Sexting Backlash Capped Off With A Side Of ASD [Anti-Slut Defense] NSFW

Women are fucking nuts!

We can all agree on that!

Ok, I apologize for being such a prick with the opening declaration.

What I meant to say was that women are illogical and hyper-emotional [nothing new there].

I want to publicly say that I invented the art of “Sexting”.

Although being a Beta-male AFC in my pre-pickup years, I was always exceptionally great at phone sex, which I started having around the tender age of 12…Honestly!

My little brother and I used to randomly dial phone sex lines [like 1800-fuck-now] and actually dupe the operators (via false info) into thinking we were over 18 when we were only 12 and 13.

Hence, I’m super experienced in the art of getting a woman sexual arouse over the phone (phone sex), and by extension- Sexting.

Seems contradicting being that I was poor at getting laid [besides the lucky ones here and there].

So being proficient in talking to women over the phone doesn’t automatically translate to proficiency in face-to-face combat.

The Weird Twist Of Sexting

What I’ve noticed over the past 3 years pertaining to Sexting chicks, is that they would often times fall into modes of denial and regret, which is spurred on by a woman’s built-in Anti-Slut Defense mechanism.

Every fucking girl has 1 of these babies!

It is easily activated once she is sexually aroused beyond normal, or when she’s angered and offended!

In my case however, being a very dominant guy with a badboy streak (which most girls are hell-bent on taming), I have the tendency to anger women (most times on purpose), which activates their ASD [Anti-Slut Defense], which causes them to become regretful that they’d engaged me in the nasty act of Sexting!

Case in point, I’d be Sexting with a hot girl, sending dirty pictures back and forth to each other, and for some reason, if the Sexting goes dead, or a disagreement ensues which leads to harsh words being exchanged, it’s always the case that the girl would say something like:

“I sent you fake pictures”!

“Those weren’t my boobs”!

“I googled those photos you muthafucka”!

You get the point!

Whenever Sexting goes wrong, the girl will almost always try to save face by lying and saying that the raunchy photos she’d sent weren’t of her.

To me, this is plain laughable since I know that it’s her ASD at work.

You’d never hear a guy say (after having a Sexting fallout):

“Whatever bitch, that wasn’t my cock in the photos! Ha ha ha”!

Contrarily, you’d always find a girl to say:

“Whatever you dog, that wasn’t my pussy in the pictures; it was some random bitch from the internet”!

I had a girl sent me some photos of her panties drenched in vaginal juice [during a round of sexting].

For some random-ass reason, we had a disagreement hours later and she said to me:

“Fuck you! Those pictures I sent with the panties weren’t even mines LOL. I googled for them and tricked you LOL. Ha hahaha”!

Ok cool!

Few days later while nonchalantly browsing Facebook (we were FB friends also), lo and fucking behold; the same colored-finger nails and rings on her fingers in her Facebook photos, were the exact same of the girl’s who had sent the wett-panty photos days earlier.

Epic Fucking FAIL!!!

So she was exposed by her own damn self!

This has occurred quite a few times with me over the past 3 years, where chicks would try to pull this stunt after regretting that they’d engaged in Sexting.

On another occasion of Sexting, I had a girl sent me a pic’ of her playing with her pussy.

Cool!

We had an unrelated fallout days later:

HB: “By the way, that photo with the girl playing with herself, that wasn’t e stupid! You are so dumb LOL. I would never stoop so low…not for you”!

Once again; her nails, rings and mere shape of her fingers had exposed her!

FAIL!

Another occasion, this chick sent me some photos of her playing with her giant nipples.

Sexting black girl

Sexting black girl

Cool!

We had a fall out, she utters the oft-repeating:

“Those photos were fake! It’s not even me in the pictures you fucking bastard! Stupid idiot”!

Little did she know in the haze of her emotional tantrum; the bathroom backdrop was exactly the same as the backdrop as the one in her Facebook photos which she’d uploaded soon after!!!

What a fucking coincidence…NOT!

Girls, if you’re gonna try to trick men in such cases whenever you’re ASD becomes activated, please ensure that your tracks are well covered or you’ll be the 1 looking like an emotionally unstable fool.

I understand that a woman has to guard her pride and dignity in such instances where society could very well easily judge her as a wanton slut.

But if it has the potential to become such an embarrassing ordeal; then refrain from Sexting!

Lying to yourself and lying to the guy to whom you’d sent those dirty pussy-shot photos, will not suffice!

This also puts to rest the stupid notion (held by women), that men and women operate the same, and that both sexes are swayed by emotions the same way.

That myth should be now put to bed forever.

Women are highly driven by emotions when it comes to dating, while men are practical and rational in our approaches to courtship.

Doesn’t mean we aren’t emotional [anger is an emotion], but we do not easily allow emotions to lead us into irrational behaviors.

I’ve had girls whom I’d banged say to me (after a fallout):

“You never fucked me”!

How irrational and self-deluded is that, that you can say to a guy who had undoubtedly fucked you 2 weeks prior, that he didn’t fuck you!!!?

Such examples of mental-masturbation and self-delusion are totally foreign to men: yet a normal day’s walk in the park for women.

Such irrational behaviors are triggered by the girl’s Anti-Slut Defense [ASD], which men do not possess by the way.

I’d like to have my readers weigh in on this.

Guys, are you familiar with such weird occurrences during Sexting (or after a fallout)?

Have you ever had a girl try to convince you or pretend as though you never banged her even though you did?

Girls, have you ever done or said such things during or after a fallout (be it Sexting or phone sex)?

Related content:

LMR and ASD by Gambler

Do women like sex? Anti-Slut Defense explained by Teevster from The Male Insider

22 thoughts on “Sexting Backlash Capped Off With A Side Of ASD [Anti-Slut Defense] NSFW

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  1. Kenny… You are too much man!!!

    Nice post… Personally in my game I have found that sexting before I seal the deal is the worst thing I can do. In the beginning days of my journey I loved the fact that I could get so sexual with women and say dirty things to them and that they actually liked it… BUT… despite the hot sexting, I would never get to see them!

    As my Game got better, I kept sexting and still no dice. ASD was being triggered. basically, I was setting up what I call a “Sexual Contract” between her and I. Which means that if we hang, she has to have sex with me and that made them feel uncomfortable meeting me on those terms!

    Now, when a girl starts to sext with me it is still tempting to go down that road but instead I’ll bust on her for trying to be all perverted with me and build the sexual anticipation as much as I can which usually makes them try even harder to get me to take their bait. The more sexual anticipation you can build with a woman the less last minute resistance you will get!

    A killer move is… When a woman sends you a dirty pic or says something for the first time that is extremely sexual… DEAD AIR HER! She’ll be freaking out thinking she made a big mistake and that she lost you! Works so goooood!

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    1. Lol hey GP, I wrote about this before where sexting or just standard sexual texting never lead to a lay for me. That’s why I’ve pretty much done away with sexting or getting a girl sexually aroused over text; it never leads to an actual lay for me. So good point you raised.

      Believe me; I know about the dead air move lol! To me though, I get a bit uncomfortable doing it. It’s sort of like the awkward pregnant pause moment in convo. You’re basically saying not to rush to fill the silence. I get you totally on what you’re saying.

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  2. Haha, funny post Kenny. I had a girl once who sent me a half naked picture of herself (which wasn’t even that good), and then a week later she asks me to delete it and shit. It’s like doing things in the moment when you’re drunk and then regretting it later.

    But men more logical with women? No way man! Maybe PUAs or advanced seducers. But like I said in my post a while back, most men are just as illogical as women, they just show it in different ways. They buy girls drinks in the bar (total strangers), waste cash on strippers, and blow money on bottle service. Nothing logical about that behavior lol.

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    1. Hey Playboy… I hope you did the right thing and deleted the young ladies half-naked picture as per her request! If you didn’t, you should be ashamed of yourself! BADY BOY!!!! Tisk-Tisk…

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      1. LMBAO! Good advice for IP. I usually delete mines after a day or 2. I actually never send nude pics of myself nor my Anthony weiner, but it just shows how much a guy can lead a woman without giving much of himself.

        BTW, what an irony; Anthony Weiner (of New York) getting caught up in semi-sexting scandal, IP, Glen P and I are 3 New Yorkers lol!

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        1. Haha, hopefully we don’t end up like Weiner. Glenn–I still have it! It’s buried deep under thousands of text messages, but it’s still in there, somewhere lol. I honestly never thought about it until now. It was a pretty crappy picture, especially compared to how she looked in real life.

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    2. Glad to be flexing my funny bone with a funny post lol.

      Your argument about logics sounds logical, but in the dating world (mainstream), men are taught to buy women drinks, pays for everything, lavish dinners, etc. So guys are just adhering to social norms although illogical. If these things were being done by men without social influence telling them to do those things; then that would be pretty illogical.

      Chick-logics on the other had is totally unnecessary.

      A guy may look to be a girl a drink; which is a logical move (although stupid) by societal standpoint.

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      1. That’s somewhat true, but by the same argument, a girl who gets paranoid about being seen as a “slut” is also just thinking that way because of social norms/ culture. Women in general are much more influenced by social standards than men.

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        1. True. But you really can’t be saying that women don’t make decisions based on how they feel in the moment (emotional). Just as most as women need to be emotionally invested in order to have sex. Whereas a guy just has to be horny.

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          1. No I definitely agree with that. Sex for women comes down to emotions/ feelings and for men it comes down to physical looks. But in terms of their behavior, both men and women act in ways that are illogical. There is nothing more logical about being attracted to someone for their body vs for their confidence.

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  3. The girls I often get aren’t the ones who would willingly submit nude pics via phone, but my reach is getting broader.
    I have had a girl do sort of the opposite and say to me “I heard you had to go to rehab after our breakup”, she knew she made it up but had to verbalise it.

    That black girl has a nice symmetrical face, she comes form good stock.

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    1. I have the opposite effect; the girls I usually pull are the ones who are willing to send nude photos (minus their faces), but the flip side to that is that they always turn out to be notorious flakes. I’ve written about this before, that about 85% of the girls I meet turn out to be flakes.

      As for the black girl, she was just a random photo I’d googled for to make this post (so is the white fatty), but definitely from good stock

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  4. Interesting perspective. I have several friends who have ASD. My thing is if you feel that way after then why do it it with the next…

    Now me… I will admit I have and do sext. If a guy gets a pic of the girls or my chocolate waterfall you better believe its because either I am already slaying you or I have decided you will be my next target. I have zero regrets after and I don’t say dumb stuff like it wasn’t me after a fall out. I own my shit 100%.

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    1. The interesting thing is as I was saying to the other guys commenting is that if a girl sext with me before I actually have sex with her, then it’s sort of like a jinx where she won’t have sex with me at all. That also comes down to ASD and she feeling bad about herself or feeling slutty for doing those things with a guy she haven’t had sex with.

      But personally, I don’t see the point with sexting with a girl I had sex with. Lots of guys do it, but I don’t see the point when I’ve already seen her body.

      Well thanks for being that rare girl who owns her shit. In my experience, girls don’t own their actions but front as if it wasn’t them who did it.

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  5. Kenny, you already know what’s going on there, she’s saving face and trying to make her ego feel better. Why so mad? Onto the next one, you had your fun.
    I personally think sexting is lame. I prefer the real deal.

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    1. We all prefer the real thing. I just sext in a way to flex some muscles and to see how far women will go. Usually when she sends photos, I delete them right away or the next day.

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  6. I agree with you. Personally, I never sexted because I think it’s lame and I am such a klutz with my phone. I call the wrong people, text people stuff I shouldn’t. So I am the last girl who need to sext.

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    1. Lol yea I can agree. Not long ago, I’d mistakenly sent my GF a text which wasn’t meant for her during a round of sexting. I had a lot of explaining to do. Best thing for you is to refrain from Sexting since you’re liable to make those mistakes again. But I thought all women sext. I learned something today.

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