My “5-Minute Kiss” Rule + A Bit On Fear

Seducing women is a very dynamic art and you’re constantly learning new things about yourself and women, that you’re always subjected to change and novel insights and approaches over time.

Shit- I actually thought pickup and learning about women had a timeline or end point…and by now- I should’ve been retired.

What I come to realize is that there’s never a finish line in this Game.

You’ll either constantly grow and change. Or stagnate, pull out and back-slide into blissful ignorance.

Ok, so 1 such “change” and addition to my pick-up repertoire, has been the “5 Minute Kiss” rule.

“What is that”?

“Is it kissing a girl nonstop for 5 minutes…like some sorta challenge”!?

No, no, no.

My “5 minute kiss rule” is a rule which I try my darndest best to adhere to.

If a girl is willing to subject herself to 5 or more minutes of my shit via conversation, then I take that as a green light for me to try to kiss her.

That’s the rule!

There is no magic sign I look for which tells me that I should try to kiss a girl.

If we’re talking for 5 minutes, I take that as the only sign I need to try to kiss her or make out with her.

I’ve actually been running this sorta vicious game for about 9 months now with random girls I meet and chat up on the streets and even in supermarkets.

I don’t always get the kiss or makeout.

However, the “attempt” is what counts!

Showing that you have the giant balls to actually take action, will stop women in their tracks literally, figuratively and emotionally!

I’ve never been slapped, kicked or punched for attempting to kiss a random stranger within 5 minutes of our initial conversation.

To be frank, and I eluded to this in the video below, the worst thing that ever happens whenever I make such ballsy moves, is the girl moves away (playfully) or pulls a bob and weave move or try to hit me playfully as a result [this’ called a love tap].

That’s it!

Now, if that’s the only repercussion for trying to kiss a girl (stranger or not), then why the fuck isn’t every guy out there doing this shit!?

Well, the answer to that is pretty simple: most men are pussies…isn’t exactly news flash.

Ok, I also wanna make a quick point about my style, method and approach to meeting women.

I don’t expect that every guy who reads this (or my blog in general), to suddenly hit the streets trying to make out with girls within 5 minutes of chitchat.

This isn’t a realistic expectation of what I expect from my followers!

I’m cognizant of the fact that humans are risk-adverse, don’t like to take chances and are inclined to make more excuses than a kid who got caught with his hands in the cookie-jar.

Frankly, none of what I write, or even the videos I put out, do I ever think that any guy takes it serious but for a good read and a good viewing.

I’m resigned to the reality that fear overpowers rational by far.

For instance, I have a fear/phobia of lizards…tiny fucking lizards.

Though utterly harmless and I can just squish it with my little finger: no one can ever convince me that I should drop my fear of lizards and to simply grab 1 with my bare hands.

Likewise with trying to convince guys that they have nothing to fear with approaching and trying to fuck the shit out of hot women.

The most macho dude on the planet who can take on a gang of guys by himself without an ounce of fear [though the fear is real], let him loose inside of a bar and tell him to go get laid or try to kiss a girl at least, and I guarantee you he cannot even make an attempt to do such a harmless act with a harmless being (i.e. hot girl).

Therefore, no matter how many times I preach, show and prove to you fuckers that women are in fact harmless-lovely creatures- the likelihood is- you’ll never believe it!

Hence, when I say to you that girls won’t get offended at all if you try to kiss them or do/say something forward, your fear mechanism kicks in and you immediately shrug me off with mental-masturbation such as:

“Kenny only approaches easy girls”!

“That would never happen in my country”

“Kenny can say that because he’s been doing this for years”

“Girls in my city won’t stand for that”!

The list of bullshit excuses is endless!

Long story short; I applaud any guy who’s willing to at least get out of their comfort zone and try shit!

I am no different than any other guy who’s reading this post!

In fact, I was probably worse off growing up than anyone else.

I was that fucking kid in middle school who was anti-social, weird, had no friends but the other weird kid, afraid to speak to other boys let alone girls, didn’t participate in any sport because I dreaded the thought of messing up around others.

My parents actually wanted to seek professional help for my chronic anti-social and withdrawal behavior…it was that critical!

Shit man; I was fucked up in my early teenage years!

Look at me now in 2014!

I can’t walk the goddamn streets without trying to get into some chick’s panties!

If I can go from that to this, imagine what you can do as far as women and dating are concerned.

One way in which you can try to get over this paralyzing hump [fear] is to utilize my “5 Minute Kiss” rule.

I reiterate: you do NOT have to get the kiss or makeout. The “attempt” alone will suffice until you do manage to get the kiss periodically.

You’ll lose some and win some.

In spite of my super-advanced level in seducing women and understanding what makes them tick; I still get rejected!!!

Women often push me off whenever I try to cold makeout with them.

I don’t see that as failure at all- neither should you!

I never get butt-hurt when attempting the kiss and the girl moves away playfully or in astonishment.

Therefore, in doing/trying this, expect to get more rejections than kisses.

It isn’t the success of the “kiss” that will determine whether you’re a man or man-child, but the mere attempt.

You want whenever a girl leaves you presence, she’s thinking:

“That guy had balls”!

Rather than:

“That guy was friendly”!

“Friendly”, she will never remember.

“Ballsy”, she will remember for years to come!

Ok, with that, I leave you with 2 videos from earlier in the year where I playfully tried to kiss a young mom [random stranger] as she walked with her kid in hand.

This took place in under 5 minutes as we walked and chatted [once again, abiding by the “5 minute rule”].

Operative word is “PLAYFUL”!

In the 2nd. video, I kissed a random stranger whom I was fucking with inside of a grocery store…within minutes of meeting her.

Once again; “PLAYFULLY”!

In essence, those were 2 examples where the kiss (attempt) was fleeting and I wasn’t able to successfully plant and create a sensual vibe.

My most recently posted video however, I showed you guys how to create a romantic vibe which will enable you to kiss and makeout with a girl in less than 5 minutes of meeting her.

In essence, you’ve seen 2 fleeting kisses done playfully and 1 romantically.

With girls who are moving, the kiss won’t work as flawlessly as you’ve seen.

With a stationary set (as in the 3rd video), successful-kiss attempt increases.

2 Simple Tips For Breaking Out Of Your Shell And Becoming Social

Two great ways to break out of your shell:

1.) Ask someone who doesn’t look certain, if he or she needs some help as in directions.

2.) Say hi to someone whom you’re not on speaking terms with.

Nearly 2 years ago, I had a massive falling-out with a certain girl and we no longer spoke since then.

On my way to work, I would see this girl like once a week and we would pass each other without the slightest acknowledgment.

One day I said to myself, “Why the fuck not!? Why not say something to her and totally throw her off guard”?

The next time that I seen her, I’d broken the 2 years of silence:

Me: “Hi V******”.

She was so startled that she almost dropped her cellphone. 🙂

She reciprocated with a hi and we kept it moving.

Mission successful!

Second example for you guys to break out of the shell is to ask someone if they need help.

While running some errands, I came across an elderly lady who seemed to have been unsure of where she wanted to go but was too flustered to ask for help or directions.

Noticing this, I immediately took the initiative to say:

“Oh you need help with something”?

Old lady: “Oh yes thanks, I was looking for the *********”.

Irony is, she was actually seeking directions to my workplace.

There you have it: nothing fancy, no ulterior motives besides sharpening your social skills which will help you over time on the journey in dating and getting laid.

Plus- you can’t get laid by not being sociable!

Push comes to shove, my most recent video where I’d approached almost 30 random women about their g-string, you can take that approach to push yourself in the right direction…which is to get laid!

A Compliment A Day Keeps Anxiety Away

Whether it be Approach Anxiety or Social Anxiety, both states of mind are crippling and not so easy to keep at bay.

Do I still have bouts of anxiety when it pertains to approaching unfamiliar women?


Anxiety is like a fucking pest which only comes around when you least expect and in situations where you really don’t need it.

I have quite a few ways in which I handle anxiety and I’ve written about them before: No one gives a shit.

A novel approach to keeping approach and social anxiety away is to just give a compliment a day.

Just give a compliment to one girl a day…preferably a complete stranger.

Not only will doing so keep anxiety away but it’ll also keep your social wheels greased and keep you sharp as a social individual.

The reason I recommend “a compliment” opposed to just saying “hi”, is because a compliment raises the bar and stakes while a simple “hi” doesn’t require much psychological effort.

To familiarize yourself with the seduction-community jargon, check out the acronym and term list: PUA acronym and term list.

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