“Ask Me Politely”!

Another social-media [Facebook] post of mines from about a week ago:

So last night, I lazily hit this chick up who WAS on my friend list (until I deleted her last night).

I lazily tried to get her #. And the reason I keep stressing “Lazily” is because I didn’t use much Game nor my usual finesse whenever I attempt to # close [get a girl’s digits]. So basically, it was a dry attempt. 

Nevertheless, what irked me was the girl’s response to me trying to get her #.

She used the adverb “POLITELY”.

Politely is a synonymous with Nicely. 

Essentially, this chick was trying to say that in order for me to get her digits, I had to ask Politely. 

I then told her what I told her on that note (as you’ll see). 

Fact is, I take real offense to women attempting to Beta-ize me, i.e. getting me to conform to their idea of how a man should go about doing things. 

Now, if a girl tells me, “Kenny, you’re not going to get my # because you didn’t ask nicely”, last thing on my mind is to then “ask” her politely. 

That is definitely an attempt by a woman to essentially neuter me. Now, you may not see it that way, and you may very well be under the impression that I’m overreacting here, but I just don’t take light to women and demands, commands and anything that threatens my freedom to say what I wanna.

At the end of the day, you never want to put yourself in a situation where you lose major dominance points while tryna court women.

Also bear in mind that women aren’t attracted to men who cave and submit. And I don’t mean this in a sense of ordering pizza and you cave to the girl’s suggestion of getting pepperoni instead of anchovies.

I’m speaking to much significant cases which have the potential to ruin your chances with women, such as a girl telling you to apologize for telling her that she has a nice ass or something among that line.

You don’t want to cave at such moments, or else the chick will surely lose interest.

With the girl above, had I caved and asked her politely for her digits, 2 things might have happened:

1.) She gives me her # by loses attraction and respect for me

2.) She refuses to cough up her # for the simple fact that I submitted to a woman (to her) and that made me appear weak as fuck!

By all means, this set was winable for me even though I didn’t apologize and asked nicely.

I could’ve simply continued the chat and went for the phone # again (without asking politely). But I was so ticked off that I really didn’t want to bother.

On a final note; polite and nice kill attraction!

That is the ultimate takeaway here.

Women love men who are untamed, rude/rudish who don’t conform to what they (women) claim they want!

You Have Nothing To Lose…But Time Itself!

Every now and then, I find it of paramount importance to revisit the topic of escalation and its rationale in seduction.

If you aren’t privy to PUA parlance: “Escalation” simple means (as the word implies) to make sexual advances upon the target/girl.


There you go!

Simple as ever! 🙂

The thing is that most guys outside of the seduction/pickup arena dread mostly about escalation, is the fear of possible backlash of getting shut and shot down.

This ‘fear’ keeps most guys paralyzed in check. Thus they never attempt to escalate. Or they do so (escalate) way too late in the game, after having wasted weeks, months and often times YEARS, pining away at that 1 fetishized girl!

Perhaps since I’ve attained master-seducer status, it is easy for me to say and do [“escalate fast”].

However, I’ve been there also, to where I would spend months on end, hanging out and hoping to get into this 1 girl’s panties, but I was just too afraid to pull the trigger; afraid of rejection…essentially!

During those 9 months worth of time wasted on 1 girl- in theory- I could’ve been shagging 9+ other girls.

It is for this reason [saving valuable time] the seduction community, myself included, strongly advocate a “no waste of time approach” towards getting laid.

The only thing you have to lose by manning up and attempting to make a move on women (be it on the date, Netflix and Chillin’, etc.), is time itself!

You want to do this early as possible (risking it)!

The sooner a girl genuinely rejects you; the better (time saved)!

You can move on to someone else who’ll possibly be down with your program.

However, it is totally illogical to spend a month in a girl’s company (without going for it), to then get rejected…after 2 months of anticipation of making a move (physical escalation) on her.

You could’ve saved yourself the frikkin’ time by going for it on the 1st. date!

If she rejects your advances, you can always try again on follow-up dates or rendezvous.

On that note: get rejected early. Not late(r)!

Women Are Sexually Frustrated Too!

I get girls all the time who randomly send me nudes without me asking.

This chick right here is a Jamaican girl whom I hooked up with a while back. It was a 1-off and the sex sucked ass!

She’s now back in Jamaica for a while and is sexually frustrated and “horny as a tied dog” [as they would say in the Caribbean]!!!

What does this goes to show? Although women LOVE sex; they aren’t getting cock on a regular basis as you may want to think!

You may think this is contradictive…but it’s not!

Guys out there are NOT trying to get laid!

They are satisfied with playing the “I’m your friend” role, while girls just want to fuck!

This girl here is a perfect example.

She’s horny as hell, but doesn’t have in mind any guy whom she sees worthy of fucking.

Hence, she sends me nudes and wants to sext…even though she’s across waters in another country/island.

[My texts in green]

On 1 hand as I regularly preach to you guys:

•Women have gazillions of options in guys in whom to fuck!

On the other hand:

•Women hardly utilize those options by fucking them!

Hypothetically speaking- albeit realistic as this is for most women- let us say that Tiffany, an average Jane, knows 10 guys who would want to shag her.

Of those 10 guys, Tiff would realistically only sleep with a minuscule 1-2%: which means 1 or 2 of the 10 guys.

It is for this reason why most girls are sexually frustrated and pent-up. They have all the options in the world, but they will only develop a fuck-buddy type of situation with guys whom they deem are sex-worthy. And those guys are generally hard to come by.

With that, tons of women are faced with a contradicting quagmire: tons of guys want to fuck them. But they (women) only want to fuck a selected few. If those guys- the few- are out of reach (as I am to this girl), women will generally boycott sex altogether while opting out for masturbation, sexting and trading nudes.

Backwards Rationalization By Women In Seduction

Hey guys, been real real busy over the past 2 weeks, but I’ve not yet fallen off the planet. 🙂

Here’s a quick post (to my social-media account) which dates back a week or so.

So I’m finally meeting up with the Spanish chick (Puerto Rican) tonight (at her place) whom I’d picked up about a week ago on Facebook.

What’s interesting about this chat exchange is how just as the vast majority of women would, she hits me with “don’t come with any expectation”…i.e. expecting sex.

This is typical in seduction where the girl says/done something ahead of ti me to where she can claim backwards rationalization as her way of escaping culpability and blame.

In simpler terms; because she tells me in essence that we’re not having sex. Let’s say sex does happen (which it usually does in such cases), she can then claim that she wasn’t guilty of pushing for sex- because after all- she said “don’t expect sex”.

Just 1 of those psychological games women play.
[Her txts in white]

Whenever a girl tells you, “don’t think we’re doing anything if you come over”, or, “I don’t have sex before the 10th. date”, it isn’t for you to get flustered, discombobulated and thrown off of your game.

It is standard-operational procedures in the minds of women.

Therefore, just hear it, ignore it and proceed as though she never uttered those words…or typed those texts.

On a final note, a girl will almost always seek to escape blame for her sexual desires (which speaks to Backward Rationalization in her mind). So when or if it goes down, she can always say, “I played a passive role in things since I didn’t even want to have sex in the first place”…although such assertion on her part would’ve been disingenuous.

Last Night’s Field Report In Escalation Theory

Allow me to set this up by firstly citing a social-media post of mines from last night.

So I thought the 19 year old Latina chick had flaked on me since she didn’t reply to my messages for the evening. So I went back home, took my clothes off, unwind and forgot about it…until she hit me up not long ago…after I thought she flaked.

On my way to her crib now. Putting on some clothes fast as fuck!

As a reminder guys; I had picked this girl up on FB about a week ago.
[My texts in green]

About a week back, I picked up a 19 year old Latina on Facebook. Last night, she invited me over to her casa to watch a movie (this of course was upon my suggestion, leading and Game).

Since she took so long to reply to my messages yesterday evening, I swore she had flaked on me….until she contacted me eventually.

[My messages in green]

[On my way over to her place]

As I mentioned on my Facebook after the rendezvous, I didn’t get the lay, and there were various reasons for that which I’ll get into in a subsequent post.

Essentially, this was a Netflix & Chill rendezvous with all the escalation theory of how to get intimate with a girl.

On that note, I leave you with the post-date breakdown post from last night.

So the quasi- Day2 rendezvous @ the chick’s casa just concluded.

It didn’t end in a lay, and that is just how it goes at times. There are always existential reasons for that.

Additionally, I always hearken back to Mystery’s 7 hour timeline/rule, and how true it is in majority of cases.

This was my 1st time meeting with her, I had only spent about an hour and a half with her (watching a horror flick), so in the grand scheme of things, that is quite premature for sex while sober to go down. Additionally, there was another obstacle; she has a sister who was in a nearby bedroom. Bad for fuck logistics.

In spite of that, I escalated rapidly as usual! Within 5-10 minutes there sitting beside each other @ a table, my arm was around shoulder and her neck, caressing her shoulder, neck, nape of the neck and light brushes across her earlobe. Meanwhile, my other hand/fingers were running up and down her arm (bare skin), stroking her fingers, etc. Sensual and slow escalation…but kicked off rapidly!

In any case, there were lots of keynote moments of Game/Seduction importance, which I’ll write more about shortly.

We’re set to meet up again tomorrow evening.

On a final note guys; when meeting up with a girl, escalate rapidly! But not desperately and hurriedly, but nonchalantly…but rapidly as I did tonight.

The lay may not materialize the same night (for various reasons), but you want to leave giving the girl the impression that you have a dick and are willing to use it! This will almost always be an encouraging sign for the girl to want to see you again, opposed from if you didn’t escalate and got friendzoned!

Bilingual Pull…A Brief Field Report

A quoted social-media post of mines:

Went to grab pancake and sausage but walked out with a Cuban GILF’s digits. People ask me all the time about picking up older women (MILF and GILF), with the impression that it’s difficult. But that’s a discussion for another time.

Quick little infield from earlier today (around 8:30 am) while looking some breakfast from a pancake spot.

For the hell of it, and since my order was about 10-15 minutes from being ready, I decided to chat up the MILF/GILF who was behind the counter.

Since I’m a boobs-guys, and her melons were on somewhat on display; I was encouraged even more to spit some game and grab the phone #.

However, the grand takeaway I want to highlight is this: “If You Want To Easily Pick Up Spanish Girls; Learn Spanish”!!! And that goes for any language for that matter! If you fancy Russian chicks: then learn Russian!! There is literally zero downsides to learning how to pick up girls in their native language!

As a bonus, you will have indirectly impressed the girl without even trying to impress her with your language skills. A HUGE DHV when you could interact with a chick in her 1st. language!!!

I LOVE Latinas…hence I learned Spanish years ago as means of shortcutting and cheating my way to Spanish poon!

On a side note: I’m actually big on picking up MILF’s and GILF’s. I have a thing for older women. So it all makes sense.

Lastly, what I really wish to emphasize apart from the obvious [language], is the Game Anywhere, Anytime Mentality! Always be in Pick-Up mode! I call this being in state…perpetually! You could be not “in state” but still mentally equipped to chat up women.

Case in point, instead of standing around like a mute dodo; chat up that chick @ the bus stop waiting as you are! More time spent chatting to women in general (hot or not, slim, fat, white, black, green, short, tall, young, granny…) the quicker you become GREAT at being a social machine and a Pick-Up Artist!

So that was the grand lesson here from this Latina GILF pickup this morning.

Additionally, having good game is GREAT! But learning how to carry a not-so-boring conversation is all you need to pick up chicks regularly. And again; it makes your job 10 times easier if you desire to pull women who don’t speak good English…as this GILF.

I cannot begin to count the amount of times I pulled the robbery of a Latina from some dude who didn’t know a lick of Spanish. Additionally, I’ve slept with many Latinas who would otherwise not have given me the time of day since they didn’t know a word of English, etc.

Needless to say, this entire video clip is in Spanish. So you may not know what’s being said. But the most important thing is everything I mentioned above. BTW, we chatted for about 20 minutes before I went for the # exchange. I texted her later on (earlier via WhatsApp), adhering to my method of contacting the girl same day while the attraction is there!

I intended to post the video here of the pickup (all in Spanish). But because all of it is in Spanish, it doesn’t quite have meaning to an English-speaking audience.

In any case, hopefully my point was receiver saliently.

Having some knowledge of the language in which the women you’re attracted to speak, is just a no-brainer as far as its rationale and potency.

Here’s an old video of mines where I speak about this.

Quick Example Of Token Resistance And How To Handle It

This is an example of “Token Resistance”, where the girl wants to fuck you so badly, but the logical side of her brain fights with the Reptilian side of her brain [the Hind Brain].

She wants to fuck! But she knows it isn’t rational because I’m a total stranger. 

When a girl gives you this sort of resistance; you don’t fight it!

You counter it by feigning agreement. But then you strategically plow via a state of contradiction. On 1 hand (verbally), I agree with her, that we should essentially take it slow. But on the other hand, I plow and conduct myself as though we should rush!

Doing so will confuse her logical-thought pattern, throwing her off while advancing the meet up for sex!

[Her messages in white]

She Just Wants To Know That You Won’t Slut Shame Her…Part I

The following status posted to my social media:

At the end of the day; a woman just wants to know that you won’t slut shame her once you fucked her. She wants to know that she can trust that you won’t spill the beans. And she wants to know that she can trust that you won’t judge her poorly for wanting to hook up.

So the Spanish chick [Puerto Rican] whom I’d posted about earlier (of our chat last night), we went on to chitchat today. As usual, my goal is to fuck. So I don’t waste time chitchatting to girls about the weather. It’s all about the logistics!

On that note, the convo went from she telling me that she cannot fuck me, to then begging me for dick pix/nudes.

I invited her to my crib later on. But she declined, saying that she doesn’t go to guy’s cribs, plus she’ll be busy. She then went on to say that she basically wants me to come to her crib instead…but it’ll have to be between 1-3 A.M.

Lots of psychology here in this chat from this morning between this 19 year old hotties and me.

Again- trust and being nonjudgmental are big for women!

This chick also claims that she only slept with 1 dude in her life! I wanted to doubt her. But thinking of her age (only being 19); it may be factual. 🙂

Anyway guys; if all goes according to plan, I’ll be seeing her tonight between 1-3 AM…tomorrow I should say.

Check out the chat from this morning, and take not of everything I mentioned…particularly how she harps on trust, being discreet and confidential and how guys talk too much. And also watch how I play it (positioning myself as being discreet by putting the burden on her).

Also note how she blatantly said she doesn’t want a relationship with me. She just wants to fuck…or “explore” as she puts it! 😉

Remind you; she’s 19 (just turned 19) and I’m a 35 year old OLD MAN, balding and graying. But it doesn’t fucking matter! Looks don’t matter!

Here’s the chatlog.

[Her messages in white]

[Her messages in white]

[My texts in green]

[My texts in green]

[Her txts in white]

[Her txts in white]

[My txts in green]

[My txts in green]

[Her txts in white]

[My txts in green]

[Her txts in white]

[My txts in green]

Example Of Using Your Social-Media Posts As A DHV (Demonstration of Higher Value]

I posted this post a few days ago:

Just a little testament to how powerful it is when you use Facebook as a DHV (Demonstration of High Value), and when you come off as this reckless, carefree, adventurous, sexual and sleazy guy (through your posts)!

So this chick here, I added her to FB few weeks back, with the intention to eventually game her, get the digits, set up a rendezvous and to fuck her (per usual).

What made me decide to actually get on the offense now is that she’s accustomed to posting provocative pics. And she and I usually go back and forth on her posts.

In any case, it’s apparent that she digs my forward style (as all women do), so it was easy as fuck for me to get her # and give her mines via Messenger (with no game) as I did few days ago.

She went on to hit me up on Whatsapp; a sign that I took as a blatant indication that she wants to fuck me! Remember what I teach you guys; take everything that a woman does towards you to mean that she wants to fuck you! Let her prove you wrong if it isn’t so!!!

Anyway, so we are currently trying to hammer out a Netflix and Chill rendezvous @ my place for the weekend.

Since she has a boyfriend [as all sane women do], she has to find a way to maneuver him in order to safely come Netflix and Fuck me. I meant “Chill” with me! 😉

I harp a ton on using your online posts as means to attracting girls.

With this chick- as is the case with every girl I pull via social media- I firstly attracted her and got her interested by the stuff I regularly post.

I’d promised a while back that I would put together a product which will have included 50-100 statuses of mines that catch the attention of women.

However, being so busy in the field of pickup and dating, completing the product has been stalled until further notice.