The Secret World Of Sex, Mating And Cheating Women + Why Women Check Out Other Women With The “Evil Eye”!

The “evil eye”?

“WTH is that all about Kenny”!?

Ok- I’ll be the first to admit that the titling of this article is a tad-bit exaggerative [what an oxymoron]. But, the way in which most chicks check out other chicks, you can almost sense the disdain if you were to really become an observant of the sexes like I am.

Last night while at the bar running some usual night-game, I posted the following screenshotted status to Facebook.



Ok, couldn’t get any plainer!

The fact is; women check out other women way more often than men do!

You have some women who are super stealthy about it [just as some men].

On the other hand, you have your portion of women who are openly threatened by competition, so the least of their concerns is to adhere to social norms by not “STARING” at others.

Now, as my fellow seductionists have well pointed out as seen in the screenshots, the reason why women watch, stare and check out other women, boils down to 3 main factors:

1.) Competition

2.) Threat to her survival and replication value

3.) Inadequacy

I’ve always been aware of this “hidden” jealousy which women harbor towards each other. But last night while at the bar- this shit was somewhat surreal!

As if I had a magnifying apparatus glued to my face, I was noticing as every newly arrived girl entered the venue, the ones who were already there would stare, watch and point: some more blatant than others.

For clarity sake, I’m not speaking of girls staring other girls in the eye in combative fashion.

I’m talking about apparent-heterosexual girls breaking their necks trying to watch other girls’ asses as they saunter by.

If you were the average guy and you took note of this, you would surmise that these girls were Lesbians on the prowl trying to size up their female targets.

As a master seducer who had studied women under his proverbial microscope, I am well aware that these “looks and stares” are products of things much deeper and meaningful…like survival and replicative value in the sense of competition.

Women feel threatened whenever faced with potential competitors via other women.

Men to an extent have the same tendencies, especially since we are very territorial and protective by nature.

However, the stark difference here is that a man would behave that way when trying to guard his girl from potential preys via Alpha-Males who are hovering around the nightclub looking for a weaker guy’s girlfriend to pounce down upon.

Hence, for a man to feel a sense of competition, threat and rivalry from other men in a venue: is a totally different story…and plausible!

In the case of women now, they aren’t necessarily guarding their men from other women as to why they feel threatened, hence they watch other women with the “evil eye”. They are threatened by competition in other women, even though there may be no guy involved to whom they can stake thier claims.

Moreover, in the pickup world, we talk about survival and replication ad nauseum.

“What is that, and what does it have to do with women checking out other women’s asses”?

Well, it isn’t just ass-watching that women engage in when it comes to sizing up rivals.

They also check for boobs, hips, lips, facial affectations and attractiveness, blemishes, spots, scaring, etc.

There are also cultural variations just to be exact. The “ass-watching” [women watching other women’s asses] is more prevalent in black communities than others, where more emphasis of attraction value is placed upon buttox sizes [the bigger and wider the better], and girls with bigger asses are seen as more attractive [even if they has a shitty face]. Hence, they present more of a competition and threat to girls who aren’t that stacked in the trunk [this is in black societies].

This is not the case in communities such as Orientals for instance. Ass sizes don’t play a role in replication and mating value, neither in what a man finds to be the epitome of attractiveness and sex appeal within Oriental societies.

Likewise in white societies. The emphasis isn’t much on “ASS” but face.

White guys generally prefer a cuter face. Hence, a white girl living in a white community, is likely to feel more threatened by a cuter girl entering the bar. Whereas a black girl living in a black community, won’t pay much attention to the girl’s face, but her buttox in comparison to hers.

Other existential factors are things such as lips, outfit, grace, the manner in which a girl walks, her hair, hairdo, hair color [blonde-brunette], eyes, makeup, etc.

Those things are keenly noticed and noted by women whenever other women [potential rivals] enter a bar or nightclub.

You also have breast sizes which present a serious challenge from girl to girl.

“Are her boobs bigger than mines”?

“Are they as buoyant and perky, or sagging somewhat”?

Women scan for all these things!

They have to [at least they think they do]!

Her chances of mating, finding a mate, child-bearing [replication] and finding someone who can protect her [survival value], she feels to herself, are all in jeopardy once a so-called “hotter” girl shows up.

Now, this is all happening [feeling of threat, loss and competition] on a sub-conscious and unconscious level.

Women are NOT consciously aware of this…until they read my blog of course. πŸ˜‰

These feelings occur behind the scenes; beneath her level of consciousness.

I mean, share this startling piece of information with any girl [that women check out other women because of fear/threat to mating], and watch her deny that this even occurs to the top of the mountain!

Again; it isn’t that she’s lying or living in naivetΓ©.

She simply just doesn’t fucking know because these things occur outside of her awareness!

Hence, this will be news flash to her just as it might be to you guys who are reading this article right now.

Moreover, whenever a girl goes out- on the surface level [consciously that is]- it is to “have fun”.

She consciously rationalizes the decision to “go out” to mean enjoying herself with the girls and getting hammered.


What she doesn’t quite know, is that the agent which is actually driving her to want to go out [the secret propellant] is her innate desire to want to mate, breed [get pregnant] and survive [bearing kids means she lives on through them after she dies].

Secret Society of Mating, Pregnancy and Cheating

This is “Survival & Replication”!

It secretly drives every fucking girl’s motive!

Thus, if another girl threatens her chances of getting laid [this is what it is when you distill it all down], she will become catty, petty, gossipy and try to tear down the competition by devising some sneaky and crafty tactics such as pointing out something about the other girl which may possibly lower her chances of spoiling hers.

This is why girls talk about other girls so negatively.

Girl 1: “Look at her shoes! They don’t even go with that dress”! πŸ˜†

Girl 2: “Girl you’re right! And her hair color is so stupid! Which man would ever look at her”!?

As men; we never engage in such shenanigans! So the sexes, their modus operandi and their motives in life are totally different from each other!

Men and women are NOT the same! And I get royally annoyed as fuck whenever women say shit like:

“Men are like that too”! “Men do the same thing”!


We don’t have time to gossip about what the next man has on or how his shoes doesn’t match his shirt or any other meaningless chatter!

Men do not bring down the competition in such a way because it will come off as girly and insecure.

With women, it is about downing the competition at any cost because her life and survival depend on it!

If she doesn’t get impregnated sooner than later, she will have to face the dreaded menopause…which means death if she is childless and has no means to reproduce thereafter.

Hence, when you think about it that way: it is prudent and incumbent upon every woman to stoop low and play dirty in order to survive!

As for men, we can inseminate women up until the point of death. So we don’t [have to] operate from this paradigm of innate desperation as though we are on a time-clock of sorts.

Women are on the fucking time-clock!

Additionally, this is also the underlying reason why women cheat, and why they cheat way more than men do [contrary to popular belief].

She is in survival mode and trying to get impregnated as sooner and often as humanly possible!

The more sex opportunities with which she presents herself, and the more men she screws, the greater the chances of someone’s spermies fertilizing her egg.

Therefore, her inherent-motherly instincts can give a rat’s ass whether the girl is fucking 3 guys without condoms.

Survival instincts within a woman have not 1 iota of respect neither for health, diseases, maladies, STI’s nor confrontation!

The girl secretly yearns for those 3 men to inseminate her all during the same time period.

Moreover, this is why it is so easy to get a girl to cheat on her boyfriend, especially if he hasn’t yet impregnated her.

I posted a startling status to Facebook the other day which raised a lot of eyebrows where I declared that 96% of the girls I sleep with, all have boyfriends or are married.

Is this sheer coincidence?

Of course not!

To guys who lack the understanding of human and female biology in relation to mating; it is sheer coincidence that 96% of the girls Kenny sleeps with, are in committed relationships or marriage.

As for me: I fucking know better [I’ve learnt better; thanks to the gurus in the pickup community who first brought this information to my attention as a student in the game]!

Personally, I know this so-called ugly guy in his 30’s here on island who is infamous for impregnating his hot girlfriend every fucking cycle once her child-bearing period is available [every year that is]!

They have about 10 kids by now!

In hindsight: this guy is fucking smarter than 99% of us!

The only way to realistically keep a woman off of the dating market is by breeding her- and in effect- putting her out of commission…for a year.

She won’t [actively] look for stray dicks once she’s pregnant, because a woman is at her most unattractive while bearing a child.

Men simply won’t look at her because she’s already knocked-up, which means that the guy’s chances of breeding her at that moment, will have been impossible.

Thus, biologically- men aren’t attracted to her [apart from the rare guy who has a preggo-girl fetish…such as myself πŸ˜‰ ], nor physically attracted to her. So, she’s effectively knocked out of the mating and dating game by the guy who had knocked her up.

This is also the reason during pregnancy, why a woman is likely to chase her boyfriend away by giving him tons of shit in an attempt to rid herself of the guy who put her out of commission…though she got what her biological side wanted anyway; which was to get pregnant.

You guys who have no kids may not be able to relate. But when I got my GF pregnant for the first time about 6 years ago, she drove me crazy!

She resented me for getting her pregnant…though she was on board! But that doesn’t matter to the girl! She will resent you as the one who has her looking all fat and unattractive and ashamed to go outside!

My girlfriend broke up with me like 50 times- no fucking kidding- during her pregnancy!

I had the cops called on me [which was unwarranted], we had physical altercations where I was left scratched up trying to restrain her hands, etc! 😯

By the way; is this rare?


It is the norm!

Nevertheless, as for the ugly guy in my neighborhood who knocks up his super-hot GF every chance he gets: this guy was onto something, but I never had the chance to ask him the reason for knocking up his GF so frequently.

The reason is clear to me: he knows that the only way to keep his woman from cheating and off of the dating market, is to breed her out of commission like an animal!

The only window of opportunity another guy has of breeding/fucking her, is a very small window after she would have delivered. But this guy would get straight to work by knocking her up again, essentially closing that window on any other guy who may had wanted to intrude upon his territory to take his girl.

All in all; this is a mating game on both ends with both sexes!

Both males and females have an inherent desire to replicate and multiple via sex.

That is what we were put on Earth to do if you subscribe to religious ideologies.

We are essentially here to have babies!

Everything else apart from that essential function, is a mere whimsical enjoyment and meaningless frolic.

The only way to keep the human specie alive is to fuck and have babies!

Without that: we all die, and humans cease to exist again!

With this inner fear [human extinction by non-breeding] deeply hard-wired within every person [male and female], you should clearly understand now why women cheat [to breed] and why they dress the way they do [sexy] whenever they go out or simply to go to work.

You will have also understood why a girl wastes her time on social media talking shit about other chicks, “haters” who are trying to take her man and so forth.

She’s trying to eliminate actual or potential competition by berating them.

The more rivals she eliminates, the more men she has for the taking [or retaining hers], and the greater her chances for survival and replication.

In any case, are there any lessons to take away here as a guy?

I would say just the realization of how women operate and why they operate in such manner.

With understanding; you avoid misunderstandings.

If you knew why a woman acts the way she does [beyond her conscious control], then certain shit simply won’t faze nor affect you…at least not as much as if you were still ignorant to this.

Six years ago, though I was already well deep into the Pick-Up Artist lifestyle, my knowledge base about mating and relationship matters weren’t as deep.

I simply had no clue about what drives women, the biological and evolutionary aspects and so forth. So when my girlfriend got pregnant and immediately began to shun me and attempted to shut me out of her life; I simply didn’t understand why!

In my ignorance, I deemed her an evil bitch for that, and we clashed like it were World War III from month 1 to month 9 of the pregnancy!

Hence, again- with understanding- you will have avoided such headaches as I wasn’t able to do.

In hindsight, had I been privy to what I’m sharing with you now, I would’ve simply given my girlfriend space upon request, and dismissed her rudeness and public outbursts as byproducts of her being taken off the dating market to where she was left fat and unattractive and undesirable to other men.

I would’ve avoided ton loads of shit like public fights on the road and getting embarrassed as she throws 1 of her customary tantrums inside of a supermarket [“Get the hell away from me”]!

In retrospect; I laugh about it now that I since learned about the mating ritual through my own discoveries and experiences, along with what I learned many years ago from perusing the blogs of PUA’s who were way more knowledgeable than I was.

Hence, you won’t have to endure what I did once your girlfriend or wife goes crazy on you during pregnancy [like when she demands that you sleep on the couch]…and she will!!!

I mean, if you think women are bitchy, irritable and possessed while on their periods [which they are], multiply that bitchiness and demon-possessiveness by 20, and you’ll get an idea of how a pregnant girl behaves towards her significant other or the guy who knocked her up.

Towards everyone else; she will retain her normal giddy and charming personality.

Towards the guy who had knocked her up [whether boyfriend or husband]; she will have resembled something out of the Exorcist! 😯 😑 πŸ‘Ώ

Nevertheless, with understanding, you won’t ever have to endure this by clashing heads with the devil in the personage of your preggo spouse. πŸ˜‰

I mean, look at it this way guys- and please have empathy- if a girl were to put you out of commission for an entire year where you became fat and ugly- physically and personality-wise – while your bros brag about fucking hotties: how the hell would you feel!?

You would resent your girlfriend! It doesn’t matter if you were head-over-heels in love with her!

You would not take light to the fact that you don’t feel desired anymore, and your girlfriend is the root cause of it.

Hence: “Empathy” is necessary, and understanding will avoid clashing.

Secret Society of Cheating and Cheaters

On a final note, I want to touch on “cheating”…just for a bit.

I’m notorious for publicly declaring to guys that I wouldn’t feel betrayed nor hurt if my girlfriend were to cheat on me.

Is it that I don’t give a crap about her?

Likely not, or else I would’ve ditched her years ago.

I wouldn’t take cheating personally nowadays because I know what drives it on the part of the cheating girl [never the urge for mere sex or more sex].

It has nothing neither to do with slutry, raw promiscuity, a lack of sex nor women loving variety of cocks inside of them, but mere survival and replication!

When you look at it that you- the right way- you will no longer see cheating women as dirty-little harlots who cannot keep their pussy in their panties!

You’ll begin to see that nature and her biological clock [fear of dying without progeny] are actually facilitating and driving her compulsion or desire to sleep around.

It is virtually out of her control!

She has to gamble and play up her odds to survive [have kids]!

One dick only means 1 source of her attaining pregnancy.

Not very good odds when you think of it strategically.

Two dicks and the odds increase.

Screwing 4 guys- and you get the picture- that is 4 instruments which can ejaculate 4 times the load of semen inside of her depository to possibly fertilize her egg once she would’ve been ovulating.

The odds of her getting pregnant obviously increase if or when she sleeps with more guys.

In life, we work off of an odds-based operation by trying to maximize them.

Theoretically, the more applications you fill out for various jobs, the chances of landing a job will likely increase.

Only 1 application? Only 1 shot with poor odds stacked against you.

As for the pick-up artistry and what we teach [the numbers game], the more girls you approach, hit on, contact, etc. the greater your chances of actually landing 1 or some in bed.

This goes without saying.

Likewise with any girl out there. She instinctively knows and plays the odds game in dating and mating!

This is why a woman always has a bunch of guys strung along, and she always keeps orbiter males around in the event that her relationship crumbles, she can always call up the reserves to supply her in no time with companionship and cock.

She is playing to her odds!

She is playing to win [get pregnant] and playing to survive [have kids]!

Trying to keep your fertile girlfriend from communicating with other men outside the relationship, is tantamount to forcing her to commit suicide!

That is how her brain and biological wiring interpret the actions of a boyfriend who tries to get her to sever ties with all guys, stay at home and only communicate with him.

She will rebel and defy this as we all know!

Even if she verbally concedes and agrees to desist from texting other guys. She will continue to text other guys behind the back of her boyfriend anyway!

I had been through that with my girlfriend just as every other guy has!

I threw tantrums and got pissed when I discovered that she was still texting other men behind my back.

These things bother me no more because I understand why they must occur! Hence, I encourage my GF to text other guys, simply because I know she will not desist regardless of what I or anyone says [not even the deity she believes in can stop her]!

I rather my girlfriend to be forthright and transparent with me- by openly extending to her the green light to communicate with other men- than for her to be selling me dreams by trying to convince me that she doesn’t text other guys…while she does just that behind my back.

Therefore, it doesn’t matter what the hell you say as the man in the relationship in relation to your woman talking to other men. She will continue to actively play the field until she hits menopause where bearing kids will have met its expiratory date.

All in all: you truly cannot keep a fertile girl from cheating [unless you knock her up repeatedly].

She will just stealthily do it behind your back if she senses that you cannot handle the truth [that she must play the numbers game in order to increase her odds of child-bearing].

With that being said; I can’t get mad at my girlfriend for cheating if she has or will!

Who the fuck am I or any other boyfriend for that matter, to expect a girl to remain faithful to her own detriment!?

It’s sort of selfish on the guy’s part when you think about it!

Just as a girl who expects her boyfriend to only sleep with her and to observe monogamy: it is kind of selfish and counterproductive in contrast to nature’s design.

Secret Society of Cheating, Cheaters and Ovulation

Another thing I want to touch on before wrapping up is “Ovulation” [I won’t get in depth with it].

I’m not one for citing studies from “so-called” professional because most of them are full of shit. But studies have shown that when a girl ovulates [which means she can get impregnated at those points of the month], she becomes more randy, sexual and dresses more revealing than normally would.

Knowing that she could get pregnant while that window is open briefly [just a few days or even hours], she will dress provocatively to work, wear that skin-tight dress on the job, or unexpectedly hit the bar, especially if she’s not the bar type.

Whenever a girl ovulates, she subconsciously puts herself on the sexual market…even if she has a boyfriend and is in a happy relationship!

This is all done subconsciously without her knowledge.

Her egg is now discharged into the uterus waiting to be fertilized by an invading sperm [though her egg has protective organisms to fight off the sperms].

During this period, a girl will actively seek attention from men in hopes that she will get impregnated.

In all honesty, this is the ideal time to try to sleep with a girl [when her body ovulates].

As a guy who has slept with countless women, I often encounter cases where I would meet a girl today, try to sleep with her today, but she would shut me down.

On the other hand, I would meet another girl today, try to sleep with her today, and she will oblige and sex would happen.

Other instances, I would meet a girl today, try to fuck her today and she will turn me down. I would strategically persist for 2 weeks but she wouldn’t relent.

Out of the blue, she will send me a text saying, “I’m in the mood to fuck”!

I would then get to sleep with her in spite of her coldness over the previous 2 weeks.

As commonplace as this may seem, you should take into account why a girl would put out on this occasion, but not another. Or why she would fuck you the first night you meet her, but doesn’t give you another shot until a month later…if ever.

Her ovulation period is actually driving this!

She prefers to fuck when the chances of her getting pregnant would have been greater [ovulation].

If this period [ovulation] presents itself today; she will want to fuck today while chances are greater to attain pregnancy.

A sophisticated and prudish ovulating woman at the nightclub, is 10 times more susceptible to game and to being bent over and fucked in the restroom by a random Joe Blow whom she had only met 10 minutes ago in the club!

A dumb club-whore who is NOT ovulating, is likely to put up more resistance to the idea of being fucked by a random stranger…though she’s a so-called slut and should be deemed easy!

The fact that the club-whore cannot get inseminated successfully [meaning to get pregnant] that night since she isn’t ovulating, the drive/urge to have sex and receive semen will not have been great.

The prudish girl on the other hand who has never had same-night sex, because her body and brain know that she is fertile [ovulating], her guards will have been substantially lowered in hopes that some guy will shoot a load of cum inside of her…that night!

My personal belief is this: girls mostly go out as to the bars and clubs whenever they are ovulating [meaning they can get pregnant].

Hence, you have a nightclub filled with fertile-horny women hoping to get some semen injections!

This is why it behooves the crap out of me that there are guys who actually have a hard time realizing how easy it is to take girls home from the club, or to fuck them right inside the venue…like on the dance floor, in the lounge area or the restroom! 😯

These chicks in heat [ovulation] at the bars and clubs are open to random sex with random strangers whom they don’t care to see the next day, as long as they get his semen inside of their body.

She secretly wished that you had slipped off the condom and fuck her raw!

Part of her dies once she discovers that you kept the condom on the entire time and ejaculated inside of it instead of inside of her vagina.

I posted a controversial article years ago about how to fuck girls without condoms. If you’re actually interested in what I had to say on that, you can google the article [sorry- I’m too lazy to look it up and post it here 😦 ].

In keeping with that theme, I also cited that 98% of the women I slept with prior to 2012- the year I tried giving condoms a serious chance- were all without condoms…knowingly so!

Therefore, there should be zero cause for confusion in realizing that the VAST majority of women prefer to be banged raw- sans [without] rubber! And by “vast” and “majority”, I mean virtually every single girl on the planet who attained puberty.

I don’t believe I have to tell you that every girl desires to become a mother.

Periodically, you have the rare nutjob of a woman who desires to remain a childless career-girl for the rest of her life…until some fly-by-night Alpha stud comes along and breeds her behind her husband’s back…which of course the Beta-Male husband will gladly raise the kid as his own since he always wanted [another] child to begin with. So there is truly no woman who will realistically rule out having kids at some point.

As the boyfriend, if you won’t knock her up, she will get it done behind your back…by another man!

Do you think a girl will ever stay indefinitely with a guy who elects to not impregnate her…especially if [it’s a matter of when] she wants kids?

I know of a young guy who is sterile- someone in my age group actually- whose girlfriend cheated out on him and ended up getting pregnant but claiming that the kid was his. πŸ˜†

She didn’t know that her boyfriend hit puberty having infertility issues. But he himself, included the guys he hung out with, knew that he wasn’t able to produce a thing as far as pregnancy was concerned.

Anyway, years into his relationship of not bearing fruit, the girl decided [unknowingly of course at first] to cheat. In the process, she got pregnant…which is every girl’s desire, regardless of the man and his unwillingness to stick around.

The girl then rejoiced that they finally were able to conceive [unknowing that her BF was sterile].

The guy- not as heartbroken as you would imagine- broke the news to her that he cannot cause reproduction.

In other words: he shoots blanks.

Thus, this left 1 conclusion: she had to have cheated.

After the boyfriend produced official documentation confirming sterility, his GF then had no choice but to come clean about cheating.

Knowing that his permanent-infertility issue would’ve been a deal-breaker for most women, in spite of his girlfriend’s infidelity which led to pregnancy, he decided to forgive her and gladly help raise the kid as if she were his [kudos to him].

Saying all that bit to say: if a girl doesn’t find reproductive success in a timely fashion from copulation with 1 man, i.e. her boyfriend or husband, she will cheat on him as means to increase the odds of attaining pregnancy.

Theoretically and practically, as I eluded to earlier, the more guys she sleeps with, the greater the chances that pregnancy will have materialized.

On a surface level a girl doesn’t fuck or cheat to become pregnant.

On a biological and subconscious level [the real agents behind the scene]; fucking or cheating is to bring about pregnancy.

More competition from hotter and younger girls, will threaten her chances and viability.

Hence the answers to the main theme of this extensive article of why women bicker, back-bite and fight each other like pre-pubescent lasses on the playground.

It is to survive and multiply by living vicariously through her future offspring.

After reading this article, hopefully you’ll never see a cheating woman as a dirty-rotten cheater anymore, but someone playing the most essential role in extending human existence. Because hypothetically, if every girl woke up tomorrow and decided to jump on birth-control until menopause – hence no human multiplication at all- humans on a whole will disappear over-fucking night within 1 generation!

I don’t think any one of us want that to happen. Hence, women fight and play dirty for their chance to produce children for a guy in whom, for whatever reason, she deems an Alpha-Male.

Abundance Mentality

Met up with 3 girls last evening.

Obviously no sex came about from these brisk meet-ups [since that wasn’t my objective].Β But merely showing how possible it is to have abundance and get non-flaky girls.Β 

Also, instead of setting up “dates” right away, it is best to soften up the target per se by meeting up for brisk and small walk-and-chats [while escalating of course].

BTW, these 3 chicks I met from cold-approach less than a week and a half ago and have been meeting up with them since. I’ve already slept with the girl from the 1st screenshot but the other 2 are ripe for the picking.
[My texts in green. Messages were from before and after the meetups].




Elaborate Seduction Of A Married MILF

Ever so often, I find myself involved in a seduction like something out of the movies…notwithstanding I am the willing catalyst who thrives on such a seduction.

Some months ago, perhaps before the Summer began, while shooting some day-game hidden-cam footage around the city while on a trip to a nearby island, I exited a mobile-phone accessory store, and there was a lady standing beside the exist with a little girl who must have been her daughter next to her.

You can read about that encounter and pick-up in this field-report article:

We parted ways after the spirited chitchat.

Weeks went by and I never heard from her.

No way in the world was I to let this one get away since my drive for sleeping with possible disgruntled wives was insatiable.

What happened when it came to the phone-number exchange was that I got a digit or so wrong. So I was unable to call/text her since the number was unlisted and didn’t exist on the network.


I called and called and called…to no avail!

I swapped digits on every end trying to get it right: 4152, 4125, 4251, 4215…

The only digit in the last row of her phone number I was sure on was the “4”.

After rearranging the digits and calling 20 phone numbers which were all wrong numbers as you could imagine, I wasn’t satisfied with leaving it there. I wanted to press on!

It wasn’t that this married lady was so hot that I had to try to seduce her [though she passed my boner-test]. It was the allure of forbidden fruit that I had to bite into.

“But what”!

I asked myself.

“How am I gonna reach this girl”!?

“Shit! What other recourse and avenues do I have”!?

Oh- I recalled she had told me where she works.

“That’s it”!

“But I have no name to go by but her first name! How will I find her at her workplace”?

Now, I advocate for showing up at a girl’s workplace if push comes to shove.

However, I felt such a move would’ve been too risky in that the woman is married, and I wouldn’t want to alert her husband in the event that a mole or rat in the form of a coworker, spills the beans to her husband somehow.

For all I know, her coworkers probably know her husband and have been introduced somehow.

Too risky!

I decided to call instead.

Brilliant plan!

I can avoid detection this way, while an in-person visit to her job site, would’ve blown cover…at least my face.

Having no number to her workplace, I grabbed the yellow pages [white pages actually] and look it up.


“Here it is”!

“Dammit! There’s more than 1 work location listed under her workplace”!

There were actually about 5 different numbers to 5 different sites, but I distinctively remembered weeks prior when I’d picked her up, she mentioned the area in which her site was located.

That helped narrowed down my search to 1 site!

For the sake of anonymity; let’s call her Amy, the 42 year old married MILF…sexy MILF might I add. πŸ˜‰

There was another potential problem; “I don’t know her surname”. 😯

“Whom will I ask for since I only have her first name to go with”?

Fuck it!

I rang it anyway and asked for “Amy”!

I was told that there were few Amies at that job site.


The receptionist then decided to transfer my call throughout the departments from Amy to Amy, hoping to reach the Amy I was intended to find.

The call got dropped on their end [I believed intentionally]…so I called back.

“Good day. I just called a second ago but my call was dropped. I’m looking for an Amy. I can’t quite remember her surname though”.

Other receptionist: “Hold on a bit. Only 1 Amy is working today. You want to give her a shot”?

Me: “Yea sure”!

My call was again tossed around like a proverbial football from department to department.

Someone in another department picked up.

Me: “Hello. Is this Amy”?

Person: “No sir. Amy is making a cup of coffee right now. You wanna wait”?

Me: “Sure”!

I was put on hold for what felt like 10 minutes…and I wasn’t even sure if this was the Amy [1 of the 3] whom I wanted to reach.

Fingers crossed!

I was hearing all the background chatter which meant that my call wasn’t dropped again somehow.

I could hear someone saying “Amy the phone”.


She got to the phone!

Unsure whether this was the exact Amy I was trying to reach [bear in mind that “Amy” is just a fictitious name used within this article], and having no full name to go by:

Me: “Hey, this is Kenny”.

Amy: “Kenny? Not sure if I know a Kenny”.

Me: “You were supposed to ring or text me a few weeks back”.

Amy: “You suuuuuuuurrrrre”?

Me: “Well, I’m not sure sure, but I believe we met a few weeks back in the city”.

I then went on to describe her to make sure that this was the right girl.

Description was CORRECTO!

I further went on to tell her how and where we met and that I picked her up outside of a cellphone accessory place.

She instantly remembered as she recounted to me bits and pieces of info from the brief encounter.

As expected, she gave me a flimsy reason as to why she never texted.

I told her that I forgot her phone number which is why I had to track her down this way.

She was astonished and a bit puzzled [in an impressive sense] that a guy would go this length to reach her.

Now, I can very well hear some of you guys going “DESPERATE”!

Actually, this was not a desperate move because it was impressive.

You only appear desperate when an action comes off as weird and quirky.

Doing something impressive [and I don’t mean to impress the girl], won’t come across as desperation.

By doing this, I indicated that I wanted her, which only helped to add to the overall attraction and seduction.

We again exchanged numbers after a 20 minute conversation over her work line.

This time I ensured that every digit was precise!

We kept in touch and got to know each other over the course of a few weeks, conversing over the telephone and through text messages.

As expected, the bulk of our conversation was about a lustful affair with each other behind the back of her husband.

The big dilemmas we faced were how, where and when were we to meet up, and subsequently pull off a sexual rendezvous.

Meeting up at a restaurant in town was deemed too risky on both ends.

I frankly didn’t want a meet-and-greet, neither a drink date of any sort.

I wanted to kick off a dirty-little affair by sleeping with her…sans the hoopla!

Being married [she is], the date and dating thing just wasn’t the ideal situation in my estimation.

She was HIGHLY attached and opened to having a secret relationship, in effect having 2 men in her life.

Be as it may, I proposed that we meet up at a hotel on a Thursday morning when I were to be in town.

The plan was: she would go to work as customarily the Thursday morning, then feign/pretend to be sick on the job and ask to go home. Instead of going home, she would drive over to my hotel room.

Why she couldn’t call in sick from home the Thursday morning, was because her husband would’ve still been at home, so she would not have had the time nor leeway to make an excuse as to why she had to run into the city/town.

Her husband would’ve obviously expected her to stay in bed while he ran the errands if it’s a case where she needed something from the drugstore.

Hence, the best plan was to go to work, feign sick on the job [unbeknownst to her husband], but instead of going home, detour to my hotel.

I booked a room at my favorite spot [I was to stay 4 days on island] a week in advance.

Over the course of the week, we sexted and had a few rounds of phone sex just to relieve ourselves of the tension of the pending sex-capade in the coming days.

She became so attached to the point where clumsy mistakes began to surface.

What I mean is, I had to always ensure that she would delete our chat, nude photos, etc. from her phone.

Remind you; she was the only one who had something to lose of the 2. Yet I was exhibiting more carefulness than she was.

I prayed she wouldn’t become even more attached…to her own detriment…and perhaps mines.

Thursday morning arrived, I was already booked into my hotel from Wednesday evening, so it was just a matter of awaiting her arrival.

She skipped work around 9:30 AM under the guise of being sick and entered my hotel room looking healthy as ever!

We wrestled in the sack for a bit [foreplay] until condom-free penetration had commenced.

We slept the duration of the time until 4 PM struck, when she were to drive home as though she was coming from work.

Overall, I rated that experience a 9 in 10.

Usually, I’m very stingy about handing out high grades for any sexual encounter.

However, this case was on another level since the risk factor was even greater being that the lady was married, yet fornicating with a man-whoring pick-up artist behind closed doors.

The forbidden-fruit aspect is very alluring to women and for myself.

Granted, her marriage wasn’t fucked-up as to why she had an affair with me.

There’s this grand and classic misconception that a woman mainly cheats because of dysfunctionalities at home [in her marriage], or because her significant other isn’t playing his role sexually, nor is he attentive to her needs, wants and desires.

Well this is bullshit!

A woman doesn’t need a plausible reason to cheat!

Her marriage can be perfect, normal or average by today’s standards, and she may still find herself entangled in a raunchy affair on the side.

Also, cheating isn’t necessarily repetitive nor perpetual.

“Once a cheater, always a cheater”, is an inaccurate cliche.

How many affairs do you believe that this sexy MILF engaged in prior to our affair?

Likely none.

How about afterwards, though our affair had only been some months ago?

Likely none.

Although she cheated with me, it doesn’t for 1 minute indicate that she’s somehow a perpetual cheater.

Bear in mind: it takes 2 to tango.

It takes a guy who’s willing to actively push the envelope, and it also takes the right and opportune logistics to facilitate cheating.

Contrary from my popular declarations about women being prone to cheating [which is highly true], a woman is likely to remain faithful depended on the types of guys who hit on her [such as her orbiters whom she strings along].

On a further note, there’s a good amount of single men out there who actually respect relationships and marriages and are likely to back off once told that the girl has someone already.

It isn’t that men [or those men] are so virtuous and ethical. It largely boils down to a fear of competition and a misconception of lots of men that women aren’t inclined to cheating.

Hence, they [men who respect relationships] elect to not get involved because they feel as though their shot is minuscule and not worth the investment of time and energy…so they back off.

Saying all that to say; yes women cheat often, and more so than men do! But they aren’t cheating as much because of the above-mentioned factors such as men fearing competition [from other men] and conflict [from a boyfriend/husband].

On a further note, getting girls to cheat on a consistent basis is a quasi-art.

Every now and then, a hapless guy would luck-up by landing inside of a vagina belonging to another guy.

However, to replicate this [getting women to cheat consistently], isn’t in the average guy’s reality, nor on his to-do-list.

Therefore, as much as a woman may want to cheat, it takes that guy who has the ability, fortitude and know-how to lead her there.

Lucking-up could only go so far if you want to find yourself bedding more married women than a gynecologist.

All in all, in relation to the co-protagonist of this field report [the married MILF], we had since fallen out right after due to her intense-emotional attachment which drove me up the hill!

Notwithstanding; I have a girlfriend.

Thus, I cannot afford to get “caught up” emotionally into another woman’s frame/world.

Generally, married women are ultra-crude on keeping a lid on their emotions when involved in affairs [I know since I’ve slept with tons of them over the years].

This once however was the exception for me.

Field Report: 2 Pickups In 1 hour + How Soon You Should Contact The girl

Ok, before I pontificate on this aspect of pickup, I want to quickly address and edify something her to my newer audience who may not be au-fait to pick-up and seduction community lingo and jargon.

A “Field Report”, as the phrase implies, is a log or diary composed and kept by the pick-up artist of certain events such as interactions with women during his daily routines [and non-routines].

Every PUA [pick-up artist], particularly a student, is urged to write field reports on a regular basis in order to gauge his progress with women.

A veteran pick-up instructor such as myself, publishes field reports in order to guide the guys of lesser skills by giving real-world examples of pick-up artistry.

Let’s get into this field report.

As I existed my unkempt apartment this evening, I came across a girl who happened to pass my proverbial boner-test, so I picked her up by way of getting her phone number after a 30 minute chat.

As we departed, within a minute or so, I spotted another girl whom I deemed fuckable.

This one was a very short MILF in stature [BTW, I have a thing for real short girls].

Anyhow, the pickup began like this:

Me: “Hey, hold on! Been wanting to talk to you”!

Girl: “Me? But we never seen each other”.

Me: “I know. But I think I’ve seen you around. But that’s neither here nor there. You’re very sexy”.

Girl: “I don’t come out much but to go to the grocery store as I’m doing now”.

Me: “I don’t wanna hold you up any longer. By the way I’m Kenny”.

Girl: “I’m Renee”

Me: “I heard about a Renee who lives around here”!

Girl: “Really! Hope good things”!

Me: “Well it’s a mixture of good and bad. The good outweighs though”.

At this point, she told me she had to run into the grocery store real quick…and if I would wait for her. πŸ™‚

Girl: “Real quick. I have to run into the store and get 1 item. You want to wait 2 minutes”?

Me: “You take more than 2 minutes and I’m gone”! πŸ™‚

I said jokingly as she saunters off to the store just a few yards away.

Typically, this would be a no-no in the sense of waiting for a girl. But as you become skilled and garner the ability to read subtle signs, you will have been able to discern whether “waiting” is a good or bad thing.

In this case; it was a great sign aka IOI [Indicator Of Interest].

If a girl tells you to wait in such a circumstance, it is a great sign as long as she isn’t trying to evade/reject you.

She went and returned before 5 minutes had elapsed to meet me chatting with another girl.

The other girl says to us, “Oh! This is your girlfriend? I’m sorry”!

Me: “No No No! We’re not together”!

The girl and I [the MILF] then walked off as she was headed to a fast-food joint.

We walked and chatted [and flirted] for about 15-20 minutes outside of the food joint.

Me: “Anyway, let you go. But, I can’t do that without your number”.

Before I was able to finish the line, she had already began giving me her numbers.

We then parted ways.

Ok, so arguably 1 of the most asked-about question is the following:

“When should I contact her”?

We all know about the antiquated “3-day rule”.

I say “antiquated” because it has no real validity and significance since waiting 3 days can do more harm than good, and many guys, even in the pickup world, has moved away from that rule…though it was never really a creation of pick-up. So waiting 3 days isn’t at all the best play in making first contact through the phone.

What I do is to contact the girl right away after departure.

Years ago, this was unheard of in pickup until I first went public with it.

It was akin to treason to even fathom such a thing: contacting the girl right away! 😯

Why was this thought to be so bad?

It spelled desperation and neediness.


However, this depends on the sort of text you send, and not really how soon you send the text [or call].

Whenever I get a girl’s number, within minutes, I send her a text giving her my details: name and number.

That’s it!

Here’s a screenshot from the pickup of the MILF featured in this post.


That’s all I wanted to accomplish.

There is nothing needy, low value or desperate about such a text as a first text.

Therefore, it isn’t how soon after you text the girl. It is what you decide to text her that determines whether you’ll be perceived needy and desperate or non-needy and non-desperate.

I mean, because you may very well wait 3-7 days in trying to appear non-desperate, but still appear desperate and needy based on the texts you do send 3-7 days later. So it shouldn’t be a question of “How long”, “How soon”.

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