Field Report: “3 Guys Battling For 1 Girl At The Club Last Night” [Cockblocks, AMOG’s, Drama, Wingman]

Sipping a glass of wine last night before enetering the bar/nightclub

Sipping a glass of wine last night before enetering the bar/nightclub

Forgive me readers, if this article is riddled with grammatical errors and incoherent babbling, but it’s 5 AM, I’m tipsy, shell-shocked and horny as a MOFO!!! So bear with me as I write this field report as coherently as possible.

Friday, 19th., October, 2012 At Xtra’s Bar & Nightclub

[Pertinent Acronyms]
* HB8: Hot Babe who’s an 8 on the looks scale of 10.
* Congruence Testing: When a woman does or say something in order to see if you’re steady or weak.
* Social Proof: Concept of being a guy who’s socially loved/accepted by others. Social acceptance.
* 2 Set: 2 girls together
* Escalate: To get physical and sexual with a girl.
* KINO: Touching
* AMOG: Alpha Male Other Guy. Basically a cockblocker or competitor.
* Target: The girl you’re after
* Natural: A guy naturally skilled with girls
* DTF: Down To Fuck
* Calibration: Proper timing when trying to seduce a girl.]

Took a few photos outside the joint before going into the bar. Beauty about this bar, is that it has an adjacent club annexed to it where you go from 1 door to the next from bar to club/dancefloor.

Pretended as if I was chatting to someone on my phone just to get close to a sexy-slim girl to chat her up. We chatted for 5 minutes, she told me that she was meeting her BFF on the dancefloor, so we parted ways.

Half hour later, I hit up the dancefloor with the same plastic glass of wine I’d been sipping for an hour [remember I can’t drink for shit]!

The HB8 I was chatting up outside taps me on the shoulder and laughs. We dance for a seconds (no bodily contact though). Her GF gets introduced (who’s actually hotter), they try congruence testing me by refusing to dance in a 2 on 1 session. I almost got thrown off my game but remained unaffected.

To build social proof, I chatted up about 10 different girls in eye’s view of the 2 set I was planning on gaming. This would soften them up a lot more and encourage them to dance with me before some other chick whisk me away.

It worked! 🙂 The social proof spike was in full effect baby!!

The hotter girl of the 2 (Tall-HB), who wasn’t my target initially, grabs me by the waist from behind to get my attention. I turn around and she laughs playfully and teasingly. This was my green light, so I grind on her ass for 2 minutes until she side stepped a bit [perhaps not trying to make her BFF jealous since her BFF obviously liked me initially].

I made 1 crucial mistake at this juncture (which I never do); I didn’t roll off and come back. I stayed on that spot (dancing) forever instead of gaming other girls. I’d already threw all my time and eggs into this 1 basket.

Over the course of 2 hours, I danced on and off with the Tall-HB [maybe 1 and a half hours worth]. Once again, critical mistake of only dancing with 1 chick instead of playing the field and work the entire room as I do 100% of the time.

Nevertheless, we were making good progress as we both physically escalated KINO: she grabbing me, holding my fingers, touching me on my sides. I was doing the same, but I escalated hard my sniffing her hair/neck, caressing her waist with my hands on her thighs, pulling her into me harder (simulating sex) as she playfully pulls away…

Lo and behold…this dude who looked like he was too young to get in the club legally, steps to the 2 set and starts to grind on the girl I was grinding on (Tall-HB)!!

Note: Guys who generally suffer from AA (Approach Anxiety), and are afraid of being rejected, they will scope the entire venue for soft targets i.e. girls who are receptive and are dancing already.

So by me dancing with Tall-HB, it communicated to the orbitors that this girl was seducible. Guys were basically scheming for the opportunity to interject so they can get a piece of the action.

I call this sort of sniper game a bitch move- but it works!

As the PUA guru RSD Tyler Durden wrote years ago, “women in the clubs are in trances, jumping from 1 stimulus to another”…from 1 guy to the next.

Also, those orbitors were smart enough to feed off of the momentum I created, and the girl’s trance-like state, so the teen-looking guy swooped in as I took a 2 second breather…FUCK!!!!

Can’t believe my target is now grinding on this dude who came out of nowhere! But it’s the law of the jungle in dance-floor game. Your girl can be fucking taken within a heartbeat by some AMOG or competing Alpha Natural.

To make matters worse, some other dude was preying on the Tall-HB. So there’s 3 guys tryna pull this 1 girl who was DTF to the max!

Now Guy 3 comes in and whisk away the Tall-HB from Guy 2 and took her into some secluded corner alone [nice play on his part to isolate the girl]. At this point I was fucking furious of the AMOG-ing.

[Socialkenny tweeted @ 12:30 AM:

Some fucking AMOG/Cockblocker keeps hogging up the chic who’s dancing with me every minute. It’s on like Donkey Kong!]

Guy 2 comes up to me and shouted in my ears: “Hey man, that bitch was fine. Where the fuck is she though”!!!? At this point, I’m saying in my head, “You cockblocked the shit out of me, and you end up getting cockblocked”!!!

[Socialkenny tweeted @ 1:52 AM

It really comes down to who could cockblock the best @ the #club. I’ve been fucking cockblocked by this slim-Jim MOFO!#ReturningFavor]

Seen my boy Unit, he asks if I’m good or want another drink. I oblige and took a beer. Went back to the dancefloor to FMAC [Find Meet Attract Close] the target. Guy 3 still has her well wrapped up in isolation. I’m now faced with 2 choices; go over there, grab her hand and pull her away, or use Guy 2 as a pawn to go over there and pull her away for me (in essence).

Guy #3 obviously knows his shit and is playing it skillfully beating the shit out of us!!!

[Socialkenny tweeted @2:53 AM

Fuck!!! I got AMOG’d and some Natural-player type dude went away with my target after a battle!!!

I say to guy 2: “I can’t believe you let this dude fucking take your chic away”! Guy 2: “I’m going over there right now to get her back”. So I baited him into pulling the robbery.

Note: Reason I didn’t go over there myself was because I didn’t wanna look too stalkerish and wind up chasing the girl away by chasing her too much.

Like a God-send; some dude or chick accidentally tripped over the cables leading to the DJ booth shutting off the music [why they had cables running right there…IDK].

Dude (Guy 3), who’s apparently part of the DJ technical team [I came to notice], ran to the booth to rectify the shit. Guy 2 swoops in, he bitches out a bit by procrastinating. Guy 3/technician seen the attempted robbery and ran back over to retake the girl [strong play again]. This fucking guy is dominant, a Natural Alpha/player! FUCK!!!

[Socialkenny tweeted @ 3:00 AM

Threw all my eggs in 1 basket instead of zoning in on at least 3 HB’s. Rookie mistake. Shit happens

At this point, I’m extra pissed that Guy 3 is tooling and schooling the shit out of the competition and AMOG-ing us like little bitches!

It’s now 3 AM, I went outside to the club’s courtyard for a breather while tweeting what was going down.

I call this the “hook-up decision hour”, where chics decide who’s gonna take them home (if any), and the most aggressively-skilled guy wins.

Friggin’ crunch time! All or nothing. Go hard or go home… to spank the little monkey.

After a while, I re-enter the dancefloor. My state isn’t as pumped as before, so I seem out of it. Twirling the floor looking for the target. Surprise surprise; Guy 2 has her and he’s grinding her. I’d rather do battle with Guy 2 since he’s less skilled than Guy 3 (and obviously much younger having less experience).

The Tall-HB(target) spots me while she dances with Guy 2, she grabs my shoulders and smiles. I took that as an IOI (indicator of interest), so I turned around and we sandwiched her [Guy 2 grinding her ass, I’m grinding her from the front]. This went on for 3-4 minutes.

Now I see that I can actually use Guy 2 as an ally rather than a foe. If anything, we can try to pull a 3-some if he manages to isolate her.

I busted on Guy 2 shouting: “You can’t handle that fat ass of hers”! They both laughed, so I grabbed her and isolated her somewhat as we danced. She grabbed my dick, I say to her, “Don’t do that or you’re gonna get something started”! She laughs as I slapped her on the booty.

Guy 2 [my new ally] comes over and we both share her a bit. She said she’s tired from all the dancing so she leans up against the wall. I turned my back for 10 seconds, turned back around to face the target, and guess fucking what…? Guy 3 [the real competition] is back dancing with her.


Note: Once you’re a dominant guy (as guy 3 was), you can almost always persuade a girl to go contrary to what she says or believes. She was obviously drained, but Guy 3’s frame was so overpowering that she danced with him anyway. This’ the essence of frame control.

Sensing that I was a competing Alpha, Guy 3 once again pulls a fucking hat trick before I could gather my senses and pull a counter attack. He checkmated us (or me) and led the girl away quickly.

Note: As RSD Owen wrote years ago in his stunning article: “Stealing Horny Chicks”, when a girl hits buying temperature (horniness), she becomes very receptive to being led, tossed around and used. Sort of like a fucking zombie. Her brains are fried at that moment, so guy 3 sensing this (since he’s a Natural), he took advantage of the Tall-HB’s zombie-like state.

Anyway, I wasn’t about to accept defeat that easily…especially with a DTF chick who was grabbing my cock half the night. I made a last-ditch attempt to pull (the robbery). By the time I got outside of the club, they were already up the block, arm around waist.

[Socialkenny tweeted @4:20 AM

@3rdMilleniumMen Lol yea man! Dude pulled a sniper move and was able to get my target to chat with him, then bam!! Vanished up the bloc

I virtually prayed for a speeding car to careen around the goddamn roundabout and send Guy 3 flying!

At this point, I was faced with 3 realistic options: 1.) Go game another girl (which I should’ve done from the get-go), and hopefully try to pull one who’s already @ Buying Temperature, 2.) Go grab a seat on the couch and sulk, 3.) Go home.

I decided on #2! Grabbed a seat, and here comes Guy 2 (the 1 who initially cockblocked me): “Yo man…that bitch left or what”!!?

I really wasn’t in the mood, so I ignored dude, but he kept tryna chat.

The weird thing is, I see potential in this kid. I actually dig his style and Game. 99% of the dudes were wall-flowering in the venue, scared to approach women. But Zack kept on tryna pull ass. I admired that about him, and we had a decent chat about gaming girls. Turns out that he just turned 18 the other day as I suspected (very young).

Anyone who’s followed my writings for a while now, would’ve known that I hate the shit out of wingmen and the concept of wingmanship. But I can see myself winging with the kid and fine tuning his Game with some pick-up concepts [like calibration, not being too eager,etc.].

We exchanged #’s and Facebook, I told him my schtick as a Pick-Up Artist and that I blog (in which he got intrigued). So I decided to recruit him as my official wingman!

To Be Continued…

Guys need to realize that to compete in the clubs and bars in order to pick up hot chicks, it often times comes down to AMOG battles with other guys for the girl.

The strongest survive in the jungle of nightclub game. If you have no skills, you’ll be going home solo every friggin’ night out. This’ why the average guy is intimidated by going to clubs and such venues; most men are pussies and aren’t equipped with the know-how/skillset to compete.

Last night, I lost!!

I lost to a better man that night. A guy who was willing to take more chances and be more dominant and proactive.

Most nights though, I’m on the winning end of the stick with my targets. This was just 1 of those rare times where I had to battle and engage in stealth game to try and pull a One-Night Stand/Same-Night Lay.

And I enjoyed the hell out of the display of skills and will.

Right after, I tweeted that I wasn’t upset at all about the outcome. This is the law of pick-up in the clubs/bars. Either learn how to play the game or get fucked! But to not play at all is a losing proposition.

Related articles:
*10 ways to pump up buying temperature by Asian Playboy.

*Buying Temperature Escalation by Tyler Durden.

*Nightclub Game by Mcmaax.

For more weekend madness, follow me on Twitter: @Socialkenny PUA.

Or go to the post: Vote your favorite PUA coach 2012

Check out the PUA acronym and term page to familiarize yourself with the lingo used on this website

30 thoughts on “Field Report: “3 Guys Battling For 1 Girl At The Club Last Night” [Cockblocks, AMOG’s, Drama, Wingman]

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  1. Yo Ken Ken this ain’t a diss brah but…

    Seems like Guy3 was the real deal and you and the other dude where outmatched, in a situation like that I would walk away and find another target. I ain’t got time to “hoe chase” as Player Supreme would say. It’s either the chick is down for me or not

    I thought you didn’t do 3ways Ken Ken? and whats up twitting/tweeting whilst on the field? this is that gay shit I be talking about fam, that’s why I had to get rid of my twitter. Tons of girls around and I would have my face glued to my phone tweeting like a idiot. So glad I don’t do that no more.


    1. But I admitted that. I said that Guy 3 made us look small. I took the L without excuses. He had the stronger game at least when it came to being dominant. That’s what it came down to with this chick. Guy 3 was just more willing to dominate her while I was too passive on this occasion. I underestimated Guy 3 on the basis that he was like 5’2 and shorty was like 5’10 (in heels). And this goes back to what I’ve always said, height,weight,looks doesn’t matter to women as long as your inner game is strong. I was banking on guy 3 getting blown out because he was mad short. I played that wrong.
      Sent from my BlackBerry® device


    2. I do do 3 ways. But not with 2 chicks(I just don’t think I can manage). But running a train on a girl or tag teaming her like a little submissive slut isn’t a prob with me.
      I always tweet while @ bars and clubs. It kinda gets me hyped and in state. But I didn’t tweet while dancing with her. I did that when I took breathers. Any ordinary night, I’m good once I zone in on my target. I just wasn’t on my game last night since this haven’t happened to me in over a year. It happens to the best of us. The link to TD’s post (stealing horny chick) was about TD losing a chick almost the same way.
      Sent from my BlackBerry® device


  2. Kenny P, nice that you taking young dude under your wing in a sense. from what you wrote in the fr, he got skills for a dude his age.


    1. The reckless abandon style is good. The more reckless you are, the better your chances. Zack has this “I’m going all out” mentality which I like. As men, we naturally lose this reckless nature as we age and settle into adulthood where we now have responsibilities. So I kind of miss that side of myself. So maybe sarging with Zack or going clubbing resurrect that inner beast again. So I’m learning from his style in all reality.


  3. the scene was so tough but ur persistence reflects ur alpha qualities.girls also respond to the same type guy the alpha one had to go with her.


    1. Yea for real. I definitely remain persistent. But there’s a thing line between persistence and needy. I didn’t wanna cross that line. Maybe If I’d walked that line more closely, I would’ve pulled.


  4. This was very funny, lots of details for being tipsy, shell-shocked, etc. I did need an acronym guide next to me while reading though. What is a wingman’s job exactly?


    1. LMAO I expected that. In fact, thanks for reminding me about acronym so I can get an acronym page together for those outside of the seduction community.

      Wingman is basically a guy who goes out with you to pick up girls. He helps you to get the girl by saying something good about you to the girl and stuff like that.

      Thanks for stopping by. I’ll check you out too.


  5. Hmm.. Wingman’s job seems kind of gay. What’s in it for him? I thought a wingman is more like someone who will pass on someone else he’s not necessarily feeling but might be in a group of chicks that he’s trying to infiltrate.


    1. Lol nah, the wingman basically helps. He’s like an assistant. He occupy the obstacles as we’d say. You really only need a wingman if there’s more than 1 girl. For instance, if I’m @ the club talking to a girl and she has a friend, a wingman would tackle the friend basically. Either to try to get with her or to prevent her (verbally) from interrupting her friend and I.
      Sent from my BlackBerry® device


  6. What were you doing all those times you turned around for 10 seconds or whatever!?? I mean really Kenny!
    Why did you keep turning around on her! If you hadn’t, she would’ve ended up with you! She seemed really into you.


    1. @Bossy- Lol I mean I turned around for many reasons that anyone does: 1.) Someone had stepped on my brand-new kicks, so I engaged the person for a sec, 2.) Was talking to my buddy Unit another time…

      But I get you though lol. I would’ve had a better chance if I was more zoned in (which I thought I was).


  7. Sounds like you got incredibly good opportunity to learn something.

    Quick question. I am not big on the night game, but If she grabs your dick isn’t it time to isolate and fuck or at least venue change her especially facing such skilled opponent?


    1. For sure I learned few things that night. Mostly on sharpening my skills. Not to use excuses, but I was drinking also, so my judgment was probably not sharp as it would’ve been if I was totally sober.

      True! Isolating her was the best move after touching my cock, but I took other things into account in my head:

      1.) It was too early, and she probably wouldn’t want to venue change that early.

      2.) I was actually enjoying dancing and wanted to continue dancing with her.

      3.) I never figured it would come down to her getting pulled. My game plan was to wait until the club closes and try to pull to her or my spot or somewhere.
      Sent from my BlackBerry® device


  8. wow, i actually kept up with what you were saying and appreciate the acronym glossery (otherwise i would’ve been completely lost!)

    interesting point on the zombie state. never noticed it before but you make a good point, thought it was the too drunk, exhausted from dancing state

    did you start mentoring your new prodigy :o)


    1. Yea the acronym glossary comes in pretty handy.
      Well, it’s the weekend, so the protege and I are going out later wingmanning it @ the club. Wish us luck in snagging a On-Night Stand chic or something.
      Sent from my BlackBerry® device


  9. Awesome story man. Key word for this story: VALIDATION.

    Women are out to have fun and to get LOADS of validation in these situations. She gets dressed up in a sexy outfit, gets endless looks from men, tons of guys hitting on her, and voila, she feels great about herself. Most of the time, that’s enough for girls.

    So if a guy is not taking it to the next level and pushing it, he’s just giving her validation. She gets her fill, she’s satisfied, she has no more use for him. What Guy3 was doing was pushing and pulling, DHVing (him running over to do the music thing was key in showing he’s a socially dominant man in that venue–that in itself was a turning point), probably qualifying her in his little convos with her, pushing things forward by isolating her and actually getting to know her. Meanwhile you and Guy2 were just validating the shit out of her.

    So she gets to have her cake and eat it too–she gets validated that she’s still a hottie by the two guys grinding and flirting on her all night, AND she gets to go home with one of the most powerful guys in the place.


    1. @Introverted Playboy- Great breakdown bro’. I couldn’t have summed it up better. As much as I don’t wanna admit that I was giving validation; that was what happened. Had I chased more, it would’ve been over for me worse than it was. Guy 3 was dominant as you said, and it was a huge DHV being part of the DJ’s entourage.


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