Greatest obstacle to getting laid is not her beliefs:it’s bad logistics.

This post is specifically geared towards shedding some light on female psychology when it comes to dating.

Looking back at my past lays and almost lays,and analyzing other guys’ situations,I realize that the greatest obstacle to getting laid is logistics-not what the girl believes(her beliefs).

A lot of newbies on seduction forums get it twisted also by being swindled into ‘taking it slow’,respecting her views and values.

Cool-we should respect everyone’s views,but when it comes to dating and sex,a woman’s views and values mean Nothing…Nada!

Prime example:

Girl tells guy,”I don’t sleep with guys on the 1st.date.Not even the 3rd.date”.

An AFC or newbie would buy this shit,thus taking such declarations literal.

He being misinformed would then wait,or not go KINO out of fear of rejection,or fear of offending her values on not banging on the 1st.date.

Up and coming dating coaches like myself,we know better than to fall for this BS,so we plow anyway accordingly.

And the spin-off insight here is that chiccs’ frames and beliefs are friggin’ pliable and weak!

Humans in general go against what they believe.But with women,going against their values are much more common.

I don’t have figure for this so Im only basing it on personal experiences(which is the best teacher).

My point?A woman’s frame is weak!

Every woman wants to come off as assertive,strong and firm,but when faced with someone who gets it,she won’t mine betraying her previously-held beliefs just for that moment.

So when a chicc tells me she doesn’t have sex out if wedlock(anymore),that shit flies out the other ear in a heart beat!

Same as when a girl tells me she has a BF and she thinks cheating is a grave sin,I game on just as if she was single.

Having the knowledge that her frame can be beaten and her beliefs and views are bullshit in the moment,I pay no mind to her views.

Logistics:

So the greatest obstacle to getting ass is logistics(bad ones).

I’ve never had a pick up fucked up because of the girl’s belief or that she’s celebate or some shit.

But I’ve had sets fuck up many times because of poor logistics.

Examples of bad logistics fucking up potential lays:

1.After the club,tried taking the girl home but wasn’t thinking and forgot to park the car nearby(to kill any backward rationalizing by her)

2.My crib was too friggin dirty

3.Living with my grandma once so couldn’t lay the chicc in peace.

4.No where to lay her,took her to my uncle’s spot but he wasn’t home(lol).

I can go on and on and on bro!

Push comes to shove,I’d lay a girl anywhere possible,so logistics have to really be flubbed up if I didn’t lay her on a street corner or behind a dumpster lol.

The lesson here is guys,don’t let her views,religion,beliefs deter you from seducing her.

Girls are willing to put their beliefs aside for a good time or for one night.

Enlightenment:girl confirms seduction insights over phone chat

Interesting thing went down tonight during a phone call with an HB9:let’s call her Risky.

Ok,brief info about how we met:

In fact,she’s a recent- Facebook friend of mine and we actually FB chatted for a good damn portion of the evening.

Number exchanged quite smoothly[sly smile].

Called her up about an hour ago(half hour after the # close) and we had an enlightening/revealing chat about seduction and pick-up.

Generally,I have no friggin’ qualms of telling girls what I do and about the community[don't crucify me guys-lol].

So,after dropping the proverbial A-bomb that I’m a PUA,she actually took it as expected-intrigued and hooked like fucking chicc crack!

It always kills me why guys hide the fact that they do pick up as if it’s a friggin’ turn off to women!

Anyway,these were the main points that Risky(the HB9)confirmed:

1.PRE-SELECTION

She confirms to me that pre-selection does exist!

I hear many gurus nowadays trying to shoot down the concept of pre-selection,actually saying that it doesn’t exist or it isn’t necessary nor helpful to the pick-up.

Well Risky actually shared a snippet with me about her current BF and how she got with him.

According to her,it came down to pre-selection[eventhough it was done subconsciously by her].

Pre-selection had trumped any other quality that this guy might or might not have had.

Not using PS would be would be like a cripple refusing to use a wheelchair.

2.DRINKS

No she didn’t give the OK to buy drinks all night like a chode(lol).

But the funny thing though,she actually tried defending the “buying-drink syndrome” as expected.

Risky:”What’s wrong with buying us drinks?So if you’d met me at the club,wouldn’t you buy me a drink”?

After saying “hell no” like a true fucking alpha,she came clean and admitted, in other words, that drink-buying would be beta and supplicative.

Thanks to having a stronger frame,she fessed the hell up(lmao)!!

She went as far as to insinuate that drink-buying would be tantamount to trying to buy the ass or buy her attention.

Classic beta male shit for trying to get laid at bars.

The last revelation was:

3.BAD BOYS

Yep-it was confirmed:hotter girls ARE attracted to the rebels(yes)!

Side note:Risky(the HB9 on the phone)isn’t admitting these things directly.

More so subconsciously and subcommunicatively.

Afterall,it’s a like a push-pull dance;the guy(me)seeks insight.The girl gets irrational,try side step from agreeing directly then opts for the indirect route lol.

Truely,I didn’t need her to confirm these things to me(in whichever way she did).

I see these concepts at play all day in field.

But it’s refreshening when you can have an HB9 corroborate deeply-held dating- psychology concepts.

So guys,pre-selection is relevant as the sun to existence.

Buying drinks like losers is still a friggin’ no-no!!

As I told her,there are few exceptions to buying strangers drinks:

*A girl you’ve been acquainted with prior,who you’re not even gaming for whatever reason.

*A relative,sister,etc.

*Or a girl you’ve already banged.

Those are my 3 exceptions to buying a girl a drink off the bat.

And I wanna believe that it’s the community’s exceptional cases also.

As expected,she said I was cheap for not buying drinks(lol),but with a stronger meta-frame,she admitted that it would’ve DLV’d me.

Overall,it was a good chat and she confirmed a lot of things many of us in the seduction community seen as antiquated,outdated and irrelevant.