A kind of daunting question I get asked sometimes is this:
“Hey Kenny, the pick-up school of thought would have it a grave transgression for a man to ever buy anything for any woman! So- what gives”?
I get asked this question because guys would commonly see or hear me posting about paying for dinner [though I never do dinner dates], paying for the girl’s taxi fare, paying for drinks, etc.
Here is the deal: there’s a difference between buying a random stranger- a girl- a drink at the bar, and paying for snacks while on an official (or even unofficial) rendezvous.
You should NOT approach a stranger in the club and immediately look to buy her a drink: especially as your opener/ice-breaker [“may I buy you a drink”?].
However, if and when on a so-called date, there is absolutely nothing wrong in paying for dinner or drinks. Likewise, there is nothing wrong in having her pay for everything or go Dutch.
The dynamics and circumstances are what you should focus on when trying to discern bad-monetary investment from okay-monetary investment.
What do I mean?
Approaching a random girl at the bar and suggesting that you should buy her a drink within the first 2 minutes of conversation, would be a bad play in that the girl hasn’t done a thing to earn it.
Buying a girl something in such a context, should be seen on the basis of rewarding the girl for good behavior, or as a reward for advancing your cause and aim: whether that be good conversation, getting a number or sex.
If a girl whom you’d approached at the bar is being a snobby bitch, why would you ever in your right mind entertain the idea to offer to buy her a drink!?
She hasn’t earned it on the basis of her stink attitude!
Most guys however, would still reward a woman for negative behavior, under the impression that if they say to her, “Can I buy you a drink”, it would placate the girl and iron out her attitude. Hence, he’s rewarding her for bad behavior, and essentially training her wrong.
If anything, you want to reward a girl for good behavior and for working in the interest of your aim.
For example (and this is how I do it): girl shows up to meet me at the designated location, I would buy her a drink/soda or a bite to eat as a reward for her actually keeping her word in showing up. Obviously I wouldn’t be that inept to disclose this with her.
In any case, I basically operate on such a basis.
If the girl does something that I find to be progressing and accelerating the chances of me getting my pecker into her vagina; she gets rewarded!
I would buy her a drink.
More popularly, if a girl agrees to come see me, I may pay her cab fare as an incentive.
Psychologically, such insignificant acts lift the burden (psychologically) off of women, thus making you appear in a more favorable light to them…though the act was insignificant in the grand scheme of things.
If a girl has 2nd thoughts about coming to see me, or let’s say that she lives pretty far and a bus ride would take too long, I would suggest to her that she should take a taxi on me.
Not only will this shorten the trip time for her, but it is also less hectic than to be on a crowded bus and it gets her right to my doorstep.
I offer girls incentives, stimuli and concessions for coming to see me.
We all do this for that matter!
Some guys may even cook a meal for the girl who is to come over. I find this to be way too much investment. Plus it is actually counterproductive in the sense that a woman won’t likely have sex on a filled stomach while feeling bloated. I’ll address this folly in a future article.
Prior to the girl coming over for the 1st time, I would buy ice cream, alcohol, non-alcoholic beverages (juice and soda) and have a snack or 2 at my place (or the hotel).
I essentially lure them to my place with the promise of alcohol or ice cream…and it usually works.
Cooking a meal for a girl who isn’t your girlfriend is highly ridiculous.
On a further note, it all comes down to logistics, intelligence and from where you operate as the guy.
The reason why in pickup we teach you guys that you should NOT buy girls shit, nor pay for their stuff, is simply to avoid a situation where you- the guy- gets tooled out, lose value and have the girl perceive you to be a kiss-ass who goes around trying to buy women. Also, by doing this, you will have inadvertently attracted lots of gold-diggers to your party.
Hence, it is sound advice to not buy stuff for a woman unless she is your girlfriend…or at least someone whom you’d already slept with.
On the flip side; I still pay for stuff and buy stuff for women [by “buying”, I mean an insignificant drink or pizza].
The reason why doing so doesn’t DLV me [become a negative or makes me look like I’m trying to buy her] is because I operate from a place of higher value in any situation.
Women are turned off by men who try to buy them, by their love or their vagina.
Therefore, going up to a girl at the bar and within seconds suggesting to buy her a drink, will put you in the “he thinks he can buy my pussy” bracket.
She may very well accept the fucking drink! But you won’t get laid at the end of the night!
In fact, the girl will likely try to dodge you out just to avoid you, since guys are in the habit of buying drinks while believing that the girl is indebted to them, hence she must talk to them all night.
I see that shit play out every week at the bars and lounges which I frequent [chicks running from guys who had bought them drinks].
This is all because the guy gets lumped into the “he thinks he will fuck me because he bought me a drink” crowd.
However, I never get perceived in such a way whenever I buy a girl a drink because of various factors mentioned earlier. But I always operate from a position of high value and strategically so.
Hence, it isn’t that paying for stuff is such a terrible idea. Your hidden agendas are what screw it up for you.
When I buy a girl a drink, she doesn’t get the sense that I’m trying to buy my way into her panties nor trying to get her drunk.
She gets the sense that I’m rewarding her for her compliance and agreeableness (though I don’t need to).
Furthermore, guys need to also realize that there is a fine line between trying to be Alpha and being stupid by blunting your own opportunities.
I encounter fellow PUA’s (online that is) who try so darn hard to be Alpha that they foolishly kill their chances by refusing to pay for the girl’s cab fare over to their place.
The girl subsequently backs out, feeling that the least the guy could’ve done was to pay for the ride.
At the end of the day, no one gets laid…except the girl who could’ve likely gotten dick elsewhere at will. So the guy loses out for being a tightwad.
With that, you don’t want to sacrifice your lays while trying to remain “Alpha”.
Learn to give a little. And by “give” I mean to bend and yield, especially when the situation profits you in the end game.
If you wants the girl to come and hang out with you and she gets on board, feel free to ask her if she wants something to munch on.
Throw these little incentives and inducements out there!
Don’t go over board with grand proposals! Keep it light and simple.
There’s a reason why I always opt for drinks at my hotel, drinks at an eatery joint, or drinks wherever it is I’m to meet up with a girl.
In any case; I prefer drinks be involved.
Is it because I want to get the girl inebriated and date rape her?
Of course not you sick fuckers!
Why I always try to ensure that alcohol be present [even if we barely consume it] is for “Plausible Justifiability” purposes.
Plausible Justifiability [let’s just say “PJ” in the interest of time] in its rawest definition, is an excuse; a would-be plausible excuse for some sort of action taken- in this case- by the girl in the equation.
Therefore, alcohol acts as justification [plausibly so] in the girl’s mind, whereas if she sleeps with Joe Blow, having consumed some alcohol, she can justify said action [fucking Joe Blow] by saying to herself [and others], “I was under the influence. I had a few drinks”.
This will not only give her comfort and justification in her actions, but others will excuse her, since after all, having consumed alcohol is a plausible reason for fucking some random guy.
She is justified in being slutty!
Without alcohol present- let us say on the date- there must be something else [likely unknown to the guy] which the girl can latch onto, claim Justifiability, then sleep with the guy.
Therefore, not having alcohol, and not consuming any, will only make the guy’s attempt for sex that much more difficult…unless there are drugs involved, or other mind-altering agents.
Here’s the thing- and I have no personal experience with this since I don’t smoke anything at all- but judging from what I see and stories that I’ve heard, it is much easier to sleep with a girl while she’s under the influence or high…basically.
I don’t believe it requires rocket-science to see the obvious logics in such a statement: that a girl who’s high will have been more susceptible and easier persuaded towards sex.
Now, here is the thing- and here is where I pontificate with my own theory on the drugs and sex connection: it isn’t the drug or alcohol itself [their content] that makes the girl pliable and easier, but “Plausible Justifiability” in the girl’s mind which facilitates her actions to go along with sex.
Though the girl may have knowingly been under the influence of whatever it is she consumed or ingested, that alone would not have tipped the scales towards sex with the guy who’s there, partaking in the act of inebriation or getting high along with her.
The effects of alcohol do NOT lead to sex!
The effects of drugs do NOT lead to sex neither!
Again- this is my hypothesis.
However, there is no proof of this, and no way possible to prove this as factual [that drugs and alcohol consumption chemically induce sex].
Why this may seem so is simply as I explained above: having consumed alcohol or drugs, women more specifically, justify to themselves why doing something they otherwise wouldn’t do, would be justified plausibly. Not only to herself, but to others on the outside…and to the guy who may have slept with her.
Hence, it isn’t the content of the alcohol or drug that pushes a girl towards sex.
She leads herself into that action while justifying it by being under the influence of something other than herself.
Thus, she cannot be held responsible for her actions.
If it was really so, that alcohol and drugs actually lowers one’s inhibitions and pushes him or her into having sex besides their own will, then why aren’t women who drink and do drugs, for example sake, sleeping with any random guy they come across on the subway, streets, bars, nightclubs, parties or over Thanksgiving dinner?
Why isn’t horny Tina, who has had a few drinks at the family reunion, hooking up with uncle Bob who’s been fondling her ever since she was 10 years old, and wanting to shove his old-dirty pecker inside of her?
Why aren’t women under the influence walking down the street naked, fingering themselves on the park benches or at restaurants, letting themselves go while under the influence of something?
Why not? Because they [we] still have the vast bulk of control over their actions and thoughts while under the influence. So that is why we aren’t just blowing our brains out at random after downing a few cocktails. Even the hardest drugees know better than to dive off of a 10 story building, being driven and controlled by whichever drug they had shot up.
The most sex-deprived guys on Earth, or even virgin men who’ve never tasted poon, aren’t downing booze or doping up, to then stagger around town raping random chicks all about the place!
No one does this sober, nor under the influence for that matter, because the risk outweighs the reward.
Additionally, no matter how horny a girl is, being under the influence won’t at all drive her to ripping off the male bartender’s pants and fucking him right then and there!
She has control! Not only some. But she has full control of her actions!
Whether drunk or high: we know right from wrong, and we do right most of the time, even while under the influence! Or else, there would be mass casualties at bars and nightclubs all around the world, where drunk guy kills other guys for checking out his girlfriend…then jumps off a bridge while at it.
You get the point, right?
We still have actionable and mental control over what we do and say while under the influence.
With all that which was said, and in relation to dating, women justify their actions to have sex with a new guy by placing responsibility upon anything other than themselves.
She’ll even lay blame upon the guy who had fucked her!
If you’re a guy who has any sort of intelligence about females, you would accept every ounce of responsibility for the sex: prior to, and after the sex.
Whether you as the man accepts responsibility for the sex or not, the girl will always lay blame on you for it having happened.
She doesn’t want to be perceived as slutty [a woman’s greatest fear].
This is why she will blame the guy, alcohol or drugs for having coerced her into the act of sex.
Without a doubt- she fucked the guy on her own volition- even if she had a drink or 2, smoked some weed or snorted some cocaine! But she needs a source/outlet of “Plausible Justifiability” upon which to cast the blame.
The following may not be a popular declaration, but I’ve made it before without trepidation: I personally believe that a fair amount of rape cases was actually false-rape accusation, alleged by the female involved.
She might have wanted sex, and even verbally consented to it, but for whatever reason [a bitter fallout for instance], she subsequently decides to call foul/rape.
This is also common among collegiate-level athletes, where subsequent to gang-banging a chick at a campus function, the girl- though she was a willing participant- because of shame, or perhaps she felt threatened that the guys would go public about the romp [remember this is a girl’s #1 fear], she decides to call foul about the entire incident.
Perhaps 1 of the jocks involved was an ex-fling. Now the girl feels shitty about herself, so she confronts the guy about the gang-bang but she was blown off and made fun of. Girl then decides to go public [as in report the incident to authorities] as rape, and not that she was a willing participant in the orgy.
These things happen on and off of campus, at parties, concerts, etc.
This however hearkens back to my previous point that women will rarely ever take personal responsibility for having sex [this is with a new guy]. They were either drunk [or drinking], high [or smoking], pressured or raped: alcohol, drugs and men get the blame.
As the man- if you were wise- you would want to take the burden of responsibility for sex happening [I definitely don’t mean in the cases of false-rape accusations nor anything egregious].
A woman [mainly one whom you haven’t bedded yet] will NOT go through with sex, if she, even for a split second, feels that the burden will be left with her.
This is where alcohol comes in to save the day as far as my methodology of getting laid is concerned.
Make no mistake about it: I do NOT have to have alcohol handy in order to get laid.
It is used solely as a psychological red herring.
In fact, I don’t even keep alcohol at my place as most guys do.
Yea- so- basically, having a drink or 2 while on the date or meet-up, will have created a dynamic where the girl uses “Plausible Justifiability” in order to coerce herself into having guilt-free sex…which she wants to have anyway, but she only needs an external source in which to lay blame…in this case: the alcohol.
Furthermore, we’re all familiar with stories of girls getting hammered and going wild: letting go of their inhibitions.
What if I were to tell you that this is just a ruse: a sham, and that the girl-gone-wild while under the influence, isn’t because of the alcohol at all, but that she really intended to go wild anyways, but only used the pretence of alcohol as a smoke-screen for “Plausible Justifiability” to justify her actions of going wild and getting slutty?
Well- that is the truth…at least my theorization on it.
Chicks often consume alcohol in order to use “alcohol” as the culprit for their capricious behavior. Not that the alcohol was ever a true influence, but she only used it as such while creating that impression to observers…or to the guy she’s hoping to have sex with.
Men are also guilty of this shit, however, not to justify having sex, but aggression.
We would drink [or get high] just to show aggression, start a fight or to do something even more egregious.
Not that the alcohol transformed us into an aggressive beast of a man by injecting us with a dose of liquid courage. But we “CONSCIOUSLY” justify our acts of aggression- like bashing a guy over the head with a beer bottle- while using alcohol, drugs or being under the influence as the reason of justification for said actions.
It is all bullshit!
We consciously do our wrongs and good deeds. And we have FULL control over whether we do them or elect not to do them [whatever “them” may be].
I mean- such actions are even legally justified to a considerable extent by the judiciary.
Someone who had committed a crime while “claiming” to have been under the influence of some substance, can justifiably claim that he wasn’t [fully] responsible for having committed that offense. And the law will likely take that claim into consideration, more so once the person’s legal council makes this known within the proceedings. There are provisions within the law [Westminster system that is] which have to take this into account.
The only offense in which the judiciary does not accept “I was under the influence” claim [at least in America], is driving while under the influence which may have resulted in an accident or vehicular homicide. The law does not show leniency towards an assailant’s claims of being under the influence of a controlled substance [alcohol] in such cases.
Therefore, alcohol [or drugs] often times gets culpability for one’s actions: legally, socially and sexually.
My well thought-out hypothesis remains as mentioned earlier: those “supposed” controlled substances aren’t responsible for one’s action, nor do they truly compel nor sandbag one into action. But we only lay blame on such external substances in order to avoid taking personal responsibility for our not-so palatable actions…like committing crime, breaking laws, sleeping with someone we barely know and so forth.
The so-called professionals and experts in this field [substance abuse] would likely disagree with my theory here, because they truly believe that someone who’s been drinking or is high, is considerably under the influence and control of something other than himself/herself.
Again, I disagree with the so-called experts. Because if this was truly the case- that alcohol and drugs “TRULY” control our actions- then those of us who drink and get high [I only drink] would be careening to our deaths on a wholesale daily basis in highly irrational fashion: jumping from bridges and skyscrapers, instigating an unprovoked shootout with an entire police precinct, violently storming an army barrack as a civilian itching for a fight, catapulting ourselves into the middle of oncoming traffic…on the highway.
If we were truly under the influence and power of any substance outside of ourselves, we would be doing some crazy-fucking shit…REGULARLY!
Thus, there is a limitation and boundary, or something within us [which is our ration-thinking mind], which tells us that diving through the window of a 10-story building, will not be a smart idea…hence we elect not to do so…even when drunk or high. BUT- while drunk or high, shouldn’t we technically become irrational and highly liable to do irrational shit?
Therefore, how can we truly claim “I acted under the influence”, or “I was controlled”, when we are rational and mindful enough to not do anything as stupid as jumping in front of a speeding train…even while under the influence?
You may respectfully disagree with my thesis here. I’m cool with that!
Certainly these irrational actions happen somewhat with regularity! But they aren’t committed by any sane person who might have had a few drinks or snorted some coke. Crazy people, who are truly acting outside of their logical minds, are the ones running into oncoming traffic, laying themselves on a railroad while a freight train chugs along, diving from a building, etc.
They have no control!
However, don’t tell me that a rational-thinking person deciding to strip their clothes off at a party, is doing so because he/she is being controlled by a substance, having downed a few Tequila shots or snorted a line of coke.
I would hazard a very good guess that the person decided to strip at the party because that person wanted to do it anyway! But he or she had only used alcohol or drugs as pretext to justify their actions…of stripping at the party for example.
Anyway, so when you adjoin everything together which I’d touched upon within this article [“Plausible Justifiability”], and apply it to women in courtship, mating and dating, you will have gotten a very very precise picture of how and why women operate the way they do while claiming to be “under the influence”, and how and why I prefer to have alcohol present in order to feed into this myth, and encourage the girl to want to hook up.
If she believes that alcohol makes her horny [I’ve come across many girls who hold this belief]- FINE- I’ll bring some, or invite her on a rendezvous with alcohol being handy.
Surely there is no real study which shows that alcohol makes one sexually aroused. But the girl buys into this myth because it suits her hidden agenda of wanting to have sex while needing something upon which to cast blame and culpability [the alcohol] so she doesn’t appear slutty for conceding to sexual intercourse with the new guy on her own free will while sober.
She truly wants sex! But she won’t ever admit this unless she’s been drinking or getting high.
Get her to drink, it increases the chances of her having sex. Not because the alcohol is in control of her actions, but she needs the alcohol as a source of blame for her “conscious” decision and action to have sex.
Lastly, women will often excuse a man’s behavior while he’s “under the influence”.
This is secretly why guys who drink and pretend to be intoxicated, get aggressive and sexual with women.
They consciously know what the fuck they’re doing!
The so-called drunk guy at the bar [he may very well be drunk] is consciously aware of his actions of trying to grope or kiss some random woman in the venue.
He’s also aware of the fact that because he’s been drinking, others will excuse his actions by saying, “Oh- he was drunk”! Hence, he rids himself of culpability/blame.
He would not have attempted this act while sober [trying to make out with a girl] because he doesn’t have the cover of alcohol to hide behind as plausible justifiability. But by no means is the drunk guy unaware of his actions, except in the cases where he doesn’t quite have full conscious control of his limbs [particularly the legs]. Hence, a guy who’s pissy drunk is liable to trip or stumble over himself. But it doesn’t at all mean that his wants, desires and intentions aren’t clear to him.
In any case, people will often excuse our actions once we’ve been drinking.
This can turn out to be a positive or negative depended on the situation and the results.
For instance, if on a date having wine with a girl whom you’ve never gotten intimate with before, and you decide to escalate physically and sexually by caressing her hands sensually; in most cases, she isn’t likely to react negatively…especially if she’s been wanting this to happen.
She will excuse your intimate escalation by telling herself, “he’s had a bit much to drink”. Having been drinking some wine herself, she is likely to accept your physical and sexual escalation under the guise of intoxication.
Thus, she’s pleased to give her date the impression that the wine had made her pliable, easy and receptive to his sexual advances.
This is why it puzzles the shit out of me that guys can take a girl out, 2-4 dates, have wine or cocktails, yet not get intimate with her at all.
Dude- the alcohol is your goddamn ally! Your date expects you to escalate having been drinking! But you constantly blow it by being a giant pussy!
The girl is more than likely to excuse your actions and blame it on the alcohol!
What is the worse that could possible happen by taking your date’s hand and trying to sensually caress her fingers?
She either tells you to stop, pulls away, calls for the bill, pays for her stuff and leave!
Worse case scenario!
You won’t die!
You won’t even collapse from a nervous breakdown!
What the hell is there to lose?
On that note, I want you to realize that almost everything I do as far as women and dating are concerned, is logistically strategic in hopes of getting me inside of her little-pink flesh.
Do I always get laid from my rendezvous and so-called dates?
However, I believe in maximizing my chances of getting laid by being strategic and using psychology to facilitate sex.
Though I may not leave from every so-called date having had sex with the girl. But you best believe that getting physical, making out, mutual groping, etc. will have undoubtedly taken place 100% of the time…even though the meet-up may not have culminated in sex.
Furthermore, whenever I introduce alcohol into the picture, it is NEVER with the intention to get the girl drunk in the least!
In fact, I have a 1-drink policy [2 if she’s lucky] where I get her 1 drink, and 1 for myself also [2 if I’m feeling generous 😉 ]. So, my intention isn’t to get the girl nor myself inebriated. I just want enough alcohol [1 glass or 1 bottle will suffice] to create the impression that we both are buzzed, hence she gets to give herself justification for allowing me to physically and sexually escalate upon her.
Not that she’s actually buzzed or tipsy [for crying out loud; she would have only had 1 drink]! But the impression is the most important factor here.
At the end of the meet-up, if sex does happen, she can rationalize it to herself [and to me indirectly] that it wasn’t her conscious decision to fuck me [while sober], but the alcohol made her fuck me…even though she only had 1 drink and was completely operating from a sober frame regardless.
It’s all psychological guys.
Now, imagine this: on your so-called date, you grab for yourself and the girl water or juice [anything nonalcoholic]. What is there to now give the girl [false] justification to allow you to get intimate with her, without her recoiling or drawing herself back because she’s uncomfortable?
I hope you’re following.
If the girl had only drunk water, juice or had tea [non-intoxicants], why would she fuck you?
What would have been her “plausible justification”?
Are the cranberries in the juice aphrodisiacs? Not that I know of.
Hence, you are liable to receive a “WTF is he doing” look as you escalate on your date in the absence of alcohol.
Now, I’m not saying you can’t sleep with a new girl for the first time without having drinks [alcohol]. Half of my lays have happened without any drinks involved. However, it only complicates things a bit [not having alcohol] whereas the easiest avenue to achieving sex [having alcohol] is inadvertently sealed off, which means you’ll have to revert to a plan b or c.
By the way, this quasi tip is more so directed at the guys who suffer from social anxiety and have escalation issues.
If you’re comfortable, confident and adept at making a move on women [as I am], then you can very well escalate and get sexual with your date without trepidation of anything going South [as in real objections]. Having to need alcohol as a psychological crutch will not be that necessary.
Where and how guys find themselves in sticky situations like date-rape and so on, is by trying [intentionally] to get the girl drunk by buying drink after drink, or trying to take advantage of the situation [the girl] while she’s already pissy or black-out drunk.
I mean, chicks aren’t stupid. They know when you’re intending to get them drunk and capitalize off of the perceived handicap.
In lots of cases, the guy ends up forcing himself upon the girl, believing that she’s had enough drinks and is now incoherent, so he forces the issue, the girl resists [knowing that she’s been duped] the guy persists, then everything blows up in everyone’s face.
To avoid such a dumb situation that lots of guys get themselves into, I adhere to my 1-2 drink policy, and the girl will have had no reason whatsoever to believe that I was attempting to get her drunk and take advantage of her. After all; why would I only buy 1-2 drinks if I had villainous intentions like to date rape her via intoxication?
Be as it may, in a future article, I’ll deal with the topic of strategic logistics and how I structure my dates in order to maximize the chances of sex.
If you haven’t seen my 36 minute hidden-cam date video from earlier in the year [with a girl I picked up online], I suggest you check it out to see some of the concepts I talked about here being put into action.
Whenever I’m strolling through a high-end joint [like The Coast Nightclub & Diamond Ice on the island of Antigua], or even a local bar like Yankee Tavern in the Bronx…1 thing you’d readily notice (besides the Mohawk), which separates me from the chodes: I have an exotic-colorful drink in my hand!
Yankee Tavern Bar in the South Bronx
Now I know “colorful” drinks don’t appeal to the Alpha’s who’re reading this- but I can explain!
What will NOT attract women [drink wise]:
•Strangling a bottle/can of Old Milwaukee, Coors or Guinness will NOT.
•A bland cup/mug of piss-colored liquid [beer] will NOT do you any favors neither.
•Ordering beer,wine or champagne will not cut it neither (when it comes to baiting women into talking to you).
“Women And Colors”
•Women are stimulated and captivated by colors and colorful things [unlike most men]: roses, clothing, hats, shoes, etc.
•Same goes for drinks.Women go bonkers over Apple Martinis, Margaritas, Sex On The Beach, Tequila Sunrises…
•The key ingredients to those colorful-attractive drinks are: Schnapps, Syrup (Grenadine) & Liqueurs.
•As an aspiring bartender (mixologist), and a guy who’s spent a billion hours in nightclubs and bars; I got a pretty good sense of what hot chics order.
•But if you’re a self-conscious guy, and you’d feel like a giant pussy ordering Margaritas & Sex On The Beach- here’s what you can do:
•Order what you would regularly [beer, rum and coke, whiskey], but tell the bartender to dash some color in there (preferably schnapps).
•You now have a colorful, exotic-looking drink.
Kenny’s “Exotic-Drink” Routine/Technique
•Two things will either happen (in response to your colorful drink):
1.) Women nearby will open you(initiate a chat) by saying:
“What are you drinking”?
“Hey, what drink is that”?
“Wow, that drink looks pretty”!
•I’ve had either, or all 3 of those responses each time I’m holding a colorful drink [it’s like some Voodoo charm lol].
2.) You can take the initiative (as you should as a man) and open the target by saying anything:
“Hey, I want some of what you’re having”!
•In return, she will most likely notice your drink (the exotic color), and make a comment on it:
“I want some of what you’re having”!
“What are you drinking”!?
Example Of How SocialKenny Rolls His “Exotic-Drink” Routine:
Now, let’s say there’s a hot 2-set @ the bar counter ordering drinks, or just bored to death of the losers so they chose to prop up the bar.
I’d approach the counter and order my signature cocktail: •Malibu coconut rum,
•Splash of Grenadine syrup (to give it a red-orange look).
I’d make sure that the girls standing/sitting beside me overhear or see me ordering [telling the Bartender how to mix my drink].
[Girls can appreciate a man who knows his spirits and mixing drinks. This’ why bartenders get laid and are attractive to women].
When the bartender hands me my colorful cocktail, the chics next to me are usually eyeballing it, which @ that point, I’d say something to them like:
“The 1st. one to taste my “COCKTAIL” gets a free drink”!
Nine out of 10 times, they will either make 1 of the following responses:
•Have a shocked yet playful face
•Take the 1st. sip for me
Then it’s game on from there!!
•Google an exotic-looking drink.
•Order it @ a bar/club.
•Make sure women can hear or see you place the order.
•Open them (or her) by saying: “I give you $100 bucks if you taste my COCKTAIL”.
•Walk the venue until you spot a hot girl.
•Say to her: “I want some of what you’re having”.
•Flaunt your colorful drink in the her face (baiting her to comment on it).
The rest is now up to you with your standard Game.
My “Exotic-Drink Routine” was just to entice, impress (in a good way) and open her.
Whenever I’m @ the bar,I’m always “THE” guy to captivate women by what I’m drinking.
I’d usually have a 4-set (4 girls) all surrounding me as I bust on them for drinking bland shit.