Italian Snookie look

My boy DJ Flush enjoying the scenery as I work the camera

My boy DJ Flush enjoying the scenery as I work the camera

It would’ve been nice if my hands were on the assets or asses but I was the designated cameraman of the social circle.

Canadian (left), American (mid'), Italian American (right)

Canadian (left), American (mid’), Italian American (right)

My boy Shoib enjoying the fruits of my labor. But that’s how it goes when it comes to Social-circle game.

After 4 AM, getting ready to take these girls home [I'm still working the camera]

After 4 AM, getting ready to take these girls home [I’m still working the camera]

My intentions were to game some other girls throughout the night (which I did), but got stuck with the default girls.

Default chick from Toronto looking wasted after too many drinks (bought by AFC's)

Default chick from Toronto looking wasted after too many drinks (bought by AFC’s)

The only upside to going clubbing with your boys is if there’s a set of girls you want to merge (bring together), or if there are groups of girls who are looking for a fun group of guys to hang out with, you basically get a leg up on the lone competitor.

There were tons more photos I wanted to post (kiss closes and club make-outs, etc.), but I really don’t want to overkill the post with too many pictures.

Stay tuned to some follow-up posts on how to attract women by Peacocking, and how chicks at the bars and clubs use drinking as an excuse to get laid.

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Reader E-Mail: “I’m Tired Of Being A Boring-Fucking Loser”

Questions from Seun:

“Hey I’m seun anyway I’ve been reading your blog and I was looking for some advice. Anyway I’m a college freshman who’s never really had much of a social life. Never had many friends never dated or had sex with any girls I’ve up to this point lived a very boring life anyway going to college I expected things to get better and while I have a few friends that I talk to I still don’t go to parties and I still struggle to talk to girls. I plan on joining a frat in the spring to socialize more but I’m really scared that the entire process will go horribly wrong. I want to go to parties before that but I’ve never been invited by so called friends who go out every weekend and have lied to me about were they’ve been going the few times that I’ve asked to go with them. I’m tired of being a loser I want to party I want to have fun I want to meet and sleep with hot girls but I don’t know how I would go about changing my image. I don’t care what it takes I’m just tired of being a loser who spends every weekend playing video games…”.

Thanks for the e-mail Seun.

I’d already replied to Seun personally, but I’m also posting it on the blog so as to reach as many guys as possible who may be facing the same issues.

My reply to Seun:

“These are some things you can do or will have to do eventually to change that image.

1. Since your friends don’t want you going out with them; then go out solo. Go out alone! Friends will actually hamper your progress anyway.

2. Dress better (if that’s a prob with you right now). Give some edge to yourself by adopting a sort of bad boy look.

J-Dog, Master PUA coach with a bad boy, Alpha look

J-Dog, Master PUA coach with a bad boy, Alpha look.

Those 2 things you can change instantly.

You cannot be scared to go out alone”.

Seun’s dilemma is nothing strange.

In fact, it’s typical for most men to struggle with having a social life and having a sex life and women from which to chose. So seun and guys like him shouldn’t feel as though they’re in the minority and happened to have been dealt the shitty end of the stick.

I’d been there!

Back in high school in The Bronx, I was totally an anti-social pussy.

Only had 1 friend; and he was also anti-social and introverted.

I used to envy the jocks and the guys on the high-school varsity teams who had all the girls flocking around them.

This 1 girl named Lawanda, I had a major crush on her during my 4 years of high school. She never knew, nor would she had cared since I was so socially suppressed.

I was so awkward and shy during school, that I never laid a girl from high school during my entire 4 years at Morris High.

Fast forward many years later, thanks to the pick-up community, I’m now the most social guy in the room.

I’m now the guy with the most balls, most confidence, most cockiness in any venue. The guy who gets more pussy than a tampon.

Some encouraging words to Seun (the e-mailer who inspired this article): it can and will get better just as it did for me.

It will seem awkward and pointless at first (learning social dynamics), you will get rejected way more than ever (seems counter-intuitive).

But you will see the light where everything starts to open like a matrix, and you’ll be able to attract more ass than you know what to do with it.

Few tips for starters (for guys like Seun who struggles with having a social life and are seeking change):

#1.) If your sense of style is boring, lame and out-dated, you will need to get current and start to slowly peacock (as we say in pickup).

Peacocking PUA's: Matador, Mystery & J-Dog

Peacocking PUA’s: Matador, Mystery & J-Dog

Peacocking is a PUA concept where the guy would dress edgier and put some coolness and originality to his style.

•I peacock by wearing multi-colored shoe laces in the sneakers. Random girls are always commenting on my shoes since they look so original and attractive [as we’d say: chick crack].

•You can also peacock by wearing cool shades, shirts with printed statements on them like, “I’m taken”, or “I love sex”.

“I love fucking”

•Have a lame hairstyle? Get a new one!

•Have no piercings in your ears? Get some!

•No tattoos? Stop being a pussy and get 1 or 2!

•Give yourself some bad boy edge!

Overall, get your style and sense of fashion in order as the first step towards a lifestyle changing.

It’d be difficult for people to wanna associate with a guy who has no style and dresses poorly.

#2.) If you’re coming into a new social group, new friends, joining a college fraternity, etc; be social!

•Don’t come off as a lame or try hard. Just strike a good balance between being reserved and chatty.

•Over time, you’ll be comfortable enough to act a fool and be seen as 1 of the Alpha’s among the pack.

•However, you have to open your mouth and not be seen as the quietest, most boring guy among the bunch.

#3.) Get off the couch, put down the XBox and go meet people at random!

•You can’t shut yourself off from the real world and expect to be a social guy (if you weren’t already).

•Meeting girls on the internet should be your last resort, while actually meeting people at work, while commuting should be the first.

#4.) Enroll in a fitness gym or start working out at home.

•The guy that I’m currently envisioning who has the peacock thing going on with the spiked hair and fitness is Ryan Matsuflex from the VH1 reality show Tool Academy.

Not saying you have to get buffed. But get toned in the arms, shoulders and abdominals.

Ryan Matsuflex

Ryan Matsuflex

Now, am I saying that a guy should change his image in order to appeal to chics?


There seem to be a prevailing argument in the romcom-dating world that a guy shouldn’t alter or change his image in order to appeal to women. And that it’s wrong for a guy to change his personality and style to make it in dating.

This is utter nonsense!

A guy should alter his persona, personality, style, fashion, self, speech, etc. in order to make himself more attractive and fun to be around.

I’m not saying you should build an artificial persona and come off as fake.

Rather to become comfortable with the new you, and the added features.

However, if you’re looking like this guy below; there’s absolutely zero fucking chance that you’ll be getting steady action.

Changing your image/avatar is the first line of offense in attracting girls (since it’s the first thing people see; your outward appearance).

This isn’t being something you’re not. It’s getting up to speed with the times.

To add some edge to your style, check out my boy Tanner over at: Masculine Style.

Also, check out Vince Lin aka Alpha Wolf over at Seducing with style.

Or go to the post: Vote your favorite PUA coach 2012

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