I will share with you a recent and typical text-conversation between myself and a super-shy hottie.
Normal text-game rule of keeping the convo balanced, should be discarded because a shy girl isn’t going to open up and have a balanced conversation.
Therefore, you must invest way more as the guy trying to seduce her [95-5 at times…you doing 95% of the texting].
With shy girls, you also must learn the art of fucking blabbering and rambling!
That is to chat/text until your mouth/fingers fall off!
If you let up; she won’t carry the conversation!
Not that she isn’t interested. But she’s overly timid and too reserved to express herself.
Hence, if you rely on the girl [especially a super shy one] to carry the convo; IT WILL GO NOWHERE!
You will notice how imbalance the conversation is, where she’s mainly providing 1-word answers and I’m blabbering away.
This is a must with super-shy girls! Just fucking blabber about anything!
Don’t expect her to provide much interaction.
It doesn’t mean she isn’t interested!
Remember; a shy girl is NOT going to carry the conversation!
Therefore, you have to carry it almost fully or else the convo will stall and she will move on since she relies on you to do the work. Not because she’s a selfish bitch, but it isn’t within her to divulge much of her opinions…especially if she’s someone you just met.
As RSD Jeffy famously said; learn how to have diarrhea of the mouth!
[My texts are in green, and hers in white. In no specific order].
Ok, so that was the chat log from Whatsapp Messenger.
Very one-sided to say the least…as expected.
When I’d posted these string of screenshots to my Facebook, a student of mines chimed in with the following comment.
His concern is a genuine and realistic one.
The average guy will believe that the reason why the girl isn’t responding more actively is because she isn’t interested or doesn’t care to respond in great details.
Here’s the thing: this is only true in cases where the girl is NOT a shy one.
If a girl is half-way sociable and she only replies with short answers like: “No, yes, nah, hmmm, maybe, sure, IDK, why, true”, then it is likely a terrible sign of her disinterest.
However, if she’s a shy person, then you cannot expect elaborate replies but just 1-worders for every 2-3 texts you send.
I know of scores of men who would give up immediately if they aren’t getting much in return via text from the girl.
Most guys would feel as though they’re talking to themselves and just abandon the interaction and hit next.
The thing is, if the girl doesn’t reply at all, then you might as well throw in the towel.
Sending 2, 3, 4 texts without any reply, is usually an IOD [Indicator of Disinterest] for whatever reason…which means you should move on.
However, as long as the girl replies; you are still in the ball game!
It is when she never replies that you truly have to move on.
Nevertheless, seducing a shy girl is time-consuming and it is a much slower and longer process than if the girl were expressive and open.
Not only do you have to expend more time and energy texting and talking, but you have to do a lot of feeling-out for yourself. If you’re unable to read women, this may become somewhat challenging.
On a final note, rambling is pretty much all you need with these very shy types.
Verbal diarrhea as RSD Jeffy calls it.
Just spit, spit, spit every other day until the opportune moment presents itself, where you can suggest meeting up with the least amount of objections.
I must re-emphasize that a (shy) girl is NOT going to seduce herself, neither is she going to seduce you by chatting you up!
This [rambling] is also applicable in set- in person- whenever chatting up a girl: shy or not.
Again- most guys C&B [Crash and Burn] whenever chatting up a hottie, be it online, via text or in person upon cold approach.
Hence, it is a must that you learn how to keep your conversational skills fluid and constant.
With past students, upon analyzing their text conversation, I am flabbergasted to see how easily guys guy up under the impression that the girl wasn’t interested because she kept her messages in reply to a minimal amount of words…and the girl said that she was a shy type to begin with.
I’m like, “Dude! WTF are you thinking!!? The girl literally told you that she’s shy yet you were expecting her to participate and give 50-50! That is stupid on your part dude!!! The most you should expect from a shy girl is 20-80: she doing 20% of the talking/texting”!
Too damn often guys blow themselves out and reject themselves by thinking that the girl wasn’t into them because she wasn’t saying much.
I reiterate: This is only the case if the girl is NOT shy!
Therefore, scroll back up and scan the lopsided text-log via screenshots, with my texts in green and the shy hottie’s in white.
Don’t focus so much on what I said/texted.
Take note of how much more I texted in comparison to her.
In any normal text-game situation [with a non-shy chick], this would be proverbial-fucking suicide [over-texting]!
However, with shy types, there is no such thing as over-texting and texting too much. So you can, must and will have to break that text-game rule if you intend to convert a shy girl into a notch!