Forgive me readers, if this article is riddled with grammatical errors and incoherent babbling, but it’s 5 AM, I’m tipsy, shell-shocked and horny as a MOFO!!! So bear with me as I write this field report as coherently as possible.
* HB8: Hot Babe who’s an 8 on the looks scale of 10.
* Congruence Testing: When a woman does or say something in order to see if you’re steady or weak.
* Social Proof: Concept of being a guy who’s socially loved/accepted by others. Social acceptance.
* 2 Set: 2 girls together
* Escalate: To get physical and sexual with a girl.
* KINO: Touching
* AMOG: Alpha Male Other Guy. Basically a cockblocker or competitor.
* Target: The girl you’re after
* Natural: A guy naturally skilled with girls
* DTF: Down To Fuck
* Calibration: Proper timing when trying to seduce a girl.]
Took a few photos outside the joint before going into the bar. Beauty about this bar, is that it has an adjacent club annexed to it where you go from 1 door to the next from bar to club/dancefloor.
Pretended as if I was chatting to someone on my phone just to get close to a sexy-slim girl to chat her up. We chatted for 5 minutes, she told me that she was meeting her BFF on the dancefloor, so we parted ways.
Half hour later, I hit up the dancefloor with the same plastic glass of wine I’d been sipping for an hour [remember I can’t drink for shit]!
The HB8 I was chatting up outside taps me on the shoulder and laughs. We dance for a seconds (no bodily contact though). Her GF gets introduced (who’s actually hotter), they try congruence testing me by refusing to dance in a 2 on 1 session. I almost got thrown off my game but remained unaffected.
To build social proof, I chatted up about 10 different girls in eye’s view of the 2 set I was planning on gaming. This would soften them up a lot more and encourage them to dance with me before some other chick whisk me away.
It worked! 🙂 The social proof spike was in full effect baby!!
The hotter girl of the 2 (Tall-HB), who wasn’t my target initially, grabs me by the waist from behind to get my attention. I turn around and she laughs playfully and teasingly. This was my green light, so I grind on her ass for 2 minutes until she side stepped a bit [perhaps not trying to make her BFF jealous since her BFF obviously liked me initially].
I made 1 crucial mistake at this juncture (which I never do); I didn’t roll off and come back. I stayed on that spot (dancing) forever instead of gaming other girls. I’d already threw all my time and eggs into this 1 basket.
Over the course of 2 hours, I danced on and off with the Tall-HB [maybe 1 and a half hours worth]. Once again, critical mistake of only dancing with 1 chick instead of playing the field and work the entire room as I do 100% of the time.
Nevertheless, we were making good progress as we both physically escalated KINO: she grabbing me, holding my fingers, touching me on my sides. I was doing the same, but I escalated hard my sniffing her hair/neck, caressing her waist with my hands on her thighs, pulling her into me harder (simulating sex) as she playfully pulls away…
Lo and behold…this dude who looked like he was too young to get in the club legally, steps to the 2 set and starts to grind on the girl I was grinding on (Tall-HB)!!
Note: Guys who generally suffer from AA (Approach Anxiety), and are afraid of being rejected, they will scope the entire venue for soft targets i.e. girls who are receptive and are dancing already.
So by me dancing with Tall-HB, it communicated to the orbitors that this girl was seducible. Guys were basically scheming for the opportunity to interject so they can get a piece of the action.
I call this sort of sniper game a bitch move- but it works!
As the PUA guru RSD Tyler Durden wrote years ago, “women in the clubs are in trances, jumping from 1 stimulus to another”…from 1 guy to the next.
Also, those orbitors were smart enough to feed off of the momentum I created, and the girl’s trance-like state, so the teen-looking guy swooped in as I took a 2 second breather…FUCK!!!!
Can’t believe my target is now grinding on this dude who came out of nowhere! But it’s the law of the jungle in dance-floor game. Your girl can be fucking taken within a heartbeat by some AMOG or competing Alpha Natural.
To make matters worse, some other dude was preying on the Tall-HB. So there’s 3 guys tryna pull this 1 girl who was DTF to the max!
Now Guy 3 comes in and whisk away the Tall-HB from Guy 2 and took her into some secluded corner alone [nice play on his part to isolate the girl]. At this point I was fucking furious of the AMOG-ing.
[Socialkenny tweeted @ 12:30 AM:
Some fucking AMOG/Cockblocker keeps hogging up the chic who’s dancing with me every minute. It’s on like Donkey Kong!]
Guy 2 comes up to me and shouted in my ears: “Hey man, that bitch was fine. Where the fuck is she though”!!!? At this point, I’m saying in my head, “You cockblocked the shit out of me, and you end up getting cockblocked”!!!
[Socialkenny tweeted @ 1:52 AM
It really comes down to who could cockblock the best @ the #club. I’ve been fucking cockblocked by this slim-Jim MOFO!#ReturningFavor]
Seen my boy Unit, he asks if I’m good or want another drink. I oblige and took a beer. Went back to the dancefloor to FMAC [Find Meet Attract Close] the target. Guy 3 still has her well wrapped up in isolation. I’m now faced with 2 choices; go over there, grab her hand and pull her away, or use Guy 2 as a pawn to go over there and pull her away for me (in essence).
Guy #3 obviously knows his shit and is playing it skillfully beating the shit out of us!!!
[Socialkenny tweeted @2:53 AM
Fuck!!! I got AMOG’d and some Natural-player type dude went away with my target after a battle!!!
I say to guy 2: “I can’t believe you let this dude fucking take your chic away”! Guy 2: “I’m going over there right now to get her back”. So I baited him into pulling the robbery.
Note: Reason I didn’t go over there myself was because I didn’t wanna look too stalkerish and wind up chasing the girl away by chasing her too much.
Like a God-send; some dude or chick accidentally tripped over the cables leading to the DJ booth shutting off the music [why they had cables running right there…IDK].
Dude (Guy 3), who’s apparently part of the DJ technical team [I came to notice], ran to the booth to rectify the shit. Guy 2 swoops in, he bitches out a bit by procrastinating. Guy 3/technician seen the attempted robbery and ran back over to retake the girl [strong play again]. This fucking guy is dominant, a Natural Alpha/player! FUCK!!!
[Socialkenny tweeted @ 3:00 AM
Threw all my eggs in 1 basket instead of zoning in on at least 3 HB’s. Rookie mistake. Shit happens
At this point, I’m extra pissed that Guy 3 is tooling and schooling the shit out of the competition and AMOG-ing us like little bitches!
It’s now 3 AM, I went outside to the club’s courtyard for a breather while tweeting what was going down.
I call this the “hook-up decision hour”, where chics decide who’s gonna take them home (if any), and the most aggressively-skilled guy wins.
Friggin’ crunch time! All or nothing. Go hard or go home… to spank the little monkey.
After a while, I re-enter the dancefloor. My state isn’t as pumped as before, so I seem out of it. Twirling the floor looking for the target. Surprise surprise; Guy 2 has her and he’s grinding her. I’d rather do battle with Guy 2 since he’s less skilled than Guy 3 (and obviously much younger having less experience).
The Tall-HB(target) spots me while she dances with Guy 2, she grabs my shoulders and smiles. I took that as an IOI (indicator of interest), so I turned around and we sandwiched her [Guy 2 grinding her ass, I’m grinding her from the front]. This went on for 3-4 minutes.
Now I see that I can actually use Guy 2 as an ally rather than a foe. If anything, we can try to pull a 3-some if he manages to isolate her.
I busted on Guy 2 shouting: “You can’t handle that fat ass of hers”! They both laughed, so I grabbed her and isolated her somewhat as we danced. She grabbed my dick, I say to her, “Don’t do that or you’re gonna get something started”! She laughs as I slapped her on the booty.
Guy 2 [my new ally] comes over and we both share her a bit. She said she’s tired from all the dancing so she leans up against the wall. I turned my back for 10 seconds, turned back around to face the target, and guess fucking what…? Guy 3 [the real competition] is back dancing with her.
Note: Once you’re a dominant guy (as guy 3 was), you can almost always persuade a girl to go contrary to what she says or believes. She was obviously drained, but Guy 3’s frame was so overpowering that she danced with him anyway. This’ the essence of frame control.
Sensing that I was a competing Alpha, Guy 3 once again pulls a fucking hat trick before I could gather my senses and pull a counter attack. He checkmated us (or me) and led the girl away quickly.
Note: As RSD Owen wrote years ago in his stunning article: “Stealing Horny Chicks”, when a girl hits buying temperature (horniness), she becomes very receptive to being led, tossed around and used. Sort of like a fucking zombie. Her brains are fried at that moment, so guy 3 sensing this (since he’s a Natural), he took advantage of the Tall-HB’s zombie-like state.
Anyway, I wasn’t about to accept defeat that easily…especially with a DTF chick who was grabbing my cock half the night. I made a last-ditch attempt to pull (the robbery). By the time I got outside of the club, they were already up the block, arm around waist.
[Socialkenny tweeted @4:20 AM
@3rdMilleniumMen Lol yea man! Dude pulled a sniper move and was able to get my target to chat with him, then bam!! Vanished up the bloc
I virtually prayed for a speeding car to careen around the goddamn roundabout and send Guy 3 flying!
At this point, I was faced with 3 realistic options: 1.) Go game another girl (which I should’ve done from the get-go), and hopefully try to pull one who’s already @ Buying Temperature, 2.) Go grab a seat on the couch and sulk, 3.) Go home.
I decided on #2! Grabbed a seat, and here comes Guy 2 (the 1 who initially cockblocked me): “Yo man…that bitch left or what”!!?
I really wasn’t in the mood, so I ignored dude, but he kept tryna chat.
The weird thing is, I see potential in this kid. I actually dig his style and Game. 99% of the dudes were wall-flowering in the venue, scared to approach women. But Zack kept on tryna pull ass. I admired that about him, and we had a decent chat about gaming girls. Turns out that he just turned 18 the other day as I suspected (very young).
Anyone who’s followed my writings for a while now, would’ve known that I hate the shit out of wingmen and the concept of wingmanship. But I can see myself winging with the kid and fine tuning his Game with some pick-up concepts [like calibration, not being too eager,etc.].
We exchanged #’s and Facebook, I told him my schtick as a Pick-Up Artist and that I blog (in which he got intrigued). So I decided to recruit him as my official wingman!
To Be Continued…
Guys need to realize that to compete in the clubs and bars in order to pick up hot chicks, it often times comes down to AMOG battles with other guys for the girl.
The strongest survive in the jungle of nightclub game. If you have no skills, you’ll be going home solo every friggin’ night out. This’ why the average guy is intimidated by going to clubs and such venues; most men are pussies and aren’t equipped with the know-how/skillset to compete.
Last night, I lost!!
I lost to a better man that night. A guy who was willing to take more chances and be more dominant and proactive.
Most nights though, I’m on the winning end of the stick with my targets. This was just 1 of those rare times where I had to battle and engage in stealth game to try and pull a One-Night Stand/Same-Night Lay.
And I enjoyed the hell out of the display of skills and will.
Right after, I tweeted that I wasn’t upset at all about the outcome. This is the law of pick-up in the clubs/bars. Either learn how to play the game or get fucked! But to not play at all is a losing proposition.
*10 ways to pump up buying temperature by Asian Playboy.
*Buying Temperature Escalation by Tyler Durden.
*Nightclub Game by Mcmaax.
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