How willing are you to play dirty?
I’m a huge believer in ruffling feathers of hot girls when they duly deserve it.
Such women are so used to having guys kiss their ass cracks, that the validation and attention go straight to their head like a junkie taking a hit of heroin.
Some hot girls do not have a sense of humor. Simply because they never really needed one since guys are all too willing to give them a passes on their bitchy behavior anyway.
When a guy like myself comes along, someone who doesn’t ass-kiss hot chicks, I’m liable to be subjected to the same bitchiness as in the case with men who are responsible for spoiling these chicks rotten in the 1st place with undeserved attention.
Ok, so the villainous protagonist of this post comes by way of a Dominican girl from Santo Domingo who lives in Antigua…where I reside.
Ask me how we became Facebook friends and I cannot tell you. But that is the case: we are FB friends sharing 4 mutual friends. So most likely, either she added me or I added her based on mutual acquaintances.
Anywho, this Latina is smoking hot [at least to my specification] as you can see from both photos inserted into the post included the 1 at the top of the post.
The problem with super-hot girls ONLINE is that they almost always tote around tremendously high “Bitch Shields” [this chick being no exception].
Read: How to deal with bitches and their bitch shields, by my good buddy, Alpha Wolf aka Vince Lin.
Anyways, so she posted the following photo to Facebook some days ago.
It kept popping up in my feed due to the high numbers of “likes” clicked, so I felt cajoled into commenting.
Hence the following screenshot of my comment on the said photo.
How fucking rude of her, right?
Because of that innocuous comment of mines, she felt a need to tell me to get off of her page…notwithstanding the fact that she posted the pic’ publicly so it doesn’t only appear on “her page” but every one else’s [the hottest girls are generally low IQ- go figure…but logics are beside the point]. 😉
As a guy who doesn’t take light to bitchy and opportunistic shit from women, I fired back with some “rude” of my own:
Me: “You took my comment offensive? Que jodia putona”!
Being fluent in Spanish, I called her a fucking “Putona”, which translates to a “HUGE SLUT” [emphasis on “Huge”].
It’s the type of word that is liable to get a drink thrown in your face…or get you smacked.
My profane comment by the way, was quickly deleted by the Latina, which is why it doesn’t appear in the screenshot above.
I frankly didn’t care! I simply said what I said and moved on.
A day later, I get the following inbox message from her.
Note how interesting the dialogue turned out and how I was able to flip the script with a well-needed dose of “rude”.
Noticed how adamant she is in trying to convince me, a stranger, that she didn’t mean what she said in a bad way [that I should get off her page]?
That is what you call “Qualifying” in Pickup, where she’s deferring away her actions in order to placate me (by qualifying herself).
The inbox messages continued with me sticking to my guns by insinuating she was being a bitch:
She further tries to acquit herself:
She has now essentially been knocked off the high pony which all super-hot girls have the luxury to ride on…due to clueless men who place them there.
Sensing the “switch” and her genuine attitude towards repent, I had to give her something positive but in an indirect sorta way. So I complimented her (indirectly) on being Dominican as a way to reward her for stepping down off the horse:
Note: you can be an asshole with women [as I often am when called for] but at some point during the interaction, you have to tone down the asshole and become somewhat civil.
She wonders how I know she’s a Dominican Latina.
Guess she doesn’t realize we have 4 mutual friends of which are all Dominicans.
Plus her profile says “Dominican”, so what a no-brainer.
Most importantly though, was how I bantered with that question with a bit of sexual spike.
I then built some intrigue and curiosity by implying a mysterious 3rd. party:
Which played to her innate curiosity and wanting to make closure…which is why she kept on inquiring:
Like a great sport; I ended it there in order that the questions fester within her mind. 😈
Ok guys, I’ll end the screenshots there, but the dialogue continued the next day as she inboxed me again after I totally ignored her.
Might I add: this is the 1st time she and I have ever chatted since adding each other on Facebook over 6 months ago.
What I want you to take away from this meaningless incident is as the title of the post denotes: At times, you may have to (verbally) disrespect a very hot girl in order to bring her back to reality, that inspite of her beauty…and booty; she’s just another fucking girl among many.
I didn’t make the fucking rules neither buddy!
Moreover, the problem with this girl and a handful of others within her caliber, is that they expect every guy to scoop their poop (proverbially), kiss their ass and to laud them with precious comments on their social-media postings and pictures.
I’d written about this recently that it is suicide to generically compliment hot women via Facebook.
This Latina expected nothing else but the status quo, that I would praise her in every manner for the sexy photos posted, drool over the keyboard and send direct compliments in bunches.
Having NOT received praises from my end, she immediately felt as though she was violated [spoiled girl syndrome]…which subsequently led me to violate her.
Ok, on the other side of the spectrum, you’re gonna have guys say that “Kenny was reactive and butt-hurt and he should’ve showed more poised like an Alpha”.
This may be true in other cases that you should want to appear non-affected and non-reactive.
However, in my defense; I wasn’t butt-hurt, offended nor reactive in a low-value sense.
I didn’t argue with the girl about she not wanting me on her page.
I called her a huge slut (Putona) deservingly so, and went about my business.
No malice held on my part.
Rejection is common!
If you aren’t used to dealing with women who have sticks up their ass who believe that every guy should worship them, then you won’t quite understand that you may have to get a bit nasty in order to get them to conform and play ball on an even plain.
The way you deal with a spoiled brat isn’t to pamper the shit out of her.
She has tons of guys doing that already…all of who are in the friendzone might I add!
How you deal with a bitchy-hot girl who’s used to attention is to either:
A.) Ignore her by not giving her any praise-worthy attention.
B.) Cut her down to size with a harsh word or 2.
Both do work!
This is no different than being in a bar or nightclub, approaching a hot girl who has a high bitch shield, to then have her scold you with:
“Get lost! I don’t want to talk to you”!
Apologizing to such a bitch for attempting to converse, would be digging your own grave beyond 6 feet.
Most men unfortunately, would have apologized and humbly excused themselves from her divine presence.
Laughing in the face of such bitchiness could work to turn the tide also.
However, if and when that fails; you have no further recourse but to get nasty:
“You’re such an anti-social bitch”!
Either that or you walk off dejectedly with your tail between your legs [this option doesn’t sound too appealing to my ears].
Depended on the girl and the circumstance, laughing while simultaneously plowing in the face of her bitchiness, can work.
Berating her can work too!
Online though, you can’t exactly laugh at a girl and appear non-reactive and expect her to chase you [emotions and feelings are virtually impossible to convey through texts].
The ultimate caveat I wish to share with you guys is this: whenever dealing with a hot chick online, the non-reactive shit won’t profit you much [in person- that might be sound advice].
On a further note, regardless of the medium, hot girls are NOT used to men NOT worshiping the very ground they walk on.
Ruffling their feathers would really get under their thin skin as hot girls are generally the most insecure and self-conscious people you’d ever come across.
Undoubtedly, I believe that this girl was lying by trying to convince me that she didn’t mean it in a negative way when she told me to get off her post.
She did mean to say that shit!
She just didn’t expect a guy [me] to publicly call her a bitch…which is why she quickly deleted the comment before any of her worshipers could see it and realize that she’s just as fucking human as anyone else.
You see- hot girls want to maintain an aura of royalty and to be perceived as goddesses by men and women alike.
Anyone who shows a lack of respect for her and her perceived godliness- PUBLICLY- would immediately challenge her god-ship, which will then force her to either flee or play nice to gain an ally.
In this case; the bitchy girl decided to play nice. 😉
That is how you handle women with bitchy attitudes. You manage them on a psychological level.
Firstly, realize that they are hyper-insecure and have low-self esteem issues.
Secondly, realize that they need validation and praise in order to maintain their social status.
If you rob them of this [as I did], they will become extremely hurt, defensive and seek to conform…as this girl did.
On a more critical note, women who behave this way [lacking humor, etc], could very well be a byproduct of damaged goods.
Some girls need to be disrespected in order to become attracted to a guy.
Niceness just doesn’t cut it for some women, as “nice” is often perceived as boring, lame and lacking spark.
Some women need that edgy guy who is willing to rough them up verbally and not give a shit about consequences such as losing them.
Anything less would be deemed unattractive whenever dealing with bitchy girls and damaged goods.
I mean, it took me having to have to call her a slut in order for us to have a conversation!
What does that say about this girl and many others who operate on such frequencies?
At the end of the day, if it has to come down to it, don’t be gun shy about getting rude and nasty with any new girl who has the audacity to be rude to you first.
There’s absolutely nothing to lose but a possible gain in getting the girl off of the high horse which other men [Betas] are responsible of putting her to begin with.
I’m reminded of a hidden-cam pickup video from my Asian nemesis, Enthalpy, where one of his pickup students approached a fellow Asian in a Vegas night spot and got shut down rudely.
Instead he fires back with some nuclear bombs of his own, he walked off dejectedly as he was rejected coldly [what else can you expect from a newbie AFC].
Enthalpy (the PUA coach) then did the right thing in this case, by standing up for his student and went over there to give the girl a piece of his mind.
This is no different than the way I handled my incident.
A greater part of the reason why nice guys don’t get laid is because they are fixated on this “I must respect women” mantra, and are unwilling to get rough and swing for the fences.