Hired-Gun Pull…The Forced Karaoke Dilemma

Fact of the matter is, I don’t game bartenders [hired-guns], thus I rarely ever do pick them up.

My few bartender pulls throughout my pick-up career had occurred outside of my knowledge (unbeknownst to me that those girls were bartenders).

Two reasons why I’m not in favor of gaming bartenders (on the job):

1.) Girls in the service industry are already predisposed to the idea of guys swarming them and hitting on them. Thus they become desensitized and rather jaded from being hit on by clueless drunk guys while at work. They also build up a quasi-resistance against it (being hit on at work)

2.) These girls are so pedestalized, idolized and fetishized by AFC’s (average guys), that every guy who approaches them, by a process of automation, is tossed into the “he thinks I’m a goddess” basket. So a guy like myself who doesn’t put any woman on any pedestal, is forced to strategize differently.

Due to those 2 precarious positions, trying to pick up a bartender (on her job) is a delicate undertaking. So the deck is already staked against you once you enter such an arena. But make no mistakes about it: they are paid to be friendly and courteous to you by giving fake IOI’s (Indication Of Interest).

Notwithstanding that, last week Thursday, I decided to game and pick up a bartender at a karaoke joint.

Note: when picking up bartenders, always use Indirect Game.

I’m huge on Indirect Game to begin with. But it’s more so required when attempting to pick up girls whom are constantly bombarded with male attention (which is virtually every girl for that matter).

Here’s a video clip from me doing just that (Indirect Game), and end up catching the bartender outside where I grabbed her phone # after minutes of token resistance to giving me her #.


That was also a lesson in persistence.

Why did she resist when it came to coughing up her digits? Was it because I’m so repulsively ugly? 🙂


Again: hired-guns (bartenders among them) are accustomed to desperate men begging for their number.

What separated me from the pack is that I didn’t laud her with praises, I didn’t put her on a pedestal, I treated her like a bratty little sister, and I was dominant at the same time.

Surely she still gave token resistance. But eventually coughed up the # once she realized how persistent I was.

That was last Thursday.

Note: whenever I get a girl’s #, either then and there, or later on, I would add her on Facebook.

This is pretty much an automatic process.

Why do I do this?

Facebook DHV’s me as I’ve pointed out numerous times in the past.

My Facebook is a set up in a way to attract women by showing them how cool, original and provocative I am.

Thus, my social media posts are like the perfect wingmen which compliment my game. So if a woman whom I’d just picked up isn’t too keen or sold on me, my Facebook usually seals that deal.

During the week now, I hit her up on Messenger, saying something to the effect of “since it’s cold, we should grab a coffee”.

This Thursday now (last Thursday), I met up with her at the karaoke joint at where she works.

She tried to force me to sing…but it wasn’t happening.

I filmed her while she sang before the karaoke session was officially on.

When it comes to gaming bartenders, 1 of the things I do is to hit the establishment early when not much people are there so I can get some time with the girl.

That’s exactly what I did there, and we were virtually alone for like 30 minutes with the occasional patron coming and going before the venue started to amass people.

In any case, this is an ongoing seduction on which I’ll update you guys.

My next move is to get her outside of the confines of her work environment.

Always remember that when a bartender is at work, or in that environment, she’s effectively in work mode. Which means nearly everything she gives you would’ve been faked.

To my credit though, because I’m a master seductionist, I was able to get her to genuinely open up and shed her work persona when we goofed around while she was cuing up the karaoke thingamajig.

Also, because I’ve had innumerable amounts of experiences and interactions with innumerable amounts of women, I learned to develop the skill set of being able to spot fake IOI’s from women. So I’m able to discern genuine smile from the “I’m being nice to him just to get him to buy more drinks and tip me big” smile.

Anyway fellaz, I’ll keep you posted on this ongoing seduction.

Lots more interesting posts to come!

Friday-Night Field Report [Nov’ 4th. 2016]…Bar-Hopping With 2 Sexy Babes

After I met the scorpion-tattoo girl at the bar, and had been chatting her up for about 5-10 minutes at the bar-counter, I went back to sit at the same table where I was when the venue was empty.

Whenever I do this [leave the target], it is usually done in order to preserve value, and to demonstrate to the girl that I won’t be hounding her all night; hence a non-needy vibe.

During my moments of absence while I observed from afar, she engaged in conversations with about 3 guys at separate intervals.

Here’s the familiar theme from her interaction with those 3 guys: hands-off.

None of those guys tried to flirt with her. There was zero, touching, zero hugging, zero banter, zero anything coming from the guys.

Their interactions resembled that of platonic friends catching up over drinks.

It was totally friend-like.

With that, I felt zero sense of threat as far as the girl being whisked away by any of those guys.

Throughout the night, I chatted with other girls, but the one I had my eye on was most to my liking.

Apparently, or not so apparent, she was with a girlfriend. This is almost always cause of complication once the girl’s friend shows up.

If you’re not a sociable enough guy, you will lose the girl once her friend pushes back against you.

Therefore, I had to befriend the obstacle (her girlfriend) in order to have a shot. And that’s what I did.

I got on her friend’s good side by charming her up some, while I gamed my target.

At 1 point, I noticed the girls exit the venue so I got up and chased.

Me: “Hey, hey, hey girls! Where y’all going already when things just heating up”?

They told me they’re going to bar-hop to another spot a few blocks downtown.

At that point, most guys would ditch the set.

Since I’m not most guys, I smartly insisted on going with them.

Lead, lead, lead and assume the sale!!!!

What do I mean? I never asked the girls if I could tag along with them like some weak-ass Omega male.

I just assumed that they wanted me to come…so I tagged along by telling them “come on girls”!

In such situations, always act decisively as if you know what you’re about!

The girls tagged along with me, although they were in essence the ones leading since they knew the spot to where they were headed.

Now- here is the key thing about moving with this set- remember how big I am on being physical with women?

Well, as we walked, I hugged and held hands with my target, while her girlfriend walked along in front of us.

Here’s a short video snippet from the bounce from bar to nightclub.


Always aim to be touchy-feely with women!
There’s a time to be romantic with it and dominant with it.

All in all; it was an epic Friday in adventure.

Friday-Night Field Report [Nov’ 4th 2016]…Getting Sexual @ The Bar With Thigh-Tattoo Girl

Okay, so Friday evening, I left the house at my usual early time to go hit up the bar: 6:30-7 PM.

In the grand scheme of Game and partying; that is woefully early!

I hot the bar around 7:30, grabbed a glass of Campari Italian liqueur and OJ while awaiting the hot women’s arrival.
Women slowly began to trickle in after 9:30.

At the bar that night

I spotted a sexy chick in black sitting a the bar counter, so I stepped up as though I were to order another drink, sat next to her and began to lay my Game down.

I noticed she had some thighs. But most of all, was a tattoo of a scorpion that stood out.

Within the first 2 minutes of our spirited conversation, my free hand was resting on her thighs (the tattoo), and caressing her thigh also.

The vibe I created was “playful”: not creepy!

Here’s the short-video clip from the bar, which I posted to my Facebook page.


A still-shot, screenshotted from the bid snippet (the girl’s tattoo)

On that note, what I want you to take away from that short-vid clip is something that I always preach: Be sexual and forward fast!
When in nightlife settings especially, women are already predisposed to the idea of men being dominant, forward, sexual and flirty.

Therefore, use more non-verbal flirting in loud venues. Because after all, the loud music is your ally, and it give you (and the girl) psychological justification to touch, feel and flirt.

Stay tuned for the follow-up post on how Friday night went down.