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Bar-Girl Field Report Broken Down
It’s 1 A.M.(Saturday morning),just strolling in from my grandma’s.Had few Coors Lights so I’m a bit tipsy as I scribe this report[excuse the slurs].
*Outside the bar,spotted a sexy 8 entering the joint solo.I rolled in 5 minutes later,went to the bar,bantered with the sexy- hired gun[bartender]about the crappy-ass music they were playing[building social proof for the 8 to see].Tried convincing her to give me a free drink to no avail[at least I tried lol].Struck up a little fluff-talk convo with another HB8 on the stool beside me:”Don’t tell me you’re addicted to that too[she was playing 1 of those scratch-lottery thingy]“?She blurted out “No”!
*After some more fluff about lottery and music,the ‘USUALS’ started rolling in,giving me some shitty looks as if I was intruding on their territory.Scanned my periphery and noticed my original target[the 8] sitting alone at a table bobbing her head to the music.At that point,I ramp my social skills up a notch so she sees what a cool/social guy I was.So I engaged the sexier bartender and the lotto-girl in a 3-way chat about beers.
*Took a swig of the Coors,glanced over and locked eyes with the target.We locked eyes for about 1.5 seconds(which is pretty fucking long).I was surprised and impressed that she didn’t look away instantly as she was caught staring and gazing at me.That was all I needed to see to know that it was ‘ON’ like Donkey Kong,and she was liking the merchandise[IOI central].
*5 minutes later,I still hadn’t approached her(kept building social proof by she seeing me chatting with other girls).I wanted to be social proofed out the ass!!!
*Ok it’s time.Enough of the preliminaries and eye contact.We locked eyes again, so I approached her table.I could overhear few guys talking shit as if they were rooting for me to get an epic rejection LMAO!
*I thought of a quick opening line[canned or what?],then decided to go with a situational opener(opener based on what’s happening around us).Perfect on-the fly opener came to me in a nano-second as I strolled over to her:
Me:[with a cocky,sly smile]“So…just let me know straight up.You like what you see or not”?
HB8:[Giggles and laughs.I actually didn't expect this reaction]“What are you talking about”?
Me:“Come on SMH:don’t play smart now.I see you checking me out all night.You must like what you see”.
HB8:[More laughter]“I was actually looking at the girl next to you scratching all those lotto tickets”.
[Of course I knew it was instant bullshit].
Me:“There wasn’t no chic next to me.Let me find out you were checking out that old- sleazy guy over there lol”.
HB8:[Laughs hysterically]…”.
I can’t remember what else was said verbatim(word for word).But I rolled off on a good note(leaving her giggly) with all my cock-funny shit.Reason for me rolling off is “pick-up 101″:didn’t want to come off as needy,or as if I was gonna be hounding her all night like a loser.So,by rolling off,it intrigued her and subcommunicated to her that I was a Man of Substance.
*Went outside,fiddled with my iPhone a bit and tweeted what was going down[Soloist knows what's up],re-entered the bar,chat up 1 of the bartenders and some dude next to me.HB8 looking bored as hell(most likely wondering why I bounced and wishing I’d return).So I went back over to her.This time,I knew that she wouldn’t mine if I stay longer,so I said to her:“pass me the other chair so I can sit.That’s pretty rude that you didn’t even suggest I sit”..
So that was 1 of my techniques of putting the girl on the spot.
*We sat and chatter for about 45 min.,with me of course occasionally getting up and leaving for a minute or two to take a piss and chat up some other girls(to let her know that she had to work for my ass to stay).
HB8:“I’ve been coming to this bar for the past 2 months but never seen you”.
Me:[Her interest level skyrocketing]“Actually I seen you the other week and wanted to approach but you had an army of guys swarming you.IDK if they were your bodyguards but I didn’t wanna get beat up”.
HB8:[She hits me on my shoulder/IOI]“These guys here are boring.I sat all night bored”.[Her way of letting me know she's available and wanted more stimulation].
*Holy shit!!!!This chic had a whole bottle of Smirnoff Vodka for herself LMAO!She told me it was for her and her date.That’s when I figured someone was to meet her.I busted on her about her date standing her up or that we should leave and hide from him.
Flirt meter is on maximum right now!
*We talked about drinking,who could handle the most:women or men,she mentioned that she “ loves to dance and sweat out the alcohol “[sweating indicates hot-steamy sex to me lol],then we had a damn-near 10 minutes dialogue on Body Piercings.Said she always wanted a tongue ring[oral baby lmao!],I fibbed and told her that I have one,so come closer to see it[but I never followed through].Then she said,” What about other piercings like below? “.Woa!!!After telling her I love to see piercings “downtown”,she hits me in a playful-flirty manner[IOI]…
*Coulda,Woulda,Shoulda moment:At that juncture(after she hits me,laughing about pussy-lip piercing,I could’ve gone in for the kiss-close make out right on the spot[fuck man!!].
Now,I know to guys who have no Game,or to the feminists,that’s tantamount to molestation and sexual harassment,by making out with a strange girl at a bar.But to a pick-up artist and a woman in heat:that’s perfectly acceptable dammit!!She craves for a guy who can be that bold to seize the fucking moment.However,I bitched out on the moment to grab her and tongue her down[SMDH].
*She invited me to go clubbing with her later on after the bar.I declined.Why?I’m not accompanying any girl to the club,to then get lost in the charged atmosphere .If I met her at the club:then cool,I have to seduce her there”.But I felt it would’ve been a step backward to take her clubbing.Fuck clubbing!I wanna take her home!
*It’s almost an hour later and her would-be date hadn’t arrived[I knew it was bullshit.She was basically tryna convince me that she was highly desired by men].I decided it was time to get her #:
Me: “So are you allowed to give out your #?I mean it’s OK if you can’t.I really wouldn’t want your secret-husband to find out that a sexy guy like me was tryna seduce his wife lol”.
HB8:”LHAO you are funny.I don’t have a husband nor anyone to answer to “.
Me:“It betta not be a fake # or I’m gonna spank that ass!I’m gonna call it right now to confirm,so tell me the truth now if it’s a fake.I won’t be mad at you if it is”.
HB8:“LHAO it’s not a fake.Call it right now-I bet you”!
BTW,that’s a little trick I learned years ago from a natural[calling her bluff by threatening to call her on the spot].
*The # was official(as expected).I told her to “put a sexy name with my # in your phone.Something like Sexy K”.
*As much as I’m down for banging her right away,I had to run some errands for my grandma before it got too late[DAMN!!!]!!! Told her that I was leaving her to the fun & interesting guys since I was obviously making her bored[I was basically rubbing it in since I knew I was the most interesting and ballsy guy in the bar.Ok I know that sounds condescending but...].
*10 minutes later,I sent her a text message telling her to enjoy at the bar and the club later on.And that I might just meet up with her at the club[which I didn't mean by the way].
The key points in last night’s pick-up were these:
1.Before I approached,I craftily made sure she seen me chatting to other girls and guys.This made her see that I was Social,Safe & Well-Liked .By approaching with this groundwork set:there’s no way on Earth she would’ve rejected me.This is the essence of social-circle game.I was virtually rejection-proof at that point!
2.I approached her confidently and cocky.Not giving a shit to offend by assuming she was checking me out.Assumption openers are my favorite.
3.I False-Time Constraint.That’s pick-up community jargon for positioning your body as though you’re about to leave,or not intending to stay long.So instead of grabbing a chair and sit right away,I acted as if I was leaving,continued chatting then went back to the bar counter.
4.I kept getting up,kept chatting to other women in the venue.Other guys would’ve been glued to the seat all night,giving her undivided attention(which she doesn’t deserve at that point).
5.My vibe said to her that in order to keep me chatting with you,you’re gonna have to work harder and show more interest in me .By getting up continuously,it says to her subconscious that she’s boring me,and I’m not that into her.That would then trigger her to show more interest by subtle signs[IOI's].In turn,what did she do when I sat back down?She showed more interest in me by smiling more,laughing more,subconsciously turning her body towards me more,flirting more,talking more,asking more questions…
6.I teased her a lot,busted on her,laughed at her…I basically had an IDGAF persona.Obviously,that made her more interested in me[Krauser PUA is good at this.]
7.I never rushed for her phone #.I could’ve done what most guys would:nervously talk to her for half a minute via boring questions.Ask for her #(without any attraction),get the fake # then leave.Or if she does give a real #,she would just not answer whenever he calls. By me getting her # almost an hour down the road:it was guaranteed to be a REAL #,and we would’ve had more rapport and connection.
1.I didn’t touch her often enough[KINO].Somehow,I felt a bit too pussy to get more physical as usual[I should've went Arab Game on her].
2.I didn’t suggest we bounce together for a walk or something.I stayed too fucking long in the same location!
3.As the first mistake pointed out:I could’ve been more sexual,more touchy,and went for the kiss as I noticed she was opened for it. Hey Solo,I know you said on Twitter that you wanted some pic’ proof.Stay tuned bro’ lol.
Field report:”KINO lesson-the Arab way”.
It’s been 3 straight nights of hard-bar game at the same bar I gamed at 2 nights ago[Christmas Eve Field Report(at the bar)].I’m going and going like a damn energizer-bunny!!!
Last night,I entered the bar and spotted a 2 set chubby girls sitting alone at a table waiting on drinks.I wasn’t gonna wait around like an anti-social dude,so I said WTH,I might as well entertain the fatties until some hotter girls rolled in[social proof].So I rolled over to their table[an empty seat was there],time constraint,sat down by saying,”I’m not asking anyone’s permission to sit here.It’s a free world so let’s enjoy the freedom while it lasts”.Cheeky/cocky-funny lines like those are my favorite.They never fail me.I threw it with a sly smile and the girls giggled away at how ballsy I was.
A while later,some Arab dude rolled up to the table,introduced himself,started chatting up the other fatty,grabbed a seat and started gaming lol.Talk about balls.This MOFO had game and exuded an alpha confidence that made me look like a fucking looser!The thing that was surprising about his verbal game(which I over heard via his poor English)was that he used negs and he never held back on saying shit that the average guy would see as ‘forward,disrespectful and inappropriate’.This MOFO natural had game lol!
Most of all:he KINO’d the fuck out of that girl LMAO!!!Right off the bat!!!
It wasn’t loud at all in the venue,but the Syrian-Rico Suave understood KINO and getting close,so he was all up in her ear and on her shoulders.
The girl was totally into him after a while:getting all up into his space.
Doesn’t he look like Fatush from the movie Zohan with the bandana on his head LMAO?
I wasn’t doing much of anything besides waiting for some HB’s to come through.I mean-I was definitely active(verbally)and keeping the vibe up,but I wasn’t engaging my fatty despite talking to me.One more beer and those chubbies probably would be looking like models I would lay,but I just drank a Coors and relaxed.
Funny thing about it though,these girls were fucking buying out their asses!!I never had to spend a dime.Neither did the Syrian dude lol.This guy was awesome in that he didn’t go AFC and buy drinks.These girls were literally slinging drinks at us as if to get us drunk or something!!!They ordered some tacos and pizza for all of us[go figure-they really should not have been eating that shit lol].
About 2 hours in,some HB9′s rolled in so I approached and open at the counter,“Hey,you’re that girl who stood me up the other night[with a smile of course].That was messed up.The 2 set smiled and giggled and denied it was her.The fatter one gravitated to me as if she planned on picking me up.What the fuck is with me and big girls!?They seem to always try re-open me and select me as their targets.
Hot chic in white was my target who I’d hit with the ‘stood me up’ line.
My target was the trim one but the bigger one basically brushed her aside and started engaging me!Fuck!!!So the slimmer one was being chatted up by some AFC dude.I was literally in set for like 45 minutes with this hefty girl(who was mighty cute in the face BTW lol) but she kept pushing comfort/rapport stuff looking for a deep connection by talking to me about having a miscarriage years ago…So I snuck back off to the original fatty-set.The Arab dude was hugged up with his,2 other black dudes were at the table tag teaming the other one.The girls was busting on me for bouncing on them…
The key lesson for all of us(from the Syrian-Rico Suave)is this:
KINO,KINO,KINO!!!And you don’t have to buy girls drinks in order to get some play.Have the girls buy you drinks instead.That’s a more powerful tactic to make her invest.
This dude pecked her on the cheeks,hugged her,touched her waist(after talking about some body tattoos),massaged her arms,tugged on her chubby cheeks like a mom would do to her chubby baby lol.This fucking dude was the quintessential example of an Alpha.His calibration and timing was so ‘ON’ that whenever he’d KINO’d,the girl never recoiled since it wasn’t awkward.
I learned a lot last night from the Arab stallion lol.Who knows what the hell happened.They all left together(while I was engaging some other girls).Maybe they had a fatty 3-some.
I wanna believe KINO is huge in the Middle-East,or at least customary.because the way this guy came off from the gate seems as if it’s something he was born with.
And check out Christmas Eve Field Report.
Gaming my sister’s friends[social proof]
This was the HB’s wardrobe for Halloween I stole from her Facebook page(with her consent if course lol.
Taking advantage of social proof with my sisters’ friends:
I’ve noticed a trend as of late with my sisters’ girlfriends:it’s way easy to game them(lol)!!!
I never game my sisters’ friends through out the years.I just seen them as off limits and having a great potential to backfire and screw up her social circle.
But lately[past month],it’s as if a friggin’ lightbulb suddenly came on in my head with the following message in bold:
“It’s a gold mine and easy ass in seducing my sisters’ friends”
Say no more(lol)!!
Many nights of struggling in field trying to game girls who are just not interested,I find gaming her friends to be a godsend.
Last night:
To further explore this theory,I pre-planned a meet up with my paternal sister at a Soca concert last night at a club.
Knowing she always rolls with HB’s(8 and better),I was super hype about the prospects(yes)!!
We met,chatted a bit in the venue(making sure that all the HB’s in our immediate circumference see us),then somewhere during the dialogue,we made it known that we were siblings[chi ching-lol].
So I wasn’t just some random- fucking Joe Blow trying to hit on her and her social circle:I was her brother,thus forcing the group to automatically respect social norms to accept me[thanks toLove System's violation theory article for this trick and tip]
With this dynamic,the guy can virtually get away with murder!
You would literally have to do something extremely over the top for these girls to shut you down(in a bitchy way).
Having your sister(even brother)as part of this social group ensures inclusion, and basically grants you immunity from( blatant) rejection.
Even if her friends are disgusted by you, and even if you looked like an ultra-jacked-up version of Shrek,her friends are obliged via social norms(which is unwritten but intelligible and understood)to not reject you.
I used to see guys do this all the time and get away with murder.But I never understood what was taking place-nor the psychology behind it.
I would say to myself,”Why the fuck isn’t she slapping the shit out of that asshole”?
Then to later find out that the leader of the group(alpha female) was his sister.
I have a guy-friend who resembles Shrek:literally!
And he has a brother who’s super popular(a ball player)who gets laid.
So whenever we go out clubbing,my friend(the Shrek-look alike),would be gaming girls off his broher’s popularity:eating his brothers’ proverbial crumbs lol!
So while 3 girls would be chatting with his brother,my friend would be grinding on one of their asses an doin overboard shit!
And none of these chiccs would recoil and pull away.
So last night with my sister’s group,I tested this model.
I shot a text message to my sister telling her to meet me near the exit on the dancefloor:and bring her friends.
They all came over after spotting me in the crowd and they all were dancing infront of me(a 4 set).So I shouted to the group,”Hey sis”!Re affirming that I’m ‘safe’.
Then I grabbed the hands of the hottest girl in her group(an HB10)and grind the shit out of her for 10 seconds lol!
Twirling around like a Whirling Dervish,I grabbed another one of her gf’s from behind and grinded her for few minutes while my sister laughed lmao!
Feeling a burst of empowerment and the liquor in my system,the sleazy side of me came out:which I never knew I had BTW lol.
If The dynamics were different where as my sister wasn’t part of this circle,I probably would’ve caught a groping charge or got stomped out by a bunch of girls lol.
Later on,I isolated the hottest one from the set,chatted with her about Facebook while we playfully tug at each other[well-me doing most of the tugging].
Such flirting went back and forth few minutes and I slapped her on her perky ass and proceeded to grim on her thighs for a bit more.
Push comes to shove,I could’ve had my sister bring her back to my crib or something but I wasn’t even thinking that far ahead to lay anything.
Conclusion:
I now realize that having a sister who’s into the social scene and nightlife is like sitting on a gold mine,as far as picking up chiccs is concerned.
This is social-circle game at its pinnacle.
Curious to know if other guys out there are privy to this concept.
Chelios PUA
