I was sent the links to these videos from a PUA buddy of mines from Baltimore, Maryland, USA.
He’s into fitness stuff heavy but also does pickup and he also specializes in the art of seducing young-black girls. 😈
These set of infield hidden-cam videos are timely in that I usually get bombarded with Facebook messages from white guys who have a thing for dark meat but are unsure in how to approach the situation. Friday alone, I received 3 such messages about this.
To be frank: women are women!
What works on white girls will work on blacks!
It’s just that simple.
Hence, there’s no tailor-made game for black girls, whites or Orientals.
As long as she’s westernized; then the script is always the same irregardless of the girl’s race or where she resides (suburbia or the urban jungle).
So the 1st thing you, as a white guy, must understand [or even a black guy who wants to pick up white girls], is that you should approach black girls in the same manner as you do white ones (and vice versa).
Alright, I’ll give my detailed breakdown and analysis of the videos.
What I like most about the videos or what is happening, is the guy’s humor, light-heartedness and ability to not get stuck inside of his head on serious and boring subjects such as schooling and so forth.
His conversation was mainly on situational, funny and trivial chick topics such as shopping.
That’s not all!
This guy is super confident and has a cool about him although he’s aggressive in the sense of not being afraid to get physical and touch the girl.
Hence while walking, as you’ll notice in the videos, he takes the girl’s hand and holds it in a romantic gesture which is a SUPER plus as a complete stranger.
Even as the girl resists a bit (token resistance), he persists and takes her hand again after she withdrew it seconds earlier.
At another point, he takes her hand while fingers are interlocked (romantically) and kisses her fingers in a semi-romantic way yet dominantly, which solidifies the girl’s attraction for him.
This is a far cry from guys who are totally adverse to touching and are solely concerned with grabbing a lousy-phone number and bouncing.
Why take a girl’s phone # when you haven’t even established a romantic or physical connection with her?
Therefore, get physical with the girl FIRST before even thinking to get her # as my buddy demonstrated in the videos with this random stranger.
In essence also, he’d taken the girl on an instant date which eliminates the need for begging the girl to go out at a later time.
As you would already know: I’m a strong advocate of pulling girls to insta-dates as you meet them opposed to leaving. So this guy is exhibiting the perfect game just as how I would do it [or any advanced PUA or coach].
As you’ll notice from his demeanor, he isn’t nervous, scared nor shy about his moves.
He confidently walks hand in hand with this total stranger, essentially building a romantic connection from the start instead of acting like a giant pussy opting to text girls and waste time on the internet trying to build romance.
If you also check the girl’s disposition in the videos, she is totally at ease and soaking up this odd moment of random romance with a complete stranger.
She isn’t uncomfortable, she isn’t nervous, she isn’t trying to escape, etc.
Although there are tons of moments of silence; it doesn’t frikkin’ matter!
The would-be-awkward silence is neutralized by the KINO (hand-holding). So although the guy would allow some seconds to go by without talking, he compensates for this by the more powerful aspect, which is romance.
This will only get awkward during silence if you’re walking with the girl and not doing anything (touching for instance). But as long as you’re establishing some physical with the girl, you don’t have to say a word at all.
I like what he did also in the 1st video which was that he took her arm and placed it around his neck so as to create the impression that she’s hugging him [powerful].
At the 0:56 second point mark, he casually leans over and kisses her on the cheek while walking. Once again establishing romance as he deepens the seduction.
Not to mention, this is a total stranger whom he’d just met less than 5 minutes ago off of cold approach [goes to show how powerful pickup is once you get rid of fear].
I also want you guys to take note of what the girl is doing throughout the videos as the sexual tension rises.
In other words, she’s using her fingers to fiddle with her ponytail.
This is done “SUBCONSCIOULY” without girls even knowing that they’re doing it.
Even if they know or catch themselves doing it: they cannot stop it as long as they’re sexually attracted to the guy.
“Preening” is a mating ritual done by all female species in the animal kingdom including women.
If a girl is open to sex or she is sexually aroused, she will “PREEN” or toy with something. In this case, it is her ponytail.
If a girl is NOT attracted to you, she won’t give off signs of preening/mating.
All throughout the videos, this girl is toying with her ponytail (unconsciously) sending the signals to the guy that she’s interested and sexually receptive.
My buddy seizes the opportunity and got sexual/romantic with her.
Hence, you have to know how to read these little-subtle signs while in the heat of battle to know when you can escalate, etc.
At 2:38 of the 1st video, he places his arm around her waist [another +].
He then deepens the ritual + the attraction by stopping by a massage store in the mall. Doing this coincides with something I teach a lot which is that you should take the girl here and there, stop off here and there, enter this spot and that spot, essentially making the instant date seem as some sorta adventure and escapade.
At 5:17 (1st video), while he sits to test run a foot massage, he extends his hand to the girl in order to further deepen the romantic connection.
At 5:50 (1st video), she gives a bit of token/fake resistance but you should all be able to see that it was “Fake” resistance.
BTW, I know some of you guys will have asked, “Why is she looking through her phone almost the entire time? Doesn’t that mean she is NOT interested or is bored”?
No it damn sure doesn’t!
She’s engaged in her phone not because she is bored or disinterested, but because she’s so excited and taken away by the situation. So much so that she has to seek an out/outlet which is to “Pretend” as though she’s doing something on her phone.
Hence, this’ a major + (aka “ioi”).
There are times when a girl looks through her phone out of boredom or impatience while talking face to face with a guy. But this definitely isn’t 1 of those moments. So recognize the difference.
At the 7:10 mark (1st video), he heightens the sexual tension by placing his hand on the girl’s ass.
Are you bold enough to do this with a girl whom you’d just met minutes ago?
Well you better learn to be!
Another thing to note guy as I mentioned earlier. Taking a girl from store to store in a mall as this guy’s doing, isn’t just a random occurrence but scripted!
You want to make a “ritual” out of things when meeting new girls.
Take them into stores, malls, shops, museums, art galleries, parks, and so forth. You want to bombard their logical mind with lots of angles and things. So that’s the point of this guy taking the girl in store after store to look at weird-abstract things.
It’s a routine!
At 2:10 mark of the 3rd video, he says to her:
“I really like your energy”.
This is obviously a compliment but a weird and unorthodox 1. This’ actually a classic PUA compliment popularized by Mystery, the godfather of Pickup.
Hence, whenever you compliment a girl, compliment her on her good energy (or high energy) and not her good looks. If you notice, this guy never complimented the girl on looks yet, but she’s still hooked! Therefore, complimenting women (on looks) is unnecessary and will backfire in most cases as you’ll come off as just another ass-kissing loser.
At the 2:20 mark, he does something (verbally) which a lot of advanced PUA masters do. He says to the girl:
“We have very natural attraction, right”?
By saying that to the girl, he’s affirming and confirming that the attraction is mutual and that he is attracted to her without having to say it directly.
He then rewards her for acknowledging the mutual attracting by kissing her on the hand.
This is pickup-seduction 101 displayed by this guy.
Also, at another point of the last video (3:03), he says to her:
“Let’s find somewhere to sit”!
He didn’t ask her!
He didn’t seek her permission like a little bitch!
He “Led” her with an assumption frame by assuming that she would be down anyway.
This is powerful and key!
Never ask a girl’s permission. Simply tell her what’s up and GO!
“Let’s find somewhere to sit”, and lead her by the hand to that spot (as my buddy did in the video).
At the 3:30 mark, she says to him, “I don’t trust you”.
This is a frikkin’ PLUS!
Whenever a girl says that to you, that she doesn’t trust you, it is an IOI (Indicator Of Interest), as contradicting in nature as it sounds.
Now check the dichotomy here. Although she says to him “Verbally”, “I don’t trust you”, what does her actions say “Physically”? That she trusts him! 😆
If she really didn’t trust him, she would NOT have been going along with him throughout the mall, walking with him like lovers and so forth.
Hence, she really DOES trust him! But due to her built-in ASD (Anti-Slut Defense), she has to say that she doesn’t trust him.
Therefore, when a girl says that she doesn’t trust you, yet she’s there with you and being compliant, it’s a lie and it means that she does trust you!
My buddy capitalized off of this contradiction by kissing her on the lips and making out with her right after she said she doesn’t trust him, at the 3:40 mark of the last video.
Another thing to note guys, after making out with a random girl, or any girl for that matter, Do NOT treat it as though you won something! play it cool as possible as if this sorta stuff is normal for you and it happens for you on a daily basis.
Keep your goddamn cool as this guy does!
Ok, so she doesn’t trust him yet she makes out with him.
This underscores a point in pickup that we teach which is that you should NEVER believe anything a girl says when her emotions are engaged.
Had he taken it at face value that she doesn’t trust him, he would’ve lucked out on the makeout.
Another point guys, after making out with a girl, you don’t go all crazy about it by trying to rape her or anything. Just keep your cool and act as natural as possible as though nothing happened.
This will communicate to the girl that you’re Alpha.
At the 5:00 mark, he’s working out the logistics of where else to take the girl.
She’s totally down for anything right now. All he has to do is to continue leading as he’s been doing!
At 5:50, hand on her ass again. 😉
More sexual tension.
At the 6:08 mark, Her mental circuitry fried out!
In seduction, this happens when a girl is so sexually aroused and turned on (by the guy’s actions and NOT his looks), that she actually becomes mentally disturbed in the sense that she cannot keep her train of thoughts. Her brain circuitry has been fried by her sexual-aroused state.
Hence at the 6:08 mark of the 3rd video, she’s in a state of mass confusion as her horniness isn’t allowing her to think straight, so she says to him:
“I was gonna say something but I forgot…never mind”!
Whatever she was intended to say, her brain isn’t able to process it logically.
When you get a girl in such a mental state (fried circuitry); there’s little to no resistance left towards your sexual advances.
At 10:37, he rewards her with a genuinely compliment, which at this stage of the seduction, won’t hurt.
I can guarantee at numerous times while on her phone, she’s probably texting 1 of her BFF’s saying:
“You won’t believe this! Some random guy just came up to me and swept me off my feet and I don’t know what is going on”! 🙂
Remind you guy; he did NOT get her phone # up until this point.
Most guys, as stupid as we are, would’ve gotten the girl’s phone # from the 1st minute and bounce…ALONE, essentially accomplishing nothing.
This guy on the other hand, was able to take this girl home and I shouldn’t have to spell out for you what had happened. 😉
Ok, so that’s my breakdown and analysis of a seduction sequence from almost start to finish as this guy had approached the black girl in a mall to taking her home.
It’d be the same exact procedure had this girl been white or Asian and had the guy been black or Asian.
Women are women on an intricate level in spite of race.
Moreover, for those guys who want to know how to pick up girls online or how to get phone #’s, I hope that these set of videos will have changed your mind.
If this guy can seduce random hot girls at the mall, then there’s no frikkin’ excuse as to why you cannot do the same.
Check out the videos and learn.