Socialkenny Confronts A Girl Who Was Blowing Him Off [In-Field Video]

Went through my Youtube-video archive and found this one: “Calling girls out on their bullshit”. This video is probably a year old but the message is still relevant.

The girl at the end of the video, I’d picked her up, gotten her phone # and Facebook add.

A day or so later, called her, but no answer nor return call.

I sent her a message on Facebook; no reply.

Two weeks later, called her again, no answer. I sent her another Facebook message; no reply.

This is a sure sign of a chick who is not interested in me, but just coughed up her # for 1 of the 4 main reasons chicks give up their phone numbers. Or she was just extremely busy and couldn’t reply nor return my calls [bullshit excuse].

Funny thing though, while running some errands in the same locale I’d initially met her (weeks prior), I ran into her by chance.

As you’ll see at the end of the video, I sort of called her out but in a non-needy way.

It wasn’t bitchy and whining, yet assertive and non-needy at the same time.

Long story short: she still never replied to her Facebook messages, nor returned my call [I never called again].

You win some and you lose some.

The irony about pickup and Game, is that you WILL loose more girls than you gain.

You will get rejected way more than you pull!

That was just another 1 of those instances where I virtually got rejected or blown off…and I don’t mean a blow job.

Sexting Backlash Capped Off With A Side Of ASD [Anti-Slut Defense] NSFW

Women are fucking nuts!

We can all agree on that!

Ok, I apologize for being such a prick with the opening declaration.

What I meant to say was that women are illogical and hyper-emotional [nothing new there].

I want to publicly say that I invented the art of “Sexting”.

Although being a Beta-male AFC in my pre-pickup years, I was always exceptionally great at phone sex, which I started having around the tender age of 12…Honestly!

My little brother and I used to randomly dial phone sex lines [like 1800-fuck-now] and actually dupe the operators (via false info) into thinking we were over 18 when we were only 12 and 13.

Hence, I’m super experienced in the art of getting a woman sexual arouse over the phone (phone sex), and by extension- Sexting.

Seems contradicting being that I was poor at getting laid [besides the lucky ones here and there].

So being proficient in talking to women over the phone doesn’t automatically translate to proficiency in face-to-face combat.

The Weird Twist Of Sexting

What I’ve noticed over the past 3 years pertaining to Sexting chicks, is that they would often times fall into modes of denial and regret, which is spurred on by a woman’s built-in Anti-Slut Defense mechanism.

Every fucking girl has 1 of these babies!

It is easily activated once she is sexually aroused beyond normal, or when she’s angered and offended!

In my case however, being a very dominant guy with a badboy streak (which most girls are hell-bent on taming), I have the tendency to anger women (most times on purpose), which activates their ASD [Anti-Slut Defense], which causes them to become regretful that they’d engaged me in the nasty act of Sexting!

Case in point, I’d be Sexting with a hot girl, sending dirty pictures back and forth to each other, and for some reason, if the Sexting goes dead, or a disagreement ensues which leads to harsh words being exchanged, it’s always the case that the girl would say something like:

“I sent you fake pictures”!

“Those weren’t my boobs”!

“I googled those photos you muthafucka”!

You get the point!

Whenever Sexting goes wrong, the girl will almost always try to save face by lying and saying that the raunchy photos she’d sent weren’t of her.

To me, this is plain laughable since I know that it’s her ASD at work.

You’d never hear a guy say (after having a Sexting fallout):

“Whatever bitch, that wasn’t my cock in the photos! Ha ha ha”!

Contrarily, you’d always find a girl to say:

“Whatever you dog, that wasn’t my pussy in the pictures; it was some random bitch from the internet”!

I had a girl sent me some photos of her panties drenched in vaginal juice [during a round of sexting].

For some random-ass reason, we had a disagreement hours later and she said to me:

“Fuck you! Those pictures I sent with the panties weren’t even mines LOL. I googled for them and tricked you LOL. Ha hahaha”!

Ok cool!

Few days later while nonchalantly browsing Facebook (we were FB friends also), lo and fucking behold; the same colored-finger nails and rings on her fingers in her Facebook photos, were the exact same of the girl’s who had sent the wett-panty photos days earlier.

Epic Fucking FAIL!!!

So she was exposed by her own damn self!

This has occurred quite a few times with me over the past 3 years, where chicks would try to pull this stunt after regretting that they’d engaged in Sexting.

On another occasion of Sexting, I had a girl sent me a pic’ of her playing with her pussy.


We had an unrelated fallout days later:

HB: “By the way, that photo with the girl playing with herself, that wasn’t e stupid! You are so dumb LOL. I would never stoop so low…not for you”!

Once again; her nails, rings and mere shape of her fingers had exposed her!


Another occasion, this chick sent me some photos of her playing with her giant nipples.

Sexting black girl

Sexting black girl


We had a fall out, she utters the oft-repeating:

“Those photos were fake! It’s not even me in the pictures you fucking bastard! Stupid idiot”!

Little did she know in the haze of her emotional tantrum; the bathroom backdrop was exactly the same as the backdrop as the one in her Facebook photos which she’d uploaded soon after!!!

What a fucking coincidence…NOT!

Girls, if you’re gonna try to trick men in such cases whenever you’re ASD becomes activated, please ensure that your tracks are well covered or you’ll be the 1 looking like an emotionally unstable fool.

I understand that a woman has to guard her pride and dignity in such instances where society could very well easily judge her as a wanton slut.

But if it has the potential to become such an embarrassing ordeal; then refrain from Sexting!

Lying to yourself and lying to the guy to whom you’d sent those dirty pussy-shot photos, will not suffice!

This also puts to rest the stupid notion (held by women), that men and women operate the same, and that both sexes are swayed by emotions the same way.

That myth should be now put to bed forever.

Women are highly driven by emotions when it comes to dating, while men are practical and rational in our approaches to courtship.

Doesn’t mean we aren’t emotional [anger is an emotion], but we do not easily allow emotions to lead us into irrational behaviors.

I’ve had girls whom I’d banged say to me (after a fallout):

“You never fucked me”!

How irrational and self-deluded is that, that you can say to a guy who had undoubtedly fucked you 2 weeks prior, that he didn’t fuck you!!!?

Such examples of mental-masturbation and self-delusion are totally foreign to men: yet a normal day’s walk in the park for women.

Such irrational behaviors are triggered by the girl’s Anti-Slut Defense [ASD], which men do not possess by the way.

I’d like to have my readers weigh in on this.

Guys, are you familiar with such weird occurrences during Sexting (or after a fallout)?

Have you ever had a girl try to convince you or pretend as though you never banged her even though you did?

Girls, have you ever done or said such things during or after a fallout (be it Sexting or phone sex)?

Related content:

LMR and ASD by Gambler

Do women like sex? Anti-Slut Defense explained by Teevster from The Male Insider

Travel Tips To Cuba [For Spring Break] From Simeon Moses, The Pick-Up Artist

Is that time of year again when lots of people are looking to travel to tropical regions, and college-going girls are obsessed with creating “Girls Gone Wild” moments for themselves.

One such place you’d want to travel to (for Spring Break) is fucking Cuba!

Don’t be fooled by the slanderous-American media; Cuba is a great place with an equally great nightlife and it’s virtually crime free!

You’re more likely to get struck by a rogue lightening than to be robbed or kidnapped by some marauding thugs.

Friend of mine, Simeon Moses, winner of VH1’s the Pickup Artist 2 reality show (back in 2008), had posted a post on Facebook yesterday about his recent trip to Cuba.

I thought it was pretty insightful and encouraging since I’ve been planning on heading over there but keep procrastinating.

This is what Simeon posted (below)

Simeon Moses from the Pick-Up Artist season 2

Simeon Moses from the Pick-Up Artist season 2

Now taking questions on Cuba:

Since I have a lot of people asking me questions about my trip to Cuba and my experience I am going to post answers on this thread. So if you would like to know anything about my trip or observations on Cuba please comment on this post and I will
answer in the same thread.

Here are some FAQs.

Q. Isn’t Cuba dangerous?

A. This is an emphatic NO!

I’ve visited over a dozen countries in my lifetime and Cuba is by far the safest country I have ever traveled to in terms of worrying about violence robbery.

There is virtually no violent crime and very little crime committed against tourists. The biggest danger in Cuba are poorly maintained sidewalks that could cause you to trip or fall into a hole.

Same goes with kidnappings: this is not Mexico or Colombia. There are 0 kidnappings here. As a tourist you are safer here then most every place in the United States.

Q. Is it expensive?

A. For the most part is very affordable.

The only exception to this are the expensive luxury hotels in Havana and the resort town of Varadero which I have dubbed “Canadian Cancun” To give you an example the cheapest food I had were 20 cent pizzas (20 cents in US dollar equivalent or 5 pesos Moneda Nacional) and cheapest drink was 4 cents for sugarcane juice.

Even at most restaurants for tourists I paid less than 10 bucks. A good fish dinner was 5 bucks in many places.

A group of British next to me at a beach-side bungalow restaurant paid 6 bucks for an entire 3 pound lobster cooked with sides. There are more expensive tourist traps if you want luxury food.

In terms of housing, I paid on average 20 dollars per night to stay in Casa Particulars which are Cuban homes who rent out an extra room to tourists like a bed and breakfast but smaller.

Some were nicer than others. For 5 bucks they would cook you an insane amount of food.

Q. Isn’t it illegal [for Americans]?

Technically I guess it is. It’s about on par with jay-walking in a suburban street. Here is the summary of the “difficult time”

– I flew to cancun. When I got to the airport there were no flights that night so I had to stay one night in Cancun and then returned in the morning.

– I got to Cancun airport early and Cubana the main Cuban airline office was not open yet.

– Aeromexico had a noon flight to Havana so I went to their counter instead. I waited 10 minutes in line. I get to the front.

“I would like 1 ticket to Havana please. Roundtrip. Leaving today and returning March 19th.”

I hand them my passport and 350 dollars.

The counter woman hands me my paper ticket and visa. There is no comments on my U.S. passport by anyone through the ticketing process. I check-in for my flight and 3 hours later I am on a plane to Havana.

At Havana airport, I was pulled out of line for about 10 minutes. I think this was mostly because I was carrying a large camera bag.

Once they determined I was a tourist I went through with little issues.

Leaving Havana you just pay 25 bucks for an exit stamp.

On the way in, Cuban authorities generally do not stamp american passports as a throwback to the old policy that was I guess stricter about travel from U.S.

On exit they stamp your boarding
pass not your passport. So in terms of having cuban stamps in your passport its a non-issue.

Even without passport evidence of my trip I still declared my visit to customs.

This was upon advice from a frequent traveler to the U.S. who says customs authorities (at least in Miami) don’t care about illegal-Cuban travel as it is administratively unenforced for the most part.

He was right!

When I showed up in Miami from Cancun, I had my passport stamped without even being questioned despite clearly marking on my custom forms I had been to Cuba. When I went through customs I was questioned for about 30 seconds.

Here is the summary of the conversation.

Customs Agent: “Where are you coming from”?

Me: “Cancun”

Customs Agent: “You were in Cuba?”

Me: “Yes”

Customs Agent: “You flew through Cancun”


Customs Agent: “You have family there”

Me: “No”

Customs Agent: “Why did you travel there”

Me:”Cultural Research”

Customs Agent: “Do you have any alcohol, cigarettes or tobacco you brought back with you”

Me:” Yes sir. I have 10 cigars.”

Custom agent gives me a dirty look.

Customs Agent: “Don’t do that next time. There’s an embargo.”

Customs agent waves me through.

The toughest punishment I got was a dirty look and a finger wagging. I know really harsh punishment. Not sure if most people could handle that kind of draconian behavior that the government enacts if you go to Cuba.

In summary, “It’s really difficult to get in and out of Cuba because of the embargo” said no one ever who has actually traveled there.

That’s all for now. I’ll leave the rest up to comments which I will respond to for those curious about the trip or who are thinking of making the trip themselves.

Cuban beach

Cuban beach

Some Sex-Tourist Game For Spring Break [In-Field Video]

Spring Break girls in the islands

Spring Break girls in the islands

In my popular e-book: “How to bang foreign girls”, I spoke heavily about becoming a quasi tour-guide, and using the tour-guide technique/strategy in order to pick up tourists, vacationers and girls from out of town [drifters, nomads, transients, etc.].

Right now is Spring Break season, and living in warmer regions such as La Baja Mexico & the Caribbean islands are havens for adventure-seeking travelers who wanna get away for some days.

This is partially the reason why I’m reluctant to ever move back to New York City to live (which is not a Spring Break town at all).

For globally situated Pick-Up Artists like myself; this becomes pussy-paradise, and greater opportunities to flex some muscles, meet massive amounts of new people…and to fuck tons of marauding visitors!

In this video, I just showcased some sociability skills, how to connect with strangers and setting up a random future projected date…

On my way to do some business at the DMV, I spotted a 2 set/mixed set (an engaged couple) who were obvious strangers to this town [takes skills to spot these types], so I approached and opened [can’t remember what I said], I made a solid-first impression, we chatted for about 45 minutes, exchanged contact info and was given the phone # to their guest-house.

The above dialogue wasn’t recorded since this pick up was so sporadic and unintended.

The video starts off nearing the end of the 45 minute interaction/pickup.

Guys who are trying to connect with random strangers need to polish their humor tool.

In the video clip, you’ll hear how light-heated I come off with lots of laughter creating a welcoming vibe instead of a bottled-up, serious-toned approach.

I contacted them later on that night, we met up at a beach bar fiesta, had a blast, went back to their guest-house and let’s just say that this engaged-Asian chick got her last premarital fucking…

In my short book, I also talked about a killer concept dubbed: “What happens on vacation; stays on vacation”. And “What happens on vacation doesn’t count”. Meaning, while on vacation or visiting other towns, cities and countries, cheating doesn’t count as cheating [psychologically] for most people who are taken.

Lots of women and couples would venture to the islands just to hook up with a 3rd. party guy (in this case, I was that guy), in order to live out some wild fantasy or deeply-held sexual fetish.

These people won’t take such a risk with guys from their own hometowns, in fear that they’d be exposed and have to face that other guy (very embarrassing).

Since I’m just some random guy they met on vacation, they really don’t have to worry about seeing me again, thus the sense of shame and embarrassment is nonexistent.

I’ve met lots of vacationing teenagers on Spring Break who are here solely just to fuck guys from another country!

Just as I’ve met lots of couples (married also) who want to engage in gangbangs [MMF], and some husbands who enjoy seeing their wives get fucked by some random guy [I think this’ called Cuckold or something].

This is where I come in (as that other guy)!

It takes skills and social intuition to spot these people who are open to such sexual adventurism.

It’s also super easy to spot girls who are unfamiliar with your town, which makes them ripe for the picking.

I used to run this sort of game often in downtown NYC (Columbus Circle) , where I would pick out tourists and introduce them to my town by recommending certain hot spots to go, etc.

You can also read about this in “How to bang foreign girls”.

For simple tips, insights, routines and techniques on how to attract, pick up, seduce and bang tourists and girls from out of town (visiting your town), grab your complimentary copy of “How to bang foreign girls”, by clicking on the direct-download link below!


sexy girls on the beach for Spring Break in the islands

sexy girls on the beach for Spring Break in the islands

Having An Accent In Dating: A DHV [Plus] Or DLV [Negative]?

Having an accent could be a powerful component to your overall attraction value.

Growing up, I had always masked my natural accent, which is a Caribbean-English accent similar to how they speak in Jamaica [I was born in the Caribbean islands].

Had I known better, that speaking English with an accent would be an attraction for American, Canadian and Brit girls, I would’ve never suppressed the English accent I was born with.

Having been Americanized, I speak standard English with a New York Tri-State area accent, where one could not discern whether I was a born American or not.

The reason foreigners attempt to suppress or shy away from their natural accents is obviously a conformist instinct to want to fit in, blend in and be accepted [as was my case growing up].


This may get you far in the corporate world, but in the world of dating and pussy-banging, concealing your accent is shooting yourself in the foot… with a 12 gauge shotgun.

Had I known this growing up my entire life in New York City, my pecker would’ve fallen off from the sheer amount of vagina probing I would be doing [ok, the worst analogy ever]!

There’s an odd twist to the accent game though: not all of them are created equal.

Some accents will DLV you [turn the girl off], while others will DHV you [attract the girl].

These accents are typically DLV’s [negatives] around the English-speaking world:

East Indian

Semetic [Arabic, Hebrew]





South-East Asians



Speaking English with a Chinese accent and intonation will actually kill your chances with women in the western world.

Same goes for East Indians who learn English but speak it with a heavy Hindi intonation; they’d have to date within their own ethnic group [a fellow Indian] in the western world.

The accents which are DHV’s [positives] around the English-speaking world:

Caribbean English [Jamaican, etc.]

British English




Australian English

Although English-speaking, an Aussie in America with an Australian accent will be a huge plus for him whenever he interacts with women [presuming he owns it and is congruent].

Same goes for a Jamaican or any other black dude from the Caribbean. Speaking English with a Caribbean accent will catapult your Game and chances with women sky-fucking high!

Any Jamaican, Trinidadian or Antigua can attest to this.

American, Canadian and British women flock to them like flies on some good-ass shit!

The Caribbean English accent fascinates women; particularly white girls.

In Jamaica, it’s very common to see white tourists who become expatriates and defectors from their native countries to Jamaica.

Sure they like the culture, but the foreign English accent is the first line of attraction.

This is also true in any other English-speaking country in the western world.

If I were to enter a Starbucks in downtown Manhattan and order a cup of cafe in an exaggerated Caribbean accent, I would immediately get SOI’s [Signs Of Interests] from the girl taking my order, and any other chick in earshot.

This is also true while commuting the subway, buses, etc.

If you didn’t know better, you’d think that these chicks are staring at you in a bad way.

The French guy in America or the UK is also a hot-fucking commodity.

There are tons of movies and romance novels which depict this occurrence, where the Frenchman seduces the female protagonist.

This isn’t just a fable but the reality of how powerful it can be to utilize your accent in playing the dating field.

It’s also commonly known in America, that if a guy from The East Coast US ventures to the southern states, his sheer North Eastern English accent would become a HUGE fucking DHV [plus]!

He will attract lots of girls just by uttering few words.

I’ve been that guy, so this is factual info!

This can’t be said however for men from the southern states [quite the contrary].

A guy from Alabama or South Carolina visiting New Jersey or NYC would have a hard time in field trying to attract women unless he modifies his country accent to assimilate to a more Northernized one.

His southern accent (Country accent) would be a HUGE turn off in the North Eastern states!

Spanish would be the most innocuous and underused of all the DHV [positive] accents.

In America, speaking English with a Spanish accent is perceived to be a DLV [negative].

When I was going to school, all the kids in class who were born in Latin America, would shy away from partaking in anything because they were ashamed of being made fun of because of their accent and poor English.

With that being the case, many Spanish guys (Latinos) grow up to become very introverted anti-social around people who were born Americans, and only socialize and date fellow Spanish-speaking people.

It’s not that they want to date their own. They feel as though their accents will be turnoffs for American/western women.

Any Latino guy who speaks English with an accent, and you’re reading this article right now, I’m encouraging you to embrace your accent and even go so far as to play it up by pretending to not know much English.

You can pick up loads of women this way by asking for directions or how to translate certain words into English.

People’s egos by nature are stroked whenever asked for their opinions on certain matters. It makes them feel important, wanted, smart and helpful.

So take advantage of this by approaching some girls and double down on your English accent!

At times, I’d approach and open British girls with my Caribbean-English accent:

Kenny: “Hey, I’m from the islands and I was just wondering how do y’all pronounce the word ‘Luggage’ in British English”?

That’s a great opener when asked with an accent [a DHV accent that is]!

Good thing for foreign women is that men don’t see accents as turnoffs nor an important factor in dating and mating.

A western man would hook up with a girl who speaks zero English! So these accent variations only apply to man-woman, and not woman to man.

I’m not quite sure however how an American would fare in Britain as far as accent goes [DLV, DHV, positive, negative or neutral].

Feel free to weigh in on accents and the ones I’d left out!

Sunday Night Field Report [logistics are the enemy]

The reason I abstain from getting a girl’s phone or contact info too quickly, is that the possibility of flaking would increase with the least amount of rapport you have with the girl [some exceptions].

Therefore, I’m 1 of those guys in the community who advocates NOT going for the girl’s #’s unless you’ve engaged her in a solid convo of at least 15 minutes.

Nevertheless, I’d broke this personal rule of mines and closed a girl within the first 10 seconds of talking to her [see the video here].

I expected this chick to be flaky, which she was, but we were able to meet up.

Check out a bit of the text game chat log before we met up that night [via BBM Messenger]:

Make sure you don’t fall asleep on my ass

I’m not that fond of asses, thus I wouldn’t fall asleep on one, let alone your’s.


Don’t forget I’m a smart ass. 🙂

Plus I don’t have an ass anyway


I’m not fond of giving compliments but you made my cock hard when I seen a pic of u earlier


That’s a HUGE compliment! That doesn’t happen often like a solar eclipse!

Lol U so epic

We both epic! Remember that

Can I be honest right about now..
I just drank 4 beers…

Haven’t eaten.

Goddamn, u are terrible!!!!

I told u I can handle my juice

I haven’t misspelt anything.

And I’m making sense right?

My dad just asked if I’m okay


Goddamn girl! Slow down! U tryna out text me!

Slow the fuck down!

Yeah I do that when I’m a lil wasted.

My fingers move hella fast


And when I’m sober, I don’t text this fast u know

Oh gosh…


I can’t slow down.

Its the adrenalin… Hence, I’m finna be over


Kidding, I’m still here

Okay, I’m calm now

Slow your fucking adrenaline down!

The chat ended short time afterwards while I was headed to her place to meet up.

The crazy part about this situation was that this HB lives with her parents.


Talk about terrible logistics!

Make note, this is a very common thing you’ll find in the Caribbean; most adult women still live with their parents.

They sacrifice privacy for economizing [saving money by living with parents]. It’s mainly a cultural thing too.

Got to her house, she wasn’t wasted to me [perhaps a ploy], I took her hands and greeted her with a peck on the cheeks.

She says to me slyly: “You’re very aggressive”.

At this point, we’re literally standing on her dark porch in a central area of town without privacy.


Every physical escalation I tried to make, a fucking car would cruise by and light up the entire scenery.

So I said to her, “Take me inside of your bedroom. Sneak me in”!

HB: “Lol I can’t. My father is right there watching TV. He’s gonna see us going in”.

I held her hand, pulled her to me, kissed her, she pulled away playfully.

I pinned her up against the wall, body to body and made out with her.

She says, “Not right here in public on my porch”.

Me: “Let’s go for a walk then”.

HB: “To where? I’m too wasted”.

Sensing that she wasn’t gonna come with me, and probably wasn’t gonna be snuck into her room, my only option was to continue escalating there.

She kept pulling back or away (playfully) when I tried caressing her shoulders and stuff.

Grabbed her by the ass (hips), pulled her to me, looked dreamily into her eyes and tried kissing her, she smiles and pulls back saying, “I know you’re 1 of those bad boys”.

This is obvious flirting and push-pull, which is a great thing! But logistics were fucked up!

After about 20 minutes of back and forward, I sensed that this wasn’t going anywhere, so I told her to give me a kiss goodnight, she did, I gave her 1 on her cheek then left.

She’s definitely a work in progress.

The most positive thing which came about is that she did not flake.

Therefore, it’s safe to say that she’s not a flakey girl. So once she commits to meeting up; it’s almost certain.

It’s not often you’d meet a girl Thursday, set up a meeting for Sunday, only text her, then get to see her on the first attempted meet-up/Day 2 [Sunday night].

Fastest Street Pickup Ever [In-Field Day Game Video]

Foreword: Lot of guys ask me (via Facebook and e-mail) “why does it seem like I only pick up black chicks”?

My answer to that is simple: I’m currently in a region where majority of the girls are black [95% in some islands], so it comes down to sheer numbers and the region. Numbers game basically.

Anyway, I promises I wasn’t gonna do any more # closes [nor contact closing] but this chick was so sexy I had to pick her up.

Plus there’s something about chicks with specs on which instantly attracts me in a weird sort of way.

I’m not an advocate of “Rapid #-Close” pickup and getting girl’s #’s/contact info’ in a heartbeat.

I prefer to build some decent amount of attraction and rapport before getting her info (which more solidifies the possibility of meeting up). But I got this chick’s info within a matter of 10 seconds.

Anyway, while on my way to grab some breakfast [last Tuesday morning]…

…as you’ll pick up on, this HB was on her phone plus had ear-pieces in (to deter men from approaching).

I approached and open anyway (as she was exiting a store).

Got her to stop.

This isn’t seen on the video (since this all went down so sporadically), but I stopped her, told her to call the person back or put them on hold, she looked at me like: “WTF”, but with a smile as if to say, “You have balls and I like”!

Requested her BBM pin.

I gave her an instant compliance test by telling her, “Let’s walk”!

She gave no resistance to that.

I wasn’t sure if she’d hung up from the person, so as you can see/hear in the video, as she was giving me her BBM pin, I didn’t even know she was addressing me.

Reason I took her Blackberry Instant Messenger pin # instead of her phone # was pretty simple: she had a Blackberry in her hand; and I had 1 also!

So she’s basically a BBM chick, and that is mainly how she communicates.

Plus my BBM game is On like fuck! Read: How to get laid via BBM and other instant messaging apps.

It takes quick observation to spot these things right away where you can decide how to approach, which sort of game, etc.

Some chicks do NOT like talking over the phone initially; especially in this fucked-up age of online dating, some chicks only text. I instantly noted that she was a texter, so I went for the BBM pin.

It’d be pretty easy to get her phone # after that anyway (which I have by now).

There are 3 lessons from this short in-field video:

1.) Don’t be deterred from approaching girls who are insulated in their own worlds, on their phones, listening to music, etc. Fuck that! Just approach and talk to them!

2.) Suggest, suggest, suggest! Suggest that she hangs up or put on hold the person she’s talking to. It shows balls and nerve! Stay congruent and firm, and she will comply.

3.) Don’t always initially go for the girl’s phone #. Survey the logistics (which takes practice and quick thinking) to see by which means she prefer to communicate. Or simply ask; “are you the type to chat over the phone or a texter”? If you deem that she’s a texter; then take her IM [BBM, Whatsapp, iPhone messenger] contact, and start there, then transition to phone game (when you will have gotten her # later on via texting).

Paul Janka On Dr. Phil, Plus 5 In-Field Videos Getting Girls’ Phone Numbers

Paul Janka, the NYC playboy and seduction coach

Paul Janka, the NYC playboy and seduction coach

Cheers to the fucking weekend!

I like posting pick-up videos to give you guys some encouragement and get y’all pumped to talk to women and get laid.

Those who don’t know who Paul Janka is, watch the following video first where he’d appeared on an episode of the Dr. Phil show about male ego.

Ok, so PJ has been 1 of the first and only guys in the seduction community to ever appear on TV.

The beauty about this in which makes PJ an official playboy, is that in spite of his grand exposure, he still chases ass on the streets to filming in-field videos.

He didn’t just make a few bucks and say “to hell with ass-hunting”!

Very humble character in that sense.

Below are 5 short Day Game in-field videos of PJ approaching, opening and #-closing college students on the streets of Austin, Texas.

What I like most about PJ’s method, is that it’s great for gaming girls when you’re out of town.

Many girls are more willing to hang out with a guy when he’s not from their town.

She gets to become his quasi tour-guide and such.

PJ takes advantage of this by always telling girls that he’s from out of town (which he is) and leaving in a few days, which makes the girls more willing to sleep with him fast since he’s leaving town shortly.

Great move by PJ!

Socialkenny will be freezing out his girlfriend over the weekend [Freeze-Out Tactics]



Say what!?

Kenny has a girlfriend!?

Of course I do!

There are 2 things I can’t stand in a woman:

1.) Ungratefulness/Ingratitude

2.) Nasty Attitude

A girl can cheat on me with 100 dudes and it wouldn’t rattle me nearly as much as when she gives me a bout of nasty attitude…especially when it’s uncalled for.

Periodically, I’d say to my girl:

“You can cheat on me all you want; just don’t ever act ungrateful towards me “.

Oh course I don’t wanna be cheated on, but it illustrates the gravity in how much I hate ingratitude which makes me say stuff like that (in wry sense of humor).

Thursday night, my girlfriend and I got into a massive fallout, and that is on the heels of me going out of my way to do something really special for her that same evening.

Not that I do things in order to get things in return, but if I buy you a diamond-studded bracelet at 4 PM, and we get into an argument at 6 PM and you blurt out:

“I didn’t like the bracelet neither, so I’m giving it back to you and you can pawn it if you wish! I don’t fucking care”! Then that’s a whole different ball game.

Not that that was the case [me buying diamond-studded bracelet]. But her actions, tone and words were literally verbatim (word for word).

Other guys really couldn’t give 2 shits about an ungrateful remark, while on the other hand, they’d kill the chick if she ever cheated on them.

I on the other hand, would overlook cheating and let it roll off the shoulders but take grave offense to ungratefulness.

Strange I know!

With that said, and with the dumb-ungrateful attitude of my girlfriend; I decide to employ the classic PUA tactic called “Freeze Outs.

I’m going to freeze her ass out.

Freeze Outs are pretty much self-explanatory: you (the guy) acts cold and distant towards the girl.

Basically- you fall off the map by ignoring her and virtually disappearing!

This is probably the oldest and most used tactic in the seduction community.

Freezing out a chick isn’t easy by the way.

Sounds easy breezy to just ignore a girl. But if she’s a girl you’ve been fucking, your GF, wife, a girl you’re gaming, etc., then employing Freeze-Out tactics is the hardest thing in the world (for most of us).

“When does a PUA freezes out a girl”?

*Whenever she disrespects him in any way

*Whenever she flakes on dates

*Whenever she doesn’t return calls and messages

It’s essentially punishment for rude behavior by women.

It teaches and reinforces a lesson that “you’re not gonna violate me and think that I’ll still be talking to you”.

“Do Freeze Outs work”?

Hell fucking yes!

It’s powerful as shit! But it’s difficult as fuck to sustain (if you’re the guy).

Freezing a girl out for 1 day might be a cake walk.

Freezing a girl out for 3 and more days (or weeks) requires balls of steel, fortitude, patience and an IDGAF attitude.

Overall; a strong Inner Game.

The longer you manage to freeze her out (ignore her and not communicate with her at all), the more she’ll come to respect you and get the fuck in line and avoid doing what she’d done (or said) which caused the Freeze Out in the first place.

Contrarily, if you fuck up on the freeze-out attempt by contacting her too quickly; she will loose respect for you and continue to fuck you over like a spineless Beta.

So there’s an art, tactic and method to it.

You have to be a resolute guy to stick to your freeze-out guns.

I’ve failed more Freeze Outs in my lifetime as a Pick-Up Artist than I’d successfully stayed the course.

“How do I use Freeze Outs”?

Ok, with Freeze Outs, the guy usually sets a targeted time frame on how long he wishes to freeze out the girl who had offended him [in this case: my girlfriend].

You can choose to freeze her out for 1 day, 3 days, a week, 2-3 weeks or a month, etc.

How long you decide to freeze her out depends on certain variables which is unique to your situation and the infraction.

I chose 3 days (over the weekend) for particular reasons.

“What does a Freeze Out entails”?

Freezing a girl out means you will not contact her by any means at all: Facebook chat, phone call, sms text, e-mail, voice mail, letters, through friends, etc.

No communication with the girl at all!

The urge to contact her will be tempting and overpowering however; especially if you haven’t had any pussy in a while, and the chick you’re freezing out is your only source for poon-tang.

Guys with strong Inner Game should be able to put sex aside for the bigger picture: regaining control and respect.

“What does a Freeze Out do to a girl”?

Whenever a guy freezes out a girl (successfully), she begins to say to herself:

*”Did I do something to him”?

*”I miss him”

*”Why haven’t I heard from Kenny in 2 days? Is he mad at me”?

She begins to question herself and become very uneasy and missing the interactions y’all had.

Warning: Put your phone on silent because she’ll call you 100 times and send a million texts wondering if she’d done something to you.

“Will some girls be able to hold out long(er)”?

Fuck yes!

I’ve met girls who had stood me up on dates, I decide to freeze them out as punishment, but they fought me tooth and nail!!

Stubborn girls will fight themselves to derail your freeze-out attempts by not contacting you.

My GF is a a very stubborn ass!

Women like those are hell-bent as fuck on NOT succumbing to freeze outs (by abstaining from contacting you first).

I’d freezed her out 2 years ago for a reason I no longer remember, and she held out almost a week and half without contacting me!

My predictions were that she would contact me by day 3.

I misjudged her stubbornness and resolution, which caused my freeze-out attempt to back fire on day 3 [FUCK]!

So not every girl will succumb easily!

“What are the Cons of Freeze Outs”?

Con #1: The worst case in which to attempt a freeze out is with a girl who isn’t that into you.

Freeze outs will only work if the girl is attracted to you, likes you, values you or has a relationship with you.

If you try to freeze a girl out whom you’d just met 2 days ago and never spoke to her on the phone before but texted a bit; she will virtually laugh at you for attempting to freeze her out.

She will simply faze you out and move on gingerly!

Con #2: There’s a possibility that she could go fuck another guy/orbiter during your absence (freeze out).

I’ve known of chicks who had hooked up with other guys during freeze outs [thinking their boyfriend had broken up with them].

Hey, who gives a shit! If she does cheat while on a freeze out; she wasn’t relationship-material anyway!

The ultimate aim of a freeze-out is to gain control of a situation or to regain your Alpha/dominant standing where the girl starts to value and respect you again.

My GF had disrespected me big time yesterday [Thursday] during our heated argument.

I could either dump her or freeze her out.

Since I’m not an advocate of dumping chicks because of altercations and disagreements; I chose to freeze her out instead.

Would appreciate some feedback from my readers on Freeze Outs, incidents of Freeze Outs, are freeze outs childish, and on my situation.

Am I an asshole for freezing her out [ignoring her for 3 days], or does she deserve it [for her ungrateful comment after I’d done something special for her]?

Would you say that Freeze Outs are unnecessary mind games?

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