Kenny has a girlfriend!?
Of course I do!
There are 2 things I can’t stand in a woman:
2.) Nasty Attitude
A girl can cheat on me with 100 dudes and it wouldn’t rattle me nearly as much as when she gives me a bout of nasty attitude…especially when it’s uncalled for.
Periodically, I’d say to my girl:
“You can cheat on me all you want; just don’t ever act ungrateful towards me “.
Oh course I don’t wanna be cheated on, but it illustrates the gravity in how much I hate ingratitude which makes me say stuff like that (in wry sense of humor).
Thursday night, my girlfriend and I got into a massive fallout, and that is on the heels of me going out of my way to do something really special for her that same evening.
Not that I do things in order to get things in return, but if I buy you a diamond-studded bracelet at 4 PM, and we get into an argument at 6 PM and you blurt out:
“I didn’t like the bracelet neither, so I’m giving it back to you and you can pawn it if you wish! I don’t fucking care”! Then that’s a whole different ball game.
Not that that was the case [me buying diamond-studded bracelet]. But her actions, tone and words were literally verbatim (word for word).
Other guys really couldn’t give 2 shits about an ungrateful remark, while on the other hand, they’d kill the chick if she ever cheated on them.
I on the other hand, would overlook cheating and let it roll off the shoulders but take grave offense to ungratefulness.
Strange I know!
With that said, and with the dumb-ungrateful attitude of my girlfriend; I decide to employ the classic PUA tactic called “Freeze Outs.
I’m going to freeze her ass out.
Freeze Outs are pretty much self-explanatory: you (the guy) acts cold and distant towards the girl.
Basically- you fall off the map by ignoring her and virtually disappearing!
This is probably the oldest and most used tactic in the seduction community.
Freezing out a chick isn’t easy by the way.
Sounds easy breezy to just ignore a girl. But if she’s a girl you’ve been fucking, your GF, wife, a girl you’re gaming, etc., then employing Freeze-Out tactics is the hardest thing in the world (for most of us).
“When does a PUA freezes out a girl”?
*Whenever she disrespects him in any way
*Whenever she flakes on dates
*Whenever she doesn’t return calls and messages
It’s essentially punishment for rude behavior by women.
It teaches and reinforces a lesson that “you’re not gonna violate me and think that I’ll still be talking to you”.
“Do Freeze Outs work”?
Hell fucking yes!
It’s powerful as shit! But it’s difficult as fuck to sustain (if you’re the guy).
Freezing a girl out for 1 day might be a cake walk.
Freezing a girl out for 3 and more days (or weeks) requires balls of steel, fortitude, patience and an IDGAF attitude.
Overall; a strong Inner Game.
The longer you manage to freeze her out (ignore her and not communicate with her at all), the more she’ll come to respect you and get the fuck in line and avoid doing what she’d done (or said) which caused the Freeze Out in the first place.
Contrarily, if you fuck up on the freeze-out attempt by contacting her too quickly; she will loose respect for you and continue to fuck you over like a spineless Beta.
So there’s an art, tactic and method to it.
You have to be a resolute guy to stick to your freeze-out guns.
I’ve failed more Freeze Outs in my lifetime as a Pick-Up Artist than I’d successfully stayed the course.
“How do I use Freeze Outs”?
Ok, with Freeze Outs, the guy usually sets a targeted time frame on how long he wishes to freeze out the girl who had offended him [in this case: my girlfriend].
You can choose to freeze her out for 1 day, 3 days, a week, 2-3 weeks or a month, etc.
How long you decide to freeze her out depends on certain variables which is unique to your situation and the infraction.
I chose 3 days (over the weekend) for particular reasons.
“What does a Freeze Out entails”?
Freezing a girl out means you will not contact her by any means at all: Facebook chat, phone call, sms text, e-mail, voice mail, letters, through friends, etc.
No communication with the girl at all!
The urge to contact her will be tempting and overpowering however; especially if you haven’t had any pussy in a while, and the chick you’re freezing out is your only source for poon-tang.
Guys with strong Inner Game should be able to put sex aside for the bigger picture: regaining control and respect.
“What does a Freeze Out do to a girl”?
Whenever a guy freezes out a girl (successfully), she begins to say to herself:
*”Did I do something to him”?
*”I miss him”
*”Why haven’t I heard from Kenny in 2 days? Is he mad at me”?
She begins to question herself and become very uneasy and missing the interactions y’all had.
Warning: Put your phone on silent because she’ll call you 100 times and send a million texts wondering if she’d done something to you.
“Will some girls be able to hold out long(er)”?
I’ve met girls who had stood me up on dates, I decide to freeze them out as punishment, but they fought me tooth and nail!!
Stubborn girls will fight themselves to derail your freeze-out attempts by not contacting you.
My GF is a a very stubborn ass!
Women like those are hell-bent as fuck on NOT succumbing to freeze outs (by abstaining from contacting you first).
I’d freezed her out 2 years ago for a reason I no longer remember, and she held out almost a week and half without contacting me!
My predictions were that she would contact me by day 3.
I misjudged her stubbornness and resolution, which caused my freeze-out attempt to back fire on day 3 [FUCK]!
So not every girl will succumb easily!
“What are the Cons of Freeze Outs”?
Con #1: The worst case in which to attempt a freeze out is with a girl who isn’t that into you.
Freeze outs will only work if the girl is attracted to you, likes you, values you or has a relationship with you.
If you try to freeze a girl out whom you’d just met 2 days ago and never spoke to her on the phone before but texted a bit; she will virtually laugh at you for attempting to freeze her out.
She will simply faze you out and move on gingerly!
Con #2: There’s a possibility that she could go fuck another guy/orbiter during your absence (freeze out).
I’ve known of chicks who had hooked up with other guys during freeze outs [thinking their boyfriend had broken up with them].
Hey, who gives a shit! If she does cheat while on a freeze out; she wasn’t relationship-material anyway!
The ultimate aim of a freeze-out is to gain control of a situation or to regain your Alpha/dominant standing where the girl starts to value and respect you again.
My GF had disrespected me big time yesterday [Thursday] during our heated argument.
I could either dump her or freeze her out.
Since I’m not an advocate of dumping chicks because of altercations and disagreements; I chose to freeze her out instead.
Would appreciate some feedback from my readers on Freeze Outs, incidents of Freeze Outs, are freeze outs childish, and on my situation.
Am I an asshole for freezing her out [ignoring her for 3 days], or does she deserve it [for her ungrateful comment after I’d done something special for her]?
Would you say that Freeze Outs are unnecessary mind games?
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