Mechanics Of Having A Good-Pickup Opener To Break The Ice

I’ve touched on this subject many times over the months: What are openers and how to use them.

As simple as breaking the ice with a random girl seems on the surface, it’s actually the most difficult task to execute for most.

We just don’t know what to say to grab the girl’s attention.

Hence, PUA openers are ingenious in that they equip guys with something to say in order to break the ice.

In this video (with clips from my previous video), I utilize my new favorite opener in order to crack into conversation with random strangers on the streets.

I also explain what to do/say after using an opener.

How Many Of The Dozens Of Girls Picked Up On My Trip Had I Contacted?

Ah- the $ million question!

I had a guy over Facebook ask me, “Hey Kenny, from your recent trip, seems like you’d closed many girls. Did you pursue any or that was just it”?

The truth is; as I mentioned in the video- the purpose wasn’t to rack up phone numbers and Facebook exchanges in order to pursue any of those girls.

It was strictly for demonstrational purposes and to show how effective running the #’s game can be.

I had no intention to try to hook up with any of those girls.

Now the reality is this: I’d gotten about 30 phone numbers and 30 Facebook exchanges over that weekend.

Most of those sets were obviously not recorded.

Of the 60 or so contact info secured, I honestly only contacted 1 girl…which is the hottest of the bunch in my estimation.

In fact, it isn’t that she’s the hottest.

She was the one to show the most interest and the most investment in conversation when I first chatted her up.

Hence, I didn’t chose to pursue her based on hotness rather the vibe we had.

With that, 1 out of 60 + girls picked up, I chose to contact and possibly hook up with in the near future on a subsequent visit to her island…which might be soon as possible.

Perhaps you recognize her from the documentary video?

The beauty of abundance and having lots of options in women is that you keep desperation at bay.

Just as the average hot girl isn’t at all desperate to hook up.

As a guy who has the ability to meet lots of women, you too will never have to be preoccupied with finding the next pussy to bang.

Like a boss, you can simply narrow down the list of potential girls to hook up with instead of having to latch onto “1” and put all of your energy and psychological resources into that 1 chick.

How To Pick Up Women On The Go [Moving Targets]

Moving Target Game!

I think the greatest lesson one can learn from my pick-up documentary which I posted days ago, is how to pick up women while on the move.

It is advantageous to get the girl to stop and chat.

However, there will arise situations where the girl cannot stop and chat, or she’s extremely busy, hustling to catch a bus, etc, etc, etc.

In such cases, knowing how to create instant attraction which facilitate the path to brisk conversation on the go, is an art worth learning.

Another fact is that guys generally don’t approach women on the move to begin with.

It’s more intimidating than approaching a girl who’s “THERE”, stationary and is basically a sitting-duck…psychologically.

Trying to pick up girls who are moving, seems more intimidating to most of us.

Ok, as you would’ve seen in my video(s); 95% of the girls I approached were moving/walking.

Matter of fact, I rarely ever approach and chat up girls who are seated somewhere or browsing the aisle of a supermarket.

With moving targets, what really blows guys out – and I’d seen it 1st hand on my recent trip- is the fact that guys are unable to generate traction and intrigue from the get-go.

This is to be expected since it’s 10 times more difficult to get someone’s attention while he or she is rushing to a destination.

Merely saying “Hi” to a girl who’s moving, isn’t (usually) enough to grab her attention since a “hi” is too generic and doesn’t register with enough pizazz on the girl’s radar…coupled with the fact that women suffer from sever-short attention spans.

Likewise with saying to her, “Hi baby girl”, isn’t enough to get her attention neither while moving.

It’s not that girls are against these lame-generic lines…even thought they’re lame.

It is the lack of intent on the approaching guy’s part and his unwillingness to follow through with something interesting to keep the girl engaged.

Ok, screw all the preliminary stuff and let’s get right to it: Picking up women on the go!

1.) As you spot the girl on the street, and let’s say that she’s heading in the same direction but she’s on the other side of the road, your job is to first cross the road to her side.

Guys constantly make the mistake of trying to get girl’s attention from too far away (i.e. from across the road). And this is usually in the form of a cat-call…which shows zero fucking intent.

Hence, you want to close the distance before opening.

2.)Make sure she can hear you.

Another no-brainer yet often neglected.

We often time fail to project our voices to strangers as if to not offend them. Hence we fail to speak clearly enough as a man so that the girl can hear us.

3.)You have to “Pace” the girl.

Another mistake guys make is to not pace themselves properly in relation to the girl and at the pace in which she’s moving.

With that, the guy is often left behind the girl while trying to talk to her from her back.

You want to walk side to side, shoulder to shoulder as much as possible…or slightly ahead of her depended on certain factors.

The rest is history and your ability (or inability) to hold an interesting conversation will determine whether you get to pick her up [get her phone number] or not.

If you’re not quite sure how this look [the 3 pointers], then you can always check out some snippets of the video to get a perfect sense of how I approach, where and how I walk and so forth.

THANKS For Viewing

Just want to say thanks to everyone who’d took the time to check out my documentary videos which were posted yesterday and have since generated lots of views in less than 24 hours.

I realize that apart from the many fluff videos on Pickup you’ll find on the internet, they are way too advanced for the average guy who cannot even approach a random girl let alone go for the kiss.

Hence the video was well received by most in that it shows guys how to do the basic (converse) and how to hold conversations with random strangers.


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