Reading A Woman’s Body Language Exercize

Today, I did a little body-language exercise while sitting at the pier.

There was a girl whom I met seated about 25 yards away with her back facing me.

Here’s the actual photo of the seated girl.


All the while, she wasn’t aware of my presence since I sat at an angle which was outside of her view range. She would’ve had to look back in order to see me there.

While sitting there, I took mental note of her entire body language and posture:

“Back somewhat hunched over and down (while peering into her smartphone)”,

“Hair a bit disheveled at the sides as the wind blew her hair out of perfect formation”,

“Her shoulders slightly dipped downwards following the posturing of her arched back”,

“Her feet and legs somewhat stiffened”,

“The small of her back just where the buttocks meets the lower back was well covered but a slight gap as her panty was revealed a bit because she was hunched over somewhat”.

I took mental observation of these factors while scanning her body and posture unbeknownst to her.

Now, the trick is, was to see if her current-lax posturing will remain the same if she notices a guy [me] checking her out from the rare periphery.

This is absolutely the first time I would’ve done this random body-language exercise.

One dilemma faced me though: I had to get her to look back in order to know/see that I was there since I was seated about 25 yards in back of her as depicted in the actual poor-quality photo below [she’s in the orange top].

I tried everything from sneezing, coughing loudly, tapping on the table/bench that I was sitting on, talking loudly as I pretended to be on a phone call. 😈

Nothing gave!

She kept her face forward peering into her device.


As if by devine intervention: an 8-wheel oil truck passed and blew its loud horn which got the attention of the girl…so she instinctively look towards the sound coming from the truck which happened to be in the direction I was sitting.


Our eyes met for a nanosecond as she looked away once our eyes met!

I also waved hi to her.

That is all I wanted; for her to know that there was a guy [me] seated somewhere who happened to lock eyes with her.

This’ an actual photo I took at that exact moment.


Ok, so now that she was aware of my Alpha presence, would her body language be altered in any way significantly or ever so slightly?

I asked myself.

Instantly, she propped herself up!

Straightened her back!

Lifted her shoulders!

Accentuated her overall upper body!

Her lower back was revealed more!

Her body language became fixed and sexier. “Fixed” in the sense that she’d straightened out her posture. “Sexier” in that she accentuated her flanks, preened her hair back into position and assumed a position which gave me a better view to her boobs from the poor vantage point at which I was seated.

In other words: she then knew I was checking her out, thus she wanted to present herself in the most attractive way given the circumstance.

On a deeper level, this is akin to a mating ritual in the animal kingdom.

The female accentuates her physical attributes in order to attract possible mates.

This is why whenever a girl notices an attractive guy around who’s likely to check her out, she preens herself, her clothing, straighten her tight dress in order to present a more attractive view, she props up her breasts to appear more full and buoyant and so forth.

These are classic body-language cues and giveaways you will have noticed once you begin to take note of them by actually checking women out.

If she finds you attractive [energy or looks] and sex-worthy; she will put herself on display for you!

Contrarily, if she doesn’t particularly like your energy thus isn’t attracted to you; she won’t give much of a fuck and she’ll actually do the opposite and try her best to repel your stares in hopes to turn you off [this part is done consciously].

As a caveat here, if you want to know whether a girl has the hots or not for you, check out her body language.

They will always give her away!

Note: this is done on a subconscious level by the girl.

In other words; she isn’t even aware of her own body language giving her away.

Moreover, she isn’t consciously aware of the cues and signs that her body gives off towards the men whom she likes.

With this chick from today’s experimentation, her body language [positioning] indicated interest and attraction.

Not surprising, she got so into it that about 5-10 minutes later once she realized that I was checking her out, she laid herself down on the bench, knees cocked in the air and boobs facing upwards where I can now get a full view of them as if she were lying on the beach!

Was she suddenly doing all of this because of me?


In order to get my attention even more.

These ‘subtle’ signaling often go unnoticed by guys whenever they are in the presence of women.

From now on, I want you to be aware of these things.

Make it your business to go sit at the park, beach, restaurant, on the bus, etc. and just observe the women around you.

Observe their movements, body language, arm position, legs positioning, their shoulders, what they do with their hands, do they straighten their hair, slick down their dresses and adjust their fitted wear?

Observe these things one day!

Eye contact isn’t necessary and it is the least.

You don’t need to gain EC from a girl in order to tell if she’s aware of your presence.

Focus on the body language!

Now, I need to make this crystal clear: I am NOT suggesting that you do this every single time you’re out and about.

You should take a day or an hour or so out of a day to run this observational experimentation.

You don’t want to be the creepy guy sitting around checking out women without actually approaching them.

During the exercise, try to exhibit normal as possible body language on your part.

Over time you’ll become more aware of the subtle signs women give off with their body posturing.

Oh- on a final note, don’t particularly focus on the quality of the girls in whom you’re observing.

If you’re riding a bus with all elderly women on it; still run your observations!

With the girl pictured in this post, since I didn’t quite see her face, she was probably unattractive for all I know…and is on the bigger side.

Doesn’t matter!

This is all experimentation to get you accustomed to reading body language.

Best Rejection Attempt Ever!

I find this really humorous so I had to post it.

A day ago while attempting to pick up a girl over Facebook [as I usually succeed in doing], the following interaction ensued:


Arguable the best and most creative rejection attempt ever!

Sure I knew she wasn’t a tranny after I’d checked out her profile and pics prior to contacting her. But boy oh boy; this has to be the most ingenious rejection attempt I ever came across in my entire life of game: 😆

I’ve had girls tell me that they are gay or bi-sexual, but never transsexual…as in they were born a man. 😯

At the end of the day, this is no different than a girl telling you she has a boyfriend just to see if you’d buy it and self-reject.

Obviously, the girl did admit that she was screwing around and it was done because guys were annoying her…likely needy pests sending her novels worth of messages and flooding her inbox.

Girls will often seek clever ways to try to reject you, whether they’re interested or not.

Things Women Say


The mind-blowing things chicks say in the name of hooking up.

Screenshot from a text convo I had about 2 weeks ago with a chick whom I’ve been hooking up with for the past month.

So…when she hooks up with me behind her boyfriend’s back, it is an act sanctioned by her deity?

#Epic! #IHeartWomen

Reading Between The Lines: Women Will Give You Hints

Some years ago, I wrote extensively about hint-dropping done by women in hopes that the guy to whom they’re dropping those hints, will get the subliminal message and act upon it.

This can be said for the positive and negative.

If a girl isn’t particularly into you, she will let you know in somewhat coded language and hope that you pick up on it.

Likewise whenever she’s keen on you and is looking to meet up, hook up or any other such “Positives”.

Ok, so why do chicks drop hints, insinuate and deliver subliminal messages?

Two reasons:

1.) Women are just too docile and are afraid to offend and hurt others [very contradictive…I know]. This is why girls are notorious for giving guys fake phone numbers. Rather than say “No” to the guy and hurt his feeling, they will elect often times to give him a fake number just to cushion the pain somewhat.

2.) On the semi-positive end, women need to go around the bush in order to avoid looking slutty and easy. So social pressure often times force women to have to cloak their true intentions within coded language.

Check out this screenshot of a convo between a married chick and me whom I’d picked up about 2 months ago [my text in blue. Hers in gray].

My text in blue. Hers in gray

Now, quite naturally, you may say to yourself, “And…so…I didn’t see anything there”!

“I’m not really a texting persons”

That is a hint there…very significant though you might have missed the importance of such an innocuous comment.

That comment of hers within her broader text, depended on context and existential factors, can either be a positive or negative [for me].

If a girl tells you that she isn’t a texting person, she’s either trying to communicate to you that she doesn’t want to talk to you, i.e. she isn’t interested.

On the other hand, it may also indicate the opposite: that she is in fact interested but really isn’t a texting person.

Moreover, if she sends you such a message as this girl did in my case, you will have to exercise social intelligence to discern whether it in the negative or positive: she likes you or not.

A way in which to discern this [likes me- likes me not] is to simply take an overall glance of the vibe.

If the girl is acting a bit standoffish or cold, then it may be wise to assume that she isn’t quite into you at the moment.

If for whatever reason you surmise that she’s into you, then a comment like, “I’m not the texting type”, should be interpreted in the positive.

Now, the positive hint in such a comment can be interpreted as:

A.) The girl saying that she would rather hear you voice and chat over the phone opposed to texting [as in my case]

B.) The girl saying that she would rather meet up face to face and talk

Most guys unfortunately never get the hint since we men are oblivious to the fact that women operate in cryptic ways, and their words are somewhat like double entendre [open to 2 different interpretations].

With that being the case, from henceforth, if a girl says to you [for example: through text] that she doesn’t do the phone thing, i.e. she doesn’t text or talk on the phone much, always assume in the positive that she’s dropping a hint to mean that she’s hoping to meet up and chat instead.

Always assume the hint in the positive opposed to the negative.

Girl over the phone or text says that she’s hungry: assume that she’s dropping a hint for you to pick her up a snack and go hang out with her.

Surely I don’t advocate spending on women because it’s lame and puts you in the provider frame. But if it means getting a step closer to her bedroom or doorstep; by all means, you should grab her a snack and go see her.

She’s not going to directly expose herself unless she’s someone whom you’d known for a while.

Therefore, don’t expect a girl whom you’d just met a week ago to blatantly say, “Come over”!

If she does want you to “come over”, she’ll be more stealthy than that.

She has to be cryptic about it!

Her reputation leans on it!

If she does want you to come over, she will hint at it and hope that you’ll catch it.

If you don’t catch it, you subsequently lose value in her eyes and she will lose interest in you as someone who’s lacking in the social-intelligence department.

Note: most guys get rejected along the way due to this.

Even if they manage to pick up the girl and get her number, they soon after blow themselves out and tank their chances by not being able to see hints and to seize their opportunities.

Chicks will reward you for executing and demonstrating social awareness and being able to read subtle cues.

They will punish you and reject you for failing to do so. So, when the house wife said to me that she isn’t the texting type and she prefers to talk, I seized the opportunity to later on suggest we meet up and talk.

My text in blue. Hers in gray

As expected: she was up for it!

I passed the test by being able to read between the lines, hence my attraction in her eyes soared through the roof because of this 1 play in the game.

Remember the girl whom I’d hooked up with 3 days ago…when I was unable to maintain an erection? 😦

Same can be said of that situation as it pertains to hints and subliminal messages.

First off: look at the time stamp of these texts…remind you that she had texted me first out of the blue.





If a girl texts you after 10 PM- out of the blue- chances are- she’s bored and open to the suggestion of meeting up/hooking up.

However, if you don’t firstly initiate the “I want to come over” text: she won’t!

With this chick, the simple fact that she had texted me at that hour, was a clear enough indication for my Jedi-mind that she wanted to hook up. So I took that as a hint and a subliminal message and seized the opportunity to initiate some sex talk which led her to say “Come over”.

That [hooking up] would not have materialized if I didn’t read between the lines [girl texted me out of the blue…after 10 pm].

How many instances like these have you encountered and failed to read the hidden message behind the message?

This is a very common occurrence. And I’m going to go out on a limb to say that this is the biggest reason [failure to read signs and seize opportunities] why guys get friendzoned in the 1st place [inability to read signs], and also the biggest reason why guys fail to sleep with girls who initially liked them whom they’d managed to pick up.

Everything boils down to one’s ability or inability to read hidden messages women put out there, and also one’s ability or inability to survey the dynamics in order to discern the bigger picture from an innocent and innocuous occurrence.

At the end of the day, I want to implore you to take nothing lightly!

Girl initiates the texting?

Assume that she wants to hook up!

Make her prove to you that this isn’t the case [obviously without asking her directly]!

Whenever you’re engaged in texting with a girl, always be aware of hidden agendas and hidden messages to the negative or positive.

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