Frame Control And Dick Pics

Average guy sends a dick pic to a girl he barely knows on FB; he either gets scolded, ignored, blocked or deleted [or all of the above].

Kenny sends a dick pic to a chick he barely knows and she gets all fresh and cunty, I get her to virtually apologize by saying, “I was messing with you”!

How come? It’s all about the “Frame” [controlling it], and my attitude [I am the prize].

If a chick reacts negatively to my random dick-pic: I’ll ignore her as I did here…knowing that she would come running back wondering why I haven’t spoken to her in days.

However, this can only happen if and when you manage to create the right frame from the get-go: “I am the prize”.

At the end of the day- sending dick pics is still a lame thing to do [unless Sexting]. But if you are going to do it, you have to set the right frame from the gate or else you will turn the girl off royally and get yourself blocked!

[Girl’s texts in gray. Mines in blue].



Apart from controlling the underlying frame, is you willingness to walk.

Whenever I interact with a girl, I always give off the vibe that I can care less whether she likes me or not.

With such a carefree and detachment from outcome vibe, it keeps girls in check.

Hence with this chick, after she questioned why I sent her the dick pic, I said what I said and discontinued texting for about 2 days…that was when she responded with “I was messing around/joking”.

Therefore, once you can give off the vibe to a hot girl that you won’t take her shit and that you’re willing to walk, she will chase and get in line.

As for the dick pic: why did I send it in the first place?

Ok, by now I’m guessing that you’re quite familiar with my screenshot gig in that I take screenshots of things women post to Facebook, and apply them to game/pickup.

One of the main pet peeves women have on Facebook, is guys sending random dick pics and expecting a positive reaction.

Chicks see red when guys do this for the most part!

Even if she nonchalantly replies with what seems to be a positive reaction to the random dick pic, it won’t go anywhere whatsoever.

It’s like trying to convince a girl that she should fuck you because you showed her an image of your dick.

It’s like saying to her, “I don’t have anything else to offer as far as interesting convo, so here’s my cock”!

It doesn’t quite pan out that way brodie.

Hence, it often does more damage than good.

I get away with this all the time [or whenever I do it] because of everything I pointed out above.

However, I sent this dick pic in order to prove a point to someone who’s struggling with this…meaning, whenever he sends the random dick pic to the girl’s inbox, he gets shut down or de-friended from her Facebook.

Therefore, my point to him was that I can send a random dick pic to a girl whom I barely know, and get her to chase me still in spite of her bitchy response…and in effect, it’ll even make her want me more. So that was the reason for my dick-pic experimentation with this girl.

Additionally, any sane girl will be taken-aback if she opens up her inbox and there’s a fucking dick staring at her…from a guy whom she had no prior discussions of dicks with.

That was the case in my case.

However, not every girl will apologize, take it back and chase the guy who committed the lewd infraction.

That is the difference between someone who sets the frame/vibe of he being the prize, instead of the girl being the prize.

Moreover, whenever I interact with any new girl, I am the prize!

I am not as foolish to say this to the girl. But my vibe exudes this…and she know it.

With that being said, the next time you’re engaged in a texting session, ask yourself: “Am I the prize, or is she the prize”?

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Mass-Liking Everything A Girl Does on Facebook [Bad-Online Game]

Guys, I’m big on the idea of NOT DLV’ing yourself when trying to attract girls online.

DLV [Demonstrating Low Value] is anything a guy does/says that makes himself appear less attractive to women.

Mass-liking everything a girl posts on Facebook, is a subtle form of a DLV: Demonstration of Low Value.

Here’s a screenshot from a female friend of mines which was posted to Facebook yesterday.


How many of you guys are guilty, or have been guilty of such low-valued shenanigans in the past…and present?

Most of you!

Why do you do this?

The same reason most guys thank women for accepting their friend request: the idea that subtle ass-kissing would win them some brownie points with the girls they are vying for.

It is equivalent to the dancing monkey going, “Like me, like me, like me”!

What often times happen is the girl ends up getting super annoyed by the mass likes on her statuses and photos, and the guy ends up killing his chances before the ballgame even begins.

On that note, my advice to you- if you are guilty of mass-liking everything a girl does/posts- is to quit now!

If you’re looking to seduce a girl through Facebook, you want to ensure as much as possible that she sees you as the guy who’s somewhat aloof, distant and unattainable to a point.

To be in her face proverbially, on everything she posts, will kill your chances…granted she’s a girl whom you’re trying to get with. If she’s someone in whom you have no sexual interest, then feel free to mass-like everything she does! You have nothing to lose!

However, as long as you have an interest there, keep the “likings” to a bare minimum!

Hitting like on everything she does will NOT help you by any chance!

I see guys do this shit on a daily basis, and I just sit back with a bowl of popcorn and laugh at the clown spectacle at hand. 😆 🙂 😆

Not to be too big of a dick: I’ve been there also, so I empathize!

However, now that I’ve kicked your ass about, you have no further reasons to continue harassing women online by mass-liking everything they do.


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Texting Shy Girls – What You Should Know [text-game examples]

I will share with you a recent and typical text-conversation between myself and a super-shy hottie.

Normal text-game rule of keeping the convo balanced, should be discarded because a shy girl isn’t going to open up and have a balanced conversation.

Therefore, you must invest way more as the guy trying to seduce her [95-5 at times…you doing 95% of the texting].

With shy girls, you also must learn the art of fucking blabbering and rambling!

That is to chat/text until your mouth/fingers fall off!

If you let up; she won’t carry the conversation!

Not that she isn’t interested. But she’s overly timid and too reserved to express herself.

Hence, if you rely on the girl [especially a super shy one] to carry the convo; IT WILL GO NOWHERE!

You will notice how imbalance the conversation is, where she’s mainly providing 1-word answers and I’m blabbering away.

This is a must with super-shy girls! Just fucking blabber about anything!

Don’t expect her to provide much interaction.

It doesn’t mean she isn’t interested!

Remember; a shy girl is NOT going to carry the conversation!

Therefore, you have to carry it almost fully or else the convo will stall and she will move on since she relies on you to do the work. Not because she’s a selfish bitch, but it isn’t within her to divulge much of her opinions…especially if she’s someone you just met.

As RSD Jeffy famously said; learn how to have diarrhea of the mouth!

[My texts are in green, and hers in white. In no specific order].










Ok, so that was the chat log from Whatsapp Messenger.

Very one-sided to say the least…as expected.

When I’d posted these string of screenshots to my Facebook, a student of mines chimed in with the following comment.


His concern is a genuine and realistic one.

The average guy will believe that the reason why the girl isn’t responding more actively is because she isn’t interested or doesn’t care to respond in great details.

Here’s the thing: this is only true in cases where the girl is NOT a shy one.

If a girl is half-way sociable and she only replies with short answers like: “No, yes, nah, hmmm, maybe, sure, IDK, why, true”, then it is likely a terrible sign of her disinterest.

However, if she’s a shy person, then you cannot expect elaborate replies but just 1-worders for every 2-3 texts you send.

I know of scores of men who would give up immediately if they aren’t getting much in return via text from the girl.

Most guys would feel as though they’re talking to themselves and just abandon the interaction and hit next.

The thing is, if the girl doesn’t reply at all, then you might as well throw in the towel.

Sending 2, 3, 4 texts without any reply, is usually an IOD [Indicator of Disinterest] for whatever reason…which means you should move on.

However, as long as the girl replies; you are still in the ball game!

It is when she never replies that you truly have to move on.

Nevertheless, seducing a shy girl is time-consuming and it is a much slower and longer process than if the girl were expressive and open.

Not only do you have to expend more time and energy texting and talking, but you have to do a lot of feeling-out for yourself. If you’re unable to read women, this may become somewhat challenging.

On a final note, rambling is pretty much all you need with these very shy types.

Verbal diarrhea as RSD Jeffy calls it.

Just spit, spit, spit every other day until the opportune moment presents itself, where you can suggest meeting up with the least amount of objections.

I must re-emphasize that a (shy) girl is NOT going to seduce herself, neither is she going to seduce you by chatting you up!

This [rambling] is also applicable in set- in person- whenever chatting up a girl: shy or not.

Again- most guys C&B [Crash and Burn] whenever chatting up a hottie, be it online, via text or in person upon cold approach.

Hence, it is a must that you learn how to keep your conversational skills fluid and constant.

With past students, upon analyzing their text conversation, I am flabbergasted to see how easily guys guy up under the impression that the girl wasn’t interested because she kept her messages in reply to a minimal amount of words…and the girl said that she was a shy type to begin with.

I’m like, “Dude! WTF are you thinking!!? The girl literally told you that she’s shy yet you were expecting her to participate and give 50-50! That is stupid on your part dude!!! The most you should expect from a shy girl is 20-80: she doing 20% of the talking/texting”!

Too damn often guys blow themselves out and reject themselves by thinking that the girl wasn’t into them because she wasn’t saying much.

I reiterate: This is only the case if the girl is NOT shy!

Therefore, scroll back up and scan the lopsided text-log via screenshots, with my texts in green and the shy hottie’s in white.

Don’t focus so much on what I said/texted.

Take note of how much more I texted in comparison to her.

In any normal text-game situation [with a non-shy chick], this would be proverbial-fucking suicide [over-texting]!

However, with shy types, there is no such thing as over-texting and texting too much. So you can, must and will have to break that text-game rule if you intend to convert a shy girl into a notch!


More PUA Instructor-Level Text-Game: “False Disqualifying”, Push-Pull & Playing Hard-To-Get With Hot Girls

Ok guys, some more personal text-game examples via screenshots for you.

Some days ago, a hot chick from the past hit me up on Facebook…I guess to catch up.

Background: I picked her up during some street game a few years back [perhaps 4 years ago].

We hit it off of course, but because she had to fly out, I wasn’t able to pursue the bang.

Whenever I miss a bang opportunity in such a fashion, I usually NEXT the girl since I don’t believe in long-distance romancing unless the chick will return shortly…in the matter of a day or 2.

Anyway, upon departure, she friend-requested me on Facebook. Though I wasn’t interested anymore, I accepted the request anyways.

Although she returned shortly after, my interest level was at zero, since I had a plethora of other chicks on my proverbial bang-list.

This is the beauty of the masterful PUA who has attained a level of abundance with women: any 1 girl does NOT count!

Doesn’t matter how hot a girl is- and this chick is smoking-fucking hot by the way- a master PUA who enjoys an abundance of hot women, does NOT get hung up on any 1 particular chick.

Anyway, so few days ago, she hits me up on Facebook out of the blue.

Remind you: I had deleted her from Facebook over a year ago.


Because I can! 😉

I have a knack for treating hot girls like disposable paper.

That is part of my bad-boy persona: to flip the script on women, and become the one who plays indifferent and hard-to-get.

One cannot play hard-to-get when he has no options.

When you have options; brushing women off will have become easy-breezy.

Be as it may, here is the text-log via Facebook Messenger from a few days ago [Saturday].

I want you to take note of my vibe, disposition and push-pull strategy.

By the way, an obscured photo of this HB is below.


[Her texts in gray. Mines in blue]


She confirmed that I did delete her from my Facebook…and I did. Again; deleting a hot girl for no apparent reason, will deliver a punishing blow to her hot-girl ego since no guy out there has the heart and balls to pull such a move on such a hot girl.


I did add her back the night before, after taking notice of her through a mutual friend’s post.


I flatter her a bit as an attempt to butter her up. She claimed that I put up a front when we first met so she moved on. So- why did I put up a front? I didn’t! I simply had more girls on my plate whom I needed to prioritize before her…so I put her on the back-burner and she took it to mean I was being a dick, putting up a front and playing hard-to-get.


Basically, she assumed that I wouldn’t date her…if she were single. When a girl does/says this, it indicates that she’s qualifying and she’s the one in the position of lesser value/power. She’s the beggar, and she’s in the seller frame. This is a far cry from the usual frame where guys are trying to get a girl into a relationship. She is trying to get me into a relationship…if she were single she claims. 😉

She also said “I know you”. In other words; she knows the type of guy I am…someone who enjoys abundance with women, and isn’t about any drawn-out affair.



Again, she tries to make her case/pitch as to why I should want to be in a relationship with her: I would get her sexy body as a perk of the relationship. In essence, she tries a subtle bribe. Now this is where I get creative with some “False Disqualifiers” by telling her that she’s too young for me. She then “qualifies” herself by saying “so what”…meaning she isn’t too young for me. That is the power of effectively using “False Disqualifiers”.


Again I rained on her parade by telling her that she’s too young and not my type in other words, if she isn’t over 28. I mean, which man in his right mind would say this to a hot 24-year old? NONE…except a man who has lots of women and choices in his life!

She then mentions that she’s close to 28 [being 24] 🙂 🙂 .Again; she qualifies herself to me. This is what you want happening when trying to seduce a hot girl. You want her begging and trying to prove herself worthy to be with you.


I play hard-to-get even more by telling her in other words, that it isn’t practical for me to wait until she reaches 28 because anything can happen tomorrow. Then she qualifies again by saying in other words that 3 more years isn’t a long way.

I then throw her for a loop [push-pull technique] by telling her that I like her. Remember what I told you recently that you want to become a contradiction with women? You go left then suddenly take her right. Say/do something which contradicts something you’d said/done previously. This is exactly what I’m doing here.


I’m making her feel a bit inadequate by saying that she doesn’t measure up since she isn’t 28 +. Again, she tries to convince me that she doesn’t have issues as most girls under 28 do…according to moi. 😉


I don’t quite know why the hell she would think I was open to marriage. Anyway, I told her that I break hearts. Adding to the bad-boy frame which I try to project.


Here, she tries to match my bad-boy, heart-breaker frame by implying that she and I are alike…or that she’s more heartless than I am. Again- she qualifies herself again and again and again.

Ok, so what is this “Qualifying” concept I keep citing?

“Qualifying, or “to qualify”, is a pick-up term we use to describe the act of one trying to prove him/herself to another person.

It is equivalent to the average job interview process, where the interviewee presents his or her credentials and “Qualifications” for the job or position.

That is qualifying.

The person who attempts to show/prove that he or she qualifies for the job [for instance], is essentially at the mercy of the person to which he/she qualifies.

The one who tries to qualify, essentially has less value!

The person seeking the job [the qualifier], has less value than the one who hires.

Just as the boss, supervisor or manager has more value than the employee whom he or she oversees.

Hence, in dating, the one who presents their qualifications as to why he or she should be taken on board, is the one having lesser value than the other.

Therefore, when I say to a girl, “You’re too young for me”, and she goes, “No I’m not. I’m old enough”. She is essentially saying that she qualifies and has the qualifications though she’s younger than what I’m looking for.

Do you get it?

When it comes to dating and getting laid a ton, it is often a power play on both sides.

However, most times, it is the girl who has the guy trying to prove himself to her [qualifying] through words and actions.

My text-game method flips the script, and gets the girl trying to prove herself to me instead.

Hence, I am the one with the power, leverage and the chooser’s frame.

With that being said: how do you get a girl to qualify and try to prove herself to you…and chase you like this girl is doing?

A combination of factors which emanated from my vibing during the text-log.

1.) Learn to dismiss girls!

2.) Ignore her texts ever so often!

3.) Delete them from your Facebook!

4.) Develop a rebellious vibe

5.) Give off a player vibe and hit on other women [pre-selection theory]

Those are just 5 key factors in how I get hot girls to chase and qualify themselves to me.

Do you have to do this with every hot girl [dismiss her, etc]?

No you don’t.

However, since hot girls are accustomed to guys chasing and begging, it is a much wiser approach to utilize this sort of text game.

Also, this works great with girls who are stuck-up and snobbish.

Overall, I’m hoping that you realize how powerful it is to be the chasee and not the chaser.

Is Pickup Manipulative?

I received the following question in the form a post on my Facebook page wall [Master Seducers], from a guy who’s a regular follower of mines.

My address to his question:

Is that manipulative?

Yes and no.

Shocked!? 😯

I’ll explain!

Manipulation: to manage and influence someone or something skillfully.

That is the most general and primary definition given for “Manipulation” in any online or physical dictionary.

Doesn’t sound so crafty and nefarious does it?

Within the confines of the true definition of manipulation: yes- we do manipulate women in pickup, just as guys outside of pickup, also practice manipulative tactics.

The trick now comes in where AFC’s and Beta-Males who oppose pick-up ideology, put a negative spin on the word manipulation, and then tag that label onto pickup.

Believe whatever it is you want, but we all manipulate!

The world itself is a grand manipulation!

In fact, if you don’t manipulate others, you get nowhere in life!

Everyone of us is subjected to manipulative tactics, and everyone of us attempts to use manipulation upon others.

How about women who wear makeup and mascara?

Isn’t that manipulation?

Isn’t that an attempt to make oneself appear (more) youthful than she really is in order to attract those of the opposite sex?

Isn’t that very manipulative?

How about wigs and false hair?

How about lipstick, botox, liposuction and high heels?

Are those manipulative tactics?

Of course they are!

However, we don’t hear Beta-Males and “good men” crying foul about such manipulative tactics which are used by almost every girl in the so-called developed and developing world.

Hence, why the double standard?

Why do some men see chatting up women as manipulation, but women wearing skin-tight outfits to the nightclubs in order to seduce men, are taken with a grain of salt?

The answers are besides the point.

What is very relevant is the reality that both sexes MUST and DO manipulate the other.

Women aren’t called out on this because ass-kissing Beta-Males want to remain servant-boys to women, so it’s best to ignore manipulation of the part of women in order to not upset their positions at poop-scoopers of women in society.

Even he- the “good guy” Beta- is the biggest manipulator there is in the virtual-dating marketplace!

So-called “Nice Guys” are the real assholes.

Their entire strategy is the manipulation of women!

They try to “friend” their way into pussy!

Their niceties and benevolent gestures are all done in hopes to get laid!

The so-called “good guy” isn’t being nice to women just for the sake of spreading love!

His agenda is a hidden motive which is all to get his slimy ‘self some poon-tang.

However, since he’s a social coward, afraid to advance on this goal of his [to get laid through false pretense], included the fact that this is the only way he knows (or been taught), he conceals his ulterior motives while berating the bolder men who don’t mislead women into thinking that their sole purpose for “talking” is just for friendship sake.

Hence, whenever I receive those oft-familiar comments and e-mails from guys who sparingly get laid, saying that “pickup is manipulative”, I chuckle and say, “Sure! It is! But don’t for 1 minute think that your ‘nice-guy shit’ isn’t manipulation in the worst way”!

At least as someone who does seduction/pickup, I can pride myself on the fact that I don’t lie to women, I don’t mislead women, I don’t give false hope and make false promises, I don’t “befriend” women in order to get laid, I don’t come off as someone who’s providing a shoulder to cry on while trying to fuck her at the same time!

Those are all crass-manipulative tactics of the average Joes, the Beta-Males and weak men!

They provide a shoulder for the girl to cry on in moments of distress while trying to finger her vagina as she sobs on his shoulder.

Very creepy muthafuckers are those so-called “Good Guys” who label PUA’s as manipulative and tricking women into bed!

A PUA does NOT provide a shoulder for any chick to lean on and to cry on!

A PUA does NOT make promises of relationship in hopes that the girl gives him sex under the promise of a relationship in waiting!

Speaking of that, I posted the following screenshot to my Facebook yesterday of a chat I had with a girl dating back to 2013 after I picked her up.

When I picked her up, quite naturally, my intention, which was stated to her, was solely a casual affair.

In other words; I was NOT looking a relationship- merely sex!

Now, this chick had fallen for me so hard within 2 weeks of meeting, she begged me to be in a relationship with her!

I turned her down!

I was NOT in the business of misleading women via false promises of exclusivity just to get laid.

Realizing that I wasn’t going to budge, she tried to put me in the friend-zone as a way to keep me around in order to entrap me into an unwanted relationship with her [women are brilliant tricksters].

Again; I declined to be her friend since that was NOT what I was after!

Thus the following messages she sent me upon my refusal to agree to anything serious or mere friendship.

Now, there are some guys out there going:

“Kenny, why the fuck didn’t you just agree to the terms and promise the girl a relationship in order to sleep with her”!?

Again; that would have been the worst kind of manipulation, playing on a gullible person through false hope and false promises.

That is an anti-PUA tactic, and we frown upon men [stereotypical players] who have to lie and mislead in such a way in order to get laid!

Hence, how are PUA’s manipulative!?

In which way?


This isn’t just a Kenny thing!

Any PUA would’ve done the same…unless he’s a rogue or fringy character…which is his prerogative! But PUA’s for the most part, are above board with the women we meet!

Sure I lie to women just as everyone else does!

I mean, telling a girl whom you’d just met that you live downtown when you really live uptown, isn’t manipulation, though a white lie.

On the other hand, telling a girl that you want to marry her, or take care of her and treat her like a princess when you only want to sleep with her, is manipulation and deception of the worst kind in dating!

There’s no hidden fucking agenda when it comes to the operation of a PUA!

The girl knows what we want!

We are not as stupid and unskilled to voice this to her. But she can very much tell within our body language, gestures [KINO and touching], voice, tonality and the subject matters we touch on and the ones we avoid like the plague.

The difference now between a PUA and a so-called non-manipulative guy, is that the so-called “good guy” hides his dick from women!

In other words, he pretends as though he doesn’t have a sexual interest in the women he meets.

Whenever a girl calls him out on wanting to fuck her, he goes:

“Oh no! Not me! I’m a good guy trying to make friends”!

However, since women possess clairvoyant abilities, she sees through this so-called good guy’s bullshit facade of deception and immediate dismisses him as just another chode-ass Beta trying to friend his way into some pussy.

Those are your manipulators in the negative sense of the word!

The so-called nice guys and “good guys” are your true manipulators, tricksters, deceptors and misleaders!

The Pick-Up Artist merely plays the mating ritual, which is a dance involving 2 persons engaged in push-pull, flirting, cat and mouse and subtle leads and gives.

Women very well understand that dating and courtship is a dance!

PUA’s also understand this!

The stereotypical “good guy” is the only one oblivious to the way this game is played, hence he resorts to manipulative tactics such as trying to buy women, buy their love, buy their affection, buy their attention in the form of gifts, drinks at the club, nice-guy chatter, flattery and compliments.

His entire schtick is to buy women!

He puts down-payments and [monetary] installments on the pussy [through favors, errands and gifts] in hopes that the girl will reward him with what he truly wants but is afraid to go after it: SEX!

On that note, to those guys out there who get somewhat defensive whenever confronted with “pickup is manipulative” talking points, take it not negatively!

Laugh it off while bearing in mind that the guys (or gals) who taunt you of this, are the true manipulators!

For crying out loud dude, I’ve been called a manipulator, rapist and evil scumbag by both men and women over the years since propagating this information through my blog.

Have those falsified labels detracted me from my 2 main goals: teaching and banging?

Of course not!

The true hallmark of an Alpha-Male is someone who doesn’t allow weaker people’s opinions of them to cause a reaction for the worse.

Biggest Tip When Going For A Solid Phone-Number Close

“Your results are as solid as the work you put in”!

I received an e-mail earlier from a subscriber to game, wanting to know the most crucial tip when securing a solid phone number: 1 that isn’t flaky and brittle as dried shrubs on an Autumn day.

There are several noteworthy tips from my playbook such as:

*Don’t beg/ask for the number

*Close with confidence

*Let her punch her number in

However, the most useful tip- in my book- to securing that phone number, is ‘Duration’.

How much time did you spend in set?

How long does your pick-ups last on average?

The thing is: the longer you stay in set [talking with the girl], the more solid the connection should have been…which means a more solid and non-flaky phone number.

Less time talking with the girl; greater the chances of the number not being so solid or solid at all.

As I mentioned in a recent post: the only exception should be cases where time is extremely limited and you have to close fast.

Even in such a case, it is still likely that the number would’ve been flaky and not so solid.

Hence, it is always advantageous to draw the process out as long as possible.

Now here’s the thing: you want to extend the initial chat [the pickup] before actually grabbing the number.

In other words, you don’t want to grab her number after 5 minutes then spend 20 extra minutes talking to the girl.

You would prefer to grab the number nearing the end of the 25th minute then bounce right afterwards.

Therefore, grab the number after about 15 + minutes of conversation [for example] then leave right away.

Don’t grab the number and continue to conversational stack into 10 additional minutes of game, or else you run the risk of messing up a good thing even though the number was solid…or you risk making blunders.

Too many guys are in the habit of looking at this thing as a sprint [number closing] opposed to a marathon.

The more time you spend with the girl, the better overall it’ll be!

Hence, you shouldn’t be approaching girls while saying to yourself:

“Let’s make this fast as possible! Hurry! Hurry! Hurry”!

As long as the girl isn’t in a discernible rush, then you have no logical reason to rush!

Always bear in mind a little tidbit I shared with you a while back: Girls have shit to do!

Now, this isn’t always factual: but it almost is. 😉

The average Jane has shit to do besides fuck around on Pinterest, Facebook and listen to her favorite songs.

Whenever a girl says she’s busy: 8 in 10 times, it is just a subtle brush off.

Therefore, as long as she’s outside of her cave and walking around, she’s pretty much window-shopping or grabbing groceries if she isn’t on a work break or something.

You do have those delicate and time-constraining situations where the girl needs to hitch a ride or grab a scheduled bus to get home or get to work…or school.

The video-still screenshots above are from a recent in-field pickup of mines.

When I spotted the hottie, she was in a huge rush noticeably, so I used social intelligence and social awareness to realize that I would NOT have been practical to stop her for a lengthy 45 minute chat. So I paced her, we walked together and I gamed her on the go.

It was a moving target as we would say in pickup.

Since time was very stringent and she had to catch a scheduled bus to get home, I was only able to chat her up for about 8 minutes tops before going for the number.

As you can see in the stills, I confidently let her punch in her information opposed to begging and asking.

I assumed the sell!

My demeanor and mannerism as I was pulling [getting the number] was that of someone who knew that it was a done deal.

All in all guys, when getting a girl’s number, or upon the approach itself, focus on prolonging things and not how quickly you need to get it over with!

Only rush it if time isn’t sufficient.

Ever Wondered Why Girls On Facebook Were So Stuck-Up?

Ever wondered why chicks were said to be so stuck-up on Facebook?

Well- this screenshot should answer your question.

This is also further proof that black men are largely responsible for putting chicks on pedestals…which further squashes the myth that all black men were born with game.

Thanking girls for accepting your friend request is not just putting yourself in the “Beggar” frame, but you’re ruining your chances from the gate!

Women are very fucking ruthless and heartless!

What I mean by that is, women do NOT reward men for niceness!

They actually punish men for doing/saying things which are perceived to be “Nice”.

If and when a girl accepts your friend request; treat it like it never happened!

Just move on!

Thanking and praising her on her Facebook wall will do nothing but annoy her and hoist her further atop the pedestal.

Those same men who praise women for accepting their friend requests, then turn around and call women stuck-up snobby bitches!

Well- you made them that way fool!

You gave their ego all the ammunition they need to believe that they are praise-worthy!


Some Chick Logics For You

Women see and perceive things and situations very differently than me.

I’ve already taught you that over the years.

To the pick-up world, the way in which women interpret and see things, we’ve dubbed it “Chick Logics”.

To the contrary, there’s no such thing as “Dude Logics” for men. Logics are logics for us, just as they should be for everyone else.

However, since women have a different set of logics which often seem illogical, we call that chick logics.

Let me give you an example of this [Chick Logics].

Sex with a condom on with a girl who has a boyfriend, makes her feel less of a cheater.

To a man’s logical interpretation: cheating is fucking cheating, whether the girl makes the guy wear a condom or not!

To a woman’s logical interpretation [chick logics], it makes a difference whether the guy throws on a rubber or not.

To her: cheating isn’t just cheating when she does the so-cheating.

Hence, the way in which women interpret such a situation is a case of what we in pickup call “Chick Logics”.

It is just 1 of those psychologically irrational mechanisms within a woman’s brain.

I slept with a girl a few weeks ago, one who has a boyfriend, and her main concern was that she didn’t want me to fuck her raw…not the fact that she was fucking another guy to begin with.

Cheating alone wasn’t such a big deal at all to her.

Whether I wore a condom or not was a much greater deal.

As I eluded to earlier, for a guy, cheating is cheating!

The use of a condom doesn’t make it less of a violation!

Not using protection doesn’t exacerbate the violation or make it worse!

For a woman however, psychologically, she may feel less of a cheat by knowing that the guy whom she cheated with was wearing a condom.

For clarification sake, I just want to let you know that women aren’t thinking this logically.

They are thinking within the moment and within the heat of passion, lust, love, infatuation, horniness, etc.

Therefore, no sane woman within a non-emotional setting will ever tell you that using a condom makes cheating more acceptable.

It is just something they interpret as logical and acceptable within the moment.

Now, if this is your first time ever coming across any material about “Chick Logics”, I understand that you may be somewhat taken-aback and even dumb-struck at this revelation.


We’ve all been there!

On the bright side, now that you are in the know about the way women think and operate, you’ll begin to see things better and to understand women and what to expect of them.

You will have learned to have lower expectations of women…which women actually want- to be honest here.

You will only get disappointed and hurt once you continue to expect that women will live up to these high-ass expectations that society and men place upon them.

A girl would love to have the freedom to fuck whomever she wishes and whenever she wishes!

However, because of societal backlash, slut-shaming, judgment and so forth, she has to resort to devising these not-so-elaborate tactics in order to make her appear not so slutty.

Hence, her tactics to cover her tracks come off as illogical [chick logics] because there’s no way to logically justify cheating without looking slutty…though women have attempted to, by creating cliches such as:

“A woman cheats because her significant other doesn’t have any time for her”

“Women only cheat for good reasons”

“Her boyfriend never had any time for her since he was always hanging with the boys”

“Her man was abusive so she found comfort somewhere else”

Those are just some attempts from women to put a logical and justifiable spin on cheating.

In the grand scheme of things, women simply do not want to have expectations enjoined upon them that they will have to live up to- because most times- they fail to live up to them.

What I am encouraging you as a guy to do from now on, in light of this revelation [chick logics], is to quit expecting that women should see things the way men do.

Quit expecting women to not cheat! And this goes for your girlfriend or wife if you’re married!

The moment that you think that it can’t happen to you, is the moment it will happen [your girlfriend cheating on you]!

As long as emotions rule women [when it comes to men]- and they do- , they will continue to make rash and spur-of-the-moment decisions, not out of logical calculations but emotions of the moment [chick logics].

This is why every woman is susceptible to cheating…not that they will all act upon it, but it can happen if the right/wrong emotions are in play.

Grounded, Banned And Punished!

Remember the mixed Asian and black girl whom I met last Saturday evening during street game?

Well, her parents found out that their daughter was seeing me, so they decided to ban her from seeing me.

They literally grounded her…though she’s an adult [19]!

I went to pick her up last night [to hang out] and her aunt and mother verbally assaulted me, saying that I wasn’t the type of man they wanted her hanging out with.

I tried to talk to the mother but she shunned me and told me to leave her daughter alone because she’s a good girl.

I agree!

She is a good girl!

The aunt threatened me not to come back around looking for her niece.

What gives?

I really don’t know for certain.

Either they’d googled me or they happened to come across some text-message exchange between us that were left in her phone or something.

Thinking about it, I did recall the mother ranting and saying that “Kenny is the guy who left those nasty messages…”.

She then came to the gate and asked if I was Kenny. But before I got to explain after confirming I was Kenny, she blurted out “leave my daughter alone”!

“She’s a good girl”!

Again- I agree!

She is a good girl!

Now grounded and stripped of her mobile devices, I guess I have no way of seeing her. 😦 😦

At the end of the day, this sort of thing happens from time to time, and will happen even to you, once you become a more social guy who sees nothing at all wrong with meeting new and interesting people.

This one sort of stings because I was really into this chick.

It wasn’t just about a quick lay.

I actually enjoyed hanging out with this girl.

Oh well- shit happens.

I am not even going to address the fact than an adult woman should be allowed at minimum, the freedom to talk to whomever she pleases…but that’s for another post.

#GameOn #RollOn #TakeItInStrides

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