24 Things You Ought To Know About Women From A Pick-Up Artist

In no particular order of severity.

1. They only tell the truth after you manage to sleep with them

2. They think of sex more than men do

3. They will cheat on their significant other without a forethought…then regret it later

4. They cheat more than men do

5. They only feel sorry after the fact

6. They cry and feel remorseful only when caught

7. They secretly love to check out porn or sex-related material

8. They secretly “LOVE” to check out men’s bulges in their pants to see whether they have a hard on [numerous girls confessed this to me]

9. They are huge perverts

10. They run off of emotions and not logics

11. They are subconsciously attracted to men who have women in their lives

12. They abhor men who are weak, pushovers and passive

13. They have no tolerance for men who aren’t into them sexually…unless a platonic friend whom they’d friendzoned

14. They are gullible to a fault

15. They always believe that the grass is greener on the other side

16. They will almost always actively seek to upgrade their boyfriends by dumping the current for a new one

17. They only learn by being burned

18. They are subconsciously addicted to guys who treat them badly

19. They cannot help but to take kindness and niceness for weakness as long as it comes from a man

20. They are great concealers of their true feelings. For example, a woman may miss you to death during a fallout or break in relationship, but will play this off with the cool of James Bond.

21. They are easily bored by routine

22. They purposely don’t reply to your text messages and missed calls while pretending to not see them

23. They have the weirdest and most taboo fantasies like getting gang banged by a bunch of strangers…while blindfolded [Read Nancy Friday’s Secret Garden]

24. They prefer to fuck without condoms…but who don’t?

In no way was this list compiled through malice, misogyny or hatred for women rather through year’s worth of personal experience with women of all races and all walks of life.

White Guys Who Pick Up Black Girls + Hidden-Cam Video Of White PUA Picking Up Big-Boob Black Girl In A Baltimore Mall

Baltimore PUA

Baltimore PUA

I was sent the links to these videos from a PUA buddy of mines from Baltimore, Maryland, USA.

He’s into fitness stuff heavy but also does pickup and he also specializes in the art of seducing young-black girls. 😈

These set of infield hidden-cam videos are timely in that I usually get bombarded with Facebook messages from white guys who have a thing for dark meat but are unsure in how to approach the situation. Friday alone, I received 3 such messages about this.

To be frank: women are women!

What works on white girls will work on blacks!

It’s just that simple.

Hence, there’s no tailor-made game for black girls, whites or Orientals.

As long as she’s westernized; then the script is always the same irregardless of the girl’s race or where she resides (suburbia or the urban jungle).

So the 1st thing you, as a white guy, must understand [or even a black guy who wants to pick up white girls], is that you should approach black girls in the same manner as you do white ones (and vice versa).

Alright, I’ll give my detailed breakdown and analysis of the videos.

What I like most about the videos or what is happening, is the guy’s humor, light-heartedness and ability to not get stuck inside of his head on serious and boring subjects such as schooling and so forth.

His conversation was mainly on situational, funny and trivial chick topics such as shopping.

That’s not all!

This guy is super confident and has a cool about him although he’s aggressive in the sense of not being afraid to get physical and touch the girl.

Hence while walking, as you’ll notice in the videos, he takes the girl’s hand and holds it in a romantic gesture which is a SUPER plus as a complete stranger.

Even as the girl resists a bit (token resistance), he persists and takes her hand again after she withdrew it seconds earlier.

At another point, he takes her hand while fingers are interlocked (romantically) and kisses her fingers in a semi-romantic way yet dominantly, which solidifies the girl’s attraction for him.

This is a far cry from guys who are totally adverse to touching and are solely concerned with grabbing a lousy-phone number and bouncing.

Why take a girl’s phone # when you haven’t even established a romantic or physical connection with her?

Therefore, get physical with the girl FIRST before even thinking to get her # as my buddy demonstrated in the videos with this random stranger.

In essence also, he’d taken the girl on an instant date which eliminates the need for begging the girl to go out at a later time.

As you would already know: I’m a strong advocate of pulling girls to insta-dates as you meet them opposed to leaving. So this guy is exhibiting the perfect game just as how I would do it [or any advanced PUA or coach].

As you’ll notice from his demeanor, he isn’t nervous, scared nor shy about his moves.

He confidently walks hand in hand with this total stranger, essentially building a romantic connection from the start instead of acting like a giant pussy opting to text girls and waste time on the internet trying to build romance.

If you also check the girl’s disposition in the videos, she is totally at ease and soaking up this odd moment of random romance with a complete stranger.

She isn’t uncomfortable, she isn’t nervous, she isn’t trying to escape, etc.

Although there are tons of moments of silence; it doesn’t frikkin’ matter!

The would-be-awkward silence is neutralized by the KINO (hand-holding). So although the guy would allow some seconds to go by without talking, he compensates for this by the more powerful aspect, which is romance.

This will only get awkward during silence if you’re walking with the girl and not doing anything (touching for instance). But as long as you’re establishing some physical with the girl, you don’t have to say a word at all.

I like what he did also in the 1st video which was that he took her arm and placed it around his neck so as to create the impression that she’s hugging him [powerful].

At the 0:56 second point mark, he casually leans over and kisses her on the cheek while walking. Once again establishing romance as he deepens the seduction.

Not to mention, this is a total stranger whom he’d just met less than 5 minutes ago off of cold approach [goes to show how powerful pickup is once you get rid of fear].

I also want you guys to take note of what the girl is doing throughout the videos as the sexual tension rises.


In other words, she’s using her fingers to fiddle with her ponytail.

This is done “SUBCONSCIOULY” without girls even knowing that they’re doing it.

Even if they know or catch themselves doing it: they cannot stop it as long as they’re sexually attracted to the guy.



“Preening” is a mating ritual done by all female species in the animal kingdom including women.

If a girl is open to sex or she is sexually aroused, she will “PREEN” or toy with something. In this case, it is her ponytail.

If a girl is NOT attracted to you, she won’t give off signs of preening/mating.

All throughout the videos, this girl is toying with her ponytail (unconsciously) sending the signals to the guy that she’s interested and sexually receptive.

My buddy seizes the opportunity and got sexual/romantic with her.

Hence, you have to know how to read these little-subtle signs while in the heat of battle to know when you can escalate, etc.

At 2:38 of the 1st video, he places his arm around her waist [another +].

He then deepens the ritual + the attraction by stopping by a massage store in the mall. Doing this coincides with something I teach a lot which is that you should take the girl here and there, stop off here and there, enter this spot and that spot, essentially making the instant date seem as some sorta adventure and escapade.

At 5:17 (1st video), while he sits to test run a foot massage, he extends his hand to the girl in order to further deepen the romantic connection.

At 5:50 (1st video), she gives a bit of token/fake resistance but you should all be able to see that it was “Fake” resistance.

BTW, I know some of you guys will have asked, “Why is she looking through her phone almost the entire time? Doesn’t that mean she is NOT interested or is bored”?

No it damn sure doesn’t!

She’s engaged in her phone not because she is bored or disinterested, but because she’s so excited and taken away by the situation. So much so that she has to seek an out/outlet which is to “Pretend” as though she’s doing something on her phone.

Hence, this’ a major + (aka “ioi”).

There are times when a girl looks through her phone out of boredom or impatience while talking face to face with a guy. But this definitely isn’t 1 of those moments. So recognize the difference.

At the 7:10 mark (1st video), he heightens the sexual tension by placing his hand on the girl’s ass.

Are you bold enough to do this with a girl whom you’d just met minutes ago?

Well you better learn to be!

Another thing to note guy as I mentioned earlier. Taking a girl from store to store in a mall as this guy’s doing, isn’t just a random occurrence but scripted!

You want to make a “ritual” out of things when meeting new girls.

Take them into stores, malls, shops, museums, art galleries, parks, and so forth. You want to bombard their logical mind with lots of angles and things. So that’s the point of this guy taking the girl in store after store to look at weird-abstract things.

It’s a routine!

At 2:10 mark of the 3rd video, he says to her:

“I really like your energy”.

This is obviously a compliment but a weird and unorthodox 1. This’ actually a classic PUA compliment popularized by Mystery, the godfather of Pickup.

Hence, whenever you compliment a girl, compliment her on her good energy (or high energy) and not her good looks. If you notice, this guy never complimented the girl on looks yet, but she’s still hooked! Therefore, complimenting women (on looks) is unnecessary and will backfire in most cases as you’ll come off as just another ass-kissing loser.

At the 2:20 mark, he does something (verbally) which a lot of advanced PUA masters do. He says to the girl:

“We have very natural attraction, right”?

By saying that to the girl, he’s affirming and confirming that the attraction is mutual and that he is attracted to her without having to say it directly.

He then rewards her for acknowledging the mutual attracting by kissing her on the hand.

This is pickup-seduction 101 displayed by this guy.

Also, at another point of the last video (3:03), he says to her:

“Let’s find somewhere to sit”!

He didn’t ask her!

He didn’t seek her permission like a little bitch!

He “Led” her with an assumption frame by assuming that she would be down anyway.

This is powerful and key!

Never ask a girl’s permission. Simply tell her what’s up and GO!

“Let’s find somewhere to sit”, and lead her by the hand to that spot (as my buddy did in the video).

At the 3:30 mark, she says to him, “I don’t trust you”.

This is a frikkin’ PLUS!

Whenever a girl says that to you, that she doesn’t trust you, it is an IOI (Indicator Of Interest), as contradicting in nature as it sounds.

Now check the dichotomy here. Although she says to him “Verbally”, “I don’t trust you”, what does her actions say “Physically”? That she trusts him! πŸ˜†

If she really didn’t trust him, she would NOT have been going along with him throughout the mall, walking with him like lovers and so forth.

Hence, she really DOES trust him! But due to her built-in ASD (Anti-Slut Defense), she has to say that she doesn’t trust him.

Therefore, when a girl says that she doesn’t trust you, yet she’s there with you and being compliant, it’s a lie and it means that she does trust you!

My buddy capitalized off of this contradiction by kissing her on the lips and making out with her right after she said she doesn’t trust him, at the 3:40 mark of the last video.

Another thing to note guys, after making out with a random girl, or any girl for that matter, Do NOT treat it as though you won something! play it cool as possible as if this sorta stuff is normal for you and it happens for you on a daily basis.

Keep your goddamn cool as this guy does!

Ok, so she doesn’t trust him yet she makes out with him.

This underscores a point in pickup that we teach which is that you should NEVER believe anything a girl says when her emotions are engaged.

Had he taken it at face value that she doesn’t trust him, he would’ve lucked out on the makeout.

Another point guys, after making out with a girl, you don’t go all crazy about it by trying to rape her or anything. Just keep your cool and act as natural as possible as though nothing happened.

This will communicate to the girl that you’re Alpha.

At the 5:00 mark, he’s working out the logistics of where else to take the girl.

She’s totally down for anything right now. All he has to do is to continue leading as he’s been doing!

At 5:50, hand on her ass again. πŸ˜‰

More sexual tension.

At the 6:08 mark, Her mental circuitry fried out!

In seduction, this happens when a girl is so sexually aroused and turned on (by the guy’s actions and NOT his looks), that she actually becomes mentally disturbed in the sense that she cannot keep her train of thoughts. Her brain circuitry has been fried by her sexual-aroused state.

Hence at the 6:08 mark of the 3rd video, she’s in a state of mass confusion as her horniness isn’t allowing her to think straight, so she says to him:

“I was gonna say something but I forgot…never mind”!

Whatever she was intended to say, her brain isn’t able to process it logically.

When you get a girl in such a mental state (fried circuitry); there’s little to no resistance left towards your sexual advances.

At 10:37, he rewards her with a genuinely compliment, which at this stage of the seduction, won’t hurt.

I can guarantee at numerous times while on her phone, she’s probably texting 1 of her BFF’s saying:

“You won’t believe this! Some random guy just came up to me and swept me off my feet and I don’t know what is going on”! πŸ™‚

Remind you guy; he did NOT get her phone # up until this point.

Most guys, as stupid as we are, would’ve gotten the girl’s phone # from the 1st minute and bounce…ALONE, essentially accomplishing nothing.

This guy on the other hand, was able to take this girl home and I shouldn’t have to spell out for you what had happened. πŸ˜‰

Ok, so that’s my breakdown and analysis of a seduction sequence from almost start to finish as this guy had approached the black girl in a mall to taking her home.

It’d be the same exact procedure had this girl been white or Asian and had the guy been black or Asian.

Women are women on an intricate level in spite of race.

Moreover, for those guys who want to know how to pick up girls online or how to get phone #’s, I hope that these set of videos will have changed your mind.

If this guy can seduce random hot girls at the mall, then there’s no frikkin’ excuse as to why you cannot do the same.

Check out the videos and learn.

It Gets Easier Over Time…

The other night while rummaging through some documents and old pieces of scrap paper thrown under my bed, I came across a list of PUA-canned routines and openers which I’d jotted down on scrap paper some years ago in order to memorize them [what a nostalgic felling].

Personally, I still use canned routines and canned lines, albeit my own stuff which I use as my stock openers.

This revelation seems to boggle the minds of a lot of guys who see canned material as cheesy, lame and antiquated.

I on the other hand, am real enough to say that we all use routines and we all have our special line that we like to use in order to open a set of girl(s).

Simply saying, “Hi what’s up”, could be classified as a stock-canned line, simply for the fact that it is a go-to-question and routinely used.

Hence, we all use canned material, canned routines and canned openers. Just that some of them are lame while others will immediately hook the girl.

As I read through the list of routines which I’d copied off of PUA websites such as Sarge Nation and Seduction Tuition, I caught myself laughing inwardly as I reflect on how easy it is today for me to use a canned line than it was back then as a newbie or intermediate.

Any PUA from the era where indirect-method was king (pre 2010), can attest to this, that 1 of the most difficult hurdle and task to ever traverse, will be the ability to use a canned routine/opener without fucking it up in some way or another.

It is heart-throbbing and nerve-wrecking to say the least.

Trying to recite a pick-up routine or some canned material while in set or before opening the girl, will feel like being called upon to climb Mt. Everest without climbing gear…while being completely exhausted and drained.

The lengthier the pickup routine, the greater the chances of fucking it up and being caught out there by the girl.

Concise and simple openers such as: “Who lie more, men or women”(?), wouldn’t require the greatest amount of tact in order to pull off. Nevertheless, it is still nerve-wrecking for newbies to execute as it was for me as a student of the game years ago.

The longer routines however, were more risky and made you way more nervous to execute.

In retrospect, I remember being at the bar as a newbie with a canned routine written on scrap paper stuffed into my pant’s rear pocket, while sneaking away to the restroom every 5 minutes or so to recite it in the mirror just to get in perfected as much as possible (which wasn’t possible). πŸ˜†

Nerves alone were enough to derail this plan of perfection. So I would enter sets (approach women) using a lengthy-canned routine and found myself stumbling, mumbling and fumbling it like a hot potato…

It was treacherous (but worth it…in hindsight)!

The nerves, tension and awkward energy were so high that I almost shitted myself a few times while in set after approaching the girl trying to deliver the canned material!

Despite learning and trying to memorize a routine over the course of 2 weeks, as a newbie, your nerves and anxiety will almost always screw things up while approaching the girl.

The beauty in that is that perfection isn’t a prerequisite.

Nowadays, whenever I come across PUA-routine stacks and openers, I can pretty much utilize them within a heartbeat without an ounce of anxiety but pure natural finesse.

This should be expected though.

As you gain experience through repetition in a particular field, it will have become easier with less effort.

Hence the case with pickup routines and canned openers.

As a newbie or a guy with less experience; you will fuck up the delivery when approaching girls.

Your calibration and timing will be off.

Your confidence will also be an issue.

Just to give an example of a lengthy routine, this’ a classic opener/routine stack popularized by Badboy, the PUA guru from Eastern Europe.

I recall using a version of this as a pickup newbie and totally screwing it up numerous times while chatting to a set of girls.

“G-String Opener”

“Hey guys, you wont believe whats going on with a friend of mine and his girlfriend. They’ve been dating each other for six months now, and my friend really loves her. But they had this big fight a few weeks ago, and she went to visit her mother to cool down. And while she was gone, my friend was so depressed, that he ended up hooking up with some random girl he met in a club. Anyway, a few days later, his girlfriend comes back, and she finds this girls thong panties under the bed, and she KNOWS this thong isn’ t hers. So she confronts my friend on this, and he lies and says that the panties are his! And that he likes to dress up in women’s underwear. So I don’t know if his girlfriend knew he was lying and just wanted to punish him, or if she really is into this or not, but she said she thinks that’s really kinky and wants him to wear women’s underwear around the house. So he’s been doing this for a few weeks now and is absolutely MISERABLE”!

Possibly my all-time favorite routine which I still use to date.

All in all guys, whether you use canned material or go natural, if you’re still new to this, then struggling with anxiety and fumbling your thoughts will be the norm.

With time, practice, repetition and screw ups, it’ll all become easy breezy.

Petition To Ban “Simple Pickup” Videos From Youtube

PUA politics in the air again! 😈

“Removing Simple Pickup’s Youtube Channel”.

How crazy the irony that I was googling the now defunct “PUA-Hate” and happened to come across a petition to Youtube to ban “Simple Pickup’s” Youtube channel.

Another irony is, I actually wrote a draft post about 7 months ago which was to be entitled: “Socialkenny Petition To Ban Simple Pickup’s Youtube Videos”. I never bothered to publish the post but I was encouraged to do so as I came across the link of the banning petition on change.org.

Ok, who the fuck is “Simple Pickup” and why does Kenny wish to get their videos banned from Youtube?

Simple Pickup is a trio of PUA’s out of California, consisted of an Indian, Oriental and a guy who looks Latino…I think. ❓

Simple Pickup

Simple Pickup

Their names are Jesse, Jason and King Kong.

King kong was actually a member of the Casanova Crew Southern California Forum before he blew up as part of Simple Pickup trio. So he’s cool with my boy JTR, the most hated man in the PUA community. πŸ˜‰

Their content are probably the most viewed dating/pickup-related videos on Youtube [millions of views per video].

I was once sold on their stuff and was a regular viewer until…

Ok, before I get to the fallout, I want to state that I actually promoted these fagots on my blog back in February 2012. Read: Finding love in a crazy place by Simple Pickup.

Now, this wasn’t just some random endorsement of that event which Simple Pickup was to hold at the University of California Berkeley (Wheeler Hall Auditorium).

They actually contacted me via e-mail and phone call to help them promote the event on my website.

Being the large-hearted PUA as I am; I said “sure”! And we worked out the particulars of the promotion.

To take it a step further just to show how much of a “nice guy” I can be, I told those dudes to hold on to the money (included the commission) and I’ll actually post/host their event free of charge on my website.

They agreed!

No strings attached at all!

The event came off successfully at UC Berkeley. It was sold out, partly thanks to me being that a great portion of the tickets were purchased through my website.

No fret on my part!

You make money? So fucking what! Keep it! I’m happy for you chodes!

I didn’t even get a thank you before or after the event came off…not that I was expecting any to be honest.

Up to that point, there wasn’t an issue between me and those dudes.

Last year sometime, I decided to sign up to their forum as I am a member of dozens of PUA forums as most PUA’s are.

I signed up, my account was approved and I began posting to the Simple Pickup Forum.

With my 1st. post, which was a pick-up video of mines: I got banned! 😯

Holy fucking shit that had to have been a record on getting banned the fastest from any seduction forum!

Those pricks banned me within 2 hours of signing up to their forum.

As you can see from the screenshot below, my status says “Banned” [below my name on the lead side of the screenshot]!

You will have also noticed in the screenshot that as part of their forum rules, is that they can ban anyone at anytime without notice.

Talk about Nazi-style forums!

What a fucking way to run a forum that the mods and owners are at liberty to ban anyone at anytime even though they might not have violated forum rules?

That’s crazy and retarded!

Those fagots at Simple Pickup, expect forum members to suck their cocks (proverbially) in order to secure their accounts!?

I guess they didn’t know that Kenny doesn’t roll that way. πŸ˜‰

Anywho, so I got banned within 1 hour upon posting my 1st post which was a pickup video of myself picking up a girl somewhere (can’t remember the details).

Remind you- this isn’t in contravention of forum rules. One is allowed to post videos from other pick-up sources as long as it’s relevant to the post’s topic.

Hence, I didn’t break any rules. But when dealing with Beta-Male minded chodes; they violate even their own rules once they feel threatened by other guys who are stronger, more dominant and has more game.

The reason they banned me from their forum (albeit, after approving my account), is very simple and it boils down to 1 adjective: THREATENED!

I notice that a lot of guys around the pickup community are threatened by my infield hidden-camera videos.

Not only because my stuff are “REAL” and I don’t hire actresses and models to play compliant. But I have the potential to expose a lot of phonies in the genre, even though my videos are never about that but merely to give guys a real-world view into seducing women.

With that being the case, Simple Pickup decided to ban me from posting to their forum although I didn’t violate any forum rules.

Tons of other forum members were posting PUA videos of other PUA’s apart from Simple Pickup: but they weren’t banned!

However, Socialkenny is a different kind of animal who gets wussies feeling mighty uncomfortable whenever he steps into the building.

Upon being banned, I felt that it must have been some sorta mistake on the mod’s part so I contacted Simple Pickup directly to avoid dealing with any cock-sucking middleman.

All my attempts at communication with those insecure assholes were screened out…down to my text messages.

A week went by- no reply.

Two weeks, 4 weeks, 2 months, 4 months…account still on “banned”.

A while later, when I reflected on the favor I’d done for those scumbags and to get treated this way without provocation, it made my blood boil! So I decided to write up a petition post which I never got around to posting.

Now we’re here- many months later- with a post in support of banning those chodes’ videos from Youtube.

Apparently, it isn’t just Kenny who wants these guys banned from Youtube.

Obviously, I have different reasons for this. But others are offended by their videos [women], although I see them [the videos] as totally comical and stupid without a cause.

Lots of women who have been petitioning Youtube to get Simple Pickup banned, are doing so because they feel as though their videos promote rape, groping and sexual harassment.

I don’t hold this view at all!

If that’s the case, then my videos should be banned also…which they kind of were [I spoke about it in this post: Women in uproar over Kenny’s Youtube videos].

I’m in no way hoping to get these dudes banned from Youtube because of the nature of their videos, since my videos are even more graphic and screams sexual harassment in a more damning way. 😯

Therefore, I am NOT cheerleading with the women who are looking to get them banned.

I’m a separate voice who’s looking to get these cock-suckers banned for different reasons.

Call it retribution and payback!

They banned me from their forum like little bitches. I hope that their channel gets banned from Youtube the same way [eye for an eye].

Apart from that, these guys’ content are shitty and clownish!

They advocate picking up girls in the most stupid of ways.

In fact, I don’t even think they expect anyone to try their stuff. I think it’s all a marketing ploy to make money and gain popularity but in a clownish fashion.

Their videos make people laugh; not get you laid!

They have tons of spectators but 99% of their male viewers, will never get off their asses to actually field test any of that shit. However, they watch the videos just for the laugh factor.

I was actually shocked to see guys like Squattin’ Casanova stay silent and dick-ride just to not get his account banned on the Simple Pickup’s forum.

Some guys will always sell the fuck out I guess. ❓

All in all, these idiots are bad business for the seduction community.

They’re internet marketers who have no game!

They’re the reason why sites such as PUA-Hate once existed to counter the scammy bullshit!

It’s just ridiculous and I would like nothing more than to see these guys put out of fucking comission once and for all.

They are wastes!

With that, feel free to head over to change.org to sign the petition to get these guy’s Youtube banned.

Remove Simple Pickup Channel

Thus far, change.org claims to have 33,000 supporters who have already signed the petitioned.

If you’re not interested in petitioning them; fine!

I have personal qualms here, so this’ why I’m rolling full steam ahead in support of getting these cock-suckers banned from Youtube.

Learning The Caribbean Patois (Pat-wa) Language

Learning new languages will only make you a more attractive and versatile person.

I get asked a lot in person and online, “What language do they speak in the Caribbean”?

Part of the answer to that common question will be answered.

Ok, I am a linguistic “Polyglot”: someone who knows numerous languages.

Language, or learning new languages is a favorite pastime of mines ever since learning how to read, write and speak Arabic in 1999 at the ripe age of 17 [self-taught might I add]. πŸ˜‰

Fifteen years later: I’m now fluent in the Levantine dialect of Arabic which is spoken in Syria, Palestine, Jerusalem, Lebanon and parts of Jordan.

Not satisfied with merely conquering 1 language, in 2003, I embarked on a journey to learn Spanish…which I did and have been fluent since 2007 in proper Spanish (Castellano) included slang of Puerto Rico and The Dominican Republic.

While learning and conquering Spanish, I simultaneously mastered French also with one-on-one tutoring [free of charge might I add] from a Haitian and a Senegalese, African buddy.

In fact, I learned how to speak, write and read French between 2001-2003 to then master the art of conversing in it around the year of 2005. I since gave up on French to tackle Spanish full time, hence my French has slipped tremendously.

The beauty however in learning new languages is that once you make it pass the basic learning stage, or once you were once fluent in it and has lost it, it takes nothing to regain it but a touch up on vocabulary.

Back in 2011, I started to learn Italian and found that it was super easy! Perhaps the easiest language I ever studied to date. Reason being is that Italian is very similar to Spanish is almost every aspect: pronunciation of word, vocabulary and so forth. With that, I can literally master Italian [conversing in it and understanding it] within 2 months…but I put it off as I went hard-core blogging in 2011.

Portuguese [spoken in Brazil], just as Italian, is completely similar to Spanish.

If you know Spanish, you can comprehend 80% of what is said in Portuguese. The verbs are completely the same in my view and conjugated the same way also. Hence I can literally understand a Brazilian without ever learning Portuguese formally.

Also in 2011, I started out learning Chinese (Mandarin), which was very easy, but back slid because of my blogging.

Guys, learning new languages is fucking easy!

I’ve yet to come across a language which has given my trouble learning in any way shape or form, simply because there are none.

Might I add: I am self-taught in each and every language that I ever dabbled in, with the exception of 2 months of voluntary tutoring in French. But I’ve pretty much taught myself those languages onto fluency.

I am no smart dude by any stretch.

The problem is, people make fucking excuses to remain lame and stupid.

Anyone who says learning a new language is hard is simply a lazy fucker who has no drive neither persistence in life in general.

This is how I became good at getting laid; I stuck with it and never gave up under the guise that learning how to get women is difficult.

Fuck no!

Therefore, the same steadfastness I applied to language-learning is what I applied to picking up women over the years which made me a master in both arenas: Pickup and Language.

Patois (Pat-wa) Language Of The English-Speaking Caribbean

I once thought that Patois of the Caribbean was broken English.

Not so!

It’s a language of its own.

The word “Patois” [pronounced Pat-wa] is obviously French in origin (as far as name goes). It basically means “Dialect”.

In the Caribbean islands (the ones which have English as their official language), Patois (Pat-wa) can be and is spoken by everyone.

It’s the unofficial language of the region however not taught in schools since it isn’t standardized. Just as in many African countries, apart from the Euro-languages, each country and tribe has their own local language and tribal dialect which isn’t officially taught in schools.

Likewise with Patois (Pat-wa) in the Caribbean; it isn’t taught at all in any institution but is learned through assimilation and through oral means within the communities.

English however, is the official language of the English-speaking Caribbean islands just as in the United States, The UK and Australia.

Therefore, everyone in the islands which speak Patois, can also speak, write and understand proper English as if it were second nature.

Hence, a Jamaican can understand an American fully but an American will not understand a Jamaican speaking Patois (Pat-wa) unless the Jamaican speaks English for clarification.

To further solidify this strange point, there are no Patois-speaking local TV networks in the Caribbean.

Our cable providers are linked to the United States (New York City’s), which means that we get every local station in the New York City Tri-State area in the basic-cable package.

Saying that to say, no one in the Caribbean watches TV in the Patois language. We watch television in English, hence a reinforced reason as to why we can speak and understand English apart from being taught English in school as the official language.

Therefore, due to the influence of American television, everyone in the English-speaking Caribbean can speak and understand English although we don’t really use it on a daily basis.

The Patois (Pat-wa) language is mostly used on a daily basis instead of English.

The only time English is used is during the classrooms, institutions, in the media (TV and radio) and whenever interacting with foreigners since they won’t understand Patois anyway.

As for me personally, I was born in the twin-island state of Antigua and Barbuda which is nearby to Puerto Rico.

Here, we speak Patois (Pat-wa) just as the entire English-speaking Caribbean.

Each island has varying dialects of Patois (Pat-wa) but everyone basically understands each other even though there are slight variations of accents in other islands.

A Jamaican has a distinct accent from an Antiguan although we both speak Patois. But I can still understand 99% of what a Jamaican says and vice versa.

It’s no different than a Southerner in the USA in comparison with someone from New England. The accents are very different.

With Patois (Pat-wa), the vocabulary isn’t the main difference but the accents and some word usage.

By all means, Patois is simple to learn and understand…I guess easy for me to say as a linguist? ❓

Nah- seriously- it is.

Ok, so the Patois (Pat-wa) language is sort of a combination of various languages.

Bear in mind that during slavery, the slaves weren’t taught English in any standardized form.

They learned from hearing the overseers speak and barking orders.

With that being the case, the slaves never had formal teaching of English so the way in which they spoke English had to have been broken.

The reason why Patois (Pat-wa) evolved among the ex-slaves in the Caribbean and not in America is because the Caribbean islands were literally abandoned to the slaves after the abolition period. Unlike in America, the whites stayed and ruled. In the Caribbean, the whites fled and the blacks took rule by default (although colonization was another thing).

With this, the freed slaves who already couldn’t speak proper English, were left to construct their own language which has already been in effect for 300 years prior…which is where Patois (Pat-wa) comes in.

Patois (Pat-wa) is a combination of English, Spanish, French and African tribal languages mixed together [mostly African languages].

Basically- that is the Patois language.

It’s heavily rooted in the African-tribal languages being that the slaves were brought here from various tribes in West Africa [I would think anyone would know this already].

The slaves in the Caribbean retained lots of words from their African tribes in which was used to naturally form the Patois (Pat-wa) language.

Many words, terms and idioms we use in Patois, derived from the Ashante and Akkan languages of West Africa.

Hence the unique part of the black culture in the Caribbean is that we still use words in our vocabulary which were brought over from Africa.

That’s crazy and neat! πŸ˜‰

Now, over the decades, just as in other languages, Patois (Pat-wa) has evolved to incorporate current words and terms which didn’t exist in the pre-technological age. Hence, new Patois words apart from the African words and English admixture, have evolved.

Patois has a fair amount of English in it (mainly verbs).

What makes it difficult for a standard-English speaker to understand Patois (Pat-wa) is the way in which the English verbs are used with distinct and strange accent and pronunciation.

An America or Canadian may be able to pick up on some words when spoken slowly in Patois.

Jamaicans typically speak rapidly which makes it difficult for foreigners to understand.

Nevertheless, with time and practice: it can be mastered.

Ok, I was browsing Youtube nights ago and came across a series of humorous videos by a Jamaican lady teaching Patois (Pat-wa).

I found it very interesting and funny at the same time that I never viewed Patois as a language until now. So check out some of her videos embedded below just to grasp some concepts of Patois (Pat-wa) and what it’s all about.

Since the Caribbean is a hub for tourists, I generally get asked a lot about Patois (Pat-wa).

By the way, although I’m not Jamaican (but Barbudan); Patois is Patois. Meaning, I can understand everything said by a Jamaican without any need for a translator. Just as someone from Barbados or the Bahamas would understand a Jamaican without a problem…and vice versa…although we do have subtle difference in pronunciations which I’ll get into another time.

In the video below, the Jamaican woman points out a very common theme with Jamaican Patois, which is that they double up words for certain reasons and the meaning of the word can change based on that. Interesting! In Antigua, we don’t really do this, so that’s 1 way we can distinguish a Jamaican from a Bajan [someone from Barbados] or Trinidadian. Nevertheless, it’s still understood.

Video below is very interesting in that it speaks to the differences in Trinidadian Patois (Pat-wa) and Jamaican Patois. Both can understand each other but dialects of Patois have differences.

Video below: very interesting Patois word here which is of African origin.


This 1 is real funny in the following video but a very common idiom and saying in the Caribbean.

A series of vocabulary below. Very interesting.

Video below is of the anatomy and body parts. Most of these words and terms are only used in Jamaican Patois but intelligible (understood) in other islands although we’d use other words.

Possessive adjectives. Very interesting.

Possessive pronoun.

In the video below, it’s a news interview clip from many years ago. They’re speaking about 2 gay guys getting caught making out inside of a shanty town shack and how the police were called and everyone was outraged at the sexual acts [bear in mind that gay sex is a crime in the Caribbean]. See if you can catch any of the words?

This 1 is an interview on a Jamaican station where they interviewed a female Reggae artists. Note how the hosts interchangeably use proper English and Patois at the same time, which speaks to the point I made that it can be locked on and off from English to Patois within a heartbeat.

Below, an interview about a broken pipe and how water swept away this lady’s house. See what you can pick up on. You will have noticed the English words as the lady clearly enunciated the English for emphasis.

I understood every single word said although I’m not Jamaican and although we speak differently in Antigua with different accent. But it’s still the same language (Patois).

Check out this short commercial from Antigua and Barbuda where they speak Patois. Realize the similarity with the Jamaican Patois and also try to pick out the few English words as much as you can.

The reason why Jamaica is highlighted with Patois (Pat-wa) it’s simply because it’s the most known of the Patois-speaking islands (due to the Reggae music influence and Bob Marley).

Just as when it comes to Arabic, the Egyptian dialect is most recognized and learned due to the media influence.

Anyway, I hope you guys learned a thing or 2 here.

For reference sake, Patois is spoken. And understood in the following Caribbean islands:

*Belize (although in Central America, they see themselves as part of the Caribbean)

*British Honduras (Central America also)



*Cayman Islands


*Virgin Islands (U.S. & British)

*St. Tomas

*St. Barts


*Antigua and Barbuda

*St. Kitts



*Dominica (not Dominican Republic)

*St. Lucia


*St. Vincent


*The Grenadines

*Trinidad and Tobago

*Guyana (although in South America, they identify with the Caribbean)

I really put together this post on the request of many of my readers who travel to the Caribbean but are at lost as to the language.

It’s simple to learn and I’ll update you guys periodically on Patois.

All in all, there is never a downside to being multilingual as I was born that way speaking Patois and English.

Not to mention you’ll get to bang more pussy while traveling through the Caribbean with some Patois (Pat-wa) knowledge in the bank.

Just as I’ve been able to sleep with lots of Latinas due to the fact that I speak Spanish fluently which serves to impress those Spanish-speaking chicas.

World’s Worst PUA: Dr. Destruction? + It’s Better To Have Balls Than Fear

Dr Destruction, the nerdy mixed-race PUA

Dr Destruction, the nerdy mixed-race PUA

Dr. Destruction, a mixed-race Asian and black PUA out of- well actually- no one seems to know where he’s from but I think Seattle, Washington, USA?

As for looks and lingo, he’s more on the Asian-looking side, which usually throws people off as he speaks with heavily exaggerated urban/black speech, so much so that he’s usually criticized in the pickup sphere for wanting to be black…although he is…partially.

Dude has the worst-English accent in the world but in a strange way, it adds to his appeal. ❓

Anyway, this guy has been the most talked about PUA on Youtube over the past 2 + years. And when I say “talked about”, I don’t mean for having good game, but for having the worst and most awkward game ever witnessed!

I actually got into a huge argument with a cunty-seduction blogger by the name of *******.

He’s a critic of Dr. Destruction as we all are. But there’s a fine line between criticism, critique and hating.

Personally, watching Dr. Destruction’s PUA infield hidden-camera videos is cringe-worthy.

He misses everything that a not-so-skilled PUA would pick up on within a heartbeat.

He doesn’t realize when a girl likes him, hates him nor when she’s giving off signs of wanting to rip his clothes off! 😯

As contradictive as it seems, I actually like his verbal game as he always manage to make girls laugh and smile. He just goes overboard without recourse nor a game plan.

Yep- Dr. Destruction, Youtube’s most infamous PUA, has the shittiest game ever showcased for the world to see!

I mean, this guy is so wack that it’s a sin to the world of Pickup for me to even be writing about him right now.

However, he has the 1 thing going for him that most budding PUA’s will never overcome: and that’s a lack of fear and anxiety in approaching women.

Dr. Destruction has zero-fucking fear in stepping to hot girls from all walks of life: black, white, Asian, fat, ugly, you name it!

The irony is, no matter how much game and pickup theory one would have learned, it is all in vain if that person cannot manage to approach women in comfort.

Hence, this’ where balls to approach trumps skills somewhat.

You can have all the know-how of seduction skills in the world, if you’re afraid to approach random stranger, then what’s the fucking point?

Now, having balls alone won’t get you pussy. But it’s much easier to learn skills later on than it is to learn how to become brave later on.

Dr. Destruction, although he sucks more than suck itself: it is pretty simple for him to get laid just as long as he refine and tweak his skills (which he doesn’t have) and append them to his already massive-size balls.

This guy has the potential to become the greatest-PUA seductionist in the world for the simple fact that he has what most PUA practitioners and students lack: raw confidence in approaching strangers.

Now, what is the point of this all?

If Dr. Destruction, a guy who has zero game, can approach any chick fearlessly, not giving a shit of whether the girl likes or hates his guts, then you as a guy who at least have some semblance of pickup skills, should NOT fear approaching women at all.

If you wanna become good at pickup and getting laid, all the amount of skills and insights gathered still won’t help you as long as you’re stuck inside your head being held back by approach anxiety, fear and what other people will think of you.

This kid is fucking fearless to a fault! And even as an advanced PUA coach, I envy this bastard somewhat as I wish I was this fearless when I first started out.

With that, I leave you with some hidden-cam videos from the Asian-black kid.

I promise you that these will be cringe-fucking worthy and may cause you hurl your mobile device at the wall out of disgust that someone could miss so much opportunities to pick up girls without an inclination of them.

The crazy thing is, 85% of the girl whom he approaches in his videos, are open to conversation.

My biggest critiques of his game are following:

1.) He never escalates

2.) He never goes for the kiss

3.) He never goes KINO [touch]

4.) He never gets intimate

5.) He over NEGS and NEGS without calibration [his timing is always off by a mile]

6.) He never seeks to “Pull”. In other words, he talks for talking sake but never to get the girl.

I can go on and on but that won’t serve anyone any good.

What pisses me off mostly about his game is that while chatting up girls, they would give off signs of being open to kissing and intimacy but this kid never pulls the trigger. 75% of the girls he approaches in his videos, I personally could’ve taken them home within 10 minutes. So it irks me a ton to see guys miss those opportunities by settling for chitchat when the girl is subconsciously open for sex and romance.

Another contradiction: his negging skills are perfect although I said that he over negs! At times, his timing can be perfect when it comes to teasing women (NEGS). But other times: horrible!

What I like though, apart from his fearlessness and balls, is the fact that he’s always infield recording videos and gaming girls.

Most (un)skilled PUA’s fail to get out of the house and interact with women while somehow thinking they’ll become good by simply having knowledge of game and trying to pick up women online.

This guy has tons of these amateur hidden-cam videos which gives me a run for my money since I have about 160 videos to date.

At the end of the day; effort is what matters, and this kid shows more effort than anyone as he approaches hot girls in any arena as any PUA should.

He has the rawness but needs it refined a lot.

In all honesty, he actually has great (verbal) game! 😯

He just needs a lesson in how to translate that into taking women home…which he never aims for. But as you’ll notice in his videos, he always manages to make the girls laugh, smile and engage in conversation (however awkward). His awkward laugh and ill-timing doesn’t help BTW.

Anyway, check out the madness for what it’s worth.

This kid takes “awkward tension” to a whole different level as most of his interactions are saturated in awkwardness. 😯

I’ll reiterate: “What pisses me off mostly about his game is that while chatting up girls, they would give off signs of being open to kissing and intimacy but this kid never pulls the trigger. 75% of the girls he approaches in his videos, I personally could’ve taken them home within 10 minutes. So it irks me a ton to see guys miss those opportunities by settling for chitchat when the girl is subconsciously open for sex and romance”.

If you’re skilled at reading female-body language, you’ll notice exactly what I mean by he having the opportunity to take girls home or get physical but failed.

Physical Leading By Max

Ok, some advanced stuff off the heels of the previous post which featured basic, basic game.

Max gives a lesson in physically leading and grabbing.

This is advanced stuff but even if you’re newer to pickup, you should still be looking to incorporate these techniques into your arsenal until you become proficient at it.

An entire afternoon of approaching girls in the park [video by GLL]

Shy guy game.

GLL calls this “nervous guy game”.

In a broader sense, his approach in the video is the simplest way to pick up girls, so I would instead term it “simple guy game”.

A very great video nevertheless as GLL demonstrates how to pick up girls in the simplest form possible from guys who are really nervous and stuck inside their heads.

Those who’ve seen his other videos, know that he’s a monster when it comes to hard-core seducing women and going for the makeout, etc.

However the reality is: most guys, since they’re nervous and on the shy and wuss side, is not gonna go the aggressive route. So GLL sorta dumbed down his game in order to resonate with the average guy who isn’t capable of making big moves to get physical with strangers.

Check it out!

After watching GLL in action as he approached tons of women, you shouldn’t ever again have a problem approaching girls and getting their phone #’s since it gets no simpler.

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