Not only is it an art, but it has rules, guideline, dos, donts and requires that you out-maneuver the girl.
Every now and then, I get into a mini rut where my text-game skills begin to stagnate or I simply get jaded with my usual text sequence so I virtually spent the entire Saturday reading some texting tips articles that I can readily incorporate into my Text Game and share with you guys.
The purpose of me getting any girl’s phone # or texting is to hook up with her; no exceptions.
It should be your primary and ultimate goal also.
Here are some texts, text samples, and texting guidelines that I stumbled upon today while reading some seduction articles [the authors listed above the tips].
1.) “I usually send a text the next evening. Texting in the morning time portrays neediness and everyone’s cortisol levels are high and causing stress. Early evening is better than late at night, too, because it leaves a slight chance of casual meet-up that night without giving her time to flake”.
2.) “Use exclamation marks and questions marks sparingly. Exclamation marks (and CAPITALS too) convey too much excitement and neediness”.
3.) Give her the illusion of choice. Instead of asking her a simple yes or no question, give her a choice of two things and sub-consciously build “a yes ladder” before asking her out (via a statement, of course).
Here’s a example:
Text 1:“Do you like pizza…”
Everyone likes pizza. 95% of the time she’ll say yes.
Text 2:”What do you prefer, beer or wine…”
See what I’m doing? She’s getting caught in my web of trickery! Mwahaha.
“Text 3 (the hook):“Hmm…well then, we should have a wine and pizza night. I’m free Tuesday or Thursday…”
“Game. Set. Match. I’ve often used this technique to invite girls back to my place for the very first date. It’s golden”.
4.) “Naturally, you’ll want to confirm she’s coming and you might be tempted to text her saying something like, ”Still on for tonight?” or some lame shit like that”.
“Instead, you should have a reason to text her. Here’s the proper way to do it…”
“Keep her in the dark until the day of the date. That means that you don’t confirm all the details (ie. exact time and place) in the initial round of text . Tell her you that you’ll text on the day and let’s her know what’s up. That way, when the day of the date rolls around, you can text her saying something like, “Hey, I’m almost forgot about you. I’m busy until 7 but I could meet you around 9ish. Sound good…”
1.) “When in doubt, keep it simple. Know the limits of the technology. Don’t try to charm your way into a girl’s pants in a black-and-white, 160-character message completely divorced of tone and delivery. It never works. Also, you can bet your bottom dollar that, if she’s cute, she gets dozens of texts per day. She reads them with a cursory glance, not with a keen eye for your subtle nuance”.
2.) “Cultivate a Zen-like patience at all times. Texting girls can require nerves of steel. Irrespective of how friendly she was the night she met you, know that she won’t respond to your texts right away, for a variety of reasons: she’s genuinely busy, she’s trying to seem uninterested, or she’s actually trying to ignore you. Resist the temptation of sending a desperation follow-up text”.
3.) “Know when to shut up or give up.Less is more. Even if a girl is vibing you and sending you a bunch of texts, don’t correspond endlessly with her because, sooner or later, you’re going to overstay your welcome”.
“Another tool for your text messaging toolbox is the Restart Text. It’s something you send days after a girl texts a date cancellation, refusal, or some other aloof message that suggests she’s slipping away. For example, say you ask a girl out on a Tuesday night but she responds by saying she can’t and doesn’t make a counteroffer. In that case, chill out, wait a couple days, and then send a restart text containing an innocuous question, such as “How was your weekend?” or “Did you survive Mardi Gras?” or something based on an event or activity she told you she was going to do”.
As a student of Pickup; I’m pretty much au fait with 100% of the above texting tips. However knowing something and applying it regularly is a different story.
You should also re-examine the way you text girls and how they respond to you, then incorporate the examples I’d shared in this post and you’re guaranteed to see better results instantly!
Ok, bad way to start off an article by drawing a reference between men and beast.
What I wanna share with you guys today are some very powerful insights when it comes to relationship management.
If you’re not in a relationship now- still read on!
You will eventually find yourself in 1, so it’s best you take heed ahead of time to avoid bawling your eyes out later.
What is a chick’s # 1 goal after she gets her man (whether she’s aware of this goal or not)?
To tame him!
Getting tamed doesn’t necessarily means that you as a man were once a wild-fucking animal off the leash before you met your girlfriend (or wife).
Merely being a super-cool guy, outspoken and sociable, would classify you as someone who needs to be tamed…that’s according to the modus operandi of most girlfriends.
Would girls in general fess up to wanting to tame their boyfriends?
Of course not!
Therefore, it’d be very stupid to ask your girlfriend if she’s trying to tame or change you in some way or fashion.
She won’t say yes (as you’ve already figured).
Why She Would Want To Tame You
This really boils down to survival, preservation and a little craziness.
She will obviously scheme to tame you so as to keep you off the dating and mating market as much as possible in order to have you for herself.
This isn’t bad in theory!
I mean, it’s actually what every woman should do in order to try to keep their mates around.
However, it gets deeper and more sinister 😈 .
The thing you should realize as a guy is that being “Tamed” is synonymous with the following adjectives and states:
I can ramble the fuck on and on with a day’s worth of negative connotations associated with being “Tamed”: but I’ll stop there.
Now, does any of those adjectives describe someone a woman would find attractive, sexy and relationship material?
I don’t have to be a woman to bet on this 1.
Those are all negative qualities when attributed to a man. And men displaying those qualities are often shunned by hot chicks and tossed into the dreaded pit of courtship better know as “the friendzone”.
To draw a reference, if you were standing at a bar brimming with the above qualities while hoping to get laid or find a girlfriend: you will have been disqualified within the first 2 seconds of being in the venue.
You wouldn’t have a real shot with quality women [not even the ugly ones].
On the flip side, let’s say that some of the following qualities were oozing out your frikkin’ pores like sweat after a grueling workout:
Now you’ll begin to look attractive, desired and very much like boyfriend material.
The problem this guy will encounter whenever he gets into a relationship, is the 1st. order of the day on his new girlfriend’s agenda: to actively try to strip away those positive qualities and turn him into the guy who has the 1st. set of qualities (negatives) highlighted above in pink.
She will do whatever she has to in order to reform you.
As put by the Pickup gurus, it’s her gender role to get the man domesticated and tamed.
Whether it’s her job by nature or something she’s adopted is up for debate. But the fact of the matter is: she will try to change and chip away at the guy she was once super attracted to, who had all the qualities she truly desires [the ones in blue].
Sounds pretty backwards when you think about it.
Some guys, even women, reading this may say: “What’s wrong with change and reformation and trying to get the boyfriend or husband to be more subdued”?
There’s nothing wrong with reformation and being tamed in this sense.
However, the repercussion comes next.
What Will Happen Once She Manages To Tame You
I won’t beat around the bush on this 1.
If she manages to tame you and strip away your attractive qualities which led her to you in the first place: She will dump you!!!
Either that or she’ll use you, drive your ass nuts, cheat on you…then dump you anyways.
It’s pretty much that simple.
If you allow her to have her way in the sense of introducing you to her likes, her desires, her hobbies, her taste in music, fashion, her lifestyle, her ideal type: She will fucking ditch you!
If she can literally shape you into her ideal man (excluding the physical aspect), 9 in 10 times, it’d be someone completely different than who you are and she’ll begin to have regrets.
Hey guys, ever been dumped or had your girlfriend wanting to take a break/space from the relationship, even when things were going ok?
Well the culprit just might be your taming (perpetrated by her).
Whenever a girl requests a break/space or some time to clear her head and so forth; she’s obviously bored, jaded, fed up or a combination of the 3.
Her feelings stem from the lack of attractive stimulation after she was able to subdue and change you from the once attractive Alpha guy to the now passive, go-with-the-flow, non-confrontation Beta male.
She now resents you as a fucking man!
She can’t believe she’s with you!
Albeit she was the 1 who insisted on changing and taming you 😆 😆 !!!
Ways In Which She’ll Try To Change/Tame You
It is mostly subtle and flies beneath the radar like stealth bombers!
Fortunately for you, having read this article, you will see it all coming and know from whence it came and the purpose.
Ok, some quick template scenarios of a girlfriend or wife attempting to tame you for the proverbial kill (albeit unintentional):
* She tries to get you to watch the programs that she watches on TV (granted they are lame programs).
* She insists that you cut your hair or shave a certain way…although the haircut you had when you first met her, was sufficient enough to attract her then.
* Tries to get you to ditch the boys by demanding or requesting more of your time.
* Demands more explanations from you when it comes to trivial matters.
* Wants you to lose weight while simultaneously altering your diet by introducing you to fatty foods.
* Gets you to take her out more often.
Those are just the tips of the iceberg, and you can probably come up with some other ones you might be familiar with.
Now, don’t mistake these signs for simple suggestions and recommendations from your girlfriend.
There’s a thin line between the 2 [trying to tame and simply recommending something]. But you’ll be able to sense the subtle innuendos beneath the surface.
In essence, taking suggestions and sharing ideas, thoughts and so forth are great things for peer bonding.
However, you as a man, will have to sift through what is genuine, risky or disingenuous.
On a deeper level, what I’m about to say may come off as very sexist and disturbing to many. And without a doubt, the feminist machine will be out to crucify me once and for all due to such declaration- but it must be said.
Women aren’t meant to lead!
They aren’t meant to be leaders.
That isn’t their role and never has been at any point in history: pre or modern.
A man who allows a woman to lead, for instance in an LTR (relationship or marriage), is essentially handing the wheels over to a blind, deaf and mute person on a freeway…going 90 MPH.
If you’re looking to careen off that bridge to a crashing death: then fine!
However, if you want to live, or in this case, preserve the relationship while maintaining your testicles: then you must take the steering wheel back which you shouldn’t have given her in the 1st. place!
A woman leading or dominating a relationship or the man in the relationship, is the most expedient way to bring it to a premature end!
Most men not being privy to this nor to the female nature, when faced with such situations, will shrug their shoulders in agreement to allowing the women to maneuver the relationship, under the impression that he’s being relieved of responsibility, duties, calls, decision-making, etc.
He can sleep while at the wheel (so he thinks).
Little does he know, ceding power over to the woman will be the biggest relationship mistake he’s ever made.
The only 2 likely outcomes to a woman taming you and having more leverage in the relationship are as follow:
1.) You will have become a giant pussy of a man with no say in the relationship, reduced to a role of passively accepting everything.
2.) She will cheat on you then dump you. If she has an ounce of heart in the reserve tank: she’ll dump you without cheating.
Take your pick!
Tale Of An Exciting DJ Reduced To Naught
There’s no greater teacher than personal-reference experience and looking at the examples of others around you.
I have an older-male cousin who’s about 40’ish [in retrospect: we laugh about it to this day].
He’s been with his girlfriend (now wife) for about 18 years. Just as with any relationship: ups, downs, splits, reconciliation, bla, bla, bla…
Now the thing is, prior to meeting her, he was a local-rockstar Reggae DJ throughout New York City. As a kid, he would take me on the road with him to perform at YMCA’s, PAL events, clubs, Caribbean-theme weddings, etc.
I mean- he was the fucking man!
He was getting so much pussy and groupie-loving that I actually almost lost my virginity to 1 of his groupies who was just too much for him to handle.
She virtually tried to rape me but I got let off the hook due to situational-erectile dysfunction 😆 !
Anyway, ironically enough, his girlfriend (now wife) happened to have been 1 of his groupies whom he met at a Hip-Hop DJ event in Manhattan.
He seen something in her which set her apart from the other fans, and vice versa…I guess.
As expected; she was in love with the hype, the gloss and glitter, wild lifestyle, women, aura, music, lights, club-hopping, etc.
My cousin, the DJ, was her ideal man!
Fast forward nearly 2 decades; he no longer DJ’s, no longer goes out, gave up his social life practically, has no other women in his life…
He was essentially domesticated.
He didn’t give up his life passion of DJ’ing because he wanted to. Nor because he felt he was getting too old and wanted to quit to do something less hectic (he’s only about 40 years old currently).
He quit because she suggested he do something more productive and laid-back which didn’t draw so much women and attention.
He wrestled with the suggestion then decided to quit.
Eventually got a cushy job at **********.
With that, he was no longer the “cool DJ”.
He was so much on autopilot mode that he didn’t even question anything or changes she recommended.
She felt he was a bit too heavy, started feeding him what she liked: his diet changed.
Now bear in mind the likely 2 outcomes I’d mentioned above which culminate after a woman tames a guy:
1.) He will have become a giant pussy of a man with no say in the relationship, reduced to a role of passively accepting everything.
2.) She will cheat on him then dump him. If she has an ounce of heart in the reserve tank: she’ll dump him without cheating.
Seventy five percent of the time: she will dump the guy [that’s if the relationship hadn’t reached marriage].
If it’s a marriage, there’s more social pressure on her to stay, plus she might not want to go through a drawn-out divorce, so she’ll stay but dominate, eat away at the guy’s soul, and periodically enjoy some extramarital affairs 😉 .
In fewer cases of relationships [25%], she will stay with the guy once he has been tamed, neutralized and conformed and no longer considered a threat to her well-being and survival since she doesn’t have to worry about competing women and so forth.
Anyway, so the girl decided to stay with my DJ cousin, but she since has sole control of the relationship (now marriage).
She wears the pants. She calls the shots.
Nowadays, he’s virtually friend-less while she still has her male and female friends. She has her cake [being in a relationship where she dominates] and is eating it too [still has a social-circle of friends and options in men].
My cousin’s situation isn’t unique by far.
It’s actually the norm.
This is the classic case of the no-lifer boyfriend turned husband who’s reduced to playing in-house poker with the husbands of his wife’s friends.
You see it potrayed in sitcoms all the time.
This is your typical-marriage dynamic: the wife remains jovial, elegant and social. The husband is restricted to a work-to-home routine while life blows by him. Has no meaningful hobbies but watching men grind on men [the NFL] once a week.
He become a specialist in arguing sports with the other Beta-ized husbands who’ve been castrated.
We all know lots of men like this!
More than 50% of your male coworkers fit this criterion, or will once they get into serious relationships or marriages.
You have uncles like this.
Your father is or was probably 1 😉 !
The downfall of these men [most men for that matter] came about once they passively allowed their girlfriends and wives to tame them, reform and remodel them into new men with new outlooks on life.
Think Adam and Eve for those who subscribe to Biblical stories. She expedited his downfall by suggesting (subtly leading) that he consume a certain-forbidden food.
The unsuspecting men in these situations never thought anything of it, just as most of us wouldn’t.
To really hammer home the point with some icing and cherry on the cake: the twisted irony of everything I’d written in this article is, once she remodels the guy by stripping away all of his perceived coolness which had attracted her in the first place, instead of being content with the new man she’s made, this new-tamed and controlled man, she begins to resent him and her attraction for him dies.
Also guys, please don’t get the impression that I’m only referring to marriages or long-term relationships here.
The mission of looking to tame and subtly dominate you will commence from the very instance your cock penetrates her vaj!
This can be as early as a One-Night Stand.
The day after; you will be fucking tested!
This is all assuming that she sees you as possible-relationship material.
By the way, I am no exception to any of this. My girlfriend has been covertly trying to tame me and sway the relationship since we met 🙂 .
How To Not Get Tamed And Controlled
When I first met my current girlfriend 4 years ago at a wedding party, we eventually hooked up.
Bear in mind- I owe this girl nothing at all- and vice versa.
We obviously weren’t dating. Just a one off!
The day after hooking up for the first time, she calls me over to her place and we hang out a bit.
She says to me:
“I smell cigarette on your breath. Didn’t know you smoke”.
Me: “I don’t smoke at all. Never have”.
GF: “How come I smell cigarette on your breath though”?
Now, she wasn’t questioning me in a controlling-contentious manner since technically she had no right to even question me.
This was all subtle-innocent chitchat in a semi-sarcastic joking manner.
Lots of guys would see this as charming and flattering:
“Yes! I got her hooked now. She’s dick-whipped! She’s mines”!!!
I didn’t read much of anything into it.
Oh, the reason I had cigarette scent on my breath was because I was making out with a girl who smokes whom I was just banging prior to stopping by my near-future girlfriend 😉 .
Refer to an article I wrote in reference to the year 2009 as being the year in which I slept with the most women in my life as my Pickup/Seduction skills were at their peak: My fuck-tank is on empty.
Anyway, so my GF knew that I was a Pick-Up Artist/lady’s man, and it was in her best interest + her gender role to tame that beast…or cut it out of me if she could!
Therefore, when she coyly questioned me about the cigarette scent, it was her 1st. play in the game to tame me or test the waters to see how pliable and bendable I was.
Saying all that to say, the girl will try to tame you from the instance she senses that she could see herself with you in a relationship. So before she’s even your girlfriend; she’s already scheming to soften you up, test you and reform you.
Irony is, my girlfriend had managed to subdue and tamed me 😆 !
I’m man enough to admit; she had me by the fucking balls!
About the 2nd. year into the relationship (early 2011), I was virtually neutered, castrated and whipped.
My pick-up skills were shitty due to the lack of gaming other women since I was so bogged down in this imbalanced relationship where I was the lap-dog and she the master.
I was literally on the verge of being dumped so I sought some relationship advice from the Pickup gurus (Chief PUA, Madal & Kasabi) on the Master Pick-Up Artist forum. I wanted to learn how to regain dominance to possibly save the relationship before being dumped.
Some of that advice I’ll be sharing with you guys right now: scenarios on how not to get tamed and how to free yourself before you get dumped [that’s if you want to save the relationship].
You’re now well aware as to why you shouldn’t allow the girl to tame or change you (for the worst).
Oh- before proceeding, lemme share another quick anecdote.
On a more recent occasion, I’d gotten a mini Mohawk haircut as I like to call it [can’t anymore since my hair is thinning 😦 ].
At first, my GF sorta liked it, warmed up to the idea then loved it!
A week later: wanted me to cut it because she thought it made me look too “out there”.
Another occasion, I got my eyebrow pierced. She was pissed as hell and insinuated I remove it because of a potential-job interview and I should want to make a good impression at job fairs.
That made sense when I thought about it!
However, I knew beneath the surface, it was an attempt to further strip away my independence/individuality to further mold me into a passive pussy.
To counter this, I advise you to: Do it on your own time and terms!!!
Therefore, I fucking procrastinated like hell with removing my brow ring.
Just to do it on my term and my time; not when she wanted it done!
For clarification sake guys, it’s not like my GF, nor any other girl for that matter, would be all confrontational and controlling about it.
They merely suggest or hint at it.
You rob her of power and control by procrastinating on whatever it is she requests of you to handle or change.
The moment you immediately give in or instantly agree with her suggestion, it’s 1 step further out of the relationship door she’s taking…or she’ll stay just to relish in the power-trip while cheating on you since she basically fucking owns you SON!!!
If she manages to get herself into hot water over suspected cheating; she’ll just take the easy way out by flat dumping you or giving you a soft landing by saying:
“I think we need a break or space for a while”.
Quick note: if she suggests you stop doing something, and if it’s really practical for you to desist [let’s say that you’ve been spending too much cash on unnecessary stuff], then you should stop or let up but just not on her time.
She insinuates that you cease drinking by Wednesday because of her mother’s birthday party on Saturday, and she wants you to show up sober: You either cease drinking on Friday instead, or simply show up hammered just to prove a point of not conforming when she wishes or implies on the drop of a dime.
She complains that her coworkers’ boyfriends always call them 5 times a day and you only call once, basically insinuating that you should call her more; you ignore it!
Sure- talk about it! But don’t start calling her 5 times per day starting from the following day because she requests or bitches about it.
If you personally feel that you should call her more than 1 time daily, then do it on your own time and not right away, nor the following day!
Use social intelligence to gauge when is the right time.
A quick tangent, if she suggest something positive, fun, cool, rad, adventurous, sexual, etc. then by all mean you should jump on it!!!
If she suggests you get a nice shirt which will accentuate your pecks or forearms: then do it- NOW!
If she’s encouraging you to do something that would make you a more attractive man and enhance your lifestyle: then you should do it!
It’s only when she’s trying to get you to desist from, or start doing something that will make you look like a fucking Beta and less attractive to women: like calling her more, or joining a book club (that’s if it’s not your original idea), then that’s when you should drop the fucking hammer!
To illustrate how often this happens, just last week, my GF said to me:
“My girlfriend’s boyfriend brings her lunch almost everyday to work. You rarely do that for me”.
We wrestled with it: subject dropped. A week went by and I stuck to my customary 1 lunch meal delivery per week for her.
Had I immediately expressed inadequacy as a man that another man was providing more than I am for his girl, and I acknowledged it as a shortcoming so I doubled down the next day…as positive as that sounds, it would’ve been a negative for me, and a plus for her in that she gains more control and leverage, while the attraction fades and I become less than a man and more like a submissive follower without his own path.
Another scenario: she met you as a guy who had numerous chicks in his life. She knew this and seen this but didn’t have the authority to bitch about it.
Y’all become exclusive then she suggests in whatever manner chosen, that you cut off those other girls and knock off your tendency to flirt with other chicks.
The moment you do as she says (or suggests): the attraction she’d felt for you, including the chemistry will have sunken tremendously!
The # 1 factor that keeps a girl around and keeps her in check, is if she knows or at least senses that you have the option to go fuck other women or dump her for another girl!
Fuck all the hype about having a bigger cock, more $$$, cuter face, defined 6 pac abs…
Those things cannot keep a woman around, nor can they keep her from cheating, simply because those things are material child’s play!
As the NLP seduction saying goes: “If you want a girl to madly fall in love with you: seduce her mind then her body will follow”.
In other words, the mind (perception) is more powerful than the body (material/reality).
We all can attest to that.
Just as if you have someone under hypnosis: their body is rendered disabled because the mind is captured or captivated.
However, if you capture someone’s body yet their mind is free, then he or she can still devise a way to escape physically…like a prison break.
Likewise with a girl in a relationship scenario: if she knows or senses (through perception) that you can have other women, hotter, smarter younger and more fertile than she is, she will be kept in line, kept intrigued, kept attracted and kept in the relationship.
She only has to sense that you can dump her any minute for another woman (preferably better but that doesn’t matter).
Saying all that to say, if your girlfriend or wife tries to get you to stop flirting with other women (within bounds), stop being as sociable or to cut off other women: DO NOT LISTEN TO HER!!!
It’s a trick and a preemptive mechanism in order to tame you and secure you from other men-snatching women.
Incidentally, as she gains psychological security because you’d alienated yourself from other women as she suggested, she will begin to see you as a Beta-Male (a lesser man) who is unable to present her with any challenge: she will rebel and start a plethora of unnecessary drama just to force a breakup (she dumping you).
This happens everyday!
Most men have been in this predicament at least once or twice, where he cuts off all his options then subsequently gets dumped unceremoniously (where he’s left with no options).
Weeks later, he then finds himself phoning Jackie whom he’d cut off cold a while back.
Jackie feels betrayed and is uninterested that she was cut off due to this guy’s girlfriend (now ex) suggesting he cuts all ties with other women.
I’ve been there; and most men who get laid have been there also 🙂 !!!
Having options with women will be your biggest card to play in your relationship: your trump card…and she know it!
It will be the only thing that can keep her around, especially after your $$ has depleted, your cock gets tiring, the sex becomes monotonous and good conversation dries up.
I’ve learned this the hard way. And if you allow a girl, or your girlfriend to tame you in anyway, especially by having you sever ties with other chicks, you might as well hire some comedians early ’cause you’ll be the laughingstock of your own show.
You should only cut ties with women if it’s something you yourself felt necessary. But it’s still taking a huge risk since women want what other women want.
If you’re left without other women in your life, then your girlfriend’s attraction for you will naturally diminish since she doesn’t have the competing element keeping her on her toes.
The overall theme is, you do what you want on your time without coercion from her.
I’m also not saying that a guy should always put up a fake front and show of masculinity. Showing some vulnerability is a plus, but you have to know when and how to balance them all within your relationship in order to maintain leadership and your manhood.
Don’t let her change you unless it’s change that you personally wanted.
And if you don’t have a score of other chicks in your life: go meet other women!
I’ll leave you with a solid video from the Pickup coach, RSD Julien, as he shed some light on the same concept spoken of in this article.
The title sounds a bit radical and dark but I swear it isn’t that bad.
Fore-note: This is advance seduction tactics with the purpose of enabling you to pick up the girl you want by disarming her potential cock-blocking friend. It’s like entering the lion’s den to retrieve food from 2 starving lionesses.
Ok, so I’m back in the field like a madman for the Spring-Winter.
I put this video together primarily to demonstrate the covert art of chatting up the friend of the girl you want in order to get to the girl you want 😈 .
Sounds shady and confusing as shit but I’ll break it down.
Ninety nine percent of the time when dealing with group sets (2 or more girls): 1 girl of the bunch will be the so-called Alpha chick (for lack of a better word) or the leader of the girl pack.
There can’t be 2 leaders: only 1. The rest are followers are just passively there.
Now the dilemma you’ll face when chatting up 2 or more girls, is that if you don’t win over the leader of the group; then you won’t be getting any action.
To simplify, you cannot enter a business establishment and have your way with the employees unless you first get accepted by the boss.
Therefore, once the boss/head honcho has accepted you as a cool individual who’s part of her inner circle; the employees will and must conform and take a liking to you also [whether this is a token/fake show of liking].
This is the essence of group game.
Once the leader of the girls accepts you; her friends must…or at least put up a front that they do like you.
Ok, in this video, while parading my favorite strip looking to pick up some girls, I spotted this sexy-Spanish chick and immediately approached and opened.
Apparently, she wasn’t alone. Her friend (the bossy-bitchy leader) re-emerges to see me chatting up her friend (the Spanish chick).
At this point in the game is where you must transition to talking to the friend (the leader) by introduction of some sorts.
Most guys fail at this juncture and blow themselves out the water by not creating a good impression on the leader of the pack by literally ignoring her.
With this being the case, all the leader has to do and say is:
“Hey Carrie; let’s go”!
Game fucking over!
I see this happen all the time…and you have too [that’s if you really analyze male-female interactions]: in the clubs, bars, streets, stores…
What the guy fails to realize is that whenever the girl’s friend comes back, it’s imperative on him to talk to the friend also.
You cannot just game 1 girl from that point on. You have to game the group by giving less attention to the girl you want.
Confused even more 😉 ?
It’s quite elementary in theory: if trying to pick up a girl who’s there with her friend, you cannot just ignore the shit out of her friend. You’ll be creating a negative impression and you’ll come off as socially unskilled and quite frankly: rude!
You also have to gain and maintain the attention of the group in order to keep them interested. How you do this is to use hand motions, verbal and physical enunciation, hand gestures ,etc. when talking to them.
In this video, I break down the entire sequence (voice-over narration) with overlay texts to give you a greater sense of what is taking place.
So, we walked off in the same general direction (all 3 of us).
As we reached a certain juncture, I suggested we hit up a nearby antique-art gallery which I usually frequent.
These girls apparently had nothing to do, so they jumped on the suggestion and I led them to the art gallery.
Key phrase: “I Led Them”.
I wasn’t following these chicks. They were following me in essence.
With this, I demonstrated that I was the true leader: the Alpha of all Alpha’s 🙂 .
Also take note of the body positioning: I am virtually always walking in front of the girls instead of in back.
This is very subtle yet powerful.
As the guy, you want to always lead the group by walking slightly in front or beside, but never in back of the girl(s)…unless you’re wanting them to stop, which would be a good strategy.
These little tweaks and signals you should always bear in mind.
You might not give a shit about where or how you walk, but on a subconscious level- the girl does.
Therefore, always walk in front of them or side to side as I am in the video.
Now, another key thing you should realize is how much more I seem to be interacting with the friend (the dark-skinned girl) opposed to my target- the caramel Spanish one.
As I explained above, what I’m actually doing is making a good impression on the friend (the leader), in order to advance onto her friend (the follower) where I’m able to full-blown pick her up.
Anyway, I led them to the art gallery where I was able to chat up my girl a bit more 😉 .
If a girl refuses to go with you outside of the bedroom (to be led by you), then she damn sure isn’t gonna go with you to bed…at least not that day.
In other words, if I say to a girl: “Let’s hit up this coffee shop”. If she adamantly refuses to come with me, then there’s zero chance of getting her to come back to my apartment.
Hence by throwing out these little compliance tests to see if the girl is willing to go with you, it gives you a realistic sense of how willing she’ll be to go with you back to your spot or perhaps on a date.
That was the main reason for me leading them and suggesting we hit up the antique-art gallery, just to see how willing they were to come/follow my lead.
This is advance seduction stuff and it will take time for you to master.
You ‘WILL’ fuck it up when first trying to lead girls around on the streets.
The key is to be assertive, light-hearted and own your fucking shit!
As you can recall from watching the Justin Wayne videos I’d posted over the past days, he always “LED” by telling the girl:
“Hey let’s go to this juice spot right around the corner”.
He isn’t suggesting that because he’s so enamored with juice spots 😆 .
He’s doing it to test the girl’s willingness to follow!
This is PUA 101.
If the girl follows, then she’s for sure open game and DTF!
If she doesn’t come with you, it doesn’t necessarily mean she isn’t DTF. Just that you’ll have to work harder and go through more rigorous-preliminary bullshit like excessive LMR (Last Minute Resistance), flaking, etc.
Towards the end of the mini instant-date, I was able to get some alone time with the Spanish chick (the 1 I wanted) being that I had been screened and accepted by her somewhat bitchy friend.
Sealed the # after a great flirty chat then off to the next set of girls.
Now, my call to action to you- yes you reading this [if you’re a guy], my challenge to you is to go out and try this.
Presuming you’re not a master at Pickup and you have no experience in chatting up 2 or more girls; it doesn’t frikkin’ matter! Nor does it matter if you you’re experienced.
I’m not expecting you to take 2 girls home [at least not right away].
I’m merely forcing you to get out of your head to approach and open 2 or more girls solely for reference and field experience as RSD Tyler would say.
You’re not even looking to get phone numbers.
Just do it and watch how the dynamics of the group play out where you can spot who’s the more dominant girl, who’s the leader chick, who’s the follower(s), etc.
The leader of the group is 9-10 times almost always the one with the most voice, most attitude, more “in-your-face”, more sassy, more of everything. So it isn’t hard to spot her. In rare cases; she’s the silent observer who commands the group with the snap of a finger or some other form of girl code.
Anyway, you can execute this at work, in a work setting, school, the streets, club, anywhere that there are girls in groups of 2 or more.
So get off your lazy ass and go get experienced!
Just to reiterate: if trying to pick up a girl who’s there with her friend, you cannot just ignore the shit out of her friend. You’ll be creating a negative impression and you’ll come off as socially unskilled and quite frankly: rude!
Therefore in this video, I break down the entire sequence (voice-over narration) with overlay texts to give you a greater sense of what is taking place.
Just before I go- lemme condense the main points to make it easier to follow and execute:
* Always introduce yourself to the entire group.
* Always chat up the leader of the group to create a good impression on her.
* Show less attention to the girl you want until you’re accepted by the leader of the group (if she isn’t the leader)
* Hold the attention of the group by using hand motions and gestures as you speak to them.
* Remember to “Lead” by walking in front of them or beside but never aback.
In addition to my most controversial article as of late: “Women with boyfriends”, I decided to throw some video proof in the mix just to quiet the male naysayers who refuse to believe that most women consider themselves to be in relationships, and are easier to pull than those that are single.
Whether this is true or not is another story for another time [granted that there are lots of women who say they have boyfriends in hopes of rejecting guys who attempt to pick them up].
Regardless, you are bound to meet more women who are in relationships or marriages than those who claim to be single.
From my estimation, this figure is 95%. Meaning 95% of the chicks you would have approached, will have boyfriends or say they have boyfriends.
While checking out some Justin Wayne videos, I happen to come across the 1 where he kisses 3 random strangers in a Downtown Manhattan mall within a 2 hour span.
That isn’t what I wanted to highlight. What had stuck out like a sore thumb to me, was that 2 out of the 3 girls had boyfriends.
Just as I’d surmised: 95% of the girls you would have met on a daily basis, will be in relationships.
Why am I even belaboring this point?
Simply that there are many men in society who are adverse to picking up chicks that are taken.
I guess they don’t understand how survival and replication works: the strongest and fastest swimming sperm wins (the Alpha sperm).
To each his own.
But as I eluded to in the previous article: in order to get a girlfriend, you will most likely have to steal another man’s girlfriend.
Or you can wait it out until she breaks up with her current boyfriend, which could mean years worth of waiting 🙂 .
What if they never break up?
That isn’t realistic.
Therefore your only recourse as a man seeking a girlfriend, would be to play hardball and hit on any chick, whether she’s taken or not.
Every man instinctively gets this since it is coded in every man’s biological makeup that in order to survive after he’s dead [progeny/kids]- he must mate with some woman, whether that be to forcibly take another man’s woman, or covertly seduce her away.
This’ the 1 instance in which I say to Karma: “Fuck off you fat bitch”!!! 🙂
Anyway, this Justin Wayne video really hammers home my point that majority of the women you will meet on a daily basis have boyfriend. But the added beauty is that those same girls with boyfriends are easier to seduce and take to bed than the ones who are genuinely single [handicaps, feminists, Lesbians, etc.].
One of the curses of “The Game”, and there are few, i.e. being good with women, will be the consistent ability to sleep with women who have boyfriends.
Why would that be a bad thing for you- as a man?
Well it forces you to internally question yourself about the very girl whom you call your girlfriend or perhaps a future girlfriend or wife:
“Is she liable to cheat on me”?
Now if you’re a guy who’s terrible to average with women, and aren’t involved in Pickup nor the study of relationship matters; then ignorance is fucking blissful baby :lol:!!!!
It’s like discovering the diabolic shit that your own government does to its citizenry [U.S. Government that is], like pumping fluoride into tap water in order to literally dumb down the population and indirectly administering us cancer-causing bacteria and viruses under the guise of “vaccination”.
Or perhaps finding out that in 1962, the CIA had drafted a covert-terror operation called the “Northwoods Operation”, in which the U.S. government was planning to bomb some U.S. cities causing mass casualties and falsely blame it on Fidel Castro in order to justify a war against Cuba.
Aha: this should now make you realize that 9-11 was an inside job, and it was a piece of cake for the U.S. government to pull off and blame it on some entity called Al-Qaeda which never existed, as pretext to go to war in the Middle East.
Many of us would prefer to turn a blind eye and be ignorant to such diabolic truths.
We are unable to believe that those who claim to love us would ever hurt us and do things that are not in our best interests.
The reality is just too bitter to stomach and too awful to accept.
Thus the same with becoming good at social dynamics and learning about women.
The shit I know now about women and their tendency to lean toward promiscuity; I frankly wish I never knew…in a way.
Where am I going with all this?
Some Eye-Opening Statistics
A whopping 95% of the girls I’d slept with over the past 8 years, all claimed to have had boyfriends and or husbands!
Where are the stats and proofs to support the theory that women who are single are more prone to sleeping around?
There is none.
From my experience, or what I like to dub: SEX-perience; the facts are quite the contrary.
My statistics clearly indicate that women in relationships are the ones to sleep around wantonly!
I usually don’t write lay reports [sex stories] unless they’re instructional to my readers, but just to throw in a few eyebrow-raising figures: I’d slept with 3 new chicks over the past 12 days, and all 3 of them had boyfriends…1 engaged to be married.
Now, I have no qualms with women who sleep around.
As a subscriber to the old-school pickup philosophy: I don’t judge women nor do I label them sluts and cheaters.
Women who fuck other guys are merely submitting to their carnal desires…which is fucking difficult to tame as we all know!
What I am trying to point out is 4 realities:
* Women do cheat.
* Women will cheat.
* Women cheat without regrets nor regards…unless they’re caught.
* Women cheat way more than men do.
The guy who doesn’t seem to believe this is often times one who has ZERO to minimal experience with women, or is in a relationship himself, but would love to sweep this under the rug to placate his fragile frame.
No man would want to believe that his precious girlfriend could be banging another guy…especially after all he has done for her.
Knowing these 4 realities mentioned above, I now empathize with the class of men in society who vow never to get into exclusive relationships nor marry as long as they live [though I don’t subscribe to such beliefs]!
Most of my dedicated readers would’ve known that I am in a relationship and have been for the past 4 years and running.
Though it isn’t exclusively open, my girlfriend lives with the fact that I’m a mad scientist of sorts when it comes to picking up women, and that Pickup/Seduction is the biggest passion in my life and has been before I even met her!
With that mutual understanding; life goes on and the relationship is kept in perspective.
Do I trust that she won’t fuck some other guy behind my back?
Do I trust her?
The cliche that you cannot be with someone whom you don’t trust is the biggest crock of shit ever sold to us.
Humans are naturally untrustworthy and fickle when it comes to long-term goals such as sticking with 1 person…forever.
Forever is a long-fucking time 🙂 !
How many of us claim to believe in some higher power who sent us decrees we should follow or else we surely fucking burn and die…for eternity?
The Bible (Christians)
The Qura’an (Muslims)
The Torah (Jews)
The Bhagavad Gita (Hindus)
We all however un-religious we might be, subscribe to some so-called holy text. Atheists being non-subscribers to a holy book, still have the understanding that they should strive to be trustworthy as possible with their fellow man.
My point is, even threatened with hell fire, everlasting damnation, etc. we as humans are still untrustworthy sinners even unto the deity we claim to worship and love who claims to guarantee us eternal paradise if only we be trustworthy to him, but we still rebel!
How the fuck then can I as a human, or you for that matter, fully trust in someone else (wholeheartedly), when that someone cannot even trust in himself (or herself) to be faithful to his or her God!?
Am I saying to not trust your spouse?
I’m saying to trust him or her but with the fore-knowledge that they are likely to disappoint you at some point…which means you shouldn’t trust them…fully.
You have to understand that relationships rarely last. The average person, male or female, will have been in more than 1 exclusive relationship in their lifetime. This is proof that monogamous relationships rarely last.
Not having full trust in someone doesn’t mean you have to go crazy with all kinds of wild accusations of infidelity.
Case in point: I don’t trust my girlfriend.
However, with that mentality, am I a raging madman who’s constantly fighting with his GF, snooping around her apartment to see who she’s fucking, or going through her phone to see who she’s been talking to?
Neither does she do it to me because there exists an understanding of who I am and what I do.
I’ve never been the type of boyfriend to lie to his girl and tell her that he wouldn’t cheat or that he’s hanging at the bar with Greg and the boys when in reality, he’s at Claudia’s house getting an extramarital blow-job 🙂 .
My girlfriend knows what to expect from me since she’s totally in the know as to my lifestyle. She has no reason to snoop around because I’d always been open about what I do.
My relationship is eerily stable to a fault!
We hardly have trust issues in that I’m not being an accusative-jealous boyfriend just because I don’t trust her.
Saying all that to say: it is highly possibly to be with someone and not trust that someone.
I’m testimony of that, having been in a relationship for 4 consecutive years, when most so-called trusting relationships, with both parties trusting each other, don’t even last 4 months on average.
Be as it may, when you actually backward rationalize it and take a look at the average relationship and its origination: you’re actually trusting that another person whom you haven’t known but for some months, to actually be faithful to you as if he or she owes you something.
That chick doesn’t owe you shit! Which is largely why she will cheat on you and not give a fuck about a virtual-promissory agreement that she’d made with you that she’ll exclusively be with you and you only.
Who the fuck are you but some random guy who had just walked into her life out of nowhere or perhaps she met over the internet!!!
She breaks promises all the time to her love ones, father, mother, her employer, her BFF’s whom she’s known for 22 fucking years! And you are so blind and drunk with naiveté that you think she would not break a promise she made with you by fucking some other guy!?
Who are you but a strange guy she’s only known for 6 short months to not break a promise with!?
She knows it. But you don’t!
Now I’m not saying that men are more trustworthy. What I am saying is that “Trust” and keeping their word”, isn’t such a big deal for women, which is why they’re more prone to breaking their word, while men put more genuine emphasis on keeping their word.
It’s really idiotic to trust any girl. And vice versa- it’s just as stupid for a girl to trust that a guy won’t cheat on her.
What I Learned From The Last 3 Girls I Fucked…Who All Have Boyfriends
As I mentioned at the top of the article, I slept with 3 new girls over the past 12 days, all of which had boyfriends.
All 3 of those girls claim to have good to great relationships!
I don’t doubt that they do!
What guys fail to realize is that it doesn’t take a bad or declining relationship to propel a girl to cheat.
She will cheat on you even when there exists no apparent reason for her to fuck another guy!
She doesn’t need a good reason or any reason for that matter, to lie down with another dude.
Therefore the notion that, “As long as I handle my business at home and fuck her right”, she won’t cheat, is plain bullshit!
Sounds good for sure; but it’s bullshit!
Sleeping with all these chicks with boyfriends over the years has opened my eyes to the crude reality that cheating for women is no big fucking deal.
They only display token regret if caught.
They can be so fucking nonchalant and blasé about cheating that it will cause you as a man to question your own manhood and double check just to see whether you have a dick or vagina down under 😯 !
As men, we’d love to believe the fallacy that we’re made solid as blocs of ice while our counterparts (women) are akin to cream-filled pastries brushed with an emotional coating of caramelized sugar.
Thank Hollywood for selling us that dream.
The average cheating woman I’d slept with, her boyfriend wasn’t even a thought while she was in my presence.
If he did come up during the discussion, it was often in a diminutive and dismissive manner, as the nice boyfriend who caters to her every whim and fancy who would never cheat on her because she’s such a faithful girlfriend…go figure 😉 .
Another caveat is as you become good with women and your lay count begins to rise, you will have fount yourself sleeping with more girls who are taken opposed to ones that are single.
With that comes the likelihood of discovering the hard truth: that it’s easier to sleep with girls who have boyfriends (and are married) than ones who claim to be single.
And it’s not like I personally go hunting for girls with boyfriend; they apparently play the fucking field more!
Another thing guys need to realize is that women are RARELY ever single!
She can claim to be single today, but check in on her 4 months down the line, and she’s in a relationship. Her Facebook status changes to “in a relationship”.
Ten months later: it changes to “single” or “undefined”.
Months later, she meets George and she’s back into another relationship.
Months later, she dumps George and gets back with an ex from 3 boyfriends ago.
Women being single is a fucking myth!!!
There is no such thing as a “single” girl!
Get that in your head guys!
She will sleep with you under the guise that she’d recently broken up with her boyfriend. But the reality is; she was never broken up.
If you have moral hang ups about banging women with boyfriends; then pickup isn’t for you.
Dating isn’t for you!
Stick to playing video games and getting hammered at the bars on weekends and going home alone.
Why She Would Cheat And Upgrade + The Evolutionary Alpha-Male + Slut-dom
95% of the women you will have met in every facet of society, will have boyfriends or husbands.
Waiting to find that elusive 5% who are genuinely single, will mean a lonely sex-less life without a thing to show for it as far as progeny and kids are concerned.
So you’ll simply be weeded the fuck out of existence with your name nowhere to be found in the chain of evolution as you would’ve died a lonely fucker who was waiting on that 1 special woman who was single, has no baggages; a virtual angel incarnate on Earth.
This hearkens back to a recent Facebook status posted by my friend and fellow Seduction coach, Trends Locario, about guys who constantly bitch as to why Kanye West would decide to get with a queen harlot such as Kim Kardashian.
Trend’s valid point was that the average guy is under the illusion that Kim K is such a rare slut while other girls out there haven’t been sleeping around!
Trends Locario: Seduction-dating coach out of NYC
Every girl has baggage!
Your soon-to-be girlfriend will have been a reformed whore!
Every girl you will have met, has been fucked a few times before…unless she’s a virgin, which doesn’t negate that she’s probably given some hand and blow jobs before, and had some close calls as far as losing her virginity is concerned.
So the myth of the perfect girl is just that: a myth.
The idea that your future girlfriend will be the poster-child of chastity is far from fucking reality!
The reality is: she’s someone else’s sloppy seconds and it’s your turn.
The fact of dating is: No woman breaks up with a man in order to be single to then get picked up again and whisk away into another relationship.
Another fact: women always have options in case her current relationship fucks up. If she dumps Steve or Steve dumps her, John is waiting in line to become her new boyfriend.
Just as Kim K hopped from that Football player dude, to the basketball player, to Ray J to Kanye…she was never fucking single!
Most relationships are and will be born out of infidelity: cheating!
So as a guy, you can either scurry off into a cave and hide from reality, or play ball by accepting the fact that women cheat, and in order for you to compete in the dating world, or to simply to get some pussy: you will have to fuck women who are taken and married…whether you intend on doing that or not.
As a guy who’s single, it’s not gonna happen that you’re at a bar 1 night and happen to bump into Betty- a single chick, and then ride off into the sunset of a blissful relationship.
That doesn’t happen!
That isn’t how relationships are born.
What occurs in “the real world”, is that you meet a good girl who has a (secret) boyfriend whom she never told you about, she will cheat on him with you, and if you’re more Alpha than her current BF; she will dump him for you.
That is how (new) relationships come about!
Born of infidelity, whereas the guy was cheating or the girl was or both were cheating!
It’s never 2 “single” persons hooking up. Either 1 or both is seeing someone else.
What that means is, if she meets a guy whom she deems is better than her current man [whatever her barometer of better is to her]; she will dump her current and get with the other guy.
She upgrades based on her superficial preferences.
Doesn’t frikkin’ matter how good the current boyfriend is to her. She won’t take into consideration how much the current boyfriend has done as a surrogate father to her father-less kids of her previous relationships. Her kid’s future won’t even matter to her at that juncture where she’s faced with upgrading from a Beta-Male to an Alpha-Male.
This is an instinctive nature in every woman!
She cannot help it since she was evolutionary programmed to want to mate with the Alpha-Male.
Therefore, whenever a girl cheats on a good guy and dumps him, 90% of the time, she doesn’t even know why she repeatedly make such bad judgment calls!
She cannot rationally tell you; nor can she give a rational-sound reason!
She will only give you the classic BS:
“Oh my ex was cheating on me, he was too jealous, he abused me, he was boring, he never took me out, he didn’t have time for me, he worked too much and never spent time…”
She will give you all the socially “expected” reasons. But what she will not tell you [because she doesn’t know herself] is that:
“I cheated on and dumped my ex because he wasn’t an Alpha-Male who treated me like a subordinate. And as a woman, I am made to desire a guy who has more Alpha-Male qualities and is likely to have other women in his life”.
An extra caveat to throw into the mix is that a woman will NEVER cheat on her boyfriend if he’s a throwback, rebellious Alpha-Male.
In other words, he treats her like shit while displaying sporadic kindnesses, he doesn’t shower her with attention, he has other women in his life, he can be an asshole half of the time, he’s a bad boy, he doesn’t spoil her at all…at least not rotten, he’s dominant, he shows token niceness, etc.
She will not cheat on such a guy!
Sure she will bitch about his lack of superficial affection; but she will live with it until HE decides to dump her! But she will NEVER dump him first!
Rebellious Alpha badboy
However, if he as a boyfriend falls on the other side of the spectrum [a Beta-Male]: she will use him, cheat on him then dump him for good measures!
Case in point, I recently blogged about my ex of some years ago who had cheated on me and dumped me for the guy she cheated with: read here.
That happened because I was a fucking Beta-Male pussy!
It wasn’t her fault!
She was only doing her part as a living organism in order to prolong her genes by selecting the most qualified guy to mate with!
I was a passive, nice guy, pussy-whipped boyfriend who treated her like royalty!
I wasn’t cheating on her, proclaimed my love for her, gave her the world, yet she fucked some other guy 2 months into the relationship…in the apartment I was paying rent for…on the same fucking bed I laid my head…caught red handed with my own 2 eyes…on 2 separate occasions!
Was she some evil bitch?
Had I manned up from the start, had other women in my life, treated her with sparing kindness, maintained a dominant-asshole frame, etc. she would’ve kept herself in check.
Instead I spoiled her, gave her the world, assured her that she was the only girl in my life…which unfortunately were the reasons she no longer wanted me therefore began cheating.
All in all, my advice to every man and woman out there, is to wake up and accept the reality that the one you’re with can cheat, would cheat, and is probably cheating.
It isn’t something you should go ape-shit crazy over and dump the one you’re with because of suspicions of cheating.
You should merely accept that it can happen, embrace it and carry on in the relationship or marriage that you do have.
I’m of the opinion that my GF has fucked some other guy or guys within the last 4 years of our relationship.
Does that opinion make me want to dump her?
If I hadn’t dumped her within the 1st. year due to my opinion, why would I contemplate it now after 4 years?
I merely live with the reality that humans should not be trusted with long-term goals.
What would really be fucked-up is if my expectations were that of the average guy: “My girl isn’t cheating…she wouldn’t dare cheat”, and to then find out the unexpected happened: she cheated.
You would kill that bitch or have to be tossed into an asylum because your cushy-little reality was shattered and you’ve now lost your mental faculties and gone mad.
Women who are constantly bitching that they suspect their husbands of cheating: he is cheating!
Why would you think he’s not or he wouldn’t?
He’s human isn’t he?
Whenever the question comes up of, “Do you trust your girlfriend”?
My answer is always: “To an extent”.
That is the most reasonable way to look at it.
Men or mankind (women included) should NOT be trusted as far as to not sleep with someone else.
Doesn’t the very Bible you’ve been reading for the past 30 years warned you not to trust in man (mankind =’s women also): Psalm 118:8.
Trusting that your spouse wouldn’t cheat isn’t wrong: it’s just plain stupid.
Likewise, hoping to meet a pure un-corrupted woman in the western world is just as stupid.
Also, believing it’s immoral and unethical to fuck girls who have boyfriends; is also stupid, since most healthy sane girls have boyfriends.
The only true and genuine single girls out there are:
* Lesbians (lots of who are Feminists)
* Girls with some sort of horrendous deformity, mental cases or handicaps. But even they get hooked up with another handicap at some point.
Remember- as long as she’s sane: she has a boyfriend, or is dating or fucking a guy who will become her boyfriend shortly.
Hence, if you’re too ethical of a guy to screw girls who are taken; then I advise you to get a life-long subscription to Playboy ’cause you’ll be spanking that monkey from now until your dick falls off!
Justin Wayne: head coach for the Justin Wayne PUA dating company
This video was sent to me by a member of the PUA United forum, also a reader of this blog, so I felt a need to plug it for my man Justin Wayne (of NYC), arguably the best PUA instructor/practitioner in the Game right now, voted the best PUA of 2012 by readers of this blog.
I’m no stranger to reviewing Justin’s products, system of Pickup (Romantic Connection) and his stellar videos.
This 1 however is very instructional in that it shows you the 3 types of women you will have encountered on a daily basis while trying to pick up:
* Yes Girl
* Maybe Girl
* No Girl
In the video, my man Bruce Wayne (a co-feature) breaks this down in super quick fashion, so there isn’t much I can add to it.
Bruce Wayne; PUA dating coach for the Justin Wayne Dating company
Basically, a “yes” girl is a chick you meet who is totally receptive to your pick-up attempts.
A “maybe” girl is 1 who’s on the fences.
A “no” girl is as you would guess: one who’s not on board with your suggestions.
Why is this important for you to know?
Frankly, you will have to learn how to maneuver these 3 types of girls; especially the maybe or no type.
Plus you’ll meet more no and maybe girls than yes girls.
One crucial mistake lots of guys make is to give up on the no and maybe girl whenever she gives token/fake resistance.
The funny thing is, “yes” girls are the rarest of the 3. So you best learn how to seduce nos and maybes!
In the video, Bruce and Justin Wayne showcase on hidden-cam how to convert a “Maybe” to “No” girl into a yes girl.
In Justin’s 1st. set, he meets some resistance as he tried to hug a girl whose body language showed that she wasn’t ready for it.
Instead of giving up, he further the interaction in order to convert her.
Eventually, they both (Justin and Bruce) take their girls home off of D2’s (2nd. Dates) to have sex :).
Overall, this video gets 2 huge thumbs up from me. And even as an advanced PUA, I learned a thing or 2 from this footage which I’ll begin to implement into my pick-up structure.
* How to be persistent
* How to read girls
* How to convert girls to be DTF
* How to physically lead/move girls (by the hands)
* Why you shouldn’t abandon ship too early
* Damage control
* Why being non-reactive is key
I also like how Justin displays “Tourist Game” when he spots a back-packer on the streets of NYC, who has a boyfriend, yet was super willing to see Justin that same day!
To get chicks on dates, 70% of your proposals will be met with uncertainty from the girl. Even if she accepts the date- she can flake.
With that, you’ll have to device a way in order to “soft sell” your date in getting her to feel more comfortable in accepting and actually showing up and not flake/stand you up.
Not being able to “sell a date” or convince the girl to want to actually come along, is a key area in which guys falter big time.
Key notes of the video:
* How you should set up a date to where it doesn’t feel like a date at all.
* Why you should not ask her out in the first place.
* Why you should say to her that she should not try to out do herself with the dressing up.
* Hints to sell the date.
* Lightening the anxious mood of a date with some nifty texts.
* Why it’s important to encourage her that the date isn’t and shouldn’t be a big deal therefore she can come in flip-flops 😉 .
* What to actually text her while you’re waiting for her to show up.
Keep in mind that a girl flaking on you as the date approaches, 90% of the times is due to a lack of comfort, massive anxiety and nervous tension…which cause indecision at the last minute.
The tips that I provide in the video will counter this in a way as to lower the anxiety levels.
A critical mistake we guys commit is making dates such a big fucking spectacle!
You want it to be low pressured instead!!!
Note: For those living in colder climates who aren’t too giddy about going out, the tips are still pertinent in that they can be utilized in situations where you’re looking to get the girl at your place for perhaps an in-house rendez-vous opposed to a restaurant or something.
A perfect example would apply to meeting girls online and then having them come by your pad.
Eighty percent of it will come down to how you sell it and your ability to persuade and convince.