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A great argument for men to cheat
Argument for cheating
First off,let me state that “I hate the word CHEAT“!Seems so crass,disingenuous and diabolical.Promiscuity rolls off the heart a lot smoother.
Secondly,I don’t advocate men to cheat because I myself has desires to have a harem of women which to chose from and fuck my brains out daily!Nah!I’m actually satisfied with monogamy and having 1 sexual partner.I couldn’t fathom having to bang more than 1 wife or 3 GF’s in the same time frame.So I give Muslim men mad props for having the sexual tenacity and stamina,’cause once every 2 weeks is enough for me LMAO.
Ladies:please digest the following facts:
*Last time I’ve heard,females outnumber males like 6 to 1(globally).That figure should’ve already increased over the last 10 years.
*Men are dying daily,at a more rapid rate than women(in every country almost):Men are dying by the thousands in many wars and conflicts going on around the world.Men have been dying on a large scale since World War 1 into the post-September 11 era(Iraq,Afghan,Libya,etc.).So it’s no secret than men are dying out FAST!Hundreds of conflicts in Africa-men are dying.All the while,the female population has been growing(women generally don’t die in wars).
Men are dying constantly
*Women generall live longer than men(medically accepted fact)in the western world.Also think it’s safe to say that most homicides perpetrated in the world are against men(gun violence,gangs,etc.).
Point is:men were always drastically outnumbered by women,and that number has been gravely increased over the last 100 years(via the points I made above).
And sooooooo?
A muslim guy from Lebanon once said to me(years ago),”If in the world that every man only had 1 partner,then what happens to the rest of the women on Earth”?
That question was fucking powerful!!Had me thinking for weeks LMAO!!Consider that people.
If this world was monogamous(1 man to every woman as women want it),then millions of disenfranchised females would essentially die out without the possibility of leaving offsprings to carry on her legacy.That’s deep!!
Women who are crying out,”all men are dogs“,when you think about it,you most likely wouldn’t have that beautiful baby boy/girl if men weren’t promiscuous.
You(female) most likely would NOT have experienced sex if guys were to not mess around and be with 1 woman his entire life.Sex,marriage and kids would be impossible for almost all of the women on Earth if men were to not mess around.
So ladies,be glad that men are biologically programmed to screw more than 1 woman.’Cause if he wasn’t,you would most like NOT exist as a person.
My pops was a ladies’-man(still does his thing in NYC to date lol).If he hadn’t left the woman he was dealing with to be with my mother,then SocialKenny would NOT be here right now.If he had stuck with his first baby-mama,my ass would NOT have been created.
So it’s a blessing in disguise that men mess around,have multiple wives,partners and so forth.
And for the record,I do not want multiple partners at the same time.So this post wasn’t an excuse for me to become a serial cheater.Just making a point that men are NOT dogs.We do what we do(subconsciously) in order to keep the human race alive.That was the purpose of mankind being created,right[be fruitful and multiply]?
Food for thought.
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The Biology Of Cheating Men[women must read this!!].
This article is specifically aimed at women,in hopes of shedding some light on the contentious-issue of “Cheating”.And no:this article is not an excuse nor green light for men to dog women out.So feminists-no need to get all revved up over this.
I had an interactive discourse earlier with a female blogger[Serenity ]on the subject of cheating.Her stance was basically that “men cheat more,men are dogs…typical-female jargon[go figure right?].That’s an argument for another post.This article will highlight the more intricate details of Why men cheat?
Women should understand that at no point in history(pre-history to as late as the 1800′s)was men ever deemed to have 1 partner,i.e.a One-Woman Man.
*Men were always expected to have concubines,few wives and be Promiscuous.Men are promiscuous creatures by nature.
*Trying to force a guy to be Monogamous(having 1 woman) is essentially forcing him to go against his nature and what he’s always innately known as a man[to be promiscuous].
*Being faithful is NOT normal for a men.Yes:it can be done, and is done[men are typically far more faithful than women].However,it still doesn’t negate the fact that being faithful to 1 woman is still an un-natural and foreign act.
*The very tainted Bible that everyone loves to death,it’s a haven for promiscuous men(prophets),and it advocates Polygany(having more than one wife).
*The pre-history men(Neanderthal & homo-erectus),aka Caveman,they of course partook in promiscuity,sleeping with various women,etc.
*Every step along history(pre- and modern),men were known as Promiscuous.It was the norm,accepted,no big deal.
I’ve said all that to say,it’s virtually IMPOSSIBLE for anyone,or any guy,to erase what is essentially in his genes,hardwired over the course of millions of years that men has existed.
*So its’ fallacious to expect men to suddenly re-wire our genetical makeup because of what “modern” society considers Wrong,Unfaithful and Cheating.
*Modern society(particularly the western world) and the feminist movement, are trying to force men into living an Un-Natural lifestyle(being faithful to 1 woman).
*So rather than screaming,”All men are dogs“.Women need to look at Infidelity on a man’s part as a biological,evolutionary and internal struggle for us men.You’re expecting us to virtually eradicate what was ingrained in us for millions of years[having more than 1 partner].
*Evolution does NOT work that way!!!
*It took from 350,000 to over 2 million years of evolution for men to make basic biological,environmental and Behavioral changes.
*Likewise with trying to get men to alter their biological wiring to cheat and be promiscuous:it’d take hundreds of thousands of years to happen[and we're not even into 50 years of men trying to practice "Monogamy].
*So ladies,this might be a hard pill to digest,but understand that when a man messes around:he’s only doing what comes natural to him[over the course of 6 million years in his DNA].
*It’s equivalent to society trying to force women to ‘NOT’ care for and nurture their children(a behavioral act they’ve been doing for millions of years).
‘Want To Know If He’s Cheating’?
I was just lying here in my apartment,gazing around,brainstorming some interesting topics I can blog about.
Now-I’m a man[DUH!],which means I’m NOT too inclined in keeping my bachelor pad in tip-top shape;pants thrown here,boxer-briefs tossed there,dirty Converse all-stars propped up on the old CPU,oily-pizza box from last week staring at me from under the bed[LMAO]…you know-typical male-mess.We tend do get slobby at times.Men who live alone can relate-right?
So I was dialoging with myself,”It’s the Holiday season,eventhough I’m anti-climactic about it,I’m expecting to pull some hot girls back to the pad.My GF and I are sought-of on a break[what's fucking new?],so I betta get this shit in order!
Like a city roach scrambling to take refuge when the lights come on-I did the same shit and scurried to get the pad in order, and some-what clean LOL.
As I’m cleaning,I said to myself,”Look at how easily I could’ve been busted if my girlfriend and I were still exclusive SMH”.
For the guys who aren’t in relationships,nor haven’t been in one recently,this may seem vague to you.I’ll explain a bit later.
It’s generally accepted,or at least in the seduction community,that women are 100 times more perceptive than us men.Women are fucking clairvoyant,which means they can pick up on shit lightning fast,while we men are slow as snails to pick up on things.Thus the social stigma that women are best at cheating(since they rarely get caught compared to men).Women can pick up on: when a guy likes her,when he’s trying to buy his way into her panties,when he’s nervous,etc.Women got that!!They are good at picking up on patterns.
Pertaining to patterns:men tend to get lazy after few months in a relationship, thus falling into a routine(which his GF notices):
*He no longer gets a haircut
*Farts around her
*Lets his guards down
*Lives like a slob
*Isn’t worried about cleaning his pad every single minute just because his girlfriend is coming over.
My point is,it’s common that people(mainly men)fall back into a lazy routine after ‘winning the so-called prize’(the girl).
During the course of my LTR,I settled into the pattern too LOL,”What the hell-that’s my girl!I’m not gonna hire a fucking maid nor become one, just ’cause she’s coming over!So what if the fridge is empty or the cat pissed on the floor:I’ll have her grab some snacks on the way over then clean up the cat mess when she gets here[shrug]“!
It’s normal to operate that way when dealing with your partner.You can relax,be lazy and not worry about impressions.
But do we operate that way when hoping to pull some new ass?Of course not LMAO!!!With the possibility of a new prospect coming over,if the guy has to search Craig’s list for a cat-sitter or bum some money off a buddy to stack his fridge,then he will do it by any friggin’ means!!!Can’t have your date come over and your dirty underwears are sprawling all over the couch,exposing her to your slobbery.
But this is where a lot of cheating guys go wrong.They break their patterns without reasons.This isn’t just related to domestic things as cleaning.This could be a guy who never goes to the gym.Then suddenly,he starts going to the gym often.Yes,he CAN truly want to lose 10 lbs.to gratify himself.But when sudden change of patterns and lifestyles occur,9-10 times,it signals infidelity or the thought of it.
If a guy only tidies his crib once a month,then starts doing it every week(without reason),then it’s crystal clear that he’s doing it for the purpose of picking up women[a new woman].Or appearing presentable to that woman.
People just don’t break patterns and routines for their spouses,partners nor someone they’re already familiar with(relatives,etc.).We generally break patterns to make an impression on people we are NOT familiar with.
Classic Example:My girlfriend used to hound me to fucking death about getting a haircut,cutting my Mohawk…did I do it?Hell no LOL!!!
*She harassed me about a jeans I wore which had a mini-hole in the crotch area.Did I stop wearing it?Lol of course I still wore that shit!
Now that it’s the Holiday season and I’m expecting to see a lot of girls in town from NYC[escaping the Winter to the islands],my GF and I are on a break(as usual-can’t get along),so picking up random hotties is a ‘MUST’.
You can bet a million bucks that I went to the barbershop yesterday!I can guarantee that I won’t be seen wearing those jeans with the hole in the crotch around possible prospects LOL!!!Essentially,my pattern and routine were broken due to possible prospects.
So if you really wanna know if your GF/BF is cheating or looking to cheat:pay attention to their patterns and lifestyle changes.Subtle things as NOT wearing a shirt that they always wore,tidying their apartment outside of their usual allotted time could be red flags.
Men tend to NOT be readily able to pick up on these subtleties(coming from their girlfriends).However women can spot these changes and break in patterns like friggin’ witchdoctors.Women truly have an innate ability to see through the bullshit.That’s why it’s harder for a man to cheat and get away with it.In the same token,that’s why it’s easier for a girl to cheat and get away with it.Men naturally don’t pick up on patterns.That’s why it’s hard for us to gauge whether a girl likes us or not.While a girl can tell within a blink of an eye that that guy wants to ravishing her.
So guys,if y’all plan on being cheating dogs,remember to not break patterns and routines unless you have plausible reasons.’Cause if you do:she will know it.
Top 3 things girls lie about:and why.
I got the idea for writing this short post after seeing a tweet from GMacwith a link to a blog post by Don called:Top 5 lies guys and girls tell.
Don’s list was spot on from my experience.
Ok let’s get to it!
“I never cheated”:
LMAO,this one is a classic fib we’ve all heard before.
Now I’m not saying that all women cheat,but for the ones who do,under most circumstances,They’d deny,deny,deny!!!
The Reason:
Let’s face it:society is unforgiven towards women who get their freak on on the side.
We men get praises and badges on honor for infidelity:players,pimps,dons,gyalist[a Caribbean term for players],etc.
With that in mind,every woman knows she has to be extremely cautious in guarding her infidelity against the social backlash of being labeled a slut or hoe.
So it’s much easier for her to lie and say she never cheated.
“I don’t give head”
Another classic fib I usually get from girls I’d just met.
This one is so friggin’ common…I expect to hear it from every new girl I meet!
The Reason:
It’s pretty much the same as the first reason:not wanting to be judged as slutty.
A girl is willing to do ANYTHING sexually,as long as she’s certain she won’t be judged for those actions.
So let’s say she just met a hot guy,they hit it off,the sex topic comes up,she isn’t sure about this new guy(as to if he’s a critic or not),so her natural inclination would be to deny doing sexual acts which may be seen as taboo,nasty or slutty.
So it’s much easier and safer to lie about going down town.
“I don’t have one-nighters”
Classic lol!!!
Which guy on the face of the Earth never heard this lie before!!!?
If you’re used to getting laid,well you SHOULD be familiar with this fib.
I don’t have enough fingers and toes to behind to count the amount of times I’d picked up a chicc in a nightclub,who tells me she doesn’t have SNL(same-night lays),but later that night I’m banging the shit out of her!
The Reason she lies about not having one-nighters or Same Night Lays:
Just as the above the 2 reasons I’d outlined:this one comes down to not wanting to be judged and deemed a whore.
Every guy would love to brag about having one-nighters.
But for a girl!!!!She avoids admitting to this like it’s a fucking plague!
Never had I met a chicc who admitted having one-night stands.
When she does end up sleeping with me the same night,it’s always the same story,”I can’t believe I just did that.I never slept with a guy on the same night.You’re the first”.
What a fucking ego-stroker for me lol.
I would have loved to believe that I was her first-but bullshit!
Note:
What do the 3 lies have in common?
Plausible Deniability
It’s much safer(socially and emotionally)to just deny ever doing those things.
No woman wants to be judged,defamed nor characterized by the men she’s hoping to court her.
To say to a guy with which she’s hoping to have a relationship,that she sucks cock,or that she’s cheated before-that would be a turnoff to most men.
Women being privy to this,know that it’s much easier to just lie in order to NOT turn off a would-be boyfriend/good man.
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