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Bar-Girl Field Report PT.2(continuation)

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If you hadn’t read part 1 yet from the previous night(Friday);check it out here:Bar girl field report broken down. I’m just gonna get straight into tonight’s details.

*This morning,the HB7 I met last night at a bar called me(woke me up actually)around 10 AM.We chatted for about 15 min.

Now Saturday Night:

*8:30 PM:I Texted her.”Hey Sh***n,I’m gonna be at the same bar in a bit.Feel free to meet me there”.

*9:30 PM:Stood outside bar,she passed and went in.

*I went in 5 minutes after,seen a guy friend of mine,chatted with him for about 30 minutes.

*Guy offers to buy HB7 drink,she declines politely,I approached her table,sat,chatted…

*Found out she does have a BF.Told her I sought of have an on-off GF(currently off),so we’re even.

*Flirted,chatted about many things[building comfort]from kids to her ideal type of guy[which resembles me].

*10:00 PM:Told her I had a favorite hang out at the pier nearby.Very chilled atmosphere,and that I was gonna be heading there in about an hour,and I want her to come along.

*Hesitantly said it sounds good but don’t know about tonight since her allergies are acting up.

*11:00 PM:Told her that the bar was kinda dead tonight(obviously),so it’s best we bounce.I’m definitely bouncing to the pier.

*11:15 PM:Lied to her that I over heard the staff saying they were closing early(soon)since it was a pretty-slow night.So we should go chill just outside.

*She hesitated to get up,so I got up first[leading],then she followed[submissive role].Both of us went outside,chatted for 10 minutes in front the bar.

*Told her let’s take a walk,she complained about her new shoes being too tight so she doesn’t wanna walk much[token resistance],so I slightly walked off[leading] so she followed[submissive role].

*11:36 PM:We walked to the pier,chatted about the nastiest stuff we ever ate(turtle),held her hand for 3 seconds,released.

*11:50 PM:Got to the romantic-darkened pier aka lover’s lane[this spot is typically where lovers and cheaters go to do them],guy in a van(most likely a cheater)got startled as we came so he revved his engine and bounced.

*We sat lover looking water,15 minutes later,took her hand and led her to a huge boat that’s docked up there.Playfully said if I plan on her drowning by going on the boat ’cause she doesn’t swim.I kept leading her,we went on the boat,sat down on the railing.

*Chatted about how much fun her BF is[lmao go figure],I killed the BF subject by asking if she has music on her phone.She cranked up some disco track.

*Took both of her hands,lifted her off the railing,she cracked up saying she’s not gonna dance,I start grinding on her thighs playfully,she said “OK,I’m gonna dance just this once”.

*We danced and grind on each other on and off for about 10 minutes,took her hands,led her to the other side of the boat over looking the sea,grind on her booty while I massaged her shoulders.

*Her fucking phone rings,she looks at it,sucked her teeth then put the phone back in her pocket.

*A minutes later,phone rings again,she sighs disgustedly,tells me to be quiet for a second,she moves away a bit and answers,“I’m at the pier.With a friend.No,it’s a guy friend.Nothing.Just catching up.Where are you?We’re not doing anything we’re not supposed to.Hello,hello,hello…”

*Apparently he hung up on her,she comes back over,I held her,caressed her,said he seems pissed now and that she might be in trouble.I ignored her,she kept bitching about him hanging up.

*He calls back,tells me to be quiet.As she talked,I was caressing her shoulders and playfully trying to over hear the convo.

*Hangs up and said she has to go home(in an “I can’t believe he’s upset laughing manner).

*I’m subtly tryna convince her to stay,she slowly walks off saying she’s ready to leave.I’m cursing in my mind saying I should’ve fucking escalated faster to bang her right there!

*I take her hand while she walks off to slightly stop her by pulling her back but she insisted on going[not in an upset manner.More like a combo of shocked and playful].

*Figured at that point,her BF was probably speeding on his way to the pier,so it’s safer we just bounce.

*As we walked from the pier,threw my hands over her shoulders,stopped her,embraced her from behind,sniffed her hair[Mystery's classic move],caressed her neck a bit while I tugged on her bra strap,she pulls away playfully.

*Kept saying she can’t believe he’s upset or hung up on her just cause she’s talking to someone.

*Sensing ain’t shit else going down tonight since the BF fucked up the vibe,so as we approached an intersection,I told her I’m gonna make a right(while she goes straight).

*Said good night,walks off,I grabbed her hand,pull her back to me playfully,she chuckles.My intention was to kiss close her but some fucking car came screeching down the street.I’m thinking it’s her BF enraged with the intentions of running us the fuck over LMAO.

*So I released her hands and let her continue walk as the car came shooting down the road.

*Got home about 20 minutes later,texted her saying that I had fun and want to run my fingers across her body.


It’s now 1:37 AM and my ass is retiring to bed.Ready to leave off where we finished hopefully tomorrow.Just hope she doesn’t get all sorry for almost betraying her BF thus try to flake on me next time.Fingers crossed.


2 other interesting field reports:

bar girl report part1

Arab guy at bar

Lesson of the day:”Emotions Are Contagious”.

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Ok kiddies:what is today’s lesson?”Emotions are contagious”.That’s right!

*If you approach the girl feeling nervous as hell:she will get nervous.

*If you approach her in a bad mood:she will be in a bad mood.

*If you approach her drenched in seriousness:she will become serious.

*If you approach her in a good mood:humorous,playful and bright-that same emotional state will transfer.

Credits to Matador,the PUA/coach of Venusian Arts(Mystery’s right hand) who was the first guy I heard of stressing this crucial point.

Too many guys make that critical blunder of being too serious(no smiles,no animation)while chatting up the OYD(object of your desire).

Remember:”Emotions are Contagious”.

Class dismissed kiddies!Now go get social!

What’s up with these pick-up gurus dissing PUA’s?

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Man I’m friggin pissed with all the hypocrisy from these PUA gurus!!!

One minute,they’re enamored with the term PUA(pick-up artist).

The next:”Oh I’m not a PUA!Don’t call me a PUA!PUA’s are weird…,bla,bla,bla!

Aah STFU you winers!

Certain gurus[like Johnny Wolf],coined the term PUA and made it an underground house-hold name on the net.they were in loved with the concept or being a PUA.

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Fast forward to 2011;they don’t want shit to do with the name PUA[oh no not the name]!Nada!

But do remember:the community made guys like Johnny Wolf into a fucking Rockstar!Classic case of biting the hand that feeds you ha.

Anyway,not too long ago on Facebook,Johnny posted a status update saying:

Any guy who adds him as friends with the word PUA in his name,he will NOT accept the request.

Wow!Talk about condescending!

Ok enough of Wolf.

20111201-162306.jpgAnother guru to play himself a while back was Speer aka SalPeer of Speermethod.com.He’s 1 of my favorite gurus by the way.

20111201-162946.jpgBut a few years ago,he was on a podcast with AJ & Jordan Harbinger of Pick-Up Podcast.Com(Speer’s interview),and Speer went on and on with his disses to the community and the term PUA!Although the community and Mystery made him lol!

Fast forward to 2011,Speer’s living in the Project Hollywood mansion,he dubbed himself 1 of the Kings of PUA,he co-organized the last PUA summit in LA the other day…!!!!

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So he went from 1 of the best up-and-coming PUA’s[under Mystery & Love Drop],then turned a PUA hater around ’09,then a proclaimed PUA King in 2011!

Guys-don’t play both sides of the fucking fence!

I love Speer and his style of pick up for the record!

My Real Beef:

What I don’t like with all this back peddling is that those gurus seem to feel that PUA has a negative connotation as if it’s akin to “a dog,womanizer,etc.

Women don’t give a shit about a guy calling himself a PUA.She only cares about the results.

So if I say to my target that I’m a PUA,she’s not gonna run for the hills,”Oh you fucking womanizer”.

No!She’s gonna be intrigued,inquiring and curious:which leads to being attracted.

So all these gurus turned PUA haters need to take a chill pill with the bullshit and give props to the PU community which made them.

And by the way,all of those gurus still make a living selling products aimed at making the average frustrated chump into a PUA.

And isnt Johnny Wolf the owner of PUA Summit website?

So guys wanna make money off the name pick-up,but don’t wanna be associated with the name pick-up or PUA?

I commented on his latest blog post but he haven’t replied yet.

A few of us are ripping him a new one on Facebook right now as I type.But his ass ain’t responding to his comments on his Facebook status.

I used to think my man J Ripper,the owner of Casanova Crew.com,was being too harsh with the criticism and parody on certain gurus.But now I realize he has good reasons to beat up on certain community guys for fronting.

Viva the PUA community!!!

My rant continues with a follow up post coming later on.

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How I picked up the hottest girl at the club-who’s usually bitchy.

20120115-165624.jpgHot girls are usually bitchy!Whether that stems from their insecurities or from the many guys they’ve rejected over the years:bitchiness & beauty usually goes hand in hand.

Ok,with that out the way,lets get to the action!!

Few years ago,after reading an online-seduction article on gaming hotter girls[cant remember by which dating coach],I was pumped as hell to try out some new stuff!I was flying solo that night(no wingman to fuck up my game).


Ordered a cocktail,then headed to the dancefloor to survey some ass while tryna look as normal as possible(and not like an AFC/weird guy).

I usually dont go for the hottest chic in a venue[too much competition].But this time-instead of settling for an 8 or 9,a hot ass HB10 caught my eyes from the get-go!!!Not only my eyes;this chick had every guy’s attention at the Coast night club!

I mean it was mesmerizing the way she twirled and whined like an Indian- belly dancer.

All the average guys,naturals & players were hovering around this chick like fucking helicopters.Some tryna talk to her,others tryna dance with her,others asking her to let them buy her drinks(lmao).

Of course she shut them down like a true b***h would.

I’d typically be one of those rejectees[thanks to the underground-seduction community].

So I threw on my James Bond cool demeanor while I gave her “the eye”.

Not a gawking,deer in the headlights stare.But a dominant look with a sly stare & smile which exude,”Im not like those other chumps”.

I mean,we spoke to each other via body language & eye contact.Not a word said,but our bodies were in tuned.It’s divine;cant put it in words but I just felt it.

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At this point,I body rock out(turn my back towards her).We were about 15 yards apart;a technique I’d learned from reading materials by Mystery aka Erik Von Markovik[the God of pick-up].
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While all the guys were facing her,I was the only one slightly turned away.That shit must’ve made her insecurity alarms go off(questioning her beauty),”why isnt he paying me any attention,am I not pretty enough,is he not attracted-why not”?

That’s what usually runs through the minds of high-maintenance types, when they’re not given the attention they think they deserved,they then question themselves.

Sure,she had all the attention a girl could ask for(from about 20 men in her circumfrence),but those men weren’t challenging.They indicated their interests way too soon,thus disqualifying themselves before the game began.

I was “the only” challenge she had.

She eventually got jaded and tired of all the attention,so she exited the dancefloor and went to look over the railings into the bay[the club overlooks a bay since it was on the island's coast line].20120115-172545.jpg

So I made my way over to her(from the side,so I didn’t startle her by coming up directly behind her like a creep)…

And I said these magical words to her “I can dance way better than you“,then walked off right away[slowly,confidently and cocky].

Now you may ask,”what was so magical about that line”?But the magic wasnt in the line(words),but the audacity to go up to the hottest girl in the club and say something bold with a cool-sly smile.

She expected me to throw some cheesy-ass pick up line,compliment or offer to buy her a drink like 95% of guys would.But I flipped the script with a C&F line[pick up slang for something ballsy and challenging],which totally fucked up her mental circuitry.

And to top it off-I walked off instead of staying there like a needy-guy(subcommunicating that I was lonely and wanted to chat).So I walked away slowly to the nearest bar in the venue where she would be able to see where I went.

Now remember,Im following a script here:according to the pick-up article I’d read a week prior to this,if done right(the take aways,body language,etc.),she would track me down to continue the chat.

All I had to do from then on was to not get lost in the crowd where she couldn’t see me.

Still skeptical of this working(she following me and tracking me down),I ordered another Malibu & pj and got sidetracked by 1 of the TV’s in a lounge area.Then I felt a tap on my shoulder-which scared the shit out of me(lol)!Turned around,and it was the HB10-Hot Girl.

At this point,Im paralyzed with anxiety not knowing what to say since I didnt expect she’d actually come over to me lol!

So she leaned in animatedly and yelled,”why do you think you can dance better than me”?

I cant remember what I said aftrewards but 10 minutes later,we were making out heavy in a secluded area of the club.I end up taking her back to my expensive hotel,but had no fuckin condom so didnt get to lay her[fuck]!!!

All that heavy making out for shit!

Had to settle for some oral play(lol).This girl was actually my first squirter BTW.That shit was crazy lmao.


BREAKDOWN:

Ok guys,that approach may not work for everyone nor on any girl,but it’s a very powerful technique for seducing in clubs or bars or any night venues.

Frankly,it’d work better in bars where the music isnt that loud and it isnt over crowded.

And it’s not the words,it’s the balls to not supplicate and suck up to a 10 just because she’s hot.

Having the balls to walk away,knowing and believing that she’ll pursue you(eventhough I didnt believe it at first).

And she didnt have to re-open me;I had the solid option to go back up to her later on,knowing she was already attracted and open since our dancefloor flirting.

For a great article on ‘Club Game’,check out my man Fade PUA’s ,”How to get a girl from the club”.It breaks down 3 crucial elements to a better time at gaming and pulling girls in night clubs.

Yours truely:socialKenny signing off till later.

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