How Not To Chat Up Girls On Social Media [6 Critical Mistakes]

A female friend had earlier shared the following screenshot with me.

Some more “How not to chat up girls on social media” tidbit.

This guys here is a classic and common example of what not to do.

Mistake #1: The over-use of “Baby”.

Mistake #2: trying to force rapport by telling her he wants to get to know her.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with telling a girl you want to get to know her. The problem comes in when you give the girl zero reasons to want to get to know you.

This guy’s opener/ice-breaker was essentially, “I want to get to know you “. Huge Mistake since he hasn’t built any attraction material by giving the girl a reason with something interesting.

Mistake #3: again, pushing for instant rapport by asking her where she’s from. Additionally, one can access the FB “about me” section in order to see that info. So why ask!? It makes you look like an inept jackass; someone lacking Social Intelligence! Something you’ve seen me stress hard over the past days (social intelligence). So, asking questions you can easily ascertain by looking @ the girl’s profile, will turn women off. It makes you seem lazy, and robs the girl of that special feeling that she was singled out, and that the guy actually did some homework.

Mistake #4: “I am single”! Telling a girl on social media that you’re single, is tantamount to saying, “I’m a registered sex-offender”. Like…”why are you single dude”? The girl may say to herself. Perhaps you’re a fucking serial killer or a lunatic, hence why you’re single, and no women want to associate themselves with you. So, as I’ve been telling you guys for ages; Never tell girls you’re single! If anything, tell her you have a GF, but you’re just looking cool ppl to hang with”. Or, tell her you have a GF, but it’s complicated…or the relationship isn’t working out. But never tell girls you’re single. Only sex offenders, rapists, serial killers, men with AIDS and lunatics are single. Okay!? Think Preselection!

Mistake #5: “Looking a good woman to be with”. Why is that a mistake? Dude, see why the fuck are you auditioning to become her man, before even having a convo or before fucking!? What if the girl isn’t looking for a relationship? Yet, he killed himself by putting himself into the boyfriend/provider category from the jump, instead of casually going with a, “let’s just chat and see if we like each other” vibe. So, never tell a girl that you’re looking for a GF! Because once she says to you, “I’m not looking for anything serious right now”, you are fucking done! You cannot then go back and say to her, “well…since you’re not tryna get serious…let’s fuck”.

Mistake #6…the most fatal: Ringing someone unannounced through Messenger! As a guy; this pisses me off when women do it. Imagine how women feel when 20 no-game-having Beta-Males are doing it daily! You have to fucking have Empathy in the Game guys! Don’t be a dick! Only call when it’s been agreed upon!

All in all; the guy made 6 common mistakes (some fatal). He isn’t the exception BTW. He’s the norm!

Now, on the flip side, I totally get the opposing argument that girls on FB are always complaining that they’re single, yet their inbox is full of guys trying to get to know them. I understand that rational argument too. But that’s no excuse for HORRIBLE social skills!

If you want to learn how to do this the right way; get coaching over Skype with me. 

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Last Weekend’s Botched Lay Attempt…Update


Okay guys, so last weekend, I posted a field report about this chick who caught an asthma attack while I was 5 seconds away from penetrating her (almost).

You can read that post here as a refresher: https://kennyspuathoughts.com/2017/07/23/asthma-attack-debacle-field-report-in-botched-weekend-plan/

I totally had no intentions of ever talking to her again. So I hadn’t contacted her since last Saturday.

She then hits me up on Messenger days ago.

I posted the following to my Facebook:

Why’s this chick even contacting me?

Anyway, so guys, if you remembered, over the weekend, I posted about a chick who came to stay the weekend (Saturday) with me. She virtually popped up @ the bus terminal and woke me up @ 7 AM telling me she’s coming to stay with me…unannounced…practically.

She did come, but the shit ended on a crazy note with the chick catching an asthma attack. So she had to be rushed to the hospital. Thing that really irked me is she caught the asthma attack as I getting sexual and about to slide my finger up her vaj! 😦

Long story short: I didn’t get to fuck. So she practically wasted my time, wasted a trip, and got me to pay for her cross-country bus ticket (about $115).

She hits me up on Messenger this evening, wondering why I haven’t hit her up since Sunday morning when she bounced.
I explained how it all went down in a field report on my PUA blog (link below).

All in all; after the shit went down the Saturday night, she took the bus back home the Sunday morning after coming for her shit from my crib. I had no intentions of ever saying shit to this chick again.

Dialogue below.


When Gaming Hot Girls…Part 3…Learn The Correct Order: Attraction Before Rapport!

[Originally posted to social media]

Why is it a TERRIBLE idea to open a girl with, “Can I get to know you”? And why do girls shame guys for such a lame opener?

Here’s the deal: Pushing for Rapport before you even establish attraction isn’t normal. It’s fucking weird!

This is why in classic pickup, the order is: Attraction, Rapport/Comfort then Seduction (the 3 phases).

You cannot try to fucking gain rapport before making the girl attracted to you (to your vibe)! For instance, if a bum comes up to you on the street, and opens you with, “Can I get to know you”? How would you take to that? You would blow him the fuck off and get weirded out by such a request!

Why is this? Because the bum hadn’t built anything via dialogue before going for rapport! Had the bum showed you an interesting magic trick first, or shared with you a tip on how to do a certain thing [this would be considered Attraction material], and then he says to you, “what’s your name man, and where you come from” [this is a Rapport question], you would likely share rapport information with the bum by saying you are so and so from so and so.

However, had the bum gone straight into that (“who are you and where are you from”) as his opener, or before sharing something of interest/attraction with you, you would tell him to fuck off…or leave yourself.

How does this tie into women online?

Saying to a girl (early), “can we get to know each other”, is equivalent to the bum doing the same with you. The girl would get weirded out and turned off!

Why the fuck would she want to get to know you [enter the Rapport phase] when you haven’t given her a reason to want to know you [i.e. by building interesting convo beforehand]?

Hence, the classic mistake the vast majority of guys make, when they hit chicks up on social media with the lame, “Can I get to know you”?

They’re trying to skip Attraction and go straight into Comfort/Rapport.

It won’t work!

This is why under no circumstances, would you ever see me open a girl with, “can we get to know each other”?

I firstly open with HUMOR which equals Attraction, then build on that, then enter Rapport (which is optional via text).

Also, another reason why girls will blow you out whenever you come with that lame shit, “Can I get to know you”, is the usage of the word “CAN”!

“Can” is a killer in Game! Whenever you use “Can”, you are essentially asking the girl’s permission!

What the fuck would give you the impression that you should have to get someone’s permission to fucking TALK!!!?

That is an extremely Beta and Weak way of approaching women! Women aren’t attracted to men who seek their permission; especially not when it comes to freedom of speech!

Therefore, saying “Can I”, or, “Can we”, should totally be eliminated from your Game! It is low value!

All in all; you don’t have to verbalize to the girl that you want to get to know her! The mere fact that you DM’d her, says that you want to get to know her! So why the fuck state the obvious!? It makes you look inept, stupid and lacking social awareness and intelligence. Plus it makes you look unsure of yourself!

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http://kennyspuathoughts.com/2015/05/12/facebook-bang-the-bonus-product/

When Gaming Extremely Hot Girls On Social Media: Secret Society Members Recognize Each Other

[Originally posted to social media]

“Watch Her Qualify Like A Muthafucka In The Presence Of A High-Value Player”.

Anyway, so leaving off from the previous post, just as I predicted; she hits up my inbox right away after I stopped responding to her comments on her status. This was done strategically to reel her in.

I counted to 10, and my Messenger went off…as predicted…as always. Girls are super predictable. All women operate the same!!!!

Anyway, so check how the dialogue went. Remind you that this is absolutely the 1st time she and I ever communicated.

I want you to also take note of the dynamics here: here is a hot girl whom I doubt EVER hits a guy up first on social media…EVER! And here she goes hitting me up first…on her own free will while I chill back and waited for her message to come.

Moreover, this is a girl who blows off tons of guys on a regular basis, toys with guys, shames guys, out/expose guys by posting their screenshots to her FB as means of making fun of guys and calling them thirsty and desperate…and lame! Yet, she hits me up, chasing me, trying to make convo, QUALIFYING, while I ultimately brush her off by using my favorite technique of telling the girl “I’ll hit you up another time”.

Which guys would do/say that to such a hot girl?

None! Except a high-value guy who’s a fellow member of the secret society of players, which is dominated by women.

So, who’s doing the qualifying here? Who’s pushing for rapport here?

Speaking of rapport, the mistake that these guys made (almost every guy does), is that they tried to FORCE Rapport/comfort from the get go as their opener, by asking the girl if they can get to her know. Why the fuck would you open a girl with that!!!?

Anyway, I’ll speak more about that in a subsequent post.

So guys, what’s the magic here overall? Is it my Denzel Washington looks? 🙂

Nope!

It’s the fact that I’m well aware [having Social Awareness] that you CANNOT or Should NOT use direct game on hot girls on social media! Why not? Such girls get hit on too fucking much! The only way to get their attention (initially) is via Indirect Game, but not hitting on them at all! Just as you’ll see me do; I did NOT hit on her, nor did I compliment her (directly).

Now, what is the overall benefit of my approach here? Having the girl qualifying herself and trying to prove to me that she has guys chasing her, it means (in her mind) that I’m high(er) value. Hence, she would never reject me if I were to game her, try to get her # and a so-called date. All this is possible because of an innocuous comment on her post, and the fact that I’m not chasing her.

Whenever a woman meets a man who’s a fellow member of the secret society of players, she goes Bonkers and opens up to him.

Read: http://bristollair.com/2008/inner-game/nature-reality/secret-society/

So check out how she shames guys for me [note: she’s a total stranger].

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http://kennyspuathoughts.com/2015/05/12/facebook-bang-the-bonus-product/

When Gaming Extremely Hot Girls On Social Media: Shaming The AFC Betas

[Originally posted to social media on July 29th, 2017]

When gaming an extremely hot girl- any relatively hot-looking girl- you have to make her know (INDIRECTLY) that you are a fellow member of the Secret Society of players [written of by RSD Own/Tyler], and a fellow high-value individual.

One way in which I passively do this, is by tooling, shaming and AMOGGing other guys: directly or indirectly on Facebook, for their lack of game and AFC-ish ways.

Note: High-Value Girls only fuck with High-Value guys! You don’t actually have to be high value. You just have to give off that impression as I did when I commented on this chick’s posts not long ago.

Note: this girl is extremely hot! Hence, you cannot use direct game in order to reel her in and game her!

Now, I want you to observe just how I reeled her in and got her to inbox me first (for the 1st time), without me doing anything besides making 1 comment on her FB post (which led to a string of comments).

I want you to take note of how I got her attention in a big way, which forced her to inbox me…as I predicted since it always happens like clockwork once I make such comments on a girl’s post, shaming other guys for having lame game.

In the last screenshot, you will notice how elated she was, to finally meet a guy online who fucking gets it, that dropping off your # (with no dialogue) is a lame move…just to name a few lamery.

Anyway, so it was @ that point that the attraction switch was flipped, to where she seen me as a high-value guy in the know. Although she’s a hot girl who commands much adoration from chodes. She recognized that I was of higher value that her.

So, check out the exchange on her status, where I tooled guys who hit her up in a lame way. And although we agreed with each other, I wasn’t doing so in a kiss-ass way [that’s a key point].

And stay tuned to my follow-up post to where she immediately hits me up once she realizes I was the shit. She began to qualify her ass off.

Read: http://bristollair.com/2008/inner-game/nature-reality/secret-society/

#HowToReelInHotGirlsOnSocialMedia

The Skinny On Long Game: Should You Delete Her Phone Number?

[Originally posted to social media]

“Sometimes, It Takes A While For The Girl To Be Converted And Commit To Meeting Up”.

Okay guys, another instructional post for ya.
What I want to touch on, is staying-power in Game (over text to be exact). 
What do I mean exactly? I mean, how to game a girl for a LONG period of time, without actually speaking to her much over that long period, while avoiding the friend zone at the same time, and ultimately get to the girl to commit to having you come over.
Case in point: this girl here, I picked her up late last year (street approach), ran my usual stellar game, and tried to seal the deal ASAP (as usual).
Although she was game, she just wouldn’t commit to seeing me for the Day2. 
Usually, when a girl gets iffy about seeing me, I sometimes delete her # and keep it pushing. 
However, there are times when it would be in your best interest to keep the girl around, game her periodically, until she either flips/converts, or ultimately fall by the wayside…or she flats out rejects you.
As you will notice in the screenshots, I first started to game this girl last year November when I picked her up.
She wouldn’t commit to the meet up, so I would hit her up every other month.
I hit her up 2 days ago for the 1st time in like 3 months. This morning, she finally committed to seeing me, so she gave me her address (playfully so), so I can stop by her later in the evening.
The point in mentioning that is, if a girl won’t budge right now, feel free to let her go, and re-game her every now and then, in hopes of converting her. 
As the case with this sexy MILF who has a rack to die for, I wasn’t as foolish to waste valuable Game time, texting back and forth with her since November until now.
Fucks no! 
That is friendzone (or text-zone) shit right there!
What I did instead was to hit her up bimonthly, or every 3 months, then game her hard for a few minutes, just to test the waters to see whether she’ll bite (accept meeting up) or not.
With such an approach, I waste no time whatsoever. What is a 5 minute conversation every 2-3 months?
No biggie!
The trick is though, just as you’ll see me demonstrate; you have to come back and re-game her with interesting shit!
Additionally, you ought to take into consideration the fact that women jump in and out of relationships like getting out of bed in the mornings. Their relationships don’t last 3-4 months good. So if you meet a girl today and she doesn’t seem to want to commit to seeing you, it could very well boil down to the fact that she’s in a new relationship and doesn’t want to fuck it up…as yet!
Four, 5, 6 months later: she’s free. Thus, more open to meeting up.
Therefore, before you hit delete on that chick’s phone #, you might want to keep her # for later gaming, in the likely event that she’ll be free/single in 2-3 months time. 
Lastly, this also solidifies a point I’ve been making for years, that you don’t have to take girls out on traditional dates and all of that BS! If you’re skilled enough in Humor Game, you can get girls to give you their address and have to come over. No date required!
Anyway- so again- I started gaming this big-boobed MILF back in November. Although she was totally into me and feeling my vibe [all ioi’s indicated that], she wouldn’t agree to meeting up. So I resorted to putting her on the back burner and gamed her for 5-10 minutes every 3 months or so…until this morning, she told me where she lives (finally), so I’ll be stopping by her later.

#PeriodicGame
#MayTakeMonthsToConvert

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Asthma-Attack Debacle Field Report In Botched Weekend Plan


Okay, to set the table here, here’s a post I made to my Facebook, Saturday morning.

So I was awakened by about 10 missed calls around 7 something this morning. Notwithstanding the fact that I DETEST taking phone calls, I rang the person back.

Girl: “Kenny, I’m boarding the bus but they’re telling me that you never made reservation for me to get on”?

In my stupor, I responded: “HUH”!!?

Remind you, I was night gaming and partying the entire Friday and got home almost 4 AM this morning from an all-white party. So I was still groggy as fuck, tipsy and sleep deprived.

Me: “Who the hell is this”!!?

Girl: “Tanya”!!!

Me: “What were you saying”!?

Girl: “I’m trying to board this bus to come see you, but they’re telling me that there’s no reservation in my name made”!

Me: “And!? What that has to do with me”!?

Girl: “You were supposed to make the reservation”!

Me: “Me!!!? When did we come to that agreement!? You never even told me you were coming to see me”!

Girl: “Kenny, yes I did! OMG! Can’t believe I wasted my time packing and stuff, and now I’m here at the bus terminal, come to find out you never booked my ticket”!

Me: “What! Tanya, you never told me you were coming to see me, let alone to make a reservation for you! When did we ever have that discussion”!!?

Anyway, she kept insisting that we agreed to this a few days ago, that she would come spend the weekend with me.

As someone who diligently keeps a track of his conversations via text, at no time was there ever any such arrangement between this chick and me!

I am not that absentminded to forget such an arrangement! Who would!?

She then came to the conclusion that she might’ve misunderstood me, in thinking that I agreed to having her come stay with me for the day into tomorrow.

Either way, I still call bullshit on it, and I believe it was some sort of game she was tryna run on me.

Nevertheless, although she didn’t have reservation for the cross-island journey on the bus, she was lucky enough to board anyway, as another rider got bumped off seconds earlier.

Now, this’ what really pissed me off (as if the 10 phone calls waking me up weren’t enough):

Girl: “Kenny, I have a little issue. I’m short on cash and I didn’t walk with my debit card to swipe and pay for the ticket”.

Me: “KMFT…so what you expect me to do”?

Girl: “Can you purchase the ticket for me online? I’ll give you back the $$ by Tuesday”.

Talk about royally agitated! I was dumbfounded!

Girl: “Kenny, the bus is waiting to leave but I’m holding it up. Once you make the online buy they would get instant notification and I could sit down and leave”.

Me: “Yo, this is some fucking bullshit! I already blew about $250 cash at the club last night, now you coming with this shit! Make sure I get that shit back come next week”!

I then reluctantly bought the ticket for her online, she boarded and took off.

This was all around 8 am to 9 am. She’s expected to get here sometime after 2 or 3 this afternoon.

BTW, she’s a chick whom I already banged a while back. But she’s been dying to hang out with me again. A week ago, we VAGUELY spoke about her coming by me this Saturday…VAGUELY being the operative adverb!

Apparently, she took that shit literally, and just decided to pop the fuck up @ a cross-country/island bus terminal, and expected that I would’ve made a reservation for her, when the discussion we had a week ago on this, was just mere wishful thinking. 😦


The chick got to my place around 3:30 PM the Saturday.

Since I was beat from the Friday night into Saturday morning [4 AM], partying hard at an all-white party, all I wanted to do was to finally get some frikkin’ zzz’s.

Crawling in from the all-white party

Having sex with this girl was the absolute last thing on my agenda that afternoon.

My body wasn’t able.

Anyways, so I slept while she fiddled with her phone on social media I surmise.

In between sleep, we would chitchat about random shit.

My plan was pretty clear though: “get some rest, rejuvenate myself, then fuck this chick’s vagina out of commission”!

Being that I don’t cook [can’t really 😦 ], hence I don’t store food in my apartment, she got hungry (and so did I), so we went out around 6 PM in search of a fast-food joint.

We got burger and fries and sat somewhere to chow down.

She kept complaining about how hot the place was.

Typical female BS, always finding something to whine about…I guess.

We decided to take a stroll up and down the town.

Knowing how adventurous this chick is, I had a spur-of-the-moment idea: “take her to some undisclosed location and get busy”. 😈 So: that’s what I did.

We sat on some benches and began making out.

I kissed her on the shoulder, neck and earlobe, totally causing her to flutter and moan under my seductive foreplay.

Although she showed every physiological sign of enjoyment and pleasure, she kept fucking nagging about being hot…and I don’t mean sexually aroused hot! 😦 😡

It bewildered me to be honest, because the night was breezy as hell, and I was actually feeling a bit chilly. So to hear her continually moan about the heat, it’s crazy!

In order to accommodate her, though I was set on having some outdoor sex, I figured that it was best to head back home and relax under a fan.

Before we were able to do that, she told me to get her a paper bag.

I’m like, “huh!? Paper ba for what”!?

“Just get me a paper bag Kenny”!

At that point, I thought she was about to throw up for some reason.

Perhaps the food we just ate! But how the heck was I to get a paper bag!?

There was a supermarket across the street, so I rushed across, got a paper bag and handed it to her.

She began blowing or breathing into the bag.

It was sort of scary-looking, to be honest.

I asked her what happened.

She said she has asthma and she forgot her pump back home…across country.

My initial reaction was, “How the fuck did you forget such an essential”!? But I bit my tongue in frustration!

She sat back down on the bench and told me that she was feeling dizzy and fainty.

Now I’m like, “this fucking bitch”!

Me: “Will you be able to walk for a bit? The apartment is just right around the corner”.

Girl: “No! I’m gonna fall down if I try to get up and walk”!

The look on my face was of priceless disappointment!

“Now we’re stuck here”!? I said to myself!

Me: “Do you want me to lift you up or support you as you try to walk”?

Girl: “No. Still gonna fall. Can you get us a ride”?

At that point, I had already spent all the cash I had on me, so a taxi was sort of out the question.

Taxis in this region of the Caribbean, don’t usually take credit/debit cards. Plus I didn’t have a card on me anyway! 😦

Only resort was to walk home (which was only about 8-9 blocs). Or to phone a friend for a ride.

We sat there for a good 20 minutes while she breathed into the bag and complain about being hot and feeling claustrophobic.

Two things were floating through my mind:

1.) I would be damned if this chick comes to stay with me for the weekend, and I wouldn’t even be able to have sex with her!

2.) I actually bought her bus ticket to come stay with me, and now it looks like I might get shortchanged out of the deal!

My mind kept wondering if this was some sort of trick all along. But I seen no plausible reason for trickery here on her part.

Finally, after about 30 minutes sitting in silence, she said that she’ll try to walk.

She got up and stumbled a bit, so I grabbed her.

We walked, she swayed and stumbled like a drunk person.

I was embarrassed to say the least, because the shit really looked like I was walking with a girl who had been drugged or boozed out of her fucking mind.

We walked about 2 blocs and she dropped on her butt on the sidewalk, saying that she needed to strip her clothes off: that she’s having an asthma attack!

“FACK”!!!! I yelled internally!

“Call me an ambulance”! She said to me!

I called the hospital and they rushed an ambulance to where we were, then rushed her off to the hospital.

I honestly couldn’t give a rat’s ass about her condition!

All I wanted was to bang this chick!

All these little sideshows were just that: sideshows!

Going to the hospital to see her was out the fucking question!

Here it was Saturday night, and she’s scheduled to leave Sunday afternoon.

However, depended on how serious her asthma attack is, she may have to stay the night…at the hospital.

Lo and behold- I get a phone call about 20 minutes later- “Kenny, they say I’m gonna have to stay at the hospital on the nebulizer for the night until morning”.

Just as I fucking called it!

I didn’t even want to hear anymore.

I hung up on her and went the fuck home.

This morning, she rings me.

I’m guessing it’s to come from the hospital, and we could spend the rest of Sunday morning fucking like rabbits!

After all, her stuff was at my place since she’s staying with me for the weekend. And she wasn’t scheduled to leave until this afternoon.

As if shit hasn’t already ran a muck; it actually took a turn for more bad news…at least for me.

Girl: “Kenny, I’m gonna have to come pack and leave this morning. My boss called me and told me I needed to be a work by 11 am”.

Remind you: she usually has Sundays off (whole weekend). What are the fucking odds that her boss now wants her at work today!

Me: “Are you kidding me”!?

Long story short: she came to the apartment to retrieve her shit.

She wanted to chitchat and burn some time off before she goes to the bus terminal to catch her bus back across country. But I virtually brushed her off and told her that I had other shit to do.

She left.

Time wasted.

Money wasted! And I hope she refunds me the fucking money I wasted doing her a favor in purchasing her ticket.

I won’t hold my breath on that 1.

Picking Up Model 101…Part II

[Originally posted to social media]

Model Chick Part II: “Reel Her In Like A Snake Charmer By Using Curiosity Loops”.

Okay guys, so this is part 2 continuation of the previous post where I demonstrate how to attract, engage and get a hot girl hooked.
In this part 2, I employ my all-time favorite technique dubbed “Curiosity Loop”. It is where you say/do something that makes the girl curious to want to know more. It keeps her locked in, engaged, curious and hooked!
Remind you: I already told this chick that I have to go [which was strategic], yet she’s desperately trying to keep the convo going by continuing to text me. 
Why so? Because she’s deeply hooked on the vibe by that point. 
Also, I’m deliberately keeping her there by using the curiosity loops [telling her there are 5 things I like about her, but NOT telling her what those 5 things are]. 
In essence, as I speak about often, I am denying the girl closure, by not telling her what she desperately wants to find out. 
By using this technique of mines, you keep the girl there, virtually begging to continue the chat.
Again- I may need to remind you- that in the previous post (screenshots), she mentions that she doesn’t reply to messages. 
I believe her! I am quite sure that she instantly blows off, ignores and blocks 99.8% of guys who message her…INSTANTLY!
However, she doesn’t come close to blowing me off, she responds to every message of mines, and she keeps the convo going, even after I tell her about 3-4 times that I have to go. 
That is what you call Game: subtle, covert Psychology, making an otherwise all-attention getting girl to chase you.
Needless to say, she coughed up her digits (as expected).
All in all; to you guys who struggle with getting a girl’s attention, keeping it by holding intriguing convo, this post should be instructional in your quest to picking up hot girls on social media [total strangers- as this girl- or those with whom you’re already acquainted].
Lastly, also realize how powerful and DEADLY my routine of curiosity loop is! It’s akin to dangling a carrot in front of the girl then pulling it back as she reaches for it [aka Cat-String Theory].

#MakeHerChase #CuriosityLoop
#ModelPullContinues #DenyHerValidation

Picking Up Model 101…Part I

“How To Chat Up A ‘Model’ 101”.

[Posted verbatim to social media]

So there’s this Canadian chick (who lives here) on my FB who “claims” she’s a model of some sort. I say “claim” because most of these chicks say they do modeling gigs as a way to try to sound important and gain social value over others. So anyway, so I briefly scanned her profile and found out some basic info: she’s an Aquarian from Canada who models (she actually has photos to accompany this claim). 
With that, before gaming a girl, as I always teach you losers, plz do a quick browse of her page (‘about me’ section) and learn at least 2 facts (or claims) about the girl. What this does is that it surprises the girl that you even know that fact about her [whatever you discovered]. And it also demonstrates to the girl that your initial message/opener/initial inbox was NOT a product of mass/spam texting, which you had sent simultaneously to 50 other girls. It shows the girl that you actually singled her out! Hence you are genuine in your approach! This makes her feel special, but not in a way that makes her feel as though you have her on a pedestal. Also shows that you’re socially perceptive and aware.
Most importantly when it comes to gaming random girls who perceive themselves of higher value [models, strippers, etc], you want to employ my all-time favorite technique of Ending The Fucking Convo First!!!
Be the first one of the 2 to say “I have to go”! You will see me do that perfectly towards the end in the last screenshot.
Additionally, I don’t know this girl from Adam! We’ve been friends on FB for over a year, but I never messaged her until some days ago. What does this do? It shows such girls that you aren’t some desperate loser guy who’s gonna chase them instantly. 
Secondly, in spite of the fact that this was our 1st ever interaction, the vibe I created was as though we already knew each other. That’s what I call “Instant Rapport” or “Instant Connection”. 
In closing, I end up picking her up as expected (getting her # and so forth). But that was just an academic and mute point in the overall scheme of things.
What I want you to take away from this post- apart from the tidbits mentioned previously- is my overall approach with this so-called model.
I wasn’t fucking Pedestalizing the girl! I wasn’t telling her any cheesy, generic bullshit about how beautiful she is!
 I wasn’t kissing her ass! Although I hit her with my favorite routine of “let’s run away to Vegas and marry”, it wasn’t done under the guise of Pedestalization and ass-kissing. Rather, it was humorous, witty and done under the guise of me being a guy who’s whimsical, spontaneous and adventurous! Not me being needy and low value and wanting to actually marry her!
Anyway guys, so peep how I routinely game so-called models and so-called super-hot girls over Facebook. Now, this isn’t the only way [I use about 4 different approaches/themes]. But it’s still a potent one.
Moreover, most girls of this quality wouldn’t give 99.9% of guys on FB the time of day by replying to their junk. Thus, your “junk” has to be intriguing and catchy as you’ll see with the theme I created in order to enthrall the girl.
Most importantly- to reiterate guys- Always end the chat prematurely as you’ll see me do! When the girl gets really invested and engaged [the hook point]: that’s when you end the convo on her! People don’t expect you to end things when the vibe is great! That is how soap operas hook women: the episode ends when the show reaches its apex and the vibe is captivating. That’s what you want to do with girls: end it when they are totally bought in and hooked!
Hopefully from this post, you losers would quit inboxing me about how to start and carry conversation with a girl for the 1st time on FB.
Also, in the meantime, you can grab a copy of my guide to picking up random girls (or girls whom you already know) on Facebook, and any other social-media site.

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#Part1 #Part2ToCome

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