Letter to a girl[from the heart]

I was just rummaging through some junk I had thrown under my bed[old cassettes,sneakers,documents...].Through the midst of cobwebs and dirty socks which probably have been there for years now lmao,lo and friggin’ behold:a letter to a girl.

Disclaimer:This letter is bound to make every guy in the ‘Manosphere’ cring!The most cheesiest of men/Beta Males will undoubtedly feel a rush of anger towards me.I might be deposed and banned from the pick-up community(despite this letter being some years old,before I fully learned ‘Game’).I was still pretty much a newbie to seducing women.So please forgive me dear Gods of Pick-Up,for I have sinned gravely by way of the following scribe.

Female readers, on the other hand ,may feel their warm hearts flutter as they read the letter.

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Background:

In 2006,I was pretty much still under the poisonous- false notion that the only way to a woman’s heart or vagina is via:sweet words,flattery,romance and heart-felt letters.

I was always great with words and diction(since I loved poetry as a kid coming up).I’d make Shakespeare’s ass look like a fucking amateur-hour poet at the Apollo LMAO!

Anywho,my buddy Unit had hooked me up with a mutual friend of his:her name is Kim.We met up,got acquainted,hung out for a day,she went back to her town…So I decided it was time to let it all hang out the only way I knew how:through a heart-felt letter.

This was about a week after meeting[One-tis is a MOFO lmao].I mailed her the letter and kept a rough draft for myself.Ok-here it goes verbatim,word for word(no edits,no cuts).

“What’s up Kim?I’m writing this letter from the heart,and I want you to study it and think about what I was saying on the phone.Words alone can’t express how I feel about you,but for starters,I want to let you know that I love you,and I’ve fallen in love with you from the first time I laid eyes on you Kim.I fell in love with your beauty,and I was surprised that ****** actually hooked me up with a young girl as pretty as you.I felt below your standards.I couldn’t see us together because your beauty and good looks were too much for me to handle at the time.Baby,I love you everything about you;especially that bright smile you had that seems to melt my heart.Most of all is your inner beauty that attracts me to death.You are sweet and have the charms of a little baby(total innocence),and when I’m with you,you make me feel special to know that I have a special girl in you Kim.I love you and mean it.Don’t let hating-ass niggaz ruin what we had,should have and will have”.

Wow!That was fucking painful!I can’t believe I wrote that as I retrospect SMDH.I barely knew the girl but for a week and change and only met her once.But that was my MO.That was vintage Kenny with every girl I met prior to 2006 lmao!I thought that was the way to go in order to build a relationship with a girl-or frankly just to get some coochie.I felt that I had to go R&B and Poetry.

95% of women reading this may say to themselves:”That was lovely!I wish I fount a man like that who was so expressive and genuine”.But let’s see how it plays out with Kim and I.

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Story Continues:

She got the letter,exclaimed how much she loved it and showed her friends…

A month later(following more mushy/Beta stuff from me),we officially went ‘Exclusive’.We were dating.She became my GF.We were in a relationship[talk about rush].

My friend Unit and I rented a house for the 4 of us to stay as roomies[my GF and I,and Unit and his GF].So we were 2 best-friends couples.Unit and I were besfriends.Kim and Unit’s GF were besties.Couldn’t get any better than that lol.

Within a week of lodging together:guess what happened?She ran out on me lmao.Nah just kidding.Read on!

I walked in from work one day(at 5 pm) and caught her fucking another guy in OUR bed!Yep-she cheated in the worst way!Red fucking handed before sunset.This chic was brazen and bare-faced since she knew that I usually come home at 5 SMH!So she showed that she didn’t care nor value our relationship in the worst way.

But Ultimately-I’m the one to be blamed.I rushed things.I fell for a stranger.I was playing the romance card when she was just out for a fuck and good time.

Irony is:Kim and I are cool as hell to this day lmao.She hated the old me(in 2006)who was romancing her and simping(as Reema would say).Ever since learning pick up and becoming a real man/badass who frowns upon seducing women via romance,Kim has been chasing me down for the past few years lmao.Trying to seduce me,buy me,lure me…I mean-we’re mad cool though lol!I had hung out with her 3 times since,but I wasn’t into her at all.

Do I blame Kim?Then-yes.Now?Hell NO!!Any girl would have cheated eventually after being with a doormat,a wuss/nice guy!

For all I know,she’s probably reading this since we’re Facebook friends and she sees all my blog posts.We talk on the phone every other week so there’s no ill feelings on my part.

So,for every guy checking out this post,learn this lesson at least:Women do NOT like nice guys!Women do NOT appreciate nice guys nor nice gestures when done PREMATURELY!

Get her to do anything you want sexually

Fore-Note:if you’re planning on doing this with a girl with a girl you’ve already been banging-then this post is not for you!
*If you laid her more than twice,this is not for you.
*If the flames went out(between y’all)-read no further.
*If you’re planning on doing this with your GF:read no further ’cause it will not work.Get it brodie?

I’ll explain why later.

Ok,for those of us who’ve been studying social dynamics and game,it should be common knowledge already,that when seducing a girl,there’s a window of opportunity/chance,where the guy must act before that windows is slammed shut!Which means:no booty for you lol.

I’m taking it a step further to say,there’s a window of opportunity to make ALL your wildest/dirtiest fantasies with a girl materialize.I mean every!No matter how pristine or stuck-up the chic.She will defy all moral standards she held prior to meeting you!From classy to trashy!

This the type of shit that could possibly land me behind bars LMAO!

If you don’t notice this opportunity,you will lose out,and most likely have to settle for normal sex!If normal,boring sex is your thing-then read no further!

So,the best time to introduce your fantasies and get her to do anything you want sexually, is before you have sex with her(for the first time).

You MUST do this on a high note.Meaning:when the girl is totally into you and DTF.

The girl MUST be feeling you in order to pull this off.

Introducing fantasies:

We all have fantasies.Some already fulfilled,some not,some we may wish to relive.

Let’s say you meet the girl in any standard way:street pick up,online,club,bar,wherever!Y’all hit it off,exchange #’s,transition to phone game in order to set up a date or meet-up.

We can assume this girl is obviously into you if she’s willing to meet up.

At some point(before actually setting up a meet or lay),yall should’ve already had some sexual chat about your fantasies,etc.So you’re letting her know what you’re into sexually.So it won’t startle her later.

It’s not a perquisite nor must that she even knows your fantasies and sexual desires with her.

This is where guys go wrong.They end up banging the chic more than once,then weeks or months down the line(while dealing with her),he wants to introduce fantasies and all types of wild shit!

That will not work!It wouldve been too late.That window of opportunity has closed!

Intense feelings would’ve developed whereas she sees you as a possible boyfriend.

You wanna introduce wild things BEFORE she starts to see you as a possible boyfriend.Which is prior to sex or perhaps after laying her once.

Telling her about a 3-some, 3 months down the line after laying her 10 times already would get you no where but an uphill battle.She would be offended at that point.

Story of an HB9 Fuck-Buddy

Few years ago,I met this hot chic on Tagged(the top social network before Facebook was created).At that point,I was oblivious to this concept of mines.It all occured to me by chance(which just winging it).

We hit it off,I set a sexual frame[opposed to a GF-BF frame which most guys do and fuck up their chances.As my fellow blogger Reema would say,"cock block himself"].She knew I was only tryna bang her:not wife it up!

Before we actually met up,during our chats,I let he know that I’m into 3-somes(which I wasn’t.But just testing the waters).

As predicted,she said she never done it and isn’t into that lol!

However,I had the fucking keys to getting her to do anything!

Remember:I didn’t have prior knowledge of this.I was totally winging the shit off GP!Looking back,it’s as if I was possessed by a fucking sage or mind-reader LMAO!!!

*That key which I had to enable me to do anything sexually with her was her own interest in me.She was into me!

Another powerful subconscious note here is that:She wanted to please me.She wanted to be accepted by me.She seen me as having value/an alpha!

If I’d came off as a weak-beta male,this would not be possible.She would not have even given me the time of day to begin with!

Women are hardwired to please alphas!They cannot help it!

So I was the alpha she had to win over by entertaining my every desire.Whatever it may be!

This shit is so powerful that if I’d asked her to rob a bank for me,she would’ve been down as fuck lol!Skies the limit when you have a girl in such a state and this point.

*So the 2 keys to making this happen is:1)She must be into you.

2)She must see you as alpha(allowing her to want to accept her).

Anyway,the groundwork was set.Hardest part completed(which was just to attract her as any PUA would).

So,this girl didn’t wanna do a thing that would possibly turn me off or cause me to lose interest.

It wasn’t the promise of sex that had her in such state.She’s a fucking woman!She can get sex any day of the week!

It was the fact that I attracted her via alpha routines which she probably never felt in her life before.

So,armed with this knowledge(which I didn’t know at that time lol),a devious side of me kicked in where I had all types of wild fantasies I wanted to try with this chic.And I’m not talking about voyeur and outdoor sex neither[boring]!

I said to her, “I wanna have a 3-some,but not the traditional 2 girl 1 guy.I have a buddy who I’d showed a pic’ of you and he said you’re very sexy.I was imagining both of us fucking the shit out of you taking turns on you.

That’s it!.No elaboration,no explanation,no long story.Plant the seed and idea and let it fester.Later on,she would actually believe that this was her idea.This is classic NLP shit(neuro-linguistic programming)which we learn in the pick-up community.So I was actually using NLP on her before I even read about NLP in pick-up[wow-that's Jedi-stuff there].

This is what separates the pick-up artist from the average guy or player, who doesnt have a system or pattern which he can analyze.

Key Note:Do not heg her about it!That would only make her feel slutty which would activate her ASD,which would make her regret such thoughts thus despise you.So just let it be known briefly,then drop it!She will remember and will be opened to it when the time comes.

As I stated before,you really don’t have to tell her anything.But The innate nice-guy in me compelled me to telling her my intentions beforehand.

Long story short[to spare the details],we end up having a mini-orgy with 3 of us guys banging her.As we’d say back in the 1990′s in NY:”we ran a train on her”.

And to the man-hating feminists:please save the drama.This was not rape of any sort.Purely consensual.Yes,she did it in order to be accepted to my proverbial alphadom.Nevertheless,she wanted it too.

But that was just the tip of the iceberg with her.The type of shit I did with her sexually,I don’t think I have the balls to write it!I went all the F out!Nothing detrimental to her health.

To this day we still keep in touch and that was like 3 years ago.I hope she doesn’t peep this since she’s a Facebook friend of mine!!

CONCLUSION

I honestly felt manipulative.Not then.But when I look back in retrospect,I feel somewhat as though I was doing a wrong.No bullshit guys:I truly feel that way.

To this day,I’ve only truly done that routine to 2 chics.Same results with the other girl.I exploited her high interest in me by having her do things(sexually)that she most likely was against or never done.

Oh before I end,this is why this routine CANNOT be done with a girlfriend nor a girl you’ve been seeing or fucking.

Same way you cannot say to your GF,”Hey babes I wanna have a menage-tois and blaze you and your bestie Angie at the same time” lol.You would’ve gotten smacked,kicked out then dumped!

Once a girl has strong feelings for you.Not sexual feeling but romantic feelings where she’s envisioning y’all as a couple going steady.Once she has that idea of a boyfriend-GF thing in her head,it’s a wrap!Chances of fantasies such as 3-somes are done!

The only how those things could be done realistically is if she’s the one with those fantasies-or mutually.

So this is why it’s KEY to do this framing and routine before you sleep with her.Before she gets attached bodily.Sex most times always leads to a relationship,or at least gives the girl the impression that if you sleep with her,that means you would be with her.Once she thinks you wanna be her BF,it’s a wrap in getting her to do anything for you[be it monetary,sexually or whatever].

And this isn’t something that only happens to LSE chic(low self-esteemers). Any and every woman is liable of being manipulated,swindled and led astray[not that this' what this is].

This is almost relative to the Jedi-mind stuff that pimps use on their hoes.He doesn’t hook the potential-sex worker via sex.But with some heavy NLP.

I’m curious to know if any other guy or gal out there is familiar with this concept and method I shared.

What is it with Big-Black Women and these names?

This Diva cursed me out on Twitter

Ok,I’m not gonna win any fans with this post:especially not any female fans.And definitely not any black-female fans lol.

I can already foresee the hate mail rolling in by the bunches!And exes who’ve put on some extra pounds deleting me as Facebook friends over this shit.

But…it’s whateva man!

Oh- before I start my mini-tirade,I just wanna give acknowledgements to my man Reemachronicles for inspiring this short post[sorry if I sold you out bro'-lol].

Funny thing too happened last night.A Facebook friend of mine from Vancouver[who happens to be a BIG girl],she blew the fuck up on me about a post I wrote the other day!She claimed I was disrespectful,insensitive,rude,and that she will never talk to me again!

Typically,I would take preemptive measures and delete such headache.But since I’ve been on a rampage as of late[deleting fat girls and being deleted by them],I kept a cool head.

Anyway,What is it with fat sister/black girls coming up with all these pseudonyms to describe themselves!?

One minute,they are DIVAS and princesses…Give me a fucking break!!!

Haven’t we all heard the following names & terms that fat girls use for themselves[ego,insecurities and compensations]?

Plump
Thick
BBW(big beautiful woman)
Fluffy
Heavy-set
Plus-Size
More to Love
Healthy[lol what a contradiction]
Hefty Girl
Juicy
Full

Ok, those were the physical attributes.Now let’s get to the personality aspects that they chose to refer to themselves[which is all based on compensating and vanity].

Diva
Goddess
Black Queen
Bitchy
Strong
Secure(lol)
Assertive
No-nonsense
Beautiful
Take no shit
Queen Bitch

And the list could go on and on…Y’all get the damn picture!

I’ve also noticed that the 3 names they try to avoid like the plague,are actually the most accurate:BIG,FAT and CHUBBY.

A while ago on Facebook,I posted a status asking,”Why are heavy girls so opposed to being called BIG”?

4 quote on quote ‘heavy’ girl commented.But nome of them had a rational reason why they’re offended being described as big.They just said that it isn’t nice,it’s disrespectful and a No-No,bla,bla,bla…

Actually,1 of the big girls I had a recent fall out with on twitter & FB,she the actual girl in the pic above on this post.

She won’t be pleased with me using her pic’-but fuck it!Her face is disguised anyway lol[and I doubt she reads my so-called misogynistic blog anymore-according to her].

So she basically cursed me out on twitter saying that she’s classy,assertive,highsidity,bitchy,secure with her weight…

I never dissed her prior,but she’d checced out my blog(after seeing a link),then unloaded on me,trying to convince me that she’s the BOMB and queen bitch lol.

CONCLUSION

The main theme I express to these BIG girls[to be politically correct],is that they should be accepting of themselves.Not every girl can have a Zumba-fit body.So accept it and move the F on,opposed to compensating and whining.

Kill that false persona!And remove that proverbial mask shielding your insecurities behind an attitude of,”I’m a Diva,I’m a bitch,I’m a queen”.

Most of all,fat girls should know when to be humble.And this goes for black girls mainly,who seem to be the most insecure when it comes to being fat.

A white fatty would more say,”I’m big,I’m plus-sized”.

But a sister LMAO!!!

She has to get all elaborate with it and extra with it:”I’m a queen,I’m fluffy…

Shut the F*** up and face reality!

The Diva on the right got offended by my writings also.

Ever got caught blogging about a girl?

Did a little brainstorming
And came up with this interesting topic.

I know my boy Reema got busted few times(I believe), for blogging about a girl he had gamed or banged.

In fact,I think he said it actually ruined the situation,where the girl felt a bit leery then started back peddling.

Sorry if I read it wrong Reema lol.

Anyway,so far I’ve blogged indirectly about 3 girls[if my mind serves me right]:using pseudonyms/nicknames to avoid any backlash lol.

I frankly don’t have shit against posting any chic’s name in my blog.As far as I see it,I would’ve been giving her some publicity,so she shouldn’t harbor any malice with that ultimately.

Getting ready to write an interesting post on an OYD(object of my desire)who’s been playing some serious cat & mouse with me.

Curious to know if any other guy in the bloggersphere has had any negative backlash.Or some chic threatening to sue them or something lmao.