I See Shyness As The Main Thing That Keeps Guys From Getting Laid

Shyness is a social conditioning and probably the reason you aren’t getting laid!

I have a male coworker who possesses the following attributes:

• About 21 years old

• 6’3 in height

• Slim built

• Very good looking

• Has super swagger in mannerism

…Yet he doesn’t get laid…testament of his v-card which he still holds.

This dude has zero reason whatsoever why he shouldn’t be slaying lots of pussy!

He’s society’s ideal of male beauty: tall, dark, young and handsome…very inviting smile and welcoming personality.

The fact that he falls into the nice-guy bracket is another story for another time as to why he doesn’t get laid.

Ok, so after closely examining his dilemma from our many discussions on the subject of women and hooking up, it became readily apparent that the primary reason for this guy not getting laid, is his shyness…nice-guy vibe aside.

The thing that always puzzles me about shy guys is their apparent detachment from the reality of why they suck with women and dating.

They never seem to realize that their most OBVIOUS sticking-point is SHYNESS!

With this being the case, no matter how many techniques and tweaks a guy like myself can provide them [Outer Game]; the techniques still won’t profit them if they’re unable to break out of that shell of shyness.

In my entire years of teaching pickup, I’ve yet to meet a shy guy who realized and admitted that his pitfall with women was his shyness.

I get the impression that most men (the shy types especially), are expecting women to approach them to break the ice.

How do I know that this is the prevailing impression of shy guys?

My coworker in question constantly laments about women not being social and appearing stuck-up.

He arrived at that conclusion [women are stuck-up] because girls aren’t approaching him in spite of his good looks.

Though I never personally give him tips on how to go about meeting women. But even in his presence, I’m constantly approaching and chatting up strangers while we’re out on lunch and tea breaks.

Thus, this guy has more than enough evidence as to why he sucks [shyness] and what he needs to do to get positive results [approach].

2 thoughts on “I See Shyness As The Main Thing That Keeps Guys From Getting Laid

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  1. I didn’t read the article yet but kudos on the site update, Kenny. I’m going to give you my unsolicited opinion since it seems as though you’re interested in a more aesthetic webpage.

    1. I’m digging your green coloring for the text. The red coloring for the title “PUA Adventures” is a bit garish though. You may want to try a stronger font as well – maybe even bolding it. Have you tried centering it too? It may look better in the center than off to the side.

    2. Your title picture could be much higher in quality. It drags everything else down. Plus the colors don’t jive with the overall gray background.

    Just some thoughts.


    1. Thanks for the pointers Byron.

      I will jump on the tweak right away.

      The header image is actually great quality. The reason it has that look is because of some effect I applied to it to give it that kinda look.

      As for the header title, I actually wanted to make it bold but I don’t see any options to make it bold.

      The color (red), I don’t quite know why I chose that. But I’ll play around with some other ones.


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