Most Times I Just Want To Be Alone In Solitude

Last night, this chick hits me up on fuck-book, which prompted me to post the following status.

Most nights I just want to kick back without any company. A handful of chicks I hook up with don’t quite seem to get this: that I prefer to be alone most nights so I can get shit done…like publishing articles, facebooking other chicks and just kicking back enjoying solace and alone time. Also, although I tell chicks this, they fail to realize (or believe me) that I prefer to have sex on rare occasions…although I can get it daily. Once every 2 weeks and I’m satisfied sexually. And I don’t like chicks all up in my crib either! So this chick whom I’d been hooking up with over the past 4 weeks or so, hits me up tonight wanting to come by and be in my company. 

[Her messages in gray]



I consider it a part of my Aquarian nature. We tend to be loners and lovers of solitude, isolation and the likes.

On the other hand, there are some Aquarians who cannot stand to be alone for 1 second. So there exist 2 extremes. I happen to fall under the lover of isolation.

I wrote an article years ago detailing how as a kid, I was a total isolationist, antisocial and introverted to the max.

I had social-anxiety issues out the wazoo. So much so that I flunked gym class every year of my entire school life, because I was so afraid to be seen around others! I mean, who flunks gym!? 😆

That perturbed my mother to the point where she wanted to seek “professional” help for me. It was that fucking bad (my self-isolationism and social-anxiety issues).

Thank goodness that I found the pick-up artist community and I was forced to crawl out of that shell of isolation!

Saying all that to say, at the core of my being, I don’t like company! I don’t like to be in other’s company. I prefer to be isolated, alone, with my other thoughts.

Every woman I hook up with, this personality issue of mines bugs them out. Whenever they want to come over, whether for sex or just to kick back, I reject them with a NO: full stop…period!

On a not-so detrimental note, I need to get shit done. When I’m alone, there’s all the time in the world to do stuff.

Having some chick loafing around my apartment or laid up in bed with me, is just a massive deterrent and distraction.

If I were to actually allow women to come keep me company on a nightly basis, where would I even get the time to write this posts and articles for you guys? 😉 I wouldn’t get the time!

On an even lighter note, this is also product of seduction/pickup as it relates to abundance and having options with women.

When you have no options, or very little options, you tend to latch onto the 1st girl who proposes company and so forth.

You begin to indirectly pedestalize and deify the snatch.

When you’re accustomed to dealing with a variety of women, you’re at liberty to reject and object to their desires as long as they don’t match up with your program.

Would a guy who operates from a frame of scarcity with women rejects a girl’s attempt to come by his place to “keep him company”?

Of course not!

Rejecting a woman’s proposal isn’t in the cards for such a guy.

I am here to teach and equip you guys over time, with the skills and tools which will enable you to possess the stuff it takes to blow women off and to become more selective than a kid in a candy store.

Stick around and you’ll quickly attain this power!

Virgo: My Achilles Heel In The Lay Department

“I knew she was a Virgo”!!!

Okay, so I don’t usually out chicks publicly. But this 1 was way too interesting to not do so (plus I got the go-ahead from the chick beforehand. She’s a good sport).

I wrote a post the other day to Facebook, about Virgos, and how they actually believe (or pretend to believe) that they’re virgins.

With that, they will often times go to the extent of not giving up sex just to create this mythical image of a Virgin (Virgo).

Most guys don’t buy into the Astrology thing.

I on the other hand do!

I think it should go hand in hand with picking up women.

Saying that bit to say, whenever I back check the women who gave me this virgin snobby attitude in the seduction phase of the Game, almost all of them were Virgos (literally all)!

Now I’m not talking about standard LMR (Last Minute Resistance) that every girl gives guys as we say in pickup.

I’m talking about lying in bed with a girl, butt-ass naked and she pretends as though she doesn’t want it, then berates you for trying to get it.

I mean, it’s just LMR on a different level with Virgos.

Anyway, with this chick pictured below, someone who commented on my Virgo post the other day, she slept in my bed about 4 years ago [I picked her up on POF actually].

She went as far as to insinuate and to remind me (or imply) in the comments, that because of her Virgo nature, she withheld sex from me.

By all means I tried to shag her! But she pulled that extra Virgin shit on me the entire night. Butt-ass naked in my bed…but didn’t want to give it up because she felt it was beneath her [her words at the time].

Although I was upset as fuck and wanted to kick her ass out; I swallowed my pride and went to sleep cuddling 😦 .

It’s funny how we remained good friends to this day….and that was like 4 years ago.

All in all, I do believe that a girl’s sun sign largely dictates her behavior, personality, actions and so forth.

You may not! But from my experience; the shit has credence!!!

Just to emphasize: when I back check the birthdays of the girl over the years who had slept in my bed but got away unscathed, they were all Virgos!

Now- if that doesn’t blow your fucking mind as it did mines: then I don’t know what would!

Although I don’t take into consideration much, a girl’s sun signs during the pre-sex phase of the pickup. After the lay however, my actions and how I perceive the girl’s actions, are pretty much based on her sun sign.

From my experience with fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, etc. I know that Libras are prone to flaking way more than those of the other 11 signs.

Hence, whenever I’m trying to set up a booty-call, I am well mindful of the fact tha a Libra is prone to bullshit me, prone to waver and to become a creature of indecision.

With all that taken into consideration, I am way more able to manage my shit (such as expectations) and to keep a cool head because I know what’s driving these girl’s actions behind the scenes.

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