A Quick Lesson In Peacocking 101

The first thing a guy will learn pretty fast in the world of dating is that chicks don’t approach men!

Quietly sitting at a bar with fingers crossed and hoping that hot women will just approach and open you is recipe for going home alone to watch internet porn for your sexual gratification [not that there’s a problem with that].

If in a rare case that a chick does muster the cojones to approach you, 99.9% of the time, it’ll be something so asinine and innocuous, that you wouldn’t even think that she was trying to hit on you.

However, there’s 1 true case in where a chick will approach you, open you, and compliment you.

In my last post, I wrote about a wickedly fun night at the club where girls were approaching, opening and complimenting me out of no where as if I were a fucking Rockstar!

Was it my Will Smith looks and killer muscles bulging out of my skin-tight shirt?


I’m not Will Smith, nor do I have Jersey Shore Guido muscles like Mike The Situation.

“Then how do you manage to magically get random girls to approach you in the clubs Kenny”?


Those unfamiliar with Pickup jargon, Peacocking is basically accessorizing yourself (in order to attract women).

Just as an actual peacock would in order to attract some hot peahens [if that’s even a word], the PUA does the same with the additions (accessories) to his wardrobe.

The PUA godfather, Mystery, used to peacock by painting his fingernails, wearing unusual hats, and sporting a necklace with attached pendant.



Just as a peacock gets all colorful and blooming with its feathers, a Pick-Up Artist who’s peacocking creates the same effect.

Now imagine Mystery at a bar sipping a cocktail and the nearest hot girl were to notice his polished nails.

Sheer curiosity at the abnormality (guy with painted nails) will lead her to ask, “Why do you paint your nails”?

That’s a classic example of how peacocking will sucker girls into opening you.

“Hey Kenny, How Do I Peacock In Order To Get Chicks Approaching Me”?

It doesn’t take much (nor much accessories) to effectively peacock to attract women.

A simple necklace with an attached pendant will suffice.

As you can see from my photos over the weekend, I merely had on a 2-colored beaded necklace (nothing lavish there) and a brand-new pair of shades.

That’s fucking it [as far as peacocking with accessories goes]!

A nice shirt with some artful-gothic designs or a unique jacket wouldn’t hurt neither.

Just to give a real illustration of how powerful my peacocking game was (with those 2 items only), as I walked into the nightclub, barely made it passed the bouncer, chick in red [Canadian] approaches me:

The Canadian

The Canadian

Canadian: “Hey, what does it say on your shades [meaning the label]”?

Me: “Hottest guy…[can’t remember what else I said]”.

Canadian: “Lol cool, I love your shades. I wanna take some pictures with you. Make sure you have the shades on”!

I mean, this chick literally gave me the celebrity treatment solely because she liked my peacocking item/accessory: a $40 pair of shades!

This was literally less than 1 minute in the fucking venue!

About 45 minutes later while trying my darn best to get away from the Canadian…


A tiny Guidette approaches me:

4'9 Italian girl from Connecticut

4’9 Italian girl from Connecticut

Guidette: “Hey, what does your necklace means”?

Me: “Can’t tell you. My little secret”!

Guidette: “Aah come on! What does it mean”!?

[She KINOs me by touching the necklace]

Me: “The blue is for intense fucking love”!

Guidette: “And what does the clear one symbolizes”?

Me: “A sexual charm. If you touch it, you’ll be going home with me. Plus it means intense passion”.

Guidette: “Loo well I’m very passionate and I like your necklace a lot. Where did you buy them”!?

Me: “@ K-Mart”!

Guidette: “Lol so funny and K-Mart doesn’t sell those”!

So there you go guys: within the first hour of being in the club, I had 2 random girls approach and open me.

Both DTF (Down To Fuck)!

My entire night was already cemented with sure sex within 45 minutes, and it all comes down to 2 fucking items which I wore that night:



Nights that I do go out without shades and necklace, I don’t get approached.

I didn’t need to buy drinks, flash $1,000 and buy out the bar.

It was just to wear something attractive, original and appealing enough to catch girls’ eyes.

This doesn’t just appeal to girls neither.

Just last week while running some errands to the post office, I had a guy say to me: “Hey man, cool necklace. Where did you buy it or was it hand made”?

It’s ironic what the guy did because I advise men that they should open other men too by striking up random chats about something they’re wearing [in order to become a social person]. So when this guy said that to me, I was totally impressed that he gets it!

So guys, the next time you go out, please remember to sport an interesting accessory or 2 which will possibly attract women to strike up a conversation with you.

If you don’t have any such item: then fucking buy 1!

Kenny’s recommendation:

*Cool Shades

*Interesting Necklace (made of beads, shells or string & pendant)

*Leather-wrist band

*Colorful bracelet (made of beads or shells)

*Cool shirt with abstract designs or something cheeky printed on it

*Unusual hat

*Eyebrow piercing

*Cool hairstyle (like a fohawk)

Those are just few peacocking items in which I personally recommend and also wear regularly with stunning results as far as random girls coming up to me and complimenting me on the streets or at the club.


Don’t just bank on women approaching you and decide to not be proactive and approach women.

That night at the club (as every other night), I had all intentions to approach tons of girls, but it just so happened that girls were beating me to the punch.

I wasn’t going to wallflower and hope that girls would approach me because I was peacocked out.

I knew I had to be proactive regardless!

Why peacocking works so effectively boils down to colors.

Women are intrigued and fascinated by colors and abstractions (which is why they love drinking colorful cocktails) which is another way to attract them while at the bar.

Related articles written by Socialkenny PUA:

Get girls to approach you by the drink in your cup

Cool accessories for men

Wearing shades gets you laid?

22 thoughts on “A Quick Lesson In Peacocking 101

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  1. Great article. I liked how you gave great examples of what items to wear. That way it’s not just theory-based, it’s CONCRETE.

    I liked your insight about colors. That’s so true. Hadn’t thought of that before, but you’re right. Women are attracted to color. So, wear colors.

    I liked what you said about wear no more than 2 peacock items. Very important. Otherwise you’re too busy. Eye can focus on so many things at one time. But DO wear at least wear 1. Otherwise you blend in and look like a generic “Mr. Nice Guy.”

    I liked the concrete examples you gave of women approaching you. Something implied in these that I don’t think you mentioned is…

    When girls approach you they’re going to ask you the “boring,” factual, AFC questions. Don’t buy into it. Think of good responses ahead of time to create sexual tension. Otherwise you lose out on primo opportunity. I liked how you didn’t give a girl a factual answer. Instead you played like you were the prize the whole time. Well fucking played.

    Again, great article.


    1. I like that you pointed that out Ren’. I’ve been struggling with trying to keep my site more applicable base than just theory. Saying one should wear this and that and peacock is no good. Actually giving examples will emphasize application.

      The colors thing dawned onto a while ago while at a boutique. Some chicks were looking at a beaded necklace and in awe and astonishment at its beauty. I was like, “WTF! Chicks are crazy”! I started noticing this trend over the years whenever around women.

      Funny thing you mentioned a woman’s approach lol! I was implying the AFC nature of their approach but you explained it clearly. Their approach is totally AFC’ish and indirect, that’s why I’ve always said that chicks suck at opening.

      As for the replies, those were totally out of the seduction handbook which is to stay vague and not give factual/rational/boring answers. I intentionally played it up because I knew that would deepen the attraction. Guys should learn that.


        1. A nice watch is something good to peacock with. An average looking watch won’t work. I have a cousin who’s a lawyer from Connecticut, and whenever he comes through to hit up the clubs, he gets quite a few comments from both sexes because of his watch.


  2. Socialk didn’t you wear tie at one point? I notice from some of your pictures you wore a tie to the club but without a suit or casual clothes.


  3. Quote 1: “Quietly sitting at a bar with fingers crossed and hoping that hot women will just approach and open you is recipe for going home alone to watch internet porn for your sexual gratification”

    Quote 2: “If in a rare case that a chick does muster the cojones to approach you, 99.9% of the time, it’ll be something so asinine and innocuous, that you wouldn’t even think that she was trying to hit on you.”

    Good stuff because its true.


  4. I dunno about the abstract design on shirt if you don’t already wear those types of tees. I’m thinking of brands like affliction, Ed Harvey etc etc, I just can’t do that level of pattern and design, I’m either donning a black v neck that contours around my body or I wear a nice button sleeve shirt to set my frame and feel solid for upcoming approaches. most of my tees a navy grey or blue, same with shirts, I’m not naturally inclined to draw attention to myself like that, I am on the lookout for a subtle but deadly, peacocking item that will compliment my style.


    1. Lol that’s exactly what I was referring to, the Ed Hardy and Affliction shirts that those UFC guys wear. Maybe it’s me, but I usually get looks from guys and girls when I’m wearing them. I guess because they’re not so common in the Caribbean.

      Subtle and Deadly peacock item would be a necklace as far as in my experience.


      1. good point. go into target or any sports bar in the anglosphere and there’s a lot of other guys wearin that type of stuff, a lot of AFC’s some legit ufc dudes too.
        Have you ever been opened about a necklace that you were wearing under your shirt…


  5. Men aren’t usually known for good accessorizing or fashion, or even being interested in it. So when a guy does show up displaying some of those skills, we notice! And yeah bright colors are awesome too!


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