Made my way to the nightclub around 11:30, grabbed myself a mixed drink which was so overpowering, that I had to beg the bartender to water it down.
Spotted 2 ladies walking towards the exit: 1 of which passed my proverbial boner-test.
Me: “Hey girls, I know y’all not leaving already”!!
Brits: “No! We’re just looking some fresh air. It’s hot in there”!
Me: “But it’s an open-air venue. Maybe the breeze is blocked off somehow”!
They giggled and laughed @ my hilarity.
I immediately locked eyes seductively with my target, while paying some attention (verbal) to the other girl of the 2 set.
Me: “Y’all know how to party are dance”!?
Brits: “Yea! But it’s too hot inside to dance…so when we cool down and go back in! Can you dance”?
My target asked me, indicating that she’s keen on me from the way I looked at her.
Me: “Hell yea! But I don’t mine you showing me some moves”.
At this point, the other girl was sorta standing there with her drink in her hand all lonely, so as a master seducer, I engage her every other second just to make her feel inclusive.
This is an art and 1 of the fundamentals of dealing with a 2 set.
You can’t just talk to the girl whom you like, while (completely) ignoring her friend.
Not only will her friend feel awkward and bored, but she’ll also feel alienated and left out, and she will then pull the plug on the entire set by saying to your target, “Let’s go back inside”!
Hence, you always want to acknowledge the other people in the group! If it’s 2 girls: don’t just chat to the 1 you like! You have to share the attention!
That is exactly what I did last night from the get-go.
I didn’t even approach my target upon the approach.
I addressed her friend (verbally, while looking at my target seductively and sexually.
Therefore, I kept my tone and vibe neutral (yet humorous) with the friend, while flirty with my target.
Also, I strategically traded comments between the 2 of them, just so her friend feels included. So whenever I would say something to my target, and she answers me, I would thing switch things over to her friend and ask her something or charm her a bit and make her laugh.
That is how you work a 2 set.
Me: “By the way, I didn’t get your name”
They both introduced themselves by name.
I then used my favorite gambit on my target, whenever a girl tells me her name:
Me: “What!? You look more like a Jessica”!
Target: “What! Kidding! Why!? You are something else”!!
She said with a strong British accent while tapping her friend and telling her that I said she looked like a Jessica.
Me: “Girls with your name are very spontaneous. I like that”.
Target: “How did you know we are spontaneous you witty fellow”?
Me: “I’m psychic. It’s 1 of my secret abilities that I can reveal to you right now”.
She laughed hysterically and taps me on the arm: an SOI (Sign Of Interest)…at least in this case.
Target: “So what can’t you reveal to me now”?
Me: “You’re gonna have to find out later”!
Target: “You’re a naughty one aren’t you”!
We flirted hard during these exchanges.
I mean, the sexual energy was so thick you could cut it with a butter-knife!
Here’s a quick pointer about “Pecking”, which I mentioned recently.
Whenever you’re in a loud setting and the girl gets right up in your ears while saying something, it should tell you 2 key things:
1.) She really wants to ensure that you hear her
2.) The fact that she wants to ensure that you hear her, means that on some level; she gives a shit about your value
If a girl at the club, for example, isn’t interested in conversing, there will be no reason for her to want to lean in and peck. She won’t do it in fact. She would just remain at 1 stationary position (or back up) while murmuring whatever it is she has to say. If you hear her: you hear her. If you don’t; tough luck!
With that, I want you to bear that in mind the next time you’re running club game: if the girl pecks (leans in to hear or speak); take it as an IOI (Indication Of Interesting). Otherwise, she would not have cared to lean in if she was repulsed by you (IOD: Indicator of Disinterest).
Our flirty and spontaneous chat in the courtyard of the venue continued.
Target: “So what do you do for a living”?
This question sort of threw me off guard. We’re at the club, and you’re asking me about work?
If you recall, in a recent post, I spoke about deflecting questions about your work (particularly if it isn’t interesting). I deflected it and then said something among the lines of, “If I tell you…you’ll think I’m a little pig”.
As expected, she laughs hysterically.
At that moment, we were squarely facing each other about 2 feet and 3-quarters feet apart: close enough to feel the sexual tension, and far enough to not arise any awkward tension.
We paused for a brief second and stared at each other seductively.
Me: “You are so fucking hot and seductive. You’re tempting me badly”!
Now, I generally never tell girls that their hot. But in person, you can totally get away with this as long as the vibe warrants it.
Me: “You’re getting me turned on right now”!
Girl: 😆 “Really! Maybe you should do something about it then”!
I got closer to her and looked right down at her boobs.
Me: “Oh- sorry! Sorry for staring at your breasts”!
Girl: “Why sorry”?
Clearly you know that I wasn’t sorry for checking out her tits. I just said/did that in order to heighten the sexual tension though it was already out the roof!
After a bit of this, I end up #-closing (got her home #) and promised to see her inside the venue for a dance.
Typically, it’d be a not-so-good idea to grab a girl’s # in the nightclub since they are liable to forget who you are after the smoke clears (or the alcohol). But I took a gamble anyway.
My intention was to see her again in a bit, perhaps to dance and even more.
About 30 minutes later while twirling around the club, I spotted her friend.
Me: “Hey, where’s your friend”?
She said that her friend (my target) had to be rushed to the hospital because of some slip and fall or something like that.
Generally, I would call bullshit on this. But I did notice an ambulance outside, and I didn’t see my target again for the night. So it seemed plausible.
I end up becoming a bit disheartened that I had such a DTF chick on my radar, but some freak incident ruined those plans.
Mechanics Of The 2-Set
Allow me to conclude this field-report post on the subject of gaming 2 sets, 3 sets, 4 sets, groups, etc.
In the pick-up community, you’re thought of as being a crock of amateur shit, if you’re a PUA who cannot approach and chat up 2 or more girls.
Every budding and up-and-coming PUA is urged to learn how to approach 2 or more girls while picking up the target girl.
Not only is this game on another level, but it separates men from boys.
Not only does it take balls of steel to approach 2 girls or a group of girls (or mixed set: males and females), but it is a delicate move in which to finesse…for newer guys that is.
On average, most guys (PUA’s or non-PUA’s) don’t approach 2 sets. 1 girl is enough to make the average guy royally shit his pants, let alone contemplating the approach of 2 girls.
This begs the question: why even approach 2 girls?
Simple: if there are 2 girls hanging around together and you happen to be attracted to 1 of them, it makes sense to approach rather than lose the girl entirely just because she’s with her friend, mom, etc.
Hence, learning how to approach 2 sets is a logical play in Game.
I’ll write more about this in a future post.