SocialK aka The MILF-Hunter:How To Seduce MILF’s

Isn’t this MILF doable?

Who said women over age 35 weren’t bang-worthy?Kill yourself!!

Consider this my “How-To” bang guide for those who desire to lay hot cougars & MILF’s like Paula Abdul and J-Lo.

Over the past 4 years,I’ve slept with more women over the ages of 36 than women under 26.I really find that MILF’s and Cougars are more open-minded towards sex than young-dumb chics who have their plates full…plus side dishes too for the fuck of it.

Why bang hot MILF’s?

*They are less likely to become attached,opposed to an 18 year old HB9,who hadn’t yet been through the bumps and bruises of love & relationships.

*They give better blowjobs,opposed to their 18 year old sisthrens who haven’t yet honed in on the finer points of sex.

*Better sexually experienced and open-minded to pleasing the guy.

Where to hunt:

Hot MILF’s & Cougars generally frequent:

*Local bars
*Casinos
*Libraries
*Museums
*Art Galleries
*Mature functions

Plus there are tons of online sites dedicated to MILF-hunting.

Differences:

*Seducing hot MILF’s is quite different than girls in their 20′s.

*Girls in the age range of 18-30 respond to high-social value/status.

*Women over the age of 35 may be repelled by high-social value,over-the top peacocking,since it doesn’t require high-social value nor flashy Game to lay them.

How should I approach and open?

[Whether online or in field,follow the simple-subsequent steps in order to bang hot MILF's].

*After you open her(online,in person,etc.),further down the line(in the chat),create or revive her sexual desires for a younger man(you) by saying things to her like:

“I despise women under the age of 30”.

“I feel that the more mature a woman,the more she understands me”.

“I’ve tried dating women my age(23),but it just never blossoms into anything exciting”.

The above 3 example statements will fester beneath the surface.Plus it let’s her know that you’re into MILF’s and Cougars(i.e.mature women).

Don’t be an idiot and say shit like,“I love banging old women”!

Just let her use her own damn imagination to envision you giving her some young dick.

Early Mid-Life Crisis/Pre-Menopausal Crisis:

Women are very self-conscious when it comes to their age.She can be a spring chicken at the tender age of 20,yet thinks that she’s too old and undesirable.

Likewise,many Cougars and MILF’s are starving for the opportunity to recapture their youth and feel young again.

*Play on this insecurity and fear of aging by saying things like:

“The average guy is just interested in having sex with hot women.Good to know that there’s possibly more to you than a sexy body”.

“I’m only 19,yet I feel like I’m 90.What’s the secret to you staying so young”?

So you’re basically stroking her ego(indirectly),and sub-communicating to her that you find her attractive,sexy and young.

Could you say all those things direct and straight up?Sure!!But it will actually turn her off if you come across as a MILF-Slayer or a guy who’s just out to hook up.Sure she wants to just hook up as well,but as the guy/pick-up artist,it’s wiser to fly under the radar into her granny panties with Stealth.

SUMMARY:

*Use a lot of indirect compliments

*Flatteries

*Stroke her ego

*make her feel young again

*Tell her that these 20 year olds aren’t any match for her when it comes to style and fashion.

Armed with the above know-how,you too can become a MILF-Slayer and induct yourself into the mature-pussy fucking hall of fame.

I day dream about banging Paula!

Most Bangable Pop-Culture Chic of 2011.

Hey guys,I’m just gonna post my top 3 most bang-worthy TV personalities of 2011.Be it actresses,singers,fitness gurus,…doesn’t matter!As long as their asses been on TV[pop-culture]more than twice for the year.

Call this my “going out with a bang” list for the year’s end [Woa!!].

Jillian Michaels

I’m usually disgusted by chics with abs and more toned biceps than I got.But JM sexy as hell!All those fitness informercials at 4 A.M. got me sprung LMAO!

Lauren London

This chic is said to be on Entourage and 90210.I hate those 2 shows so I never actually seen her on there.She did play in the movie ATL(which I hated),which landed her on my bang-list for 2011.She does modeling also.

Paula Abdul

My bang-list would not be complete without a hot MILF on it.
For those who know me(or been following my blog),y’all would’ve known that I’m a relentless MILF-Hunter to say the least LOL!Can’t think of a hotter Cougar than Paula.

Well that was it guys.I don’t care how Jimmy’s list looks.I don’t care who’s on Joe Blow’s list.This is Kenny’s list!!!

But I do wanna know who’s on y’all lists.Holla back bloggers!

My 2012 Pledge & Manifesto

If this ugly world of ours doesn’t blow,or life as we know it isn’t drastically altered to where we’ll be dwelling in a fucking post-WWII-type sphere,this will be my pledge for 2012 on into 2013[fingers crossed LOL].

*I pledge to become a better boyfriend to my on & off MILF GF[although she does shit to intentionally drive me off the cliff...but she's a woman,so it's understandable].

*I will do my DAMN best to refrain from flirting with every chick in the club.Also to put an end to my sleazy-bar tactics:like smacking girls on their asses just because I know they secretly love an audacious bastard like I am[sure beats the hell out of Joe Blow approaching her talking about the weather or which school she attended] SMH!

*And I pledge from the deepest depths of my dirty heart, that if another half- inebriated/drunk hot chic throws herself all over me like a Jersey Shore slopapatamous[thanks for that one Sitch],I will activate every once of my moral fiber to not take her home and bang her like a caveman with no regards for her sanity at the moment.

*As much as it pains me to say:I know I’ve been extra critical of grossly over-weight females,giving them all sorts of degrading titles like Fat,Big,Chubby,BBW’s…I need to realize that a 300lb.girl was perhaps born that way,opposed to eating herself into obesity and an early grave[lthough I honestly know that's bullshit].But I promise to lighten up on the fat-girl jihad.

*I pledge that I will NOT become a hypocrite, like the former-Republican House-Speaker, Newt Gingrich:banging women on the side while castigating Bill Clinton for doing the same thing SMH.

*Last but damn-sure not least:If my GF does dump me for being a slacker,jerkoff and a bar-hopping prick,I promise to not take vengeance by doing something real flubbed up and immoral[to some]- like sleeping with 1 of her hotter friends[not that I have LMAO].

All in all:I’m just tryna strive to be a better man in 2012.Push comes to shove-I may go out with a f-ing bang if the Mayan’s artifacts prove to be factual lol.If that be the case:this manifesto will be tossed out the window[fingers crossed].

Q & A of the week:”When should he call”?

Ok guys,I promised a Q & A segment to my blog,where I would be asking some of my female Facebook friends questions on dating.With their consent of course[Kenny does have etiquette at times LOL],I’d be posting a pic’ with a fake name[Fuck off stalkers!!].The questions were asked in real time via Facebook chat BTW(interesting),so these are women I generally chat the shit with.

Every guy who dates or picks up chics, has heard about the ’3-Day Rule’,where the guy shouldn’t call nor contact the girl before 3 days of getting the digits.For obvious reason of not looking desperate.Being a curious bastard as I am,I wanted to get a general feedback from every-day women on this subject.Here we go.

T.T.

Cool-sexy chic I met days ago via mutual friends on Facebook,so I threw her in the fray.

Q.If a guy was to get your # and he calls the same night,would you see that as desperate?

A.

“Nope.Not really.Says that he’s interested”

Q.Ok cool.Should he wait to call?

A.

“Well to me:it doesn’t really matter but it shows that he’s interested.But others have their own opinion”.

Me:Some women say that the guy would look desperate calling the same night.

T.T.

“Unless he reaches the point where he’s just calling str8 then that’s another story”.

KW

KW’s a hot MILF I’ve been Facebook friends with for a while now.We probably have like 40 mutual friends,so she’s essentially in my social circle(online at least).

Q.Ok,if you gave a guy your # and he calls the same night,would you think he’s desperate?

A.

“No”.

Q.So how long should he wait to call?Few days or what?

A.

“No just call her”.

Me:”Some women say that it looks desperate to call the same day.What do you say”?

A.

“No it’s not desperate…what’s the difference if he calls the same night or 2 weeks lata”?

Miz

Cute Bronx chica I’d met on POF dating site.

Q.If you give a guy the digits and he hits you up the same day/same night,would you say thats’ needy and desperate?

A.

“Umm no not desperate but I need to keep my eyez open lol”.

Q.Lol,so when should he call?

A.

“Maybe that same week.But can definitely text show that he’s interested”.

Asian-Queens,NY

Cool Asian girl I met on POF too.She’s quite interesting with her insights.

Q.If you give a guy your # and he contacts you the same day or night,would that seem desperate?

A.

“Yea.Why”?

Q.Ok,but why would that be?

A.

“Maybe he just wants a booty call”.

Q.So generally,how long should the guy wait to contact you to not seem desperate for a booty call

A.

“Umm maybe a week not sure”.

Findings & Conclusion

Wow-that was interesting to find out where women stand(supposedly).

We in the seduction community, already know that what a girl wants and expects LOGICALLY, isn’t what she wants,expects or goes for EMOTIONALLY.

Anyway,the most interesting finding here(for me),is that most of the women I surveyed, do NOT think it’d be needy and desperate to call the same day/night of getting the digits.

Yet it’s still a catch 22 though with going for what a girl says and what she actually responds to.

But I like the point made by Miz(the Bronx chica) about the guy texting same day/night to show that he’s still interested.
That’s key!And I happen to do that shit most times.Rather running the risk of the girl forgetting who you are,it’s worth it sending a short text with built-in humor(based on the initial chat).

The hidden beauty of this Q & A post is that it could be used as an opinion opener in street approaches or wherever.Cool shit right?

BTW,I got the concept(indirectly) for doing this from my boys Solo and Drew,who’s doing an interview-type thing in NYC for his blog via Twitter.

Marriage,Relationship,Love and why we commit.

This subject has beaten the crap out of me for ages now:How the hell do marriages work or last!!?

My fellow NY blogger Andrew at Dating Happens.Com, gave me the idea for this post since he made a comment on 1 of his articles stating that it’s a miracle that marriages last[or something to that effect].

Guys-I can’t imagine waking up to the same face everyday:no matter how friggin’ cute that face is!It’s unfathomable!I stayed over at my baby-mama’s one weekend and I felt like I was suffocating lmao!And the funny thing is,the vibe was great!We weren’t fighting,arguing or anything of that sought.So I had no reason to be pissed or bored.However,I felt like this was too much.Too much crowding,too much of the same face,same voice,same house…

It’s not that I’m anti-marriage[but I'm borderline maybe].But right now at age 29,that’s not in my playbook.

It fascinates me how many guys are willing to ‘dive right in’.Not just into matrimony,but living with a GF.

Kenny’s Theory:

*Believe it or not:LOVE isn’t what keeps couples together.

*Caring about a spouse isn’t what keeps couple together neither.

*Loving a girl-boy isn’t what propels a person to commit to,or move in with his-her significant other.

You know what does?I’ll break it down later.

It’s 100 times more likely to get a woman, who’s over 35, to commit:be it to marriage,living together,or a steady LTR(relationship),opposed to a hot-young 25 year old.That should be common sensical.

But why is this?Why are older ppl much more likely to settle,marry or move in?

Common sense again:they’re fucking getting older.Duh!!Call it what you may:biological clock ticking,aging,maturity,menopause…

Along with age comes a lack of desirability by the opposite sex.A 40 year old cougar just isn’t gonna get half the play as a 20 year old PYT(pretty young thing) would.And ppl aren’t stupid:we know this!We know as we age,the pool of available man-woman would’ve dissipated and lowered.

So with that frame of not being so desirable anymore[which could be an insecurity and emptiness],we tend to fall for anyone or jump into any relationship and give it our all.

My Point:When people tend to commit or marry(which entails living together),it isn’t this LOVE stuff that’s propelling that decision.It’s an insecurity,vanity or superficiality.

It takes a very well-aware man or woman to commit for the right reasons(which is rare).

Don’t believe me?Look at your guy friends who are married (prematurely) or living with someone.

Either of these 3 things typically plays a part:1)He isn’t that attractive to begin with,so he knows he cannot afford to lallygag and play the field as if he’s Brad Pitt.So he settles .

2)He hooks up with a super-hot girl,or just a girl who’s ordinarily out of his league.So he settles or wife it up(since he doesn’t wanna risk loosing such a hot girl).

3)He’s old(er),he knows he cannot afford to play the field for the next 5 years,so he settles.

Lack of (perceived) beauty makes people settle!Not love LOL!Lack of desirability!

Getting into relationships, 90% of the times have nothing to do with the L word.Nada!!

In order to make a relationship/marriage work,you have to have some sort of insecurity(conscious or subconsciously).

A person who sees himself/herself as totally content, will NOT get into relationships.And if he-she does,they will NOT be faithful!They cannot be!

That is the prime reason for infidelity/cheating.

The girl or guy realizes that they’re still desired,beautiful, sexy and young,so they now have valuable reason to play the field again:be it actual cheating,cyber sex behind her husband’s back,whateva!

Without that feeling of desirability and wanting,that girl or guy will NOT cheat.They WILL commit.They WILL marry.They have no choice but to- since they believe they have no options.

A girl who perceives herself to be ugly or unattractive would most likely stay with her spouse and marry and commit since her option pool is limited or non-existent(according to her).

Lesson from my grandparent’s marriage:

My paternal grandparents have been married for over 40 years[If I'm correct].

The other day,I asked myself,”What made them stay together so long?How and why did it last or lasting”?

If I were to have asked them this,I guarantee they would not have been able to give a rational answer besides LOVE:which is an irrational sensation.

So I analyzed their marriage and other elderly marriages.Fount out that my grandma was way younger than he was.So he snatched up a young thing lol.What would most men do in this case?Treasure and value that woman and situation like there’s no tomorrow!If a 40 year old guy was to bag a 20 year old,you bet your life on it that he would do any and everything to ensure she doesn’t leave:be it marry,tricking like crazy…

So my grandpa had an insecurity/neediness coming into that marriage:he had a young thing and didn’t wanna let go.So as most men in that predicament would do:they cede power to the woman/wife/GF.

My grandma was like the man in this marriage lol!She ran shit!She dictated what he ate,when to eat,when to sleep(virtual curfew),etc.What she says fucking goes lol!

Papa would say to me(as late as 6 months ago),”this woman drives me nuts”!

I ask myself,”then why stay with her”?

Obviously,he has no choice.No options as a 70+ year old man.He cannot go play the field!He was obviously too old,so he did what any logical person would:stay in the marriage and endure the BS.

It’s called settling.How many of us settle for anyone just for superficial reasons:age,beauty,wealth,money…?Most of us do.

CONCLUSION

I’m not saying LOVE doesn’t exist.I’m saying that what we perceived to be LOVE is NOT what keeps us together.

But more rational,tangible and superficial things:money,wealth,kids(a family),a pretty face,nice booty,solid body,fame,etc.

Same reason why a guy won’t date a girl if he finds out she has prosthetic legs(fake legs).Or a girl won’t be open to dating a handicap or a guy who was severely burnt to his face and now looks like a talking pizza.

So we are WAY more superficial and surface-driven than we wanna admit.

The whole notion of “I’m with him ’cause I love him” is bullshit!We’re most likely with the person we are with because of these reasons:looks,money,wealth,a nice booty,nice face,solid body,good sex,kids(family)…

What makes a person genuinely commit,stay faithful is a lack of options and choices.A 70 year-old grandma has minimal to no options,a guy in a wheelchair has minimal to no options,the 400 lbs.girl knows she has limited options,so there’s no choice but to remain and commit to whomever they’re with.

The younger the person,the more options,the more possibility of infidelity.Hence the epidemic of young marriages failing from the gate.

I have to SMH @ some of my friends who get infatuated with dating girls fresh out of high school.Those girl will cheat or dump your ass or be dumped.At the end of the day,they have options out the fucking roof,so they will never truly commit until they feel that option pool has shrunken.And that is not gonna happen while a girl or guy is still in their 20′s.

It takes a strong person to commit and actually remain faithful,knowing they have options to go fuck some other girl or guy.