SocialKenny’s PUA Show:Podcast Episode#2:On Twitter-Troll Ferdinand Bardamu[4-29-2012]

Podcast addressing the internet/Twitter troll:Ferdinand Bardamu.

In this 2nd.episode of Kenny’s PUA Show,I talk about:

•Ferd aka “The Turd’s” trolling
•His wack blogs
•How he turned me down as a contributing poster:but now regrets
•He being offended that I exposed Douche & Moist aka Roosh & Roiss.

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If the pop-up flash player doesn’t work,you can always download the mp3 version of the show @ the following link Download

Ferdinand Bardamu:A Twitter-Trolling Closet Fan Of SocialKenny PUA.

I was told that this was Ferd aka Turd as a child,donned in his Nazi costume for Halloween LMAO!!!!!

Tell ‘em why you mad Turd!!!

You secretly admire my shit,but don’t know how to go about expressing that admiration.So like an insecure Twitter-trolling homo;you lash out.

It took a great deal of boredom for me to actually address this bi-polar troll,who calls himself Ferd’.

Obviously,Mr.Turd has been off his meds,thus going off like lose firecrackers in Twitter-ville.

Apparently butt-hurt and disheartened that I had the cojones to expose his “CLOSET” lovers:RooshV & Chateau Heartiste.But hey look- I don’t knock him for defending his boyfriends.Wouldn’t any female defend the guy who’s banging her?

I apologize Turd!

But if this’ your lame-shit attempt to indirectly get some @ mentions on twitter,in order to gain some notoriety in the Men’s movement[in which you're an underling,non-entity minion BTW]:Epic fucking fail Turd!!!

Now look,we shouldn’t blame “The Turd” for being an attention-whore.Yea yea yea,I know he comes off like a fat kid in a candy store,or a little lass who’s been menstruating for the 1st.time…But understand;he has no home training.That trailer-park upbringing wasn’t sufficient enough in instilling manhood and gravitas.

Blame his senile parents for not recognizing his sex,thus rearing him as a girl instead of a boy[I empathize man SMH]!!

This is why Ferd “The Turd” is mad:

Apart from me slinging some proverbial arrows at his 2 masters[Roosh & Roiss aka Douche & Moist],Mr.Turd’s sudden anger towards me goes a bit deeper than that.

Few months prior,I’d signed up to become a poster/member of his wack-ass site InMalaFide:in hopes of spicing up his boring blog via better content(which means more readers,comments and traffic).

But,Mr.Turd e-mailed me saying that he’s too busy to incorporate any more members or whatever…I frankly wondered “WTF can one be busy doing on a trailer-park:besides fucking his teeth-less grandma[pretty sick shit Turd]”!!

In hindsight:I should be the one fucking vexed that he tried playing me by denying me a poster spot on his weak blog LMAO!

But you see,bitchism doesn’t run in my blood.Nor do I harbor malice.So I re replied to his e-mail saying something along the lines of,“No prob bro’.I understand.Whenever you get the time.It’s all good”.

And to further demonstrate that I don’t hold grudges over bullshit:I began following him on Twitter LOL!When I should’ve felt offended that he denied me a contributing- author spot on his weak,low traffic blogs!!

So it turns out that Turd probably browsed my blog afterwards,seen my killer content and insights on pick-up,religion and politics,then realized the great potential I had in attracting massive amounts of new traffic and readers to his blogs…So he regretted.

Instead of being a big man to say,“Hey Kenny,I apologize for excluding you.I can now sign you up”.

He chose to go out like a little bitch to show his lack of manliness by lashing out on me via insults[a sloppy hot-mess off his bi-polar meds].

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That’s what separates real men/Alpha’s,from the “pretenders” aka Beta-Males like Turd.

A jealous fucking closet-fan of my active PUA blog.

But since Ferd’s an insecure bitch:he’d never come out to actually admit that he reads my articles[on the low],and enjoys them more than the bullshit he writes himself!!Nor will he ever admit that he actually learns some pick-up tactics along the way LOL.

Your blog is wack,you don’t get laid,have no skills in seduction,your vaginal canal gets bruised because I talk shit about your lovers Douche & Moist: formerly known as Roosh & Roiss.

Then you wanna talk shit on Twitter about my Game LOL!!

Check my field reports and lay reports.Check my video page and see me in action via Youtube.

So please,do all of us a favor in the online-men’s movement,and remember to take your fucking meds bro’!

That bi-polar shit you pulled last night wasn’t cute at all[Twitter troll].Or maybe you had 1 too many cans of Old Milwaukees.If you can’t handle your liquor:Don’t Drink!!

And tell your husbands Douch & Moist aka Roosh & Roiss[check out the podcast by following this Link Here] ,that SocialKenny PUA said fuck ‘em!!

And if your minions feel offended[preferably FFY aka Fly Fresh & Dumb]:fuck them too!

Ferd “The Turd” and his gang of “Troll”ing minions.

P.S.To those not inclined to reading,or simply can’t friggin’ read:the podcasted version of this article will be released later on tonight(with much more content).Stay tuned!!

Test Your Observational Skills:Can you spot the guy who has attractive body language…and why?

Spot the guy who has the overall body language of an Alpha-male who seems confident around women.

#1

Guy with fingers clasped and legs tightly together.

#2

Hands in pockets,gazing downwards.

#3

Leaning back on the counter,arms wide apart.

#4

Guy minding his own business.

Socialkenny breaks down “The Alpha Male”[video included].

Be an Alpha!!

The following video clip is part of my Alpha-Man Series(which is posted on Youtube).This is actually the first-preview installment of the 4 part series,which I recorded shortly after New Years 2012.

Ok,by now:followers of my blog would’ve already known what an Alpha Male is.He’s basically the shit,the man,the confident guy who gets the girl,the leader of men and his social group.He’s the envy of other men,and he’s also super attractive to women(via his body language and tonality).

So this video more so gives some quick tips into the traits of the Alpha Male,and how to spot him in social settings.Very instructive for guys who wanna get their confidence and swagger up a ton load(which inevitably attracts hot women).The polar opposit of the Alpha is the Beta-Male:he’s the guy who lacks confidence with women,doesn’t get laid,nervous around people,shy,etc.He’s the guy you don’t want to be.So check it out:

Bonus Video(in field):

On my way to a nearby bar(the other week ago),I spotted an HB9(PUA community jargon for Hot Babe who’s a 9 by PUA standards).She was walking same direction,so as an Alpha/Pick-Up Artist,it was my duty to fuck with her,chat shit,banter,be social,and demonstrate that I’m not intimidated by any chic!!

Key Thing:Treat random strangers(women) as though you know them for years(as I demo in the following clip).The video quality isn’t that great(a bit dark),nevertheless…I wasn’t able to record the opener/approach,but I did manage to record from mid-chat to end.

We eventually met up later that night at a popular- Karaoke joint,but I was too busy chatting up other girls to even pay her any mind.That’s the beauty of being a pick-up artist:women are abundantly available that you don’t have time to stress over a particular one.

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“Girls Are Strange Creatutres Pt.2[engaged and ready to mingle]“

Hey peoples,I’m still alive.No,I wasn’t killed by a pro-Valentine’s day mob LOL.More like my shitty-ass internet provider fucking up my service via some mix up.So I was deprived of net connection for almost a damn week SMDH.

Ok,my last post was about a hot girl with the best ass I’ve seen in years[footage coming soon]!She lives in my area(few blocs down),so I virtually see her twice daily as I’m out and about running errands.

This HB9 has shut me down,rejected me and dissed me viciously over the course of the past few months.But as a PUA,I remain Alpha & un-affected(which ultimately attracted her).

Fast Forward…

Ever since writing my first/last post about this situation(and getting booted off the net),we’ve seen each other literally 10 times since(over the last 4 days).I’m gonna note the note-worthy encounters below:

Note:This chic went from frosty-ice cold to warm as a tropical sun.I was wondering if her new-found openness towards me was a fluke and passing occurrence,and she’d become cold again.But check what’s been occurring].

Spotted her coming from grocery store:

Me:“Hey,it’s the Blackberry girl”.

Round-Ass Girl:“[with huge smile],yep it’s me”.

Me:“BB’ing is pretty addicted you know that”?

Round-Ass Girl:“[shy chuckle]I know.I feel like I’m already hooked]”.

Me:“Let’s stop here and chat a bit”.

Round-Ass Girl:“I can’t.My boyfriend[finace]is right around the corner waiting on me”.Oh damn,he’s right there LOL”!

[She skips away from me in a hurry as I noticed a guy at the next corner a few yards away as if waiting on her.We went separate ways].

Bumped into each other at intersection:

Me:[I gave her a huge smile,she returned it]“Yo,we keep bumping into each other”.Why is that?

Round-Ass Girl:“IDK.Maybe you can tell me”.

[I kept it moving.But at this point,I knew her attraction to me would be deeper since our chance encounters seem like fate,and it was meant to be].

Spotted her on my way down the bloc:
[We gave each other huge smiles as we spotted each other].

Me:“Something have to give!We keep running into each other!Hold on,let’s talk[she hesitates to stop]“!!

Round-Ass Girl:“You’re gonna get me in trouble with my boyfriend[fiancé].

[she said that without an attitude.It was more of a challenging/adventurous tone.So I playfully chased after her with a badboy vibe].

Me:“I wouldn’t get you in trouble”.

[She slows down with an exciting smile/nervous look].

Round-Ass Girl:“My boyfriend is very jealous.I don’t wanna get in trouble.

[I extended my hand to her as if to give her something.This is a "compliance test" of the PUA community.She put her hand out towards my hand as if to take what I was giving her.Of course I didn't hand her anything,but the fact that she extended her hand towards mines is very powerful in pick-up.It signifies that she's willing to take risk,and she's willing to follow my lead.It also signifies that she's Gullible and Naive(as almost all women are).In the PUA community's psychology field,this is called Compliance Testing.

It gets more interesting!!

Next day(3 days ago),we ran into each other:

Me:"Fiddling with your phone as usual huh"?

Round-Ass Girl:"Yea.I just got the Blackberry messenger activated at the place my BF bought the phone".

Me:"Ok that's cool.I need to set mines up but it seems hard".

Round-Ass Girl:"Lol nah!I set up my mom's BB thing before.I'm good at tampering with phones lol".

Me:"So do you have a BB messenger pin yet[Duh LOL]“?

Round-Ass Girl:“Yep.It’s *********”.

[Wow,I never even asked her for her BB pin in order for us to message each other.But she gave it anyway.I was caught off guard though].

Me:“Wait hold on!What is it again[I punched it into my iPhone]?I’m surprised you remember it by heart”.

Round-Ass Girl:“My mind is pretty good lol.

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Well guys,that was the last encounter(3 days ago).

Key Notes & Realizations:

*She’s newly engaged
*She never refers to her fiancé as fiancé,but boyfriend(she lacks respect for him).
*Her BF obviously spends on her royally(a turn off)
*Her BF is obviously a Beta/nice guy(a turn off)
*Her BF is very jealous(a turn off)
*She’s the risky/adventurous-type(that’s where I’m a plus,since I’m the cause of her risky behavior)
*She obviously wants to connect and communicate with me,so she willingly offered up her BB pin so we can message each other.
*she now realizes that I’m an Alpha-Male,thus she’s subconsciously attracted and drawn to my alphaness opposed to when she used to reject me and suck her teeth at me when I tried chatting her up.

My ultimate point here is this:A woman will almost always be willing to jeopardize a great thing for a moment of pleasure and head-rush.

This girl has it made:she doesn’t work,her BF/fiancé supports her financially,he gives her everything(including that expensive phone for Valentine’s that she’s now using to text a scumbag like me),she live with him(meaning he pays the bills)…This chic has it made!!!!Yet she’s willing to ruin everything,get dumped,kicked out,etc.all for an adventurous time with me,who cannot do anything for me besides take her on a journey of fun and sex.

So guys,please take heed! know the girl before you invest everything into her and a relationship with her.

If I’m to bang this girl and her BF finds out,he should b relieved that it happened now(her cheating),opposed to down the line when you would’ve spent thousands,brought her a car,marry her,impregnate her,etc.

So those who believe that banging girls who are taken is immoral:it just might be a good thing afterall in saving the BF future headaches and worries.

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“Don’t Be A Pussy”;book by Chris Miller.

A nice kick-ass paperback book from Hollywood,California’s own dating coach Chris Miller.

My order of the book is currently in process so I’m anxious as hell to get my copy.

Chris and I have been Facebook friends for a while now,so it’s a must that I plug his renown book for my readers.

Overview

The book is basically a “Player’s Guide” to relationship management, instilling in guys the mindset that “you shouldn’t be afraid to approach hot women”:hence the title,“Don’t be a pussy”.

Also 69 of the Most basic questions and answers about the process of meeting women, dating women, serious relationships and becoming an Alpha Male. If there’s one thing all men have in common; it’s the desire to meet, date, and start relationships with women.

You can purchase the paperback book from one of the following links:Amazon.com,Powell’s Books ,Angus Robertson.com,and Barnes & Noble.

Christmas-Eve Field Report & Sarge

It’s 2 AM,I’m just strolling in,tipsy as a MOFO,barely made it up my flight of stairs.Hoping I’m sober enough to write this field report without slurring on paper in other words.So forgive me if I get sloppy.

Ok guys,for those who follow me on Twitter,you would’ve known that I was out all night at a new bar.I was supposed to meet up with a Canadian girl(HB9)but she never showed[I showed up too late I believe].But I quickly settled into a rhythm.There were lots of chics strolling the streets outside the bar,so I decided to put my iPhone to whatever good use it has to snap some pics while my buddies game.

*[I fell asleep,just woke up Sunday morning feeling sober].

So before I went in the bar,I was chillin with few friends in a rental car tryna get at some HB’s at the Square[a popular-hussle & bussle area on the island].

A crew of fatties congregating.I guess they all roll in packs or herds[that was a low-blow I know].

My boy Box calls over the slimmest one out the crew to start gaming her.She has a pouch on the tummy.Apart from that:she’s a solid 9.3 in the face and figure.She’s tall as hell though!This chic is like 6’1!!!

HB-Tall’s chubby friend tries pulling the external interrupt by calling her over.Like a good friend-she obliges lol.As I was analyzing,there were major girl coding going on here.But my boy Box stays persistent and bust on her for having her friend control her lol.So he games on.

10 minutes later,my boy Box is still in set-not giving up easily as most guys would.Persistence is key here guys.The girl slowly walks off but Box stays at it LMAO.He was getting good vibes BTW.Just that her 1 fucking fat friend kept sabotaging the set.Most likely cause she wasn’t getting any play.I could’ve occupied the obstacle[to use heavy PUA term] but I was more concerned with breaking down the in-field dynamics.

Ok,Box continued gaming the tall HB all the way down the bloc so we pulled up on 2 chics standing in the fucking street[they do that a lot here-congregate in mid road].1 was super-slim,the other OK.Nothing much happened.

The fellaz stayed outside doing street pick up while I went solo to the bar straight ahead.

My first time in this new bar that just opened last week.No grenades here.The 2 bartenders were hot as furnaces.1 white,the other black.Wow,these girls were drinking on the job.That’s progressive LMAO.

I don’t usually game hired guns(waiters,bartenders,strippers,etc)but I chatted them up a bit.The black one(on the left)is from NY and the snowbunny is from Toronto[Soloist got me using that word hard].

My boys shortly came in,we grabbed a table,few bottles(red wine and Smirnoff) …IDK what the hell I was thinking but I went to the counter and said to the black bartender,”Do you still model”?Lmao must’ve been the alcohol talking to re-open with such a lame/AFC’ish question.She gave me a WTF grimace so I said,”When we chatted earlier,you told me you modeled”.The shit stalled,I C&B(crash and burn)…

Right next to our table was a 4 set.1 fat,other 3 model-figure[no footage though].I opened the set by saying to the chubby one(since she was the leader of the group/alpha female),”Hey,why dont you be a nice girl and take my pic”.You’re taking everyone else’s pic in the damn bar.What happened to me lol”!!?That was good banter line to break the ice[banter is the biggest part to my game].

As expected,she LOLs grabs her cam out her bag and took few photos of me and the boys.Before I got to chat up her friends via introduction[I didn't have a target in mind yet],some orbiter tries AMOG’ing me to lower my value and get me out of the set.But I did the best AMOG destroyer- ignored him[Nice lmao].

Fount out that they were from the NY Tri-State area(Waterbury,Connecticut),down here for the holiday.Before they bounced,they told us to meet up with them at some party or club.The details were vague(probably since they weren’t familiar with the island),so I didn’t even know where the hell to meet them with the boys.

*Key note here:It’s a must that you first open the leader of any set.You cannot open a set by going straight for the target and ignoring the leader of the group.You’ll get blown the fuck out via girl-code.So that’s why I’d opened the fat one since she was the loudest one:in other words leader of the set.So once you win her over,the other girls in her social circle MUST conform.

Conclusion
My boys bounced to the club,I was too tired and had a bit too much red wine so I took my ass home instead.No telling what would’ve transpired with the CT girls(had I went to the club)but fuck it.

The Only Time You Should Buy The Girl A Drink…

What’s up guys?

After writing two previous articles a while back on ‘drinks’[you can check it out here:How does she earn a drink from me],it’s only right to share some examples of the dos and don’ts on this matter.Plus it’s the holiday season and a lot of guys are usually drink-happy:willing to empty their wallets just for mediocre conversation.

This is my first- actual strategic post,or routines in other words.So I’m pretty psyched to offer some stuff that guys can actually apply at the clubs and bars.

Key Note:
# 1 rule in game:It’s not what you say:it’s how you say it.

With that in mind,routines,openers and lines,will NOT work if your vibe,tone & energy arent congruent.

So one can literally approach a girl at the bar and say,”I hate you sooooo much…”.And still manage to attract her and pique her interest if his tonality is alpha and he has a sly-cocky smile to accompany his words.

Alpha Routine

Ok,assuming I’d already approached and opened the girl,and we’ve been having a decent chat for the last 15 minutes,this is what I’d do if I were in a Santa Clause-type mood[pertaining to drinks]:

Me:”Lol,hey you’re such a friggin’ rockstar,I’m starting to think you’re too good to be true.But I can’t take a chic like you home to my parent though”

Girl:”What lol.Whats that supposed to mean?

Me:”Bla,bla,bla…Hey I’m thirsty as hell.I’m gonna get me a rum & coke.Since you’ve been such a Bad Girl,I’m gonna go against my rules and buy you a drink.What you want?

Note:At this point,a real Alpha and a confident/cool guy would take her by the hand,waist or shoulder and lead her to the bar.

For those who arent that confident and they lack the balls to pull it off:It’s ok to go alone to get the drinks.

Breaking it down:

Why are such moves and lines so critical in trying to seduce a girl?

As I said in my previous post:it subcommunicates to the girl that I’m:

*Dominant
*Alpha
*Have balls
*Challenging
*Cocky
*Funny
*Fun
*And most of all ‘Different’

Women are Super attracted to guys who display the above qualities.

Women are attracted to men who are challenging and ballsy[as we all know by now].

So when a guy goes up to a girl,and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is this,”What’s up girl?Ive been checking you out.You chilling?You want something to drink”?

He instantaneously kills all possibility of he being a challenge.

In other words,he turns off the girl,since she hadn’t done shit to deserve a drink.

Women want to know that they’ve earned and worked for your interest.

Another key point:

*telling the girl that ,”I’m going against my rules by buying a drink”.That says to the girl subconsciously,that she’s special.

She’s exceptional!

He doesn’t normally treat girls to anything.So for him to go against his rules for her:she must be deserving of it.

Now that’s how you compliment a girl!

You never want to compliment a girl verbally nor directly[unless you are a proponent of direct game].

Compliments should be indirect and under the radar.

Compliments should be vague and hard to read.

The more obvious you are when complimenting:the less the girl will appreciate it.

So guys,remember-be challenging,ballsy and different.Not boring as the last 10 guys who’ve approach her.

And the rule still stands:Do Not buy her a drink.But this is just an exception depending on how good the vibe goes.

And check out Why you shouldn’t be buying her drinks,which is part of my drink-series articles.

Dammit!!I can’t crack this chic!!!

I think that’s her sister on the right.

Fuck fuck fuck!!!

Sorry for the vulgarity but that’s how critical this is.

Every met that one chic whom you just can’t escalate on, take advantage and seal the deal?The type of chic who could be lying butt-ass naked in your bed but you just cannot act!?

Typically,I would’ve already NEXT’d this heffa for indirectly fucking up my game.But it’s not her fault LOL.She’s not the problem.She’s playing her part as far as being available and receptive to being seduced.

Background

She’s a pre-school teacher in her early 20′s.Sexy-ass Island girl.

I don’t usually rate girls as 10′s but she’s a solid HB10 on her worst days!

Anyway,I chatted her up few times,got her # on a separate occasion.

All this was about 9 months ago[let's say a year to be fair].

Sticking Point

I just can’t tap into my reservoir of game and charms to fucking seduce this chic!

Whenever I call her on the phone(mainly to set up a meet),I always flub it up by coming off as weird I guess LMAO.

It’s sought of a nervous energy around us whenever we chat or I happen to run into her(since she lives nearby).

As much as I want to and try to be seductive,charming and sexual-It just doesnt translate!It won’t come out!IDK WTF it is.

It’s rare that I run into a chic who does this to me:essentially throwing off my skills.

Make no mistake about it guys:it isn’t fear,AA(approach anxiety),nor any other inner game flaw.This dilemma is some puzzling Jedi-mind shit!

I think every guy has met a chic like this before or few times over the past years.

She just fucking saps the Alpha/bravery out of you,thus bringing out the AFC’ish side of you.

So far,I’ve charged her to the game by deleting her contact info from my phone(after realizing this won’t be going anywhere:due to my self-blocking).

Then out of the blue,I’d get a text from her 2 weeks down the line asking why haven’t she heard from me?What!!!

Of course I can’t say something cheesy and Beta as,”Well I deleted you since you have me feeling like a pussy”.Nah!That would be a virtual nail in the coffin.

So,I would end up reconnecting with her via phone and text.Whenever she’s in my area(coming from work-school),she’d give me a shout or text.I’d meet her but then get all pussy and wussy by not escalating and trying to lay this girl!

Make no mistakes about it:she is NOT rejecting my advances.Nor is she hard to bang.I can sense it that she’s ripe for the picking.But all I have to do is step it the fuck up.Hit the gas peddle!Easier said than done with this girl.

It beats the shit out of me trying to analyze whats’ really going on that’s freezing my game and preventing me from escalating.

It’s no secret that this chic likes me.She digging me hard!And it’s mutual!!

We chatted about 2 hours ago on a street corner.Flirted,giggly-bubbly vibe as usual.She gives off every IOI in the book which signifies that a girl is attracted to a guy.

With about 100 green lights in my favor to just ravishing this chic like a caveman;I just CANNOT escalate!Fuck!!!

This chic just fucks my game up:by no fault of hers LMAO!

Curious to know if any other guy in the manosphere has had this happen to them before.Where the chic is just totally into you but you cannot pull the trigger.

Managing A Relationship Like An Alpha Male

Hey guys, I go by the name of Chelios (23 years old from London, UK), a former PUA(Pick-Up Artist) of around 4/5 years.

I was introduced to the world of PUA’s from one of my uncles, a legend in my eyes, (whom I cannot name at this time) I have witnessed great game from him. I was put forward into “gaming” when one of my ex girlfriends dumped me who I was “In love with” and was sopping for weeks and even months.One day my uncle had enough!He gave me a copy of “The Game” and said “Read this and you’ll see”’(At this point I was shocked, I’m not a big reader).A few weeks down the line, I was bored and upset, still thinking about “what if I did this, what if I did that?” (regarding my ex) so I decided then picked up my copy of ‘The Game‘ by Mr. Strauss, I never thought that was the beginning of the end for my whining and moaning like a little 5 year old girl.

I look back now and laugh. I wasn’t in Love. I just loved and enjoyed certain things, which I then learnt I could have so much more and achieve something that I want- and now I have that.

I’ve got to be honest, I have had many highs and just as many lows in the last 5 years:a whole heap of rejections as well as success stories. Most people know but I wish to reiterate the ART and road to succeed in Pickup is trial and error. There really is no perfect PUA. We all have our own ways, our own rules. Make your own rules, abide by whatever works for you. I’ve been speaking to my good friend Kenny for a while about a write up.So now I thought I’d share some of my insight on LTR’s(Long-Term Relationships),seen as I’ve been in one now for sometime and starting a family in the near future.

My first post for Kenny’s blog is just a bit about me and a small chunk of my opinions of how to maintain an LTR, how to increase the chances of an LTR occurring with someone your fond of and into.

What makes us want an LTR? Is it boredom? Isit the thought of regular sex or maybe the comfort and maybe the fear of being alone? I think it’s a mix in most case’s’ and there is nothing wrong with that.

First the key to a relationship becoming serious and long term is to take things slowly, live your life as normal and not be clingy.Nobody wants to feel like they have vermin around them or a stalker 24/7 or thereabouts. Absence makes the heart grow fonder[ that old saying is so true].When we are away from something we enjoy/like/love…the longer that goes by, the more we will enjoy and cherish it next time. It may seem a small thing, but it’s often a school boy error in pua to always want to be around a girl non stop of whom we are feeling, enjoy now but think of the tomorrow and the day after too.

Assess what is OK and what is not OK in your eyes for a relationship. I.e, what you wont accept, what you will, what you want from your woman, the direction you see your future heading in. Your desires will then either bring you together or push you apart, which will be for the best under either circumstance.

Maintain your own life :

Remember when you attract someone, and when they’re attracted to you, you are your own person.So it’s fundamentally important you maintain that, and keep in mind the qualities and actions that brought you together.

Remember the do’s and dont’s .What you can do, what she can do, what is fair, remember compromise, don’t give in to everything. A woman will seriously push and test you (Shit test), especially early on and as the relationship progresses. Just keep a cool and well balanced head.Don’t lose it!Patience is a virtue. If women see themselves getting to you, they will keep pushing your buttons.

For example:

“I’m going out with my friends tonight!” – without asking me to go with her.
She’s receiving SMS messages and doesn’t tell me who text her and stuff.

Remain like a ghost – act like you don’t really care, but maybe in some people’s eyes this isn’t the right decision, but It does work, you’ll then see if she carries on.

I know it’s not too in depth, but I hope some of you have enjoyed this post. I will be posting more in the future.

Feel free to ask any questions and follow me on twitter if you wish @crazy_gooner

Thanks for reading. Much appreciated!

Chelios