Last Night’s LMR(last-minute resistance)

LMR(last-minute resistance)is a PUA community coined term,where a girl resists before point of sex.

Had a girl(HB5) at her friend’s place last night(alone)…on the bed,but expected LMR(last-minute resistance)surfaced and fucked things up.

Ok,I had her on the bed,went KINO(touching her fingers),stroking her fingers and hands while saying to her,“Your skin is so soft.Tell me the secret to your soft skin”.

Stroked her bare shoulders and neck with my fingers,but she brushed my hand away,so I re-calibrated and went back to stroking her hands while talking and breathing heavily into her ears.

I visibly notice her quivering as I talked with my lips virtually touching her ear.

Things she said during LMR

•“We shouldn’t be doing this”

•“We’re going too far.I just met you”.

•“I can’t believe this is happening.I just met you days ago”.

•“If my friend finds out I have a guy in his place:he’s gonna kill me”!

•“It’s time to go”.

Calling her bluff,I said to her,“Ok,you’re right:I’m gonna leave now”.I put my sandals on and said,“Are you sure you want me to go”.Her reply,“You don’t have to”.

•“I’m not ready for this”

•“How I know you’re not gonna fuck me and forget me”?

•“I never done one-night stands before[SHH]”.

•“I feel like I’m disrespecting myself”.

•“I have a boyfriend.And I’d feel guilty.My conscience”.

While all this verbal LMR was taking place,I was pretty much using a combination of backing off,re-engaging touching(KINO),massaging her shoulders,stroking hands,rubbing her tits(in bra)…

Last-Minute Resistance(LMR) is a bitch!

The Return Of The Throwback SocialKenny[SNL Bandit]

If you’ve been following my blog since last year,you would’ve known that my primary ‘Sticking Point’ has been the dreaded ‘Flake’.In 2011,my flake ratio had been about 8 in 10.Meaning;for every 10 phone #’s I got,8 of them resulted in flakes.That’s a friggin’ staggering 80% fail ratio SMFH!

With that said,I’m making a new proclamation for 2012:A return to my
SNL & “ONS” days!Those unfamiliar with pick-up community jargon:that means Same-Night Lay & One-Night Stand.

*So,I Socialkenny,proclaim that for the remaining quarters of 2012[if the world doesn't destruct],I will NO longer focus my Game on “getting phone numbers”,because #’s lead to nowhere(in my case).

*If a girl asks for my #,I will refuse to give it to her.Point blank!

*No matter how tempted I am,I will NOT pursue her # at all,because #’s lead to flakes(in my case).

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Make no mistakes about it,this is not the 1st.time I made such declaration to then backslide into the sphere of “#-Closing”.But this time,I’m serious as a depressed- fat girl at an all-you-can eat buffet.

In 2009,my ‘Lay Rate’ was hovering around 6 in 10.Meaning,for every 10 girls I’d tried seducing,I would end up banging 6 of them.Now that’s fucking Rockstar status almost!!!

I went for the lay the same night.If after trying and the lay just doesn’t materializes,I would get her #.But 6 out of 10 times,I fuck the girl same night or one-nighter.

What has changed in my Game since 2009?I’m no longer going for the ‘BIG win‘,i.e., the pussy.I virtually stagnated myself by settling for a phone #,to then work off that.

I essentially abandoned what was working for me.It’s like an undefeated boxer abandoning what had kept him undefeated,to changing his fight style and now loses 10 in a row.

Why did I abandon the seduction model which was super successful for me(SNL)?

I guess as the pick-up community tilted its focus towards “getting #’s”,I bought into the new hype[I guess].So,as most PUA materials became ‘date & relationship-focused’,I too became focused on dating then sex.So my knack for banging girls the same night had subsided.

With all that said,I’m now re-shifting my Game back to ‘Instant-Sex Game’

And that entails:ridiculously high amounts of KINO(touching),Escalation(plowing and touching),K-Closing(kissing),Flirting,Making her horny,Seductive Eye Contact(bedroom eyes technique),Voice Tonality shift(the Barry White voice) and Leading(taking her from a public location to a seduction location).

Everything I mentioned in the above paragraph was the essence of my Game back in 2009.I rarely got girls’ phone numbers.

If I spotted a girl I liked,chatted her up,let’s say at a bar,she was coming home with me[6 out of 10 times].Or we were shagging outdoors somewhere(park,bushes,someone’s garage,abandoned-crack houses,behind dumpsters…).

Now that my focus has been on phone numbers first(since 2010),my ‘Lays’ has dramatically plummeted to a 1 in 10 chance SMFH!!

The old same-night lay Socialkenny has returned.So mothers,please guard your daughters if need be.

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Bar-Girl Field Report Broken Down

It’s 1 A.M.(Saturday morning),just strolling in from my grandma’s.Had few Coors Lights so I’m a bit tipsy as I scribe this report[excuse the slurs].

Earlier That Night

*Outside the bar,spotted a sexy 8 entering the joint solo.I rolled in 5 minutes later,went to the bar,bantered with the sexy- hired gun[bartender]about the crappy-ass music they were playing[building social proof for the 8 to see].Tried convincing her to give me a free drink to no avail[at least I tried lol].Struck up a little fluff-talk convo with another HB8 on the stool beside me:”Don’t tell me you’re addicted to that too[she was playing 1 of those scratch-lottery thingy]“?She blurted out “No”!

*After some more fluff about lottery and music,the ‘USUALS’ started rolling in,giving me some shitty looks as if I was intruding on their territory.Scanned my periphery and noticed my original target[the 8] sitting alone at a table bobbing her head to the music.At that point,I ramp my social skills up a notch so she sees what a cool/social guy I was.So I engaged the sexier bartender and the lotto-girl in a 3-way chat about beers.

*Took a swig of the Coors,glanced over and locked eyes with the target.We locked eyes for about 1.5 seconds(which is pretty fucking long).I was surprised and impressed that she didn’t look away instantly as she was caught staring and gazing at me.That was all I needed to see to know that it was ‘ON’ like Donkey Kong,and she was liking the merchandise[IOI central].

*5 minutes later,I still hadn’t approached her(kept building social proof by she seeing me chatting with other girls).I wanted to be social proofed out the ass!!!

*Ok it’s time.Enough of the preliminaries and eye contact.We locked eyes again, so I approached her table.I could overhear few guys talking shit as if they were rooting for me to get an epic rejection LMAO!

*I thought of a quick opening line[canned or what?],then decided to go with a situational opener(opener based on what’s happening around us).Perfect on-the fly opener came to me in a nano-second as I strolled over to her:

Me:[with a cocky,sly smile]“So…just let me know straight up.You like what you see or not”?

HB8:[Giggles and laughs.I actually didn't expect this reaction]“What are you talking about”?

Me:“Come on SMH:don’t play smart now.I see you checking me out all night.You must like what you see”.

HB8:[More laughter]“I was actually looking at the girl next to you scratching all those lotto tickets”.

[Of course I knew it was instant bullshit].

Me:“There wasn’t no chic next to me.Let me find out you were checking out that old- sleazy guy over there lol”.

HB8:[Laughs hysterically]…”.

I can’t remember what else was said verbatim(word for word).But I rolled off on a good note(leaving her giggly) with all my cock-funny shit.Reason for me rolling off is “pick-up 101″:didn’t want to come off as needy,or as if I was gonna be hounding her all night like a loser.So,by rolling off,it intrigued her and subcommunicated to her that I was a Man of Substance.

*Went outside,fiddled with my iPhone a bit and tweeted what was going down[Soloist knows what's up],re-entered the bar,chat up 1 of the bartenders and some dude next to me.HB8 looking bored as hell(most likely wondering why I bounced and wishing I’d return).So I went back over to her.This time,I knew that she wouldn’t mine if I stay longer,so I said to her:“pass me the other chair so I can sit.That’s pretty rude that you didn’t even suggest I sit”..

So that was 1 of my techniques of putting the girl on the spot.

*We sat and chatter for about 45 min.,with me of course occasionally getting up and leaving for a minute or two to take a piss and chat up some other girls(to let her know that she had to work for my ass to stay).

HB8:“I’ve been coming to this bar for the past 2 months but never seen you”.
Me:[Her interest level skyrocketing]“Actually I seen you the other week and wanted to approach but you had an army of guys swarming you.IDK if they were your bodyguards but I didn’t wanna get beat up”.

HB8:[She hits me on my shoulder/IOI]“These guys here are boring.I sat all night bored”.[Her way of letting me know she's available and wanted more stimulation].

*Holy shit!!!!This chic had a whole bottle of Smirnoff Vodka for herself LMAO!She told me it was for her and her date.That’s when I figured someone was to meet her.I busted on her about her date standing her up or that we should leave and hide from him.

Flirt meter is on maximum right now!

*We talked about drinking,who could handle the most:women or men,she mentioned that she “ loves to dance and sweat out the alcohol “[sweating indicates hot-steamy sex to me lol],then we had a damn-near 10 minutes dialogue on Body Piercings.Said she always wanted a tongue ring[oral baby lmao!],I fibbed and told her that I have one,so come closer to see it[but I never followed through].Then she said,” What about other piercings like below? “.Woa!!!After telling her I love to see piercings “downtown”,she hits me in a playful-flirty manner[IOI]…

*Coulda,Woulda,Shoulda moment:At that juncture(after she hits me,laughing about pussy-lip piercing,I could’ve gone in for the kiss-close make out right on the spot[fuck man!!].

Now,I know to guys who have no Game,or to the feminists,that’s tantamount to molestation and sexual harassment,by making out with a strange girl at a bar.But to a pick-up artist and a woman in heat:that’s perfectly acceptable dammit!!She craves for a guy who can be that bold to seize the fucking moment.However,I bitched out on the moment to grab her and tongue her down[SMDH].

*She invited me to go clubbing with her later on after the bar.I declined.Why?I’m not accompanying any girl to the club,to then get lost in the charged atmosphere .If I met her at the club:then cool,I have to seduce her there”.But I felt it would’ve been a step backward to take her clubbing.Fuck clubbing!I wanna take her home!

*It’s almost an hour later and her would-be date hadn’t arrived[I knew it was bullshit.She was basically tryna convince me that she was highly desired by men].I decided it was time to get her #:

Me: “So are you allowed to give out your #?I mean it’s OK if you can’t.I really wouldn’t want your secret-husband to find out that a sexy guy like me was tryna seduce his wife lol”.

HB8:”LHAO you are funny.I don’t have a husband nor anyone to answer to “.

Me:“It betta not be a fake # or I’m gonna spank that ass!I’m gonna call it right now to confirm,so tell me the truth now if it’s a fake.I won’t be mad at you if it is”.

HB8:“LHAO it’s not a fake.Call it right now-I bet you”!

BTW,that’s a little trick I learned years ago from a natural[calling her bluff by threatening to call her on the spot].

*The # was official(as expected).I told her to “put a sexy name with my # in your phone.Something like Sexy K”.

*As much as I’m down for banging her right away,I had to run some errands for my grandma before it got too late[DAMN!!!]!!! Told her that I was leaving her to the fun & interesting guys since I was obviously making her bored[I was basically rubbing it in since I knew I was the most interesting and ballsy guy in the bar.Ok I know that sounds condescending but...].

*10 minutes later,I sent her a text message telling her to enjoy at the bar and the club later on.And that I might just meet up with her at the club[which I didn't mean by the way].

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BREAKDOWN LESSON:

The key points in last night’s pick-up were these:

1.Before I approached,I craftily made sure she seen me chatting to other girls and guys.This made her see that I was Social,Safe & Well-Liked .By approaching with this groundwork set:there’s no way on Earth she would’ve rejected me.This is the essence of social-circle game.I was virtually rejection-proof at that point!

2.I approached her confidently and cocky.Not giving a shit to offend by assuming she was checking me out.Assumption openers are my favorite.

3.I False-Time Constraint.That’s pick-up community jargon for positioning your body as though you’re about to leave,or not intending to stay long.So instead of grabbing a chair and sit right away,I acted as if I was leaving,continued chatting then went back to the bar counter.

4.I kept getting up,kept chatting to other women in the venue.Other guys would’ve been glued to the seat all night,giving her undivided attention(which she doesn’t deserve at that point).

5.My vibe said to her that in order to keep me chatting with you,you’re gonna have to work harder and show more interest in me .By getting up continuously,it says to her subconscious that she’s boring me,and I’m not that into her.That would then trigger her to show more interest by subtle signs[IOI's].In turn,what did she do when I sat back down?She showed more interest in me by smiling more,laughing more,subconsciously turning her body towards me more,flirting more,talking more,asking more questions…

6.I teased her a lot,busted on her,laughed at her…I basically had an IDGAF persona.Obviously,that made her more interested in me[Krauser PUA is good at this.]

7.I never rushed for her phone #.I could’ve done what most guys would:nervously talk to her for half a minute via boring questions.Ask for her #(without any attraction),get the fake # then leave.Or if she does give a real #,she would just not answer whenever he calls. By me getting her # almost an hour down the road:it was guaranteed to be a REAL #,and we would’ve had more rapport and connection.

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My 3 Mistakes:

1.I didn’t touch her often enough[KINO].Somehow,I felt a bit too pussy to get more physical as usual[I should've went Arab Game on her].

2.I didn’t suggest we bounce together for a walk or something.I stayed too fucking long in the same location!

3.As the first mistake pointed out:I could’ve been more sexual,more touchy,and went for the kiss as I noticed she was opened for it. Hey Solo,I know you said on Twitter that you wanted some pic’ proof.Stay tuned bro’ lol.

Field report:”KINO lesson-the Arab way”.

It’s been 3 straight nights of hard-bar game at the same bar I gamed at 2 nights ago[Christmas Eve Field Report(at the bar)].I’m going and going like a damn energizer-bunny!!!

Last night,I entered the bar and spotted a 2 set chubby girls sitting alone at a table waiting on drinks.I wasn’t gonna wait around like an anti-social dude,so I said WTH,I might as well entertain the fatties until some hotter girls rolled in[social proof].So I rolled over to their table[an empty seat was there],time constraint,sat down by saying,”I’m not asking anyone’s permission to sit here.It’s a free world so let’s enjoy the freedom while it lasts”.Cheeky/cocky-funny lines like those are my favorite.They never fail me.I threw it with a sly smile and the girls giggled away at how ballsy I was.

A while later,some Arab dude rolled up to the table,introduced himself,started chatting up the other fatty,grabbed a seat and started gaming lol.Talk about balls.This MOFO had game and exuded an alpha confidence that made me look like a fucking looser!The thing that was surprising about his verbal game(which I over heard via his poor English)was that he used negs and he never held back on saying shit that the average guy would see as ‘forward,disrespectful and inappropriate’.This MOFO natural had game lol!

Most of all:he KINO’d the fuck out of that girl LMAO!!!Right off the bat!!!

It wasn’t loud at all in the venue,but the Syrian-Rico Suave understood KINO and getting close,so he was all up in her ear and on her shoulders.

The girl was totally into him after a while:getting all up into his space.

Doesn’t he look like Fatush from the movie Zohan with the bandana on his head LMAO?

I wasn’t doing much of anything besides waiting for some HB’s to come through.I mean-I was definitely active(verbally)and keeping the vibe up,but I wasn’t engaging my fatty despite talking to me.One more beer and those chubbies probably would be looking like models I would lay,but I just drank a Coors and relaxed.

Funny thing about it though,these girls were fucking buying out their asses!!I never had to spend a dime.Neither did the Syrian dude lol.This guy was awesome in that he didn’t go AFC and buy drinks.These girls were literally slinging drinks at us as if to get us drunk or something!!!They ordered some tacos and pizza for all of us[go figure-they really should not have been eating that shit lol].

About 2 hours in,some HB9′s rolled in so I approached and open at the counter,“Hey,you’re that girl who stood me up the other night[with a smile of course].That was messed up.The 2 set smiled and giggled and denied it was her.The fatter one gravitated to me as if she planned on picking me up.What the fuck is with me and big girls!?They seem to always try re-open me and select me as their targets.

Hot chic in white was my target who I’d hit with the ‘stood me up’ line.

My target was the trim one but the bigger one basically brushed her aside and started engaging me!Fuck!!!So the slimmer one was being chatted up by some AFC dude.I was literally in set for like 45 minutes with this hefty girl(who was mighty cute in the face BTW lol) but she kept pushing comfort/rapport stuff looking for a deep connection by talking to me about having a miscarriage years ago…So I snuck back off to the original fatty-set.The Arab dude was hugged up with his,2 other black dudes were at the table tag teaming the other one.The girls was busting on me for bouncing on them…

The key lesson for all of us(from the Syrian-Rico Suave)is this:

KINO,KINO,KINO!!!And you don’t have to buy girls drinks in order to get some play.Have the girls buy you drinks instead.That’s a more powerful tactic to make her invest.

This dude pecked her on the cheeks,hugged her,touched her waist(after talking about some body tattoos),massaged her arms,tugged on her chubby cheeks like a mom would do to her chubby baby lol.This fucking dude was the quintessential example of an Alpha.His calibration and timing was so ‘ON’ that whenever he’d KINO’d,the girl never recoiled since it wasn’t awkward.

I learned a lot last night from the Arab stallion lol.Who knows what the hell happened.They all left together(while I was engaging some other girls).Maybe they had a fatty 3-some.

I wanna believe KINO is huge in the Middle-East,or at least customary.because the way this guy came off from the gate seems as if it’s something he was born with.

And check out Christmas Eve Field Report.

TV Match-Makers Give Shitty-Dating Advice

Commercial match-makers

It’s no secret that women give the worst dating advice in the world.Well actually-it is an anomaly,since everyone would assume that a woman would be most qualified to give dating tips on how to seduce a woman.But that’s a story for another time[women being shitty at seduction tips].

Don’t ask me why,but I’m addicted to watching those bullshit-ass “Match Maker” shows on cable,like Patti Stanger’s Millionaire Match Maker(on Bravo),and Steve Ward’s Tough Love(on VH1).

How many of these AFC’ish reality shows do they have on TV anyway!!!?

Just last week,I found out about another one called “Why am I still single”?The match-maker in this one is named Siggy Flicker- another female.

I like their no-nonsense approach to critiquing their clients on style,fashion and such.But in general,their advice to men is fucking horrible!Advocating pedestaling the women!What!!!

I watched an episode where Siggy scold 1 of her male clients for flirting on the date!In this regard,I love Patti,’cause she’s always encouraging the guys to k-close the girl and actually KINO lol.

But in most case,they advocate playing it safe,pedestaling and chivalry to the max[SMDH].Better off taking advice from watching Sitch & them on Jersey Shore bang hotties.’Cause it’s not in the guy’s interest to wine and dine some random chic on the first date,then play it safe and hope that she’d want to see you again:only for you to do the same pedestaling shit AGAIN!

Rather than advising guys to keep it light and crawl first,they’re prodding them to act all LTR on day 2′s(smh).Taking advice from commercial match-makers would have guys turn into true wussbags & doormats.

If you thought only guys did weird shit:wait until you read this[escapade with a stalker]!

Interesting story guys:

Past Sunday night on my way to the club,I spotted a girl standing alone outside.

Well,nothing strange in that.

But something was odd about this picture:

1.She wasn’t dressed as if she was going clubbing.

2.Hair disheveled.

3.She stood afar as if to not be seen.

Anywho,me being the social-fanatic I am,I approached her[without any pick-up routines; just banter]:

Me:”Hey,if that’s how you going in the club tonight…much props to you girl[smiley face]“.

Lone Wolf:”Lol what’s that supposed to mean”.

Me:”Im just saying.Seems like your girl crew abandoned you.That’s messed up”.

Lone Wolf:”Lol nah,Im actually not going in.Im tryna find someone”.

Me:”Its’ 1 am,I doubt this the best time to be out looking for someone”.

Lone Wolf:”Its my boyfriend.If he thinks Im gonna be watching kids all night while he’s out clubbing-fuck that!!

Alarm bells rang off!

Baby-mama drama.This is not the type of shit for me!

So now Im looking for a quick exit out of this chat,to not get caught up in any drama before the night even kicked off.

But then again,my drama-loving intuition kicked in.Plus she wasn’t the ugliest girl I seen for the day.She was probably an HB7 with melon-sized tits:so WTH(lol)!

Me:”Well….I doubt you want him to spot you…so let’s go some where near to sit and chat”.

As any alpha should,I took her hand and started walking the opposite direction from the club.

Some token resistance as expected:

Lone Wolf:”Where are we going?There’s no where to sit around here”.

Playfully kept leading her to the nearest secluded spot,by the way,which happened to be next to some huge-ass dumpster[lol talk about shitty logistics].

I rapidly KINO escalated like a fucking machine on auto!

Some more token resistance reared it’s ugly head,so she said,”I think people can see us from here”.

Bull-friggin’ shit!!!

So I eased off the heavy KINO to start dancing with her to some music which was coming from the opened-air club.

Lone Wolf:”Oh shit,is that him”!!?

Me:”Him who”?

Lone Wolf:”That fucking bastard boyfriend of mines.He’s the one in front”!

A drunken crew of guys was strolling our way, making more noise than a lynch mob reading to hang somebody.

So now Im like,”WTF are you doing,spying on him”?

Lone Wolf:”I wouldn’t say spying.His ass just shouldn’t expect me to baby sit all day while he gets drunk and flirt with bitches”!

Wow!An actual female-staked in the flesh!

Now Im just praying that her drunk BF and his mob dont spot us beside this dumpster and fuck my ass up(lmfao).

But this lunatic chicc wanted to confront him so I had to try talking her ass out doing it right there and then.

Potential bomb defused(yes!),so as the mob passed,I felt relieved.

She wanted to follow them.I wanted to bang her outdoors.

My frame was stronger(or her hormones were raging),so The KINO re-commenced.

It went as far as tit-play ’cause she kept saying she had to leave,she left her kids home alone…bla,bla,bla.

Psycho alarms went off.But I knew better,that this was just standard-token resistance.

We fooled around some more.But her impulsive to run off to stalk her boyfriend/baby daddy was stronger than my frame,so I called it a night and headed to the club.

Lessons to take away:

*Frame control is key.Have a stronger frame than hers will get you far.

*Its’ better to escalate fast until she stops you,than to not escalate at all.

*Fuck the perfect logistics!If you can lay her in the middle of heavy traffic-do it!The logistics will never be 100% in your favor.

The key insight I learned from this escapade was that women can be just as needy as men.

I never thought in a million years that a chic would virtually stalk her boyfriend(when she can just easily phone 1 of her options).

Ciao!!!