As a male virgin,a minute of this may make you cum!

As a male virgin, a minute of this may make you cum!

Over at the Master Pick-Up Artist Forum, where I’ve been a lead-PUA coach for a few years now, an aspiring PUA who’s a virgin, asked the following question about sex (you can see the original post here: Virgin in need of sex advice):

Ronn Paul: “Ok guys, there are a lot of virgins on this forum, including me, so i thought this topic could be great for us to ask you guys who are not virgins…

Lately ive been reading some articles about lasting longer in the bed, so i am wondering what is the best way to last longer? What works well for you? Im afraid that first time im gonna have sex i cum too fast, so what should i do before the big FIRST TIME”?

For other virgins out there, or even guy’s who suffer from pre-mature ejaculation; I’ll present my personal techniques to lasting long.

5 Guaranteed Techniques/Tips To Last Longer

1.)”Masturbate Before Sex”

* Worst thing to do is to commence sexual intercourse with balls fully-loaded with semen.

* To kill this would-be problem before it even becomes a problem; download some porn and get to fapping few hours ahead of sex.

* You are sure to last longer as your semen tank would have been emptied much.

2.)”Lower Your Pre-Sex Anticipation”

* The more you think about sex before having it- the faster you’ll cum.

* If sex has been on your horny- little mind all day, and you’re anticipating banging that hot pussy of the HB10 whom you #-closed last week: then you’re gonna ejaculate fast.

* So DON’T think about, nor dwell on sex prior to meeting the chic(for sex presumably).

* You’ll definitely see a difference.

3.)”Don’t Think About Sex During Sex”

* This tip is totally fucking crucial!!

* While fucking a girl doggy-style and you’re saying to yourself, “This bitch got a nice-tight pussy”!! You’re gonna fucking cum LOL!!!

* All pussy-banging players can relate to this one.

* Focus on anything under the sun but sex!!

* Think about trees, cars, Sesame Street, eating waffles…whatever!

* But please don’t think about ass, tits, anal, blowjob, girls, model, etc. while having sex, or you’re gonna blow your load unexpectedly.

4.)”Change Positions Often”

* The longer you stay in 1 position, pounding away, the quicker you’ll blow.

* When you change positions often, 2 things happen:

A.) You get a mini break.

B.) From that short break (of a few seconds), your semen will have dissipated and descended a bit back into the testicles.

* You’ll be surprised how just switching positions within 4 seconds can make you last longer.

5.)”Steal A Break”

* Now I’m not saying to grab the remote and watch an hour of Jersey Shore before resuming sex(although that’d work).

* What I am saying is that after fucking her missionary for instance, opposed to turning her over right away to enter her doggy-style; you can eat her pussy instead for about a minute(essentially stealing a break).

* Other things you can do to steal a break:
โ€ขEat her pussy
โ€ขSuck on her breasts
โ€ขFinger fuck her while kissing her
โ€ขkiss her for a minute
โ€ขTalk dirty to her
โ€ขCaress her

* While doing any of the above,as point #4 stated, your semen will have gone downwards during the break, which means you will last WAY longer.

In Closing

Many virgins, or even guys who are banging pussy, are under the illusion that women want, or need sex to last long (meaning over 20 minutes).

Sex on average lasts under 10 fucking minutes [research it! Or ask your buddies]!!!

Women are not looking for iron-men who can go 3 hours straight!!

And if she does find that guy, she will regret it as her pussy becomes out of commission from exposure to prolong penetration.

So 15 minutes of sex is sufficient for a woman.

And that 15 minutes does NOT have to be non stop.

With all the break, etc., she’s only getting about 7 minutes worth of ACTUAL intercourse!

All the other stuff: foreplay, kissing, cunnilingus(eating), caressing, will give her the false impression that you last long, when in reality, you’ve only penetrated her about 7 minutes out of 30 minutes.

It’s all a mind-fuck and mind-trick!

Apply all or any of the above 5 techniques to your sex game, and you’re sure to see an instant progression.

This can be the new you in the sexual battlefield, once you follow the above 5 tips.

This can be the new you in the sexual battlefield, once you follow the above 5 tips.

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43 responses to “Sex Advice For Males & Male Virgins (anti-pre-mature ejaculation article)”

  1. C.X.Love Avatar

    One guy took that not thinking about sex during sex too literally and started screaming out prime numbers and baseball players names cuz he was trying not to cum (my p*ssy is good)…what bugs me is the guys who say stupid s**t during sex and make me wanna laugh maybe you should warn virgins against that

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      Lmao well thinking about it,maybe that was just a way to keep him from cumming.

      Sounds crazy to be yelling out shit,but it did work for him lol!

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  2. aneroidocean Avatar

    I like switching up the positions, because girls love to be teased, and it does give you a decent break. If you can give a girl a couple positions that feel good that she’s never done before, she will be impressed. I figure out what positions feel best for her while not necessarily being my favorite so that I have no problem lasting long enough and I can make her come.

    Sex is all about calibrating to your partner.

    The guy in the forum thread that girls don’t need much time to get off and that his gf gets off in 3-4 minutes is just plain wrong. Most women have a MUCH harder time getting off than men. Most women are pretty different in how they like their stimulation and how long they take to get off. Some women find it very difficult to get off even masturbating, so take your time to find out what she likes and spend less time trying to stick your dick in her. There are MANY tools to turn a woman on and get them off. If you’re lucky you get a woman who gets off very easily, but it’s not that common.

    Once you can make them come hard, they really aren’t going to care if you get off in 3 minutes or 30, and they’re going to just keep coming back for more. Myself personally I enjoy sex quite a lot, especially getting a girl off more than once, so longer sessions are more the norm for me, but a quickie here and there is awesome too.

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      Great points bro’.

      Calibration is what it comes down to for real.

      Another good point you made was about making the girl cum.

      I find this to be the case with my LTR.She generally takes longer than men to cum(like most women do).But once I can make her cum in about 10 minute of intercourse and the other stuff,she doesn’t care if I last 1 minute longer.

      So it’s not about lasting 2 hours,as long as she cums(which can be 2 minutes).

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      1. thefoodandwinehedonist Avatar
        thefoodandwinehedonist

        Lol!!! #1 is sure fire. The taking breaks is great, too. But I go back to the question of whether it matters if ur done in 10 seconds. Can u win the lottery too early??

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        1. Socialkenny Avatar

          Lol nice point.

          But that’s why I don’t fret about how soon I come.10 minutes is sufficient for me.

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  3. Coldman PUA Avatar

    I encourage all steps here, great tips. Except for #3 โ€Donโ€™t Think About Sex During Sexโ€. How can you enjoy sex when your mind is somewhere else? I know it’s about making you last longer, but damn… you gotta enjoy sex when you’re having it too. Else, what’s the point?
    Also, the girl will know when your mind is somewhere else, and girls get off too knowing you’re really enjoying yourself (or that she’s pleasing you).

    Other than that, great tips though. Especially the change positions and stealing a break one ๐Ÿ˜‰

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    1. aneroidocean Avatar

      But #3 is still solid advice for a virgin. Just like there’s different advice that applies when you just start out learning game, there’s different advice for virgin’s vs. someone more experienced. Someone like Kenny probably doesn’t need to think about something else when having sex as he’s trained himself to be more under control. A virgin has not.

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      1. Socialkenny Avatar

        And that’s what I was tryna communicate.

        In reference to #3,a guy who’s been having sex would be able to get by.But virgins shouldn’t neglect #3 until they gain more experience.

        Nice point in making the distinction.

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  4. Socialkenny Avatar

    What’s up Coldman PUA!

    Been a while bro.I was tryna figure out your blog’s name since I never bookmarked it nor subscribed.

    Good point about the man enjoying sex too.Sure that should be a benefit of sex.But with #3,it’s for the men who are willing to sacrifice a great time for lasting longer.

    I personally don’t care if I cum in 1 minute.I prefer to enjoy sex.But some men,a lot of men,prefer thwe machismo stance of lasting longer.

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    1. Coldman PUA Avatar

      Has been a while indeed. I haven’t posted much on the blog either. But I haven’t quit pickup or anything, just haven’t discovered anything groundbreaking to post about haha

      And yeah, it’s a great tip for lasting longer, no doubt.

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  5. Nifti Avatar

    Kenny Kenny. You are slowly growing on me. Too bold!

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      Whatever that means lol.I never really understood that saying to be honest.Call me dumb.

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      1. Nifti Avatar

        Dumber suits much better ๐Ÿ˜›

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        1. Socialkenny Avatar

          Lol I can live with that one you sexy piece a ass!

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  6. Shaasia via Facebook Avatar
    Shaasia via Facebook

    ok now, i think u need abt 1,000 topics on this
    mayb, just mayb some will get da pic…i done
    chat!…hehehe…

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      Lmao a 1,000 topics will be too much.Maybe I’ll have to hire you for some hlp there.

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  7. Socialkenny Avatar

    @Coldman- I just browsed your blog and ran across our arguments about certain points of Game on some of your previous post.

    How’s it out in Rotterdam?Good I figure.

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  8. mp11312 Avatar
    mp11312

    Excellent advice….can’t say anything more lol

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      As a non virgin I know you can relate lol.

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  9. DQueenWannabe13 Avatar

    “Sex on average lasts under 10 fucking minutes”

    All that hype over sex and it only lasts for around 10 minutes? wtf?

    Talk about an anti-climax

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      Lol I’m telling you!!

      A lot of hype when it’s not all that.On average,I’d say I last between 10-12 minutes.

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  10. Shaasia via Facebook Avatar
    Shaasia via Facebook

    Ok now…we can start whenever you like,bt it won’t be about virgins.it ll b about men who always think they strong but last a minute.

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  11. egointhesea Avatar

    Another tip that I’ve heard of is having her give a nice blowjob beforehand (without ejaculation). I don’t know why, but a lot of people say it makes you last longer.

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      Hell friggin NO lol!!!

      That’s the worst possible thing a chic can do!

      The guy who says this needs to be shot.This is poor advice.Getting a NICE blowjob will obviously only get you closer to cumming.After putting it in,you’re gonna cum prematurely if you don’t know how to pace yourself.

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      1. egointhesea Avatar

        I started googling, and all of the internet agrees with you, haha! I should’ve checked it out beforehand ><

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      2. aneroidocean Avatar

        Hahaha. There may be a few guys that don’t enjoy blow jobs that much, and for them maybe it works, but hell fucking no is right!

        Ask her to start talking about her best friend’s man problems, that might help…

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      3. anonymous Avatar
        anonymous

        I had a chick get ruff wit it and my cox wuz all desensitized frm the gnawing to the point I couldnt cum. Ooooowww

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        1. Socialkenny Avatar

          Lol that could work

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  12. Optimum Awarenessโ„ข Avatar

    This is frickin entertaining!

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      Yea man.Had to incorporate the humor in such a serious post
      Sent from my BlackBerryยฎ device from Digicel

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      1. Optimum Awarenessโ„ข Avatar

        nah,, this is a good post.

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        1. Socialkenny Avatar

          Thanks Wizard. I know you have an eye for talent and good reads.
          Sent from my BlackBerryยฎ device from Digicel

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  13. Caroline Avatar

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  15. Socialkenny Avatar

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    Thanks!!!

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  16. Hot Rodd Todd Avatar

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  17. Junior Jenkins Avatar

    this stuff is mostly true but foreall i can go more than 3 hours doggystyle and im only 15 ha most men cant even last 15 minutes

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    1. Socialkenny Avatar

      I hear you, but what would be the point in going 3 hours? 15 minutes alone will satisfy a woman. No need to kill yourself with the idea that going for 3 hours will help your cause.

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  18. ehsanmirza Avatar

    i want mixcimum time in sex

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  19. Joe Danger Avatar
    Joe Danger

    I actually did all of those things before i even read this just search online to make sure my girl wasnt lying qhen she said i did a good job I’m just a lil shocked but those things really work i just didnt knkqbthe dont think about it one but i came back for round two to save my self

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  20. mari Avatar
    mari

    hello my boyfriend is a virgin and he simply is driving me crazy !!! not only cause dont know anything but he find everything disgusting including pleasing me please write a article about virgins guys! thank u

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    1. K Social Avatar

      That sounds great Mari…as far as writing an article on male virgins. Hope you get it worked out soon

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