One of the curses of “The Game”, and there are few, i.e. being good with women, will be the consistent ability to sleep with women who have boyfriends.
Why would that be a bad thing for you- as a man?
Well it forces you to internally question yourself about the very girl whom you call your girlfriend or perhaps a future girlfriend or wife:
“Is she liable to cheat on me”?
Now if you’re a guy who’s terrible to average with women, and aren’t involved in Pickup nor the study of relationship matters; then ignorance is fucking blissful baby :lol:!!!!
It’s like discovering the diabolic shit that your own government does to its citizenry [U.S. Government that is], like pumping fluoride into tap water in order to literally dumb down the population and indirectly administering us cancer-causing bacteria and viruses under the guise of “vaccination”.
Or perhaps finding out that in 1962, the CIA had drafted a covert-terror operation called the “Northwoods Operation”, in which the U.S. government was planning to bomb some U.S. cities causing mass casualties and falsely blame it on Fidel Castro in order to justify a war against Cuba.
Aha: this should now make you realize that 9-11 was an inside job, and it was a piece of cake for the U.S. government to pull off and blame it on some entity called Al-Qaeda which never existed, as pretext to go to war in the Middle East.
Many of us would prefer to turn a blind eye and be ignorant to such diabolic truths.
We are unable to believe that those who claim to love us would ever hurt us and do things that are not in our best interests.
The reality is just too bitter to stomach and too awful to accept.
Thus the same with becoming good at social dynamics and learning about women.
The shit I know now about women and their tendency to lean toward promiscuity; I frankly wish I never knew…in a way.
Where am I going with all this?
A whopping 95% of the girls I’d slept with over the past 8 years, all claimed to have had boyfriends and or husbands!
Where are the stats and proofs to support the theory that women who are single are more prone to sleeping around?
There is none.
From my experience, or what I like to dub: SEX-perience; the facts are quite the contrary.
My statistics clearly indicate that women in relationships are the ones to sleep around wantonly!
I usually don’t write lay reports [sex stories] unless they’re instructional to my readers, but just to throw in a few eyebrow-raising figures: I’d slept with 3 new chicks over the past 12 days, and all 3 of them had boyfriends…1 engaged to be married.
Yep- been on 1 of those sporadic hot streaks.
One of those girls I’d spoken about in this recent article: Last Minute Resistance.
Now, I have no qualms with women who sleep around.
As a subscriber to the old-school pickup philosophy: I don’t judge women nor do I label them sluts and cheaters.
Women who fuck other guys are merely submitting to their carnal desires…which is fucking difficult to tame as we all know!
What I am trying to point out is 4 realities:
* Women do cheat.
* Women will cheat.
* Women cheat without regrets nor regards…unless they’re caught.
* Women cheat way more than men do.
The guy who doesn’t seem to believe this is often times one who has ZERO to minimal experience with women, or is in a relationship himself, but would love to sweep this under the rug to placate his fragile frame.
No man would want to believe that his precious girlfriend could be banging another guy…especially after all he has done for her.
Knowing these 4 realities mentioned above, I now empathize with the class of men in society who vow never to get into exclusive relationships nor marry as long as they live [though I don’t subscribe to such beliefs]!
Most of my dedicated readers would’ve known that I am in a relationship and have been for the past 4 years and running.
Though it isn’t exclusively open, my girlfriend lives with the fact that I’m a mad scientist of sorts when it comes to picking up women, and that Pickup/Seduction is the biggest passion in my life and has been before I even met her!
With that mutual understanding; life goes on and the relationship is kept in perspective.
Do I trust that she won’t fuck some other guy behind my back?
Do I trust her?
The cliche that you cannot be with someone whom you don’t trust is the biggest crock of shit ever sold to us.
Humans are naturally untrustworthy and fickle when it comes to long-term goals such as sticking with 1 person…forever.
Forever is a long-fucking time 🙂 !
How many of us claim to believe in some higher power who sent us decrees we should follow or else we surely fucking burn and die…for eternity?
The Bible (Christians)
The Qura’an (Muslims)
The Torah (Jews)
The Bhagavad Gita (Hindus)
We all however un-religious we might be, subscribe to some so-called holy text. Atheists being non-subscribers to a holy book, still have the understanding that they should strive to be trustworthy as possible with their fellow man.
My point is, even threatened with hell fire, everlasting damnation, etc. we as humans are still untrustworthy sinners even unto the deity we claim to worship and love who claims to guarantee us eternal paradise if only we be trustworthy to him, but we still rebel!
How the fuck then can I as a human, or you for that matter, fully trust in someone else (wholeheartedly), when that someone cannot even trust in himself (or herself) to be faithful to his or her God!?
Am I saying to not trust your spouse?
I’m saying to trust him or her but with the fore-knowledge that they are likely to disappoint you at some point…which means you shouldn’t trust them…fully.
You have to understand that relationships rarely last. The average person, male or female, will have been in more than 1 exclusive relationship in their lifetime. This is proof that monogamous relationships rarely last.
Not having full trust in someone doesn’t mean you have to go crazy with all kinds of wild accusations of infidelity.
Case in point: I don’t trust my girlfriend.
However, with that mentality, am I a raging madman who’s constantly fighting with his GF, snooping around her apartment to see who she’s fucking, or going through her phone to see who she’s been talking to?
Neither does she do it to me because there exists an understanding of who I am and what I do.
I’ve never been the type of boyfriend to lie to his girl and tell her that he wouldn’t cheat or that he’s hanging at the bar with Greg and the boys when in reality, he’s at Claudia’s house getting an extramarital blow-job 🙂 .
My girlfriend knows what to expect from me since she’s totally in the know as to my lifestyle. She has no reason to snoop around because I’d always been open about what I do.
My relationship is eerily stable to a fault!
We hardly have trust issues in that I’m not being an accusative-jealous boyfriend just because I don’t trust her.
Saying all that to say: it is highly possibly to be with someone and not trust that someone.
I’m testimony of that, having been in a relationship for 4 consecutive years, when most so-called trusting relationships, with both parties trusting each other, don’t even last 4 months on average.
Be as it may, when you actually backward rationalize it and take a look at the average relationship and its origination: you’re actually trusting that another person whom you haven’t known but for some months, to actually be faithful to you as if he or she owes you something.
That chick doesn’t owe you shit! Which is largely why she will cheat on you and not give a fuck about a virtual-promissory agreement that she’d made with you that she’ll exclusively be with you and you only.
Who the fuck are you but some random guy who had just walked into her life out of nowhere or perhaps she met over the internet!!!
She breaks promises all the time to her love ones, father, mother, her employer, her BFF’s whom she’s known for 22 fucking years! And you are so blind and drunk with naiveté that you think she would not break a promise she made with you by fucking some other guy!?
Who are you but a strange guy she’s only known for 6 short months to not break a promise with!?
She knows it. But you don’t!
Now I’m not saying that men are more trustworthy. What I am saying is that “Trust” and keeping their word”, isn’t such a big deal for women, which is why they’re more prone to breaking their word, while men put more genuine emphasis on keeping their word.
It’s really idiotic to trust any girl. And vice versa- it’s just as stupid for a girl to trust that a guy won’t cheat on her.
As I mentioned at the top of the article, I slept with 3 new girls over the past 12 days, all of which had boyfriends.
All 3 of those girls claim to have good to great relationships!
I don’t doubt that they do!
What guys fail to realize is that it doesn’t take a bad or declining relationship to propel a girl to cheat.
She will cheat on you even when there exists no apparent reason for her to fuck another guy!
She doesn’t need a good reason or any reason for that matter, to lie down with another dude.
Therefore the notion that, “As long as I handle my business at home and fuck her right”, she won’t cheat, is plain bullshit!
Sounds good for sure; but it’s bullshit!
Sleeping with all these chicks with boyfriends over the years has opened my eyes to the crude reality that cheating for women is no big fucking deal.
They only display token regret if caught.
They can be so fucking nonchalant and blasé about cheating that it will cause you as a man to question your own manhood and double check just to see whether you have a dick or vagina down under 😯 !
As men, we’d love to believe the fallacy that we’re made solid as blocs of ice while our counterparts (women) are akin to cream-filled pastries brushed with an emotional coating of caramelized sugar.
Thank Hollywood for selling us that dream.
The average cheating woman I’d slept with, her boyfriend wasn’t even a thought while she was in my presence.
If he did come up during the discussion, it was often in a diminutive and dismissive manner, as the nice boyfriend who caters to her every whim and fancy who would never cheat on her because she’s such a faithful girlfriend…go figure 😉 .
Another caveat is as you become good with women and your lay count begins to rise, you will have fount yourself sleeping with more girls who are taken opposed to ones that are single.
With that comes the likelihood of discovering the hard truth: that it’s easier to sleep with girls who have boyfriends (and are married) than ones who claim to be single.
And it’s not like I personally go hunting for girls with boyfriend; they apparently play the fucking field more!
Another thing guys need to realize is that women are RARELY ever single!
She can claim to be single today, but check in on her 4 months down the line, and she’s in a relationship. Her Facebook status changes to “in a relationship”.
Ten months later: it changes to “single” or “undefined”.
Months later, she meets George and she’s back into another relationship.
Months later, she dumps George and gets back with an ex from 3 boyfriends ago.
Women being single is a fucking myth!!!
There is no such thing as a “single” girl!
Get that in your head guys!
She will sleep with you under the guise that she’d recently broken up with her boyfriend. But the reality is; she was never broken up.
If you have moral hang ups about banging women with boyfriends; then pickup isn’t for you.
Dating isn’t for you!
Stick to playing video games and getting hammered at the bars on weekends and going home alone.
95% of the women you will have met in every facet of society, will have boyfriends or husbands.
Waiting to find that elusive 5% who are genuinely single, will mean a lonely sex-less life without a thing to show for it as far as progeny and kids are concerned.
So you’ll simply be weeded the fuck out of existence with your name nowhere to be found in the chain of evolution as you would’ve died a lonely fucker who was waiting on that 1 special woman who was single, has no baggages; a virtual angel incarnate on Earth.
This hearkens back to a recent Facebook status posted by my friend and fellow Seduction coach, Trends Locario, about guys who constantly bitch as to why Kanye West would decide to get with a queen harlot such as Kim Kardashian.
Trend’s valid point was that the average guy is under the illusion that Kim K is such a rare slut while other girls out there haven’t been sleeping around!
Every girl has baggage!
Your soon-to-be girlfriend will have been a reformed whore!
Every girl you will have met, has been fucked a few times before…unless she’s a virgin, which doesn’t negate that she’s probably given some hand and blow jobs before, and had some close calls as far as losing her virginity is concerned.
So the myth of the perfect girl is just that: a myth.
The idea that your future girlfriend will be the poster-child of chastity is far from fucking reality!
The reality is: she’s someone else’s sloppy seconds and it’s your turn.
The fact of dating is: No woman breaks up with a man in order to be single to then get picked up again and whisk away into another relationship.
Another fact: women always have options in case her current relationship fucks up. If she dumps Steve or Steve dumps her, John is waiting in line to become her new boyfriend.
Just as Kim K hopped from that Football player dude, to the basketball player, to Ray J to Kanye…she was never fucking single!
Most relationships are and will be born out of infidelity: cheating!
So as a guy, you can either scurry off into a cave and hide from reality, or play ball by accepting the fact that women cheat, and in order for you to compete in the dating world, or to simply to get some pussy: you will have to fuck women who are taken and married…whether you intend on doing that or not.
As a guy who’s single, it’s not gonna happen that you’re at a bar 1 night and happen to bump into Betty- a single chick, and then ride off into the sunset of a blissful relationship.
That doesn’t happen!
That isn’t how relationships are born.
What occurs in “the real world”, is that you meet a good girl who has a (secret) boyfriend whom she never told you about, she will cheat on him with you, and if you’re more Alpha than her current BF; she will dump him for you.
That is how (new) relationships come about!
Born of infidelity, whereas the guy was cheating or the girl was or both were cheating!
It’s never 2 “single” persons hooking up. Either 1 or both is seeing someone else.
As I’d written a year ago: a woman will always actively seek to upgrade her boyfriend to a perceived better one.
What that means is, if she meets a guy whom she deems is better than her current man [whatever her barometer of better is to her]; she will dump her current and get with the other guy.
She upgrades based on her superficial preferences.
Doesn’t frikkin’ matter how good the current boyfriend is to her. She won’t take into consideration how much the current boyfriend has done as a surrogate father to her father-less kids of her previous relationships. Her kid’s future won’t even matter to her at that juncture where she’s faced with upgrading from a Beta-Male to an Alpha-Male.
This is an instinctive nature in every woman!
She cannot help it since she was evolutionary programmed to want to mate with the Alpha-Male.
Therefore, whenever a girl cheats on a good guy and dumps him, 90% of the time, she doesn’t even know why she repeatedly make such bad judgment calls!
She cannot rationally tell you; nor can she give a rational-sound reason!
She will only give you the classic BS:
“Oh my ex was cheating on me, he was too jealous, he abused me, he was boring, he never took me out, he didn’t have time for me, he worked too much and never spent time…”
She will give you all the socially “expected” reasons. But what she will not tell you [because she doesn’t know herself] is that:
“I cheated on and dumped my ex because he wasn’t an Alpha-Male who treated me like a subordinate. And as a woman, I am made to desire a guy who has more Alpha-Male qualities and is likely to have other women in his life”.
An extra caveat to throw into the mix is that a woman will NEVER cheat on her boyfriend if he’s a throwback, rebellious Alpha-Male.
In other words, he treats her like shit while displaying sporadic kindnesses, he doesn’t shower her with attention, he has other women in his life, he can be an asshole half of the time, he’s a bad boy, he doesn’t spoil her at all…at least not rotten, he’s dominant, he shows token niceness, etc.
She will not cheat on such a guy!
Sure she will bitch about his lack of superficial affection; but she will live with it until HE decides to dump her! But she will NEVER dump him first!
However, if he as a boyfriend falls on the other side of the spectrum [a Beta-Male]: she will use him, cheat on him then dump him for good measures!
Case in point, I recently blogged about my ex of some years ago who had cheated on me and dumped me for the guy she cheated with: read here.
That happened because I was a fucking Beta-Male pussy!
It wasn’t her fault!
She was only doing her part as a living organism in order to prolong her genes by selecting the most qualified guy to mate with!
I was a passive, nice guy, pussy-whipped boyfriend who treated her like royalty!
I wasn’t cheating on her, proclaimed my love for her, gave her the world, yet she fucked some other guy 2 months into the relationship…in the apartment I was paying rent for…on the same fucking bed I laid my head…caught red handed with my own 2 eyes…on 2 separate occasions!
Was she some evil bitch?
Had I manned up from the start, had other women in my life, treated her with sparing kindness, maintained a dominant-asshole frame, etc. she would’ve kept herself in check.
Instead I spoiled her, gave her the world, assured her that she was the only girl in my life…which unfortunately were the reasons she no longer wanted me therefore began cheating.
All in all, my advice to every man and woman out there, is to wake up and accept the reality that the one you’re with can cheat, would cheat, and is probably cheating.
It isn’t something you should go ape-shit crazy over and dump the one you’re with because of suspicions of cheating.
You should merely accept that it can happen, embrace it and carry on in the relationship or marriage that you do have.
I’m of the opinion that my GF has fucked some other guy or guys within the last 4 years of our relationship.
Does that opinion make me want to dump her?
If I hadn’t dumped her within the 1st. year due to my opinion, why would I contemplate it now after 4 years?
I merely live with the reality that humans should not be trusted with long-term goals.
What would really be fucked-up is if my expectations were that of the average guy: “My girl isn’t cheating…she wouldn’t dare cheat”, and to then find out the unexpected happened: she cheated.
You would kill that bitch or have to be tossed into an asylum because your cushy-little reality was shattered and you’ve now lost your mental faculties and gone mad.
Women who are constantly bitching that they suspect their husbands of cheating: he is cheating!
Why would you think he’s not or he wouldn’t?
He’s human isn’t he?
Whenever the question comes up of, “Do you trust your girlfriend”?
My answer is always: “To an extent”.
That is the most reasonable way to look at it.
Men or mankind (women included) should NOT be trusted as far as to not sleep with someone else.
Doesn’t the very Bible you’ve been reading for the past 30 years warned you not to trust in man (mankind =’s women also): Psalm 118:8.
Trusting that your spouse wouldn’t cheat isn’t wrong: it’s just plain stupid.
Likewise, hoping to meet a pure un-corrupted woman in the western world is just as stupid.
Also, believing it’s immoral and unethical to fuck girls who have boyfriends; is also stupid, since most healthy sane girls have boyfriends.
The only true and genuine single girls out there are:
* Lesbians (lots of who are Feminists)
* Girls with some sort of horrendous deformity, mental cases or handicaps. But even they get hooked up with another handicap at some point.
Remember- as long as she’s sane: she has a boyfriend, or is dating or fucking a guy who will become her boyfriend shortly.
Hence, if you’re too ethical of a guy to screw girls who are taken; then I advise you to get a life-long subscription to Playboy ’cause you’ll be spanking that monkey from now until your dick falls off!