Don’t Be This Cuck: Women Aren’t Attracted To Men Who Agree

[Originally posted verbatim to my Facebook on August 5th]

This’ the type of Cuckery that gets me upset. 

So this girl whom I know personally outside of FB, posted a status about meeting a guy who told her he wanted to chill a week later. The guy then changes up to a date sooner…like the same or next day.

I generally do this too, so I find nothing strange in that. So the chick posted to FB, asking if it’s strange, or is it too soon to meet up with the guy, the same or next day? 

Quite naturally, you expect every girl in the world to yell “TOO SOON”!!!!

However, you would think that men would have a different take on this, and say, “No! It isn’t too soon to meet up”!

But who the fuck was I kidding!
I commented on the post, telling the girl it is NOT too soon to meet up with a new guy the same or next day that he picked you up.

Some lame guy as usual, comments, taking the general viewpoint of women, by saying that it IS too soon to meet up with the guy!

I find such cuckery actions to be blatant cock-blocking! 

Why do chode guys constantly do shit like this; side with women?
Simply in hopes of trying to win the girl over by agreeing with her…or kissing her ass… basically. 

Most guys are guilty of such cuckery! This guy here isn’t an outlier nor glitch in the system. Most guys will falsely agree with women, under the delusion that women will fuck them for the simple fact that they agree with women, thus showing how sensitive and attuned they are to women’s causes.

However, those little agreeable, AFC Beta-Male turds, fail to realize that women aren’t romantically attracted to men who agree with their bullshit causes. 

Contrasts/Opposites attract (as the saying goes)! Sameness/Likeness does NOT attract (women)! 

Hence, it is a foolish tactic to do as this guy did, which was to try to talk the girl out of meeting up with that guy, in an attempt to portray himself as this “Good Guy”.

So…check it out. And check out his replies.

In closing, as I cited above, most guys pull this sort of stunt, as means of portraying themselves to women, as this chivalrous, nice, understanding, empathetic wimp…I mean guy.

In essence, they want to be seen as the quintessential nice guy whom women only dream of meeting.

Interestingly enough, and this speaks to how hypocritical such men are, had that guy been in the position of the guy whom the girl posted about, he would not have been singing the tune (that’s for sure), that it’s too soon for the girl to meet up with him.

This speaks to a realization that I’ve come to some years ago, that so-called nice guys, are really lying assholes pretending to be nice guys, by tricking women into believing that they’re nice and understanding.

Hence, they hide their true motives [to get laid], by putting on an “I’m an agreeable guy” charade.

More to come.

When Gaming Hot Girls…Part 3…Learn The Correct Order: Attraction Before Rapport!

[Originally posted to social media]

Why is it a TERRIBLE idea to open a girl with, “Can I get to know you”? And why do girls shame guys for such a lame opener?

Here’s the deal: Pushing for Rapport before you even establish attraction isn’t normal. It’s fucking weird!

This is why in classic pickup, the order is: Attraction, Rapport/Comfort then Seduction (the 3 phases).

You cannot try to fucking gain rapport before making the girl attracted to you (to your vibe)! For instance, if a bum comes up to you on the street, and opens you with, “Can I get to know you”? How would you take to that? You would blow him the fuck off and get weirded out by such a request!

Why is this? Because the bum hadn’t built anything via dialogue before going for rapport! Had the bum showed you an interesting magic trick first, or shared with you a tip on how to do a certain thing [this would be considered Attraction material], and then he says to you, “what’s your name man, and where you come from” [this is a Rapport question], you would likely share rapport information with the bum by saying you are so and so from so and so.

However, had the bum gone straight into that (“who are you and where are you from”) as his opener, or before sharing something of interest/attraction with you, you would tell him to fuck off…or leave yourself.

How does this tie into women online?

Saying to a girl (early), “can we get to know each other”, is equivalent to the bum doing the same with you. The girl would get weirded out and turned off!

Why the fuck would she want to get to know you [enter the Rapport phase] when you haven’t given her a reason to want to know you [i.e. by building interesting convo beforehand]?

Hence, the classic mistake the vast majority of guys make, when they hit chicks up on social media with the lame, “Can I get to know you”?

They’re trying to skip Attraction and go straight into Comfort/Rapport.

It won’t work!

This is why under no circumstances, would you ever see me open a girl with, “can we get to know each other”?

I firstly open with HUMOR which equals Attraction, then build on that, then enter Rapport (which is optional via text).

Also, another reason why girls will blow you out whenever you come with that lame shit, “Can I get to know you”, is the usage of the word “CAN”!

“Can” is a killer in Game! Whenever you use “Can”, you are essentially asking the girl’s permission!

What the fuck would give you the impression that you should have to get someone’s permission to fucking TALK!!!?

That is an extremely Beta and Weak way of approaching women! Women aren’t attracted to men who seek their permission; especially not when it comes to freedom of speech!

Therefore, saying “Can I”, or, “Can we”, should totally be eliminated from your Game! It is low value!

All in all; you don’t have to verbalize to the girl that you want to get to know her! The mere fact that you DM’d her, says that you want to get to know her! So why the fuck state the obvious!? It makes you look inept, stupid and lacking social awareness and intelligence. Plus it makes you look unsure of yourself!

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When Gaming Extremely Hot Girls On Social Media: Secret Society Members Recognize Each Other

[Originally posted to social media]

“Watch Her Qualify Like A Muthafucka In The Presence Of A High-Value Player”.

Anyway, so leaving off from the previous post, just as I predicted; she hits up my inbox right away after I stopped responding to her comments on her status. This was done strategically to reel her in.

I counted to 10, and my Messenger went off…as predicted…as always. Girls are super predictable. All women operate the same!!!!

Anyway, so check how the dialogue went. Remind you that this is absolutely the 1st time she and I ever communicated.

I want you to also take note of the dynamics here: here is a hot girl whom I doubt EVER hits a guy up first on social media…EVER! And here she goes hitting me up first…on her own free will while I chill back and waited for her message to come.

Moreover, this is a girl who blows off tons of guys on a regular basis, toys with guys, shames guys, out/expose guys by posting their screenshots to her FB as means of making fun of guys and calling them thirsty and desperate…and lame! Yet, she hits me up, chasing me, trying to make convo, QUALIFYING, while I ultimately brush her off by using my favorite technique of telling the girl “I’ll hit you up another time”.

Which guys would do/say that to such a hot girl?

None! Except a high-value guy who’s a fellow member of the secret society of players, which is dominated by women.

So, who’s doing the qualifying here? Who’s pushing for rapport here?

Speaking of rapport, the mistake that these guys made (almost every guy does), is that they tried to FORCE Rapport/comfort from the get go as their opener, by asking the girl if they can get to her know. Why the fuck would you open a girl with that!!!?

Anyway, I’ll speak more about that in a subsequent post.

So guys, what’s the magic here overall? Is it my Denzel Washington looks? 🙂


It’s the fact that I’m well aware [having Social Awareness] that you CANNOT or Should NOT use direct game on hot girls on social media! Why not? Such girls get hit on too fucking much! The only way to get their attention (initially) is via Indirect Game, but not hitting on them at all! Just as you’ll see me do; I did NOT hit on her, nor did I compliment her (directly).

Now, what is the overall benefit of my approach here? Having the girl qualifying herself and trying to prove to me that she has guys chasing her, it means (in her mind) that I’m high(er) value. Hence, she would never reject me if I were to game her, try to get her # and a so-called date. All this is possible because of an innocuous comment on her post, and the fact that I’m not chasing her.

Whenever a woman meets a man who’s a fellow member of the secret society of players, she goes Bonkers and opens up to him.


So check out how she shames guys for me [note: she’s a total stranger].

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When Gaming Extremely Hot Girls On Social Media: Shaming The AFC Betas

[Originally posted to social media on July 29th, 2017]

When gaming an extremely hot girl- any relatively hot-looking girl- you have to make her know (INDIRECTLY) that you are a fellow member of the Secret Society of players [written of by RSD Own/Tyler], and a fellow high-value individual.

One way in which I passively do this, is by tooling, shaming and AMOGGing other guys: directly or indirectly on Facebook, for their lack of game and AFC-ish ways.

Note: High-Value Girls only fuck with High-Value guys! You don’t actually have to be high value. You just have to give off that impression as I did when I commented on this chick’s posts not long ago.

Note: this girl is extremely hot! Hence, you cannot use direct game in order to reel her in and game her!

Now, I want you to observe just how I reeled her in and got her to inbox me first (for the 1st time), without me doing anything besides making 1 comment on her FB post (which led to a string of comments).

I want you to take note of how I got her attention in a big way, which forced her to inbox me…as I predicted since it always happens like clockwork once I make such comments on a girl’s post, shaming other guys for having lame game.

In the last screenshot, you will notice how elated she was, to finally meet a guy online who fucking gets it, that dropping off your # (with no dialogue) is a lame move…just to name a few lamery.

Anyway, so it was @ that point that the attraction switch was flipped, to where she seen me as a high-value guy in the know. Although she’s a hot girl who commands much adoration from chodes. She recognized that I was of higher value that her.

So, check out the exchange on her status, where I tooled guys who hit her up in a lame way. And although we agreed with each other, I wasn’t doing so in a kiss-ass way [that’s a key point].

And stay tuned to my follow-up post to where she immediately hits me up once she realizes I was the shit. She began to qualify her ass off.



Beta-Male Buffoonery Series: These Guys Just Don’t Understand What Confident And Direct Means

Okay fellaz, it’s been long-overdue since I put together the “Beta-Male Buffoonery Series”, which are series of short posts, exposing Beta-Male-ism coming from the average male online.

Let’s get right into it.

On Facebook, a female friend of mine posted the following status about confident and direct men.

The men who commented, have not 1 clue of what it means to be direct and confident with women (online).

Now, where did these buffoons go egregiously wrong?

Telling a girl she’s sexy in such a context (online), doesn’t classify as “direct”, rather cheesy, lame, generic, socially un-savvy and desperate.

The idiot Marcus tooled himself out when he made the ultimate faux-pas of “asking” the girl if he could inbox her. On top of that, he referred to her as “queen”. No wonder he never got a reply from the girl. That was chode city type of shit right there. Asking a girl for her permission to message her is an instant deflation to the guy’s perception of confidence in the girl’s eyes.

Every other guy made similar mistakes. Bill only got a reply because he used flattery, and the girl was compelled to reply out of social norms…and just to be friendly. But Bill stood no chance either.

Fernando was the worst! Giving a girl your # is so far from confident and direct, that you could probably see the North Pole from South America before this buffoonery would ever be deemed confident and direct!

What these guys are missing ultimately, apart from the fact that they were supplicating and qualifying to the highest degree, is that directly trying to communicate that you are confident and direct, is the opposite of confidence and direct.

If I were to comment, my comment(s) would’ve been very neutral and witty, steering clear of anything that would inadvertently give off the vibe that I’m trying to be/look confident and direct.

More Chode Shit

So this morning, a guy who’s a fan of mines, friend requested me on Facebook.

As usual, I screen the profile just to ensure that it’s legit, then I accept the request.

The guy then hits me up via Messenger, and the exchange went as follows.

😡 😡 😡

I got so frikkin’ frustrated that I posted the following status with the above screenshots.

This the type of chode shit that makes me want to close my Facebook account. After explaining to this guy that race means shit in picking up women, and that if you’re good with 1 set of women, you’ll be equally as good with another, he goes on to pry about me picking up Indian girls, totally missing the points I made prior. He wants to know how many East Indian girls I’ve slept with. I mean, really!? What the fuck does that prove if I were to say 2 or 200!!? That’s that chode mentality.

Okay, if you want to get me real upset, make insinuations that looks and race are impediments in the game.

With this guy, his insistence on seeing me pick up more East Indian women was hair-pulling!

I mean, what part of me saying to you that game works on every woman, don’t you understand!?

What part of me telling you that on an intrinsic and biological level, all women are the same, don’t you understand!?

Since you know that I can (and do) pick up East Indian girls, why the heck would you want to know how many I’ve picked up!?

Why should the quantity matter?

Why even ask that?

What the fuck does it prove if I were to say 2 or 200!?

I feel that this guy is indirectly calling me out, but in a slick way.

I am very much attuned to this sort of trickery and psychological ploy, where guys try to call other guys out, but by not actually doing it directly, instead through insinuations.

Furthermore, this guy’s fractured frame is deeper than that. And it goes back to what I told him initially, that game works straight across the board, transcending racial, ethnic and national lines.

If you’ve been following my blog for a good while now, you would’ve known that I have a quasi-fetish for East Indian women.

Additionally, you would’ve also known that following black girls, East Indians are 2nd of my proverbial hit-list (or fuck-list).

I’ve picked up and banged lots of East Indian women here in the Caribbean islands.

They are no different than black girls in that I don’t get a more difficult time gaming East Indians than I do black chicks, Orientals or any other woman for that matter.

The race of the girl doesn’t mean shit to me!

My approach remains the same with a few minor adjustments and tweaks here and there.

For instance, if I’m chatting up and picking up a French chick, I will tweak my game in the sense that my conversational thread would be based more on geography, asking the girl about France, etc.

Those aren’t game-specific tweaks. Hence, my game remains the same, no matter the girl standing before me!

These AFC chodes, and I’m quite sure you reading this post are one [sorry for being so harsh], are always under the impression that girl A is harder to game because she’s white, Asian, black, Russian, Martian, whatever!

They fail to realize that game is game, and women are women! What works on a British-white chick will work on a British-black chick, or a British-Pakistani chick!

This sort of low-value mindset harbored by guys new to the game (that race matters), is equivalent to guys who peddle the looks matter bullshit.

Both ideologies are flawed and incorrect!

If you’re entering the game with “race matters”, then of course it will matter!

I don’t!

Whenever I approach a girl, be it online or in person, I don’t see race! I only see vagina!

My game and lay percentage with white and East-Indian girls are higher than that of black girls [“percentage”-wise].

It is just that I have a preference for black and Indian women why I game them more. But I find white girls no harder to game than blacks or Indians.

It is all in your fucking head!

That chode mentality has to be rooted the hell out if you ever wish to get a solid grip on your dating life as it relates to variety in women!

You shouldn’t have to see me game and pick up a Hawaiian girl to know that I’m capable of doing it. You shouldn’t have to know how many Canadian women I’d slept with to know that I can bed Canadian women!

Why not? To reiterate: Game works across the board!

The only how your game would somewhat struggle is if there’s a language barrier. But that’s not even a big deal since your verbals are less important than your nonverbals.

Anyway guys, I have less tolerance for chode shit as of later.

How would you like to be bombarded with dozens of emails and social-media DM’s per day, where the subject line reads: “I’m not good looking enough to attract women. Help me”!

You would go nuts too!

Listen, before learning about pickup when I sucked ass at getting a woman to even look at me, the very last thing that I factored into the equation of why women weren’t giving me the time of day, was my looks!

Even as a fucking Beta-Male, AFC, low-value frame chode, I still didn’t attribute my inability to get laid to my lack of good looks!

I didn’t believe that women were repulsed by my big nose, elongated face, bulging eyes or irregular-looking smile!

My looks were far from the reason I thought as to why I sucked!

Do you know to what I attributed my lack of success with women before discovering pickup by a chance Google search?

A lack of game!

I didn’t even know there was such a thing as game in the sense of one can learn how to become good with women!

I literally thought that you were either born with game or without game, and that dictated your entire life until death!

I wanted fucking Game!

Not better looks! Because something inside of me told me that even if I were blessed with better looks, a lack of game will still render my good looks null and void! And that is very much true!

Hence, it sorta weirds me out whenever I hear guys attribute lack of success with women to lack of good looks, when even as a guy who couldn’t get laid, looks didn’t even factor into the picture for me.

Anyway guys, you may very well think that I’m being a giant dick as of late by harping on the looks stuff. But bear with me.

I’m just trying to show you that unless you resemble that ugly character from the Goonies, then looks are the least of your problems when it comes to getting poon!

How Not To Respond To A Girl Being Cold

This is totally the wrong way to go about a girl being unresponsive.

In fact, with this guy, the girl was responding. However, she was somewhat cold.

Days ago, a female on Facebook posted the following screenshots, in order to shame and out guys who show their lack of game and so forth.

The guy’s messages are in gray. Hers in blue.

Okay, so where did he go wrong?

First of all: never ask a girl, “what are you doing”, or, “what’s up”!

It is lame, generic and ticks women off because of its generic nature. So he went astray from right there.

Secondly, he didn’t have compliance from the girl, yet he tells her he’s going to be in (her) town tomorrow morning.

Okay- fine! But so what!! What the fuck do you expect the girl to say to that!!!? Did he expect her to say, “Okay that’s lovely that you’ll be in my town tomorrow! Let’s grab a smoothie”!


As the guy, he was supposed to tell the girl his plan and intention: “Hey, I’m gonna be in your town tomorrow. We should grab a pizza and bore each other to death with small talk”.

Point is: he foolishly neglected to give the girl a reason (or a point) to want to meet with him, since he neglected to mention any meet-up plan! Because of that, the girl rightly replied with, “what does this (coming to the girl’s town) have to do with me”?

He then further went on to drop more points by complimenting the girl in the cheesiest way possible (without having compliance) by telling her, “you look so beautiful and sweet”!

No dude! Haven’t you read my fucking blog!!!?

You don’t dish out a cheesy-generic compliment; especially when the girl has already deemed you as clueless via of her snarky remark!

Complimenting a stranger on a whole- in and of itself- is bad! But it is EXTRA bad when you do so on a downward spiral, where the girl had basically said something bitchy to you!

Why do guys choose such a moment (when the girl is acting bitchy) to go cheesy with the compliments? Because AFC’s (Average Joes) are still under the illusion that complimenting a bitchy, and or hot girl, will defuse her bitchiness and gain her favor by getting on her good side.

Essentially, it is a strategic ruse by clueless men in hopes of flattering the bitchy girl into being nice.

This absolutely never works!

Anyway, to make matters worse, from the screenshot (on the left side), I’m seeing that he contacted her again saying, “good morning”.

In a recent post, I touched on how generic texts such as, “good morning” and “what’s up”, are tantamount to nailing your own coffin shut…with yourself inside the coffin.

If you don’t have value in the eyes of the girl, she will react to a simple and innocent “good morning”, as if you’d told her to “go fuck yourself”!

This guy, clearly in the eyes of the girl, had no (social) value, no compliance and no attraction (based on his vibing…or lack thereof). So messaging “good morning” with such a deck stacked against you, will only cause Perturbation.

The uselessness of the ranting in the guy’s messages (in gray) on the right side of the screenshot above, was self-explanatory.

What’s so ironic about this (their text exchange) is that the guy could’ve totally turned this around by attracting the girl through drama.

Here’s the deal: as long as the girl is responding to your messages (whether positively or negatively), it means that she is invested. And as long as the girl is investing, it means that she is open to being picked up.

This guy clearly didn’t know that, just as hardly any of us guys would’ve known that.

It was Todd Valentine, the PUA instructor for the RSD company, who said: “I would rather get a negative response from the girl than no response at all”.

No response from the girl is absolutely the worst-case scenario. If she doesn’t reply; you have no shot of picking her up.

Saying that bit to say, I could’ve totally flipped this debacle, and I always do.

It is a treasured yet sorta complex routine/technique of mines, dubbed “seducing girls through drama”.

The reason I developed it was by chance actually. I’d gotten myself in a few sticky situations trying to game girls on online-dating sites some years ago. But then I realized that although the girl and I were arguing, I could still flip the set and get her to like me. Then it became a routine of mines in handling bitchy, snarky, attitudish girls.

Okay, back to the end of the text exchange. So even when he called her a fat cow, her response was rather relenting and non-combative. At that point, he could’ve totally turned around the set by relenting also, even apologizing, then work some charm game.

In either case, this was just a great example of how not to respond to a girl being cold via messaging.

Chode Shit: Telling Girls To Smile More

Low-valued activities from men, really tick me off!

Not only do they tick me off, but women are also fed up of the chodery and the Beta-Male behaviors which are exhibited by the vast majority of men.

The other day on Facebook, this female whom I know, posted the following meme about smiling.

Seems innocuous.

Here was my response.

Men are indeed full of shit when it comes to things like these!

Give the girl something to smile about instead of trying to tell women that they need to smile more.

I generally hear this complaint a lot from scores of men over the years.

They perceive that a non-smiling girl is a bitchy girl, hence their unwillingness to approach the girl who doesn’t have a cheery expression plastered across her face.

Furthermore, why do men wish for women whom they come across to smile (more)?

It (a smiling face) signals to coward men that they have an easy target, thus having a shot.

If you are guilty of such low-valued expectation as a man; then you are a social coward and an Omega-Male graveling at the bottom of the totem pole, unable to climb.

Sure we all wish that every woman had a pleasant and inviting grin on her face, because that would somehow be encouraging for us to approach her. But whether the girl is smiling or frowning, that shouldn’t discourage you at all from approaching her.

Quit going for the perceived easier targets in women who smile a ton. Looking approaching by having an inviting-facial expression, doesn’t at all indicate how receptive a girl is or will become. So if you believe that telling the girl who works the cash register, that she should smile more, would make your day (or your chances) easier; think again brodie!

I spoke about this a long time ago, and it still rings true to this day: I’ve had more successes with approaching girls who looked bitchy and aggravated than I did (and do) with approaching the ones who were all cheery-looking.

I then accepted the realization through experience, that the girls who appeared to be icy and cold on the exterior, are actually sweethearts once you approach and open!

Go out and field test it!

You’ll be amazed to discovered that the ice queens are often times charming souls just waiting to be greeted. Instead, you either cowardly prance on by them, or make an equally coward move by remarking that they should smile more.

Upon approaching a girl, the absolute last thing I take into consideration is how inviting (or not) her facial expression is.

I can literally care less whether she’s smiling or sulking. So you’ll never hear me ask a girl, “why don’t you smile more”?

Women hate to hear it! So quit saying it because it makes you look low value!

3 Value-Lowering Words/Phrases You Should Avoid When Trying To Seduce A Girl

“Thank You”, “Please”, “Can I”…”may I”?

Which guy uses such phraseology ad nauseum?

Is it the nice guy or the bad boy?

“Ding, Ding, Ding”! Nice guy has it!

We all have come into contact with the now cliche: “Nice guys finish last”.

Very true!

Why they finish last varies across the board.

One such reason as to why nice guys are always shunned and marginalized by hot women [even by the unattractive women], is their gratuitous nature- or what I like to term as an ‘ACT’.

Anyway, if you haven’t gotten the memo as yet, allow me to bash you across the head with this piece of sobering info: Women don’t give a rat’s ass about a man’s gratuitous and grateful gestures!

The more thankfulness and gratefulness you show towards a woman- primarily in the courtship phase- the faster your value will tank in her eyes where her perception of you will have become akin to that of a spineless loser. 😦 😦

In addition to that, part of the problem is coming off apologetically.

Giving apologies, asking for forgiveness, asking questions and saying thanks, will all fucking tank you when trying to get a girl into bed!

Now, I’m not speaking of the occasional and quasi-justifiable apology like when you ring a girl and inadvertently wake her up.

Giving a “Sorry” in such a situation- sparingly- will cause no grave damage in the grand scheme of things because the situation warrants it [an apology].

However, where most guys [so-called nice ones in particularly] go wrong, is when they apologize for absolutely fucking nothing!

Need a common example?

“Sorry for taking you away from your busy schedule…but can we text please”?

Talk about a triple-fucking whammy!

Those were 3 infractions within 1 short sentence: “Sorry”, “Can we”(?) And “please”.

I almost choked typing that because of how horrible it looks, sounds and comes off! 😯

To the average guy’s ears and eyes: such a text message is commonplace and totally normal and fine!


I think I need an aspirin.

Anyway, the reality is: there is something deeply rooted within a female’s biological makeup which doesn’t take light to men who are neither supplicative, apologetic, gratuitous nor thanks-giving.

Something within her- beyond her perception and control- repels such male characters and deems them sterile, thus un-sex-worthy.

Once again: this is why women are so attracted to bad boys, jerks and assholes!

Ask any girl why does she go for the wrong type, and watch her fumble for an answer.

She simply doesn’t know the answer, because that decision is outside of her conscious decision-making processor.

Hence, she continuously fucks assholes and jerks yet doesn’t know why, and cannot explain why she goes for the so-called wrong types.

Ok, so what is my ultimate advice for you here?

Stay away from thanking girls whom you just met.

Stay away from asking permission.

Stay away from saying “Please”.

In a woman’s mind, attractive and important guys of value should not be seeking her permission, nor should they be thanking her for minuscule and meaningless acts of capitulation.

In other words, if a chick gives you her phone number, it is NO cause for spiking the football in the end zone in celebration [to use an American football analogy] by hurling a “thanks a lot sweetie” text her way.

When trying to get a girl’s phone number, let’s say that this is on Facebook or some internet-dating site, virtually begging her like a vagrant isn’t gonna do you any justice!

Even if the girl does cave and coughs up her digits, there is no guarantee that she will entertain your phone calls or text messages in the first place.

News flash: because a girl gives you her phone number, it doesn’t mean that she’s interested!

There is such a thing as a pity number, fake number, throwaway number, etc, etc, etc.

Women are notorious for giving guys their #’s without any expectation of actually hearing back from the guy…simply because they don’t want to hear from 90% of the guys to whom they give their numbers.

It’s basically giving guys their #’s just to get rid of them…or to not shatter those guy’s fragile powder-puff hearts. 😉

Therefore, you don’t want cases where chicks are giving you their numbers out of pity or just to get you off their back.

One way in which to avoid the pity number is to stop ‘asking’ her for the number altogether!

“Asking” denotes weakness and unsurity.

“Asking” is often times misconstrued by women to mean begging.

If you’re sure about yourself and the results of an action; why would you ask?

Coming off as being sure means that you’re exuding some levels of confidence.

Whenever I go for a girl’s #, I communicate surety in what I’m doing and surety in that I have the # in the bank already therefore she will give it…without me asking/begging in the form of “Can I”, or “may I get”?

I instead say to the girl, “Give me your number”.

There is no fucking “Please” at the end of my command neither! 😈

I know what I want, I know what I’ll get, I own it, embrace it and the girl senses my dominant attitude and she gives in for the simple fact that women go bonkers for men who are dominant…not exactly domineering [there’s a big difference there].

This attitude is also transfered over to the so-called date proposal.

I don’t “Ask” girls if they can go out with me!

I ‘TELL’ them to come out with me or meet me somewhere [operative word being “Tell”]!

For example, check out this screenshot from a Whatsapp conversation I had with a sexy-bodybuilding instructor I recently picked up [my texts in green].

There was no asking nor begging there.

I was telling her what the deal was!

That is how you ask a girl out by not asking at all, instead telling her what your plans are and to see what accommodations need to be made.

However, I always assume the sale!

I always assume that she’ll buy what I’m selling.

This spells confidence, self-assuredness and cockiness [a bit of ‘Cocky’ works wonders].

On a last note, this “assuming the sale” mentality by not asking but just doing, is the same frame required while in the bedroom.

How un-confident would it be if through every step of the way in the bedroom, you’re seeking the girl’s permission and approval to escalate towards sex…by touching her:

“Can I touch you now”?

“Can I remove your blouse”?

“Can you allow me to touch your legs please”?

Just totally fucking nonsensical!

No guy who’s sure of himself is going to be asking a girl in bed for the first time, can he do this or do that.

He’ll simply just act and do.

If the girl isn’t up for it, she’ll let it be known in some way.

Therefore, by owning it and assuming the girl is down with your program [be it swapping numbers, etc.], will be your key to unlocking many doors to poon-town.

Contrarily, asking, begging, pleading, thanking will rarely ever get you anywhere in the field of dating.

You may still get a girl’s number: but it won’t be worth a damn thing.

You may even still get the girl to accept the date: but it is likely that she had no other plans, wanted to be wined and dined in order to brag to her friends, meanwhile having zero intention to neither sleep with you, date you nor to be your girlfriend.

You’re merely just charity in her eyes where she’s the recipient of your charitable gestures.

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