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The Way To Holiday Heaven[Chelios' Vacation Adventure]
Me and 2 HB’s.
Hey guys, Chel back again!
I hope you all enjoyed the previous entry on Weight Management.This time around,I’ll be writing on something completely different: “The Way To Holiday Heaven”!
Some of you may get the direction I’m heading here- some may not.
Ask yourselves;for many,what is a holiday heaven?
We all have different ways of thinking,but for most young and single people(along with PUA’s),it usually coincides with Alcohol,Sun,Sea,Sand & Sex!
This has become more of a trend, year by year since the early 90’s, and it’s only becoming more popular year by year.
It all started in Ibiza,Spain and then to Ayia Napa.
Now pretty much the whole world has great holiday destinations to party day and night.
Around 3 years ago now,I went to Magaluf(Mallorca) and had an amazing time!
I went for the “right” reasons, which were to just go,have a good time and forget everything for a week with all my closest pals.
It was the best holiday so far in my life.I did everything I wanted to and have absolutely no regrets.
Sea swimming in the day,quad biking in the dusk,then bar crawl’s and clubs every night was my perfect holiday.
What you have to bear in mind when looking for that “Heavenly Holiday”:
•Make sure you know what you want[that way you won’t be disappointed].
•Pack your favourite clothes which are kool looking,stand out,and you feel good in.
To be honest, going to a resort holiday means you will probably end up half naked because it’s too damn hot!!!
•Have your Game ready PUA’s & Natural Players!!!
it’s a perfect-proving ground to get what you want.
Women have minimal “Bitch Shields(attitude)” up (if at all),because they’re there for the same reasons 90 % of the time.
So if you have ‘Game’,or are learning;use it and practice because it can increase your already high chances of getting lucky come the end of the night.
I’m not gonna lie,I had a lot of success with communication, flirting,etc. on holiday.
But if I could go back in time and use my knowledge of what I have today,I’d be God-like in ability to have most women I want.
Many guys are shy or just don’t know what they’re doing and end up cock-blocking you.
So be prepared!!
Most guys get so drunk that they can’t even stand up and need to be carried back to the hotel.
Don’t be one of those!You will end up a laughing stock.
Ladies enjoy normal conversation. It leads to places,so if you manage your alcohol intake well, you’re likely to have a great night ahead.
Some women may think I’m talking crap here,but deep down, you know (especially if you’ve been on a “heavenly holiday”) that a guy could make the holiday complete: especially if you’re single.
Women like men who enjoy themselves,who look confident and just don’t give a f*ck!
Confidence shines off you like light to a mirror straight into their path,.That would’ve already put you on the front foot.
My last piece of advice is to Pack Condoms!
Be safe from sexual infections.Too much of that shit going around because of carelessness at the moment.
Your boy,
Chelios
Jesus: The Greatest Pick-Up Artist Of All Time
Brother Jesus was the hottest guy in town back in the day.Women threw themselves at him at random.
Jesus was the greatest PUA to walketh this Earth.Even if you doubt his existence was real;well this mythological character damn sure had hoards of chics attracted to him.
A social-fucking Rockstar to say the least!
Who can touch our bro’ Jesus when it comes to attracting women?
No one!!!Hands Down!!
The original Don Juans and Cassanovas couldn’t compare to Jesus!
Jesus was a cult-like hero.And as usual,women flock to these types like groupies at a Rap concert.
•Charisma
•Aloofness
•Air Of Mysticism
•Spiritualism
•Bravery/Badassism
•Rebelliousness
When brother Je’ spoke to people,it was done in parables and ambiguity. As we teach in the PUA community;ambiguity & vagueness are 2 of the most powerful component a guy can have during an interaction. Jesus had this down to a science!! For instance,if Jesus were here today frequenting nightclubs and bars(as he would do),and hotties were to chat him up,this is how the interaction would play out[check the spiritual vagueness]: HB10:“So Mr.Je’,do you like me”? Jesus:“Daughter of this world,if it’s 1 thing the heavens require of me,is to treat mankind as equals.What would contention suffice thine soul”? Translation:“Yes!I have the major hots for you”!! HB10:“Do you have a GF”? Jesus:“The divine realm from whence I came is so powerful,that spirits of both sexes conjoin to form spiritual bonds deeper than we can imagine”. Translation:“None of your fucking business!Doesn’t matter”! HB10:“So tell me a little about yourself Mr.Je’.Where you grew up”? Jesus:“The one who walketh the path of righteousness belongeth to the globe.Where I’m from has many mansions and stars but I can yet tell you.Be a good girl:and you’ll get there”. When communicating with the OYD(object of your desire),you never want to reveal too much.Keep your answers and statements vague and parable-like like Jesus.
It’s 2,000 since his supposed death(or supposed life),and women still go crazy over this cult figure!! Attend any church today(which I don’t recommend),and you’re sure to find 95% of the female congregation doing weird shit in the name of Jesus:fainting,chanting,crying,cursing,dancing,professing,testifying,praying… This dude Jesus remains a chic-magnet even after 2,000 fucking years LMAO! Your faithful wife wouldn’t hesitate to tell you that she would dump your ass at the drop of a hat if Jesus were to come around!! What power of this man!! I always say that if Jesus were to be here: all of us men would be fucking toast!Our women would be rebelling against us just for a minute of his time. What separates Jesus from the average man?An air of spiritual mysticism and mystery that he cultivates around himself and his speech. I find that women over ages 25 respond great to this sort of “Jesus Game”:spiritualism with over-the top vagueness.
What the “Average Guy” would do,and what a “Pick-Up Artist” would do.
Difference between Average & PUA
With the influx of AFC’s(average guys) to my blog over the past weeks,I figured it’d be a great idea to compose this post,where I illustrate the contrasts between the Average Joe – and the Pick-Up Artist,in any given situation regarding women,love,dating,sex & LTR(relationship).This article serves as a guideline,for men to step their shit up by paying keen attention to what a Pick-Up Artist does.
*Scenario 1:Girlfriend dumps the guy:
Average Guy would:Throw a fit,plead with her to take him back and work it out,promising that he would change,and that he’s sorry(although he wasn’t at fault for anything).
PUA would:Remain non-reactive,calm and cool,tell here it’s ok,he understands,then walk away,and go fuck some other girl in order to forget about being dumped.
*Scenario 2:Girl doesn’t answer her phone after 2 days of attempts:
Average Guy would:Keep calling constantly,20 times in a row if he has to.He would send few texts and leave voice mails[which would creep her out].
PUA would 
elete her # immediately from his phone and go pick up 5 other chics(which equals 5 more #’s).
*Scenario 3:Hot girl at a bar/club is looking at him:
Average Guy would:Avoid eye contact with her,or he’d just watch her all night then go home alone.
PUA would:Look right at her(direct eye contact)until she looks away first,then he would approach her right away like a real Alpha male should[women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men with balls].
*Scenario 4:While on a first date,girl says to him,”I don’t have sex on the first date-neither the 4th”.
Average Guy would:Believe her totally,then feels bad that he doesn’t have a shot until 5th.date.
PUA would:Recognize it’s bullshit,and that every girl says that she doesn’t fuck on the first date(even if she does),then he would end up fucking her after the date[a PUA knows what a girl says holds no weight 80% of times].
*Scenario 5:Attempting to get her phone # after chatting:
Average Guy would say:”Soooo,do you have a #?I’d like to call you sometime.Can I have it please so I could call you”?[He turns the girl off by asking,so he'd then get a fake # or some lie].
PUA would say:”I’m so tempted to take your #,but I’m such a busy guy,I doubt I’d have time to call you.We’ll see what happens:give me your #”.[A PUA doesn't ask-he commands because he knows that women are NOT attracted to men who ask permission].
*Scenario 6:Group of hot girls in the club standing next to a guy:
Average Guy would:Walk off,keep it moving,stands there silently,mind his business[typical weak,pussy anti-social behavior].
PUA would:Chat up the whole group of girls instantly[social-circle game]as any social guy should.He’d even go so far as to try organizing an orgy later on.
*Scenario 7:Chic with bitchy attitude tells guy to “get lost:leave me alone,I don’t wanna talk to you”!
Average Guy would:Lap his tail and run(dejectedly),or throws a fit and curse the b***h out(eventhough some girls deserve a cursing-out,this isn’t the case for it).
PUA would:Laugh,look her straight in the face,remain un-phased,and say something like this,”How does your boyfriend manage you?You’re like a chihuahua off the leash”.
*Scenario 8:Girlfriend chats and flirts with other guy:
Average Guy would:Throw a fit,chastise her,stand there awkwardly,leave and go home very upset.
PUA would 
ut a stop to the interaction by butting in,chat with the guy friendly,then say,”Hey,nice to meet you dude,me and Sharon are gonna browse the venue”[compliments to Savoy,the master PUA for this routine].
OR
He would more often than not,go flirt with another girl his damn self.
*Scenario 9:Girl at the bar wants guy to buy her a drink:
Average Guy would ull out a wad of cash,buy her the most expensive cocktail(in hopes of impressing her),then buy a round of drinks for her friends also SMDH(hoping to impress them also as a big-spender).
PUA would say:”I don’t buy girls drinks on the fist night:it’s against my policy”.
Or
“I don’t buy drinks for strangers.I’d have to get to know you first to ensure that you’re not a gold-digger”.
*Scenario 10:Girl asks guy(while on date or out),”So,what do you do”?
Average Guy would say:”I’m a lawyer,doctor,accountant,student,food-vendor,clerk,bus-driver”[something typically boring and lack luster].
PUA would say:”I’m a bit ashamed to tell you.Usually,when I tell girls what I do,they either go crazy and shit or run for the hills.I’ll tell you,but I guarantee you’ll be offended.I’m a male prostitute”.
Or
“I’m a zoo-keeper[indicates risky guy and adventurous].My job entails guarding vicious animals and keeping male tigers apart from the tigresses,so they don’t try banging them.Next thing you know,they’d be a lot of cubs going wild,which makes my job harder”.
*Scenario 11:Girl says she likes romantic walks on the beach:
Average Guy would:Although he hates walks of the beach,in hopes of wanting the girl to like her,i.e.to please her,he would then lie and say,”yea,I LOVE romantic walks on the beach”!!
PUA would isagree with her and say,”What!!!I hate romantic walks on the beach!That is so boring!You have no sense of excitement girl[he isn't afraid to offend nor disagree,'cause he knows that girls are attracted to me who stand firm]!
*Scenario 12:Girl says she likes Italian food and wants to eat at Luigi’s.
Average Guy would:Agree and say,”Ok,Luigi’s it is”[essentially handing over all powers and choices to the girl because she's so precious LOL].
PUA would say:”Nah,we’re going to the Mexican joint.We’ll do Italian another time”[essentially taking the lead role and the decision-making role as a dominant guy should in this case.He understands that it's the woman's biological role to follow-not lead].
*Scenario 13:Girl asks guy,”Do you like me?I really wanna know”.
Average Guy would say:”Hell yea I do!I like you a lot!It’s obvious I do.You’re very beautiful.Most beautiful girl I seen in a long time.And I like you”[virtually kissing her ass and putting her on a pedestal as all weak men do].
PUA would say:”I like EVERYBODY.You’re very likeable too.I seen no reason to dislike you at this point.Keep it up![PUA understands that the best answer in such case is to be VAGUE about his feelings].Make the girl unsure and in doubt,which would in turn intrigue her more.This is what girls do to men all the time(being vague).
*Scenario 14:Girl asks,”Do you have a girlfriend”?
Average Guy would say:Nah!!I’m single!!Totally single!!I don’t have anyone.It’s hard to find a good girlfriend nowadays”.
PUA would say:”Yes,of course I have a girlfriend.I dread being single!Any guy that doesn’t have a GF is either an outcast or has AIDS”[PUA knows that women are NOT attracted to single men and that single men do NOT get laid.It's equivalent to the saying that,"The easiest way to get a job is to already have a job".Unemployed ppl have an EXTREMELY hard time finding a job.Same as a man who's truly single would have an EXTREMELY hard time getting laid].
*Scenario 15:Girl is visibly turned on and excited(during the chat):
Average Guy would:Continue chatting away about his boring job,his BMW or how hot she is.
PUA would:Seize the opportunity to take advantage of her arousal by making out with her.He would tell her to “Shut Up,and kiss me already”[essentially increasing the sexual tension]!
*Scenario 16:Girl says to guy she’s chatting with,”Why’s your pants all hanging down off your butt”?
Average guy would ull them all the way up immediately and apologize or come up with some plausible excuse for sagging his pants[essentially kissing the girl's ass in order to be liked and accepted by her SMDH].
PUA would:Laugh,and pull his pants down some more(in defiance),then say something like,”Do you check out random guys’ asses all the time?Your eyes have no business down there.You are such a little pervert”.
The grand take-away lesson for guys reading this is article,is to realize that women are NOT attracted to men who kiss ass,supplicate(ask and beg),apologizes and put them on pedestals.
Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men who are firm,dominant,non-conformatist and asshole-like.
So adopt the above qualities of the Alpha Male/Pick-Up Artist,and you’d beging to see drastic changes and get laid like a Rockstar.Trust me!
Lesson of the day:”Emotions Are Contagious”.
Ok kiddies:what is today’s lesson?”Emotions are contagious”.That’s right!
*If you approach the girl feeling nervous as hell:she will get nervous.
*If you approach her in a bad mood:she will be in a bad mood.
*If you approach her drenched in seriousness:she will become serious.
*If you approach her in a good mood:humorous,playful and bright-that same emotional state will transfer.
Credits to Matador,the PUA/coach of Venusian Arts(Mystery’s right hand) who was the first guy I heard of stressing this crucial point.
Too many guys make that critical blunder of being too serious(no smiles,no animation)while chatting up the OYD(object of your desire).
Remember:”Emotions are Contagious”.
Class dismissed kiddies!Now go get social!
What’s up with these pick-up gurus dissing PUA’s?
Man I’m friggin pissed with all the hypocrisy from these PUA gurus!!!
One minute,they’re enamored with the term PUA(pick-up artist).
The next:”Oh I’m not a PUA!Don’t call me a PUA!PUA’s are weird…,bla,bla,bla!
Aah STFU you winers!
Certain gurus[like Johnny Wolf],coined the term PUA and made it an underground house-hold name on the net.they were in loved with the concept or being a PUA.
Fast forward to 2011;they don’t want shit to do with the name PUA[oh no not the name]!Nada!
But do remember:the community made guys like Johnny Wolf into a fucking Rockstar!Classic case of biting the hand that feeds you ha.
Anyway,not too long ago on Facebook,Johnny posted a status update saying:
Any guy who adds him as friends with the word PUA in his name,he will NOT accept the request.
Wow!Talk about condescending!
Ok enough of Wolf.
Another guru to play himself a while back was Speer aka SalPeer of Speermethod.com.He’s 1 of my favorite gurus by the way.
But a few years ago,he was on a podcast with AJ & Jordan Harbinger of Pick-Up Podcast.Com(Speer’s interview),and Speer went on and on with his disses to the community and the term PUA!Although the community and Mystery made him lol!
Fast forward to 2011,Speer’s living in the Project Hollywood mansion,he dubbed himself 1 of the Kings of PUA,he co-organized the last PUA summit in LA the other day…!!!!
So he went from 1 of the best up-and-coming PUA’s[under Mystery & Love Drop],then turned a PUA hater around ’09,then a proclaimed PUA King in 2011!
Guys-don’t play both sides of the fucking fence!
I love Speer and his style of pick up for the record!
My Real Beef:
What I don’t like with all this back peddling is that those gurus seem to feel that PUA has a negative connotation as if it’s akin to “a dog,womanizer,etc.
Women don’t give a shit about a guy calling himself a PUA.She only cares about the results.
So if I say to my target that I’m a PUA,she’s not gonna run for the hills,”Oh you fucking womanizer”.
No!She’s gonna be intrigued,inquiring and curious:which leads to being attracted.
So all these gurus turned PUA haters need to take a chill pill with the bullshit and give props to the PU community which made them.
And by the way,all of those gurus still make a living selling products aimed at making the average frustrated chump into a PUA.
And isnt Johnny Wolf the owner of PUA Summit website?
So guys wanna make money off the name pick-up,but don’t wanna be associated with the name pick-up or PUA?
I commented on his latest blog post but he haven’t replied yet.
A few of us are ripping him a new one on Facebook right now as I type.But his ass ain’t responding to his comments on his Facebook status.
I used to think my man J Ripper,the owner of Casanova Crew.com,was being too harsh with the criticism and parody on certain gurus.But now I realize he has good reasons to beat up on certain community guys for fronting.
Viva the PUA community!!!
My rant continues with a follow up post coming later on.
Managing A Relationship Like An Alpha Male
Hey guys, I go by the name of Chelios (23 years old from London, UK), a former PUA(Pick-Up Artist) of around 4/5 years.
I was introduced to the world of PUA’s from one of my uncles, a legend in my eyes, (whom I cannot name at this time) I have witnessed great game from him. I was put forward into “gaming” when one of my ex girlfriends dumped me who I was “In love with” and was sopping for weeks and even months.One day my uncle had enough!He gave me a copy of “The Game” and said “Read this and you’ll see”’(At this point I was shocked, I’m not a big reader).A few weeks down the line, I was bored and upset, still thinking about “what if I did this, what if I did that?” (regarding my ex) so I decided then picked up my copy of ‘The Game‘ by Mr. Strauss, I never thought that was the beginning of the end for my whining and moaning like a little 5 year old girl.
I look back now and laugh. I wasn’t in Love. I just loved and enjoyed certain things, which I then learnt I could have so much more and achieve something that I want- and now I have that.
I’ve got to be honest, I have had many highs and just as many lows in the last 5 years:a whole heap of rejections as well as success stories. Most people know but I wish to reiterate the ART and road to succeed in Pickup is trial and error. There really is no perfect PUA. We all have our own ways, our own rules. Make your own rules, abide by whatever works for you. I’ve been speaking to my good friend Kenny for a while about a write up.So now I thought I’d share some of my insight on LTR’s(Long-Term Relationships),seen as I’ve been in one now for sometime and starting a family in the near future.
My first post for Kenny’s blog is just a bit about me and a small chunk of my opinions of how to maintain an LTR, how to increase the chances of an LTR occurring with someone your fond of and into.
What makes us want an LTR? Is it boredom? Isit the thought of regular sex or maybe the comfort and maybe the fear of being alone? I think it’s a mix in most case’s’ and there is nothing wrong with that.
First the key to a relationship becoming serious and long term is to take things slowly, live your life as normal and not be clingy.Nobody wants to feel like they have vermin around them or a stalker 24/7 or thereabouts. Absence makes the heart grow fonder[ that old saying is so true].When we are away from something we enjoy/like/love…the longer that goes by, the more we will enjoy and cherish it next time. It may seem a small thing, but it’s often a school boy error in pua to always want to be around a girl non stop of whom we are feeling, enjoy now but think of the tomorrow and the day after too.
Assess what is OK and what is not OK in your eyes for a relationship. I.e, what you wont accept, what you will, what you want from your woman, the direction you see your future heading in. Your desires will then either bring you together or push you apart, which will be for the best under either circumstance.
Maintain your own life :
Remember when you attract someone, and when they’re attracted to you, you are your own person.So it’s fundamentally important you maintain that, and keep in mind the qualities and actions that brought you together.
Remember the do’s and dont’s .What you can do, what she can do, what is fair, remember compromise, don’t give in to everything. A woman will seriously push and test you (Shit test), especially early on and as the relationship progresses. Just keep a cool and well balanced head.Don’t lose it!Patience is a virtue. If women see themselves getting to you, they will keep pushing your buttons.
For example:
“I’m going out with my friends tonight!” – without asking me to go with her.
She’s receiving SMS messages and doesn’t tell me who text her and stuff.
Remain like a ghost – act like you don’t really care, but maybe in some people’s eyes this isn’t the right decision, but It does work, you’ll then see if she carries on.
I know it’s not too in depth, but I hope some of you have enjoyed this post. I will be posting more in the future.
Feel free to ask any questions and follow me on twitter if you wish @crazy_gooner
Thanks for reading. Much appreciated!
Chelios
Chelios PUA
