Join The Bad-Ass Pickup Guru VK Vince Kelvin On A Kick-Ass Bootcamp In California!

VK (left) and Artisan PUA (right) @ the 21 Convention outing in London

VK (left) and Artisan PUA (right) @ the 21 Convention outing in London

VK Hollywood Vince Kelvin, Pickup Artist dating guru

VK Hollywood Vince Kelvin, Pickup Artist dating guru

VK seducing a girl half his age on the streets of South Beach, Miami

VK seducing a girl half his age on the streets of South Beach, Miami

Message alert from VK Hollywood Kelvin:

“About to start another crazy pussy packed bootcamp in Hollywood! Students coming all the way from Austria, Canada, Switzerland, Texas, San Francisco and of course Hollywood! When are you gonna make it? BTW, next San Francisco bootcamp about to go on sale THIS WEEKEND, starting at $149 for first 4, hurry and text me 323-309-3219”!

Those of you in the California area, or will be over the coming week, my mentor and buddy, PUA guru, VK Hollywood Vince Kelvin, will be throwing a kick-ass bootcamp in the San Fran area for as low as $149!!!

If you’re interested in learning how to seduce women from 1 of the best Pickup Artist dating coaches in the game, give VK a call or text @ 323-309-3219!

What makes such a bootcamp experience awesome, is that you will see VK in action also as he’ll be your designated wingman giving pointers, corrections and encouragement.

The goal is to get you laid now!

When it comes to pulling one-night stands, quick pulls, 3-somes, 4-somes, etc., VK is unmatched in the community! He’s literally a walking fucking sex-machine, and he can coach you on how to make this happen for yourself!

Irrespective of race, ethnicity, age, socioeconomic background…VK’s bootcamps will instill in you the potential to get good at getting girls!

Black girls cant get enough of Vince

Black girls cant get enough of Vince

So, give him a call @ 323-309-3219

Tell him Socialkenny sent ya!

If you’re not sure as to VK’s viability as 1 of the best dating coaches in the game, then check out the following 7 videos!

[Video below: VK kissing marathon]

[Video below: VK creating havoc in Miami Beach]

[Video below: VK live teaching students how to pick up girls during day game]

[Video below: VK @ the Attraction Conference in Australia teaching about Inner Game]

[Video below: VK’s naughty New York City pickup]

[Video below: VK encounters trouble…]

[Video below: VK @ the PUA World Summit event as the presenter and host]

Book your bootcamp with VK @

Book your bootcamp with VK @

For a detailed list and pricing of Vince’s upcoming scheduled classes for the Summer, go to: VK’s Bootcamps.

Also check out his personal PUA blog for tips, tricks, insights and other goodies: Get real with VK!!

Socialkenny PUA Podcast Show Episode #9: “Best Online Dating Tips Ever For Picking Up Girls On POF,, Tagged, etc.

Been ages since I went back into the virtual studio to record an episode of my PUA podcast show.


In this episode, which was recorded June, 26th. 2013, I break down the fundamentals of winning in online dating!

By winning, I mean the fundamentals, tips and tricks in order to get you more #’s, dates and pussy than a rockstar!

Most coaches are great at giving vague advice and tips on online dating, however, I took it to another level with in debt details, templates, real-world examples, etc. on how to succeed at picking up girls on POF,, Jazzed, Tagged, Hi5, etc.

All the tips in which I share and disseminate on the show (including top-secret shit), are applicable to any online-dating site.

What you’ll learn about online-dating on this podcast episode

•How to set up your profile

•What to put as your job-description

•Generic profiles (with generic info) will get you nowhere

•How and when to send your first message

•What should your first message consist of

•Should you compliment as an opening message?

•How to almost guarantee a reply from the girls you inbox

•How to get a 90% reply rate

•The types of messages to NOT send (the ones that would have her screen you out fast)

•How to appear genuinely interested by the way you structure your first message

•Using negs is a great weapon when sending that first message

•Why sending canned or mass messages is a recipe for “No Replies”

•Women on dating sites can sense instantly when your messages are mass texts or personally for her

With online dating, your first message is the most important: make you or break you like a first impression!

Once you get her to reply to that initial message; the game is 70% complete!

It’s an hour and 22 minutes of the best out-of-the box online-dating tips you’ll ever get!

This is also assuming you would’ve had the basics of your profile already set up the way a successful Pick-up Artist’s would: pre-selection, social proof stuff, photos of you with other women, etc.

If you don’t already have the particulars in order, then you may also want to check out this killer-fucking article I wrote a while back: Socialkenny’s POF online dating method.

This episode will be available for download via iTunes within the coming days. In the meantime, you can listen to it via the video embed below!

Download the Socialkenny PUA Podcast Show episode #9: Best Online Dating Tips Ever [44 MB, 85 minutes]

I’d Rather Be The Guy On The Outside Than The Guy Being Cheated On [Help For Men Who Were Dumped Or Being Cheated On]

Cheating girlfriend

Cheating girlfriend

I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum ; the guy who had slept with girls who were cheating on their boyfriends (and husbands), and the guy who was cheated on by his girlfriend.

Read: Socialkenny’s romantic letter to an ex-girlfriend.

Remarkably for me though, I didn’t go bat-shit crazy and suicidal when a previous girlfriend of mines had cheated on me twice.

I handled it pretty damn well! But I was undoubtedly deflated as a man nevertheless 😦 .

After eventually breaking up with that girlfriend [she’d cheated 2 days after she was caught the first time], I noticed a major-fucking shift in my perception towards exes and how I go about managing such a thing.

As I lie down one night, I said to myself: “Wait a minute; it doesn’t feel bad at all being the guy on the outside”.

What am I getting at?

Read on!

No man appreciates being dumped, nor does it feel any less painful to have your LTR (relationship) crumble before your eyes due to some fucking guy who’s been banging the shit out of your cherished girlfriend…which led to an eventual breakup [although the relationship-wrecking guy isn’t to be blamed].

However, when the dust clears and you begin to pick yourself up somewhat and deal with the fact that your ex is now with the guy she’d cheated on your with; it gets fucking better 🙂 !

Tapping Into Some Revenge Pussy

Am I advising you to willfully try to fuck your ex girlfriend who had dumped you months ago?


It gets more complex though, so allow me to delve into the nuances.

Being cheated on deflates your fucking self-esteem like a punctured tired on a brand-new ride.

It sucks; and I don’t have to tell any guy who had experienced it for himself.

Ok, now that you’ve been effectively relegated to the dog house; in other words you’re the guy on the outside while the new guy who had fucked your girl is now on the “in”… you’re now in the position to have your cake and eat it too (in regards to your newly ex).

If you’ve recently been dumped (as a guy) or had a nasty breakup; ever wondered how great it would be for your ego, confidence and self-esteem to become the revenge guy!?

Probably not, since most men don’t think the way Kenny does [sexual retribution is a huge part of my schtick].

For a minutes though; just imagine you were me, or at least Kenny-esque.

The Dumped

From my observation, most guys who have been dumped, either fall into the following 2 categories (post breakup):

1.) They fall into deep depression, neglect their hygiene and start to disintegrate as a person (from man to beast).

2.) They totally move on to become content with singledom, given up on dating nor are they banging any chicks.

Rarely do you find a guy who has been dumped, yet has the intestinal fortitude and mind power to immediately after, play the field and get more poon.

I am fortunate enough to have been 1 of those rare and lucky specimen of a man: thanks to the Seduction Community’s solid-inner game teachings.

Also, most dumpees (guys who were dumped) aren’t thinking “Payback” and how much new vaj they will soon be able to conquer. Instead, they beat themselves up literally and metaphorically, which is undoubtedly the wrong way to go.

The time that my ex had cheated on me twice (exceeding 5 years ago) which lead to a nasty and almost brutal breakup [clothes being burnt and thrown out into the driveway], my ego was deflated, I felt like shit- yet I still never fell into an abyss of depression, and I immediately (the same week) went out and got a One-Night Stand pull from a night club [a sexy Jamaican girl].

Not only was my self esteem restored from conquering new vagina in little or no time, but my ex had started to covertly stalk my social-media profiles and noticed how much I was enjoying the fuck out of life…without her 🙂 !

The guy whom she had dumped me for (and also cheated on me with), was now the new boyfriend while I became a thing of the past…until I decided to get a revenge kill 😈

On a covert mission to get the revenge kill

On a covert mission to get the revenge kill

Now, some may view such methodology and tactic to be nefarious and straight-up low-down, but who said dating and mating were a recipe of harmony, joy and good-will?

Anyway, I decided to play a game of dirty-hard ball and take a stab at being the guy on the outside who’s now sleeping with the girlfriend (my ex) of the guy who had helped to mess up my relationship [I don’t blame the guy since he wasn’t at fault].

That’s what eventually happened; a covert-sexual fling with my ex had materialized.

Not only did I enjoy getting revenge by doing to the guy what he’d done to me months earlier; but I felt a rush of manliness by fucking the shit out of the girl who had practically dumped me for this guy (who in hindsight wasn’t doing anything wrong once again)!!!

The tides were now turned where the new boyfriend was having his new girlfriend fucked by the ex-boyfriend (moi) 😆 !

Isn’t life a twisted irony ❓ !?

Casual fling

Casual fling

On a side note, my advice here for guys who currently and in the future, will have fount themselves in the position where they’re sleeping with another man’s woman; Please keep it casual and just a fling!

You’ll be crying your balls off if you happen to make the grave mistake of getting into a serious relationship which was hatched out of gross infidelity.

Karma will ensure that she fucks you up real good 😈 !

Just as the case with the guy who had gone exclusive with my ex.

Had he kept it a casual-friends with benefits situation instead of cheering for the girl to break up with me; he would’ve been well off! But he made the oft-so common mistake of getting with a girl who was prone to cheating on her boyfriends.

Now it so happened that she cheated on him (with me)! If it wasn’t with me; she would’ve done it with some other guy.

All in all; this was great for my ego, self-pride and manhood!

To have your ex fawning all over you and virtually begging for you to give her another chance is a wicked-fucking high unimaginable!!!

How To Re-attract And Bang An Ex

There are tons of articles online about getting your ex back and ways to make it happen, etcetera… [which I’m no fan of since I advocate moving on from an ex].

The most effective, no-bullshit way to getting your ex back (whether she dumped you or it was a mutual split), is to do as I had done:

The Donts

1.) Do NOT fucking fall into a state of stress [perhaps easier said than done]!

2.) Do NOT seek a retreat onto Mt. Everest, nor shave your head, travel to the other side of the globe to join a Buddhist monastery in order to become a monk (just to cope)!

3.) Do NOT waste your hard-earned savings on a therapist; they do not know shit, nor can they help you!

This is what you want to do instead:

1.) Drop the napkin, wipe your tears and get the fuck off the couch!

2.) If it’s a weekend; go out!

3.) Just socialize without intent to pick up any girl.

4.) In due time, start to pick up girls with the skills you will have accrued from reading my blog, or by downloading my free concise e-book: 7 ways to become social with women.

5.) Post about your fun times on Facebook or any other social-media outlets which your ex would see you on.

6.) Start to open the lines of communication with your ex again (that’s if she hasn’t beaten you to the punch already).

7.) Schedule a meet up with her then fuck the shit out of her!

Banging a recent ex doesn’t require any game and skills whatsoever, so it won’t be a situation where you’d have to re-seduce her all over again (unless it was an ex of some years ago).

In the grand scheme of things; I do NOT advocate getting back with an ex unless you’d unfairly dumped her and now regret your decision and wish to re-commit to the relationship.

However, if it was a mutual severance or she’s dumped you (for another guy): What the fuck are you thinking trying to get back with that heartless bitch!!!? 😯

Keep it casual and enjoy your revenge kill for a brief stint, then move on as your sense of manhood has been restored as you gain closure on this chapter!

To be honest, after getting back into the groove of dating and sleeping with your ex simultaneously, rekindling an LTR (relationship) with her would be the furthest thing from your mind.

Parting Message To The Guy Who Had Been Dumped

Overall, sleeping with a girl who had wronged you in some way, is the ultimate get back and the pinnacle of game [I recently had sex with a girl who had bad-mouthed me].

Those who would say that it’s unethical and childish to get a revenge fuck will only say that until they’ve fount themselves on the shitty end of the dump stick as I have.

If you decide to just move on and leave it as is; then that is fine if you can attain closure that way!

For guys like I am, the only way forward is to witness my jizz all over the face of a recently cheating ex who had dumped me.

Kenny's jizz!

Kenny’s jizz!


How To Actually Use A Pickup Opener On Hot Girls

[This post accompanies the previous 1 which debuted a new solid opener of mines. You can check it out here if you hadn’t already: Hickey Opener].

Over @ the Sed-Fast Seduction forum, a newbie member (Saprian) had asked me the following question on using this opener, and how to stack it: read the original thread here.

Saprian: “Nice…How do you follow up if she gives a short answer”?

Great question from Saprian, which begs the question of, “How to follow up an opener/ice-breaker”?

I will give 2 variables below!

[If the girl you approach and open is shy, reserved and gives short replies]:

Me: “Hey, what you think about guys getting hickeys on their necks”?

HB: “Nothing really”.

Me: “I mean, the other day, my GF pinned me down to the bed and against my will, gave me 3 hickeys even when I protested! Is that normal for women to do, give guys hickeys”?

HB: “Not really”

Me: “And what about you, are you the hickey giving type”?

HB: “No”.

Me:”you’re lying lol”!

HB: “LoL I’m not”!!!

Then I would stack forward and go on to another routine or another topic.

You never want to stall out and milk your opener/ice-breaker by dwelling too much on it. Always throw it, add your bit on it, get her opinion on it, then change subject!

That’s how you handle girls who aren’t that engaging or maybe on the shy side.

[Alternatively: For girls who are very engaging]:

Me: “Hey, what you think about guys getting hickeys on their necks”?

HB: “I never really thought about it before”!

Me: “I mean, the other day, my GF pinned me down to the bed and against my will, gave me 3 hickeys even when I protested! Is that normal for women to do, give guys hickeys”?

HB: “Lol not really! It depends on the girl and how aggressive she can be I guess”.

Me: “And what about you, are you the hickey giving type”?

HB: “No! I don’t mine getting them but not giving”!

Me:”When was the last time a guy gave you a hickey? Be straight up; I won’t judge you”!

HB: “LoL…,bla, bla, bla”!!!

So, the dialogue virtually remains the same (on your part).

Only difference is depended on the girl whom you approach: if she’s very engaging, you have less work to do. If she’s shy or not that interested, you may have to work a bit harder.

All in all guys, You never want to milk your opener/ice-breaker by dwelling too much on it. Always throw it, add your bit on it, get her opinion on it, then change subject!

Ask her opinion, she gives it, you add a bit (a back-story on Hickeys), she remarks, you stack forward/change the subject.

This sort of routine stacking applies to every opener; not just this 1.

Remember, you can check out the original question posed to me on the Sed-Fast Pickup Forum: read the original thread here.

For some classic PUA openers which you can use on women, check out the Bristollair website which was instrumental in my induction into the world of seduction: The Apocalypse Opener.

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