Women Will Always Scheme Ways To Skirt Loyalty To Their Boyfriend…As Long As You’re An Alpha On The Side

The other day, I wrote a somewhat controversial piece on side dick and why women who cheat, decide to cheat.

Piggy-backing off of that theme, I will expound a on a related topic which speaks to a woman’s propensity to run circles around her significant other in order to see another guy behind his back: and even right under his nose. 😯

Two Thursdays ago while I stayed in the city for that weekend, I hit up a chick on Facebook, after seeing a post she’d posted about attending a karaoke joint that same night.

Remind you: this is practically a stranger whom I’d only been friends with on Facebook for about a month. However, adhering to my stellar Facebook pick-up method, I was able to reel her in successfully like a fish on a hook, getting her to comment on my eyebrow-raising status updates and so forth.

Essentially, I had managed to attract her solely via comments on her posts and mines.

Anywho, I hit her up directly [inbox] for the first time (2 Thursdays ago). And it went like this.

[My messages in blue]

She was elated to hear from me privately, since unlike 99.9% of other guys, I restrained myself from flooding her inbox with all sorts of cheesy Beta-Male bullshit. So clearly (and this is from year’s worth of experience with women), she was anticipating my DM. So when she finally got it, she was elated. This was given away by the fact that she “LOL” when replying to my message (above) about “what are you doing tonight”?

Continuing. And by the way; this is a sexy fucking girl as you can see in the inserted pic in the screenshot above.

[My messages in blue]

[Above screenshot] Now you see an effort on her part to subtly justify why I should come, and also an effort on her part to downplay any discomfort on my part that her BF and son will be there.

Again guys: subtle frikkin’ tricks on the part of women with boyfriends in order to skirt fidelity.

Knowing that she’s trying to bait me into coming along, I also threw some subtle pitch of my own when I mentioned that we’re not gonna be able to mingle since her BF is there.

Now, in the screenshot below, check out how she subtly frames her comment as a way to justify why she and I should still meet up right under her BF’s nose.

[Her texts in gray]

Okay, so by her telling me that her BF is a cool dude, it was a desperate yet artful ploy on her part to try to sway me into meeting up with her at the karaoke joint.

She senses that I wasn’t sold on going. And since she’s highly attracted to me (my Alpha-Male vibe), she began to sell hard in trying to convince me to meet her there!

She also sneakily insinuated that my intentions were dirty. She’s right! She knew I wanted to fuck her! Although I never told her that since this was literally our first convo. I gave off that sex-worthy, bad boy vibe during our banter in the comment section on each other’s posts.

The point is: she knew my intentions were dirty, and she didn’t fucking care because that’s what women want; a real man who isn’t bashful about having a dick that he’s willing to use when given the chance!

Additionally, I purposely took a long time to reply to her message about bad intentions, so that’s when she mentioned “u not replying”?

[Her texts in gray]

Learn how to play hard to get! By me saying to her, “I don’t want the BF drama”, it not only makes me NOT look desperate, but it made me appear hard-to-get, and it also forced her to chase me even harder.

Now here is was that this girl is going out with her boyfriend (and their little kid), yet she’s facebooking another guy (me)- a total stranger you can say- trying to convince him [me] to meet up with her still.

Isn’t that some powerful and telling shit?

The texting continued (my messages in blue).

She: “You plan on taking me in a corner to talk”?

What is she doing here by asking that?


What was I implying to her when I said what is the point if I cant talk to you?

I was further trying to bait her in with a sense of loss.

I was giving her double impressions: mixed signals. On 1 hand: I told her that I want to hang out. On the other hand, I was giving her the impression that her BF would be an indirect cock-block.

Long story short: I end up disappointing her by not going.

I made other plans which were more conducive to getting the lay.

In any case, I want to conclude this post by touching on the topic at hand: women with boyfriends skirting fidelity in order to meet up with guys whom they perceive as sex-worthy Alphas.

In this instance; I was that guy.

Had I attended, I can tell you exactly what would’ve gone down.

Taking a guesstimation that the venue was small (most karaoke joints are small), I would imagine that her BF would’ve been in eye-shot of his GF and son.

With that, there would’ve been very limited amount of play for me to maneuver by way of anything sexual.

However, flirting verbally would’ve been a must. And since she mentioned “a corner”, I would’ve at some point taken her aside to get physical outside the view of the boyfriend.

I doubt I would’ve gotten the notch. But makeout and shit would’ve been a given.

Nevertheless, I merely wanted to point out the extent to which women will go to take chances beneath their boyfriend’s nose.

She will make a ton load of excuses as to why it’s okay in her eyes. And she will also convince you that her boyfriend is harmless as this girl did with me.

The girlfriend would’ve likely said to the BF: “I’ll be meeting a friend there too, but he’s cool. He’s just a harmless work mate”.

Thus, the boyfriend himself would actually be under the impression that the guy she’s meeting with is an innocent and harmless Beta-Male.

Generally, this is correct! Since most guys are harmless wussies who wouldn’t dare escalate on a girl, a girlfriend can very well convince her significant other that the guy she’s talking to is some harmless chode.

Therefore, in retrospect, that would’ve likely been the case had I gone. She would’ve tapped her boyfriend and tell him (either beforehand or at some point during the night) that I were some innocent-gay dude whom she works with. Thus I would’ve been rendered a non-threat to him.

What he wouldn’t have known was that I am an ardent seductionist who fucks girls with boyfriends for a sport and an income.

However, women don’t care!

She wouldn’t have cared that she mischaracterized me to her BF as means to swindle him in order to freely be in my presence in a semi-intimate kind of way.

This however will not happen for you with a hot girl, unless you have social value in her eyes!

Looks don’t fucking matter!

I cannot fail to beat that point to death!

I am not the most shiny bolt in the toolbox by far! Women often say that I’m ugly! But that doesn’t mean shit because I know looks don’t matter but vibe and personality do!

As for the issue of trust and trusting women: I trust no woman to not cheat.

With guys like myself out there, knowing what I know, and doing what I do, it is extremely difficult for me to trust any woman.

I call this 1 of the unintended consequences of mastering seduction and getting good with women.

Picking up women and sleeping with women becomes so easy that you just cannot bring yourself to ever trusting women

It’s not like guys like myself- and I can speak for myself with certainty- it’s not like we go around with mistrust on our minds. Even if we were in relationships, guys who reach this level, though we learn to not trust women to not cheat, we aren’t jealous boyfriends who snoop around hurling about accusations of infidelity at our girlfriends.

In fact: it’s the contrary!

You would think that a guy who doesn’t trust women, would constantly hound his girlfriend, monitor her, search her phone, etc.

Totally not the case.

With not trusting women, it makes no sense to monitor a girlfriend since you already left space for disappointment in your heart…proverbially.

Guys who get their hearts shattered upon the revelation that their girlfriend is cheating, are the ones who never thought it could happen. The guys who trusted unconditionally.

Trusting a girl unconditionally is akin to cutting your dick off and using it with your hands to fuck the girl. It makes no sense!

Quote-unquote “Nice Guys” are usually the victims and suckers of unconditional trust in their girlfriend.

Not surprising, those guys are the only ones getting cheated on.

With all that being said, through vast amount of years of experience with women on various continents, from various countries of various ethnicities and races, I’ve come to the realization that women will almost always deceive their tamed boyfriends in order to skirt fidelity just to romp around with a guy who gets it: a guy who gets women and gets what women responds to.

Brief-Insightful Theorization: Why Women Prefer Sex On The Side To Boyfriend Sex (A Must Read For Men)

As of late, I haven’t pontificated on any deep aspect of seduction, relationship or any other aspect of male-female relations. But here’s a pretty insightful one for you which I touched on a few years back.

Side Dick Will Almost Always Trump Boyfriend Dick

A bold-ass declaration indeed; but I’ll explain.

Here’s another bold statement I’ll make, which flies in the face of popular belief: women don’t cheat as means of search for better sex! In other words; women aren’t cheating because sex with the boyfriend isn’t satisfying and pleasurable, nor because he’s lacking in the size department!

Those are urban myths ginned up by some women who don’t even have a clue as to why they do what they do.

This then begs the question: why do women prefer dick on the side to their boyfriend’s dick?

Firstly, I must make it clear that I am not saying that all women “cheat”. I am specifically speaking of the women who do cheat [though I don’t use that term to describe what is known as cheating].

Of the women who do cheat; why do they have a preference for side dick if it isn’t about sex, better sex or bigger cocks?

The thrill!

Yes: the thrill!

That is why women cheat: the trill and the intense head-rush they obtain from the idea of knowing that they’re doing something “wrong”, forbidden, lewd and thrilling.

It isn’t about the sexual intercourse at all!

If anything, the sex on the side is just an amenity or perk thrown into the overall scheme.

Whether the side-dick sex is stellar or sucky; doesn’t fucking matter!

A side dick will never get accused of being awful in bed, no matter if he’s atrociously awful!

The job of the guy on the side isn’t to provide good sex. His role is merely to be an actor in the thriller.

How do I know that sexual performance from the side dude doesn’t matter to a girl who’s cheating?

I’ve been the guy on the side innumerable times! And most of the time, I don’t even bother to give 20% in the performance department. Why is that? Because I know my performance doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things.

I also know that the so-called cheating girl isn’t going to ditch me as the side dude, just because of my sub-par performance in the sack.

Now, since you now know the reason women prefer side dick to their boyfriend’s- the trill and the adventure of cheating- what can a boyfriend do to minimize the chances of his GF cheating, or to equalize this perception somehow?

Well- he can be equally as thrilling in other ways!

If you haven’t been privy to this yet, I’ll share it now: I have a girlfriend of 7 years. It is an exclusive relationship but I bargained for the rights and okay to date other women.

In any case, how do I keep my girlfriend from not cheating just because she craves a massive head-rush from the idea of forbidden sex on the side?

I give her thrilling times of my own! Hence, there’s no insatiable drive on her part to seek it (thrill) elsewhere!

The head-rush she gets from cheating, I provide my own head-rushing adventures which give her the same sensation of doing something forbidden and lewd.

What do I mean?

For example: role playing!

It is a great way to have your girlfriend experience a massive thrill akin to that of getting dick on the side [role playing]!

The role-playing can even be based on a cheating girlfriend.

Any role playing will do…honestly speaking.

As long as she gets a thrilling time, away from the humdrum and monotonous routine of boyfriend-girlfriend sex.

Listen, the thing is, the average boyfriend gets lulled into a false sense of security once he has successfully nabbed himself a girlfriend.

He becomes lazy, boring and predictable.

Hence, the girlfriend becomes open to the idea of fun/thrill: NOT sex!!!

This isn’t about sex!

It is the lackluster routine that she’s tired of!

Sex on the side is just an ingredient or byproduct of the greater reason!

The guy on the side- not him personally, but the experience- provides her with that spontaneous sensation which she craves, but isn’t getting from her boyfriend because he’s now become dormant and lazy.

As for myself personally, when it comes to role playing [a cheesy term I that hate using by the way], I like to create spontaneous and random scenarios and just have my girlfriend come along on the escapade.

There’s no real need to clue her in since the less she knows, the greater the sensation and the thrill.

I would tell her to meet me down a secluded alley (during an evening). I would be awaiting her with my face concealed with a bandanna. Out of the blue I would swiftly walk up behind her and grab her by the mouth while covering her eyes. I would then blindfold her with the bandanna and lead her as though I was to bound and gag her.

Clearly she would know it’s me (that’s if I open my mouth). But it didn’t really matter if she does or doesn’t.

While dragging her, or leading her, I would take her few yards ahead to an abandon building of sorts, or just a really secluded area in the alley, and fuck her doggy-style position from the back while she’s blindfolded.

Before I left, I would tell her in an exaggerated threatening manner to not turn around until the count of 10.

I would saunter off then ring her cellphone and tell her to meet me on the other side of the alley.

Basically, I would’ve made it seem like they were 2 separate guys independently involved (or un-involved): the guy who had accosted her and fucked her at random. And me, the boyfriend, who’s now taking her home.

I’ve done this with my girlfriend on numerous occasions. And the high she gets from it is just massive!

I also get a massive rush from it!

Additionally, and on a somewhat lighter note, I would tell her to meet me somewhere, and without a word said, I would almost rip her clothes off and fuck her through an alley or back street.

We would also have sex at many random locations outdoors.

All this is upon my initiation…of course. It is up to me to spicen things up, and to give her that trill and excitement!

Leave it up to her- the woman- and none of this would get done with an air of spontaneity if she were the one to initiate these role plays and sporadic sexual encounters.

Okay, so what else?

Sex in forbidden places: rooftops, in someone’s backyard, at work (her job or mines), in a restroom at the restaurant, etc! 😈

You get the damn point, don’t you!?

Give her that thrill! The same thrilling sensational high she gets from fucking another guy behind her boyfriend’s or husband’s back!

Bear in mind that just as the emphasis doesn’t have to be on sexual performance when it comes to the side guy, it doesn’t have to be about your sexual performance with your girlfriend while role playing or doing something really raunchy and spontaneous.

the sex is the least!

The drama and the experience are the most key components to getting your girlfriend off on 1 of these massive highs akin to that of what she experiences while cheating.

All of this also begs the question: “how often”?

“How often should I orchestrate these thrilling moments with my girlfriend or wife”?

Whenever you sense that monotonous routine is setting in, subsequent to fights and arguments.

I liken this to rough-makeup sex after an argument with your girlfriend.

The thrill and endorphinal rush she gets from being manhandled and fucked with aggression, is wickedly addictive for her!

You don’t need to do this every night. Chiefly during fights and periods of boredom in the bedroom.

I’m essentially encouraging you to spicen things up, which is always a plus.

Doing so correctly [I see no way you can flub this up] will keep your girlfriend or spouse at home…proverbially…meaning, she won’t be out there in search of illicit thrills since she’s getting her fix of them at home…from you.

On a final note, I just want to shed a little light on some statistics which I often bring up in discussions like these: Ninety-five percent of the women I sleep with are either in monogamous relationships or marriages.

Upon hearing this declaration, a guy once accused me of being a vile scumbag for preying on women whom are taken.

My rebuttal to his diatribe was simple: “Do you actually think I possess some sort of secret detector which pings me whenever I come within 5 feet of a girl who’s taken”?

Saying that to say; I do NOT single out and target women with boyfriends or husbands just because I want to be a home-wrecking prick.

Upon approaching a woman, I have absolutely no clue of her relationship or marital status!

Why then do I happen to come across so many women with boyfriends?

It’s because there is no such thing as a girl who’s single!!!


If a girl is single, she’s either bat-shit fucking crazy with major instability issues, or she has some sort of apparent disease or deformity, physical ailment or handicap which prevents her from either talking (speech impediment), or prevents her from audible comprehension (hearing impairment).

Those are your single women! And the reasons mentioned above are why they are single!

No sane or physically normal girl is legit single!

If you were approaching and meeting as much women as I do, online or offline, you would quickly come to the realization that 9 in 10 girls are either full-blown in a relationship, just got out of 1 but is still fucking her ex (which means she’s technically still with him), or married.

The odd girl here and there would say she’s single. But get to know her ass, and within a matter of days or weeks, you’ll quickly discover that there’s a secret boyfriend in the mix whom she’s been hiding from you.

Thus, most girls- 9 in 10- have someone! So the odds of fucking girls who are in some form of relationship, will have been extremely high!

You just don’t know this because you aren’t approaching a fraction of the women I do on a weekly basis, let alone over the course of a month.

Therefore, I have empirical datum to substantial my claims, unlike those keyboard jocks, mental-masturbators and dating/pick-up theorists who have zero to minimal experience with the opposite sex.

With all that said, you now know the reason behind why women cheat, and 1 strategic technique in how to minimize the chances of your girlfriend or wife ever cheating.

Hopefully this also dispels the myth that women cheat because their partner isn’t paying them any or enough attention at home.

You may want to read this short post of mines from a few years back: “Fuck her like an Animal”!

Usain Bolt: Making The Pick-Up Artist Proud…Conquering One Girl At A Time

The sprinting giant, Usain Bolt, has been in the media in unflattering ways, during and after the Rio Olympics.

Over the past week, photos have surfaced of the track-star giant, allegedly making out with numerous girls in a Rio nightclub.

In fact- I think “alleged” is the wrong word here- since all indications confirm that it was Usain Bolt getting his mack on at the club.

What seemingly is causing such a shit storm in the social-media world, particularly from females and their Beta-Male patsies, is that the Big U Bolt allegedly has a girlfriend of 2 years, effectively branding himself a womanizing cheater in the eyes of the media, women and neutered-feminized men.

A fellow seduction buddy of mine out of Poland, had linkd me on Facebook to a Dailymail post, which is essentially a field report as we would say in pickup.

David had made a joke in the comments that this chick gets paid for her field reports while we Pickup Artists don’t. 😆

On a more serious note, the way I feel about this recent shit storm, is already well transparent by the titling of the article alone.

I personally defend a man’s inherent rights to choose whom to lie with, regardless of his relationship status.

Other PUA’s would take umbrage with that, contrary to popular belief that guys who subscribe to the PUA philosophy on dating, are all total douch-bags who believe that monogamy is evil and regressive.

Nevertheless, I hold the belief that monogamy is a feminist construct, propagated by lonely and insecure women to emasculate men who were seen as having way too much power since the advent of human history.

With that, the feminist movement was born, and a host of men was guilted into relenting, and thus jumping on board woth the novel ideology that having more than 1 woman (or cheating) was now deemed evil and demeaning to women.

Most men today, being brainwashed and effectively neutered by all of this, now find themselves wholeheartedly subscribing to the cheaters are evil dogma.

The irony here is that even the men who (so-called) cheat, are quick to publicly bash Usain Bolt’s philandering just to avoid the social backlash which comes with siding with a so-called cheater.

Aside from the politics of it all, there’s no greater feeling in the world than to see a guy embrace his manhood, his love for variety of women and simply owns it in the face of scrutiny.

He’s made me proud that he isn’t shy about banging chicks around the globe!

Cheating Girlfriend Turns Stalker…Part II

Since meeting and hooking up with the girl spoken of in the previous post, a process which took no longer than 4 days might I add [from pickup via FB to sex], things have turned for the worse.

In what way you may ask ❓

Well- she’s becoming clingy: very clingy.

“Clingy” is a pleasant way to put it. In common jargon: she’s a fucking pest!

Now, it’s quite understandable for others to surmise that perhaps I’m being melodramatic here with colorful descriptions such as clingy and pest. But a huge part of the discontent on my end comes down to personal likes, dislikes and boundaries.

If a girl rings me more than twice a day, I’m liable to become very irritated as I begin to feel somewhat stifled and claustrophobic, and as though I’m being watched with tabs being kept on me.

Additionally, and more in relation to the girl here, after I would’ve hooked up with a chick, the excitement and novel feelings wane for the most part.

Essentially, the game is over.

In such a case, I prefer to then settle into a more quasi-traditional role where nothing spectacular happens.

In other words: booty-call and that’s it.

Nothing irks me more than when a girl pushes for more than what I’m willing to bargain for.

Sounds like I’m beating around many bushes and speaking in riddles, right?


Anyway, so this chick became super clingy since we hooked up once.

She had since re-added me on Facebook, she has me on Whatsapp, IMO and numerous other platforms to say the least.

If she can’t reach me by telephone, she sends me a bunch of frikkin’ text messages, she messages me on Facebook, video-calls me on IMO, etc.

This is overbearing!

Other guys would love this! The average guy would salivate at the idea of having a girl chase him, call and text him ’till infinity!

I on the other hand instantly feel a sense of crowdedness.

This shit gets real old real quick.

Furthermore, I just want to quickly touch on the “hooked” factor in relation to sex.

There’s a general misconception by large numbers of men out there, who hold the notion that a girl gets hooked to a guy because of his sexual prowess and how good he fucks her in bed.

This is absolutely FALSE as I’ve been preaching for years!

I regularly get subjected to the nagging conversations between the boys at the barbershop on weekends, conversations which include ideal proclamations such as the following:

“Man, if I ever get my hand on that girl, I would smash her so good, she’ll be knocking on my door everyday, hooked on the dick”!

I laugh because these guys literally have no clue as to what keeps girls hooked and turned into stalkers.

It isn’t about how good you fuck the girl. But existential factors which have very little to do with sex.

Case in point, had you read part I of this 2 part series, I mentioned that I “half-ass” banged the girl while back at my place.

“Half-ass” denotes a mediocre and lackluster performance, right?


My performance that night ranked arguably the worst of all time, aided by the fact that she wasn’t enjoying it herself.

Now, with that being said, why has this girl now turned into a clingy stalker since our first and only sexual encounter was a joke?

Again- it had nothing to do with sex.

Getting a girl hooked on you is a psychological thing, and rarely ever boils down to the mere physical such as sexual performance.

As a guy, you may be led to believe it’s mere sexual. But that is because you’re not lending credence to the other things you might have been doing right.

Here’s a look at the chat log between this cheating girlfriend and me. This was days later down in the month of May since we hooked up. This was also upon receiving numerous phone calls from her #, and a slew of calls from an unknown number…which was from her 😦 [my texts in green]


The deal was, she wanted us to go to the beach together, so that’s why she asked if I still had my friend’s vehicle.

The thing is though: “why”?

“Why should we go to the beach”?

“You’re not my girlfriend”!

“What would be the point”?

Those are the questions I asked myself, which I wanted to scream at her.

She kept persisting about the beach thing. So much so that she even rang me to try to come to some accord in her favor. 😯

I ignored her messages and phone calls into the following day.

The reason she wanted to go to the beach with me was to have sex in the water.

Generally, I wouldn’t mine such a proposal. But not after having slept with the girl.

In any case, I don’t take light to girls bugging me, calling me and texting me for whatever reason.

Do I lose respect for a girl once I sleep with her?


I’ve stated many times in the past on this website that there is no such thing as whores and people who cheat.

IMHO, because a girl sleeps around doesn’t deem her valueless. I have way more respect for a girl who is sexually liberated and doesn’t make a guy wait weeks, months and years, than a girl who intentionally drags out the inevitable just to try to make herself look valuable.

What I don’t like are girls who get attached and clingy.

As for girls with boyfriends; I have no qualms sleeping with them, nor do I hold the opinion that it is unethical in any way.

Lastly, I just want to emphasize that once you become skilled in the art of picking up women, no 1 girl becomes more important than the next chick.

The vast majority of guys lose sight of things once they manage to get their dick wet.

They begin to fetishize, idolize, pedestalize and cherish the girl for no good reason, simply because she spread her legs for them.

Soon after, the guy becomes ultra-clingy, needy and stalkerish.

This sort of reaction, in turn, turns women off.

If you want to turn a girl into a stalker (which I don’t) after you would have banged her, you have to treat her derisively, dismissively and coldly.

Not every girl I sleep with turns into a stalking pest.

Most times it depends on how I play it, the frame and other existential factors.

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