I know some nut-jobs out there!
Perhaps a bit of their nuttery has rubbed off on me in the right way. But for some unknown reason, crazy men seem to be attracted to my aura or presence where I’m always being befriended by them. 😦
When I say “crazy”, I’m not referring to a guy who lives outside the box and is into some new-age religious movement of sorts which requires him to cut his dick off in order to make it to perpetual bliss [that would seem crazy also].
I’m actually talking about normal-seeming guys who have been sent to the asylum on various occasions and have been deemed mentally unstable by the experts.
Yep- those fuckers are always weeding their way into my tight-knit social circle [isn’t much I can do].
Observing their movements and mannerisms, 1 characteristic really stood out like a sore thumb: Social!
Those crazy fuckers were social people…at least when they needed to be!
They also have zero to little inhibitions and self-doubt when it comes to approaching and chatting up strangers.
I guess mental instability blocks out one’s sense of fear?
Makes sense to me. :confused:
It’s for this reason I always drew the correlative similarities between crazy and Pick-Up Artist (a good one at least).
In order to become good or great at picking up and seducing hot women; you will have to toe the line between sanity and insanity…almost.
Guys who bang lots of girls often do very erratic shit or lead risky lifestyles living on the edge!
The badboy for instance.
He gets laid more in comparison to any other guy of average-social status you can think of.
Why is this?
His erratic, dangerous, spontaneous, balls-to-the wall persona!
Guys who play it safe, usually fall on the opposite end of the spectrum where they don’t get laid due to social inhibitions…which crazy people lack…which is why they can do and say whatever the fuck they wish!!!
How about Rockstars and entertainers?
They get laid a ton also.
Do they live crazy lives and are known for crazy shit?
Drugs, partying everyday, road trips, adventures, living in alternate realities (which are what movies are for actors), etc.
Every guy within society who gets laid often and is good at attracting women, is a bit crazy in that sense!
In order to become good with women, you’ll have to do and say shit which make you seem a bit crazy, “out there” and make people go: “WTF, OMG”!
Let’s examine the seductionist aka Pick-Up Artist for reference sake.
Taking a total stranger-chick home within 2 hours of meeting her in order to fuck, is a bit crazy don’t you think? 😯
How about cold making out with a girl whom you’d just met 2 minutes ago?
That’s wacky…according to the mainstream script!
How about willfully hitting the streets solely in search of One-Night Stands [which I do quite often…5 days a week honestly]?
That’s pretty crazy too! 😉
What separates a guy who’s really crazy from a guy who’s good with women, is that the crazy guy is really fucking crazy and delusional.
The guy who’s a master of seduction, he’s liable of doing/saying crazy shit but at least have the mental fortitude to recognize when to turn it off, tone it down and transition to sleeping with the girl.
What actually spurred me on to writing this article was a pickup in progress that I’d witnessed earlier in the week…from a crazy guy [not fake crazy but real crazy].
Alright, maybe “Crazy” is an overstatement. Perhaps I should’ve said someone with mental issues.
There’s a young kid (around 22 years of age) who usually circumvent my work area. Everyone in the department knows of him as someone who’s mentally unstable and has been admitted to an asylum on numerous occasions recently [what a bogeyman huh].
Be as it may, while catching a breather 1 morning, I actually seen him picked up 2 British girls (got 2 phone numbers) as I was observing from a distance yet close enough to overhear the dialogue.
Now, I’m not even putting my focus on the phone # pulls [good for him].
What I wanted to highlight was his apparent fucking disregard for anxiety, fear and social norms!!!
This is what the average guy who’s SANE lacks!
The average-mentally stable man lacks balls and is a social coward!
After the interaction with the Brits, I called the mentally-challenged young man aside and said to him:
“Were you scared stepping to those strangers”?
I believed him!
I watched the entire sequence from intent to approach, to the approach, to the opening, to small talk then to phone # exchange [old-school style with a pen actually].
Throughout the entire interaction, I spotted not 1 ounce of fear, inhibition, doubt neither hesitancy.
Thinking about it; when you’re deemed crazy by societal standards, including the experts, what the fuck do you have to lose…technically!
What do you have to prove?
Who are you trying to impress?
Who will you be afraid of?
Likewise with the men in society who attract the most women and sleep with the most women: they lack fear [or at least they don’t allow it to cripple their chances]!
They don’t mine being judged, labeled (as whores and players), neither ostracized by society and its status quo.
Therefore, when picking up women, you have to disengage or power down the rational/logical side of your brain just as crazy people do.
A bum or street-urchin isn’t hesitant about begging 100 passerby for spare change.
In a nutshell, what prevents you from getting good with women is your fucking pride!
Once you disengage “Pride” while trying to meet women, you’ll begin to see so much opportunities to sleep with tons of women open up, that you won’t know what the heck to do with them!
The more you can kid around with chicks instead of putting on this “Mr. Serious” front, the more women you will have attracted.
Just as depicted in a recent video of mines. I approach a super-hot girl on the street and motioned for her to hang up the phone…while she was conversing with someone.
Now that’s crazy [which was the point basically]! That’s something a crazy person would do…but it works. 😉
The Newbie Mission is a video project I came up with as a guideline to getting you to do and say crazy shit to random women in order to get out of your head where you’ll be able to kill fear, anxiety and pride with 1 stone [your 3 stumbling-blocks in getting laid].
Just as the crazy guy rarely filters what he’s saying and doing: likewise the lady’s man.
Just as the crazy guy has no bones about getting social and talkative: likewise the pussy-slayer.
Overall, what I would like for you to deduce from this article is 4 things:
1.) Crazy guys and homeless people are showing you the fuck up [they have no fear of people]. That should make you somewhat self-conscious as a same individual.
2.) In order to get laid (more), you’ll have to think and act outside of the mainstream box.
3.) When interacting with women; lock off the logical side of your brain and tap into the illogical side which is the side she mainly activates while interacting with guys.
4.) Your own pride repels women. Therefore, be less proud to do things which may make you uncomfortable.
With that, I leave you with these videos (including mines) from around the pickup/seduction world which hit on the same points I brought forth here.
[Video below: Kenny tells you to tell your mind to STFU]!
[Video below: RSD Julien on being out there].
What I like mostly about the video below from Johnny Berba (PUA coach out of London) is the concept of being self amusement and not caring.