Hired-Gun Pull…The Forced Karaoke Dilemma

Fact of the matter is, I don’t game bartenders [hired-guns], thus I rarely ever do pick them up.

My few bartender pulls throughout my pick-up career had occurred outside of my knowledge (unbeknownst to me that those girls were bartenders).

Two reasons why I’m not in favor of gaming bartenders (on the job):

1.) Girls in the service industry are already predisposed to the idea of guys swarming them and hitting on them. Thus they become desensitized and rather jaded from being hit on by clueless drunk guys while at work. They also build up a quasi-resistance against it (being hit on at work)

2.) These girls are so pedestalized, idolized and fetishized by AFC’s (average guys), that every guy who approaches them, by a process of automation, is tossed into the “he thinks I’m a goddess” basket. So a guy like myself who doesn’t put any woman on any pedestal, is forced to strategize differently.

Due to those 2 precarious positions, trying to pick up a bartender (on her job) is a delicate undertaking. So the deck is already staked against you once you enter such an arena. But make no mistakes about it: they are paid to be friendly and courteous to you by giving fake IOI’s (Indication Of Interest).

Notwithstanding that, last week Thursday, I decided to game and pick up a bartender at a karaoke joint.

Note: when picking up bartenders, always use Indirect Game.

I’m huge on Indirect Game to begin with. But it’s more so required when attempting to pick up girls whom are constantly bombarded with male attention (which is virtually every girl for that matter).

Here’s a video clip from me doing just that (Indirect Game), and end up catching the bartender outside where I grabbed her phone # after minutes of token resistance to giving me her #.


That was also a lesson in persistence.

Why did she resist when it came to coughing up her digits? Was it because I’m so repulsively ugly? 🙂


Again: hired-guns (bartenders among them) are accustomed to desperate men begging for their number.

What separated me from the pack is that I didn’t laud her with praises, I didn’t put her on a pedestal, I treated her like a bratty little sister, and I was dominant at the same time.

Surely she still gave token resistance. But eventually coughed up the # once she realized how persistent I was.

That was last Thursday.

Note: whenever I get a girl’s #, either then and there, or later on, I would add her on Facebook.

This is pretty much an automatic process.

Why do I do this?

Facebook DHV’s me as I’ve pointed out numerous times in the past.

My Facebook is a set up in a way to attract women by showing them how cool, original and provocative I am.

Thus, my social media posts are like the perfect wingmen which compliment my game. So if a woman whom I’d just picked up isn’t too keen or sold on me, my Facebook usually seals that deal.

During the week now, I hit her up on Messenger, saying something to the effect of “since it’s cold, we should grab a coffee”.

This Thursday now (last Thursday), I met up with her at the karaoke joint at where she works.

She tried to force me to sing…but it wasn’t happening.

I filmed her while she sang before the karaoke session was officially on.

When it comes to gaming bartenders, 1 of the things I do is to hit the establishment early when not much people are there so I can get some time with the girl.

That’s exactly what I did there, and we were virtually alone for like 30 minutes with the occasional patron coming and going before the venue started to amass people.

In any case, this is an ongoing seduction on which I’ll update you guys.

My next move is to get her outside of the confines of her work environment.

Always remember that when a bartender is at work, or in that environment, she’s effectively in work mode. Which means nearly everything she gives you would’ve been faked.

To my credit though, because I’m a master seductionist, I was able to get her to genuinely open up and shed her work persona when we goofed around while she was cuing up the karaoke thingamajig.

Also, because I’ve had innumerable amounts of experiences and interactions with innumerable amounts of women, I learned to develop the skill set of being able to spot fake IOI’s from women. So I’m able to discern genuine smile from the “I’m being nice to him just to get him to buy more drinks and tip me big” smile.

Anyway fellaz, I’ll keep you posted on this ongoing seduction.

Lots more interesting posts to come!

“I Don’t Do Social Media/Tinder/Online-Dating Sites”: Trick To Easily Getting A Girl’s Phone Number…Online [Examples From Cassidy Sinatra]iuI

There’s a little trick which I use sparingly over the years in order to force a girl to give me her phone number.

Last night, a buddy of mines, fellow PUA coach (Cassidy Sinatra), posted the following screenshots to his Facebook.

I was shocked to see that he used the exact same format which I used a time or 2 in the past. Pay close attention to the very last screenshot.

See what he did there?

“I don’t so social media…”.

That’s the trick!

Simple, wasn’t it?

For instance, when a girl suggests connecting on (another) social-media site, you can always say to her, “I don’t do social media like that”.

The same can be said when meeting girls on online-dating sites and they suggest or hint at following each other on social media, or adding each other on Facebook. Simply say, “I don’t do Facebook”. Or, “I don’t have a Facebook”.

You get the point, right?

Whenever I’d done this in the past (chatting up a girl on Facebook), this was the format used:

Me: “Hey, by the way, I’m rarely ever on Facebook. I literally check my messages once every 2 months. So…it’s best we exchange numbers”.

This doesn’t have to be factual 1 bit! The point is, you want to propel the girl into coughing up her number through fear of losing you.

By saying to the girl, “I don’t do Facebook”, or, “I don’t do Tinder. Don’t know how longer I would be on here”, you force her hand (proverbially).

Now, there’s a little catch to this. I think “catch” is the wrong word, so bear with me.

In order for this to work for you, you would’ve needed to attract the girl on some level before telling her you don’t do this or that, and you’d want her # instead.

For instance, if your text game sucks ass, there’s no chance in hell that you could successfully use this trick to get the girl to cough up her digits.

She will simply laugh at you and keep it moving.

Hence, the success of this simple trick is relevant only to the amount of perceived value the girl has for you.

This (perceived value and attraction) can be sparked solely by having a solid opener and an interesting follow-up sequence.

For example; you cannot do the following and expect to get the girl’s number.

You: “Hi”

Girl: “Hi”

You: “How are you”?

Girl: “Good”

You: “You are beautiful”

Girl: “Thank you”

You: “You have a boyfriend”?

Girl: “Single”

You: “I don’t usually use Facebook. kinda tired of it actually. Let’s exchange number’s instead”.

That is terrible text game! Ironically, that is how most guys kick off their conversations.

Now, here’s how you should do it (as an example) in order to create attraction, interest and value for the quick number-close trick.

You: “They say girls from your city don’t know how to have fun. You seem quite fun to me”

Girl: “LOL why do they say that? My first time hearing that. And yes I’m fun”

You: “Screw them. We don’t need to address the naysayers. Since you’re fun and I’m fun, let’s become fun buddies”

Girl: “LOL. Fine. That sounds interesting”

You: “By the way, I don’t do social media. It’s kinda annoying getting tons of messages per day on here, so I won’t be logging on for a while. Let’s exchange #’s instead”.

That’s how you do it.

You open with an interesting opener, get the girl engaged and laughing, which builds interest and attraction, and then you go for the # close via the “trick”.

Did you see there difference there between the 2 mock dialogues?

The one (in red) was bland, boring and typical of every AFC chode online.

The 2nd mock dialogue is what you should aim for.

If you look back at the screenshots above from Sinatra, you would see how and why he was able to get the girl’s #.

Now, just as I mentioned at the top of the post: I don’t usually close that fast by using this little trick. It is something that I’ve done years ago [telling the girl I don’t use this or that platform so let’s exchange #’s].

However, there are ample situations where and when I could’ve opened solidly, charm the girl up, then go straight for the number while telling the girl that I don’t do Facebook/social media.

In any case, if you wish to utilize this “trick” in order to get the girl’s phone #, it can be done on any platform: social media or online-dating site.

Another Easy Online Pickup [Forgotten Girls]

I’m sure you remember the following interaction (the opener) which I posted some weeks back in order to demonstrate how to open total strangers online with sexualized comments.

I’d totally forgotten about that girl. But that interaction had continued. So here’s the complete dialogue.

[Her messages in gray]

Above screenshot: since telling her I would message her back sometime after Christmas, I purposely waited until the 2nd of January to appear non-needy. So that’s why she said she was waiting since boxing day.

By the way, she’s not fat. But I used that line as a Neg when I made mention of her gaining 70 lbs. over the holiday.

[Her texts in gray]

Screenshot above: I dropped some sexual innuendos when I said to her that she could burn off the calories by doing something besides exercise (i.e. sex).

From that comment, I was setting a sexual frame. Essentially, I was letting her know that my intentions are of a sexual nature, and not just to become text buddies.

Note: never compliment a hot girl on her beauty. So, how did I compliment her? On her humor, and the fact that she enjoys a good laugh. My compliment also had a greater impact when I mentioned that it’s kinda rare to come across a girl with a combination of looks and humor (though I never directly mentioned looks).

In any case, I went straight to the point: to meet up. FYI: I always keep my dwelling place vague as I’d pointed out in numerous posts. Girls generally get mixed messages on my location. Some think I live in their town. Others think I live out of the country completely (outside of the Caribbean region that is). Why do I do this? To create an air of mystery surrounding myself. So I told this chick that I usually come to her side of the island biweekly- when in fact- I live on her side of the island.

[Her messages in gray]

Screenshot above: she verified that she doesn’t work on weekends (nights). So that is perfect for logistics. Lately, I’ve been coming across lots of women who work nightly on weekends. So this was refreshing to say the least.

I then told her where my hostel’s (guest house) located, and she’s familiar with the area.

Screenshot above: the thing is, I never grabbed her # from the last we spoke. So I messaged her today [January 16th] and got the easy number.

In any case, that was just another example of an easy-breezy pickup of a total stranger over Facebook.

I’d forgotten about her honestly since I picked up so many other chicks prior to her.

Easy Guide To Picking Up Girls On Facebook

How To Captivate And Hold A Random Girl’s Attention [Online]

Interesting convo and how to carry it

There are few notable sticking-points that most guys have. Most notably is the lack of conversational skills.

What do I mean?

Most guys don’t know how to spark nor carry interesting conversation.

You’ve seen me do this time after time, getting a girl’s attention and keeping it for the duration.

Like I mentioned in the previous article, you must bear in mind that women have short attention spans and they suffer from ADHD (attention deficiency).

What this means is that any little external stimulation is liable of hijacking their attention away from you- and “POOF”- you’re done!

With that, when I get guys asking me, “why is it impossible for me to get and hold a girl’s attention online”, the reasons are 2 folds:

1.) Women have short attention spans.

2.) You aren’t giving them enough stimulation through your conversation, game, or whatever have you.

Therefore, the solution to this problem men face is to provide stronger and harder stimulation by registering hard on the girl’s radar!

You have to captivate her attention firstly, within your opener/ice-breaker/first message.

Saying, “hi sweetheart, you look beautiful”, isn’t fucking going to captivate the girl’s attention because she’s accustomed to hearing that lame-ass shit!

Sure she may reply- initially (out of respect and social politeness) with a pitiful “thank you”- but she’ll blow you off right afterwards by ignoring your 2nd message.

Hence, getting a girl’s attention is paramount to getting the girl.

If you can’t get and keep her attention then you have no shot!

In this post, I will show you how to achieve just that by adhering to my text-game format.

If you’ve been here for any time now, and read a post or 2, you would have been privy to my texting format and how I get girls hooked and instantly chasing me.

Here’s the deal and the trick: strike hard!

What do I mean?

Your initial message to the girl on social media or any online-dating site, should be of shock value!

The only how your initial message could be a bland one, yet still register on the girl’s radar, is if you already possess social value in her eyes (usually from your online posts or profile bio). In such a case, your initial message doesn’t have to pack a punch.

This is why on the rare occasion, you would see me open a girl in a blandish sort of way as you seen me do with the MILF in the previous post.

I opened blandly because I would’ve already established myself (through my status updates) as a rockstar. So there would have been no real need to shock the girl with my initial message.


Hope I didn’t confuse you guys there.

In any case, it is the safer bet for you to open the girl with something eye-catching and or eyebrow-raising.

This begs the questions: “but Kenny, why should I break the ice in such a manner”?

As I mentioned previously, since most girls have the attention span of an ant, and they respond to colorful stimuli, you have to make a fucking impact with your initial inbox, DM, etc!

That is why!

Moreover, bear in mind that chicks are being inundated by the second with tons of messages from all sorts of guys!

Ninety-eight percent of those initial messages will have constituted lameness, thus ignored!

With that in mind, that is why your initial message has to stand out from that of the generic lame’s, or else you run the risk of being flat-out ignored!!!

I made a point of this before- perhaps 3 years ago- that hardly any of my initial messages on social media goes unnoticed and ignored by women!

Ninety-nine percent of my initial messages are reciprocated!!!!

Isn’t that astonishing!?

Why so? Because I strike hard, thus registering hard and high on the girl’s proverbial radar!

Hence, my messages cannot go unanswered since they pack such an intriguing punch!

Your message gets ignored because it shows up as a mere blip in the galaxy of trillions of other faint blips. So you want an explosion and not a blip! And this is where the pick-up community comes in, and why we emphasis so ardently on the topic of openers/breaking the ice.

To be more clearer here, by “opening hard”, I am not necessarily saying that your opener/ice-breaker has to be provocative and shock-and-awe as some of my openers are.

You want to grab the girl’s attention by saying something that she might not have heard or seen before.

In such a case you instantly stand out from the crowd.

Your opener can be cute, amusing, humorous, somewhat insulting or a mixture of the aforementioned. Just as long as it’s different!

Before I proceed, here are some random examples of me breaking the ice (over Facebook) with total strangers whom I went on to picking up.

There you have it.

Those are some examples of how to grab a girl’s attention online.

Your opener doesn’t have to be eye-catching. But your follow-up lines must be eyebrow-raising as you seen me demonstrate.

Moreover, your opener should consist of humor. It doesn’t have to, but it’s the safer bet until you become calibrated enough to get away with outright provocativeness and bluntness.

In any case, by following my method of breaking the ice as a template (if not verbatim at times), you will have realized maximum returns (return messages) on your investments (sent messages).

However, that is just the beginning!

It is 1 thing to hijack the girl’s attention to have her returning your messages. But it’s another thing to KEEP her there and engaged long enough for a pull (a pickup, i.e. secured phone number).

The problem with most men is that they are boring to a fault! As a result of that, their messages [essentially their Game] are pitifully boring and sleep-inducing, hence the reason they get ignored 99% of the time when trying to message a stranger online.

Although you’re dead tired of hearing me repeat this again and again, I must do so- again and again- in hopes that it sticks. So what is that? Women have short attention spans!

They are easily distracted! Thus, your messages- initial, and your follow-up messages- MUST be attention-grabbing enough to keep women engaged and invested!

The best way to achieve this after you would have opened, is to use humor and wittiness!!!

Check back the screenshots above of me opening dozens of girls.

After I’d successfully opened, got an initial response, I managed to keep the girl’s attention and focus by being funny, witty and or shocking (usually all 3 in concert).

Low stimulation will not keep a person interested!

You don’t stick around watching a boring movie to the end if you’re at liberty of simply switch channels!

Likewise, if your messages are boring and they don’t stimulate the girl’s attention, there’s no reason for her to stay! And she won’t! She will simply change the channel by ignoring you in search of something stimulating.

This is why jumping into a girl’s inbox with, “hi beautiful”, will almost always get you ignored. Even more pathetic is saying “hi” alone.

Additionally, the hotter the girl, the more attention-grabbing and provocative your initial message should be.

In any case as I said, a good opener as the ones I outlined, needs to be followed up by stimulating dialogue.

You cannot foolishly continue to go from attention-grabbing opener to “can I get your number”, within 1 swoop!

That is the other problem faced by guys who get a hold of some good and creative openers from me. They bank on the opener alone, get flat-out ignored afterwards, then blame me (the opener, or any other instructor) for their dismal strikeout.

In this post however, I won’t waste valuable time posting a how-to of picking up a girl online when there are dozens upon dozens of articles on this blog with screenshots and dialogue galore on picking up chicks on social media and online-dating sites.

This post was merely intended to open your eyes to the most common pitfalls you may encounter, why, and how to nuke them!

Thus from now on, when looking to capture the attention of women online, always keep at the frontal cortex of your brain: constant stimulation!

I’ll leave you with a great example of how to carry conversation with this article of mines on Mid-Game

For 1 of my favorite opener which I’d originated; you may want to Check This

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