Ok, I may get some hate mail for this, but I’ll gladly accept it if it means writing a no-BS post.
There are shit loads of seduction material out there claiming their product can pull any girl.
I don’t mine that mindset; one should be that cocky & confident.
Any chic whom I approach, my frame is such that I believe that I can pull her off to the mini mansion and bang her.
However, the notion that you can “change her mind”, i.e. make her like you…
Newsflash: If a girl doesn’t initially like you- she never will.
If she isn’t attracted to you within the first few minutes(even seconds); then she will never like you.
No routine can convince her to want you if she already has pre-conceived notions that you’re unattractive.
Whether physically, poor body language, incongruencies, etc.
For Whatever reason she doesn’t like you, it will remain [this’ a link between 1st. impression also].
Now here’s the jedi-mind twist:
We all know that when a woman likes a guy, she may act indifferent as if she doesn’t like him.
The fool who doesn’t get this concept would leave set, believing that the girl really didn’t like him.
So, because a girl’s acting shitty towards you after approaching, doesn’t mean she DISLIKES you.
Quite the opposite. I’d be more wary of the polite girl than the semi-rude/cold one.
Women tend to conceal their attraction during the early phase of courtship (ASD at play here).
So never assume she isnt attracted if she’s being a bit frosty. She may still like you but playing it safe.
But knowing that a woman doesn’t like you [you’d gamed her prior without results], yet you still waste time trying to win her over is pointless.