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Weeding Out The Manosphere’s Manginas
With each passing week,I keep having questions about Manosphere:
Dudes who claim that they pull ass;yet have not 1 iota of proof to back their shit up.
So I firstly have to give much Alpha props to PUA’s and seduction coaches like Krauser,Naughty Nomad,Burto,Jesse Charger,my co-author Chelios,etc.
Why?
Because they actually lead Rockstar lifestyles!
And they have no qualms about documenting their in-field experiences(via photos & vid’ clips).
Don’t blog about banging an HB10,yet you have no photo of that HB10.
Sure!Anyone can download a random photo of some hot chic and claim that she’s the HB they’d laid.
But honestly,I doubt a dude would take pride in doing that.
For the guy who thinks it’s unethical:just censor the fucking face!!!
Gmac does it at times(he’d censor the girl’s face whenever he uses her pic).
Also,too many friggin’ dudes in the Manosphere “Claim” that they have “Game” & skills at picking up chics;yet we can’t see them in fucking action via photo/video clips!!
I have to credit my boy Soloist for making power moves when it comes to video clips of picking up hotties.
And he also called me out on Twitter about this a few months ago lol.
He wanted pic’ or vid’ proof of feat or defeat in the field.
Since then,I’d created my Youtube Video Channel dedicated to picking up women and pick-up advice.
A lot of these manginas,condescending pricks like Mentu talk shit;but most likely have ZERO Game.
And let’s get this clear:it’s not only about women.
As advanced PUA’s and coaches like I am,we’ve arrived at a realization juncture,that one should have a life separate from chasing pussy.
As we teach in the seduction community:women are highly attracted to men who lead and live attractive lifestyles.
However,95% of the dudes/bloggers in the Manosphere have no life!!
How do I know this?
They never post shit of “Attraction Value” as far as lifestyle is concerned!!

•A guy who goes swimming(as a hobby or fitness).
•A guy who goes to the fitness gym.
•A guy who’s into some sport[like my boy Stealth PUA of Japan & Chelios of London,who are into Soccer].
•A guy who goes hiking,rock climbing,mountain biking(assuming he lives in a region/area conducive to that).
•A guy who cycles(biking).
•A guy who jogs his area[emphasis on fitness once again].
•A guy who parties,go clubbing,bar hopping,etc.A classic socialite or someone with a social life.
•As much as I detest animals(predominantly dogs),a guy who takes his pet(s) for morning/afternoon strolls at the park(women find this attractive).
•A guy who travels the globe.Even regionally or nationally;as long as he travels.
•A guy who studies foreign languages.
•A guy who’s into some sort of contact sport(boxing,MMA,wrestling,etc.).
I’ve been boxing for over 7 years now[however on and off LOL].
•A guy who does nothing. •A guy whose day consist of work,playing video games,watching movies,then to bed. •A guy who blogs all day(from a desktop that is). I blog from my mobile phone 100% of the time.I’ve actually NEVER written an article from a computer before(since bloggin).Believe it Brodie. Therefore,I can be on the go,yet blog during intervals[same as a guy can from his laptop while traveling]. •A guy who stays home and watch sports or porn all day(on his day off). •A guy who essentially lives for working.From work to home. •A guy who lives on a routine.Which 99% of the time;it’s a boring,monotonous routine(which no chic in her right mind would want any part of). I say all this to say;the Manosphere is littered with guys who have no life,no social life,no social skills,no skills nor experience with picking up women. And it makes the real ones look bad! Your average-Manosphere bloggers/Gamer,is without a doubt your average couch-potato/key-board jockey(as we’d say in the pick-up community): ala Roissy. They talk/write a good one;but they can’t back that shit up!! It’s equivalent to a guy who has all the book/documentary knowledge of boxing. He can illustrate how to throw the most crisp straight-right in the world… He can tell you which round it was that Buster Douglas knocked out Mike Tyson(although he wasn’t even born in the 80′s). Yet,he never stepped foot in the fucking ring [SMFH]! He’s afraid to lace up those gloves actually[equivalent to AA-approach anxiety]. And when he does get propelled or called out(to enter the field/ring),he gets knocked out by a guy who knows nothing about boxing. That is the dichotomy of the average-Manosphere blogger/seducer. He has all the right knowledge in the universe about seducing women:but he CANNOT and does NOT apply them in field! And when a guy like I am calls them the fuck out:I get labeled a nuisance,traitor,asshole,black-sheep,a troublesome nigger who’s stirring shit up as usual… Believe me:the Manosphere do NOT want me around. They do not need a dude stirring shit up who’s gonna call their asses out whenever he smells a rotten fish. I’m the Manosphere’s true nightmare.Not Femin-Nazism!!! It takes a dude on the inside to root out the frauds from the inside. Consider me the Manosphere’s clean-up guy. Just as the Italian Mafia had their specific henchman who weeded out and snuffed out all the undercover rats. I’ve been exposing and weeding out all the Manosphere weaklings,Betas pretending to be Alphas,dudes with NO Game(just book knowledge),and no real-world experience in applying them. So this is why fags like Professor Mentu,Roissy & FFY will forever be envious of guys who actually live the lifestyle that they write about. 99% of the Manosphere Gamers tweet about:Game philosophy,online gaming and irrelevant soundbites from each other. None of them tweet about how much of a productive day they had @ the gym,Football practice,dance class,bi-lingual studies,street pick up,good night @ the club,getting hammered,traveling on the road(on the exception of The Alpha Persona,who talks shit on Twitter at times,but that’s for another article). On the contrary,when I,or fellow pick-up artists tweet,it’s either about a massively great time @ the club,dancing and seducing hot chics tryna pull a one-night stand… Or about doing street pick up/cold approaches and shooting in-field videos of picking up women. Or that I’ve resumed boxing class and I’m tryna game some hottie doing aerobics while I spar… So a grand contrast between PUA’s and Manosphere. Pick-Up Artists actually lives a rockstar lifestyle and actually have a life outside of chasing pussy. Manosphere dudes have no life apart from keyboard jockeying all day. And my un-official duty will forever be to weed out the fakes,and hope we can attract some actual Gamers into the Manosphere. My parting message to those Manosphere manginas:Get The Fuck Off The Couch!! Peace out!!
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Q & A of the week:”When should he call”?

Ok guys,I promised a Q & A segment to my blog,where I would be asking some of my female Facebook friends questions on dating.With their consent of course[Kenny does have etiquette at times LOL],I’d be posting a pic’ with a fake name[Fuck off stalkers!!].The questions were asked in real time via Facebook chat BTW(interesting),so these are women I generally chat the shit with.
Every guy who dates or picks up chics, has heard about the ’3-Day Rule’,where the guy shouldn’t call nor contact the girl before 3 days of getting the digits.For obvious reason of not looking desperate.Being a curious bastard as I am,I wanted to get a general feedback from every-day women on this subject.Here we go.
Cool-sexy chic I met days ago via mutual friends on Facebook,so I threw her in the fray.
Q.If a guy was to get your # and he calls the same night,would you see that as desperate?
A.
“Nope.Not really.Says that he’s interested”
Q.Ok cool.Should he wait to call?
A.
“Well to me:it doesn’t really matter but it shows that he’s interested.But others have their own opinion”.
Me:Some women say that the guy would look desperate calling the same night.
T.T.
“Unless he reaches the point where he’s just calling str8 then that’s another story”.
KW’s a hot MILF I’ve been Facebook friends with for a while now.We probably have like 40 mutual friends,so she’s essentially in my social circle(online at least).
Q.Ok,if you gave a guy your # and he calls the same night,would you think he’s desperate?
A.
“No”.
Q.So how long should he wait to call?Few days or what?
A.
“No just call her”.
Me:”Some women say that it looks desperate to call the same day.What do you say”?
A.
“No it’s not desperate…what’s the difference if he calls the same night or 2 weeks lata”?
Cute Bronx chica I’d met on POF dating site.
Q.If you give a guy the digits and he hits you up the same day/same night,would you say thats’ needy and desperate?
A.
“Umm no not desperate but I need to keep my eyez open lol”.
Q.Lol,so when should he call?
A.
“Maybe that same week.But can definitely text show that he’s interested”.
Cool Asian girl I met on POF too.She’s quite interesting with her insights.
Q.If you give a guy your # and he contacts you the same day or night,would that seem desperate?
A.
“Yea.Why”?
Q.Ok,but why would that be?
A.
“Maybe he just wants a booty call”.
Q.So generally,how long should the guy wait to contact you to not seem desperate for a booty call
A.
“Umm maybe a week not sure”.
Findings & Conclusion
Wow-that was interesting to find out where women stand(supposedly).
We in the seduction community, already know that what a girl wants and expects LOGICALLY, isn’t what she wants,expects or goes for EMOTIONALLY.
Anyway,the most interesting finding here(for me),is that most of the women I surveyed, do NOT think it’d be needy and desperate to call the same day/night of getting the digits.
Yet it’s still a catch 22 though with going for what a girl says and what she actually responds to.
But I like the point made by Miz(the Bronx chica) about the guy texting same day/night to show that he’s still interested.
That’s key!And I happen to do that shit most times.Rather running the risk of the girl forgetting who you are,it’s worth it sending a short text with built-in humor(based on the initial chat).
The hidden beauty of this Q & A post is that it could be used as an opinion opener in street approaches or wherever.Cool shit right?
BTW,I got the concept(indirectly) for doing this from my boys Solo and Drew,who’s doing an interview-type thing in NYC for his blog via Twitter.
My field report from the club
She couldn’t dance really…but whateva!
Hey guys,this post has been revised with some more details and added tags and stuff which I didn’t include prior.
I’m gonna be rambling a lot in this post about my observations at the club the other night.
Everything from how cut-throat club gaming can be for some guys.And successful for others.
It was a wicked night for me(in a good sense)as far as fun goes.
Ok lets’ get started:
Arrived early as usual to get comfortable in the venue while there’s less people.
Holy shit!!!The joint was already packed at 12 a.m.!!!
Out the damn window goes my plan of trying to beat the crowd to gain a foot-hold of comfort.
Good thing my state was already pumped since I’d gamed 3 girls 10 minutes earlier.
All bars were over crowded from every friggin’ angle.
I literally waited 45 minutes trying to get drinks shouting at the bartenders(lol).
Got fed up of standing around like an AFC so I yelled to a guy infront of me,”Hey order me a water and Redbull and I’ll buy you a drink too”.
He was way ahead of me dealing with the bartender so I saved another 45 minutes by doing that.
Met up with the boys/wingmen;we hi-fived.
The water & Redbull in hand made me stand out frrom 99% of the guys getting wasted.
Oh,but this’ a major part of my club game;girls would open me with slick comments,”why are you drinking soda in a club”?
As usual,it happened last night but I ignored the 2-set of undesirables by walking off.
Spotted my biological sister Pepper[her pseudonym].
She asked me to buy her a juice(OJ).
Damn!!!
Definitely dont want HB’s in the peripherary seeing me buying drinks like an AFC.
But I said to myself,”my sister’s super hot(a 10).Why not borrow her for some social proof”?
I know that sounds devilish but(lol)…
Anyway,we paraded to the bar hugged up looking like a couple.
Little do they know this’ my big sister.
Noticed an HB10 & 9.5 two set eyeing me subtly as I rolled off from my sis’.
Approached the 2 set with an opener on the fly,”which 1 of yall is the best dancer”?
Music so damn loud,I had to break a community rule by leaning in(pecking).
Stepped on the target’s foot inadvertently(lol).
Dance with both of them.
They’re sisters actually from Jersey vacationing here since the Summer.
Some guy had enough balls or alcohol to approach the set.He managed to get the other sister’s attention.
Could’ve been a guy they knew.
I rolled out after dancing for 3 minutes in order to not look too needy.Plus I wanted to work the room.
Im at a in my life where Im more focused on social-circle gaming opposed to snagging a lone wolf for the lay.
Plus I’ve been in an LTR of 2 years so f-closing isnt my primary goal.
strolling pass the bar,Im well peacocked as usual with beeded necklace and a colorful-type feathered necklace.
HB 9 with huge tits taps me on the arm from about 5 yards away and smiled.
I figured she was probably a gold-digger fishing for drinks so I just shrugged her off with a forced smile.
Hi-fived some random guys passing.
1 of them engaged me,telling me about how wasted he is.
Back to the center of the dance floor.
2 chubby girls dancing erratically as if at a parade high off something.
My policy is,”chat up everyone”.
So I grabbed their hands and said something neggish(can’t remember what).
1 of them felt offended and pulled away with a sour face.
The hotter one was all into me.She had an English/UK accent which I find annoying and sexy at the same time.
Rolled off!
Bumped into the 2 set of HB10′s again from Jersey.
Me:”Hey let’s dance[I never ask nor verbalize it,but I did this time].
HB10(the target):”What!?Cant hear you”!!
Ok cool,so I just started grinding her thighs from the side.
So fucking semi-drunk guy approaches us and fucks up the set & the vibe.
Chicc chats to the drunk guy while I grind her.
I could’ve pulled her away to isolation but…
Drunk guy tries AMOG me and saying that the chicc doesnt want to dance with me.
She gets annoyed by him and starts a mini-argument so I rolled off.
Spots a chubby girl from New York who I knew from back-in-the day.
Chatted and danced.She couldn’t dance so I rolled off.
HB10 almost knocks the drink out my hand trying to get away from some player-type guy.
She aplogized,we chatted and danced.fount out she’s from St.Thomas U.S.Virgin Islands.
Some guy external interrupts.She Told me it’s her brother(lol).
I roll off.
For the guys saying,”why the fuck are you rolling off from all those sets”!?
Remember guys,I was not looking to f-close nor # close anyone.So no point in building a connection,etc.
My game over he past 2 years has been foused on being “more social”.
If the lay comes-I’d take it!
Chat up a 2 set:1 chubby,the other slim.
Me:”You look pretty shy.Im tempted to loosen you up”.
Made mistake of ignoring the friend so the HB8 gave me a subtle fuck-off via body language and facial expression.
HB8:”Im always shy.Cant be loosen”.
I stalled so rolled off.
Bumped into HB again I knew from New York:
Me:”Whats up”?
HB NYC:”Tryna buy a drink but I must be invisible;cant get through”.
I went AFC’ish and tried getting bartender’s attention by damn near crawling over the counter(lmao).
Why did I do this?Dont know but it was very fucking try-hard and DLV’d me.
Random guy from across the bar motions to her with his hand as if to say to her,”do you want a drink”?
She nods head in affirmative.
He buys her drink then bring it over.
HB NYC @ me:”I got my drink so thanks for trying to get the bartender’s attention”.
I tried play it off,”Nah I was getting a drink for myself mainly”.
Bullshit!!!!
A buddy comes to me:
Wingman:”Hey Yata(my local nickname),Im looking for this bad-ass chicc wearing…….but I cant find her”.
He was actually gaming the same HB10 from New Jersey I danced with earlier.But she got pulled by some Don Juan-type natural.
Damn,my wingman getting schooled by the natural;eventhough my wing’s a natural gamer also like the Don Juan guy.
5 minutes later,spotted Jersey 2 set with the smooth natural.
Informed my wingman so he rolls over but the other natural guy seemed to have her hooked already.So he isolated her.
Damn he got isolation game for not being a community guy.
Wing is pissed off.
Ran into HB9 St.Thomas again who told me the guy who interrupted was her brother.
We danced,I complimented her(direct game which I never do).
Took a sip of her cocctail.
Some random-fucking guy again interrupts.
They hugged so they obviously knew each other.
I rolled out instead of standing there like a clown while she chats with the acquaintant.
Approached a lone wolf HB10 in the face but 8 in the body.
Danced for a minute without saying a word to her.
HB10:”Who said I wanted to dance”?
Ignored her comment and kept grinding her while holding her around the waiste.
Her comment was flirty opposed to bitchy so it was all good.
Fount out she was from Dominica.Not Dominican Republic,but another Caribbean island with the same name but English speaking.
Rolled off.
Entered a dancing-mixed set.
Grabbed onto a model-figure chicc who was about 6’3.
She looked back as if to see who the hell was grinding her:ugly or cute.
I guess she thought I was ugly so she moved away.
How embarrassing but I kept cool as a cucumber.
It’s near 5 a.m.Heading for the exit.
My cousin Tawana from NYC grabs me and introduced me to her friend;and HB10.
We took group pics’.
I said to the HB10,”Make sure you post them on Facebook”.
I had the perfect logistics to seduce her since my cousin introd’ us but I was mentally drained at that moment to game anyone.
Headed for the exit.
Opened an HB7 with huge tits in a 2 set with a silly opener on the fly.
Me:”Hey I spotted your boyfriend dancing with some girl.You should get revenge by us dancing”.
I never expected this could-be fallacious opener to hook.
I just did it to be an asshole while leaving the venue.
But the HB7 grabs me and starts grinding me.
Wow-openers really dont matter in clubs.All about body language projection.
My cousin took some pics of me grinding the 7.
She shies away from the cam so I bounced.
HB Dominica outside the club being chat up by some smooth-looking guy.
Me:”Hey partner,she’s a good girl.Take care of her”.
Taps him on the shoulder then bounced.
The HB10 from Jersey I was dancing with earlier whom my wingman was gaming,was standing arm in arm kissing with the alpha-natural dude who out gamed my wing.
Wow,this is really battle of the fittest.
Strongest survives.Strongest gets laid.
I learned a lot from the other night at the Lyme nightclub.
1)Other guys are waiting in the cut for you to open a girl(s)to seize the opportunity to capitalize off you gaming her.
2)Girls are fucking friendly and social.
Every girl I chatted up communicated with me.
3)Girls like audacity & balls.Just dance with her-dont ask!
4)Longer you chat or dance with her on the spot,greater chance of some random guy interrupting.
So it’s advantageous to venue change,or isolate instantly!!!
My wing,who usually does great,got fucked over by opting to chat up the girl at the bar instead of pulling her to isolation at the lounge or outside.
All in all,I had massive fun eventhough it didn’t result in a lay;mainly ’cause I didnt push for it.
Check out this related post which deals with dance-floor gaming,etc.bySoloist 2.0 http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/a-simple-tip-that-will-help-your-game-by-9000/
Peace out!















